Why It Was Difficult For Jason Ellis Coming Out As Bisexual

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @buttkissery2k
    @buttkissery2k 2 года назад +98

    I feels good to hear another pro skater that is open with their sexuality. Even being bi is a headache because of all the assumptions and stereotypes

    • @JesusFriedChrist
      @JesusFriedChrist 2 года назад +15

      @MotoIncognito Yes you are

    • @EpperEcheloN
      @EpperEcheloN 2 года назад +2

      The biggest assumption that absolutely grinds my gears is that if your bi, that your means your secretly in the closet, yet when women are bi "she just hasn't found the right dick"
      It's such a sick double standard. Makes me want to punch people. Like how are you insecure about my sexuality 😒

    • @jimreplicant
      @jimreplicant 8 месяцев назад +3

      Actually no one cares about your preferences. Just live your life

    • @Ottophil
      @Ottophil 2 месяца назад

      @@jimreplicantnoone cares that you don’t care. Listen to us anyway

    • @jimreplicant
      @jimreplicant 2 месяца назад

      @@Ottophil oh we’re listening, not sure it’s having the effect you want tho. We all can’t stand you people🤣

  • @turbo8481
    @turbo8481 2 года назад +104

    Respect to my man. He's putting his all his stuff out here for yall to hear, so let's go easy on the comments. It's not like he's gaining any clout for this, he's been in the game for a long time kids.

  • @narcopsy
    @narcopsy 2 года назад +94

    I'm glad he's out and visible, I'm a bi guy myself and there's so much stigma so guys like this really help

    • @beethovenian
      @beethovenian 2 года назад +20

      Me too, this is super appreciated. There's definitely a ton of stigma against bi guys. Much respect for the courage to own who he is, in spite of ignorant people who take pleasure in belittling others.

    • @JesusFriedChrist
      @JesusFriedChrist 2 года назад +25

      @MotoIncognito Yeah there is. When girls are bi nobody bats an eye, but when guys are bi they’re considered gay and their value as men is seen to be less. I hear homophobic stuff from people all the time. It’s almost always passed off as jokes, and while I don’t have a problem with joking around, I do have a problem with stuff that’s demeaning, and feeling demeaned even though people don’t know who’s listening and feeling demeaned over what they’re saying. I’d love to be out, but every time I overhear stuff that makes me feel bad and ashamed about not being entirely 100% straight, it only further solidifies my reason to keep it to myself and a couple gal friends who are also bi.

    • @youvebeenmilked2893
      @youvebeenmilked2893 2 года назад +9

      Yeah, you can’t be yourself around certain people, it’s a shame. I’m straight but had gay friends and my parents told me I couldn’t have them over to our house. People don’t understand that life is tough on some minorities.

    • @narcopsy
      @narcopsy 2 года назад +9

      @MotoIncognitoI have family members who no longer talk to me bc of me being bi, so just continue to be a weak troll and be incorrect

    • @JesusFriedChrist
      @JesusFriedChrist 2 года назад +5

      @MotoIncognito That doesn’t make it ok.

  • @AMAJG1
    @AMAJG1 Год назад +19

    Just noticed. He called out Tas Pappas for calling him names.

    • @marcusnelson7026
      @marcusnelson7026 3 месяца назад

      With his accent I thought he was saying "toss puppets" listened back like five times trying to figure out what he was talking about. Thanks for clarifying.

    • @keithjohnson1830
      @keithjohnson1830 Месяц назад

      He is Australian. "Toss puppets" wouldn't have surprised me

  • @user-sf5fk6ox4c
    @user-sf5fk6ox4c Год назад +8

    I appreciate his raw honesty and transparency. We all benefit from being real with each other.

  • @bradyward6624
    @bradyward6624 2 года назад +21

    Huge respect to him

  • @kev5782
    @kev5782 2 года назад +37

    Respect. Ellis rips and, as some comments here illustrate, skateboarding still has a ways to go to be more inclusive. Be yourself and f*k all that chatter.

  • @John-Doe-Yo
    @John-Doe-Yo 2 года назад +31

    Good for him. Shouldn’t be a big deal but fans always wanna make it so. If you hate on someone you loved after finding out they’re gay or bi you’re a clown.

    • @birdman4130
      @birdman4130 Год назад

      👏👏💯

    • @poisonPpaully
      @poisonPpaully 5 месяцев назад

      No your gay for saying that

    • @EleanorJohnson-pj5lr
      @EleanorJohnson-pj5lr 2 месяца назад

      @@poisonPpaullyyou must like boys too it’s okay nothing wrong with it

  • @skait174
    @skait174 2 года назад +7

    As a fan of Ellis in the early 2000s (seeing him on Hawk's tour vids, contests, and other features), i noticed he went missing after a while and rly wondered where he went. Before his podcast i never knew he went thru such hardships, but C'EST LA VIE in the life of a sk8r (as i now know, being 22yrs deep)
    Def gna watch the rest of this episode.

  • @PatDK
    @PatDK 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s kinda funny hearing that he struggled with telling people because he comes off as a no filter type of guy, and then because now he’s the type of dude that overshares

  • @jgcgsgmg
    @jgcgsgmg 2 года назад +13

    Don’t forget that skateboarding is for everyone and if you stand in the way of that you should reevaluate yourself

    • @iorilamia
      @iorilamia Год назад

      Tell that to the straight white skaters

  • @stevied2733
    @stevied2733 2 года назад +13

    Love you Ellis ❤️

  • @illscarlettalex
    @illscarlettalex 2 года назад +12

    Red Dragons!

  • @valentindegen
    @valentindegen 2 года назад +8

    Good for him

  • @lornaraine3570
    @lornaraine3570 2 года назад +11

    Good on you 😁 I'm so happy people are finally able to come out and shoe the world the real you ❤

    • @biffbifferson5042
      @biffbifferson5042 2 года назад +1

      Absolutely disgusting

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      You're so glad that people can come out and tell the world what sexual preferences they have? TF is wrong with you people lol. Nobody cares and that's private sht that people should keep in their private sexual life. Gay straight bi, nobody needs to know what gives you a boner. Thats weird to even want to share to the world.

  • @FrankWithnail
    @FrankWithnail 3 месяца назад +1

    All power to you Bro!

  • @search895
    @search895 17 дней назад

    It's good society has evolved past those times. Even many of us who tried to be progressive and accept sexual diversity had a lot of fears and prejudices about it or gay people.

  • @comadrone_xix
    @comadrone_xix Год назад +14

    Being a bi dude in any scene is tough. Glad it's more accepted now.

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      It will never be excepted, its just ignored. Because nobody cares. But they all still feel the need to share their private information. Seeking attention and validation. Get over yourselfs. Society doesn't care what private parts turn you on. Thats weird as hell to even want to share with society like that lol.

  • @reekdadddy2881
    @reekdadddy2881 2 года назад +13

    I always got mad love n respect💯 from gay people ...I don't mind having gay homies they always hooked me up with all the sexy ladies .🤙🏼

  • @shannonandsheila1403
    @shannonandsheila1403 2 месяца назад +1

    Its always these Powell dudes

  • @quinndavis
    @quinndavis 2 года назад +2

    So honest. Props.

  • @RikRiorik
    @RikRiorik 2 года назад +3

    Come one, come all.

  • @cubeofcheese5574
    @cubeofcheese5574 2 года назад +14

    So sad to hear he got kicked off of a team for being bi. Skate culture needs to be a lot more inclusive

    • @JarodJoseph
      @JarodJoseph Год назад +3

      There isn’t a more progressive, woke world than the skateboard world. Relax.

    • @atomram6890
      @atomram6890 Год назад +1

      this was like 20 years ago, pay attention

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      ​@@atomram6890 it's still pretty much the same.

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      No it doesn't at all. Skating is a free for all and doesn't have to follow your rules or opinions. That's what being a skater is, beyond the actual skating. Or it used to be.

  • @paradockz
    @paradockz 2 года назад +9

    This is great. Thanks Ellis.

  • @countdoogula2781
    @countdoogula2781 Месяц назад

    The beauty of Ellis discussing his sexuality is that even if you don't agree, you can't really say s**t because odds are he could snap you.

  • @n-wordheelflips2648
    @n-wordheelflips2648 2 года назад +6

    I'm glad society has evolved to accept people for whatever they are, and those that don't are too scared to say anything anymore

    • @kayvahn2141
      @kayvahn2141 2 года назад

      dude i love your name. i've been thinking this joke in my head for literally years lmao

    • @josephpossanza5022
      @josephpossanza5022 Год назад

      If only it really was that way.

  • @dogbog99
    @dogbog99 5 месяцев назад +3

    It’s not bad, it’s just gay.

  • @BigSimpin420
    @BigSimpin420 Год назад +3

    My group of friends, there was one guy that we knew for sure was bi-sexual. It was painfully obvious. He would try to date chicks, but then he would sleep in different beds as her. Or his girlfriends would complain to our girlfriends that he would never have sex with them. We all knew he was gay, but we didn’t care. He was always with us. Didn’t matter what we did. He was always an equal. Well I’m 42 years old now. He’s been officially out of the closet for 2 years. We were right. Dude was gayer than a 3 dollar bill. Sexual preference does not matter to people. Just don’t shove that shit down peoples throats! It’s all good!

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      So he wasn't bi, he was straight up gay lol. And that'd all they do is shove it down society's throat. Thats why in this video they are talking about it. Normal people don't talk about their sexual preferences to the world.

  • @trixonic6934
    @trixonic6934 2 месяца назад +1

    I’ve been hiding my bisexuality from my wife and kids and it hurts. I’ve been hooking up with men multiple times a month for years and have hid it well

  • @Tannishbrown
    @Tannishbrown 2 года назад

    Can’t believe he is word to he’s mother

  • @damonsharrock2479
    @damonsharrock2479 2 года назад +6

    Bro who fucking cares mate! Keep flipping that board bro

  • @emakryl2806
    @emakryl2806 2 года назад

    Thank you

  • @drifter503
    @drifter503 Месяц назад

    I like Jason, he’s a cool dude

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      Would you let him put it in though?

  • @episodebeats2817
    @episodebeats2817 2 года назад +16

    I like to ollie over man holes, but all good if peeps wanna go inside one. It’s their business, but don’t expect me to be a cheerleader for the cause. Much respect.

    • @RedsBigRig
      @RedsBigRig 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      I'm confused by your comment, so your gay or na. Sounded kinda gay lol.

    • @episodebeats2817
      @episodebeats2817 Месяц назад

      @@ArtistDaynz90 Not my fault you’re bummed that you never got invited to a Diddy party & got your cheeks busted🤣

  • @averyacid6727
    @averyacid6727 2 года назад +5

    Wonder what company fired him?

  • @rickrandal4158
    @rickrandal4158 Год назад +3

    I knew he was gay from when is was at x games 2009

  • @joshuat5140
    @joshuat5140 11 месяцев назад +3

    Atleast he's finally ok with being open about it. But I've also been one to not judge. I'm 31 and a recovering herion and xanax addict sober 5 yrs now. And even though I don't think being LGBTQ is right. I don't treat them any different. I respect all. I tell addicts being sober will help there lives but I don't shun them. Same with LGBTQ community. I don't think it's right and I tell them that but I don't shun or disrespect them either. Especially being a Christian. So I love all and try to guide them to God.

  • @alexanderdavid8441
    @alexanderdavid8441 2 года назад

    lol just from the one thing... pretty bad one he's lucky it got out quick!

  • @nickchikago
    @nickchikago 8 месяцев назад +1

    Respect

  • @maitreyas.4902
    @maitreyas.4902 2 года назад +4

    I guess

  • @John-nv5zy
    @John-nv5zy 2 месяца назад +2

    Because he knows it's wrong.

  • @Created2skate
    @Created2skate 2 года назад +2

    Whaaa

  • @artomarto679
    @artomarto679 2 года назад +13

    He didn't come out, he was caught

    • @mishpattwo3960
      @mishpattwo3960 2 года назад +6

      He came out on a later date, he speaks about it in the podcast

  • @MarvinMonroe
    @MarvinMonroe Год назад +3

    Im sorry but everything about him is annoying. Starting with the tattoos

  • @petertaylor3711
    @petertaylor3711 2 года назад +4

    Nobody cares mate as long as you skate good haha

    • @allaboutthatbass741
      @allaboutthatbass741 2 года назад +9

      him talking about it helps those who have'nt fully come out yet. saying that no one cares is dismissing his experience. just because it may not bother or effect you does not mean it doesn't for others.

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      ​@allaboutthatbass741 nobody should be telling the world what sexual preferences they have. That's weird asf. Thats literally nobodies business but yours and the person/peoples your gonna bang lol. Biggest problem with gays and bis, is the fact they think anyone cares about their sexual life. And so make it their duty to inform society that they have this or that sexual preferences. It's not 1940 anymore, you're not fighting for anything but attention. So "coming out", is nothing more than weirdo attention seeking. If any younger people feel weird about having whatever preferences they have, doesn't mean they will feel better about it by telling the world. Everyone is still gonna feel how they feel about it. Telling everyone didn't change anything.

  • @midnightcoolcat2890
    @midnightcoolcat2890 Год назад +3

    I never understood how a man could be sexually attracted to another man. Dicks are gross looking.

    • @chrisss3749
      @chrisss3749 Год назад +10

      All you need to understand is that others are and that's enough

    • @charlieviolist
      @charlieviolist 5 месяцев назад +4

      You don't have to understand but you can still show people basic respect.

    • @roscoecoltrane9523
      @roscoecoltrane9523 5 месяцев назад +1

      Not a coolcat.

    • @ChemicalVelocity
      @ChemicalVelocity Месяц назад

      gonna take a wild guess and say you dont have a girlfriend to tell you how gross looking yours is?

    • @ArtistDaynz90
      @ArtistDaynz90 Месяц назад

      ​@@chrisss3749uh no that is the problem. Nobody needs to understand anybody else's sexual preferences. So no he doesn't need to understand that others do. It's not his business. Sexual preferences is a personal private thing. It relates to your sexual life and that sexual life is not public is it.

  • @Ctownking206
    @Ctownking206 2 года назад +7

    TMI dude

    • @allaboutthatbass741
      @allaboutthatbass741 2 года назад +6

      then don't watch the podcast. it obviously wasn't made for you

  • @stephensyariff1478
    @stephensyariff1478 2 года назад +1

    Red Dragons!