Dr. Gabor Maté - Compassionate Inquiry

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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    Dr. Gabor Maté discusses Compassionate Inquiry with @BanyenBooksSoundVancouver .
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    Dr. Gabor Maté, renowned addiction expert and international speaker, discusses Compassionate Inquiry, a psycho-therapeutic method for facilitating physical, mental and emotional healing. Born out of necessity and rooted in the inseparability of mind and body, Dr. Maté highlights the importance of processing unresolved pain within ourselves as the foundation of helping others free themselves from the past, release trauma, and connect to a healing power within. Gabor Maté's books are available from Banyen Books: banyen.com/mate
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    Music: Laura Reznek

Комментарии • 51

  • @MelanieSakowski
    @MelanieSakowski 5 лет назад +106

    “You’re not there to make someone feel better, but to make them better at feeling.” Boom 🙌🏻

    • @mariobragaiii4763
      @mariobragaiii4763 5 лет назад +2

      That is a great way to put it !

    • @jarijansma2207
      @jarijansma2207 3 года назад +1

      I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

    • @saskiazieltjens
      @saskiazieltjens 3 года назад

      Well said..! And so true..!

  • @doreenlarose590
    @doreenlarose590 4 года назад +32

    I love to listen to Gabor and his honesty and ability to just be real. Many in our society have lost this.

    • @michaelboyd8933
      @michaelboyd8933 9 месяцев назад

      The more real we allow ourselves to be the more real people we happen to meet.

    • @tesskennedy4959
      @tesskennedy4959 6 месяцев назад

      That’s often true.
      Being real enables being real

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 18 дней назад

      Have you?

  • @SelfImageStylist
    @SelfImageStylist 5 лет назад +11

    24:07 Compassionate listening vs. compassionate inquiry.
    25:30 How to respond to "the tragic communication of a need" : see the need underneath the words and the behavior, see them more clearly than they see themselves.
    [Next edit: .25 GAB-or]

  • @Be1More
    @Be1More 5 лет назад +14

    you are there to help someone see the truth of self, and that migt come w pain but you have to pace yourself by listening to cues of patient.... he's great and hope his personal life is in peace after figuring out his own workacholism etc

  • @kevinmaher397
    @kevinmaher397 4 года назад +11

    A brilliant compassionate man. Thank God I came across his work

  • @jarijansma2207
    @jarijansma2207 3 года назад +8

    I'm so glad of this western-eastern cocktail that is brewing within our collective hearts and minds. Everywhere I look I see interesting synthesizing of all levels of truth, kick-started by the katalysator of technology.. I have faith

    • @aceslizeski1882
      @aceslizeski1882 3 года назад +1

      Well said. I've been feeling something similar.

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 3 года назад +10

    19:51 “Fierce compassion means that you’re not afraid of the pain that comes up….”
    25:09 “There’s a reason for everything…”
    Being able to compassionately reconnect with my childhood pain has helped me immensely to understand myself and to love my inner child, one who always felt abandoned and put down. I am finally letting go…. Thanks, Dr Maté!

    • @jameswarrren2545
      @jameswarrren2545 7 месяцев назад

      Good for you. Don't stop loving that sweet little kid!

  • @beerbread
    @beerbread 3 года назад +6

    I listen to Dr. Matė, it's like someone turning up the dimmer switch. TY.

  • @willyjhopuky
    @willyjhopuky 4 года назад +7

    I’m glad I discovered dr mate’ on you tube he is a great person and doctor

  • @TomTom-df9ph
    @TomTom-df9ph 5 лет назад +27

    An incredible man. But with such pain in his eyes.

    • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
      @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 лет назад +13

      life experience. our society is truly savage (gain wealth forget all but self) and inflicts misery on millions of people

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 2 года назад

      Yeah… it takes one to know one… so to speak.🙏🏾

    • @Jyeah89
      @Jyeah89 2 года назад

      his dad was in a concentration camp and his grandparents were killed by nazism.

    • @jameswarrren2545
      @jameswarrren2545 7 месяцев назад

      The "Wounded Healer." Look it up!

    • @tesskennedy4959
      @tesskennedy4959 6 месяцев назад

      Unfortunately and sadly

  • @sj2024sj
    @sj2024sj 5 месяцев назад +2

    Dr. Mate's voice is also relaxing! He is amazing!! Thank you 🙏

  • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
    @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 лет назад +6

    hey! love to know all the facts... why was the video edited at 11:52? does the lady believe the sun revolved around the earth? that's alright ;)

  • @aminahrolsdorph8551
    @aminahrolsdorph8551 5 лет назад +4

    I Love The Host 💚
    & A Student of Dr Gabor ..
    Such Generous Ray of Genuine Compassion Educating Us In A Very Powerful Beneficial to Me..
    Also The Blend of Intellectual & Spiritual Human Nature Observations...
    I Love It.
    It's Beneficial for Any Age With Different Ethnic Background.
    Seeking Growth..
    Thanks ☀️

  • @joy96815
    @joy96815 6 лет назад +9

    Thanks for the upload, good interview.

  • @svetlanalevinzon884
    @svetlanalevinzon884 3 года назад +3

    You are the Best of The Best 👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️, thank you soooo much for your help and your wonderful work !!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @cgenoversa
    @cgenoversa 5 лет назад +5

    Love this guy. Clearly he’s on the beam

  • @jennytaylor3324
    @jennytaylor3324 4 года назад +4

    Lovely Gabor.

  • @bronsonmcdonald5473
    @bronsonmcdonald5473 3 дня назад

    Thank you so much for this interview. I have listened to many Gabor Mate talks and interviews , but this is the first time I heard him talk about how he started to dedicate some time at the end of his workday to a longer session with patients, and how requests for him to start teaching others his methods and his compassionate inquiry started.
    Thank you ❣️
    I use compassionate inquiry on myself and it has definitely softened the harsh, counter-productive, self-talk I had before.

  • @CynthiaSchoenbauer
    @CynthiaSchoenbauer 6 лет назад +6

    Yay!

  • @shellyjohnson7964
    @shellyjohnson7964 8 месяцев назад +1

    He is just so lovely 🫶

  • @yayangtapir4130
    @yayangtapir4130 2 года назад +1

    I love listening to him. His accent is so soothing!

  • @AnnaPoli800
    @AnnaPoli800 5 месяцев назад

    What does it mean being held emotionally? Being connected through feelings right?

    • @oooodaxteroooo
      @oooodaxteroooo 3 месяца назад +1

      Being mirrored and regulated. Its ok to be sad, Im here, we'll go through it. I'm happy that you're happy etc.
      The feeling of being seen and having help with emotions that might otherwise seem overwhelming, because your own immature nervous system can't yet deal with it.
      The opposite is toxicity, so you could also call it nurturing or loving, but that's mostly not precise enough.

  • @HanyYoussef-dg2iw
    @HanyYoussef-dg2iw 14 дней назад

    beautiful interview

  • @nabilc1667
    @nabilc1667 2 года назад +1

    "Not to feel better, but make better with feeling"

  • @elisemeola6375
    @elisemeola6375 5 месяцев назад

    This is brilliant!!! First time hearing about this. Love Dr Mate!!!!

  • @saxongreen78
    @saxongreen78 4 года назад +1

    I saw the jump cut near 'what revolves around what?' 😊

    • @oooodaxteroooo
      @oooodaxteroooo 3 месяца назад

      You needed that proof of your cleverness or what? lol
      If they didnt know that people would see that jump cut, thev'd be borderline psychotic ;)

  • @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138
    @fhhfhdfdhhdhhdfhdf138 5 лет назад +3

    16:20

  • @sandyzappa840
    @sandyzappa840 5 лет назад +1

    Volume!!

  • @roberthiggins2252
    @roberthiggins2252 3 года назад

    Anyone know what it means to "Mirror back to someone their true self" like was mentioned in the video? Please respond with a Mate' quote or video so I can learn more about that. I found that interesting and wanted to follow up on that.

    • @denise2169
      @denise2169 3 года назад

      16:30 “Compassion simply means the willingness to accept someone for exactly as they are.” And I would add that this includes compassion for ourselves and what we have been living. Such warmth and understanding in a world that sometimes seems so devoid of these.

    • @lorenzovillegas2457
      @lorenzovillegas2457 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/MYJqW00220k/видео.html