This is a real good one. It made me realize how impulsively I react. It’s unfair to the other person and can wreak havoc, causing you to lose something or someone close to you. Then you’d end up beating yourself up and imagining if you had’ve done things differently (should’ve, would’ve, could’ve).
I love discussing Confirmation Bias. So true that we do it so often. Thanks for sharing and for, again, blessing us with some knowledge. 'preciate it, Doc. Much peace!
Besides what you explained very well, I'm eager to understand why is that the man in that situation believed so easy on a stranger over his own wife?? According to his own sayings, their relationship was doing fine. So, why did he believe a stranger over his close one??? Why do people, in general, believe in bad more than in the good of people? Why he expected her to cheat and to lie to him about it, instead of searching the truth from the beginning?? According to an old wisdom, if a situation is not confirmed by at least two people, then it is not true. Even in this situation there can be lies, but still you don't judge so quickly after what only one man said... Could you make a video where you'll bring more wisdom about this, more "light" on this topic? I would like to understand from where this comes from... 🙄 (My guess is that the one who judges wrong is bad in his/hers origins and so expects the others to be, even without any proofs... ) 🤔
Thank you so much for your contribution to the community I do have one question do you do televisits and how much would that cost me and my wife are really on the rocks with our relationship and I really like the way that you explain things and it would be a really big help for me and my wife to be able to speak with you specially me because I do have anger issues. Please let me know thank you
This story shows that the husband has an uncontrollable anger. Instead of searching for the reason of the missing apple with his wife, he uses deadly violence. And that will never solve anything.
If they chose the alcohol over the peace with you, then you should leave.. 😒 I know it doesn't sound very good, but if someone doesn't change at their own will, it's less likely that they will do it for someone else (maybe just temporary)... 🙄
@@tazbitter5594 Why do you think that any other addiction would be better? 🙄 Addictions only make people weak and dependent/slaves. To be free of addictions is 1000000000000000 better (for your brain, for your health and for your longevity)! 👍🏻
@@bluelle4698 because cannabis is a medicine , it's a natural herb that you can't overdose on and it's non-toxic and if used correctly it can get you off of any man-made chemical. Also alcohol is a substance that makes you tune everything out , it makes you unfeeling, cannabis is the very opposite of that, it makes you confront the emotional impact of your actions and the emotional impact the actions of others have had on you as well as you're very mortality. You seem like a nice guy it's too bad we're not close I would love to invite you over and show you a world of new possibilities.
@@bluelle4698 also you need to factor in the Cannabis also comes in CBD which has no intoxicating properties but all of the benefits, including pain relief Anxiety Relief and addiction relief
How does a package like you come to be? I'm not trying to be a wise guy, I'm genuinely curious, you look like Suge Knight, you've got the tattoos of a hardened prisoner, yet you value deep thought, and you calculate the potential outcomes of each action to the fullest, moreover you appear to be kind and compassionate, how do you appear to be such a walking contradiction? How do you encounter a set of variables that turns you into you? And what are those variables
If you don't mind me, I could try answering you... 🙄 If you looked on his Web page, you would know that he was curious about people and what makes them behave in a specific way, since he was very young. So, he studied psychology and the people he wanted to have the most impact on (help them become better versions of themselves) and so he did all the "image" work (muscles, tattoos, ect.) to integrate easier between them. You should know that, in general, people only listen to people that "look" like them/seem to have the same sort of thinking/experiences that they value. So, if you "copy" the outside look of someone, it's easier to have a deeper conversation with them, one that would be helpful for both (like changing, guiding, helping them see the things in different perspectives so they could react more positive in specific situations...). On short, the outside look it's only that: a look (apparences). He is so much wiser and smarter than that... 👍🏻
I want to thank you for all your contributions. Thank you for much more peace because of your wisdom that you taught me. Blessings to you.
Thank you so, so much. Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace! 🙏🏼
We so love and appreciate you Doctor Christian ❤️❤️
I needed to hear this for myself to grow as a individual perfect way to end the year with this video.
Sending you much peace! 🙏🏼
How could anyone give a 'thumbs down' to this video? Oh well. I enjoyed it. Took me back to 2007!
Thank you! It's crazy how fast time flies! I can't believe how long it's been. Miss you brother!
This is a real good one. It made me realize how impulsively I react. It’s unfair to the other person and can wreak havoc, causing you to lose something or someone close to you. Then you’d end up beating yourself up and imagining if you had’ve done things differently (should’ve, would’ve, could’ve).
Appreciate you! Sending you much peace!
I'm with you on that one
Awesome story Dr. Conte! So important and relevant to the times right now. Thank you for this great video.
Thank you so much 😊 Dr. Conte. This story really helped me tremendously!!!! I really appreciate it and will definitely put it in good use.
Your a good man. Seen some of your other videos. You have scars and don't try to hide them.
I am glad your message has been bright to my ears
I appreciate you. Definitely sending you much peace!
Thank you! Awesome parable to start the new year!
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Challenging oneself ego is a struggle that I truly hope to overcome. Recognizing confirmation bias is yet another tool offered by Dr.Conte. Thank you!
Aloha from Hawaii! love your channel along with what’s on the white board 🤙🏽
Great storytelling!
Thank you!🙏
You always have a great story with great wisdom involved. Thank You God Bless
Thanks Dr. Conte. I had never heard the term before. Good illustration.
Grazie Conte.
I love discussing Confirmation Bias. So true that we do it so often. Thanks for sharing and for, again, blessing us with some knowledge. 'preciate it, Doc. Much peace!
Thank you. Sending you much peace for sure! 🙏🏼
Absolutely loved it
Confirmation bias is something we all are guilty of. That story blew my mind. Assuming things without facts is very dangerous.
Amazing channel thank you for this knowledge !
Your Amazing!
thank you for this!
Thank you so much sir for making it more simple for me to understand this story😌
Lol ha ha ... Happy Holidays Christmas
Beautifull 💚🔥
Besides what you explained very well, I'm eager to understand why is that the man in that situation believed so easy on a stranger over his own wife?? According to his own sayings, their relationship was doing fine. So, why did he believe a stranger over his close one??? Why do people, in general, believe in bad more than in the good of people? Why he expected her to cheat and to lie to him about it, instead of searching the truth from the beginning?? According to an old wisdom, if a situation is not confirmed by at least two people, then it is not true. Even in this situation there can be lies, but still you don't judge so quickly after what only one man said... Could you make a video where you'll bring more wisdom about this, more "light" on this topic? I would like to understand from where this comes from... 🙄 (My guess is that the one who judges wrong is bad in his/hers origins and so expects the others to be, even without any proofs... ) 🤔
Thank you so much for your contribution to the community I do have one question do you do televisits and how much would that cost me and my wife are really on the rocks with our relationship and I really like the way that you explain things and it would be a really big help for me and my wife to be able to speak with you specially me because I do have anger issues. Please let me know thank you
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This story shows that the husband has an uncontrollable anger. Instead of searching for the reason of the missing apple with his wife, he uses deadly violence. And that will never solve anything.
What of you live with someone who will not face alcohol addiction issues. :( it sucks. Im very very sad, and I am lost. Would love a prayer.
If they chose the alcohol over the peace with you, then you should leave.. 😒 I know it doesn't sound very good, but if someone doesn't change at their own will, it's less likely that they will do it for someone else (maybe just temporary)... 🙄
If you don't mind me interjecting , nice to meet you my name is Taz, I would try to get him to switch from alcohol to cannabis.
@@tazbitter5594 Why do you think that any other addiction would be better? 🙄 Addictions only make people weak and dependent/slaves. To be free of addictions is 1000000000000000 better (for your brain, for your health and for your longevity)! 👍🏻
@@bluelle4698 because cannabis is a medicine , it's a natural herb that you can't overdose on and it's non-toxic and if used correctly it can get you off of any man-made chemical. Also alcohol is a substance that makes you tune everything out , it makes you unfeeling, cannabis is the very opposite of that, it makes you confront the emotional impact of your actions and the emotional impact the actions of others have had on you as well as you're very mortality. You seem like a nice guy it's too bad we're not close I would love to invite you over and show you a world of new possibilities.
@@bluelle4698 also you need to factor in the Cannabis also comes in CBD which has no intoxicating properties but all of the benefits, including pain relief Anxiety Relief and addiction relief
Confirmation bias is cancer!
Dr Conte.... Yo What the Heck is: Hooponopono?
It’s on the white board behind you old man
If you search on Google, even on RUclips, you'll find out. 👍🏻
Ho'oponopono
How does a package like you come to be? I'm not trying to be a wise guy, I'm genuinely curious, you look like Suge Knight, you've got the tattoos of a hardened prisoner, yet you value deep thought, and you calculate the potential outcomes of each action to the fullest, moreover you appear to be kind and compassionate, how do you appear to be such a walking contradiction? How do you encounter a set of variables that turns you into you? And what are those variables
If you make a video reply answering this it would be cool If you plugged my bitchute channel lol
If you don't mind me, I could try answering you... 🙄
If you looked on his Web page, you would know that he was curious about people and what makes them behave in a specific way, since he was very young. So, he studied psychology and the people he wanted to have the most impact on (help them become better versions of themselves) and so he did all the "image" work (muscles, tattoos, ect.) to integrate easier between them. You should know that, in general, people only listen to people that "look" like them/seem to have the same sort of thinking/experiences that they value. So, if you "copy" the outside look of someone, it's easier to have a deeper conversation with them, one that would be helpful for both (like changing, guiding, helping them see the things in different perspectives so they could react more positive in specific situations...). On short, the outside look it's only that: a look (apparences). He is so much wiser and smarter than that... 👍🏻
I recommend you his book if you really want to understand him/his look/more about him... 👍🏻
Old man!
I'm Single 😍😥
Really how old are you? Do you like Comics who work blue?