What Does The Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style Want In A Relationship & Why? 6 Wants & Fears

[@TheSoulExtract]

"I am going to give you something to cry about!" 😂😂😂 that was definitely a black parent! It seems all black parents had the same script!
Thank you so much for the content, it is amazing! As a fellow South African, its refreshing to find this depth of content in SA, beeeen struggling (relying on content abroad). So thank you so much!! ❤❤❤

[@theloveandthriveschool]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 hey SA friend, we do have dark humor, don't we 🤣🤣🤣
I think there's a How To Traumatise Your Child instruction manual that some parents get handed when we are born. Believe it or not, same things get said across cultures.
Something that we have in common 🤣🤣🤣

[@thepuffin-ss9ln]

Funny thing is they rarely tell you what theyre needs are. The biggest problem is they arent emotionally avail. They come off as cold and unfeeling, yet often they expect the opposite from you

[@annedechazal8950]

Such valuable teachings. I am hugely appreciative of your time and teaching 🦋

[@theloveandthriveschool]

You are so sweet to leave a comment. You have no idea how much it motivates me. Thanks for the energy exchange, Anne. It makes my heart so happy to hear that you are benefitig from these ❤

[@nicholasneaves]

One of the best explanations I have ever heard - thank you!

[@theloveandthriveschool]

It means a lot coming from an experienced coach like you. Thanks Nicholas. 🩷

[@leratotaunyane5422]

Can we have a video wherw Matt tells us what DAs need in conflict like how theyd prefer to be confronted , how theyd prefer their partner to follow up ,how theyd preferbtheir partner to voice grievances without triggering them ,how to hold the DA accountable without triggering them please

[@mgn1621]

Avoidants don’t want conflict….so unrealistic. They need to learn how to communicate better, conflict skills, etc. it would make them feel so much safer

[@theloveandthriveschool]

Yup, that's the healing journey.

[@ld921]

Yadda yadda yadda they know internally something is wrong, go fir therapy stop hurting people it’s not fair to others hurt people hurt people

[@graceheartri]

Sounds like they should just stay single and alone….

[@Karolina-dp7no]

❤

[@theloveandthriveschool]

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[@Rowehouse1819]

We don't know what the partner wants because he killed himself from what the trauma the DA caused

[@theloveandthriveschool]

This is devastating. I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. 🩷🩷🩷

[@leratotaunyane5422]

Can we have a video wherw Matt tells us what DAs need in conflict like how theyd prefer to be confronted , how theyd prefer their partner to follow up ,how theyd preferbtheir partner to voice grievances without triggering them ,how to hold the DA accountable without triggering them please

[@theloveandthriveschool]

We will do a video on this. It's a great topic. .