Hello Karen, I'm a Reflector and I have to say it served me well when I was younger (although, I'm only recently getting into HD). As a young adult, I was more carefree, open and flowy. As an adult, I find I've become more of an introvert and consistently seeking my purpose and still not knowing what/why I'm here. I'm excited about being a "unicorn" in HD. But, it's a challenge not having definition, so to speak. I have wondered before knowing my HD why I couldn't stay with one thing very long or master any particular skillset because I'd always get bored and move on. I know why now - even my natal chart astrological reading told me this. So, I am still trying to find my fit while trying to accept that I may not really ever fit anywhere in particular. At any rate, thanks for sharing your knowledge on this subject. Sincerely, -Rani the Reflector🙂
As a seasoned reflector, I can readily relate to all of the key strategies you mention here (and in the longer presentation you did). I learned these all step by step without HD, and it was at times challenging to 'wake up' from the trance hypnotic soup all around me and cultivate confidence in my innate knowing...I suspect most reflectors are so well connected that they deeply know what they need, but the real hurdle is daring to deviate from the path everyone else is on and to give permission to be radically different. Along the way people manifest who will push back against these rather quirky essential needs such as leaving the party suddenly without saying goodbye, being very selective over who touches me physically, because for me physical connection amplifies whatever the other person is etc. It disturbs people to some degree if they have chosen a default 'hug everyone' protocol, and I already know physical contact will cost me too much in energy processing and have to make it clear with my body that no contact is desired...I also notice watching all the 'types' Karen presents, that all of these strategies I know very well - long long ago did i ditch the idea of thinking my way through life- but I do feel it is a bit 'lame' or incomplete to summarise the role of a reflector as a kind of canary in the coal mine, who squarks and chokes on the poisonous gases before everyone else does or chirps sweetly when everything is fine...I agree that I absolutely reflect my environment and that harmonious environments are crucial, but I don't think this is why I am sensitive and open, its more of a by product quality, of value to those who are willing to respect the social role of a sensitive, but I propose something more nuanced: because of the chameleon like life rhythm, we get to try on the 'outfit' of every other 'type' and as a result have intimate insight - it feels a bit understated this idea of sampling auras (i make this appraisal on all the online material available so far from numerous sources) it doesn't feel like i'm taking small bites of energy, if i want i can go in very deep, and with permission i do this - for example when a friend of mine was suicidal, after only a short 20 mins with her, i immediately went into a dark suicidal space, except I felt like a visitor - for two days I felt pretty bad, and for two days I witnessed these feelings and then suddenly came out of it with an answer - an insight had emerged, which when i conveyed this insight to my friend, very quickly transformed her and the suicidal thoughts stopped for about 6 months. I felt like a surrogate for her, in the end she had to figure out her own patterns, but for a while we 'shared' reality and I was able to offer her a map of some kind which we both learned from. I find that for me all the 'types' are active in me through the lunar cycle - so on some days its critical to follow my joy and respond to what i am attracting, at others to take on some of the qualities of a projector and wait to be invited, and at others to let people know of my intentions I know will impact their lives etc...Karen is so right that reflectors are much better off flowing with the rise and fall of energy without the burden of a routine job, the key is in giving value and credibility to being wild so that one's deeper purpose can be fulfilled. I have only just come across HD so its been reaffirming to study the system so far and fine tune my awareness - I am very appreciative of your contribution Karen; your choice to be active in the conversation; your flow of sharing.
Thank you so much for this thorough and insightful share! I am so excited to hear about your perceptions and experiences. I would love to be in touch with you so that in the future I can feature you as a part of the reflector videos. I won't get to that content for awhile, but if you are willing, please send me a message through my instagram @iamkarenmcmullen or let me know how to keep in touch with you.
Always checking on community. Always watching and observing everyone. When they seem off, you invite them in & find what wakes them up. We love when neighbors, friends, family are all good. ❤
I more recently, months or so, came across HD and it has helped me understand myself as a Reflector on a deeper level. Particularly how people seem to project, blame, see what they want to see in me. That has helped me realize it is they who are seeing themselves or seeing the part of themselves in me. Also, how much I just cannot stick to a schedule or a career path or a life direction in the way society is “supposed to flow”. It is so hard to get up each day at the same time to get my kids off to school, I almost need the rest of the day to recover. Access to this HD perspective has given me quite a relief to live my life in my own flow. Luckily I have been able to survive in this way. And not suffer too much in the homogeneous world schedule. One thing I am up against at the moment is that I am quite alone in my environment, not finding my tribe where I live. I feel very connected to my beautiful environment and nature, my children, and this area is so great for my children. I wonder about this, the importance of being in the right environment for reflectors and if the fact that I am not finding my tribe means I need to move. I have been considering this for months if not a year or two. I also notice that when I put energy or drive into something big (little tasks work better) that it isn’t met with completion. I always thought this meant I just needed to learn patience. I have been trying to let things come to me, but a few years have past and my tribe is still not manifesting…it is a confusing thing, am I to to put energy into making things happen or am I to let the opportunity arise? Both seem to fail on the levels that I imagine they will play out. I enjoy life deeply on the daily regardless, living in the moment is the best. That I can relate to. I am a 5/1 Reflector…looking for my team!!
@@tomihougen4500 I just discovered that you can get it in the calendar section of Genetic Matrix if you get their pro version. They have tutorials in the help section that explain how it works once you get in there. Here's my affiliate link for their software if you want to use it: affiliate.geneticmatrix.com/idevaffiliate.php?id=6452
Happily living in the stunning mountains of North Idaho...beauty surrounds me! Thank you. new to this system but it is pretty much spot on for me so far.
Learn to feel more than you think. Just focus on nothing but the stars and moon and you’ll feel energy and focus on that it will get easier in time and the universe will guide you instead of the imperfect world around you. Also learn boundaries. Don’t let societal norms make you feel bad for not responding or doing things. Trust that you will do the right thing and let your intuition guide you. And if you do something that is heavy on your heart talk to yourself and learn what will be best for you next time. This is so cool to know other people like me are out here Im just learning about this today but have always known I was different from most.
Hi Maria, The Genetic Matrix software will show you. (this is my affiliate link) affiliate.geneticmatrix.com/idevaffiliate.php?id=6452 This video explains how to use it: ruclips.net/video/xl1XodlQvbc/видео.htmlsi=UwozSYYvwVsN28Av
Como reflectora he encontrado calma y paz en la vida espiritual, me involucre en el manejo de las e energias, sane mis condicionamientos familiares, me gusta ayudar a otros en esto mismo. Encontre gente parecida a mi, aunque no son reflectores pueden entenderme y valorar mi forma y mis dones al igual que yo a ellos.
I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I understand the need to understand things that we do not know. There was a part of the video that I feel I have a dig experience of what my role here is. I don’t think it’s merely to reflect the world ppl etc to themselves but instead to reveal. People are fast and hurried much like a herd. Each assumes one running along side it is the example of the rest. This causes them to easily overlook and assume against one another. I feel as a reflector I feel many things but hold no debt to ownership of emotions. It’s is merely something to decipher and harmonize so that there may be flow. We can literally go anywhere and be friends with anyone but we can not stay. And once our work is done we move about until something equally intriguing but disruptive in some sense calls us to duty. I find if I avoid my duty. They will eventually seek me out as if I have some sort of remedy. Anyhow I go on and on😅😅😅 I really appreciate the video. Thank you.
Oh! interesting, no one has talked about how the moon cycle will change your identification. I’ve been wondering how a Reflector finds satisfaction and peace
I just found out my partner is a reflector and i was dumbfounded when we first split up a bit I got my period for the first time in quite a while. then the day he reached out to reconnect… I also got my period. this month when I got it they said they loved me for the first time. ….. all makes sense
I don't really know much about human design, but I got an app that shows the transits, but I don't know enough about it to know what type I'm thrown into because I have defined energy centers a LOT despite being a reflector. I'm rarely ever undefined and it's driving me crazy lol
@@karenmcmullen I have to learn all the other types because mine can "change" by the day, sometimes multiple times in that day. It's just a LOT of information.
Hmmmmm… I would suggest not trying to know your design all at once. For example in my first year of my experiment I just took one piece and focused on understanding what it meant to wait to respond. After that, I focused on emotional authority. Otherwise you are at risk of really just mentalizing a lot of moving away from your natural being. What about just emobracing that you have a sampling and reflecting aura for a year. Or just focusing on being sensitive to place? Anyways, just suggesting you take it slowly.
That is not a separate type of reflector. Each of the types is an aura type: generator, projector, reflector etc… it is referring to what kind of aura you have.
I'm a reflector. I find the idea that we are to be used by others as a signalling device as utterly obnoxious. Work it out for yourselves. I'm doing my own thing.
Hello Karen, I'm a Reflector and I have to say it served me well when I was younger (although, I'm only recently getting into HD). As a young adult, I was more carefree, open and flowy. As an adult, I find I've become more of an introvert and consistently seeking my purpose and still not knowing what/why I'm here. I'm excited about being a "unicorn" in HD. But, it's a challenge not having definition, so to speak. I have wondered before knowing my HD why I couldn't stay with one thing very long or master any particular skillset because I'd always get bored and move on. I know why now - even my natal chart astrological reading told me this. So, I am still trying to find my fit while trying to accept that I may not really ever fit anywhere in particular. At any rate, thanks for sharing your knowledge on this subject. Sincerely, -Rani the Reflector🙂
Hi Rani! I am glad you have found your way to this information. Being carefree, open and flowy sounds ideal!!
As a seasoned reflector, I can readily relate to all of the key strategies you mention here (and in the longer presentation you did). I learned these all step by step without HD, and it was at times challenging to 'wake up' from the trance hypnotic soup all around me and cultivate confidence in my innate knowing...I suspect most reflectors are so well connected that they deeply know what they need, but the real hurdle is daring to deviate from the path everyone else is on and to give permission to be radically different. Along the way people manifest who will push back against these rather quirky essential needs such as leaving the party suddenly without saying goodbye, being very selective over who touches me physically, because for me physical connection amplifies whatever the other person is etc. It disturbs people to some degree if they have chosen a default 'hug everyone' protocol, and I already know physical contact will cost me too much in energy processing and have to make it clear with my body that no contact is desired...I also notice watching all the 'types' Karen presents, that all of these strategies I know very well - long long ago did i ditch the idea of thinking my way through life- but I do feel it is a bit 'lame' or incomplete to summarise the role of a reflector as a kind of canary in the coal mine, who squarks and chokes on the poisonous gases before everyone else does or chirps sweetly when everything is fine...I agree that I absolutely reflect my environment and that harmonious environments are crucial, but I don't think this is why I am sensitive and open, its more of a by product quality, of value to those who are willing to respect the social role of a sensitive, but I propose something more nuanced: because of the chameleon like life rhythm, we get to try on the 'outfit' of every other 'type' and as a result have intimate insight - it feels a bit understated this idea of sampling auras (i make this appraisal on all the online material available so far from numerous sources) it doesn't feel like i'm taking small bites of energy, if i want i can go in very deep, and with permission i do this - for example when a friend of mine was suicidal, after only a short 20 mins with her, i immediately went into a dark suicidal space, except I felt like a visitor - for two days I felt pretty bad, and for two days I witnessed these feelings and then suddenly came out of it with an answer - an insight had emerged, which when i conveyed this insight to my friend, very quickly transformed her and the suicidal thoughts stopped for about 6 months. I felt like a surrogate for her, in the end she had to figure out her own patterns, but for a while we 'shared' reality and I was able to offer her a map of some kind which we both learned from. I find that for me all the 'types' are active in me through the lunar cycle - so on some days its critical to follow my joy and respond to what i am attracting, at others to take on some of the qualities of a projector and wait to be invited, and at others to let people know of my intentions I know will impact their lives etc...Karen is so right that reflectors are much better off flowing with the rise and fall of energy without the burden of a routine job, the key is in giving value and credibility to being wild so that one's deeper purpose can be fulfilled. I have only just come across HD so its been reaffirming to study the system so far and fine tune my awareness - I am very appreciative of your contribution Karen; your choice to be active in the conversation; your flow of sharing.
Thank you so much for this thorough and insightful share! I am so excited to hear about your perceptions and experiences. I would love to be in touch with you so that in the future I can feature you as a part of the reflector videos. I won't get to that content for awhile, but if you are willing, please send me a message through my instagram @iamkarenmcmullen or let me know how to keep in touch with you.
Always checking on community. Always watching and observing everyone. When they seem off, you invite them in & find what wakes them up. We love when neighbors, friends, family are all good. ❤
That is lovely!
I more recently, months or so, came across HD and it has helped me understand myself as a Reflector on a deeper level. Particularly how people seem to project, blame, see what they want to see in me. That has helped me realize it is they who are seeing themselves or seeing the part of themselves in me. Also, how much I just cannot stick to a schedule or a career path or a life direction in the way society is “supposed to flow”. It is so hard to get up each day at the same time to get my kids off to school, I almost need the rest of the day to recover.
Access to this HD perspective has given me quite a relief to live my life in my own flow. Luckily I have been able to survive in this way. And not suffer too much in the homogeneous world schedule.
One thing I am up against at the moment is that I am quite alone in my environment, not finding my tribe where I live. I feel very connected to my beautiful environment and nature, my children, and this area is so great for my children. I wonder about this, the importance of being in the right environment for reflectors and if the fact that I am not finding my tribe means I need to move. I have been considering this for months if not a year or two.
I also notice that when I put energy or drive into something big (little tasks work better) that it isn’t met with completion. I always thought this meant I just needed to learn patience. I have been trying to let things come to me, but a few years have past and my tribe is still not manifesting…it is a confusing thing, am I to to put energy into making things happen or am I to let the opportunity arise? Both seem to fail on the levels that I imagine they will play out.
I enjoy life deeply on the daily regardless, living in the moment is the best. That I can relate to. I am a 5/1 Reflector…looking for my team!!
Thank you for sharing your experience, community is important (it's why I created my facebook group TheGrid facebook.com/groups/thegridnetwork/)
This was so helpful thank you so much !
I'm so glad!
This little lunar chart on how we reflectors change to other types following the moon cycle is a must have!
Cool. Where did you get yours?
Would love to know where to get one of these
@@tomihougen4500 I just discovered that you can get it in the calendar section of Genetic Matrix if you get their pro version. They have tutorials in the help section that explain how it works once you get in there. Here's my affiliate link for their software if you want to use it: affiliate.geneticmatrix.com/idevaffiliate.php?id=6452
Happily living in the stunning mountains of North Idaho...beauty surrounds me! Thank you. new to this system but it is pretty much spot on for me so far.
Learn to feel more than you think. Just focus on nothing but the stars and moon and you’ll feel energy and focus on that it will get easier in time and the universe will guide you instead of the imperfect world around you. Also learn boundaries. Don’t let societal norms make you feel bad for not responding or doing things. Trust that you will do the right thing and let your intuition guide you. And if you do something that is heavy on your heart talk to yourself and learn what will be best for you next time. This is so cool to know other people like me are out here Im just learning about this today but have always known I was different from most.
Wonderful advice!!! Thank you!
it is great to see you feel for those "beings "
Thank you! Are you a reflector?
haha yesooo @@karenmcmullen
1/3 reflector & I usually get my . on or very close to full moon
Synced with the moon cycles 🤩
Same reflector 1/3 too 🤍
Hi Karen, what is the software I can get to show the transits through the month as a reflector. This would be great to learn and follow. Thank you
Hi Maria, The Genetic Matrix software will show you. (this is my affiliate link) affiliate.geneticmatrix.com/idevaffiliate.php?id=6452
This video explains how to use it: ruclips.net/video/xl1XodlQvbc/видео.htmlsi=UwozSYYvwVsN28Av
@@karenmcmullen Thank you! 😊
So grateful for this information
You are most welcome!
Hello is it okay if I feel more like my sidereal human design?
Hi there! I feel I can’t answer this question because I don’t really know much about sidereal HD. I haven’t felt any desire to look into it .
Wishing you the best and you finding your clarity and truth!
@@karenmcmullen it’s worth looking at it giving more insight. thank you so much for the wishes
Como reflectora he encontrado calma y paz en la vida espiritual, me involucre en el manejo de las e energias, sane mis condicionamientos familiares, me gusta ayudar a otros en esto mismo. Encontre gente parecida a mi, aunque no son reflectores pueden entenderme y valorar mi forma y mis dones al igual que yo a ellos.
Que bueno. Me alegro oírlo. 💗
I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I understand the need to understand things that we do not know. There was a part of the video that I feel I have a dig experience of what my role here is. I don’t think it’s merely to reflect the world ppl etc to themselves but instead to reveal. People are fast and hurried much like a herd. Each assumes one running along side it is the example of the rest. This causes them to easily overlook and assume against one another. I feel as a reflector I feel many things but hold no debt to ownership of emotions. It’s is merely something to decipher and harmonize so that there may be flow. We can literally go anywhere and be friends with anyone but we can not stay. And once our work is done we move about until something equally intriguing but disruptive in some sense calls us to duty. I find if I avoid my duty. They will eventually seek me out as if I have some sort of remedy. Anyhow I go on and on😅😅😅 I really appreciate the video. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your unique perspective. I love it!!! What is your profile?
@@karenmcmullen My profile is 1/3 The establisher of knowledge and truth
@@karenmcmullenwhat are you Karen?
Hi! Sorry I don’t get notifications about when people respond to my comment but I finally discovered how to see the responses . I’m a 4/6
Oh! interesting, no one has talked about how the moon cycle will change your identification. I’ve been wondering how a Reflector finds satisfaction and peace
I just found out my partner is a reflector and i was dumbfounded when we first split up a bit I got my period for the first time in quite a while. then the day he reached out to reconnect… I also got my period. this month when I got it they said they loved me for the first time. ….. all makes sense
Interesting observations!
I don't really know much about human design, but I got an app that shows the transits, but I don't know enough about it to know what type I'm thrown into because I have defined energy centers a LOT despite being a reflector. I'm rarely ever undefined and it's driving me crazy lol
What aspect of that drives you crazy? Thanks for sharing!
@@karenmcmullen I have to learn all the other types because mine can "change" by the day, sometimes multiple times in that day. It's just a LOT of information.
Hmmmmm… I would suggest not trying to know your design all at once. For example in my first year of my experiment I just took one piece and focused on understanding what it meant to wait to respond. After that, I focused on emotional authority.
Otherwise you are at risk of really just mentalizing a lot of moving away from your natural being. What about just emobracing that you have a sampling and reflecting aura for a year. Or just focusing on being sensitive to place? Anyways, just suggesting you take it slowly.
exelent
Thank you! Cheers!
Reflector 6/2 🤍🪞
thank you! 🌈🌈
You're welcome!
Hi how do u discover which type of reflector u are I'm a auric reflector?
That is not a separate type of reflector. Each of the types is an aura type: generator, projector, reflector etc… it is referring to what kind of aura you have.
The link to the Facebook group does not Work...
Here you go~~ facebook.com/groups/545521383420240
Wow
Its amazing!
I'm a reflector. I find the idea that we are to be used by others as a signalling device as utterly obnoxious. Work it out for yourselves. I'm doing my own thing.
We are all designed to live in society and interweave with others. Every design has its way to dance in the world with others.
WOW! Me!!!
That is such a fun moment to be having! My moment like that was 8-9 years ago. Thanks for sharing.