Why Do Men Fail In Marriages?

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  • Опубликовано: 4 июл 2024
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Комментарии • 82

  • @ElenaBarlow
    @ElenaBarlow 29 дней назад +54

    Subhanallah, the "sister from Yemen" scambots couldn't even wait 5 minutes, there's already 3 of them posting the exact same comment in the comments 😂

    • @Legendary070
      @Legendary070 29 дней назад +11

      We are really getting tired of these scammers!

    • @drkshadw01
      @drkshadw01 29 дней назад +11

      i reported each one of them

    • @ZAMislive
      @ZAMislive 29 дней назад +11

      doesnt change the fact, out people in islam are suffering from hunger, water and what not. may allah be with them and unite us under the banner of islam. ya rabb aamen

    • @iqrarasul
      @iqrarasul 29 дней назад

      😂😂😂

    • @yem2go
      @yem2go 28 дней назад +9

      As a sister from Yemen I assure you she’s or he are not from here .

  • @quranrecitation7097
    @quranrecitation7097 29 дней назад +22

    these sister bots from yemen always hustling

  • @amitaf592
    @amitaf592 29 дней назад +26

    We sisters need to hear this more often. We really need to get rid of our westernized ideas that we don’t need to obey the men. Them men thrive when they receive respect!

    • @peaceloveunity3794
      @peaceloveunity3794 29 дней назад +5

      Well then they need to stop being oppressive dead beats. The ones I know are oppressive entitled deadbeats from my father, to my brothers, to my ex. They didn't fulfill their jobs of providing and protecting astaghfirALLAH atheem. May ALLAH guide us all. We are living near end times and the fitnas/problems are everywhere.

    • @Altair-El-Haddad
      @Altair-El-Haddad 28 дней назад +2

      ​@@peaceloveunity3794how about not projecting your own bad experiences onto others?

    • @sarahnovella4971
      @sarahnovella4971 27 дней назад

      ​@@Altair-El-Haddadhow is she projecting? her ex got nothing to do with her brother/father, a total stranger, yet he also has the same traits as them 🤷🤷
      i wonder if it's in men's dna or something lol

    • @johnelway9879
      @johnelway9879 25 дней назад

      @@sarahnovella4971muh all men are evil don’t y’all get tired?

    • @amitaf592
      @amitaf592 25 дней назад

      @@sarahnovella4971 I can testify it's not in their DNA. I have 5 brothers and they have been so good to me, elhamdoullilah. They took me with them traveling, learned me how to drive, encouraged me to be more assertive , gave me money, gifts... You were just unfortunate to be tested by Allah not having good male role-models. May Allah make it easy for you.

  • @ummrahmak
    @ummrahmak 29 дней назад +14

    Brother Assalam Alaikum.
    How many sisters wanted to live as Allah SWT designed,and for so long the men didnt work,or think authority is bullying their way around the family,please for the sake of Allah we allwant leadership and we eant men who are in control,but its not a reality ,please give one video on how to be a great husband seriously asthe sisters want the family with the man in charge providing for them, security for them ,but quite often its not the reality,please help us sisters with a talk to the men on how to treat someone else's daughter.
    Jazakhallahu khairen

  • @shabana9
    @shabana9 24 дня назад +3

    I am not sure if authority is the only thing missing in men. A lot is to be blamed on emotional intelligence too. Men these days dont have that at all. Somewhere if men start to understand emotional situations better they will immediately have the authority.
    There is no woman on this earth who would not like to take a backseat and just enjoy life. Those who say they are boss babes are lying and probably scared too that they will end up being hurt again.

  • @jacoba.2279
    @jacoba.2279 29 дней назад +5

    Jazakumullahu khayran

  • @8KilgoreTrout4
    @8KilgoreTrout4 29 дней назад +12

    When I started a business and really increased my income I told my ex “Why don’t quit your job, I make enough?”…
    Later when we got the divorce she told the courts I was trying to keep her from working 😅
    Ungrateful as hell! I wish someone would come tell me to quit my job and stay home 😂

    • @user-vx1dq4ms9z
      @user-vx1dq4ms9z 28 дней назад +5

      Weirdo that makes sense she told the court that! Now that she's unemployed and also divorced , u will have to compensate for the time and money she could have earned! U definitely are to blame! Soo clueless and weird, makes sense she left u

    • @8KilgoreTrout4
      @8KilgoreTrout4 28 дней назад

      @@user-vx1dq4ms9z You are yet to say one thing that’s actually true. But feel free to continue…

    • @8KilgoreTrout4
      @8KilgoreTrout4 28 дней назад

      @@user-vx1dq4ms9z You have no clue what you’re talking about 😝

    • @sarahnovella4971
      @sarahnovella4971 27 дней назад +6

      ​@@user-vx1dq4ms9zhow is it clueless and weird for him to not want his wife to work when he can provide for everything? you're the weird one lol

    • @user-vx1dq4ms9z
      @user-vx1dq4ms9z 27 дней назад +2

      @sarahnovella4971 that's not what I meant! Him giving promises to look after her would make sense only if the relationship last forever...if for example he said he will look after her and the relationship just lasted for 10yrs then she will have 10yrs of "GAP" in her resume... making it harder for landing any job..so obviously the court will ask him to compensate and she will say this in court...

  • @jacoba.2279
    @jacoba.2279 29 дней назад +15

    Brother, keep doing what you're doing for the sake of Allah by serving your muslim community through protecting and strengthening the family.
    I believe that a lot of people get married without learning the duties and responsibilities of each party. Many go into marriage laden with misconceptions and fairy tales fed to them by a failing education system and media aimed at distorting reality and bad examples everywhere. Many are ignorant of the sunna of married life.
    Education of the basics of marriage and the proper conduct of the husband and the wife should be required before marriage contracts. Traditionally, this was the role of the parent families and communities in the past; to instill the norms of marriage into the newer generation. This role has been compromised, so we need an alternative.

    • @alromaani
      @alromaani  29 дней назад +4

      Indeed. May Allah guide us

    • @jacoba.2279
      @jacoba.2279 29 дней назад +1

      @@alromaani Aameen.

  • @levent5286
    @levent5286 27 дней назад +3

    From Algeria 🤝

  • @taimurahmad
    @taimurahmad 28 дней назад

    Very nice points made....

  • @lambeefbiryani08
    @lambeefbiryani08 29 дней назад +15

    Sister from yaman bot please stop

  • @Happy-out-side1234
    @Happy-out-side1234 29 дней назад +2

    Barak Allah feekum brother hope you are well.

    • @lost_poet_
      @lost_poet_ 21 день назад

      What's the point in you having a niqabi face dp profile on RUclips????

  • @essa200911
    @essa200911 27 дней назад +1

    Jazak Allah Khiar

  • @muds1356
    @muds1356 26 дней назад +1

    I wish that this comes from Islamic Scholars in the west. They are not vocal about it and honestly are scared to teach and spread Truth

  • @Captain_Mckeggor
    @Captain_Mckeggor 28 дней назад

    In my opinion... that can only be accomplished when he is the sole bread winner in the family. And I would argue, no matter how much a woman is educated about the sunnah and rulings of marriage we can't expect her to be obedient when she gets into an emotional state of mind. No matter how kind and cooperative they are women can only be that way so long as their emotions are not acting up. The husband tries to say no to something (especially when it comes to safety and health reasons) and then their emotions start acting up and they start to rebel and throw words like toxic, controlling and manipulative at him. This is why a man needs to have control of the relationship and authority on his family so that he can restrain his wife and kids when he needs to.

  • @grooveyguru154
    @grooveyguru154 28 дней назад +1

    ولا عجب أن النساء ترجلت ولكن تأنيث الرجال عجيب!!

  • @bismillahschool
    @bismillahschool 26 дней назад

    Sure do the Right and Forbid the but with Wisdom which is msoty missing nowadays ...

  • @glossypink1411
    @glossypink1411 28 дней назад +2

    Why using khalid al amiris pic to attract clicks!

    • @kjy05
      @kjy05 24 дня назад +4

      @@glossypink1411 cuz he failed in his marriage

  • @JannahAlFirdaus91
    @JannahAlFirdaus91 28 дней назад

    So basically it’s the system going against men then 🤣

  • @AA-hk3cm
    @AA-hk3cm 28 дней назад

    Why do women

  • @sofeabian1372
    @sofeabian1372 29 дней назад

    ???

  • @user-he7rl3lb5n
    @user-he7rl3lb5n 28 дней назад

    Toooooo much men will gone diforce! Too much also older age!

  • @T2official
    @T2official 29 дней назад +1

    So what’s the solution?pointless video lol

    • @kjy05
      @kjy05 27 дней назад +2

      Return to Qur'an and Sunnah holistically. Also he gives solutions in literally every video and all over his work.

    • @johnelway9879
      @johnelway9879 25 дней назад +1

      @@kjy05how long we gonna fast for bruh it’s been a decade…not like hordes of single people unmarried in their late 20s early 30s during the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم time.

    • @kjy05
      @kjy05 24 дня назад

      @@johnelway9879 you don't only fast. You improve your personality, manners, religiosity, community contributions, and more.

  • @herzus515
    @herzus515 28 дней назад

    cuz they wanna sleep with them and after that they are not interested in them anymore. Just like mohammed was not interested in aisha after he took her childhood

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 28 дней назад +8

      he remained married to her till hsi death and gave her the glad tidings that she will be his wife in paradise for eternity....

    • @herzus515
      @herzus515 28 дней назад

      @@taimurahmad Even worse. Staying married to a men who traveled the world fighting wars getting to marry many many other wifes while she was not allowed to ever have another husband again and get kids. Basically the feeling of becoming a happy Mother was taken away from her. I pray for you that you see this cruelity. You seem like a good person

    • @RVSMX
      @RVSMX 28 дней назад +4

      @@herzus515and you seem like a person with no knowledge.

    • @herzus515
      @herzus515 28 дней назад

      @@RVSMX you have all the tools and the time to enlighten me and just debunk one point of what I wrote. But you did not and we both know why

    • @RVSMX
      @RVSMX 28 дней назад +3

      @herzus515 I could care less if you're enlightened. You also have the tools necessary and the intelligence, if you had any, to find the answers yourself... and I know why you haven't done so.