At my Age - Episode 13

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • At my Age is a show that aims to provide intervention for elderly people faced with a plight they can’t resolve because of age.
    Watch At my Age on SABC 2 every Tuesday at 11h00

Комментарии • 177

  • @nelnel4127
    @nelnel4127 4 года назад +53

    UGogo was so beautful itjoooh🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thabothobejane6608
    @thabothobejane6608 6 лет назад +16

    This is painful! God please intervene ,You are able to change hearts Lord! We leave everything in your hards ,change those we cannot change Lord!

  • @skangezilendhlovu2537
    @skangezilendhlovu2537 3 года назад +12

    Love u gogo kuzolunga umuhle futhi💖💖💖

  • @djvaughn2367
    @djvaughn2367 6 лет назад +55

    The neighbours and Gogo Frieda are amazing 😭😭😭❤🙏

  • @elizabethkoenane1383
    @elizabethkoenane1383 7 месяцев назад +13

    Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside...
    My life is fruitful because i did my part.
    God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏

  • @happinessmalaza1762
    @happinessmalaza1762 6 лет назад +9

    Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness

  • @kassiebsaili8355
    @kassiebsaili8355 5 месяцев назад +4

    My heart broke into a million pieces 😢

  • @KaraboRadebe-o6u
    @KaraboRadebe-o6u 6 месяцев назад +6

    This is so heartbreaking how could someone do this to their mother I feel sorry for such people who treat their parents this way

  • @thepixiefairy4986
    @thepixiefairy4986 4 года назад +14

    her words at the end of the show melted my heart, with her soft smile. she has really been through the worst.

  • @Smangi2012
    @Smangi2012 7 месяцев назад +13

    How I wish my mom and grandmother was around tjo o tlo itshola gal oo sham 😢💔

  • @leratomodutwane8730
    @leratomodutwane8730 6 месяцев назад +6

    How can a child treat her mother in such a way..she heartless jooh..i can never treat my mother like that after everything she has done for me..i will forever be grateful..hope gogo gets to live in peace and harmony with her neighbours..she's truly blessed to have people like that around her...

  • @intrendingvlogs4365
    @intrendingvlogs4365 6 лет назад +16

    Love your elderly people please.😭😭😭😭

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi 7 месяцев назад +6

    Gogo has a very good heart, she is just like my mother 😍

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha 4 года назад +11

    God bless the neighbors ❤️🙏

  • @lufunotshivhase8076
    @lufunotshivhase8076 2 года назад +6

    Ohhh just found myself crying 😭😭😭

  • @nicolettenonyane3252
    @nicolettenonyane3252 6 лет назад +53

    I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?

    • @ntsoakimaibelo9198
      @ntsoakimaibelo9198 6 лет назад +1

      you can say that again

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 10 месяцев назад

      Yoo ngempela yazi

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 10 месяцев назад +2

      Lomntwana uyadelela akaphume endlini kagogo usile lontombazane ayekwakhe sis

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 9 месяцев назад

      True

    • @Leonliaralee99
      @Leonliaralee99 7 месяцев назад

      Ey mfethu me too I miss my mom even though wayengishiya wonke umhlaba kodwa I really wish she was here to see me now n grandkids😢❤

  • @tshireletsothabangmorule8670
    @tshireletsothabangmorule8670 6 лет назад +17

    Gogo Freida your suffering in this world certify you a big place in heaven. I hope your daughter can move out so you can live your life freely

    • @lolomdlalose4547
      @lolomdlalose4547 7 месяцев назад

      Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near

  • @andyhlubi7
    @andyhlubi7 7 месяцев назад +10

    This is heartbreaking, yo💔💔💔😭

  • @lobelaletticia9491
    @lobelaletticia9491 2 года назад +7

    Ending is very heartwarming ❤️
    Gogo freda is a wonderful soul ❤️

  • @ThembisileJele
    @ThembisileJele 7 месяцев назад +16

    Names are very spiritual

  • @LeratoMaphosana
    @LeratoMaphosana 3 дня назад

    Yhooo am in tears 😢

  • @galaletsang-morenamogale8040
    @galaletsang-morenamogale8040 6 лет назад +59

    If she thinks Gogo is bewitching her, then she should go find her own house maan NXA😠😠

    • @joanpheto5538
      @joanpheto5538 2 года назад +2

      Thank you..

    • @sarahtsotetsi2764
      @sarahtsotetsi2764 Год назад +1

      One day di tla kgutla dintho tseo mohlang mme wa hao a tsamayang lefatsheng 🤞💔

  • @anelisanotyeke5327
    @anelisanotyeke5327 2 года назад +4

    Ndihlutshwa landawo Athi gogo makahambe bcz indoda yakhe yeza rhaaaa Sana awusazi isinqalekiso osibeka phezu kwakho nabantwana bakho ngalento yenza Mzalini wakho

  • @phosa7775
    @phosa7775 3 года назад +2

    God bless the neighbors 🙏😭😭😭

  • @Thato-tee
    @Thato-tee 7 месяцев назад +2

    What a touching story

  • @Lifewithmona_x
    @Lifewithmona_x 4 года назад +6

    This breaks my heart💔.
    Im even crying while watching this

  • @sibongilenhlapo7562
    @sibongilenhlapo7562 6 лет назад +57

    How many lives have been ruined by Most sangomas? God I hope many will turn to you in prayer.

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 5 лет назад +5

      Sibongile Nhlapo then the pastor tells you that someone is blacking your blessings,is it not the same issue?

    • @Kutloanos
      @Kutloanos 5 лет назад +5

      same issue with christianity. in fact any religion is kak

    • @tshepangmosime
      @tshepangmosime 7 месяцев назад +2

      Not only sangoma’s even people. E.g neighbours, relatives etc

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 7 месяцев назад +2

      Sangomas are worse, but I don’t blame them, they need money

  • @Kamo439
    @Kamo439 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is heart breaking 💔💔💔💔💔😭

  • @earthy_12
    @earthy_12 7 месяцев назад +14

    Dideka will never find peace for the way she treated Gogo. Gogo I am so sorry for what you went through, I hope you finally found peace 🥺🥺

  • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
    @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 10 месяцев назад +4

    Siyabonga bo makhelwane ukungenelela nisizenabanye

  • @lungilesibiya2712
    @lungilesibiya2712 Год назад +1

    This story breaks my heart 😭😭😭😭😭.

  • @jenniferramoshaba7307
    @jenniferramoshaba7307 7 месяцев назад +2

    Am happy for you Gogo peace and love that you deserve

  • @KealebogaGloria
    @KealebogaGloria 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks to 2 lady s and TV

  • @refentsemokobe2105
    @refentsemokobe2105 6 лет назад +22

    You would have to be a special kind of "broken" to treat an elderly like that.

  • @hilmanipanda4808
    @hilmanipanda4808 Год назад +2

    My goodness 😢. Dj
    Gogo is such s sweet soul

  • @NPC6061
    @NPC6061 Год назад +2

    Yhooo ibuhlungu ibuhlungu 😢 ibuhlungu!!!! I can't even finish levideo

  • @mamoseturumane2813
    @mamoseturumane2813 6 лет назад +10

    This brought tears ... ...Dikeka you are evil!!!

  • @ItssJustMo
    @ItssJustMo Год назад +2

    Modimo o ho hlohonolofaditse Gogo🙏🏽❤️

  • @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd
    @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd 7 месяцев назад +1

    Iam touched

  • @nthatijermina926
    @nthatijermina926 7 месяцев назад +4

    Kaskalla jwalo 😢 this lady otlosotleha all hef life for hosotla ka mama hae

  • @nomusaphala3485
    @nomusaphala3485 7 месяцев назад +1

    My king I salute you ukhona lo uzongena it's true 😂uzoputshuka it's honest man

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 5 лет назад +3

    This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠

  • @elizabethjabulile3848
    @elizabethjabulile3848 11 месяцев назад +1

    Im so hurt, sisi one day u gonna miss this woman😭

  • @thulanyoni249
    @thulanyoni249 6 лет назад +23

    How can this Dideka treat her mother like this! She has no heart

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 9 месяцев назад

      Her baby daddy chase her, now she is talking frustration on her mother.

  • @normantuli8770
    @normantuli8770 7 месяцев назад +1

    This hurts alot, hope someone saves gogo😢

  • @lifeasdollyyy8160
    @lifeasdollyyy8160 6 месяцев назад +1

    No matter how a parent triggers you never do this ! My gran does trigger us always kodwa we know at the end Wuye ophethe iynhlanhla zethu 😭an elder sleeping down?no nkala

  • @gogiphum915
    @gogiphum915 Год назад +5

    I wish this woman long life so that she can endure 10 times what this gogo is going through cos her kids are going to show her flames

  • @ThalefaneJennifer
    @ThalefaneJennifer 5 месяцев назад +2

    I wish she was my mother i don't have one

  • @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq
    @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq Год назад +3

    Yhooo 😭😭😭😭😭Hai shem abantu💔💔💔

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 7 месяцев назад +2

    U are right my sister Tembisa doesn't take nonsense

  • @ZiziphoDlova
    @ZiziphoDlova 6 месяцев назад +1

    Yhoo I wanted to see lo Dideka ugezayo

  • @motlatsimoabi4273
    @motlatsimoabi4273 День назад

    Ha tsamaye.E bohloko taba yena

  • @naomimotlhasedi4086
    @naomimotlhasedi4086 5 лет назад +2

    Im so hurt to see this story. Im basically holding back the tears.

    • @bathsebabaatseba5469
      @bathsebabaatseba5469 3 года назад

      I cried how can you abuse your mother like that😭😭😭😭

  • @RichardZweni
    @RichardZweni Месяц назад

    Kubhuhlungu imphela kodwa labo mam bethu bafihla izinto ezibopha thina

  • @RTshidi
    @RTshidi 6 лет назад +10

    Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞

  • @shirleynkgadim360
    @shirleynkgadim360 2 года назад +1

    Heart breaking

  • @motlatsimoabi4273
    @motlatsimoabi4273 День назад

    We are happy nkgone and we happy.

  • @DinidineoMonate
    @DinidineoMonate 4 месяца назад

    🎉Sorry gogo i wish u can get help nd live wth peace one day she will need u ❤

  • @nomvulaveronicangema566
    @nomvulaveronicangema566 Месяц назад

    Cha ismanga ke lesi uDideka athi umama wakhe udidekile kodwa nguye odidekile, sbonge ngoba ugcine ehambile engambulalanga unina ngoba cishe kwafika lapho nd noNkulunkulu uyisimanga ngoba uvele wamgcina lomama nkosyam

  • @serve932
    @serve932 Год назад +1

    She was really beautiful

  • @jaytouch7214
    @jaytouch7214 6 лет назад +20

    I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out

  • @emeliamokoena5221
    @emeliamokoena5221 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hiw can i get hold of Gogo Frieda? I know here very well and want to assist her.

    • @mlungisimazolo9986
      @mlungisimazolo9986 7 месяцев назад

      I also was wondering because I would also love to help her if you find any info please let me know.

  • @thandolwethugama8818
    @thandolwethugama8818 4 года назад +11

    Imagine raising a child for her to treat you like this ? Yoooh l hope gogo is okay and happy now

  • @tshepisAtricia
    @tshepisAtricia 6 лет назад +13

    This brought me tears (sleeping on the floor & hiding food ) thats a real struggle 😭..what kind of a person is Dideka pure evil

    • @kabelokhanye9704
      @kabelokhanye9704 6 лет назад

      Tshepisaw Tricia it’s really sad 😔 hey💔it’s breaks my to think that we have such abusive humans towards their parents in their own home

    • @luu_leratoluthando442
      @luu_leratoluthando442 4 года назад

      😭

  • @KhanyiswaMabusela
    @KhanyiswaMabusela Месяц назад

    UStetelegu Media angamusiza uGogo,umuntu ongabhalela iStetelegu Media angasizakala uGogo

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 2 года назад +1

    Please T V s a b C , continue with your good work don't stop please.

  • @vhonaniramagwa2982
    @vhonaniramagwa2982 3 года назад +3

    TO BE HONEST THE ONLY WAY TO GET HELP IS GOING TO TV HAPPY FOR YOU GOGO WE LOVE YOU.

  • @nollzdee1488
    @nollzdee1488 7 месяцев назад +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My heart is bleeding, can we donate for uGogo please

  • @LeboDlamini-g5p
    @LeboDlamini-g5p 7 месяцев назад +1

    🥲😭😭this story though cuts deep i wonder where is gogo now

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 года назад +2

    Freda🥰🥰😍

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 года назад +2

    As for namanyana feela 😂😂

  • @mapasekaclara4689
    @mapasekaclara4689 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sis mara lontombazane why ahlukumeza umama wakhe cha guy's dineo plz help this granny ,,,abuse in her house no ,guy's

  • @MondliMhlongo-db9vd
    @MondliMhlongo-db9vd Год назад +1

    Umuntu usazoguga ubuhle buphele iyo😅

  • @thembelangcobondwana3952
    @thembelangcobondwana3952 6 лет назад +4

    This is so sad man... 💔

    • @angapichy1261
      @angapichy1261 6 лет назад

      very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused

    • @thembelangcobondwana3952
      @thembelangcobondwana3952 6 лет назад

      This Dideka is sick man yhoo

  • @NokuthulaDhlamini-o5z
    @NokuthulaDhlamini-o5z Месяц назад

    Hi, how do i get a hold of this programme, i have a neighbor who desperately needs help, or rather how do i go about to get social workers involved?

  • @nokuthulamdokwe4107
    @nokuthulamdokwe4107 4 года назад +5

    Dideka😭 I hope you've changed, I feel sorry for Dideka's kids too they are taught evil at young age

  • @thabangprudie1249
    @thabangprudie1249 6 лет назад +4

    it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana

  • @MóTee1
    @MóTee1 7 месяцев назад +1

    This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.

  • @mapulaledwaba9373
    @mapulaledwaba9373 7 месяцев назад +1

    My heart breaks for Gogo Freida 💔. This is cruelty

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 2 года назад +2

    I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.

  • @fundiswamacamba
    @fundiswamacamba 7 месяцев назад +1

    xhosa guys always get what is ungetable syawina

  • @ItssJustMo
    @ItssJustMo Год назад +1

    These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽‍♀️she must just Go..😡

  • @letschatwithkeam3820
    @letschatwithkeam3820 6 лет назад +2

    My heart broke by listening to this. Yah nehhhh...#sigh

  • @thegab_7
    @thegab_7 Год назад +1

    What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 7 месяцев назад +1

    Government is to slow I'm so hurt yaz

  • @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299
    @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299 4 дня назад

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 5 лет назад +5

    Yabona sangomas must be burnished in this world especially in S.A. man these ppl are cruel 😠

  • @hlonelambiko2494
    @hlonelambiko2494 7 месяцев назад +1

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 7 месяцев назад +1

    How mara 💔 haai

  • @PulengLegodi
    @PulengLegodi Месяц назад

    Haaai witchdoctor ruined a great relationship between mother and daughter hle 😢people lets run to God 🙏

  • @sallynhlanhla
    @sallynhlanhla Год назад +1

    People must stop going to sangomas and trust in JESUS, that's it! Look at what that initial trip to the sangoma did to this once happy family.

  • @thitikwanemokgadi6271
    @thitikwanemokgadi6271 6 лет назад +2

    But God😢😢😢

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 5 лет назад

      Thitikwane Mokgadi shuuuu this is sad and gogo is so cute 🥰

  • @lifewithanita1937
    @lifewithanita1937 5 лет назад +5

    I am so hurt yooh i am extremely hurt ndinesngqala this is evil man

  • @filinadube6081
    @filinadube6081 6 лет назад +6

    How can you do this to your mom.Dideka wake up find your own place

  • @tsholofelorebecca1837
    @tsholofelorebecca1837 5 лет назад +3

    Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority

    • @Art4Fun937
      @Art4Fun937 7 месяцев назад

      An embarrassment to our profession

  • @merriammokgothu8361
    @merriammokgothu8361 Год назад +1

    😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @KarenMuller-l3w
    @KarenMuller-l3w 4 месяца назад

    😂😂😂 A weak🙌🤣🤣🤣

  • @lungisilekhambule6538
    @lungisilekhambule6538 4 года назад +2

    Social development is failing older people😢

  • @igletmolatudi3321
    @igletmolatudi3321 6 лет назад +3

    This Dideka rubbish needs to go to prison

  • @rayenelevid1270
    @rayenelevid1270 2 года назад +1

    She left may she never come back ever cos she's just waiting to inherit it the house fela