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Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near
I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?
Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside... My life is fruitful because i did my part. God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏
I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out
How can a child treat her mother in such a way..she heartless jooh..i can never treat my mother like that after everything she has done for me..i will forever be grateful..hope gogo gets to live in peace and harmony with her neighbours..she's truly blessed to have people like that around her...
I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.
No matter how a parent triggers you never do this ! My gran does trigger us always kodwa we know at the end Wuye ophethe iynhlanhla zethu 😭an elder sleeping down?no nkala
Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞
Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness
This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.
This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠
What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious
Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority
it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana
These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼♀️🤦🏽♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽♀️she must just Go..😡
Dideka you are really confused and just for saying that your mother is a witch you've cursed yourself what you are doing to her your kids are going to do it to you 😢 nobody is going to feel sorry for you shame 😭
I am so disappointed in our social development and police system and our government in general. It's nonsensical to only do their jobs when cameras expose them. Dideka is also wicked, how do you treat your mother like this? Parents are very godly she should know better because she is also a mother
very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused
UGogo was so beautful itjoooh🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yes
If she thinks Gogo is bewitching her, then she should go find her own house maan NXA😠😠
Thank you..
One day di tla kgutla dintho tseo mohlang mme wa hao a tsamayang lefatsheng 🤞💔
How many lives have been ruined by Most sangomas? God I hope many will turn to you in prayer.
Sibongile Nhlapo then the pastor tells you that someone is blacking your blessings,is it not the same issue?
same issue with christianity. in fact any religion is kak
Not only sangoma’s even people. E.g neighbours, relatives etc
Sangomas are worse, but I don’t blame them, they need money
My heart broke into a million pieces 😢
Gogo Freida your suffering in this world certify you a big place in heaven. I hope your daughter can move out so you can live your life freely
Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near
This is heartbreaking, yo💔💔💔😭
I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?
you can say that again
Yoo ngempela yazi
Lomntwana uyadelela akaphume endlini kagogo usile lontombazane ayekwakhe sis
True
Ey mfethu me too I miss my mom even though wayengishiya wonke umhlaba kodwa I really wish she was here to see me now n grandkids😢❤
How I wish my mom and grandmother was around tjo o tlo itshola gal oo sham 😢💔
Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside...
My life is fruitful because i did my part.
God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏
Names are very spiritual
You would have to be a special kind of "broken" to treat an elderly like that.
I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out
Thanks to 2 lady s and TV
This is heart breaking 💔💔💔💔💔😭
How can this Dideka treat her mother like this! She has no heart
Her baby daddy chase her, now she is talking frustration on her mother.
Gogo has a very good heart, she is just like my mother 😍
Imagine raising a child for her to treat you like this ? Yoooh l hope gogo is okay and happy now
It's sad
The neighbours and Gogo Frieda are amazing 😭😭😭❤🙏
😔This is painful
Amen🙏
This is painful! God please intervene ,You are able to change hearts Lord! We leave everything in your hards ,change those we cannot change Lord!
Love u gogo kuzolunga umuhle futhi💖💖💖
This is so heartbreaking how could someone do this to their mother I feel sorry for such people who treat their parents this way
This breaks my heart💔.
Im even crying while watching this
Hiw can i get hold of Gogo Frieda? I know here very well and want to assist her.
I also was wondering because I would also love to help her if you find any info please let me know.
Love your elderly people please.😭😭😭😭
How can a child treat her mother in such a way..she heartless jooh..i can never treat my mother like that after everything she has done for me..i will forever be grateful..hope gogo gets to live in peace and harmony with her neighbours..she's truly blessed to have people like that around her...
I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.
This Dideka rubbish needs to go to prison
Dideka will never find peace for the way she treated Gogo. Gogo I am so sorry for what you went through, I hope you finally found peace 🥺🥺
@@earthy_12 you çan hear by her name she a problem
Why did they give her such name
Kaskalla jwalo 😢 this lady otlosotleha all hef life for hosotla ka mama hae
Dideka😭 I hope you've changed, I feel sorry for Dideka's kids too they are taught evil at young age
This brought tears ... ...Dikeka you are evil!!!
Mamo Seturumane shuuuuu😪😥
Im so hurt, sisi one day u gonna miss this woman😭
How can you do this to your mom.Dideka wake up find your own place
God bless the neighbors ❤️🙏
She was really beautiful
🥲😭😭this story though cuts deep i wonder where is gogo now
No matter how a parent triggers you never do this ! My gran does trigger us always kodwa we know at the end Wuye ophethe iynhlanhla zethu 😭an elder sleeping down?no nkala
Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞
Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness
Siyabonga bo makhelwane ukungenelela nisizenabanye
I wish this woman long life so that she can endure 10 times what this gogo is going through cos her kids are going to show her flames
100%
TO BE HONEST THE ONLY WAY TO GET HELP IS GOING TO TV HAPPY FOR YOU GOGO WE LOVE YOU.
This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.
This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠
My king I salute you ukhona lo uzongena it's true 😂uzoputshuka it's honest man
Ohhh just found myself crying 😭😭😭
I wish she was my mother i don't have one
Sis mara lontombazane why ahlukumeza umama wakhe cha guy's dineo plz help this granny ,,,abuse in her house no ,guy's
My heart breaks for Gogo Freida 💔. This is cruelty
xhosa guys always get what is ungetable syawina
What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious
Yabona sangomas must be burnished in this world especially in S.A. man these ppl are cruel 😠
They ruined a beautiful relationship. Satan's soldiers.
her words at the end of the show melted my heart, with her soft smile. she has really been through the worst.
I had teary eyes🥺😞
Freda🥰🥰😍
Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority
An embarrassment to our profession
This hurts alot, hope someone saves gogo😢
U are right my sister Tembisa doesn't take nonsense
Please T V s a b C , continue with your good work don't stop please.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My heart is bleeding, can we donate for uGogo please
Social development is failing older people😢
Uphi udideka. I want t see her yaz udidekile shame how cn u abuse ur own mother
it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana
Am happy for you Gogo peace and love that you deserve
What a touching story
Yhoo I wanted to see lo Dideka ugezayo
This brought me tears (sleeping on the floor & hiding food ) thats a real struggle 😭..what kind of a person is Dideka pure evil
Tshepisaw Tricia it’s really sad 😔 hey💔it’s breaks my to think that we have such abusive humans towards their parents in their own home
😭
These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼♀️🤦🏽♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽♀️she must just Go..😡
Yhooo ibuhlungu ibuhlungu 😢 ibuhlungu!!!! I can't even finish levideo
Government is to slow I'm so hurt yaz
My goodness 😢. Dj
Gogo is such s sweet soul
😢😢😢😢😢😢
Umuntu usazoguga ubuhle buphele iyo😅
Dideka you are really confused and just for saying that your mother is a witch you've cursed yourself what you are doing to her your kids are going to do it to you 😢 nobody is going to feel sorry for you shame 😭
That sangoma needs to be punished because he profesies twak
🎉Sorry gogo i wish u can get help nd live wth peace one day she will need u ❤
How mara 💔 haai
Yhooo 😭😭😭😭😭Hai shem abantu💔💔💔
my God I will paint my house nd buy hart pots nd meat😢
I am so hurt yooh i am extremely hurt ndinesngqala this is evil man
😔No words can describe the pain
It is
I am so disappointed in our social development and police system and our government in general. It's nonsensical to only do their jobs when cameras expose them. Dideka is also wicked, how do you treat your mother like this? Parents are very godly she should know better because she is also a mother
She trusted sangoma too much 😢
The sangomas kodwa
As for namanyana feela 😂😂
My heart broke by listening to this. Yah nehhhh...#sigh
This story breaks my heart 😭😭😭😭😭.
PAINFUL
Iam touched
Ending is very heartwarming ❤️
Gogo freda is a wonderful soul ❤️
Modimo o ho hlohonolofaditse Gogo🙏🏽❤️
The daughter with her children out.
❤😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉
😭😭😭💔💔💔
Im so hurt to see this story. Im basically holding back the tears.
I cried how can you abuse your mother like that😭😭😭😭
God bless the neighbors 🙏😭😭😭
This is so sad man... 💔
very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused
This Dideka is sick man yhoo
once again the name of izangoma is ruined by a few rotten individuals who lack sense and morality
Zangomas ruin people's lives by lying. Look at how they ruined a beautiful relationship of mother and daughter.
Mxm, I couldn’t finish this I hate watching this nonsense. Our government is failing old people...
People must stop going to sangomas and trust in JESUS, that's it! Look at what that initial trip to the sangoma did to this once happy family.
She left may she never come back ever cos she's just waiting to inherit it the house fela
Heart breaking
Ndihlutshwa landawo Athi gogo makahambe bcz indoda yakhe yeza rhaaaa Sana awusazi isinqalekiso osibeka phezu kwakho nabantwana bakho ngalento yenza Mzalini wakho