My husband was a lazy bone, I was the only one who worked on our marriage | Tuko TV

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2023
  • Alice Wangui would be in an on and off marriage for 9 years. She describes her man as a choosy lazy bone who would live in her house without an effort to work and or provide.
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Комментарии • 105

  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  8 месяцев назад +5

    If you have an opportunity you connect Alice Wangui Kinuthia with, kindly call her on 0717 903163
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    • @sarahwanalwenge4377
      @sarahwanalwenge4377 8 месяцев назад

      😊 31:34 😊

    • @paulinewambui3340
      @paulinewambui3340 8 месяцев назад +1

      Hao ndio wako.ukiona mwanaume anakula chakula na hajui ulitoa wapi,nyumba halioi ni kukula tu huyu fikuza cox ni parasite

  • @EstherKibui-vy7dm
    @EstherKibui-vy7dm 8 месяцев назад +15

    It's extremely heartbreaking to see how people go out there, have kids they can't take them to their mother in the village. When will your mother ever rest?? She needs a a break too.. You cannot change someone unw to change. Your mother would love a break!! Have children if you can takes care of. them. Don't take them to your mother.

  • @margaretlangat6712
    @margaretlangat6712 8 месяцев назад +9

    She is such a hard-working young lady.May you never lack.

  • @dorahmulinge3800
    @dorahmulinge3800 8 месяцев назад +6

    She's hardworking and a go getter. I love that about her. I hope the sun shines again on her.

  • @chepngetichdiana4708
    @chepngetichdiana4708 8 месяцев назад +5

    Honestly I feel she will welcome the bby daddy back, but until then let's wish her well.. Baby no. 4 loading.. As a psychologist I know this kind of on and off relationship

  • @evely2583
    @evely2583 8 месяцев назад +5

    Huyu watarudiana soon hajagive up na yy

  • @share-love
    @share-love 8 месяцев назад +11

    She is very intelligent, her English is so good 👌. She is hardworking but the mistake she keeps on repeating is allowing that lazy guy in her life again and again. Halafu anamrudisha square one! If she decides to say No to him, she will make it in life

  • @deborahmoige2363
    @deborahmoige2363 8 месяцев назад +10

    You can not change a man who doesn't see value in you as a woman

  • @puritykathi
    @puritykathi 8 месяцев назад +13

    I'm sorry for what you went through. For me, I refused this nonsense of having golden heart eti ni change a grown up man. Nilikubari kuwa single mother kitambo now life is good with my kid.

    • @robinsonmasai7690
      @robinsonmasai7690 8 месяцев назад

      Really?

    • @felistermuiruri8089
      @felistermuiruri8089 8 месяцев назад +1

      Tuko pamoja mrembo hii ujinga ya kubadilisha mtu akwede .....bure sana

    • @puritykathi
      @puritykathi 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@felistermuiruri8089 it's high time wanawake tuache ujinga.

    • @greatdestiny6690
      @greatdestiny6690 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@puritykathiwasting alot of time with ngamia,hio time yoote waeza jenga gorofa na ukanunua helicopters 😂

    • @puritykathi
      @puritykathi 8 месяцев назад

      @@greatdestiny6690 ukweli dear tuliachana mtoi akiwa some months sai ako 10yrs na nimenunua 1acre na kujenga permanent 3bdrms house.i don't entertain nonsense in my life

  • @stevebiko7828
    @stevebiko7828 8 месяцев назад +3

    It's painful but truly she is a hardworking lady and I like her. May God bless her and the children.

  • @janetokello9386
    @janetokello9386 8 месяцев назад +7

    Desparation yakuwa na mume,women amkeni jameni wawili is enough

  • @mamo.milian3111
    @mamo.milian3111 8 месяцев назад +10

    Most women think outside the box,they try to Change the family situation,but it can be hard being with someone who cant undeestand your Growth mindset.

    • @mamo.milian3111
      @mamo.milian3111 8 месяцев назад +1

      Alice you are very hard working n you sound very kind,your kindness might betray you,I was very Nice to pple but It Ended up almost putting me in a bad mental state,learn to set boundaries with this guy,everytime he comes to you,he want to be a Victim n he is manipulating you,from today start thinking about you n the kids,I have a family so i know the responsibilities you have,stop putting Other pples needs before your needs,focus on you n yo kids,You are very hardworking n yo financially intelligent.Dnt try to heal someone else,first work on your mental health,you are 29 yrs you r very young,you have many years to build your life.

    • @petergeorge102
      @petergeorge102 8 месяцев назад

      And viceversa,some of us have lazy wifes but tunavumilia pia

  • @annahnechesah1301
    @annahnechesah1301 8 месяцев назад +5

    Alikuwa na bibi mzuri mwenyewe akaharibu

  • @MuchuiKirema
    @MuchuiKirema 8 месяцев назад +5

    King'ori can we hear the other side of the story, from the father of the kids?

  • @elizabethnechesa
    @elizabethnechesa 8 месяцев назад +1

    But a hard working people always lands in the hands of silly lazy bones..Dear gal I wish you nothing but the best as you rebuild your life again

  • @millyadhiambo238
    @millyadhiambo238 8 месяцев назад +12

    My worry is after the 1st red flag n letting him in 1st 2nd 3rd n 4th time ukujua kuna family planning 😢?

  • @Kingdomgal-lo2dr
    @Kingdomgal-lo2dr 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wow I already love you, imagine your bringing out beauty in challenges I love your spirit, hauna pityparty att, cant wait for this followup after she"s bounced back

  • @faithmuisyo758
    @faithmuisyo758 8 месяцев назад +5

    This was me.the only man i ever had in my life since 19years.I know better but God blesses us.The future is bright lets focus on ourselves and our kids Na bila kusahau mungu.

  • @merrylin1359
    @merrylin1359 8 месяцев назад +2

    I really love you,even if you have gone through this,god is faithful he will continue to stand with you be blessed

  • @rerisamba
    @rerisamba 8 месяцев назад +3

    Nanikiangalia huyo mwanaume hajakuoa hio nicome and stay hujaolewa amkeni watoto wakike jamani na vile uko still young tena uko na bidii kweli

  • @maximillaradisa823
    @maximillaradisa823 8 месяцев назад +1

    Alice Alice Alice...hupatanangi na mwanaume mwingine..3 kids...anangojea ukuwe stable akuje kuweka 4th born

  • @yvonnejoyce
    @yvonnejoyce 26 дней назад

    Such a strong woman

  • @phangasasa-hlulizinyanga
    @phangasasa-hlulizinyanga 8 месяцев назад +1

    May God help her and kids❤

  • @josephineogonda2859
    @josephineogonda2859 8 месяцев назад +1

    Dada, you cannot change a man

  • @janetkanini2233
    @janetkanini2233 8 месяцев назад +4

    This gal is hardworking but hajihurumii....the guy will wait till mtoi afike 2yrs then boom! fourth born na ivo ndio atafanyiwa na uyo jamaa a single mom of 6.

    • @antonynkanata1834
      @antonynkanata1834 8 месяцев назад

      True. The lady is industrious,focussed en a go-getter but 4 her stubbornness. Most ladies think having ten kids will change their hubbies behaviour but ole wao!

    • @AlicesQoe
      @AlicesQoe 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@trizahmbaire2254😢

  • @b.9811
    @b.9811 8 месяцев назад

    Hiyo part ya economy serekali ya Ruto haitaki mtu mwenye anazaa ovyo is kind of funny😅 and 😥 at the same time.
    Somehow true somehow shocking❤❤❤❤

  • @kristinmwaniki5703
    @kristinmwaniki5703 8 месяцев назад +1

    If confusion was a husband Weuh 😢

  • @georgymahi149
    @georgymahi149 8 месяцев назад +3

    Expectations!! .... Trying to repair someone ..... It was not a marriage... this is boy/girl games (KALONGOLONGO).. Kwa nini mtu ana zaa zaa? And some think that ukimzalia atakua "responsible" Me sio judge .. everyone for themselves, God for us all. 🚶🚶🚶

    • @fire-n-smoke2878
      @fire-n-smoke2878 8 месяцев назад +1

      As man and wife.. They were only having sex. Pregnancy was last thing in mind.
      As you say, it's very important to realise that there's cause and effect, actions and reactions. This things will always be with us, whether we help or not, it's in our hands.

    • @florenceatieno3700
      @florenceatieno3700 7 месяцев назад

      Mtoto mmoja at least lakini watatu is a nooo

  • @judymwangimuthoni4176
    @judymwangimuthoni4176 8 месяцев назад +1

    Waaah vile nmeskia Gatundu, twin brother na the dad passing nmejua the ninja 😂 anyway its high time we as women learn that its not our job to raise a man

  • @happytsalakushe141
    @happytsalakushe141 8 месяцев назад

    Achia mamako watoy ujoin team fulus dada tuko huku tuna somesha ba tumejenga

  • @maggienyams8532
    @maggienyams8532 8 месяцев назад

    You are a good gal but why did you use family planning the second or third time any way God bless, you are a hard working lady

  • @user-kd1wk7jc1v
    @user-kd1wk7jc1v 7 месяцев назад

    Wa wa wa hey sisemi kitu.

  • @rerisamba
    @rerisamba 8 месяцев назад +1

    Waa mtoto wakike jamani wewe Huna nguvu za kugeuza mtu Mungu tu ndio ako na huo uwezo mbona unajingangania kwa huyo mume atakufanya upoteze sana

  • @florenceatieno3700
    @florenceatieno3700 7 месяцев назад

    Mimi nilishe mwanaume na hii economy ya sahii,nimlipie rent,na Bado nimzalie na haprovide nijikute😂..... wacha niitwe single mother

  • @peshwarrior
    @peshwarrior 8 месяцев назад

    I need to talk about my marriage life life too how can I reach you

  • @bellawangari8557
    @bellawangari8557 8 месяцев назад

    Sometimes women we are our own enemies. Love yourself ladies and don't bring kids into this world in a toxic marriage and when you are financially unstable.

  • @domicocyber4574
    @domicocyber4574 8 месяцев назад

    Am sorry toto.kwa nini sasa anakusumbua

  • @charitykawirambaabu9747
    @charitykawirambaabu9747 4 месяца назад

    Why is it hard to use family planning aki girls tutapata shida hii dunia 😔

  • @nancy1256.
    @nancy1256. 8 месяцев назад +1

    Wee kingori this is me aki I need to sit wth you And I give you my story weeuh

    • @michaelkamasia63
      @michaelkamasia63 8 месяцев назад

      Hahahahaha

    • @Tuko
      @Tuko  8 месяцев назад

      Kindly get in touch with me on kingori.wangechi@tuko.co.ke

  • @ReignSalma
    @ReignSalma 8 месяцев назад

    Na sasa umefungwa tubes?

  • @josephineogonda2859
    @josephineogonda2859 8 месяцев назад

    That's a man who fears responsibilities

  • @winniewangui116
    @winniewangui116 8 месяцев назад +4

    Why are you still having children. You had all the red flags one child with the situation was good enough.

    • @wanguiannmarimbet5726
      @wanguiannmarimbet5726 8 месяцев назад

      Anapenda marriage (Mrs)

    • @georgymahi149
      @georgymahi149 8 месяцев назад +3

      She loves him. She loves his game yet she is ever fertile...... Ni "kustukia tu!"

  • @sallyakinyi7004
    @sallyakinyi7004 7 месяцев назад

    Wueeh

  • @josephineogonda2859
    @josephineogonda2859 8 месяцев назад +1

    Serikali ya ruto haitaki mtu anazaa ovyo, weeeh 😢

  • @healthyforpurpose1898
    @healthyforpurpose1898 8 месяцев назад

    Am going through the same thing with this man he is good for nothing

  • @TessaMoraa
    @TessaMoraa 8 месяцев назад +4

    Nilidhani ni mm pekengu madancer na mc hukua ivo

  • @patrickkipchumba3807
    @patrickkipchumba3807 8 месяцев назад +1

    May be you are the one has a problem cz you cant move away na mtu amekusalisha 3 kids

  • @gracekamunya6823
    @gracekamunya6823 8 месяцев назад +6

    Sijui kwanini naona huyo mwanamme akirudi na ampatie mimba ingine.he's the best sperm donor!!!

    • @janejaney2022
      @janejaney2022 8 месяцев назад

      🤣🤣

    • @totietoo6218
      @totietoo6218 8 месяцев назад

      Probably yes , juu hiyo frequency waaa 😅😅

    • @catherinekariuki9824
      @catherinekariuki9824 8 месяцев назад

      Was sperm necessary then boom

    • @edwinamboyi9138
      @edwinamboyi9138 8 месяцев назад +1

      Na wanaume uwaonee miles distance,,, while you are looking for something to do.

    • @WambuiMuguti
      @WambuiMuguti 8 месяцев назад

      I don't like how you guys are honest and going straight forward to the point😂😂😂😂

  • @elizabethchebby2607
    @elizabethchebby2607 8 месяцев назад +2

    huyu mupermanent wako ni kama my baby dady he even went ahead akahepa na mtoi wangu ndo anipin down ntumangw doo 😅sijui hali ikoje huko ju niliwacha kutuma doo

    • @catherinekariuki9824
      @catherinekariuki9824 8 месяцев назад

      Don't send any coin my sister talking through my experience 😢

    • @elizabethchebby2607
      @elizabethchebby2607 8 месяцев назад

      @@catherinekariuki9824 I cant nangoja mwenyewe arudishe mtoi vile alimchukua

    • @carolinemakezi5926
      @carolinemakezi5926 8 месяцев назад

      I hope the child is not suffering.

    • @elizabethchebby2607
      @elizabethchebby2607 8 месяцев назад

      @@carolinemakezi5926 mtoi yuko poa kabisa hawezi taka nione ameshindwa kulea 😂 huwa anampost daily

  • @pawlynshiku2221
    @pawlynshiku2221 8 месяцев назад

    Huyu mwanaume alice nilikwambia tu

  • @fire-n-smoke2878
    @fire-n-smoke2878 8 месяцев назад +2

    Has she considered hysterectomy.. Juu there are very high chances that she'll end up with this man again.
    But the danger is, she's risking her health and life, as when this man is away, it's my opinion that he sees other women to fill in the gap. Is that something she wants to risk?
    She can allow access to the dad for children, but what she needs is Jesus in her life, to direct her feet, as she's been tripping alot.

  • @silviachebet4136
    @silviachebet4136 8 месяцев назад +1

    Lea watoi sasa atleast they have one father .acha na uyo jamaa

  • @edithonyango5021
    @edithonyango5021 8 месяцев назад

    What yaani you still want this man back???😂😂😂aty akuje na wazee,my dear it won't change anything atakupiga sasa character development ingine Moto kabisa

  • @marianjenga1470
    @marianjenga1470 8 месяцев назад

    Heee Mimi nimechoka pia can you imagine 10yrs na mtu anakaa Tu kwa nyuba 😢😢 am the one who is working am fedup😢 kwanini wanaume wamekataa kufaya kazi nowadays 🙄🙄

    • @Blessed591
      @Blessed591 8 месяцев назад +1

      We allow them to . . .

    • @carolynegichangi8012
      @carolynegichangi8012 8 месяцев назад

      So unfortunate...hope you find yourself.. you became a 'Bob builder' for him😮

  • @kerinafula7089
    @kerinafula7089 8 месяцев назад +1

    You brought this on yourself

    • @WambuiMuguti
      @WambuiMuguti 8 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂True

    • @gracekitema-cq3gv
      @gracekitema-cq3gv 8 месяцев назад +1

      Wacha kimrambe alijitakia mwenyewe ata Hawa wanawake wagikuyu vile upora Hawa wanaume kabila zingine wacha tu but mungu akuinue amekuwa mwerevu Sasa

    • @WambuiMuguti
      @WambuiMuguti 8 месяцев назад

      Akili ni muhimu kwa kila kitu but how dare you welcome a man who runs away when you are pregnant, The moment you need him most...

    • @antoninahesatia1677
      @antoninahesatia1677 8 месяцев назад

      Hata ununue hadi underwear mummy ukiachwa ni hivyo...... anyway hug's

  • @blessedfavored5154
    @blessedfavored5154 8 месяцев назад

    Aki mapenzi wewe hmm

  • @topmarkwriters806
    @topmarkwriters806 8 месяцев назад

    I guess your husband was from Murang'a

  • @annaoduor2487
    @annaoduor2487 7 месяцев назад

    Boring.common sense is very important.if it's not working leave