'It shall never be well with you!' The words of my mother-in-law. Soon after, my marriage broke
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- Esther met her husband while she was studying in South Africa. They fell in love, moved in together and soon, they were expecting a child. Esther says that her husband truly loved her, showered her with money and anything she needed. She felt like a queen. However, their bliss would only last for a while. According to Esther, her mother-in-law interfered with her marriage so much.
At one point, she uttered words that Esther still remembers to-date: IT SHALL NEVER BE WELL WITH YOU. Soon after, their marriage broke and she returned to Kenya. Here is her story
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Since I started watching this channel , I have learnt to respect single mothers.
This lady is very genuine. Genuinely pointing into her flaws.
Hello Monica the stories you bring are very educative and inspiring. Am requesting you please don't rush the guests allow some to have part 1 and 2 those that are very long this stories are therapy
Enyewe my dad was a rare gem. He always defended my mother from my grandmother and his family. Its unfortunate his life was cut short so early.
Esther I love your story ❤️ and its similar with mine,I left my early marriage because of mother in law and the sisters 12yrs single and happy
@Jacinta Maina kila mtu akae kwao if you want peace tonduu weeee
My Schoolmate, the lady who welcomed me to Joburg from Easterncape South Africa. Her story is so genuine. Keep on pushing Esther. May God open more doors for you gal
Thanks love,penda wewe sana😘
Can we talk am here in cape town
I could listen to this lady all day...
Beautiful lady,u can listen to her the whole day.
This is the best inspiring story I have ever heard… A learning lesson for both married and single couples
Ahsante Monica🇬🇧
I have learnt too much
She looks like lyne ngugi
Happy to see you Esther we schooled together at Githunguri girls
I like her story the way it's flowing well and the selflove.
Listening to her story I feel she's genuine, the story is flowing very well u even don't want it to end ... She even accepts her mistakes ... All the best Esther🎉❤ ... Looking forward to part 2
Part 2 is coming of her asking for forgiveness to that Same family stay tuned I hope the story will still flow as it is flowing to you now and thank You Esther for coming out to clear that family’s name i was still hopeful that it was not you giving that story nothing beats peace and forgiveness
She is simply an amazing woman
I could listen to her all day
Lesson to be learnt there is no pride in suffering life is not a Nigerian movie
You can always start again ❤
Wewe ni mjeuri.
First time watching someone i recognise at metha ... happy to see you ester after many years ....we went church school pamoja at mahigani peca...class mate at ndemu class 5.
Nitafuta kwa email, watching from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
You are very intelligent and a strong woman and a wife material keep staying strong
To my suggestion once you marry keep distance to your inlaws to make your marriage successful , not with hatred but with love
This lady has a beautiful heart and spirit about her. May God bless you
Wow, hii story imeflow vizuri Sana, I like how she's composed
In fact Monica could have told her there is part 2 for her to narrate all of it she's a vibe and she doesn't give a damn she is typical me I have a narcissist baby daddy who is typical her baby daddy but mine hakuwa mpole wangu hata kufight we did
my old friend good lady her heart is the best i know. i listen to her most of the time and i don't get tired.
Oh Nimuu, thanks gal, wuuuuui tutafutane mamaa
I love her voice and she’s a great storyteller .May God restore you and find a man that truly loves you,your destiny ni nèene.
I love this woman self esteem very high
Yes it's better to love yourself first and make a peaceful dicission than hurting yourself in the name of status 😊good gal
Esther personality is huge and you can confuse her to be proud and I feel that's what the in laws maybe misunderstood cos she has a voice and she's very sincere and genuine and I nullify those words by mother in law and declare greatness in your life and your children's life in Jesus Mighty name Amen.
Amen, thanks dear
Bezvalley, Bruma hoyeeee!!! shiks waaa what a story!!! life goes on Mungu mbele💯💯
The lady is so beautiful and mature
Beautiful, eloquent and sincere..must be a nice gal.
Easther even me I left my 4 yr marriage coz of mother inlaw weee...am happily single now her son jump from 1 woman to another wacha kiwarambeee
Esther was my school mate a humble lady.
Hae namesake
A lady of substance
Women of substance!
Thanks dear
At least i have an understanding husband who defends me from inlaws otherwise some of our stories ni kama drama. Nigerian movies kando
Married people should protect their spouses, and the sister in-laws God is watching
If you are married tafadhali,bad news za family ya in-laws let their son or daughter pass it.Often its twisted to mean wewe ndiye unskataa.
I admire how your bold talking true,yuve healed
Good interview, she's very real hajaonesha herself as soo innocent and she has also shown you should not allow circumstances bring you down. Hii nayo is no. 1.
My classmate in high school...more grace dear for sure you are a lady of substance
Thanks sue,be blessed
Wow you are such a sweet lady, I love it, you are a genuine and a sweet soul, I have learnt I will never host inlaws or my own family
She is so pretty as well and i like it that she went to sa and she speaks perfect kikuyu
Next time Kiondo itajaa MCA Esther 🙏🏽✊🏽
This is a Woman of SUBSTANCE ⭐
Kwanza ukiona mwanaumme mpole hana maneno mingi jua atakuwa wale wakushout, mwenye kuficha mambo usijue chenye anafanya, am married but this is Story of my life he don't tell me anything unajua mambo na marafiki, he don't if talk or want discussion, kushout kama mtu ako na stress Zake mara "wacha kugongesha mlango" ukifanya makosa kidogo makelele mara kufura
Im also married to a hypocrite hio upole nikujifanya. Yaani mko na msee kwa nyumba unastukia mambo anafanya na unajua na marafiki zake. Ni urimu
@@rosegithiri7383 Aki hio maisha huwa ni stressful
Weee
Very true, it happened to me.
Esther your such a strong woman,very confident and full of hopeful .
Wow, this is very brave. I thought i was the only one encountering this kind of loneliness. Speaking up takes alot of courage. I would listen time and again, am soo encouraged
Weeee pia wewe uko uku
@@marymaina9090 Niko mtu wangu, za masiku?
Nko fyn
Story of Courage and a Lady with Self Love. You moved out in Time. I appreciate your family of origin. Very sober and stable. Theor support to Esther was timely. It is the way it should go. Not telling a girl to vumilia until she is killed or maimed.
Great story Monicah.. But you seem distructed by ur phone throughout the interview.. Kindly when interviewing someone, keep your fone away so that it doesn't distructed you.. It sends a wrong message to the guest and also the viewers.
Well said,..
Truee
She is a beauty
Esther thanks for talking about this story I remember you.that family made my life a living he'll.
Pole muiru wakwa,there is God in heaven mama
@@esthernjuguna2690wow and why I’m I seeing this now,Esther welcome back nothing beats peace and forgiveness 😊
I love her confidence and self-love
Hehe, I am married to an introvert. After years of therapy, I went for karate self defense, ten years later... kuna heshima
😂😂😂its not easy
I think nitaenda karate before kuolewa 😂😂😂
You went to SA when I was leaving ciz I left SA october 2011.A beautiful country with life.
Ama hawa watu walikuwa wachawi...after all the mother-in -law said many things will happen..even the way this man behaved,giving the baby food!!The man came from a wachawi family...😢😢
I’m just seeing this comment now,I wish people are not so quick to judge ,this same lady giving this story has come back to that same family Unaita wachawi to ask for forgiveness because she wronged them by sitting here and spreading stories that are not true,I hope you will still be here to comment the same when she comes back with a part 2 asking for forgiveness
She even claimed that she was insighted by people to do that,I wish there’s a place I can pin photos of her with that family looking happy together recently
Woi ladies tujipende aki, let us not ignore the red flags whatsoever. Let us empower ourselves as well , madharau ingine it's not fair. Tuache kutegemea mtu for everything si poa. Mungu hujibu maombi
A very good story from a lady of substance Esther Gmende, former high school mate. Big up to her
Thanks dear, long time
I really want to listen to her more,a good speaker and kagoni the best listener
I have learnt frm this story. We strive to impress in laws at the cost of our happiness.
Moral of the story. Girls, no matter how much in love you are do not sacrifice your education or financial independence. Love is a fleeting emotion which fades with time but financial independence you will be respected.
👍 good
true
An amazing n wise woman who keeps her lane .
Wow such an amazing woman soo inspiring story she is soo confide u can never get bored listening to her all day thanks monicah the the show ❤
Same shenenagins my family does to my sister inlaw of 25years..i stand for her but its sickening to dislike a woman who came to ur home.
It's very educative story
Hapo kwa barua ya apology ,Yours faithfully wife ❤❤❤❤❤.Is a nooo!
Ladies, when you meet in a foreign land with a man dont ever rely on him. First of all we leave our own country with mission. Its okay to get married but please be your own boss. It's your family that escorted you to the airport in the first place and let them always wait for you when you get back. My thoughts though.
Gari ya mwanaume, wachana nayo!!! Its their toys, even if he loves you, his toy the car is loved the most than you. From experience!!
Learnt that from my own dad.🤣🤣
Very true,cars are their small gods.
We have sisters-in-law who interfere with their brothers families and end up breaking them
Ooh now I understand my dad n his pickup
My hubby has never had issues with me driving his car. Before anything his kids and I are thebmost important
I think Abt kujuana vizuri ndio muoane it does not matter coz Kuna watu hukutana Leo wanaoa wanakaa.. wengine wanajuana years ndio waoane but they divorce
The way I enjoy being single 14yrs later😂😂 infact I cringe at the thought of a man near me. 😊
It is well Essy...hugs Mama...you are destined for greatness
Thanks dear
I listen to this story everyday.....Kagoni where is part two
Thanks gal
Esther looks calm and a good lady.i have listened to her and the same thing happened to her that exactly what happened to me.
Monica thanks for what you do. But at times we don't get the s. ory as it should be. Could you include her journey after she landed in Kenya to-date? Thanks.
She has a good voice like lynn
This story is similar to....,Ilove this lady❤
Am from Muranga, and my grandmother used to tell us beware of Kiambu men and women, that explains mother in-law and sister in-law 😮
These are stereotypes. There are good people and bad people. I was married in Muranga and my in-laws chased me away. They were nasty, nasty,nasty. Let us not generalize
Stereotyping is the word Njeri even us from Kiambu we have been told don't marry from Murang'a or Nyeri but who are we tuliolewa huko.People are different toa hio mentality madam
I'm a certified nyerian but I already fear them.
Weuh am from Nyeri but by grace of God I bought property in Kamangu Kiambu My neighbours are the old women and I can tell you they destroy their son's family without thinking twice.When I research around they face the wives to the son's as property takers apparently they prefer their daughters to stay home and take care of their grandchildren
Am from kiambu and I can say hakuna kuzuri because am married in Nyeri woiiii huko ndio Kubaya, men get controlled by their mums, Nayo muranga ndio mbaya kabisaaa siwezi talk of uchawi na shida mingi hadi wakipata ukikula sausage kwako ni shida unawaste pesa ya kijana yao.
A good story teller I love her vocal
I loved my in laws to bits and supported them alot financially.The moment my husband died, they all turned against me and wanted our property which we had bought with my late husband.
They were in for a very rude shock!
The property was in our both names! That's some inlaws for you.
You are lucky everything was under your both names,mine siezi enda ata kwao,he is aware watu wao ni mahuru bt he is so reluctant in taking action on letting me know about his properties,Jamaa ako na Mali BT Niko gizani n hakuna hope ya kuwai sikizana na watu wao.He has grown tukiwa na yeye I got him akiwa chini bt he only consult me for advices BT kunihusisha kwa Mali anaweka mipaka...I feels like giving up nikiwaza Kesho bt I know IPO siku...
I went through this. Just reminded me many years ago but we were not out of the country. We are both out of the country. Stereotype of good men are from here or there is wrong. What a story.
This girl was my highschool mate she was good Esther it is well
A beautiful woman there,may it be well with you
Amen
Waigumoo nakumbuka ukiwa kwa babu (guka difaa) sure urembo haiijaiishaa, it shall b well , I remember those days ukiwa gikigie, umebarikiwa sana
Amen dear,thank you 🙏
This lady is a vibe and eloquent.
This story has really touched my heart koz for me now I feel like am loosing it,,,5 yrs in marriage but what am going through is like am in hell😓😭
What a happy ending...dust yourself and pick up from where you left.. leave that family alone your peace and mental health matters most
This woman is wise,,,,,
The mother in law, will cry twice
My case is like hers when i get the strength to talk about it mutaionea hapa tu,mimi nilipata depression nkiwa na mtoi wa 4 months na mimba ingine nawakati nilipeleka mtoi kwa mam inlaw mara ya kwanza ju alikuwa anagonjeka saa zote nilikuwa nashinda hosi,weeeh niliambiwa mtoto wao awezi kaa na mwendawazimu,mimi sasa,nasaizo nimemzalia watoto watatu,will never forget i tried commiting suicide with my kids but God saved me
Zambezi/Muthure/King'eero is my area....so locked .The story is 😘
My schoolmate, women of substance tutihakagwo machuru.. ’much love from America
Hi Pauline, long time dear
@@esthernjuguna2690 long time dear , you made the right decision, may you get the partner of your dream.
Uko huku kadem
@@arianenjoki4625 hey it’s like huku ndio watu wa na connect😂😂 long time!! I lost your contacts
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There always this sisters in law who are ever left at home,are so arrogant,they never get along with anyone but they expect to be adored. Amazingly they never move from home but never like the wives of their brothers. Are always spiteful and vengeful
This lady is such a vibe.
Money can not replace the position of a man. Never!
So encouraging gal your one of the ladies I admire
His reaction when you said you are leaving was not good.he is dangerous
Some things people make other people through 😢 weuh no wa thi urihagirwo u guku thii ino
Such a beautiful lady
Wuee this story inafanya nitetemeke it is so familiar
In laws are necessary evils!
Ciakwa kimi!
Listening to this whole story this was a power couple, problem is he listened to his family , if he marries again they will do the same . Esther know this to be true as it is written in Proverbs 26:2 his moms words are null and void. You an amazing woman , disconnect yourself with that relationship and pray for a husband.God bless.
Never sacrifice your education for love ladies
I really like your episodes
That guy was kinda of Narcissist
i love her story ...
Wow....the story is so Soo interesting and addictive
She is beautiful
Congratulations monicah thanks💖🌹♥️