Q&A - Answering YOUR Questions: Dating After Divorce, Moving Out of TX, Building Trust Again, Health
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- Опубликовано: 19 июн 2024
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Video suggestion- How you plan your solo trips. How do you decide where you want to visit, the research you complete on the area, do you use a travel agent or search online for best deals and what do you do to protect yourself and ensure you safety while traveling solo.
Great question! I was curious about her safety as well.
Love this idea!!!
I second this idea!
I agree
I love this idea as well. I am a senior lady and my husband does not like to travel. I’ve been thinking for a while about solo trips. I would love some tips and ideas and guidelines. That would be awesome!
Girl, stop paying for his health insurance! I am happy for you, you are an amazing person, you deserve everything good in life.
He works for the DODGERS right ! The the Sandiego Dodgers if I'm corrects cause sports bore the hell out of me , but why would you have you pay for his health insurance ? Your divorced?
Might be a part of the divorce settlement that she has to pay his health insurance
@@sarahneidrich2612 might be, still so crazy! I would not pay a dime to that lazy guy. Although she's very nice, too nice, so I get her point I suppose...
His unfaithfulness should make this null and void. You owe him nothing.
@Brenda Collazo, I think his health insurance was paid through her bank, which may have been their joint account when they were married. She said she venmoed (? Spelling?) him which I think means she billed him for reimbursement since it is still drafted from her bank account. I know for a fact that she cannot stop the draft. I had an insurance company that failed to stop a draft when I canceled the insurance. I went to the bank to stop it and the bank said the insurance company would have to stop it. So be aware that you lose control when you authorize a bank draft.
Yes on the trust thing! Even texting from each others phone when the other is driving and not worrying that there will be a suspicious text coming is so refreshing. If your partner guards their phone that's a red flag imo
So true! Especially the last sentence!
I'm so happy for you and your boyfriend/ man you're dating. It must feel so heartwarming to know he gets along well with your loved ones.
I can’t wait to share more of him w my RUclips friends 🥰🥰
@@MichelJanse no thnx we don’t want the infection he gave you
I am so happy that you are so happy! ❤️
It is totally fair to call your bank and tell them that a certain charge isn’t approved and have it blocked. It’s not on you if his insurance is canceled because of it. Over half a year is plenty of time for him to figure that out. And the fact that he hasn’t yet is just another example of him taking your kindness for granted and treating it as weakness. After your divorce video I watched a video of you and him doing a vlog together and then I watched a vlog of you alone in Texas. The difference is night and day. There is literally a light around you that you didn’t have when you were married.
I totally see and feel a huge difference as well! So happy to see you radiate through to this chapter in life Michel! You deserve the very best!
Yes! The bank can stop those payments if you ask them too. Even PayPal etc, just inform them they’re not for you, explain your situation, and most places understand and block the money from being taken out.
I’m just so proud of you 👏🏻 And here’s a little shout out for your editor… Go TARA!! ♥️
TARA IS MVP!🥰🥰🥰
I found you because of your divorce video showing up in my feed and now I love watching! Love the Q&A videos and how open and vulnerable you’ve been through everything you’ve gone through and shared. You seem so sincere and genuine!
Thank you, Lauren. This is so kind 🥰
Me too RUclips recommended it 😎
I second that..you have become one of my favorites! Your so sincere and kind and very easy listen to. you articulate your feelings so well in all your videos and I really appreciate that also! 😊
Me too! I have been catching up though 😄
I actually started watching you due to your relationship content years ago when you were at around 75k subscribers. Now, you’ve nearly doubled your follower count. We’re the same age (just a few weeks apart in birthdays), so it really does feel like I’m watching and cheering on a good friend. You are so incredible and should be so proud of the community you have fostered here. 💞
🥹🥹🥹 this has me in tears. Love you so much, friend!
PLEASE do a video on how you plan! I would love to see a tour of your apps, how you map out your schedule and to-dos, etc!! :)
I have been obsessed with your videos for like a week. We are very different in terms of beliefs but I find you so refreshing and open minded.
Also, I love how you carry yourself and how sweet you are.
Thank you, Dani. I’m so glad you’re here hanging w me!🥰🥰
Michel, I have been watching your vlogs for many years. I have always enjoyed them. However, you are so much lighter & less stressed since your divorce. When you answered the question would you go back to him...I said out loud no... before you answered. So happy you are in a good place now. PS I hope you continue for a long time...we would miss you! :)
Love that your videos are long, I watch every moment. VERY happy to see you thriving and enjoying life. You deserve it! 🌺
I’ve never seen an editor put notes in a video and I’ve watched A LOT of RUclips. That was cute, like an imaginary friend feel. :)
you’re my absolute favorite. thank you for being you.
Love these q and a videos. They're great and refreshing. It's nice for me to know that your parents are close to my age. I think they're lovely and so are you!
I’m going through a divorce (counting down the days until august 23rd 😅) after my husband decided he wasn’t “happy”, didn’t think we were compatible, and also had feelings for another woman…while I was 7 months pregnant. It was devastating for a straight 4 months. He put me through hell. But once i officially decided to file for divorce (he didn’t want to work on our marriage but wouldn’t be the one to file), I now have so much peace. I know my worth (I had actually been developing it the last three years of our marriage as he wasn’t giving me emotional/physical validation so I had to make myself happy on my own). I was a Christian when I got married and while I no longer identify as a Christian, I relate a lot to your whole journey! I’ve learned so much because of my marriage, I realized all the insecurities I had that made me choose my (soon to be ex) husband to begin with, and I am just SO much more confident in my own skin and like I said before I truly know my worth. I would have stayed married forever to my ex, especially with a kid, but I have now come to a place of relief that he did all that he did and gave me a clear reason to leave. Not that I’m in a rush to date, but whenever I do get back out there I’m excited to find a genuine, true PARTNER. Your ex-husband sounds VERY similar to my soon to be ex-husband.
Rooting for you and sending you virtual hugs and plenty of love and sunshine.
That must have been really difficult to handle. I don't know you but I'm proud of you and I wish you plenty of great things in the future 😊
I absolutely love how much your confidence has grown....you definitely show that you're more happier than you use to be.
Also - you have the gift of making people feel special!!! You’re awesome! Keep it up. Thank you for being so open on the internet!
Hi Michel!!! I love your vlog to sit down video ratio!! Love all your videos really, but you balance your channel so well!
I am so glad to see you so happy and confident. You have grown so much since moving to Austin and I love your channel I am always inspired from you.
Michel one of my favorite things about you as a RUclipsr is how much you genuinely love it. I think a lot of people like the lifestyle being a youtuber gives them, but it is evident that you really enjoy all/most aspects of the job! It makes you so fun to watch and it makes it feel like we as the viewer are not a burden to you! Thanks for everything you do :)
I recently found your account a few weeks ago and watched most of your videos to catch up on your life. All I can say is you are a strong woman who is only getting stronger every day. I admire your independence, kindness, and relationship with your faith. So happy for you with your new guy ❤️
Would just like to thank you for your hard work and your wonderful videos. You truly put warmth and comfort in my heart every time I see one of your videos. You are wise beyond your years and it’s an inspiration to see you grow and how you have conquered your battles with such respect, kindness and grace. Wishing you all the positiv healing, health and happiness. Big virtuel hugs to you and Max from Denmark❤️
I’ve been your sistcriber lol sister/subscriber for YEARS! I am your #1 fan and LOVE your videos. I related so much to so many things and here recently with the news shades of life I’ve been able to grow myself and learn so much watching and listening to your videos. Thank you Michel for sharing your life and helping those whom need it…. Even though you may not realize it ❤️ love you 💜
I love these videos, you're always so wise and insightful. And when you give advice or guidance, you do it without preaching. You're doing great, Michel!
I’ve been seeing you since 2020 and I’ve totally noticed the difference in you and I’m totally here for it ❤️.
You are very well spoken, Michel. I sense the growth in you in the time I’ve been watching your videos. Take care!
Go Michel Go! It is lovely to see you bloom in this phase of life! (Also, love to Tara!😍)!
This shirt is incredible and your guy is so cute for giving it to you!! Loving this style overhaul you’re doing.
I had watched you before you got married for a while and enjoyed your vids but every so often I refresh my feed and I missed your marriage. I looked for you again recently hoping for the unboxing videos and I realised your life had changed so drastically so I found your moving to Texas video and your announcement about your divorce, in February, I binged watched everything you have posted since then, I love your kindness and consideration of others. You have been a joy to watch these last few months your journey has been hard but your attitude positive which has helped me so much. Don’t worry about the naysayers they are not living your life. You are a bright spot in so many lives. 💗
I’m so happy for you girl!!
YOU ARE SO SWEET. THIS MAKES ME HAPPY.
1000% agree with getting into different hobbies! People often forget about them as they get into adulthood, but it can be so fulfilling and freeing to get into them again. Falling back in love with old hobbies is something I recommend to everyone. That's why I love seeing your travel vlogs, hearing about tap dancing, and all the fun things you go out of your way to make time for.
I love YOUR hobbies, Ele! It’s so fun to see all of your creativity come through. Especially impressed w your makeup looks 🥰🫶🏻
@@MichelJanse Thank you! Playing with makeup is my favourite hobby, I love getting creative with it 😊
Living for your content Michel! I’ve always loved your videos but now you’re just next level with your openness and honesty. And YES, please go to Paris in the fall. I’d die for those vlogs lol! 💖💕
Love watching all your videos because of the person you are. So happy you are enjoying life and less stressed. You are an amazing young lady and I'm so proud of you
Yes, Michel! Confidence! I see it in you now more than ever... the way you talk, the fun and flirty clothes, the glow! You are shining SO bright! Amazing how well we do/feel when we learn from the trees and "drop the dead leaves."💞💞
Agreed! She is doing so much better!
Thanks Tara for editing! You are great!
You stratal the line of being effortlessly cool yet deliciously dorky at the same time. I love it. So glad I found your channel!
I will never skip an AD again!! Thank you for sharing :)
Just wanted to pop on here and say how much I enjoy all your content and how helpful it’s been to find during my own divorce. We’re in different seasons of life (I’m 37) but so much of what you say resonates. Thank you! ❤️
So glad for this video, I especially loved that your Mom put in her thoughts when you were married. ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR MOM, as a Mom we take offense when anyone hurts our kids….and we DO know, and given the opportunity we would seriously knock their block off if given the chance 😎 No, that isn’t thug life, it’s Mom life. So glad to see you are doing well, and happy. Hugs
Love your honesty. My husband and I have had the same lock code on our phones since we were first dating 11 years ago. We don’t really need to use it, but it helps with comfort and trust in our relationship.
Thanks for your honesty with your audience 💕
I’m so proud of you! Literally finding you a few years ago saved me! You helped me realize my worth and that I am capable of having control over my future! Its crazy how much a person can glow and smile when they remove themselves from a toxic environment, the last few months have been so blissful for me! I’m getting ready to move into a new apartment, in a new town with my best friend and was wondering what are your must have moving essentials? We’re trying to come up with things!
Wow, Michel, you have grown so much in the last several years!!! So wise beyond you years!!! I am blessed that I found you, even all those years ago, I have grown and had my own roller coaster rides. The new you has pushed the new me, to do better, and be me!! Love you friend!!
I would love to see a video/ or part of a vlog to be about all the organization and planning apps you use and what you recommend! Just a thought xx
Love your videos Michel. I respect you so much and what you’ve gone through.
Michel Q&A’s are my all time favourite 🥰
You are such a gift to this community and your open ness and honesty is so refreshing .
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It’s so crazy how EDS affects everyone so differently!! I have really horrible symptoms with mine. Def something to keep an eye out on! Thanks for bringing it up in the video bc awareness for EDS is huge since it goes under diagnosed :)
You are literally glowing Michel!! I am so happy for you - what a year it has been and I've said it time and time again but you've gone through the year with so much grace, respect, and kindness and to see you as happy as you are, it warms all of our hearts.
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It is so great to see you happy again! You are looking healthier and your glowing! Be blessed and be happy!!
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I found you because of your divorce video, it was the first of your videos that I watched. Ever since that video, I subscribed to you, turned all notifications on and I’ve gone back and watched previous videos. I think god sent your videos to me. He knew I wasn’t okay and that I needed some wisdom from such a pure soul (you) x
You are rocking it girl!!
Oh my gosh you look SO PRETTY!!! Pink is your color girl!!
Just wanted to jump in and say how much I love your Q and A videos. I love how open you are about growing and figuring things out and not always being sure and learning to be open to new things. I used to think I’d never want to live with someone before marrying them, then I got married and my perspective changed. I’m happily married, but I think ones perspective can be different after living through things and that’s probably healthy :)
You're a smart girl and a beautiful person (inside & out)! Wish I was that smart at your age. Thank you for sharing your life experiences to help others.
I don't skip your ads to show support because I really enjoy your channel and your authenticity. It's also so cool to find out about Tastemade because my husband and I watch that network lol
Michel you are a blessing to all of us 😁. Thank you for being so honest & open about your life. I'm so happy that you are doing better & are making exciting changes in your life!! I'm so glad to hear that your parents, sister & future brother-in-law really like the new guy in your life!! I'm also so glad that you're finally free from your ex & from the pain you went through. Only good things ahead for you!! Prayers & Wishes Lisa Hampton 😃
It is so GOOD to see you so much happier and at peace. I came across your channel when I myself was considering divorce and watching you grow and heal has been so wonderful.
Just a little about me and how I connect to your content... I am in a marriage broken by infidelity; I married very young, and with hopes that my husband and I would have a marriage strengthened in faith. I did not have the strength to leave and feel it is very unlikely I will ever leave this marriage for many complicated reasons. Sometimes I feel hopeless and so lonely but watching your videos gives a sense of strength and hope that I cannot find anywhere else. It can be so lonely to walk this path alone and finding your videos has brought so much comfort. It is so strengthening to see that it is posaible to thrive and be joyous despite such a heavy trial. Thank you for sharing your story and being a place of understanding. I rarely leave comments on YT but I really wanted to let you know the positive impact you're creating. I hope you know how fabulous you are! ✨️💕
I love these Q&A videos! Also your top is so pretty
Would LOVE to see your solo trip to Paris! And see you buy some clothes there, as I know you love the Parisian style. So excited for you! 😍
16:39 … speaking of small things that show big growth… I’ve been a long, long time subscriber (I still have merch from the tee spring days!) and to hear you so comfortable expressing that something made you mad, it’s kind of crazy to me! I remember when even hinting at negative feelings seemed so uncomfortable. It’s incredible to see the growth from then, learning to be more receptive and attentive to your own feelings, wants and desires. I know it was not even a second long snippet in a 30 minute vid, but it just struck me in such a way I had to come tell you how proud I am!! It is such a joy to follow your journey! 💛🐝🍯✨
I was able to see Jordy perform with Ben the night of the wedding! The concert was absolutely wonderful! 🥰
21:03 Tara's little response is so sweet. 😍
Definitely go to Paris. So fun!!
I never skip ads anymore for this reason!
Hello Michel! I just happened to stumble across your video where you were talking about your divorce. Wow - you are so mature for your age and so full of energy and positivity! I'm very glad that you look so happy now after seeing that video. Your are a beautiful person inside and out and have so much going for you. Congratulations on your new date!
Love the sit downs Michel! Let’s talk about your top.. please tell us you bought it! It’s made for you!
Hello! I’m from Texas too! Sadly, I’m going through a divorce as well and I found your channel a couple of days ago and you motivate me to stay positive and push through this tough time. Thank you! 💛
Sending lots of hugs your way! I’ve also been through a divorce and know how hard it is.
I had no idea about the ads but now I will be watching all of them!!!
It does feel like we're hanging out! And travelling was also what I did in my 20's. Great plan!
Love your vids!! 💞 Another vid suggestion! Maybe how you plan/keep organized with the programs/softwares or notebooks? Would love to hear more about your workflow.
That is so cool that you know what Ehlers Danlos syndrome is. It needs a lot more awareness! I have it also and during my 20’s it didn’t affect me at all, but now in my 40’s it has progressed a lot and my life has changed substantially! Please keep an eye on it and get genetic testing cuz without proper diagnosis it’s hard to get proper treatment! God Bless you! Love your videos
You have easily become my favorite RUclipsr! You have such a beautiful and sweet soul! I look forward to your content! May God continue to open doors for you and bless you! Thank you for being to genuine. Sending you hugs! Yazy;)
You are so ethereal and just so wonderfully you. I love your videos. Keep ‘em coming 😀
"If that makes sense", just found u a day ago, and you often said that sentence. YES, everything your telling is making soooo much sense! Thanks your being you an sharing your story :)
I found you a couple of weeks ago after you divorce explanation video and I've been freaking hooked ever since. I literally watch you all the time. although I have to say, I enjoy your post divorce videos more than the ones before. you can just tell there's a disconnect - you're so loving towards him and he was just kind of there. in your recent pictures with your new boyfriend, you both look genuinely equally happy to be together. it's amazing how much you can tell how more healthy this relationship is in JUST pictures alone. I can't wait to see where life takes you. you were stuck before and you are so free to create your own amazing life now and you're doing a damn good job so far. 😊
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Ah! Yes go to Paris! I’m going in December and would love to know where you go and what you do/eat!
Yes! I’ve been to Uchiko! We wanted to go for our anniversary but it was impossible to get a reservation. Ugh! Thanks for doing what you do! Can’t wait to work more full time in Austin. Such a cool vibe there!
So happy for you!! Also, need link to this stunning Top!
You have come so far personally and professionally. I'm happy for you and see the happiness in your face. I can see how kind and caring you are, but definitely stop paying his health insurance. Use that money for Paris:-) Love you and your channel!!!
You could food prep mini egg omelette cups! That was a go - to for me living alone, a little more nourishing and easy to heat up. I froze them! I freaking love your videos. You are so wise and really do review amazing products!
I just started watching this video. You look so beautiful. I love your dress! I enjoy your channel so much and have so much respect for you♥️
I’m going to Paris in September and so excited!! Totally do it🤩
I will not skip the ads on your videos from now on😉
Don’t know if you’ll see this, but you can have your bank place an ACH debit block so his health insurance payments will no longer be deducted from your account. Then he’ll likely be contacted by his health insurance company for a different method of payment. If he’s not resolving it on his own at this point, it’s not on you to continue to support him financially and he needs to pay you what he owes you for previous payments and get his own finances squared away.
Michel I'm proud of you and you are amazing Supporter and I loved your vlogs and your editing is sooo good
Thank you for your openness. I’ve been binging your content for a few weeks since I found you, and you make me feel less alone. (I bought the Tovala oven through your link) I’m a Registered Dietitian, so I like that you were a nutrition major, but not getting crazy about it.
So happy God directed me to your channel. I been binge watching for two days. I love how honest you are.
I would love to see a packing video for Greece! Heading there in August and it would be amazing to get your suggestions on what to pack.
Love the Q&A's!
Hey michel! Can you do a reaction video to your past marriage q and a videos? Love your videos!
Michel, could you do an in-depth video about your organisation? How you use the apps you mentioned, etc. I admire your work ethic a lot and I'm sure your planning and organisation helps that!
So shook that you’re dating Jordy Searcy because I love his music and your videos! Also very happy for you 🥰❤️
My goodness you're definitely my favorite RUclipsr. You're such a great person and I'm one of my favorite things about myself is that I am nice. People always say to me you're too nice. But now if somebody deliberately was mean to me or did something towards me then that's what I'm not too nice. But I feel happy knowing that you and I have something in common hehe. I can't wait to see your travel vlogs you're so fun.
Loved this video 😊❣️
It was so funny, right when you were talking about commercials it went straight to one.
Hi, I have been following your program since you were still married and living in California. I am in my late 40's but I really love your program. I am familiar with health issues myself and have problems with my spine and discus and had an operation 2,5 months ago. Therefore I have been having alot of time on my hands. Getting myself entertained drifted towards RUclips pretty much accidentally but also since my TV is with my storage stuff. I am a Finn who has travelled alot and is currently living in Austria. As a Finn really have to recommend Finland as a travel destination instead of or as well as Norway. My current country of residence is beautiful too. Keep up the great work with your channel. Having a Msc majoring in Marketing must say I love the vibe you have on your channel. Also have a young dog and enjoy seeing Max on your channel too. Keep up the good work Michel! Love, Eva
Same, I also found the divorce video first and have watched for a few weeks now. Thanks for the friend hangs