UNREQUITED LOVE

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  • Опубликовано: 27 май 2018
  • well... i made another video to vent again. that's my new coping method lmao. but anyways.. i always find myself in situations of unfortunate unrequited love.
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    he won't ever see this, but kenneth i made this for you. hopefully in the future, our paths cross again. maybe you'll rethink about just being friends. or not. i'll always wait for you, though.
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    coloring: annesoshi
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    #fanvidfeed #multifandom

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  • @exhalence
    @exhalence  5 лет назад +2018

    Thank you to all who watch + support this video. I made this to vent about my current unrequited crush at that time... Feel free to rant about how you feel with someone who you know you can never be with. I know the feeling is painful.

    • @Fara-ja
      @Fara-ja 5 лет назад +5

      Hey... I really like the audio effects. How can I have them on my phone. Could you share?

    • @alexanicole9563
      @alexanicole9563 5 лет назад +39

      Hi! I struggle with this so much so I really appreciate this video. Every. Fucking. Time I put my heart out on the line, I am never liked back. I'm attracted to guys, and guys never, EVER, think of me the same way when I think of them in that way. It is so frustrating and painful to constantly go through. I wish more TV shows more accurately showed unrequited love. I totally think that people do fall in love, but to show real struggles is so important. So thanks for this. And remember that the self love and self sufficiency gained being single is so so important. THank you.

    • @syedtalha7972
      @syedtalha7972 5 лет назад +7

      @@alexanicole9563 can you please tell me the movie titles?

    • @1987ducanh
      @1987ducanh 5 лет назад +7

      I just broken up my girl friend about 4 months, I did everything I can to keep her around me, but can not change.
      Can not see her anymore, so much pain.
      Hope everything becomes better.
      @exhalence. I hope U keep stronger and can be happy in the future, I love your video.

    • @jamieochoa5773
      @jamieochoa5773 4 года назад +8

      so about two months ago my ex broke up with me, mind you this was my first "real" relationship, i didn't know how to love or i didn't know someone could love me in that way, we dated for two months and then broke up with me claiming there was too much problems going on and he wasn't healthy to be around which i understood because he was going through a lot. we decided to remain friends but it didn't really felt like it. after two weeks i swiped up in his story because he seemed like he was going through a hard time and i thought i could console him and maybe even help. and i did, i helped him a lot but after he told me that he was still in love with his ex and that she made him the happiest man alive and he loves her so so much. he met me after a month of breaking up with her(after 10 months with her) so i understood but i was so broken. because he lied about saying he loved me, even though he said it first and i would write about not being the one no matter how hard i tried. he claimed that he loved me too but i just didn't understand it. after that he swiped up in my story telling me he is still here for me if anything and send me a stranger things meme. after that i saw him while walking my dog and he freaked out in front of his friend so i just walked my dog the other way. i couldn't let go of him so i unadded him like 4 days ago. I'm doing better now. if anyone is going through a breakup just know that its going to be okay.

  • @gryffindorprincess4019
    @gryffindorprincess4019 5 лет назад +12235

    ‘Those of us who fall in love alone.’
    It’s just so sad, and so true.

    • @mayurnathreve4688
      @mayurnathreve4688 5 лет назад +61

      Ironically many of us fall in that category, thus we're not really "alone"

    • @gryffindorprincess4019
      @gryffindorprincess4019 5 лет назад +82

      Mayurnath Reve I think feeling truly alone is usually an internal feeling, and when the person you want doesn’t want you - no number of people around you, even those who feel the same, can make you feel any less lonely.

    • @mayurnathreve4688
      @mayurnathreve4688 5 лет назад +9

      @@gryffindorprincess4019 I could not agree with you more 😎🙏🏻

    • @annc7739
      @annc7739 4 года назад +14

      That’s always been my case. 😢💔

    • @LimeMermaid
      @LimeMermaid 4 года назад +7

      @@gryffindorprincess4019 That is what I experience but I don't think many people understand. Its good to know I'm not the only one.

  • @rhapsodydevil7500
    @rhapsodydevil7500 4 года назад +4464

    “Romeo and Juliet are the exception not the rule”

    • @toomuchiridium
      @toomuchiridium 4 года назад +152

      rhapsody devil probably the only decent line in that show

    • @nathalie3601
      @nathalie3601 3 года назад +50

      that monologue from veronica are like the ONLY good lines in the entire show

    • @nathalie3601
      @nathalie3601 3 года назад +12

      @@mika-tw6sd yeah that's why I said only that monologue was good...? bc every other line including the daddy ones are trash lmao, and not just from veronica but like every character in the show

    • @nitishanagpal8633
      @nitishanagpal8633 3 года назад +1

      ☺️☺️☺️☺️

    • @iamb34
      @iamb34 3 года назад

      maybe that's why it hurts so much: their love corresponded, and they died.

  • @reese.mckayy
    @reese.mckayy 4 года назад +2834

    Isn’t it crazy how we can fall in love with someone who doesn’t even notice that we are there

    • @bigboi6970
      @bigboi6970 3 года назад +63

      Ik this feeling I loved someone it was 6 years ago when i meet her and i didn't tell her about my feelings only met her in school for 2 year's things happened so i moved to other city but i didn't forget her i keept searching for her online and found her after 4 year's of locking that was 2 days ago.. I told her everything but ..it didn't go well for me she said there's already someone in her life when when i asked her if she had any feelings for me before and what she said hurst's me she said she don't want to hurt me but she 'never felt' anything for me ...all these years...i reject alot of girls just looking at other girls made me hate myself for being unloyal even tho she's not my gf or anything i still thought that she's the one but truns out she's not...i can't forget her idk if i can.....and sry about my shiity english not my language

    • @UNKNOWN-hf9mn
      @UNKNOWN-hf9mn 3 года назад +18

      Its like ur inlove with an idol...much worst,he Doesn't know u exist.

    • @sweta_barua
      @sweta_barua 3 года назад +34

      And even if they know you exist, you will be always like the wind that touches them but they would just forget about it very soon..

    • @05videos6
      @05videos6 3 года назад +2

      @@bigboi6970 can relate to every point this is what exactly happend in life

    • @bigboi6970
      @bigboi6970 3 года назад +4

      @@05videos6 hope things get better for you my guy im already over it 👊 one day you gonna find your true soule mate

  • @KIMKIM-op3dj
    @KIMKIM-op3dj 4 года назад +2726

    "I TRIED SO HARD, BUT I'M NEVER THE ONE" this one felt like a slap on my face. Reality hit me hard

    • @ayushakhalid
      @ayushakhalid 2 года назад +2

      Same*

    • @lily-chan
      @lily-chan 2 года назад +1

      could not argue with that

    • @hero0fqower
      @hero0fqower 4 месяца назад

      IN THE END---IT DOESNT EVEN MATTERRR-EER ERR

  • @liyahm9905
    @liyahm9905 5 лет назад +10287

    “Sometimes the people we like don’t like us back” so relatable unfortunately..

  • @bk7962
    @bk7962 5 лет назад +4376

    The “you don’t even know me” from paper towns RUINS me

    • @borkoforkocherry1742
      @borkoforkocherry1742 5 лет назад +8

      I know right 😭😭

    • @renskemdb2442
      @renskemdb2442 4 года назад +3

      I get you💔

    • @abbiegailwylie9504
      @abbiegailwylie9504 4 года назад +32

      I never found it sad at all it was a really bad film in my opinion

    • @christina_0
      @christina_0 4 года назад

      @@abbiegailwylie9504 have you ever been in love ?

    • @urbestamericanboy6457
      @urbestamericanboy6457 4 года назад +77

      @@christina_0 haven't watched it but isn't the point that it isn't love. You like the idea of the person not the person themselves(just like 500 days of summer). They like the idealised version of the person,something they've made up to fit a narrative. That isn't love.

  • @xOnlymeMonax
    @xOnlymeMonax 4 года назад +2980

    But the fact that caroline lowkey was talking about Stefan here and they end up marrying each other makes this kind of ironic and gives me false hope

    • @cloda1729
      @cloda1729 4 года назад +288

      even though she married him she wasnt “the one” to him, it was always elena and i think deep down caroline herself knew that too. stefan sacrificed everything good he had with her for damon until the very end when he sacrificed himself on their wedding night

    • @ymn5201
      @ymn5201 4 года назад +176

      Caroline was only “the one” for Klaus. Her and Stefan were never an epic love

    • @aliciabea1598
      @aliciabea1598 4 года назад +15

      You can marry someone without being inlove

    • @nitishanagpal8633
      @nitishanagpal8633 3 года назад

      😊😊😊😊

    • @user.004
      @user.004 3 года назад +26

      @@aliciabea1598 He loved her but she wasn't his ultimate love. His true love.

  • @kwek2243
    @kwek2243 5 лет назад +1499

    *my first love was the curse of a one sided love.*

    • @MaddySinead
      @MaddySinead 4 года назад +52

      me too, that’s the one that stings the most 😔

    • @annc7739
      @annc7739 4 года назад +6

      Mine too

    • @takiyadoss958
      @takiyadoss958 4 года назад +5

      @@annc7739 same

    • @bean2467
      @bean2467 4 года назад +3

      Same

    • @kojikuza4661
      @kojikuza4661 4 года назад +17

      i can almost taste it gonna be the curse for the rest of my life,

  • @summerghost6551
    @summerghost6551 5 лет назад +3616

    This video is for the people who got frienzoned and received no love in return, not only the boys but the girls as well.

    • @elaine8013
      @elaine8013 5 лет назад +100

      25 years. Still in love with my best friend.

    • @mayurnathreve4688
      @mayurnathreve4688 5 лет назад +58

      Shocked to hear that girls get Friendzoned too 😮

    • @53bload53
      @53bload53 5 лет назад +69

      @@elaine8013 25 years? I'm so sorry...

    • @summerghost6551
      @summerghost6551 4 года назад +115

      @@mayurnathreve4688 it's rare to know a girl does get friendzoned, and that's why it's embarrassing and more painful than when a boy gets Friendzoned

    • @leak.9822
      @leak.9822 4 года назад +42

      @@mayurnathreve4688 dude. all the fuxking time 😂

  • @samah6871
    @samah6871 5 лет назад +2352

    "I'm never the one "men that's my life in sentence

  • @ashley7203
    @ashley7203 3 года назад +420

    ''Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other... what about those of us who fall in love alone?'' This is so accurate to me, I'm crying:(

  • @meowsan127
    @meowsan127 4 года назад +206

    loving someone
    who doesn't love you back is like hugging a cactus . the tighter you hold on the more it hurts😞😞

    • @oisinreilly2639
      @oisinreilly2639 3 года назад +15

      To be honest I'd laugh if someone told me they liked me back. I've been rejected several times that if someone told me they had feelings for me I wouldn't believe them 😂😂

    • @alicia4324
      @alicia4324 2 года назад +2

      @@oisinreilly2639 🙋🤣🤣🤣

    • @hkaysyedhazique1291
      @hkaysyedhazique1291 Год назад

      @@oisinreilly2639 same😂

    • @user-fd1hi7rr6e
      @user-fd1hi7rr6e 6 месяцев назад

      You are right it hurts so much.

    • @sarifahmahesti5408
      @sarifahmahesti5408 5 месяцев назад

      Its feel like you feeling down but only cactus can you taking.

  • @galacticwildfire
    @galacticwildfire 5 лет назад +4221

    It hurts most when you are completely in love with someone who loves you and one day they just stop loving you. A part of you always holds onto the hope they made a mistake, they needed space and they’ll come back. They get with someone else and it ruins you. They end and you hope he comes back. He was everything I ever wanted and now he’s gone. I see him almost every day but he won’t speak to me. And it kills me.

    • @ubaidrazaq8809
      @ubaidrazaq8809 5 лет назад +26

      courtofangels yeeess...it hurts more than anything... More than unrequited love

    • @rymesweet9008
      @rymesweet9008 5 лет назад +145

      It hurts even more when he gives you mixed signals then suddenly stops caring about you. All the flirtateous messages suddenly come to an end before he stops contacting you altogether, and you're left wondering where it went wrong and if you just misinterpreted his words and actions, you think maybe there was nothing there in the first place.This state of confusion and all the things unsaid hurt like hell.

    • @samara6189
      @samara6189 5 лет назад +40

      this just happened to me today.. he broke up with me, said he fell out of love and didn't see a future with me. Ive loved him every second and saw a future with him, but he didn't feel the same way. It sucks.

    • @layladuskstar7834
      @layladuskstar7834 5 лет назад +2

      So relatable...

    • @mohinic5
      @mohinic5 5 лет назад +2

      Been there

  • @cieldemeraude
    @cieldemeraude 5 лет назад +3483

    It’s shitty to love someone who doesn’t love you back, and it’s _always_ going to be shitty. But, as somewhat of a connoisseur of the subject, it’s never something you should let decide your life. If the one you want doesn’t see what an amazing, gorgeous person you are, then you don’t need their love. Truly, the only love you _need_ is your own. And if it takes you a while to find that, to become whole without them, then that’s okay. You take as much time as you need to become your own soulmate, because in the end, you should be. I know it’s silly, commenting on a RUclips video thinking it will reach anyone, but I wish someone had told me this when I was in pain over a person who wasn’t worth my effort. _You are wonderfully and lovingly crafted, full of light, and deserve to give yourself the love you think you have to give someone else._

    • @ulrohermit1369
      @ulrohermit1369 5 лет назад +51

      It reached me at a difining moment of my life friend , thank you

    • @cieldemeraude
      @cieldemeraude 5 лет назад +7

      mohamad hoseyn nadarlu You’re welcome, remember that you’re worth it

    • @saltytsukki4232
      @saltytsukki4232 5 лет назад +12

      Thank you, it reached me too 💘

    • @cieldemeraude
      @cieldemeraude 5 лет назад +1

      daegu panda ♥️

    • @laurahos2001
      @laurahos2001 5 лет назад +2

      ... Thank you

  • @hotarushulamite6461
    @hotarushulamite6461 4 года назад +254

    You know that feeling when *you love him, but you're forced to let go*
    *you have to let go*
    *i have to let go*

  • @michellevv5352
    @michellevv5352 4 года назад +505

    He never gave me the chance to love him

    • @annc7739
      @annc7739 4 года назад +15

      My online crush didn’t give me a chance either since he was so in love with his on and off girlfriend

    • @AmalDuthe
      @AmalDuthe 4 года назад +13

      And for that, he'll be the one at loss.

    • @martinemaryhernandez729
      @martinemaryhernandez729 3 года назад +8

      @@AmalDuthe Yeah Right... When the man your interested in is in love already it doesn’t matter what you do...it still won’t be you....

    • @tasneem6427
      @tasneem6427 3 года назад +1

      @@annc7739 same 😭

    • @loyaltyoptimismversatilityerud
      @loyaltyoptimismversatilityerud 2 года назад

      Me too, that guy is stoney so he refused me.

  • @AmericaWest90
    @AmericaWest90 5 лет назад +1491

    "i'm happy that you're happy, i am when i see everything that you have your boyfriend your home your kids your life it makes me feel so alone that I want to die" Sums up my life and the continuing direction I'm going

    • @Sunshine4
      @Sunshine4 5 лет назад +1

      AmericaWest90 what program is that from?

    • @samaradauphine3680
      @samaradauphine3680 5 лет назад +1

      @@Sunshine4 the vampire diaries

    • @ellalane573
      @ellalane573 4 года назад +7

      AmericaWest90 I’m in love with my guy best friend and I don’t how to tell him because he has a girlfriend

    • @r0ninh01
      @r0ninh01 3 года назад

      Mine too, it's how I feel literally all the time, my parents were already married and already had me when they were my age, I don't even have a girlfriend and it doesn't look like that's ever gonna change.

    • @mischiefmanaged1591
      @mischiefmanaged1591 3 года назад

      @@ellalane573 I hope uve told him by now

  • @arim2011
    @arim2011 5 лет назад +1353

    As someone who knows about this issue firsthand, I have to say there’s something more profound about looking at these stories from this angle. People usually don’t. You did a great job of connecting all of these into one great video putting out something that I’m sure many many people can identify with.

    • @exhalence
      @exhalence  5 лет назад +15

      thank you very much!

    • @user-jt3dw6vv4x
      @user-jt3dw6vv4x 8 месяцев назад +2

      I agree, this video was everything. Watching the video and hearing the voices of the characters was so cathartic for me. You bring up an interesting point about exploring stories from this angle. For me, I wish there were more forms of music that focuses on unrequited love. Surely there are singers out there who have mostly ever experienced unrequited love, I wish they could sing for us - the unloved ones. I know if I was a singer, all of my songs would be about unrequited love, falling in love with someone you can't have, letting go of an unrequited love and about trying to persevere through unrequited love and finding the joy in being single.

  • @shasha3654
    @shasha3654 3 года назад +84

    The worst Feeling is Feeling unwanted by the person you want the most.

  • @euphorbia3565
    @euphorbia3565 4 года назад +317

    Maybe the reason why we can't move on from what's making us sad is because it was the only thing that made us happy...
    Maybe the reason why we don't want to heal is because the pain is the last link to what we've lost.

    • @jatinsingh4193
      @jatinsingh4193 3 года назад

      Exactly

    • @alessiodelcastillo1613
      @alessiodelcastillo1613 2 года назад

      @@jatinsingh4193 ye

    • @gringofett3944
      @gringofett3944 Год назад +12

      Sometimes you hold on to it for so long that its just part of you and to let it go would be like losing ANOTHER piece of you. You already lost the piece you gave to them once.

  • @reginamariano7727
    @reginamariano7727 4 года назад +144

    I’m in love with my guy best friend - its painful, watching and listening to him talk about the girls that he falls for, especially when I’m the one that’s right in him. It’s just... painful.

    • @sharand3016
      @sharand3016 3 года назад +6

      I know it's really late but how are you keeping this inside? It must be really painful. Do you see him everyday? I get to see him everyday and I can't quit it until the next two years complete

    • @tanaypandey1771
      @tanaypandey1771 Год назад

      Oh I really like this one girl who is a friend of mine . But ofc she has a bf and they are happy together . Idk if I should talk to her or what now a days . It kinda kills me inside , none of options end up in a good thing for me :/

  • @musicalava4224
    @musicalava4224 5 лет назад +702

    Don't you dare tell me it's just infatuation
    Don't you dare tell me it's not a real feeling
    Don't you dare tell me that what I feel for him is not real
    Don't you dare tell me that I don't know what love is.
    Because I know it what it is. I know that the love I have for this person is worth every ounce of pain behind it. But he doesn't know. And it hurts that he won't.
    So I will put on my smile. I will laugh at his jokes. I will support his choices
    Even if it hurts me to do so

    • @Zoogor95
      @Zoogor95 5 лет назад +42

      The girl I'm in love is in love with my brother. And my brother likes her back. I feel happy for them but then some days it's just too much to bare.
      I never told her my feelings because I love them both and can't buy my happiness at the cost of theirs

    • @namka8588
      @namka8588 4 года назад

      💜

    • @kishan-lm4ef
      @kishan-lm4ef 4 года назад +13

      @@Zoogor95 u r a beautiful human.. God bless

    • @jeema9056
      @jeema9056 3 года назад

      That's exactly what i feel

    • @qhasxismoua5497
      @qhasxismoua5497 3 года назад +1

      Y is this so true, like I'm crying rn, it's so true! It's so cruel!

  • @natalialuna3976
    @natalialuna3976 4 года назад +97

    “Those of us who fall in love alone” wow that hit different

  • @adrijac
    @adrijac 5 лет назад +4788

    Seems like us one-sided lovers should unite for a sad party 😅
    P.S: Hoomahhgooddd I literally forgot that I had made this comment and now it has 1.5k likes. Thanks that ya'll agree too 😂

  • @xelmers-marie6136
    @xelmers-marie6136 5 лет назад +654

    ughh, I know what unrequited love feels like.I, unfortunately, fell for my best friend, and he did not return the feelings.Infact, he admitted that he liked my other best friend.

  • @eveee1110
    @eveee1110 5 лет назад +386

    I praise you to god because you put the iconic greys anatomy quote into this video

  • @joysbrightsmile4189
    @joysbrightsmile4189 4 года назад +60

    "Those who fall in love Alone" ~ "I’m never the one" ~ Describes my whole Heartbreak.

  • @Noname_24079
    @Noname_24079 3 года назад +29

    "And I tried so hard and it was never me" that hits hard

  • @renskemdb2442
    @renskemdb2442 4 года назад +334

    One sided love
    There’s this other type of love that doesn’t come dressed in everything you’ve ever wanted. It isn’t every dream coming true. It isn’t waking up one day next to someone and realizing the only thing that matters is them.
    It’s opposite really. Yes, it’s everything you’ve ever wanted standing right in front of you but they aren’t yours to have. It’s every dream you thought of, imagining a life together but the closest you’ll ever get to it is when they meet you in your dreams. It’s waking up alone and looking over at a bed you wish they were in. It’s your heart breaking but you can’t even say anything because how do you explain or justify heartbreak when it’s someone you aren’t even with?
    But the pain is real. The love is deep. And it cuts you to a point where you’re on your knees crying alone because the only thing that hurts more than heartbreak is finding the right person when you or they aren’t ready for it.
    It’s hard to come to terms with love being both beautiful and heartbreaking. But that’s the reality of loving someone you can’t be with.

    • @laura2372
      @laura2372 3 года назад +4

      You said this very eloquently. I'm an older lady compared to the younger crowd here but being unloved can happen at any age. I'm proof of that. I have loved a gentleman from afar for some time now yet we have never met. What keeps me from introducing myself to him is that I love him so much that I have to leave him alone. I know, crazy talk, right? Well let me explain. He has a perfect life. Beautiful wife, sweet kids, lovely home, awesome career and many people around him that love him. He is out of my league on so many levels and I could never be good enough for him. He is intelligent-I'm average. He's gorgeous-I'm not. We would be considered an odd couple if we were ever to date. That will never happen but on a spiritual level I feel very attached to him. What I lack in beauty and intelligence I make up for in spiritual traits. What I'm trying to says is, sometimes no matter how connected we think we feel towards someone-we have to leave them be. He is so happy with his life that disturbing his perfect existence would be harmful to him and everyone around him. I adore him too much to interfere with that. He is precious to me and i will love him until my last day on earth but sometimes truly loving someone means leaving them alone to live their life and be happy. That's what I wish for him-true love and happiness. If he's happy-that makes me happy. Besides, when he's happy his smile is stunning! Blessings to all of you and good luck in love!💖😉

    • @taseennujaira5799
      @taseennujaira5799 3 года назад +2

      Beautifully written!❤️

    • @daksh_chouhan
      @daksh_chouhan 3 года назад +2

      You sir have rendered me speechless❤️

    • @p_e_s4413
      @p_e_s4413 3 года назад +1

      Absolutely ryt

    • @danielarodriguezoropeza9008
      @danielarodriguezoropeza9008 3 года назад +2

      There's no better way to say it. Thank you for your words

  • @aimannurh
    @aimannurh 5 лет назад +135

    'Im never the one". This line is absolutely related with me.

  • @rohitbhandwalkar282
    @rohitbhandwalkar282 4 года назад +62

    Feels so..... Less lonely to know there are others like you, those who share the same pain. It feels so relieved to know that there are more people who are victims of one-sided love, especially when everyone you know is getting on with whom they love

  • @memechan888
    @memechan888 4 года назад +121

    It sad that ppl that we fall in love never want us 🥺😭

    • @annc7739
      @annc7739 4 года назад

      That’s true...😔

    • @kojikuza4661
      @kojikuza4661 4 года назад +4

      well i guess what else can we do, it sucks but love is a mutual feeling, if not all we can do is let it be,

    • @anethla7733
      @anethla7733 3 года назад

      :(

  • @vishakhagoel2603
    @vishakhagoel2603 5 лет назад +52

    'And then there is another kind of love, the cruellest kind; the one that always kills its victims. It's called unrequited love. Of that, I am an expert' Damn. Straight through the heart. 😔😔😔

  • @rakii5264
    @rakii5264 4 года назад +59

    "I tried so hard but I'm not the one."

  • @tahlia8817
    @tahlia8817 4 года назад +17

    *"I'm happy that you're happy, I am. But when I see everything that you have... It makes me feel so alone that I wanna die."*
    I felt that so strongly.

  • @raisaafra8003
    @raisaafra8003 3 года назад +13

    As a past unrequited lover. I can say it's very difficult to watch that person (whom you're in love with) is already happy with another person but always remember nobody is alone in this world. God has also made someone for you who is gonna love you unconditionally despite all ur flaws.. She/He's gonna your knight in shining armor.... Nd ur gonna met that unexpected person at the most unexpected time... U all have to do is wait for that moment.... So guys be positive in your life.
    I hope we will all meet the unexpected person sooner or later

  • @nittoburn4
    @nittoburn4 3 года назад +33

    *"Those of us who fall in love alone."*
    gut wrenching

  • @Jeng4280
    @Jeng4280 4 года назад +83

    My problem is getting too emotionally attached and letting it consume me internally. I shut down and only think of them and it can be very difficult to get over because of too much time invested. I’ve been practicing self love and since then I’ve felt a bit better about my situation. I honestly don’t think our paths will ever cross in this lifetime so I may have to move on from it and do other things to perk myself up. I’ve wasted too little sleep, too many tears and too much time on someone who doesn’t even care in that way about me. His heart belongs to someone else and it’ll never be me. But those looks he gave me...those looks of raw hunger and desire, is just all it is: looks. Nothing will ever come of it. I do slightly hope to at least see him once again when I go on vacation in two weeks time. I can only hope-but never expect.

    • @g.1260
      @g.1260 11 месяцев назад

      Not sure how your story ended...but hope that you have found the love and happiness you deserve. I am going through a very similar experience right now and feel very much alone. Describing your story here has been a comfort. Thank you!

  • @theQueen.
    @theQueen. Год назад +12

    "Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? Those of us who fall in love alone?" This crushed me.

  • @nadiangeno4365
    @nadiangeno4365 3 года назад +13

    “Why didn’t he go for me, the guys that I want never want me” really hit different

  • @kelanievassor4253
    @kelanievassor4253 5 лет назад +80

    Meredith's speech always breaks me!!!!

  • @rainbowsalt4568
    @rainbowsalt4568 2 года назад +10

    ‘problems can be fixed. but unrequited love is a tragedy.’
    - suzanne harper

  • @calculateddisaster7803
    @calculateddisaster7803 5 лет назад +14

    »The ones that fall in love alone.«
    DANG that hit me RIGHT in the feels

  • @sedrahsubh1964
    @sedrahsubh1964 4 года назад +133

    Caroline: I'm never the one
    Matt, Tyler, Klaus, and Stefan: aM I a jOkE tO yOu?!

    • @em7836
      @em7836 3 года назад +1

      Gold.

    • @mjm8949
      @mjm8949 2 года назад +6

      Literally 😂 but to be fair she said that before she got any of them and I think the writers cheated Caroline because why make her feel that way if she was going to end up with him anyway. They also let her have Stefan and then took him away again. They did her so dirty.

  • @raeanne9246
    @raeanne9246 5 лет назад +432

    I was always falling for unrequited love. Both with good friends (so friendship love) and then... romantic love. which destroyed my heart more because well I thought that being his friend was enough. And yet... my heart began to hurt even more and i knew that i couldnt go on hiding.
    I decided i deserved a love that was given back to me in the tenfold.
    And so... I removed myself from the situation.
    And yeah, i lost a friend. and a love. but i would rather that then lose my heart to a life of pain while watching them be with someone else. when i know the green eyed monster is my only friend during then

    • @blank789
      @blank789 5 лет назад +6

      Im failing to remove myself from the situation T.T
      I dunno what to do now

    • @trinalopez4198
      @trinalopez4198 5 лет назад +4

      I'm so proud of you. Way to take care of yourself!

    • @trinalopez4198
      @trinalopez4198 5 лет назад +14

      @@blank789 You can do it. Work on it for about 21 days, which is the time it take the human psyche to change a habit. Disgust is a powerful emotion that can change how you feel about someone. Think of the other person's disgusting features, beyond their imperfections.

    • @anethla7733
      @anethla7733 3 года назад +1

      🥺🥺🥺🤧

  • @bobbytables658
    @bobbytables658 3 года назад +12

    the cruelest thing the universe is allowed to do is let us fall in love with someone that won't ever love us back.

  • @idk-cs2vw
    @idk-cs2vw 3 года назад +18

    i used to watch this video over and over again. heart broken over a man who no longer wanted me. i thought ill never be in love again, he’s all i want. he was my first attachment. but we live for such a short period of time that it doesn’t matter anymore. there are 7 billion people in this world. after 2 years of non stop crying, ive finally found a man who makes me smile a lot harder than my first relationship ever did. trust me, just please be patient. you will find the right person :) there is someone out there looking for you too

    • @1nsertusername
      @1nsertusername Год назад

      Thanks, this gives me hope. I've been trying my best to move on but its been difficult

  • @pathfinder5843
    @pathfinder5843 3 года назад +23

    No matter how hard we try ,
    Its useless🤦🏻.
    The more and more we love them,
    The more pain we have to bear.
    I feel empty.
    I am like a dying tree🍃.

    • @angelinaklein6930
      @angelinaklein6930 3 года назад

      It's so true, I'm sorry you have to experience unrequited love too

  • @purnimadevilaishram8076
    @purnimadevilaishram8076 4 года назад +49

    Comment section is more sad than the video itself 💔

  • @PelangiArumsari
    @PelangiArumsari 4 года назад +11

    I always been in "unrequited love" situations and now I don't wanna fall in love again

  • @hunterwilliams1910
    @hunterwilliams1910 3 года назад +7

    that pick me choose me love me scene gets me everytime. the emotion she displayed is outta this world. when she said "derek, i love you" that was so raw.

  • @bk7962
    @bk7962 5 лет назад +239

    Man I hope Kenneth comes through

    • @exhalence
      @exhalence  5 лет назад +6

      ash kelly LMFAO THANK YOY

    • @takeitbreezey
      @takeitbreezey 5 лет назад +7

      Dead ass that's my current crush's name

    • @handfulofbabycarrots9312
      @handfulofbabycarrots9312 5 лет назад +5

      Good luck ✌ hopefully my Noah realizes how much I like him :)

    • @xfairy3800
      @xfairy3800 4 года назад +2

      Hopefully my Kenny knows how much I still love him ... ! 🖤🤞🏽

  • @keithl2405
    @keithl2405 4 года назад +11

    "Pick me. Choose me. Love me."

  • @spiderkumono
    @spiderkumono 3 года назад +13

    This hit different. And I do have the cruelest kind of love “Unrequited Love”.

  • @abinnk1542
    @abinnk1542 3 года назад +4

    The worst feeling is when you give all heart to that one girl and she doesn't even caresssss.

  • @hurusii9005
    @hurusii9005 5 лет назад +51

    Feeling unwanted is very painful. Almost like a dagger to the chest

  • @shivasthong4924
    @shivasthong4924 4 года назад +12

    This is our destiny.
    To grow old, fade away, and die never truly getting to experience love.

  • @hannahasencio4340
    @hannahasencio4340 5 лет назад +7

    To be able to love, it's painful most of the time. But you can't choose who you are attracted to or who you love. The understanding when someone doesn't and will probably never feel the same way you do and you can't stop thinking about them, it hurts. The worst part is when you can't make them fall in love with no matter what you do/did. That is the the different definition of falling in love. Where in that case, the falling leads to collapsing and collapsing leads to breaking.

  • @LifeisBeautuful
    @LifeisBeautuful Год назад +3

    What transforms the pain is realizing you are gifting
    Joy to the person you love

  • @bluevelvet1473
    @bluevelvet1473 4 года назад +20

    I'm in love with a person who doesn't even know I exist and it's painful but I'm still grateful for this love .This love made me get through alot .This love I have for him is the purest form of love ,it's the most profound and strong love you'll ever find .It has no guarantees it doesn't promise you a happy ending but you still choose this love over anything else.

  • @lovemyself6441
    @lovemyself6441 3 года назад +14

    Most saddest thing is A GAY falling in for a STRAIGHT
    He doesn't know I love him or the fact I am gay but I don't need him, to love him.
    It's beautiful and painful at the same time.

    • @oisinreilly2639
      @oisinreilly2639 3 года назад +2

      That's actually really upsetting. You probably feel like the gay crush you have on someone they don't feel the same way. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you could think the person is not in love with you but they still wanna be friends. Yeah I don't know what I'm trying to say, I'll shut up now 😂😂

    • @mjm8949
      @mjm8949 2 года назад

      I love how you said “I don't need him to love him.” And I think that is so important because it shows that you really do love the person and not just want something from them whether it's love or attention. I think it's totally fine to love someone who doesn't love you back if they deserve it like if they are a good person and kind to you and they don't invalidate your feelings or make you feel small or stupid for loving them when they don't love you back.

    • @AMohamedAsif
      @AMohamedAsif 2 года назад +1

      Same here also

  • @summer-wq4gz
    @summer-wq4gz 5 лет назад +8

    i’ve watched this edit so many times. i always watch it every time i experience unrequited love, which is a lot. thank u for making this❤️

  • @realatta4524
    @realatta4524 3 года назад +8

    This unrequited love can be dealt with by letting out your feelings almost immediately after you find out you like the person so the love wouldn't have enough time to grow into something strong, which could easily break you

    • @blakesilvermark1
      @blakesilvermark1 2 года назад +1

      Its hard when that's all you've experienced. And how long you've had the feeling for as well.

  • @danielle4245
    @danielle4245 5 лет назад +78

    Also I needed this, I fall victim to this too

  • @aprilb2536
    @aprilb2536 3 года назад +4

    'It's called "UNREQUITED LOVE" and that I am an expert' killed my heart!

  • @Thisissparta1972
    @Thisissparta1972 3 года назад +6

    when you love the wrong person so much imagine how you love the right person

  • @egutie21
    @egutie21 4 года назад +10

    It's nice they had Kate Winslet's monologue from The Holiday on there. It's pretty perfect.

  • @johnnyw29
    @johnnyw29 4 года назад +14

    I come back to this video over and over again. I saved it in my “deep”-playlist and can’t get over how emotional and beautiful and fcking true it is.
    Thank you so much!

  • @halfdemon4lifeintime
    @halfdemon4lifeintime 4 года назад +8

    "I'm happy that you're happy, I am. When I see everything that you have: Your house, your boyfriend, your kids, your life. It makes me feel so alone that I want to die."
    That is so perfectly explained.

  • @grassaf4354
    @grassaf4354 4 года назад +23

    “Romeo and Juliet are the exception, not the rule” forgot Riverdale actually had good writing in season 1.

  • @JessAyu
    @JessAyu 4 года назад +3

    The worst part is, some of these people is not even a jerk...they even tried to let us in, they even apologize for not liking or loving us back....

  • @christinamitrovich7554
    @christinamitrovich7554 5 лет назад +15

    Find new love in order to move on and work on ourselves. We should be happy in our own company first.

  • @piapond1531
    @piapond1531 2 года назад +5

    This hurts so bad when you are in live with a clone friend for years with no chance of him feeling the same.
    But better having him as a friend in my life than not at all.
    He is just an amazing human being

  • @omkarpatil32
    @omkarpatil32 4 года назад +7

    How sad is that I come back here to listen and feel my own misery over and over again? I could never get tired of this video. ♥️

  • @abbypyramid5387
    @abbypyramid5387 3 года назад +5

    No1 is ever worth begging for...If he/she doesn't reciprocate your love towards them...just let them go.

  • @riddhidey8687
    @riddhidey8687 5 лет назад +48

    Reading the comments, I have come to know that there many people blighting inside due to unrequited love like me, and are very sad. What's sadder is I don't want to see so many people not get their love returned. I lose a little faith in love, universe and myself too. I pray with all my heart that all hearts with voids get filled up.

    • @anandhu5082
      @anandhu5082 5 лет назад

      How do u feel now? After 7months?

  • @ally-wg2iq
    @ally-wg2iq 4 года назад +9

    Imagine being enough

  • @patatasorigins9383
    @patatasorigins9383 5 лет назад +6

    "I can't give you the answer you want" - that actually hurt. He once said to me "I don't have the answer that you're looking for". That was my breaking point.. That line managed to break me. That one fucking line.

  • @vickieaf4380
    @vickieaf4380 3 года назад +3

    That’s the thing about love - you can love somebody, but so can they.

  • @loredana_lovegood9
    @loredana_lovegood9 5 лет назад +29

    I find myseld in the exact same situation, this video is so beautiful and really speaks to me

  • @marcklyvillalobos3918
    @marcklyvillalobos3918 3 года назад +3

    "we are the victim of one sided love", sad but true

  • @ruthosunde2324
    @ruthosunde2324 3 года назад +2

    Some of us go through life loving so hard but being loved very little. It's not just the love you feel with people you're romantically in love with, it's your "friends" and your family. Constantly putting people first but not ever having anyone care for us the same way, trust me when I say we've tried to put ourselves first but it never works. So we're hurting while putting people first, loving them with our all but being in constant pain when there is no version of us for ourselves.

  • @Rosh_annah
    @Rosh_annah Год назад +3

    Its not just the ones who got rejected that feels devastated but the ones who rejects too .... Its never easy to reject a person who has genuine feelings for you ..... Its never easy

  • @r0ninh01
    @r0ninh01 3 года назад +6

    It hurts so much, I never thought I could ever feel that kind of pain in my life, I just want it to end, but it doesn't, it's like I'm cursed, destined to suffer every day, the truth is some of us just don't find love, some of us just stay alone forever.

  • @Anonymous-gr1cu
    @Anonymous-gr1cu Год назад +5

    This might be another Long random message that someone might read but believe me ,exactly an year back I saw this video where a comment of a one-sided love striked my eye and had a screenshot of it during an era of my madness towards a person who just always considered me as an option and gave me the best reality check without a bare minimum respect. So plz never just have your own expectations and hopes coz it takes hell lot of pain that you can't explain to any other creature in this world and even if such storm breezes in your life build the strength to tackle your situation all by yourself !! Love you the most❤️ don't ever let someone decide your worth by your beauty , wealth or anyother stupid stuff! You are rare ✨ and you can be loved for the reason of just being you!!!

  • @littlekiwi8964
    @littlekiwi8964 3 года назад +5

    I haven't yet fallen in love yet but this video just made me cry... because if being ignored can make me sad then I can't imagine how much a person suffers when she or he is not Loved.

  • @dorothyprieto4950
    @dorothyprieto4950 4 года назад +16

    “I tried so hard but I’M NEVER THE ONE” 💔

    • @nainasaggu
      @nainasaggu 3 года назад

      Could you tell me what movie is that dialogue from, please? ❤

    • @nitishanagpal8633
      @nitishanagpal8633 3 года назад

      🦋🦋🦋🦋

  • @syd9736
    @syd9736 5 лет назад +7

    The Holiday is such a good movie and Its my go to comfort movie because me and my mom used to watch it literally every Christmas Eve

  • @justethan2731
    @justethan2731 3 года назад +9

    1:48 wow. I can’t tell you how intense and passionate and beautiful this part was. The music getting louder and louder and the tears in her eyes it was magic.

    • @mufidafathinabila3790
      @mufidafathinabila3790 2 года назад

      What is the movie title? Thanks!

    • @jiminpov
      @jiminpov Год назад

      @@mufidafathinabila3790 greys anatomy it’s a show

  • @AjayyHatake
    @AjayyHatake 3 года назад +13

    The saddest part was. At one point we were in love. We kissed, we held hands. We shared music and we would talk through the night. Then one day it just stopped. He lost interest and left me. Now two years later we’re strangers. He’s living his life whilst he’s still in every part of mine. I hate it..

  • @camillenevaeh
    @camillenevaeh 4 года назад +2

    i love how you always include The Holiday. it’s always been my #1❤️

  • @danielle4245
    @danielle4245 5 лет назад +520

    What’s the monologue from, the one where it talks about falling in love alone

    • @exhalence
      @exhalence  5 лет назад +92

      Danielle Lagnion The Holiday

    • @danielle4245
      @danielle4245 5 лет назад +4

      exhalence thank you!!!

    • @RA-hh7ji
      @RA-hh7ji 5 лет назад +4

      I can't find It!!!!!!!!!!!! Help plz
      Put the link or something like that
      This text describe my hole friking life i need to find this text!!!!!

    • @xxshinypinkxx
      @xxshinypinkxx 5 лет назад +1

      It's on youtube.

    • @huhuhaha19
      @huhuhaha19 3 года назад

      @@xxshinypinkxx Ik i'm a year late but can u or anyone please let me know where do I find this monologue?

  • @sushiyezen6767
    @sushiyezen6767 4 года назад +7

    why do i torture myself by watching videos like this.

  • @introvert9418
    @introvert9418 2 года назад +4

    One sided love is just like waiting for train at airport.... Which will never come 🥺🙃

  • @kendraduli6806
    @kendraduli6806 Год назад +3

    “ we love someone but we are loved by someone else and we will end up with someone completely different” - my mom

  • @jonpowell4246
    @jonpowell4246 3 года назад +7

    2:29 to 2:35 is my daily life from this man's point of view, it's the reason I hate seeing happy couples when I go places, why I don't wanna leave my apartment and why I don't even wanna wake up to this living nightmare called reality because when I see those lucky jerks with their lover's their wives, their kids, their families and all the beautiful things they have that they take for granted it makes me feel so alone that I wanna die.

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin 6 месяцев назад

      Never, nothing more relatable in this catastrophe of an existence some have the audacity to call "life".

    • @jonpowell4246
      @jonpowell4246 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Ice.muffin amen to that friend, it's something people who have or have had someone in their lives will never understand from the perspective of someone who's had no one.

  • @maryshriver4472
    @maryshriver4472 5 лет назад +11

    Unrequited love lol I can't even love myself back

  • @ngxlonewolf5715
    @ngxlonewolf5715 2 года назад +3

    The worst part is when u know u can't have that person but u can't just accept it and let it go

  • @radhikakumari3645
    @radhikakumari3645 3 года назад +3

    I don't know... maybe it's a blessing that it was unrequited. Maybe being single is the best. But I love it this way.
    Figuring out self is best.