Bodycam: U.S. Soldier Allegedly Stalked TikTok Girl, Abandoned Military to Be Her ‘Soulmate’

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июн 2024
  • Bodycam footage shows Florida deputies confronting a man outside the home of an unnamed TikTok star in May after she called the police out of fear. She told the Flagler County Sheriff’s Office that Ky-Van Cai repeatedly rang her doorbell after showing up unannounced. Cai, a then-active member of the U.S. Army, went AWOL from the military to travel from California to Florida to be her “soulmate.” Law&Crime’s Elizabeth Millner breaks down Cai’s arrest.
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    The TikToker, who has over 1.5 million followers, said Cai was allegedly stalking her since January using different social media accounts. Cai told deputies he had a “personal” relationship with her and had “visions about her” being his soulmate. He also allegedly believed the woman was “directing her social media posts toward him.” Deputies noted the victim was “shaking” when she gave them her statement and it was “clear” Cai made her fear for her safety. Cai was taken into custody on a charge of aggravated stalking.
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  • @LawAndCrime
    @LawAndCrime  8 дней назад +17

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    • @andyk192
      @andyk192 7 дней назад +8

      ​@@reddenitup Pretty much all larger RUclipsrs have sponsors. That being said, this particular sponsorship is kind of a bad look in my personal opinion.

    • @kaitlinski493
      @kaitlinski493 6 дней назад

      Morgan and Morgan and Morgan and Morgan and Morgan????

  • @lovemytide45
    @lovemytide45 8 дней назад +801

    Former military guy here. Similarly, there are thousands of military guys that think the strippers actually care for them. Had a guy on one of my ships that got so far into debt because he constantly borrowed money to run to the club and tip her. He actually believed the “next time” would be the one that would take their “relationship “ to the next level. 😂. She was an outstanding salesperson

    • @sarahrean7174
      @sarahrean7174 8 дней назад

      Oh please delusional people like celebrities fans? They are everywhere the military had nothing to do with it

    • @janeeyx5672
      @janeeyx5672 8 дней назад +24

      Reminds me of Myron from the Players Club movie lol, except military.

    • @gigisilk798
      @gigisilk798 8 дней назад +36

      Ah, the story as old as time 😂

    • @BWT599
      @BWT599 8 дней назад +16

      I was like that in High school 😂

    • @thomasramsey1870
      @thomasramsey1870 8 дней назад +16

      This isn't a military thing. Lol

  • @elishh8173
    @elishh8173 8 дней назад +663

    This man needs mental help. He ruined his life (temporarly) for stalking a tiktoker.

    • @crazychase98
      @crazychase98 8 дней назад +73

      Not temporally he went awol in the millitery. Yes gonna get prison for that as well. Along with bad conduct discharge very hard to get a job with that. His life pretty done all because he's a nutter

    • @iagreewithyou3478
      @iagreewithyou3478 8 дней назад +40

      All for a frickin tiktoker 💀🤦

    • @Van-hb2lk
      @Van-hb2lk 8 дней назад +30

      for stalking. period.

    • @notsorryyouretriggered
      @notsorryyouretriggered 8 дней назад +29

      Temporarily? No this dude destroyed his life completely

    • @supercompactsecurityreferral
      @supercompactsecurityreferral 8 дней назад

      us civil military stalker pedofile inflation gangs

  • @luckylady7542
    @luckylady7542 8 дней назад +221

    Definitely needs mental help before he hurts someone. Sad.

    • @FrankYammy
      @FrankYammy 5 дней назад +1

      Well duh

    • @luckylady7542
      @luckylady7542 5 дней назад +1

      @@FrankYammy from looking at your prior posted comments, you are definitely one to say duh.😂🤣

  • @user-nt4oy8cu1n
    @user-nt4oy8cu1n 8 дней назад +215

    Have you had a conversation with her?
    Only in my head.

    • @debitopia
      @debitopia 8 дней назад +26

      It's so sad. I hope he gets the help he needs.

    • @IndywithoutJazmin
      @IndywithoutJazmin 3 дня назад +3

      The moment he said that, they should've automatically taken him to the nearest mental health facility/hospital (imo).

  • @AzDesertFoxx
    @AzDesertFoxx 7 дней назад +66

    He's not going to leave her alone. We'll hear more about this in the future.

    • @PyroDude.
      @PyroDude. 5 дней назад +3

      This guy definitely will just take more precaution and still stalk, maybe not the same victim but someone forsure.

  • @antoinettevambe5714
    @antoinettevambe5714 8 дней назад +484

    If he does have mental health issues that's no excuse for being attracted to a 15yr old and stalking her. This guys scary

    • @Sp00kyQueen
      @Sp00kyQueen 8 дней назад +61

      15???? Where did you get that info?

    • @michealowns21
      @michealowns21 8 дней назад +31

      Wait 15? Holy shirt is that accurate?

    • @debi909
      @debi909 8 дней назад +21

      I was wondering the same thing.
      How is it a 15 year-old being able to be all over the place?! 🤔😐
      This is scary because how does a person know where someone lives or where they are or where they're going through a platform like that? 😐😔

    • @smacker-gk4ej
      @smacker-gk4ej 8 дней назад +39

      yea hes not right but y is a 15 year old thirst trapping on tiktok?

    • @cowarddonnie-ji5yz
      @cowarddonnie-ji5yz 8 дней назад +16

      ​@@smacker-gk4ej may be her mom taught her

  • @ranew33
    @ranew33 8 дней назад +313

    Military or not… he is sick….

    • @mr.duanesharpe
      @mr.duanesharpe 8 дней назад +14

      Could have left that part out. Military. Mans embarrassing us as males and military in one. 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @user-nl5hg9rl4h
      @user-nl5hg9rl4h 8 дней назад

      @@mr.duanesharpethat fragile male ego should be the most embarrasing thing sissy

    • @supercompactsecurityreferral
      @supercompactsecurityreferral 8 дней назад +1

      p dofile bandits inbound

    • @debitopia
      @debitopia 8 дней назад

      @@mr.duanesharpe He's mentally ill. You shouldn't try to shame him for that.

    • @amyk.2500
      @amyk.2500 7 дней назад +3

      Being in the military makes him worse & more violent, actually

  • @PONE8504
    @PONE8504 7 дней назад +165

    Social media is ruining this generations life

    • @rn2787
      @rn2787 7 дней назад

      It's not social media. Before RUclips and other video platforms they stalked news anchors, models, and actors. People just need to understand that no means no and that people on TV and in other media have no idea you exist.

    • @ranjittakanesan9915
      @ranjittakanesan9915 7 дней назад +9

      No it's not. I'm on social media and I don't stalk 15 yrs olds🙄

    • @ranjittakanesan9915
      @ranjittakanesan9915 7 дней назад +2

      No it's not. I'm on soc med and I don't go and stalk 15 years old girl.

    • @verminlord666
      @verminlord666 7 дней назад

      nah creepy men are ruining the world like they always have

    • @BroncoBilly581
      @BroncoBilly581 6 дней назад +5

      Yup. Worst invention ever.

  • @saraho5034
    @saraho5034 8 дней назад +181

    The sad thing is this happens to so many women and they have to fight for years to get police to react - I've heard/watched segments/listened to news about women who went on a single date, met a man briefly on a train or bus, or merely met someone online once and they wind up being stalked for months, years, decades - stricter laws and punishment regarding stalking are needed.

    • @lornaginetteharrison7168
      @lornaginetteharrison7168 8 дней назад +27

      I watched a UK police fly-on-the-wall documentary series a couple of years ago where the police officers actually said to the stalking victim "Have you tried giving him a chance? Perhaps if you agreed to go on a few dates with him he’d stop bothering you?" 🤬
      The British police repeatedly refuse to take stalking seriously, and every time it results in the murder of yet another victim, the Home Secretary holds a press conference and says "lessons will be learned", but nothing ever changes at all.

    • @baileyb123bb
      @baileyb123bb 7 дней назад +22

      Unfortunately they wont do anything unless a threat or worse has been done and theres proof of it.

    • @NunyaBizness2.0
      @NunyaBizness2.0 7 дней назад +13

      You’re right! Look at Wade Wilson from Cape Coral, FL.
      He killed a woman who gave him directions and a ride.
      He stole her car then in the same or next day, killed another woman he met in a bar and saw only a few times.
      Dude is sick

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 6 дней назад +3

      Men should know better but these guys are legit crazy. Women Should be armed and trained in martial arts.

    • @supriseimblack
      @supriseimblack 6 дней назад +2

      ​@@lornaginetteharrison7168
      The UK is not a free state...

  • @Noname78624
    @Noname78624 6 дней назад +16

    “I promise the rejection only makes me stronger” terrifying

  • @terrydomeier9252
    @terrydomeier9252 8 дней назад +168

    And he's "looking for housing around here.." Scary..

    • @bookwrmxoxo5105
      @bookwrmxoxo5105 7 дней назад +16

      And trying to go to college in the area

    • @PyroDude.
      @PyroDude. 5 дней назад

      It was excuses if the stalking

  • @lionesshuntress
    @lionesshuntress 8 дней назад +158

    Flippin heck...giving up a career for a non existent obsession...

    • @angrybear86
      @angrybear86 8 дней назад +17

      Oh his obsession definitely exists

    • @thepressurepack3777
      @thepressurepack3777 7 дней назад

      Work any frontline, they government will brainwash you.

    • @lionesshuntress
      @lionesshuntress 7 дней назад +9

      @@angrybear86 I meant his obsession to be with her, doesn't exist cos she's not interested

  • @belovedhearts
    @belovedhearts 8 дней назад +73

    Every time he said “around here” regarding housing, schooling, etc… so creepy

    • @BlackRaveBow
      @BlackRaveBow 4 дня назад

      You caught that too right, he’s trying to gain a foothold in the area to make stalking easier

  • @Mr.Dr.Profpatrick
    @Mr.Dr.Profpatrick 7 дней назад +186

    This seems like early signs of schizophrenia. He’ll most likely see this as a “test” to his dedication and continue aggressively stalking this poor girl.

    • @sasskvetch8617
      @sasskvetch8617 7 дней назад +27

      This is absolutely schizophrenia. Have seen an acquaintance's onset play out almost exactly like this guy. He needs some pretty drastic intervention before he hurts someone or himself imo. Poor guy, life ain't fair.

    • @di3486
      @di3486 7 дней назад +1

      What if he is just making stuff up?

    • @ReigningWomban
      @ReigningWomban 7 дней назад

      It is definitely schizophrenia.

    • @troyrussell177
      @troyrussell177 6 дней назад +15

      My best friend snapped at 19 years old. Schizophrenia usually takes ahold 17 to 25 yea4s old. My friend was 32 years old when , a couple months back , he lite himself on fire. He burned for 4 whole minutes… he Survived for 4 days burned down to his organs on 90% of his body until infection took him out. This isn’t “ definitely schizophrenia “ . It’s probably not actually. Theres many mental disabilities that could cause this. As far as schizophrenia goes, He’s far too coherent for us to say it’s 100% schizophrenia. Schizophrenics talk in a word soup, they don’t make rational sense at points. This guy is too with it for us to sit here and say oh it’s 100% schizophrenia. It could be the very beginning of schizophrenia but It could be many other forms of mental illness. This happens all the time. Some random gets obsessed with said celebrity. Think they’re talking to them etc etc. it’s not always schizophrenia. He makes WAY TOO much sense for it to be schizophrenia. Main aspect is he still picks up on social scenarios. He knows this is weird. If he was a full blown schizophrenic he wouldn’t.

    • @lexybatch3539
      @lexybatch3539 6 дней назад

      @@troyrussell177yes I thought it was too late for schizophrenia onset. He for sure has other delusions going on and ‘faking it’ he did mention his ‘lack of mental health issues’😳 made it difficult to get any compensation from the military. Hard to say this is a fake, way less crazy ways to fake out mental health issues.

  • @amyshelton6716
    @amyshelton6716 8 дней назад +177

    This is why we don't share our whole lives on social media. There are plenty of similar situations of obsessed people killing others because they are delusional.

    • @genericamerican7574
      @genericamerican7574 8 дней назад +23

      They would do this with or without social media. This stuff isn’t a new phenomenon.

    • @stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax
      @stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax 8 дней назад +26

      ​@genericamerican7574 Yes, but social media makes it easier to become a target.

    • @Michadoo
      @Michadoo 8 дней назад

      Let's focus on the real problem. Men who feel entitled to children and women.

    • @FSUgrad
      @FSUgrad 7 дней назад +3

      🎯

    • @Fawn123
      @Fawn123 6 дней назад +1

      Agreed. A private life is a happy life.

  • @Mixmastermonk80
    @Mixmastermonk80 8 дней назад +61

    Stalkers are some scary mofo’s! 🤯
    He needs to “visualize” some medication & intensive therapy. Cuz this kinda guy truly believes there’s absolutely nothing wrong with this behavior.

  • @Sy7ther
    @Sy7ther 8 дней назад +312

    I’m just glad this man won’t be trusted with anymore training or firearms

    • @AndeLikeTheMint
      @AndeLikeTheMint 8 дней назад +11

      What makes you think he can’t get a gun now

    • @TheFruitingChamber
      @TheFruitingChamber 8 дней назад +17

      @@AndeLikeTheMintthe felony stalking charges?

    • @genericamerican7574
      @genericamerican7574 8 дней назад +13

      He will go into law enforcement.

    • @xXxpowerbagxXx
      @xXxpowerbagxXx 8 дней назад

      @@TheFruitingChamber just move to california
      thye give all criminals guns there

    • @Cumdown
      @Cumdown 7 дней назад

      Lol, you think the people with guns are sane 😅

  • @drugreen123
    @drugreen123 7 дней назад +41

    The cops "Uh-huh"s as the guy prattles on is cracking me up.

    • @micahruthie
      @micahruthie 7 дней назад +2

      I lol’d at that too 😂

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 6 дней назад

      I was just thinking the same thing 😅

    • @CM38110
      @CM38110 6 дней назад +1

      I was looking for this comment lmao his "uh huh"s are him being like "this guy is a nutcase but I can't say anything"

  • @jennydiver100
    @jennydiver100 8 дней назад +177

    He needs help, but also, you cannot stalk fifteen year olds.

  • @Ryenix1
    @Ryenix1 8 дней назад +221

    This guy is definitely experiencing some kind of psychosis. He’s also at the age that symptoms of schizophrenia appear. Sadly a lot of people with schizophrenia end up homeless on the streets because they can’t function as normal members of society. Hopefully they get him some psychological help for everyone’s sake

    • @DJKinney
      @DJKinney 8 дней назад +11

      None of the terms you have used are correct.

    • @SeattleJen_
      @SeattleJen_ 8 дней назад +18

      His 'dreams and visions' are probably voices and mental illness. You're right about this age being when symptoms appear. It happens at college a lot, first and second year. I'm surprised he made it through 4 years of the military without some sort of break before this.

    • @lornaginetteharrison7168
      @lornaginetteharrison7168 8 дней назад +23

      @@DJKinneyDisagree, they made an excellent and appropriate assessment of what’s potentially going on with this guy.

    • @chris3325
      @chris3325 8 дней назад +5

      Schizophrenia, most typically shows itself in late adolescence and early adulthood not in your 30s. I don’t know where you’re getting this information but you are just wrong about this my friend.

    • @lornaginetteharrison7168
      @lornaginetteharrison7168 8 дней назад +20

      @@chris3325 "Typically" being the key word here though. Schizophrenia usually takes hold after puberty. Most people are diagnosed in their late teens to early 30s, so he’s still well within the right age range. While it’s true that men tend to get it slightly earlier (on average, men are diagnosed in their late teens to early 20s; women tend to get diagnosed in their late 20s to early 30s), people rarely develop schizophrenia before they're 12 or after they're 40, so he’s definitely still at the right age to develop this. He may, of course, have been suffering from this condition for quite some time, and he’s just not been diagnosed.

  • @jonosay854
    @jonosay854 8 дней назад +58

    Young Man got lucky with the Officer that arrived first on scene. This went respectfully smooth.

    • @lilys7431
      @lilys7431 8 дней назад +17

      The responding officer was outstanding

  • @KatetheGreat3689
    @KatetheGreat3689 8 дней назад +52

    What a creeper 😳

  • @princessmich4628
    @princessmich4628 8 дней назад +56

    Hope they don’t let him “off easy” dude needs serious help

    • @Mrskorba
      @Mrskorba 4 дня назад

      He went awol, he will not be getting off easy.

  • @peachiegrinsxd
    @peachiegrinsxd 7 дней назад +18

    He truly believes that he knows her. It’s really quite sad and very crazy.

  • @YvonneMelvin
    @YvonneMelvin 7 дней назад +49

    There should be an alarm raised on his drivers license and Social Security number to make sure he doesn’t buy a firearm

    • @gmunden1
      @gmunden1 6 дней назад +3

      Stalker alerts needed for people like this. What if he was armed? This could have gone horribly wrong for the victim.

    • @danstewart2770
      @danstewart2770 6 дней назад +1

      The problem with that is the Second Amendment.

    • @mike_js2936
      @mike_js2936 4 дня назад +2

      Yes because gang bangers and other criminals always use their social security number to document their acquisition of firearms and other things they’re not supposed to have. You and the 46 people who liked your comment are freakin geniuses. Absolutely nothing would physically prevent a person from taking cash or something of value and trading it for something else (a firearm in this case). And it’d definitely be done WITHOUT identification.

  • @carlaburgos12
    @carlaburgos12 7 дней назад +22

    So, no mental health evaluation? He sounds to be experiencing some kind of hallucinations.

  • @morningglory459
    @morningglory459 8 дней назад +31

    These young people are soooo messed up. Military has issues, too.

  • @Latabrine
    @Latabrine 7 дней назад +35

    Reminiscent of the guy with schizophrenia who thought Taylor Swift was "talking to him" through social media. He shot up a restaurant half naked. This guy needs serious help asap.

    • @AshlynTeague
      @AshlynTeague 7 дней назад +8

      The guy who broke into that WWE wrestlers home with a bag of duct tape, condoms, knives, etc, and said, "I wasn't going to do anything."

  • @user-nt4oy8cu1n
    @user-nt4oy8cu1n 8 дней назад +70

    "Homeless for seven months. The universe tells you what you want to know." AWOL. The service is going to tell you what you need to
    know. "Sometimes it comes and goes." D-E-L-U-S-I-O-N-A-L.

  • @zippitydoowopjoe
    @zippitydoowopjoe 8 дней назад +73

    Future Star of "Takedown with Chris Hansen"

    • @BadDrucifer
      @BadDrucifer 8 дней назад +4

      Chris did an TCaP episode in this same city in the past.

    • @zippitydoowopjoe
      @zippitydoowopjoe 8 дней назад +5

      @@BadDrucifer I'll have to check out that episode. It surely would be the cleanest and best pleasure.

    • @christhefish11
      @christhefish11 7 дней назад

      Where does it say she is a minor? Why come to that assumption?

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 6 дней назад +1

      Omg that's the vibe this bodycam footage has during the cops questioning lol

    • @zippitydoowopjoe
      @zippitydoowopjoe 6 дней назад

      @@christhefish11 Not an assumption. It's been reported in other news outlets what her age was

  • @delaneyexpressionalart
    @delaneyexpressionalart 8 дней назад +32

    someone needs to help this man

  • @ryanesetterlund704
    @ryanesetterlund704 8 дней назад +45

    What he did is absolutely wrong, illegal, and scary! But clearly he is suffering from some mental health issue. Looking at his eyes and just his demeanor really made me sad. I hope he gets the help that he needs. And more importantly, I'm so glad that nothing bad happened to that TikTok girl.

  • @alishaparker315
    @alishaparker315 8 дней назад +28

    This guy seems like a very lonely person. Stalking is never ok but he needs help

    • @ElizabethCopenhaver-xj8lb
      @ElizabethCopenhaver-xj8lb 7 дней назад

      Lonely?? This is way more than loneliness! And even if it was just loneliness that doesn’t give you the right to stalk a 15 year old 🤦‍♀️ But this guy has serious mental health issues

  • @tjpopsit
    @tjpopsit 8 дней назад +90

    To the 1st Responder:
    Thank You For Your Service.

    • @jonosay854
      @jonosay854 8 дней назад +4

      💯💙💜

    • @TheJak175
      @TheJak175 7 дней назад +3

      That was me, I was the first commenter on this video -- I am the very first responder

    • @jonosay854
      @jonosay854 7 дней назад +1

      @@TheJak175 😂

  • @AuroraMeansDawn27
    @AuroraMeansDawn27 8 дней назад +38

    Terrifying.

    • @AlvarezGuillermo-lv4mg
      @AlvarezGuillermo-lv4mg 8 дней назад +1

      Hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing today and the weather condition like…

  • @Ethereal_confusion
    @Ethereal_confusion 8 дней назад +67

    This is why you don’t put your whole life online, or make it easy for just anybody to figure out your location 🥴🥴🥴

    • @Ethereal_confusion
      @Ethereal_confusion 8 дней назад +15

      Just seeing that she is only FIFTEEN!!! Hopefully this is a wake up call for her parents and all parents to make sure your children aren’t putting info online

    • @newsystem420
      @newsystem420 7 дней назад +2

      Kids aren't protected online/are much more vulnerable to be exploited, and there's too many of these sickos out there that need to be apprehended.

  • @cherylbarbane91
    @cherylbarbane91 7 дней назад +9

    Tictoc!! Why is a 15 year old on tictoc or whatever?? It's a dangerous world!! Please don't let your child go there!

  • @nanyabyzness3234
    @nanyabyzness3234 8 дней назад +29

    He says the Law of Assumption... It is the Law of Attraction LOL

    • @visualmoon2771
      @visualmoon2771 4 дня назад

      The law of assumption states that, by believing the thing you want already exists in your life, you'll manifest it into existence. The law of assumption is a positive thinking tactic created by Neville Goddard as a method of reframing one's outlook.

    • @visualmoon2771
      @visualmoon2771 4 дня назад

      The basic philosophy behind the law of attraction is that energy precedes manifestation, explains Whitman. As such, positive thoughts may bring positive results into a person's life, while negative thoughts bring the opposite.

  • @FSUgrad
    @FSUgrad 7 дней назад +15

    Bigger question: where is Ky now?!! 👀

  • @kevintrotter2025
    @kevintrotter2025 8 дней назад +48

    I feel sorry for this guy. He is clearly going through a mental health issue

    • @debitopia
      @debitopia 8 дней назад +4

      Me too, he can't help it.

    • @lealovesthesea
      @lealovesthesea 7 дней назад

      I worked in a crisis stabilization hospital. We saw lots of young military guys. Thats the age major mental illness starts to rear its head.

    • @AmyAbbott-xc8sn
      @AmyAbbott-xc8sn 7 дней назад +6

      I do too even though it is completely inappropriate to go after a 15 year old girl. He’s obviously having a mental break of some sort.

    • @nowirehangers2815
      @nowirehangers2815 7 дней назад +2

      Sure
      Let him into your house with your kid
      See how far your sympathy extends then

  • @jasminewilder5329
    @jasminewilder5329 8 дней назад +51

    Schizophrenia

    • @moderator7169
      @moderator7169 7 дней назад

      Active army soldier??

    • @di3486
      @di3486 7 дней назад +1

      Creep

    • @basedlaya
      @basedlaya 4 дня назад

      Not everything is schizophrenia because you don’t understand it what is wrong with you RUclips pretend doctors ☠️

  • @stephaniebaker4024
    @stephaniebaker4024 8 дней назад +99

    This is one of many reasons minors should not be online . Parents wake up they do not need to be on social media I don’t care if it’s the new norm . She has no business having a tik tok at that age.

    • @roxannecrump7784
      @roxannecrump7784 8 дней назад +17

      Way to blame the victim and her family. Anything to avoid making it the responsibility of the man committing the crimes. Gross.

    • @hannahd9071
      @hannahd9071 8 дней назад

      @@roxannecrump7784shut up

    • @dobiacco
      @dobiacco 8 дней назад +48

      ​@@roxannecrump7784 Way to ignore the dangers of social media. Anything to avoid personal responsibility for parents, even if that means children get hurt. Gross.

    • @Fitkid7672
      @Fitkid7672 8 дней назад +14

      @@roxannecrump7784it goes both ways. Parents could be more involved too..

    • @rabblerousin8981
      @rabblerousin8981 8 дней назад

      @@roxannecrump7784what’s your kids’ channel?

  • @taraann7753
    @taraann7753 8 дней назад +51

    He’s a definite danger to women..how did he ever get into the Army.

    • @Smashingblouse
      @Smashingblouse 8 дней назад +5

      Maybe because on the application form they neglected to put “must not be dangerous”.

    • @debitopia
      @debitopia 8 дней назад +5

      Maybe due to stress, he snapped.

    • @nopenope9118
      @nopenope9118 7 дней назад +11

      Lots of soldiers are dangers to women unfortunately. Just because someone is in the military doesn’t mean they’re a stand-up citizen.

    • @ReigningWomban
      @ReigningWomban 7 дней назад

      @@debitopia Right.

    • @darklorddisco
      @darklorddisco 6 дней назад +2

      They are desperate for recruits

  • @analogdaniel
    @analogdaniel 7 дней назад +6

    Incredible job by the officer questioning him. Seemed to genuinely care. Impressive

  • @user-rc3pk4xy6r
    @user-rc3pk4xy6r 8 дней назад +61

    I actually feel bad for him. He is at the age we’re schizophrenia sets in and this looks a lot like that. Hopefully he’ll get some help.

    • @SeashelleBytheseashore
      @SeashelleBytheseashore 8 дней назад +19

      I know someone who developed Schizophrenia around 24. It was sad to watch him spiral down so quickly. I think you're right. The fixation and the way he's talking, etc.

    • @user-rc3pk4xy6r
      @user-rc3pk4xy6r 8 дней назад +13

      @@SeashelleBytheseashore Yep. That’s about the age it’s sets in for men.

  • @danstewart2770
    @danstewart2770 6 дней назад +3

    This has to be the most chill cop ever-at least in the context of ultimately arresting the guy.

  • @TheArabRussian
    @TheArabRussian 7 дней назад +10

    I am so thankful for our law enforcement here, they did an incredible job in this situation. Dr. John Mathias was just talking abt stalking on Hidden True Crime, and how it is a HUGE indicator of potential fatal acts later on. This guy clearly needs serious mental health intervention.

  • @tinameyer7080
    @tinameyer7080 6 дней назад +5

    It's such a shame that we have closed most of our mental health hospitals....

  • @WoodlandT
    @WoodlandT 8 дней назад +25

    I think this young man is at the beginning of schizophrenia developing. He’s experiencing ideas of reference delusions related to his obsession. He hasn’t tipped all the way into full blown psychosis yet. But he may be on his way. Except he just said he’s been having visions. Well I hope he’s able to get treatment for whatever is happening with him. He doesn’t seem like a naturally dangerous person at all. But if he’s ill and it progresses he could become a threat

    • @Pluto_Is_A_Planet_
      @Pluto_Is_A_Planet_ 7 дней назад +3

      Especially with him having military training/background.

    • @nowirehangers2815
      @nowirehangers2815 7 дней назад +3

      He’s already dangerous

    • @danstewart2770
      @danstewart2770 6 дней назад

      According to Professor Robert Sapolski (the world's greatest human behaviorist), schizophrenia is just about the worst possible mental illness that one could have (a condition you'd only wish on your worst enemies and ex-wife's mother). And, its onset is typically in the late teens thru early 20s for males (and furries).

  • @JoTracy
    @JoTracy 7 дней назад +7

    "Looking around for a house" close to his victim
    So damn creepy

  • @karmicscope5259
    @karmicscope5259 6 дней назад +4

    A $1000 bond??!!! That girl is in danger. $1000 is no deterrent for a crazed stalker.

  • @KirstenMarie_MS3
    @KirstenMarie_MS3 6 дней назад +4

    Guy thinks this "Law of Attraction" crap actually works and means he is entitled to the girl's attention and affection. Yikes.

  • @r0ckymarie
    @r0ckymarie 8 дней назад +8

    So glad this was treated seriously and they were able to keep him away from her../s

  • @realitychick4502
    @realitychick4502 8 дней назад +11

    Word salad ,lack of boundary recognition and narcissistic delusion 😢

  • @Boutys_mom
    @Boutys_mom 5 дней назад +2

    As sad as this dude is... on many levels, this police officer really was so very kind & patient. I hope all stay safe.

  • @beckyg.9087
    @beckyg.9087 7 дней назад +16

    He’s not out of his mind. He’s very conscious of where he is and what he’s doing, he knows what stalking is and wasn’t surprised when they charged him for it. Stalkers are great manipulators though top tier

  • @ginaverdi6101
    @ginaverdi6101 8 дней назад +13

    Scary I'm at the YMCA until I find a place here! She better keep aware of her surroundings at all time!

  • @aphrodittee3790
    @aphrodittee3790 7 дней назад +11

    This is 😢terrifying!
    This reminds of the podcaster who was stalked and stalker took her and her husband’s life.
    While her mom made a narrow escape from the stalker, who then ended his life. He too drove from Florida!

    • @musingsofharmony3159
      @musingsofharmony3159 7 дней назад +4

      Yeah, I remember that case. Definitely could have happened here also.

  • @realkangaroocafevietnam
    @realkangaroocafevietnam 7 дней назад +6

    The Constable is such a calm, decent & reasonable guy.

  • @aphrodittee3790
    @aphrodittee3790 7 дней назад +27

    😂 Stalker: “ Love is like a Rainbow 🌈 of Colors!..Shining bright spiritually!
    😂 Officer: 🙄Uh huh!

  • @allisonjames2923
    @allisonjames2923 7 дней назад +5

    What’s insane is that this guy has been homeless for 7 months in this state & hasn’t been given psychiatric treatment.

    • @EllaMaibee
      @EllaMaibee 7 дней назад +1

      Welcome to America

  • @molokomongalo6003
    @molokomongalo6003 7 дней назад +6

    Im so fascinated by the mind of a stalker, soon as a girl doesn't show interest, IM out. I just don't get it.

  • @tiffanispivak8993
    @tiffanispivak8993 7 дней назад +4

    So much praise & respect for this officer! Empathy, calm, professional. This video should be used for training police officers nationwide!
    Much respect!

  • @3mm3f
    @3mm3f 8 дней назад +39

    these are the kind of people who are really scary (mental issues aside, "if true") ... socially adept and knows how to charm because it reminds me of sociopathic behavior. hopefully he gets help right away. luckily for her she didnt ignore it (must be terrifying!). social media is such a menace now. price we all pay i guess.

    • @lealovesthesea
      @lealovesthesea 7 дней назад +2

      This is not sociopathic behavior. It’s delusional behavior.

    • @micahruthie
      @micahruthie 7 дней назад

      Socially adept? Charm? I don’t think so lol. Dude screams insanity. Not sociopathic, just schizophrenic or manic.

  • @Brandyyyyy
    @Brandyyyyy 6 дней назад +4

    Officer: "mhhm......mhmm....yeah....mhmm."
    😂 sounds like me when I hear some bs lol

  • @Realrich206
    @Realrich206 7 дней назад +7

    Wtf she was 15?? The title ain’t say that

  • @EDSzebra1
    @EDSzebra1 7 дней назад +8

    He is creepy AF!!!

  • @stripsss999
    @stripsss999 6 дней назад +4

    Omg 🤦 this is my second cousin. Come on bro. Really!?

  • @cloudygirl66
    @cloudygirl66 7 дней назад +7

    It's THANK YOU, not NO PROBLEM. I hate when people say no problem when you thank them for something.

    • @lolly_golightly
      @lolly_golightly 7 дней назад +3

      I think you likely intended to say “you’re welcome” would be better than “no problem”.

    • @danawilliams5622
      @danawilliams5622 7 дней назад +1

      Yup. When they say "Thank you for your service." You're supposed to answer, "Thank you for your support."

    • @EllaMaibee
      @EllaMaibee 7 дней назад +1

      Wait is this really a thing? I’ve always felt slightly weird saying “no problem “ but I still do anyways because saying you’re welcome sounds like too much idk

    • @PleaseStopTheGenocidesnow
      @PleaseStopTheGenocidesnow 7 дней назад

      How about thank you back
      Or thanks for your support
      or my pleasure in some instances
      or to the Police thank you for YOUR service.
      But at the moment there's worse things to worry about than him saying no problem because he needs help

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 6 дней назад +3

      @@EllaMaibee it’s a generational thing, some older people say “you’re welcome” and think “no problem” sounds flippant. Some younger people say “no problem” and think “you’re welcome” sounds over the top or a little arrogant

  • @jamesrobbins1243
    @jamesrobbins1243 8 дней назад +25

    No word on whether the cop was able to go to the jail with the stalker to tuck him in and read him a bedtime story.

  • @PumaLyn
    @PumaLyn 7 дней назад +7

    "Were you in Washington when you visualised her?" 😅

  • @sleepypop
    @sleepypop 7 дней назад +4

    he seriously lacks insight if he thinks everything he explained to the officer were not signs of “psychological issues”. sad, but absolutely terrifying for the tiktoker.

  • @robertkay9871
    @robertkay9871 8 дней назад +37

    This may be disturbing, but I feel sorry for him...

    • @michealowns21
      @michealowns21 8 дней назад +16

      I do too, because he obviously needs mental care and that's not in a jail,that's in a hospital.

    • @debitopia
      @debitopia 8 дней назад +12

      I feel terrible for him. He genuinely believes he has a special connection to her. I hope he gets the mental healthcare he needs.

    • @truthhurts2879
      @truthhurts2879 8 дней назад +16

      It's around this age schizophrenia shows itself, particularly in males. 😢

    • @Thilaro__
      @Thilaro__ 8 дней назад

      @@truthhurts2879literally does not matter, he’s mentally ill sure but he’s still a weirdo. Mental illness shouldn’t be an excuse to this

    • @nowirehangers2815
      @nowirehangers2815 7 дней назад +1

      Feel bad and sympathetic til he deletes someone you love
      Bet it won’t last long then

  • @kevinbernard9791
    @kevinbernard9791 6 дней назад +3

    Her life is in serious danger if she still intends to live there because he is moving to that area for HER?

  • @MrsHollyG
    @MrsHollyG 6 дней назад +2

    Stay offline kids, don’t post your whole life on the internet because you never know who’s watching and what they will do..

  • @peppermint.patti808
    @peppermint.patti808 8 дней назад +16

    So scary!!!!

  • @cathymartin6085
    @cathymartin6085 8 дней назад +7

    This is scary and why people on social media need to protect their identities and locations. I think they should use fake names and areas of their location to try and be safe. There is a TikTok super famous person that lives near me and everyone knows where she lives and she advertises her account on her car, I think she needs to be more discreet, there are lots out there that are not thinking right.

  • @JessicaDuBois
    @JessicaDuBois 8 дней назад +11

    I know someone that got hooked on meth and they thought the same things about random people. Hopefully he's not doing drugs!

  • @Eurocatbaby
    @Eurocatbaby 8 дней назад +20

    If he was AWOL why didn't they call the military to come and get him. I know they won't want either since he has mental issues. But they do need to prosecute him for leaving. Someone needs to get him help. Him writing that her rejection makes him stronger is a huge warning sign. It reminds me of the case 1989 when that creep stalked the actress Rebecca Schaeffer from my Sister Sam. She was murdered when he came to her apartment with a letter and picture she had sent him as a fan. Then she told him not to come back. He went and had something to eat and came back. When she opened the door she wasn't happy to see him. He pulled a gun and shot her in the chest. She never had a change. Her death was what got federal law regarding the release of personal information through the DMV was changed. The Driver's Privacy Protection Act, which prevents the DMV from releasing private addresses, was enacted in 1994. Schaeffer's death also helped prompt the 1990 passing of America's first anti-stalking laws, including California Penal Code 646.9.[

    • @Citrusfruits50
      @Citrusfruits50 8 дней назад +2

      RIP Rebecca.. yup I remember that

    • @debitopia
      @debitopia 8 дней назад +3

      He went AWOL and they caught him and he was discharged. He left, and drove to Florida.

    • @Eurocatbaby
      @Eurocatbaby 8 дней назад +3

      @@debitopia Thanks for the information. The dude news medical help before he does something he can't take back.

    • @Eurocatbaby
      @Eurocatbaby 8 дней назад +3

      @@Citrusfruits50 I remember hearing Pam Dawber who played Sam in the series talk about how devasted she was over the loss. Remember Theresa Saldana she was in played the wife in Commish. Had flim parts in Defiance and Raging Bull. A guy from Scotland saw her in those two movies and got fixated on her. Her stalker use the same method that Rebecca 's did. They hired a private invesigator that got the information from motor vehicle records. Theresa's was able to obtain her mother's unlisted phone number. Called pretending to be an assistant to Martin Scorsese and needed her daughter's address to get her for a part. So in March 1982 he approached her in front of her building and stabbed her with a knife. Puncturing her lung and stabbing her a total of 10 time. There were people around but when she screamed a deliveryman on the 2nd floor of her apartment and rushed down to help her. She was in the hospital 4 month. Saldana founded the Victims for Victims organization and participated in lobbying for the 1990 anti-stalking law and the 1994 Driver's Privacy Protection Act, both of which came into being partly as a consequence of the attack. I don't know if some of the social influencers remember these cases and they put everything online. There are so many crazy people. They have to protect themselves some way before we have another big case.

  • @nickieblume72
    @nickieblume72 8 дней назад +29

    Scary

    • @user-nl5hg9rl4h
      @user-nl5hg9rl4h 8 дней назад +1

      USUAL SUSPECT🧔🏻‍♂️👱🏼‍♀️👩🏼👩🏻🧔🏼‍♂️

    • @truthhurts2879
      @truthhurts2879 8 дней назад

      ​Blatts? 13/65 remember.

    • @autofocus4556
      @autofocus4556 7 дней назад

      @@user-nl5hg9rl4h 🧔🏾

  • @doygazgar
    @doygazgar 6 дней назад +3

    How did he find out where she lived? I'd love to know?😮 he's going to end up killing her if the necessary actions is not taken AND she needs to move address?

  • @Slampty
    @Slampty 8 дней назад +5

    Stalking barefoot, he is crazy.

  • @Enoughalready20237
    @Enoughalready20237 7 дней назад +3

    If she were a minor, he wouldn’t be able to find her specific address. Why is everyone saying she was a minor? One person makes a comment and everyone believes it. 😮

    • @AshlynTeague
      @AshlynTeague 7 дней назад +2

      It doesn't even matter. It's illegal to stalk anyone, man, woman, or child.

  • @RottsIGs
    @RottsIGs 7 дней назад +4

    Time to rethink the whole 'no mental illness' self diagnosis...

  • @Itzyhani
    @Itzyhani 7 дней назад +4

    This was going to end badly if she did not call the cops.
    SMH 🤦🏽‍♀️
    This young lady was one bad thought and two steps away from him breaking in and kidnapping her or worse.

  • @JillianPrimrose
    @JillianPrimrose 8 дней назад +42

    What a disgrace for our military.

    • @alinatarasyukrussianrefuge6549
      @alinatarasyukrussianrefuge6549 8 дней назад

      he is typical cannon fodder underachiever like you

    • @SueP-jg9vx
      @SueP-jg9vx 8 дней назад +11

      oh come on. Its some poor guy who might have early schizophrenia. Give him a break

    • @Hunee-
      @Hunee- 8 дней назад +13

      Do you think military members are any different than being human? You will find every crime out there has once been committed by a veteran.

    • @elizabethd8147
      @elizabethd8147 8 дней назад +5

      ​@SueP-jg9vx give a legal adult man a break for stalking an underage girl? Wow! That mentality of yours speaks volumes about your character!
      He's 30 and she's 15 and you're defending him??? Unbelievable!

    • @SueP-jg9vx
      @SueP-jg9vx 8 дней назад +4

      @@elizabethd8147 she was underage? when did it say that?

  • @ericsc28
    @ericsc28 8 дней назад +22

    I feel bad for the kid and hope he gets the help he needs

  • @777Pattie
    @777Pattie 8 дней назад +32

    Wait ...... he's not staying at the YMCA but his wallet is there with his Driver's License because he's staying there😳???
    Wow did the Police Officer miss that???
    He's driving around without his Driver's License.
    You get a ticket in Virginia (or at least you use too) if you leave your wallet at home with your Driver's License in it.
    Well at least he's been arrested & hopefully he gets psychological help.

    • @misseselise3864
      @misseselise3864 8 дней назад +5

      the YMCA is a rec center, not a residence

    • @hayleymariemills
      @hayleymariemills 8 дней назад +4

      He never said he was staying there... Just that his wallet is there

    • @Krose333
      @Krose333 7 дней назад +3

      ​@misseselise3864 Some YMCAs still offer short-term, basic housing. Just like the song about the YMCA from the 70s suggests.

    • @hayleymariemills
      @hayleymariemills 7 дней назад

      @@Krose333 some still are but in this instance he never said that he was staying there like the original comment said

    • @bunniewood
      @bunniewood 7 дней назад +1

      He’s also barefoot in the middle of nowhere

  • @just-a-cupcake
    @just-a-cupcake 8 дней назад +10

    I just wish parents would keep their kids off social media. It's just a cess pool.

    • @jbgrace66
      @jbgrace66 7 дней назад +1

      Why do u assume this isn't an adult?

    • @just-a-cupcake
      @just-a-cupcake 7 дней назад +4

      @@jbgrace66 Bc she's 15. Where I come from, 15 is not an adult.

    • @Arbysroastbeefjuice
      @Arbysroastbeefjuice 7 дней назад

      A cess pool of unhinged men

  • @brendamendoza4975
    @brendamendoza4975 7 дней назад +3

    Hes actually plesent but needs mental help .. hope he gets the help he needs..hope the girl is ok

  • @YvonneMelvin
    @YvonneMelvin 7 дней назад +4

    That’s frightening

  • @ZacchaeusNifong
    @ZacchaeusNifong 8 дней назад +6

    Is this the same guy that went out to California on a Marine weekend trip and vanished? The stories are eerily similar.

    • @SS-iw2nq
      @SS-iw2nq 7 дней назад +2

      This guy is Army.

  • @horatiomh
    @horatiomh 6 дней назад +2

    Politest stalker I've seen

  • @abbswinston4258
    @abbswinston4258 8 дней назад +3

    Soldier or not he needs to go to prison just like all others who were convicted and sent to prison. Period. He’s nothing special to allow him to get a free pass. FH

  • @jbgrace66
    @jbgrace66 7 дней назад +5

    Why are people saying this is a 15-year-old? Please post ur source I wanna know too 😂😂😂

    • @geraldinenolan6312
      @geraldinenolan6312 7 дней назад

      Because that was stated early on

    • @christhefish11
      @christhefish11 7 дней назад

      @@geraldinenolan6312yes in a comment, doesn’t make it true.

  • @HB-iq6bl
    @HB-iq6bl 6 дней назад +2

    Justice is not served for the victim

  • @saharasafari9
    @saharasafari9 8 дней назад +30

    A whole Freak, sociopaths that don’t care about Their actions affecting other just their own urges

  • @henrymcmiller2527
    @henrymcmiller2527 8 дней назад +18

    Employers and colleges ask former military personnel their status after their discharge. If his discharge was less than honorable, he could have a problem.

    • @user-nl5hg9rl4h
      @user-nl5hg9rl4h 8 дней назад +2

      USUAL SUSPECT:🧔🏻‍♂️

    • @supercompactsecurityreferral
      @supercompactsecurityreferral 7 дней назад

      colleges are exploitive businesses that do the same thing.
      quit sweeping for them.

    • @bumpkin-ph6yi
      @bumpkin-ph6yi 7 дней назад

      colleges are exploitivebusinesses that do the same thing.
      quit sweeping for them.

    • @bumpkin-ph6yi
      @bumpkin-ph6yi 7 дней назад

      collegesare exploitivebusinesses that do the same thing.
      quitsweeping for them.

    • @bumpkin-ph6yi
      @bumpkin-ph6yi 7 дней назад

      they're literally the ones doing all the censoring.
      it's hypersstate ssubsidizedffeudalism

  • @Van-hb2lk
    @Van-hb2lk 8 дней назад +19

    this dude is dangerous. keep him locked up