also for inexperienced bird owners (or visitors to bird houses), don't forget that if they don't trust that your hand is stable then they'll test it with their beak like Cody was a few times. I've seen a lot of people pull their hands away thinking it was a bite but in reality the poor bird was about the step up and was then confused! haha
ive never seen anywhere how to troubleshoot if your bird has stepped up onto your finger and then bites it while perching there. they used to be just putting their beak on my finger but it had turned into a bite what do you do in that situation
when i rescued ronald he hadnt been out of the cage or touched in 14 years so when i tried to put my hand in he would flip out, so each day i just sat beside his cage with my hand inside the cage it took about 2 weeks but one day he just stepped on ❤ and i managed to bring him out of his cage and after that he changed and became tame and loving really quick, i got flapped at abd bite a few times befor the but perservering was the best thing ive ever done, he has a lovely free happy life now with lots of love and he brings me so much joy, so to anyone who thinks this is never going to happen my parrot hates me just be patient they will come around, and its so worth it xx
Haha when Picasso's on your shoulder he doesn't take his eyes off you. I can imagine in his little birdy head he's saying to you "Are you thinking about me? I know you are. Just look at how beautiful I am. I knew there was a reason you chose me. It's because I'm gorgeous. Go on, give me a kiss and tell me how great I am. I know you can't resist this hunk of love."
I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else is searching for how to teach your parrot to talk try Hopandar Amazing Parrot Helper ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate got amazing success with it.
I'm so thankful, that people like you exist. I believe so many parrots have now a better life because their owners watched your videos before adopting them or giving them up for adoption. Thank, thank, thank you Soooo much! I'm always happy to see experienced parrot owners who give helpful advice and people who build big costume avaries for not much money.
Dhashini Pira it’s my number one pet peeve! When my mum comes in and turns the fans on I get so pissed because it’s the birds time out and she just put them in danger
I just got my African grey a few days ago! He hasn't been handled in about six years, he came out of his cage two days ago (we got him Monday) and will take treats from my hand! Yesterday he let me pet his head, he still doesn't want to step up if I offer my hand but he doesn't mind it being near him!
Just read or / on your mobile phone , and let the bird come to you to see wot you doing , and have a treat / in secret to show the bird to have on your shoulder .....good luck .
Faith Lauren so Faith where are you at now 9 months later with your grey. We just got one on Fri Sat he came out of his cage and will let us hand feed him. But no touch. He is singing and making his noises. Last night when he went inside to eat we closed the door. He ate then put his head down and let us pet his head. It was sooo rewarding. Can't wait for more engagement . So exciting. Like yours Jake was neglected after his daddy died 2 years ago.
Teach them free flight. So you can take them out and fly them. Get a bird harness first then gradually teach it to come back. This is the best bird owner to me not someone who keeps them in the house all day like this chic in this video.
@@Tiger_Pawzzzzz seriously??? Not everyone can take there birds to be free flighted. Mine arnt because there are too many bigger birds in my area. Free flying is amazing and whoever does it is inspiring but its not always possible.
i love how you explain things, ive watched a lot of videos like this, but yours is by far the clearest and most understandable, you always do such a great job
@MarleneMc'Cohen I just joined PARROT STATION the day before I rescued my three babies! Most of the fellow Parronts have been lovely & amazingly helpful! So thankful I found your channel and your station! Thank you!
I think Picasso has realized that your behavior talking to a camera is weird and he is trying to communicate with you to see if you are allright. You said a million words.
Just what I needed. I find myself getting frustrated at times with our progress. I always make time to take my amazon out on a daily basis. She's not comfortable with hands so I have a hard time getting her out with my arm/hand as a perch, but she loves to come out & hang on top of her cage. Rare & a BIG treat for me when Memín decides to step down or fly off her cage. That's the only time she trusts me enough to offer her my hand as a perch. I'm so glad I found your channel! & love that you point out different types of engagement. Although I find myself wanting more in response/bonding, I know it's important to give it time. Glad I found this oldie but goodie Vid 💚💛🐦💚💛
I don't have a birdy friend yet, I hope to have a cockatiel when I have the space for one, but I have to say that I have loved watching your videos. Your love and passion for birds is so heart warming, I can tell you love them with everything you have and it is so sweet. I hope to learn everything I can so one day I can be a good bird owner. :D
I am getting my Quaker Parrot tomorrow and I thoroughly enjoyed your video - its given me some confidence to be the best parrot owner I can possibly be!
I don't think birds are for everyone, as a bird person myself I know what's involved in having a bird and how difficult it can be sometimes. Please be careful when considering a bird as a pet.
We just got a new African grey yesterday thankfully in the morning today he let me touch him and he stepped up. All day his been stepping up whistling and sitting on my shoulder 😊❤️ I love your videos Marlene keep doing them ! Very helpful and educational x
Hi, Marlene, Picasso is so adorable! I'm so sorry he flew away. I hope he comes home some day or that someone that has him realizes he is your bird and you are reunited!!! After getting to know you so much more and you birds, I feel so sad but happy, when watching you with Picasso!!! Love, big hugs, prayers. Barb, Baby, Beenie :)
Awesome job on this one Marlene!❤ I especially love the "hands on" approach videos like this one. I'm sure many of your followers would agree that this type of video aids in their learning far better than one where a person just sits or stands in front of a camera and only TALKS through the steps. in a private message you mentioned this video might not apply to me since Santina and I are past these stages. However true this might be, think of Lisa and her bird Simba. This video is also great for retraining from the start if a situation like Lisa's comes up. I 💘 that you really truly listen to us on the parrot station and engagednotcaged then bring our questions, fears and concerns over to RUclips and allow us the joy of seeing you and your beautiful birds while answering all of our questions. AWESOME❤AWESOME❤AWESOME!!!! P.S. check your private message for a picture of what I looked like after waiting up til 3a.m. for this video. Hahaha
Wow! Thank you so much for this and other coaching videos. I am in the process of adopting an African Grey that is 13 yrs old and you are really giving me hope that I can really be a good daddy to the little bugger... 💕🙏👍
I feel like this is an informational channel for someone who wants a bigger bird like an African gray, a mustache parakeet, or a bigger bird like that. Now that doesn't mean that this isn't the only channel but Marlene is one of the many channels who knows a lot about birds. Edit: I am thinking about getting a bird so a channel like this or other channels that have good info on what bird is best for someone
My budgie, Dollar, now only likes the improvised perch I made for her which puts her just above and to the left of my head when I'm sitting at my desk, working on my computer. Otherwise, she (its a female) tends to just find some place like under a chair or table where she apparently "thinks" she's hiding. When she's on her perch and wants my attention, she now comes down and gets onto my hand even when I'm typing on the keyboard. If I don't respond, she begins pulling the hairs on the back of my hand until I do what she wants (usually, she wants to ride my hand to the TV so she can watch it). It's taken 60 days to get this far, for weeks I thought she might never adapt to living outside the cage at the pet shop.
Thanks Marlene. We both know this is a two way learning process and both the person and the bird have to learn from each other. It will be interesting to see how Dollar handles flying after she molts. I think she's going to be a bit longer before that happens. I'm sorry that the pet shop clips the wings of their birds, I definitely prefer birds that can fly around the apartment. Until then, she's learning to ask for a ride and even walks to near where she wants to be lifted up and starts chirping. Tonight she even walked by herself to the bedroom because I was "late" taking her to her cage for night time. :-)
Great insights Marlene! Thanks so much for your advocacy for exotic birds....they are so amazing, intelligent, aware, and devoted! Who knew? But we need to keep trying to ensure they all have the best lives possible since they are unable to fulfill their lives in the wild and naturally...interact with your parrots!!
when I got my birth on March 12 he was great but he got sick and he lost his memory and he got so aggressive I try everything and nothing works ca you help me?
I heard leave the cage open and I subscribed instantly. Thank you for advocating for their freedom! I look forward to bonding with my new girl using your ideas.
Very helpful, thank you. It is so difficult to know when you are a first time bird owner what to change and when you are pushing too hard for change and too lenient and creating bad habits. Very clear advice and explanation of why to do it. Thank you!
I recently rescued a cockatiel 2 days ago. Clearly never been touched, no information on the gender or age. I'm excited to build a relationship with a much needed rescue bird
Riley Jay hey as an owner of 4 cockatiels, all of which were rescued from different homes. I would definitely recommend just sitting near them and giving them some space, then try placing your finger on their chest until they hop on, if they try running maybe try putting food in your hand
My LoveBird is very skittish and scared and if I let the cage open he'll just fly all over the place and hit himself so what should I do? Even if he doesn't fly all over the place how will I get him back into his cage? Please I really need help
ThisBeautifulRomance Stay away from Macaws, Cockatoos, Amazon's and similar. They live to be at least 80 years old, are loud, and definitely not for beginners. Pet stores say that Budgies live 5-7 years, but with the right environment they can live 15-20. You can get a budgie for 20 dollars at your local pet store, but they won't always bond with you. I have a Myers Parrot, and while they can be argumentative, they're relatively quiet and easy going. (Most of the time). And whenever possible, #adoptdontshop.
ThisBeautifulRomance i would recommend a conure they are usaully fun and playful or cuddly. or even a parakeet, a lot of people think they cant have a good relationship or bond with it like a iigger bird but they are both wonderful
From what I've read, no to the Indian ring neck. I have intermediate experience, and I'd say either a conure or Senegal would be okay. My conures are okay behavior-wise for the most part. One has never bit me out of anger or fear while the other is cage aggressive and moody. They are both noisy and destructive. One is needy while the other is pretty independent. I've had them going on 6 years now and love them both but this video is spot on, so think hard on your decision to get one.
Thank you I'm getting my bird Wednesday and it a Quaker parrot, It's been hand raised. This will be my very first bird and I'm supper excited and I'm watching all you videos so I can learn a lot and reading up on things to!!
Ma'am I have a female alexandrine parrot about 5-6 months old. I love her so much, but she bites very badly my hand or finger or whatever I take near her. She's with me for about a month but is still the same. Everyday she bleeds my hand with her bite. What should I do? And one more thing, when I give her anything to eat, even a small gram, she takes it very peacefully without attacking my fingers! I really don't understand why is she so much afraid of me! 😥😢
We just rescued 2 10 year old+ parrots (an African grey and Galah Cockatoo) and both of them have spent way too much time caged. They are very nervous and bitey and this is the first time ive had an older bird. This video and others of yours have helped tremendously!!! Keep up the great work!
jason wells no bird is a jerk just misunderstood if you can’t handle him or think that he is a “jerk” give him to a SPCA. Just try you’ll be rewarded if your just patient and spend lots of time with them
Thank you for this thorough video there’s nothing like it on RUclips I will try these techniques with my biting Black Cap Conure Túpaq “Túpy” I already do some techniques like holding him in a cloth, try to put him on a perch and play the step up game but I will try to keep him out on the perch stand from room to room and let him come out of the cage on his own etc I can’t wait to try these techniques thanks and MashaAllah sis
If you put a mirror in your bird's cage it will most likely get frustrated because his reflection doesn't interact with him then he will become aggressive.
Today I brought home a baby budgie from a breeder. His name is Akoni and he is so beautiful. Akoni is about a month and a half or so old, and has been hand fed. If you’re considering a breeder and a pet store, the breeder is definitely worth it. Within 2 hours of Akoni being in his cage, he let me pet him. He doesn’t move much haha, but that is expected. I’m super excited for him to get used to his environment and be chirping all day. When it comes to his training, I do have experience as a dog trainer, which I’m glad about because my patients is pretty strong with things like this. I’m really excited to see where these next few years go with Akoni.
Dance with him, you will find out pretty fast, some birds, like to dance some don't. George my African Grey wasn't a dancer he was a singer, Picasso doesn't dance either but all my other birds do.
Thank you for the ideas. I took in an abandoned budgie that was clearly never hand tamed. We’ve worked on stepping up with him in the cage and he’s made amazing progress. He has grown to like me and engages in singing and dancing and eating treats from my hand. We have a good bond starting and a routine. It’s just he panics every time I take him out of his cage and flies hysterically around. I try not to make him feel like I’m chasing him, but it doesn’t always work. I never thought of leaving the cage door open and to let him decide when he’s ready to come out. I think this is going to change a lot for him. ❤️ I just want him to be the happiest budgie in the world.
Thank you so much for these tips. I learned so much! My parakeet is letting me carry him on his swing. He likes to watch the wild birds out the window.
Masa Mohammed hi I'm not sure if you got your answer but what I use to do for my bird was get a perch (tree branch) and get him on it and just put my hand or a book above his head this helps prevent him from flying off the perch you have them on I also worked a technique where I played with the toys in my birds cage or his food in his food bowl he would get into the cage by himself. But when they figure out that you're using this as a tactic they stop doing it lol!
+Lilac Carb am suffering with taming my cockatiel once he is out of the cage there is no power on earth that can put him back in😂😂he flies everywhere and I run after him until I catch him last time I spent about 45 min trying to get him in the cage nothing seem to work with him
Love your videos, personally I've probably watched and rewatched too many of them. In this case, I brought home a new bird and wanted to watch this video again because it's 100% good advise. PLEASE keep doing what you do, I just wanted to extend some gratitude for the excellent parront tips. You are awesome, also I hope Picasso is okay, it was a little tear jerking to see Picasso again, such a sweet bird, I really hope he's doing okay. Much love!!
FRECKLED WOLF 99 my two birds flew away from the top of the cage but eventually they went back to their cage because it’s their safe place btw they weren’t hand tamed when they did this
I’m getting my first bird tomorrow!😬😬 Cockatiel! He’s 7 months old and living in a dingy pet store!😢😢 I have a lovebird coming in a couple months who will be hand raised but my heart is telling me I need to get one of these cockatiels! I know it’s going to be hard work! I want his wings clipped so I can train him easier! They go nuts when someone approaches the cage! I’m slightly worried that I’ll scare him! I also have 4 kids a Mastiff and 2 cats! Im a single mom and share 50/50 custody! I love birds! My ex wouldn’t allow me to have one! It feels like Christmas Eve right now!🤣 I’ve done lots of research but watching you has given me hope! Thanks so much!! Keep being you!
Great video Marlene, not just a set of rules but explaining why and when to do or not do something is so helpful. Plus having real life examples is so helpful. Thanks for this video. 👍
You remind me of a younger me with these birds.. You do things as I would have at your age and even now... I really love your videos.. Right now I have a cockatiel and a blue quaker doing really well adjusting as she blue quaker has been here only 6days and came to me strait away...now the cockatiel is much older and we have had her 5 years age is unknown she is not only jealous but only goes to certain people but even though she lets me and my daughter hold her on our shoulders she does not like affection from just anyone so she toys away from them or gets to the point she protects her territory for sure...
You are excellent you speak well you don't speak too fast you are clear I like your style and you are great not to have any music in the background thank you I've just got two new birds and I'm very interested in your style thank you
Love you chica!!! Been watching and following for about 2 years now. I just got a 2 month old green cheeked. He's scared of hands atm. I use the perch method to move him from place to place. Mind you I've only had him 9 days. But any information and knowledge you share I greatly appreciate. Much love. Kiss the flock 🦜 💋 Stay safe, happy and healthy!!! Fellow flocker, Paulus and Elwood
Thank you so much for this video, I had a grey african for a month and I've been trying to tame him since the first day, I was going through a lot of frustration, because he kept on biting me, but today I watched this video and I worked with my parrot for like 2 hours and it went really good. I don't know how to thank you 😭💕
Great information! IMO you should teach even more! I have taken classes at Parrot University, and I have learned more with this one video! Thank you for taking the time to help all of us be better Parrot Parents :-)
I love your videos, you have educaated me so much! I was a horrible cage bird owner... some how I knew I was wrong but.. there was no You tube then.....I watched videos and came across yours and they made so much sense. Thank you... My dogs (4 large, well trained) , horses, (2 ridden in cool comps), chickens - just doing chicken stuff :) and keeping an eye n my 89 yo mum who cooks and lives life large (Eunice)... All in all, I think my cockatiel (Marvin) has won best from your videos....I have learned a lot, therefore I have helped him as much as I can. I now take him on weekends away, and my buddies look forward to seeing him... You have given me the confidence to do this.. thank you so much!!
Thankyou so so so much Marlene! This educated me too well.. I don't know y didn't I get across this video properly before but thank you so very much I hope I will surely have a happier bird from tomorrow on.. I'll do all that I can! Lots of love to you and your feather babies .. 💖💖💖
Best video I've watched about bird taming! I'm getting a bird because I just turned 14 and I was kinda nervous about bringing it home and me failing at taming it, but I feel more prepared.
omg I'd be in heaven at your place! your birds are amazing. I hope to own a cockatoo in a few years. I know it's a huge commitment so I am trying to learn and research as much as possible. this channel has great information and insight. thanks 😊
I've got a pair of budgies recently, I was looking for bonding tips and tricks, this is the best one! Trust me I've watched more than 40-50 videos on this..
Glad u said something about u having a Facebook for us too. Never thought of searching for u. However I watch ur videos constantly. Maybe always try to mention ur other social media stuff. I love u and ur videos.
This is a very helfpul video....but I'm wondering what to do with my bird whos new, about 10 months, and was OVER clipped. so she has no balance and cant seem to climb on the cage at all. She has lot of perches and I want to let her out but she just cant get from place to place.
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also for inexperienced bird owners (or visitors to bird houses), don't forget that if they don't trust that your hand is stable then they'll test it with their beak like Cody was a few times. I've seen a lot of people pull their hands away thinking it was a bite but in reality the poor bird was about the step up and was then confused! haha
Yeah that will happen a lot!!!
ive never seen anywhere how to troubleshoot if your bird has stepped up onto your finger and then bites it while perching there. they used to be just putting their beak on my finger but it had turned into a bite what do you do in that situation
Hannah Stevenson thank you I am getting a bird this December and this was helpful to know
That’s really confusing with my bird she mostly bites but sometimes I let her and she steps or she bites
Hannah Stevenson yeah but mine opens my mouth when I get close
when i rescued ronald he hadnt been out of the cage or touched in 14 years so when i tried to put my hand in he would flip out, so each day i just sat beside his cage with my hand inside the cage it took about 2 weeks but one day he just stepped on ❤ and i managed to bring him out of his cage and after that he changed and became tame and loving really quick, i got flapped at abd bite a few times befor the but perservering was the best thing ive ever done, he has a lovely free happy life now with lots of love and he brings me so much joy, so to anyone who thinks this is never going to happen my parrot hates me just be patient they will come around, and its so worth it xx
Ronald, is so lucky to have you!!
+MARLENE MC'COHEN thankyou so much, i feel like the lucky one tho x
+rose rose thankyou he really is worth every second x
Sade Lewis thank you
You are Spectacular!! So wish all birds in captivity had such an amazing opportunity from their caretakers/flock member!!!
Haha when Picasso's on your shoulder he doesn't take his eyes off you. I can imagine in his little birdy head he's saying to you "Are you thinking about me? I know you are. Just look at how beautiful I am. I knew there was a reason you chose me. It's because I'm gorgeous. Go on, give me a kiss and tell me how great I am. I know you can't resist this hunk of love."
+Outlinegm well all of that is most likely true💖💜🐦
He's a little stunner. I'd never heard of his breed until I saw your videos but they seem to be so chilled.
That is exactly what I would like to think he is thinking...lol
When Picasso gets put in the cage
Picasso- what is this?! Why am I back in here? Bring me out human! I command you!
I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else is searching for how to teach your parrot to talk try Hopandar Amazing Parrot Helper ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my mate got amazing success with it.
I'm so thankful, that people like you exist. I believe so many parrots have now a better life because their owners watched your videos before adopting them or giving them up for adoption.
Thank, thank, thank you Soooo much!
I'm always happy to see experienced parrot owners who give helpful advice and people who build big costume avaries for not much money.
Picasso is such a sweet bird, so quiet and attentive, the perfect avian companion.
He is the best!!
One rule for having a bird... ALWAYS TURN OFF THE FAN
Dhashini Pira i feel like there is a story behind this
Dhashini Pira it’s my number one pet peeve! When my mum comes in and turns the fans on I get so pissed because it’s the birds time out and she just put them in danger
Dhashini Pira YES
Fans gave me so much anxiety when I had budgies.
yesss once i had my budgie out and the fan was on he flew near it so i never have him out near the fan
I just got my African grey a few days ago! He hasn't been handled in about six years, he came out of his cage two days ago (we got him Monday) and will take treats from my hand! Yesterday he let me pet his head, he still doesn't want to step up if I offer my hand but he doesn't mind it being near him!
Just read or / on your mobile phone , and let the bird come to you to see wot you doing , and have a treat / in secret to show the bird to have on your shoulder .....good luck .
Faith Lauren so Faith where are you at now 9 months later with your grey. We just got one on Fri Sat he came out of his cage and will let us hand feed him. But no touch. He is singing and making his noises. Last night when he went inside to eat we closed the door. He ate then put his head down and let us pet his head. It was sooo rewarding. Can't wait for more engagement . So exciting. Like yours Jake was neglected after his daddy died 2 years ago.
It was a day later after giving my bird lots of attention, there was SO much progression.
THANK YOU!
My cousin has a bird named birdie sanders
lmaoooooooo :::))))
my dad came up with jo birden
Thank you for this video!!! I'm getting a new bird in 2 weeks and I want to be as prepared as possible
Kclaempress Did you end up getting your bird? What types is it?
You're welcome!! Keep us updated!!
Teach them free flight. So you can take them out and fly them. Get a bird harness first then gradually teach it to come back. This is the best bird owner to me not someone who keeps them in the house all day like this chic in this video.
@@Tiger_Pawzzzzz seriously??? Not everyone can take there birds to be free flighted. Mine arnt because there are too many bigger birds in my area. Free flying is amazing and whoever does it is inspiring but its not always possible.
i love how you explain things, ive watched a lot of videos like this, but yours is by far the clearest and most understandable, you always do such a great job
@MarleneMc'Cohen I just joined PARROT STATION the day before I rescued my three babies! Most of the fellow Parronts have been lovely & amazingly helpful! So thankful I found your channel and your station! Thank you!
Thank you so much for the amazing comment and for being a part of ur community!!
I think Picasso has realized that your behavior talking to a camera is weird and he is trying to communicate with you to see if you are allright. You said a million words.
Just what I needed. I find myself getting frustrated at times with our progress. I always make time to take my amazon out on a daily basis. She's not comfortable with hands so I have a hard time getting her out with my arm/hand as a perch, but she loves to come out & hang on top of her cage. Rare & a BIG treat for me when Memín decides to step down or fly off her cage. That's the only time she trusts me enough to offer her my hand as a perch. I'm so glad I found your channel! & love that you point out different types of engagement. Although I find myself wanting more in response/bonding, I know it's important to give it time. Glad I found this oldie but goodie Vid 💚💛🐦💚💛
we call their 'cage' a
ONE BIRDROOM CONDO. just sounds better. i dont ever want my grey to feel 'caged'. thanks for the great advice. just subscribed.
Thank you so much. For educating all of us. I am getting a bird because of you. Thanks so much
I don't have a birdy friend yet, I hope to have a cockatiel when I have the space for one, but I have to say that I have loved watching your videos. Your love and passion for birds is so heart warming, I can tell you love them with everything you have and it is so sweet. I hope to learn everything I can so one day I can be a good bird owner. :D
Isn’t she stunning?? 🤩
I am getting my Quaker Parrot tomorrow and I thoroughly enjoyed your video - its given me some confidence to be the best parrot owner I can possibly be!
I don't think birds are for everyone, as a bird person myself I know what's involved in having a bird and how difficult it can be sometimes. Please be careful when considering a bird as a pet.
Rio Hemmings thank you. I got a bird and even if it was a mistake I will give him a better life than sending him down a hell hole
We just got a new African grey yesterday thankfully in the morning today he let me touch him and he stepped up. All day his been stepping up whistling and sitting on my shoulder 😊❤️ I love your videos Marlene keep doing them ! Very helpful and educational x
Lol, I'm showing my bird this video.
Hi, Marlene, Picasso is so adorable! I'm so sorry he flew away. I hope he comes home some day or that someone that has him realizes he is your bird and you are reunited!!! After getting to know you so much more and you birds, I feel so sad but happy, when watching you with Picasso!!! Love, big hugs, prayers. Barb, Baby, Beenie :)
It’s so sad! I miss Picasso so much! He’s such a little angel.
@@cheese4200 I agree yes, Picasso is a little angel.
Awesome job on this one Marlene!❤ I especially love the "hands on" approach videos like this one. I'm sure many of your followers would agree that this type of video aids in their learning far better than one where a person just sits or stands in front of a camera and only TALKS through the steps. in a private message you mentioned this video might not apply to me since Santina and I are past these stages. However true this might be, think of Lisa and her bird Simba. This video is also great for retraining from the start if a situation like Lisa's comes up. I 💘 that you really truly listen to us on the parrot station and engagednotcaged then bring our questions, fears and concerns over to RUclips and allow us the joy of seeing you and your beautiful birds while answering all of our questions. AWESOME❤AWESOME❤AWESOME!!!! P.S. check your private message for a picture of what I looked like after waiting up til 3a.m. for this video. Hahaha
Wow! Thank you so much for this and other coaching videos. I am in the process of adopting an African Grey that is 13 yrs old and you are really giving me hope that I can really be a good daddy to the little bugger... 💕🙏👍
I feel like this is an informational channel for someone who wants a bigger bird like an African gray, a mustache parakeet, or a bigger bird like that. Now that doesn't mean that this isn't the only channel but Marlene is one of the many channels who knows a lot about birds.
Edit: I am thinking about getting a bird so a channel like this or other channels that have good info on what bird is best for someone
I love it when the birds talk and get all silly. I don't mind bird bloopers at all
My budgie, Dollar, now only likes the improvised perch I made for her which puts her just above and to the left of my head when I'm sitting at my desk, working on my computer. Otherwise, she (its a female) tends to just find some place like under a chair or table where she apparently "thinks" she's hiding. When she's on her perch and wants my attention, she now comes down and gets onto my hand even when I'm typing on the keyboard. If I don't respond, she begins pulling the hairs on the back of my hand until I do what she wants (usually, she wants to ride my hand to the TV so she can watch it). It's taken 60 days to get this far, for weeks I thought she might never adapt to living outside the cage at the pet shop.
It is so great that you came that far!!
Thanks Marlene. We both know this is a two way learning process and both the person and the bird have to learn from each other. It will be interesting to see how Dollar handles flying after she molts. I think she's going to be a bit longer before that happens. I'm sorry that the pet shop clips the wings of their birds, I definitely prefer birds that can fly around the apartment. Until then, she's learning to ask for a ride and even walks to near where she wants to be lifted up and starts chirping. Tonight she even walked by herself to the bedroom because I was "late" taking her to her cage for night time. :-)
MARLENE MC'COHEN omg thank you for this!!! Now I can tame my budgie easily and I might name him Picasso!!! ❤😁
That is so cute!!
The Defenders Team my Gray refuses to step up, take food let me hold it...i am so sad..help
I like how the bird on your shoulder is just staring at your face. Such intensity.
love it
Hello Tsai Ian Thank you so much for watching!! It really means a lot!!
Great insights Marlene! Thanks so much for your advocacy for exotic birds....they are so amazing, intelligent, aware, and devoted! Who knew? But we need to keep trying to ensure they all have the best lives possible since they are unable to fulfill their lives in the wild and naturally...interact with your parrots!!
when I got my birth on March 12 he was great but he got sick and he lost his memory and he got so aggressive I try everything and nothing works
ca you help me?
I heard leave the cage open and I subscribed instantly. Thank you for advocating for their freedom! I look forward to bonding with my new girl using your ideas.
You're very pretty Marlene and I love how you love animals.
This is THE BEST video I’ve seen on RUclips for this exact topic
Very helpful I love it thx
Very helpful, thank you. It is so difficult to know when you are a first time bird owner what to change and when you are pushing too hard for change and too lenient and creating bad habits. Very clear advice and explanation of why to do it. Thank you!
my birds loose -> poop everywhere
My mom is a bird whisperer. She rescues birds and eventually they all stand on her shoulder and talk to her.
I love your mom!!!
I recently rescued a cockatiel 2 days ago. Clearly never been touched, no information on the gender or age. I'm excited to build a relationship with a much needed rescue bird
Awesome!! let us know how it turns out!!
Riley Jay hey as an owner of 4 cockatiels, all of which were rescued from different homes. I would definitely recommend just sitting near them and giving them some space, then try placing your finger on their chest until they hop on, if they try running maybe try putting food in your hand
I just brought home my rescue Severe Macaw. This is super useful! Thank you so much!
My LoveBird is very skittish and scared and if I let the cage open he'll just fly all over the place and hit himself so what should I do? Even if he doesn't fly all over the place how will I get him back into his cage? Please I really need help
This was so helpful! I'm getting a bird soon and this answered so many questions. Thank you so much!!
When you take your not tamed bird out how do you put him or her back inside the cage?
Neeka Yarandi with a lot of Bravery and a big good luck lol
Lots of millet
I am planning on getting a Cockatiel Soon and this was one of my biggest concerns when bringing him home. Thank you so much for this!
So many long comments that I am too lazy to read XD
WHAT A MOOD!!!
lol haha😂
Good Afternoon… Sending sooo much love from the Dominican Republic, XoXoXo!!!
What type of bird would you recommend for someone who's never had one but wants a good devoted relationship with one?
ThisBeautifulRomance Stay away from Macaws, Cockatoos, Amazon's and similar. They live to be at least 80 years old, are loud, and definitely not for beginners. Pet stores say that Budgies live 5-7 years, but with the right environment they can live 15-20. You can get a budgie for 20 dollars at your local pet store, but they won't always bond with you. I have a Myers Parrot, and while they can be argumentative, they're relatively quiet and easy going. (Most of the time). And whenever possible, #adoptdontshop.
ThisBeautifulRomance i would recommend a conure they are usaully fun and playful or cuddly. or even a parakeet, a lot of people think they cant have a good relationship or bond with it like a iigger bird but they are both wonderful
Gimja Animates is an Indian ringneck ok??????
From what I've read, no to the Indian ring neck. I have intermediate experience, and I'd say either a conure or Senegal would be okay.
My conures are okay behavior-wise for the most part. One has never bit me out of anger or fear while the other is cage aggressive and moody. They are both noisy and destructive. One is needy while the other is pretty independent. I've had them going on 6 years now and love them both but this video is spot on, so think hard on your decision to get one.
ThisBeautifulRomance i would say start off with a parakeet
Thank you I'm getting my bird Wednesday and it a Quaker parrot, It's been hand raised. This will be my very first bird and I'm supper excited and I'm watching all you videos so I can learn a lot and reading up on things to!!
Did the first few steps but can't get my lovebird into his cage again AHAH
Its been 2 years, did ur bird go in ur cage??
I just got a African Grey named Tahoe last week and these tips are really helping! Now Tahoe can come out of her cage on her own and relax. Tysm!!!!
Ma'am I have a female alexandrine parrot about 5-6 months old. I love her so much, but she bites very badly my hand or finger or whatever I take near her. She's with me for about a month but is still the same. Everyday she bleeds my hand with her bite. What should I do? And one more thing, when I give her anything to eat, even a small gram, she takes it very peacefully without attacking my fingers! I really don't understand why is she so much afraid of me! 😥😢
iamakidat mona is she still biting you?
Any updates a year on???
We just rescued 2 10 year old+ parrots (an African grey and Galah Cockatoo) and both of them have spent way too much time caged. They are very nervous and bitey and this is the first time ive had an older bird. This video and others of yours have helped tremendously!!! Keep up the great work!
I guess my bird is just a jerk
jason wells no bird is a jerk just misunderstood if you can’t handle him or think that he is a “jerk” give him to a SPCA. Just try you’ll be rewarded if your just patient and spend lots of time with them
@@finchestomacaws563 I think he's trying to be light-hearted...
@@finchestomacaws563 pretty sure it was a joke m8
Thank you for this thorough video there’s nothing like it on RUclips I will try these techniques with my biting Black Cap Conure Túpaq “Túpy” I already do some techniques like holding him in a cloth, try to put him on a perch and play the step up game but I will try to keep him out on the perch stand from room to room and let him come out of the cage on his own etc I can’t wait to try these techniques thanks and MashaAllah sis
Are mirror s bad or are they ok
If you put a mirror in your bird's cage it will most likely get frustrated because his reflection doesn't interact with him then he will become aggressive.
Today I brought home a baby budgie from a breeder. His name is Akoni and he is so beautiful. Akoni is about a month and a half or so old, and has been hand fed. If you’re considering a breeder and a pet store, the breeder is definitely worth it. Within 2 hours of Akoni being in his cage, he let me pet him. He doesn’t move much haha, but that is expected. I’m super excited for him to get used to his environment and be chirping all day. When it comes to his training, I do have experience as a dog trainer, which I’m glad about because my patients is pretty strong with things like this. I’m really excited to see where these next few years go with Akoni.
How do I get my conure to like/dance to music
Dance with him, you will find out pretty fast, some birds, like to dance some don't. George my African Grey wasn't a dancer he was a singer, Picasso doesn't dance either but all my other birds do.
DoctorSockpuppetFilms I barely got a dusky conure and all it does is dance to music 🎼 u should try putting music that has rhythm
Thank you for the ideas. I took in an abandoned budgie that was clearly never hand tamed. We’ve worked on stepping up with him in the cage and he’s made amazing progress. He has grown to like me and engages in singing and dancing and eating treats from my hand. We have a good bond starting and a routine. It’s just he panics every time I take him out of his cage and flies hysterically around. I try not to make him feel like I’m chasing him, but it doesn’t always work. I never thought of leaving the cage door open and to let him decide when he’s ready to come out. I think this is going to change a lot for him. ❤️ I just want him to be the happiest budgie in the world.
When I get my bird out he just fly to the top of my study table and just sit.....
Never play or move just sitting... 😔😔
Thank you so much for these tips. I learned so much! My parakeet is letting me carry him on his swing. He likes to watch the wild birds out the window.
Marelene I would appreciate it if you answered me how to get untamed bird back into his cage?!
Masa Mohammed hi I'm not sure if you got your answer but what I use to do for my bird was get a perch (tree branch) and get him on it and just put my hand or a book above his head this helps prevent him from flying off the perch you have them on I also worked a technique where I played with the toys in my birds cage or his food in his food bowl he would get into the cage by himself. But when they figure out that you're using this as a tactic they stop doing it lol!
+Lilac Carb am suffering with taming my cockatiel once he is out of the cage there is no power on earth that can put him back in😂😂he flies everywhere and I run after him until I catch him last time I spent about 45 min trying to get him in the cage nothing seem to work with him
Masa Mohammed same like my cockteil 😁😁😁and she bites me till bleeding
+Shereen Nisar its so stressing
Ya it is .and take lot of time to heal.😣😣😣
Love your videos, personally I've probably watched and rewatched too many of them. In this case, I brought home a new bird and wanted to watch this video again because it's 100% good advise. PLEASE keep doing what you do, I just wanted to extend some gratitude for the excellent parront tips. You are awesome, also I hope Picasso is okay, it was a little tear jerking to see Picasso again, such a sweet bird, I really hope he's doing okay. Much love!!
what if i let him on top of he's cage and it start flying and don't go back to it's cage?
FRECKLED WOLF 99 my two birds flew away from the top of the cage but eventually they went back to their cage because it’s their safe place btw they weren’t hand tamed when they did this
my untamed bird's wings were not clipped and he flew around my room in my presence and he went back to the cage by himself after 3 hours.
I’m getting my first bird tomorrow!😬😬 Cockatiel! He’s 7 months old and living in a dingy pet store!😢😢 I have a lovebird coming in a couple months who will be hand raised but my heart is telling me I need to get one of these cockatiels! I know it’s going to be hard work! I want his wings clipped so I can train him easier! They go nuts when someone approaches the cage! I’m slightly worried that I’ll scare him! I also have 4 kids a Mastiff and 2 cats! Im a single mom and share 50/50 custody! I love birds! My ex wouldn’t allow me to have one! It feels like Christmas Eve right now!🤣 I’ve done lots of research but watching you has given me hope! Thanks so much!! Keep being you!
Great video Marlene, not just a set of rules but explaining why and when to do or not do something is so helpful.
Plus having real life examples is so helpful. Thanks for this video. 👍
You remind me of a younger me with these birds.. You do things as I would have at your age and even now... I really love your videos.. Right now I have a cockatiel and a blue quaker doing really well adjusting as she blue quaker has been here only 6days and came to me strait away...now the cockatiel is much older and we have had her 5 years age is unknown she is not only jealous but only goes to certain people but even though she lets me and my daughter hold her on our shoulders she does not like affection from just anyone so she toys away from them or gets to the point she protects her territory for sure...
You are excellent you speak well you don't speak too fast you are clear I like your style and you are great not to have any music in the background thank you I've just got two new birds and I'm very interested in your style thank you
Love you chica!!! Been watching and following for about 2 years now. I just got a 2 month old green cheeked. He's scared of hands atm. I use the perch method to move him from place to place. Mind you I've only had him 9 days. But any information and knowledge you share I greatly appreciate. Much love. Kiss the flock 🦜 💋
Stay safe, happy and healthy!!!
Fellow flocker,
Paulus and Elwood
Wow, Cody is a really beautiful bird!
Thank you so much for this video, I had a grey african for a month and I've been trying to tame him since the first day, I was going through a lot of frustration, because he kept on biting me, but today I watched this video and I worked with my parrot for like 2 hours and it went really good. I don't know how to thank you 😭💕
Watching this in advance for taking my first large parrot home in a few weeks - so excited !
Loveee this video!! Tons of info and all super helpful. Thank you!
Great information! IMO you should teach even more! I have taken classes at Parrot University, and I have learned more with this one video! Thank you for taking the time to help all of us be better Parrot Parents :-)
Beautiful video !! Thank you for looking out for the feathered friends !!
I love your videos, you have educaated me so much! I was a horrible cage bird owner... some how I knew I was wrong but.. there was no You tube then.....I watched videos and came across yours and they made so much sense. Thank you... My dogs (4 large, well trained) , horses, (2 ridden in cool comps), chickens - just doing chicken stuff :) and keeping an eye n my 89 yo mum who cooks and lives life large (Eunice)... All in all, I think my cockatiel (Marvin) has won best from your videos....I have learned a lot, therefore I have helped him as much as I can. I now take him on weekends away, and my buddies look forward to seeing him... You have given me the confidence to do this.. thank you so much!!
Wonderful video. Such an important topic to have all birds to be able to come out of their cage every day.
I love your comments.... he is doing excellent acting .. that is great
Your vids are great I just brought home my first bird a indian ringneck, 14 wks old, thanks for the guidance at this time.
Thankyou so so so much Marlene! This educated me too well.. I don't know y didn't I get across this video properly before but thank you so very much I hope I will surely have a happier bird from tomorrow on.. I'll do all that I can! Lots of love to you and your feather babies .. 💖💖💖
Thank you so much!!! I love that this has helped!!!
Thank you make me see everything in a whole different way xxxx
great video as always. so knowledgeable with parrots. My grey Charlie sits and watches with me every time. keep up the good work!!
Best video I've watched about bird taming! I'm getting a bird because I just turned 14 and I was kinda nervous about bringing it home and me failing at taming it, but I feel more prepared.
You are so talented when it comes to taming birds, I really like your African grey!
Parrot whispers realy helped me choose a new bird
What a great video....This is the best video on training an untamed bird I have ever seen very good info....Thank you
omg I'd be in heaven at your place! your birds are amazing. I hope to own a cockatoo in a few years. I know it's a huge commitment so I am trying to learn and research as much as possible. this channel has great information and insight. thanks 😊
Got it yet ?
I've got a pair of budgies recently, I was looking for bonding tips and tricks, this is the best one! Trust me I've watched more than 40-50 videos on this..
Sitting here binge watching your videos, because I may be adopting my friends black capped conure. Your accent reminds me of Mila Kunis.
Glad u said something about u having a Facebook for us too. Never thought of searching for u. However I watch ur videos constantly. Maybe always try to mention ur other social media stuff. I love u and ur videos.
im learning so much thanks to your videos
Your love is SO obvious!!!
Great advise Marlene. THANK YOU💞
Thank you so much for this video. I just got a one year old Panama amazon and had no idea on how to deal with him but this video helped a lot.
This is a very helfpul video....but I'm wondering what to do with my bird whos new, about 10 months, and was OVER clipped. so she has no balance and cant seem to climb on the cage at all. She has lot of perches and I want to let her out but she just cant get from place to place.
my new fave channel :) ive been binge watching about 5 of your vids and i love them
Very helpful. Very Helpful indeed.
Your birds are beautiful! I would love to have those birds at this moment in time but I can’t. I’m getting a cockatiel though and I’m so happy!
Many good ideas in your video. Thanks
Thank you sooo much for making this video 😆😊😀👍🏻👏🏻👋😍😘
I always like love your video's Marlene.