Ghosted & A Married Guy 😫 Dating in 2020 Is Not What I Expected.
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- OK so here I go...Into the dating world in 2020! Is it terrifying.. yes...have I had a few strange experiences...YES! Right now the world is a very strange place. How do you meet people when we are all encouraged to stay home? People use apps but how do you know the person on the other end is who they say they are?? agh what a mess. I'm open to new experiences and learning from each one. I guess I can take it all too serious. Life is an adventure.
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My dear Ash this is the real world....when I got divorced after a long time tried dating but nothing worked out BUT I am very happy now on my own.....Ash take your time dear and be careful out there
Same here!
Agreed. I was married for 19 years and dating really is quite scary! It’s sad that it’s seen as acceptable to treat others like this. Just give yourself time and enjoy your own company, it does get better (although I’m still waiting to meet somebody special again).
Ashley, you are amazing. Anyone would be insanely lucky to be with you! You channel keeps getting better and better.
how can anyone not like this woman? they would be blessed
well, she comes across needy and with a long requirements list...however she's entittled to it, look at her, eyes, hair, smiley, body...but shes waiting for "lion" to be available, shes not going for little dog or "tortoise" anytime soon
@@gogoleateeste9630 well looks like your out then!
@@damienrobbie5974 I'm 'tiger", way out of her league...
@@gogoleateeste9630 bro any girl can be needy and find a guy fast.
How are you doing today Ash? Theirs nothing you need to change about yourself but I am single and looking for a friend and I would like to meet you some day. Because I like meeting very beautiful looking people like you. Can you please come to Vancouver BC Canada?
Obvious safety point here - don't go on dates to isolated places with people you meet online.
Absolutely.
You can’t live in fear though.
The ones you like dont like you, and the ones who like you, you dont like, seems to be how dating is. Then one day its a mutual and it all falls into place.
Hi Ashey, from a dad's heart I have to agree with the "don't 'try' to date or "don't look for him" comments... which is not to say don't date at all, but rather, just live your life, encounter what the Lord brings you, opportunities, circumstances, and the people that go with it. When you are not looking for it is the best time to find it because you won't overlook the little things, red-flags and subtleties that potentially become a compomise of your values or set you up for those with deceitful intent. One thing that is awesome about the encounter with the two cads you described is that you successfully eliminated them from your life. Good for you!
For real, when you are not looking he will fall into your life.
Dating is not easy to navigate. Never ignore your intuition, the warning signs and research them thoroughly if you can. It is rough out here. I too am divorced and have had horrid experiences dating and decided I love me and happy on my own. Hang in there because you deserve the best and the right guy will come along.
Same here Debby
Here's a tip I wish I had when I was dating: A red flag is a sign that means STAY AWAY. A red flag is not a sign that says "find out more". Write this down and post it where you'll see it before a date. This tiny piece of truth is gold.
First, let's all applaud Ashley for her continued raw honesty traversing life! 👏 Forget about Turdis and Lyin', it's better they showed their asses early, in the long run. Take your time. Like you said, you are in no rush. Be prudent, but keep an open and vulnerable heart, as it is only way to experience pure love, IMO.
You might consider getting involved with a charity or church or non-profit, as a volunteer. Then, you can possibly meet people, get to know them, and become friends BEFORE you start dating. It can be a lot safer, physically and emotionally. You have the group setting as a buffer until you are comfortable.
I agree with you....she seems a sweet romantic person .. online too many creepy characters looking for shallow relationships
This is very good advice. Find someone close to you!
The church also has a lot of creepy weirdos too
@@joanlynch5271 Jesus
Welcome to the club. It’s a mess out there. There’s a lot of people with a lot of baggage more than just a carry on. Keep your optimism but watch for the red flags and go with your gut instinct. Yeah people do lie online but the lie in person too. You hit the nail on the head with life is too short. Good luck!
Sounds like quite a baptism of fire into the dating world🥺 hope you meet a decent and respectful person soon!🤞🏼
You are so raw and honest and show up completely. Alot of men, sadly, cannot do this. Nothing wrong with you. it will just take time to find someone as special as you.
Ghosting is very popular thing recently. Because people are -bad- evil and ghosting is easy to do. Getting upset is a downside of being a good person. Love you Ash
People are bad? People are evil sinners. It's worth remembering that.
@@stuartofblyth People are people
Girl I’m right there with you. Dating is HARD. I’m in my late twenties and ready for something serious and I’m meeting people who are in their thirties and just looking for “fun”. It’s hard out there 😭
When your not looking is when you will find him!! I remet my husband on FB we went to school together from 6th grade through 12th!! After 22 years of no contact we started talking a LOT on FB he lived on the East coast I live in the West!! We have been together for 8 years now and on Monday we will be married 1 year!! You never know where you will find your true love!!! Good luck to you!!
Hello Ashley! I have been through the same and more ... What I have understood is if you want serious situations only ->face to face from the beginning, (people from work, etc..) not through online dates..NEVER AGAIN.
Hi Ash! I just got ghosted 4 days ago; she’s probably involved with someone else.. !!To avoid liars I usually ask to video call a few days after starting messaging; if they refuse that means they live with someone else, don’t rush to get in bed no matter how the “chemistry is great” hangout at each other places a few times before sex... for the last 3 months I’ve rooted out at least 2 cheaters!!! Good luck Ash, you seem like a genuine woman and you deserve the best!
If you ever find yourself in New England please let me know; I’ll be happy to show you around!
Ashley, I feel for you in your situation. At 62, mine is a bit different. At my age men are looking for a nurse or a purse! 😷
Had an aunt that said the same thing. They are just looking for someone to take care of them.
Not all of us
What a scumbag
You are such a beautiful person inside and out, go girl, you have so much to offer and are such an inspiration, “Go confidently in the direction of your dreams, live the life you have imagined” ❤️
Dating is really tough. As a guy I've been ghosted a lot, and there's just been mutual just not contacting much and then not at all. It's hard to meet the right person. It's about just sifting through the numbers. I hate dating. I think you are doing the right thing and have the right attitude. Just keep going with 100% commitment and zero attachment until about 3 to 5 dates in.
Hey Ashley! I dont know if youll remeber this, but i met you on a bus about a year ago. The bus was going to cardiff and you got off at bristol i belive. We spoke for a bit and you told me about all your amazing travels and experiences and it was so interesting (WayAway got a new subscriber that day). You are one of the most gorgeus and nicest strangers i have ever spoken to, and your videos reflect that as well. Theres someone for you out there, I dont see how anyone wouldnt just adore you instantly!!! Loving this new channel, keep up the good work xx
I feel for you completely!! It’s hard to date over 30! My tips for you, that worked for me, is to join a paid dating site! It won’t guarantee you will find someone but I think men are more serious when they have to pay $$!! Also, I recommend checking the public court records in your state before you go - it sounds harsh but you never know what kind of shady past someone can have and this at least will give you arrest records, marriage or divorce info and court records. Lastly, meet in a VERY public place. I met at a very public upscale food court and bar with a friend. Had a drink with her to calm the nerves - then when he arrived and I felt comfortable she left. It was slightly awkward at first but it made me feel so much better!!
I’m engaged now and getting married in Oct after meeting on Match - so the dating sites can work!!
Hope this helps just a little!! Good luck out there!!
I learned that you are more likely to find when you are NOT looking.
hahaha definitely not true. 24 year-old virgin here and I've never tried to find a gf before lol
I think it's because when you want it really really badly, it's like it's too much and it can be overwhelming for the other person so that it may repel them - but when you relax about it (eg not looking), you start becoming more attractive :)
Yes!
This 100%. Those dating apps are garbage in my opinion. People who were never supposed to meet are forcing “meeting” upon one another just isn’t organic and I feel it results in negative consequences such as the ghosting and what have you. I’ve tried them a couple times and it was awful. My 2 really good relationships were with people I met out there in the world. We had mutual friends and common ground to build on. Photos and some text just don’t do it for me. YMMV. Sorry to be a bit of a downer but I’ve been in your shoes; fresh out of a marriage and not sure how to navigate just wanting that feeling back. It takes time but you’ll find it and it’ll find you when it’s right.
Lol yes it's definitely true for me. Happened with all of my relationships.
I have experienced the ghosting as well. Some woman just stopped talking to me without any explanation. Blocked me on social media without even explaining why. Had been texting and going out before, and all of the sudden: I was dropped like a stone, left behind totally confused? Not being able to ask why, it is just frustrating! Really egoistic. So it happens to men as well as women Ash, don’t worry. It is not your fault, it is obviously theirs.... love your honesty!
The trouble with online dating is that it provides so much choice and anonymity that it almost facilitates ghosting! There is almost no consequence for the person who finds someone else they want to gamble on leaving you high and dry in the meantime. That said, you can still make it successful. There’s no harm maintaining a small degree of cynicism just to keep yourself in check. You are so nice so you will inevitably be a magnet to all! Good luck Ash x
Jacksonville FL here been subbed since the previous channel and after 10 years im in my 30s in the same situation keep you chin up and use your gut to navigate and I dont use apps anymore not even fb its active just deleted off my phone and havent logged into it in months on the laptop I try to stay active outdoors exploring and its a great way to make new friends 🙋♂️🙃💪
Hi Ash! Last year I ended a 10 year relationship and felt completely lost in the dating world as I also hadn't done it in such a long time... I guess what I have to say is it does get easier! Don't lose hope, and most importantly don't lose that beautiful ability of trusting people (even when you get taken advantage of for being trusting). Know that there are still beautiful people out there who are worthy of your trust but it may take a while before you meet as this is such a big world ❤️
Online dating sucks, online dating during the pandemic is another level of rubbish! It’s a right pain organising to meet up with friends let alone dates. I’m also in my 30’s and seem to be increasingly hanging out with my parents 😭😂 I think it’s best to approach dating by seeing the humour in the absurdity of people and finding the funny side of situations dating puts you in. Stay positive, most of my friends are married to people they met on dating apps so it does work out eventually!
Preach it 🙌🏼. I really disliked online dating so I stopped. I knew full well that I was prob cutting my chances in half, or more, of finding somebody- but online dating is way too volatile. So I took my chances of meeting by chance, and I did meet someone. Took three years, but I did 👍🏼
I met my partner of 5 years now online (married for 3), we met in person and then stayed in contact for over a year before we finally got together. There are as many types of first dates as there are types of people, don't let the bad experiences jade you too much Ash, you have such a fun and optimistic personality and you always seem to seek the best in any situation and there are so many people out there who would be so lucky to have you! Keep on keeping on :)
It’s so difficult to find someone nice and genuine these days.I’ve had similar experiences to you and have given up with online dating, it’s so insincere I couldn’t cope with it💕
Hey Ashley. Sorry to hear about your dating experiences. Unfortunately there are people out there that can’t be open and honest and that shows more about them than you. I’m lucky that I’m in a wonderful relationship and the idea of being single and dating again would send shivers down my spine. I’d advise you to enjoy you’re own company, learning to love yourself and I’ve no doubt someone special will come along naturally. Join clubs with people of similar interests, don’t bother with this online rubbish. You’re a beautiful person inside and out from what I can see and whoever gets you will be one lucky guy ❤️
Ashley take it slow. I’ve always found that when you least expect it, love finds you. You are a happy, caring person who has an incredible zest for life, at least that is what comes across in your videos. You’ll find that person you’re looking for. Just keeping smiling.
Ash you’re such an amazing person in and out. Sometimes you don’t need to know people in greath depth to know they are genuine, like yourself.
My first advice would be that you need to understand that it’s not you lacking anything but those two men.
Every human should be as kind and optimistic as you. Giving people the benefit of the doubt is what kind people do and i think thats a great trait that you have. Never lose it.
Put your faith in God. Good things come to those who wait in patience. Keep on healing yourself. No one is more valuable than you.
Im actually giving myself some advice here too 😊
We all hurt and feel lonely at times but that’s a sign of maturity. We keep living on sweets 😊.
You are always in my prayers xx
It’s brutal but kinda what I learned to expect...I don’t mind now although I never ghosted. married with daughter now, but always got ghosted! I think lots people do it. Dating can hurt! Don’t sleep around or hurt more!! Your gorgeous ray of sunshine who brightens up every situation and day! you will definitely find a good guy for you Ash! Hang in there, and try to enjoy it! Love u ❤️
Watching you I see having your parents there in the background is giving you the foundation to eventual success. :)
Ash, I don't feel online dating is the best approach. With the online way of meeting people, you usually meet the wrong person at the wrong time. What you see is usually not what you get, and the end result is more heartache and pain.
I believe the right person comes into your life when you're not really looking, and you least expect it. It happens out of circumstance, and has a much better chance of becoming something that was meant to be. We all need to just have a little more patience, and I certainly include myself in that.
I just found your channel today, and subscribed because it is clear to me that you are an honest, kind, and very decent person. I am looking forward to discovering more of your videos. 💖
I have to say I was single suddenly at 31 and had some bad experiences dating, I dated a guy for 6 months and went on a 2 week trip with him to Mexico only to find out he was married!!! But I did finally find my the love of my life on Ok Cupid LOL. I did 2 things 1) I wrote out a prayer to God on paper stating what I wanted and what I was really ready for in finding partnership.2) I decided to look at dating as just meeting new people and making possible friends instead of looking for " the one"
2 weeks later my current sweetie messaged me for coffee, I would have never considered dating him based on his Cupid profile but I was interested in meeting new friends so I met up with him and we quickly fell in love and we are married and have a 4 year old daughter ❤ . Don't let the turds get you down 😘
Hey Ashley, so happy that you are moving on with your life and are open to new experiences. As a woman of a certain age, (gulp) ... I would like to give you this piece of advice.... don't go out searching for him.... he will show up when you least expect him to... start your personal journeys with youtube, new job, new social groups etc. expanding your horizons and experiences. Concentrate on YOU first and foremost.
Ash, I'm 32 and I gave up hope hahaha I don't know if I'll ever be a relationship. I'm not dating (specially now) and won't be dating for a looonngg time (I'm in Brazil, and Corona here is still getting worse). So, I can't give you any advices, but just know that it is not easy for me either. And I know so many more women who are in the same situation. We stand together 😂😂😂
Same for me as a man. I even fail at only finding sex.
@@fjellyo3261 im not even having sex anymore as well 🤣🤣🤣 gave it all up together. Let's see where life takes this. But I have to say, it is quite sad 😔
@@maryymendes Por que? Você é tão bonita...
@@LuizSchmidt sei lá. Não faço ideia kkkkk
I've watched your travel videos in Turkey in particular, I enjoyed them because you looked and sounded as a friend to Turkey and Turkish people, I wish you luck, I hope you won't step an inch back from your sincerity, your innocence and your energy because of this dating stuff.
Dear Ash you are a great person and what i love about you is that you always have a smile on your face no matter the difficult situations.Good luck on your new adventures!!! I'll be watching you...
You inspire me to stay motivated and enthusiastic even when life is not going easy. I was following WayAway and now here. Lots of love from India
Sometimes just waiting and continue in a positive maner is much more rewarding than trying to push the dating world.
The right person will come and usually alot closer than expected.
If I could just say this ;
It is essential to not be with someone, but to be with someone you cannot be without .
And that person will know this and have only you in his mind and in his heart .
Godspeed Ash
And please be patient.
I've been out of the dating game for almost 30 years and I can't imagine how it would be to get back into it now. Best of luck to you on all of your current endeavors
Ashley, you’re amazing and you’ll find the right person, believe me, I’ve been there. After my divorce I dated few women and then I found someone amazing and I thought she was the one... but she reconnected with her ex and got married immediately. But months later I found the love of my life and we’ve been together for 6 years and I’m the happiest man alive.
Hi Ash! Don't lose your optimism! I found myself divorced in my 40's and unexpectedly in the dating world after 14 years of marriage. I met my new wife through on-line dating. I found that being patient and happy with yourself is the most important thing. When I was doing on-line dating I liked to meet the person very quickly after just a few text messages. I found that setting up a breakfast meet-up to meet someone in person for the first time was the best. Breakfast is easy to keep short and removes the pressure of it being a "date." It lets you get through the first time awkwardness and see if there is a connection with the person. Also, by doing this very quickly, you get to see the real person. It is just too easy for someone to be disingenuous via text. And, as I mentioned earlier, I met my new bride this way! We've been married for 4 years now - so there are wonderful people out there who will love you! p.s. Ghosting is very cowardly. Good luck and keep smiling!
There is definitely nothing wrong with you! It is extremely difficult to find a genuine person these days. Live and learn like you said. The right person will come along when you least expect it, and you won't even have to try. Much love Ash! ❤
You know, while you were talking, I was thinking, man I wish I could go 3 or 4 years in the future and watch that new video and what you would be announcing to us! New home, new husband, maybe even a new little Ashley! We just never know what that next message/text or introduction will bring! And you surely will have learned a whole lot and will be able to impart all of that knowledge to your own children one day. I’m excited for you and will be continuing to pray for you!!! ❤️🙏🏼😉
Even when you are in this bad kind of situation, you still have that big beautiful smile, and that’s amazing! I’m pretty sure you are going to find someone who really loves you and you love him back.
You are such a good vibes woman, and when you come to visit Brasil, lets have a drink. Take care!
Don't try to rush finding a man, Miss Ash. You really need to give your heart time to heal. God has someone out there for you. You are a smart, beautiful young lady....just allow the healing process to take place. Praying for you!!!!!!
You should give yourself more time to heal, healing from 10/11 years of marriage do not happen few months.
Ash you’re a special woman. I’m positive the right person will come into your life when you least expect it. Stay strong beautiful 💪
Lyin :) good thing his wife alerted you.
Hey Ash I've been there myself. I'm single now and have been for nearly 9 years. It's hard to find someone you mesh with that is honest and sincere. But you have a wonderful personality and I'm positive you will find the right guy for you.
You know what A? Good for you for putting yourself out there! Yeah...a couple of bad experiences....one a jerk (the married guy...his POOR wife!)....and one a coward at being honest so chose to ghost! What you're experiencing is building on you knowing for SURE what you DON'T want in a relationship and that is VERY important! Keep on keeping on and don't let these two experiences stop you from continuing to put your beautiful and worthy self out there. You just never know what that THIRD guy, after a couple of bad ones, will bring. Thank you for sharing (your honesty is very refreshing) and may God bring you the absolute perfect mate....in His time. All the very best, Teresa
Not all people are honest, sadly. But you stay yourself, you are a lovely person. Be openminded, stay close to your own feelings, trust those feeling, but don't be naive. You've been together with your ex for such a long time and been married for so long. Things have changed in the datingworld since then. But you learn from those experiences and you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. It's really ok to take things slow to start with. And maybe you start with friendship before love becomes a part of it. You will find your love when it's time. Trust in yourself ❤❤❤
Just saw the last Way Away post. Good luck with all your new adventures. Hope you still get to visit the Travel Beans in the UK again (& visa versa). (btw - life as a singleton isn't so bad - I've managed OK for 12 years).
Yessssss!!! I love Alex and Emma and will 100% have adventures together again!
@@WingingItWithAsh Look forward to seeing your combined vlogs (and you can tell Alex he's the spitting image/voice of Jack Whitehall) :-) One thing you all have in common on your vlogs is looking out at the world (not inward) - proper healthly attitude. Top Notch as we say here in Blighty.
You’re the sweetest ❤️ you’re so cute and a bit of naive ❤️ don’t let ppl take that away from you!!! You’ll
Learn at the time...
i am single myself in this strange dating time in life for us singles i havent really figured it out myself , but was good to hear your experinces on it and how strange this time is love your videos x
Welcome to the dating world. It’s terrible here 🤣🤦🏽♀️
Dating, what's that? 😅 been single for 9 years
You've got such a beautiful soul, I hope you find your prince charming and live happily ever after.
Thank you for being so genuine and open with your life!
I’m so glad to see you’re putting yourself out there like that - good for you! I haven’t had to date since the late 80’s and hope I never have to go through that again! I was in my 30’s by the time I met and then married Mike, and we’ve been married now for 27 years. I’ve never had to navigate online dating, although a good friend of mine from back then met and married her husband through a dating/matchmaking service and they’re still married. My best advice, if you want the best chance of meeting men who aren’t married or nut jobs is through people you know and trust - people who know both you and the other person. Another great way is through your church (so you already know they share your faith and religion) or even by volunteering or taking classes. That way you’re meeting people with whom you already have things in common and you can get to know them in a relaxed group setting. I took dance classes for many years and knew lots of people who met and married through those classes. Obviously that kind of class would have to wait until after the pandemic is over.
Dating is hard nowadays. I dated 2 women in the last 9 years ...one was, everything had to be her way and the other more or less just wanted to be friends when she felt like it. I keep myself busy by working as much as possible so I don't think about being lonely. When this covid thing is over I'm going back travelling around the world where I feel at peace. Don't get discouraged by all the bad ones you find first because the one that is right for you will eventually be there waiting for you.
You have such a big heart. I Hope You Find Someone Who Actually Deserves You
Ashley I'm so sorry that happened to you but I think that is the 2 most common things that happens to everyone. So it is just something you need to do through while finding the right person. The only thing I think you shouldn't do is to tell the person at the beginning that you are looking for something serious, just first get to know them and then if you like each other it will become serious anyway. Goodluck!
I spent a year on dating apps. I had my heart broken, was ghosted more times than I can count, and dated many MANY frogs. It was not fun. But then I met my boyfriend and after 4 days of talking for between 5-8 hours a day, we met up and haven’t looked back. It’s hard, I’m not going to lie. People can be dishonest and it can get overwhelming and disheartening. But I know it was worth it for me. P.S. we’ve been together for 2 years and things just keep getting better. That’s my two cents.
Great source of materiel for the channel Ash!. Dating disasters are instantly relatable to many of us and can be amusing when viewed from the outside. Myself I’d started up messaging a lady who’d seemed fun, interesting and after a while revealed a career as a lingerie model. The phrase ‘jackpot’ lit up in my mind!. Some pics of an attractive lady in her mid thirties followed. First date I was taking her to the theatre in the West End and we met in the traditional spot under the clock in Waterloo train station. Luckily she knew to look for me as I could never have recognised the lady in her mid-late 50’s who greeted me with the phrase ‘hope you’re not disappointed’. These things happen and they do knock you back. Trick is to keep getting back up and believing you are a person with something to offer and that you deserve to be happy with someone.
I was in your same shoes at one time, after 8 years in relationships it was so hard to get into a dating game! I didn’t enjoy it.... I would rather to be single than finding a jerk! Just take your time, meet people outside of the dating app. Lower your expectations and enjoy your new life journey.... 😊🙏
I am a strong believer in what is meant for you cannot miss you! Patience, optimism, and a liittllee bit of a guard up are key I think haha I met my fiancé online very randomly so it is possible! keep the faith, girl!
Dating is scary enough, little alone during a pandemic. There are a lot of frogs out there and not too many princes. Just live your life and pursue your interests. You will meet your tribe along the way.
Babe you are a QUEEN, forget about dating - what is yours will come to you, I have zero doubt about it. Turn all that love you radiate IN on yourself for just a little while longer, and you'll see the change right away. The most important thing is you need to be fully in love with yourself so the one who deserves you can open the door. I know it's not easy, but girl who is more charming than you?? Sending you ALL the love 💛
I am not in love with you but I love you and you got a friend in me, I totally love your vlogs, your honesty is very refreshing in a world of falsehoods. Never give up on love. Just be yourself and you will find happiness, who in their right mind would not be happy with you
Hi and welcome back. I was really concerned about you both. I really enjoyed your content...welcome back. Life throws curve balls at times, but with such a terrific spirit like yours I can see you overcame with true grit. Keep on vlogging...
Been with my wife close too 5 years so just giving my 2 cents. I would figure having various hobbies will help you meet people. Online dating is big business but be careful. Always trust your gut when you meet guys and hold yourself and him accountable. 42 yrs on this earth and I have figured out people love too talk but their actions tell you who they really are. Let their behavior speak for themselves and make your choices based on that. Trying to change someone I would say is wasting your time and energy. Good luck and I hope you meet that someone.
Thank you, for telling me (us) about your experiences and talking. Ive been feeling like disconnecting after another sad interaction ending. But seriously you give me good encouragement. Thank you. Take care. Youll find someone who enjoys you and checks those boxes.
I feel for ya! I’m 31 and trying to date after divorce too. I’ve been ghosted several times and it is so frustrating! No advice, but I feel ya!
Ashley, honey.... Keep on trying, do not give up. There is somebody very special for You out there. If nothing works, I have a son and we live in Canary Islands. ( FYI: he's not married, he doesn't Ghost & we're in your wish list of places to visit ) love your new Chanel. Good Luck, sweedy
You are just always so genuine, a ray of sunshine! You'll no doubt find the right kind of person for yourself. I was a big fan of your previous channel, so I'm happy seeing you smile and laugh again 😊 Keep on truckin'!
dating can suck, but you have such an infectious personality and you're so pretty. You will find someone, don't rush. The pandemic isn't really helping either
If it wasn't for the pandemic, I would suggest not dating, but instead get involved with something you love that involves social activity. Maybe then you could find a kindred spirit........ Perhaps you can think of a way of achieving that online? I hope that helps.
Luckily Im married now but man, I hated dating because of all the things you said and more. You cant be too honest because youre too "aggressive" you cant be too shy. People have normalized ghosting. People have normalized cheating/accepting they're a mistress. I'm sorry, Ashley. 😔 it's just a lot of people's way of thinking and doing things now when it comes to dating is a lot different now. I think I just got lucky because some of the guys i dated were my friends or in the same circle so I knew if they were guys with good intentions or not.
You are amazing, all the positive vibes radiates from you is just fantastic... lovley!!
Continue to be the person that you are. Don't lower your own standards because some people are unworthy. Eventually you will attract the person you would like to meet. Stay true to yourself and your beliefs. You deserve it!
Ashley you are an incredible nice and sweet person. you see the best in people and expect them to have pure intentions, unfortunately some people aren't :( stay true to yourself and have faith
Thank you Jenny! I have always been true to myself..haha why stop now!??!😉😉
Practice makes perfect, as they say. The more you put yourself out there, the better you'll get at being able to read the signs. I don't think you've done ANYTHING wrong aside from being kind and trusting which are lovely qualities! Date a lot of people and just have fun! The worthy guy is out there. ❤
I was engaged to one of my closest friends of over 20 years. Then we moved in together and I found out he was an aggressive, mean alcoholic and none of that showed up until he and I moved in. Sometimes you just never know, no matter how long you have known someone. I hope you find a great man out there.
Thanks for sharing your experiences! It seems like a lot of people are going through similar situations and difficulties during the pandemic. Best of luck to you, Ashley! :)
Ash - I’ve been married twice (I don’t count the first marriage though 😬😬) and divorced years ago. I’m older than you and I thought it was because of the age group but dating like that seems and feel very unnatural to me at least. I tried a dating site for three months and it was not a good experience.
I found that when I’m not looking it comes naturally. I am interested in one amazing person but circumstances can be tricky now but let’s see. I’m focusing on enjoying the fact that I can still feel head over hills for someone 😍😍😍
Anyway, since life is short I told myself to take it easy and enjoying meeting people. I decided to just be open to meet others and see where it leads. What I learned so far: age is just a number - my two exs are similar age as mine and we couldn’t been more wrong for each other 😬😂, I’m more open to new experiences that resonate with the new me, divorce was a shock to me (catholic/christian beliefs) I’m now more meh, it didn’t work it didnt work.
I’ve been CASPER OUT BIG TIME (ghosted)...I jusr intimidate them: I’m an independent, career oriented, very confindent woman... they couldn’t take it lolllll 🥰🥰🥰my wishes for you are to enjoy yourself and have fun in the process 😘😘😘😘
I com here just to see your smile. Usually people tell me that I smile all the time. Now I know how they feel like. You ate awesome... Lots of love
I did enjoyed you video and i feel so bad that you've experienced all this! But all I know that you'll find your *Lobster* , keep being positive and safe. Love you
Everything I've found out about my exs (2 of them) I've decided to give up. I won't be cheated on. You will meet the right person at some point. I'm focusing on my children instead.
You are amazing xx
Girl, be prepared to be lied to a lot.
Don't give up! There's someone out there for you, and there's love and happiness on the horizon, I'm sure of it!
When Thomas Edison was asked how many times he failed before inventing the light bulb. He replied:
"I haven't failed -- I've just found 10,000 that won't work." “Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”
Never give up! We only fail when we stop trying.
This is one of my favorite comments!! Thank you so much for such a great and inspiring reminder!! 💗
@@WingingItWithAsh Time is limited on this earth though and sometimes you have to take chances
Edison didnt meant dating he just meant the scientific experments 😆😆😆🖒🖒
Well now! Those two were just a couple of knuckleheads! I'm guessing you may have to weed through some that don't fit perfectly for you. Hopefully you've checked off a couple examples of not-so-desirables and won't have to run across those types again. (Lyin' should be especially ashamed of himself!)
You deserve to find that someone to love and cherish you. Absolutely don't rush and do not settle! Finding the person for you will be worth the wait.
Too bad you are so far from Texas. I would so introduce you to my son. He's not married and not a jerk! He's been through a couple of dud relationships too and like you now he is just waiting til the good Lord sends his mate.
Arrange the date.... :)
@@BrigitaGhuman good idea! She is very mobil! hmmmm where is half way???
AND his mom says he is a good guy
I had some very odd and quirky dates in my 30s, and then finally met my husband. It takes some time, be patient, and picky! It’s okay!
Oh Ashley. Sure, I do understand that you do not want to be alone (although it can be really good). But I think that such a lovely and adorable person like you does not have to "date" using "modern technology". I am 100% sure that you will find the perfect match and it will happen when you expect it the least. Until then - stay yourself (afterwards of course too) and enjoy every day. And if you keep sharing your joy with us in this channel I will be very happy because you are so inspiring and positive. Big hug!!!
I've been ghosted several times since I started dating again. It sucks. I'm like you and wanted feedback to possible better myself. Good luck in the dating world it's tough out here. There's a lucky guy out there who win your heart I'm sure of it.😊