13 Things Girls Want Guys to Know!!!

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  • @Odbarc
    @Odbarc 9 лет назад +89

    Nice guys don't always get Friend-zoned. They also get rejected entirely.

    • @valentesani7714
      @valentesani7714 9 лет назад

      +Odbarc happened to me though... but like other experts say... dont put your permanent love on a temporary person... sighs

    • @thane1326
      @thane1326 8 лет назад +1

      There's a difference between nice guys and creepy guys...

    • @thane1326
      @thane1326 8 лет назад

      ***** True, I know tons of nice guys who get friend-zoned, because they're annoying as hell.

    • @socialexperimentable
      @socialexperimentable 8 лет назад

      nice guys only get rejected because theyre known as nice guys and not good guys. thats the main difference.

    • @socialexperimentable
      @socialexperimentable 8 лет назад

      ***** thats why no one guy can keep the affection of all women. different people have different values. thats why there are so many of us.

  • @FenderSchonJPX
    @FenderSchonJPX 9 лет назад +54

    I love how she talks about how much stronger women are then men emotionally but then keeps going off about how any little thing will crush them and guys have to constantly walk on eggshells and be this but not too much and that, but not too much and blah blah blah blah blah. She has really been drinking the feminist kool-aide.

    • @scotts.7888
      @scotts.7888 9 лет назад +10

      You took the words out of my mouth.

    • @assh4859
      @assh4859 8 лет назад

      +FenderSchonJPX Was looking for this comment, eventually would write one myself, she's just a typicall grill, CONTRADICTION is in her nature

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 Год назад

      imo depenidng on the guy. men are more emotionally strong. women tend to develop depression mroe than man. but man do to.

  • @sarfrazmomin4341
    @sarfrazmomin4341 8 лет назад +9

    also give advice to women's not to be offended in everything, no to cheat on guys and keep backup before breaking up, not to lie, not to be gold digger and appreciate guy is taking her out on his expense. lastly be more appreciative about the effort guy makes to keep her happy so not to be an Ahole. be nice to guys !!who are really nice.

    • @psychotic17
      @psychotic17 8 лет назад +1

      Don't lie? What the fuck. Everybody lies. EVERYBODY.

  • @Incariuz
    @Incariuz 9 лет назад +52

    1: Guys can be insecure too, get over your insecurity. You want a confident guy, a guy wants a confident girl, simple as that.
    2: People in general remember everything, unless they don't care or don't listen... I'll likely forget this video fast.
    3: Then don't ask, and don't talk about your ex, double standards much?
    4: Everyone puts on a facade at some point, everyone is suffering in some form or another at some point.
    5: Jealousy is linked to insecurity, take not of response one.
    6: Girls do not love to cuddle, some girls do, just like some guys do.
    7: o.O
    8: If you don't want our help, get a teddy bear, it will just listen.
    9: No shit? I thought girls never talked.
    10: And here I thought girls wanted me to smell like sweaty ballsack... Guess that explains a lot.
    11: How do you shut this girl up indefinitely? Stick a scratch and sniff sticker to the bottom of a pool.
    12: We're fragile but we're stronger then men? My lord, lmao.
    13: Confidence has nothing to do with being nice. As for confidence being the important thing? Then why does playing the shy guy work? Yeah that's right, a lot of shy guys aren't really shy, you're just getting manipulated, though I'd like to think girls are smart enough to know this.
    Video Verdict... Just another moronic feminist spewing nonsensical rubbish littered with double standards.

    • @crying
      @crying 9 лет назад

      +1 ^

    • @morenopascaud9201
      @morenopascaud9201 8 лет назад

      +1

    • @CyberTronXXX
      @CyberTronXXX 8 лет назад

      +Mike Chard Calm down. Altough she is a feminist, there must be legal to put out videos like this. Because, people needs to learn how to act to another person in order to make them like you.. I am an anti-feminist. But I feel what she says is true. Except for nr 13! She hasn't quite understood that completly. Women are attracted to assholes! Not because they are confident or initiative, but because assholes don't give them the respect they want. And so the assholes are turning the game 'upside-down', making girls chasing the guys, and not opposite. I could go on talking about this, but I got bored now, lol...

  • @kixx6
    @kixx6 9 лет назад +15

    "Don't bring up your ex unless you want her to feel jealous and/or upset.".
    "Girls like it when they're dating a guy and they get jealous". 8I

    • @Skeletonboss12
      @Skeletonboss12 9 лет назад

      And a GUY gets jealous if another guy talks to the girl he likes is what she meant

    • @randomcomment3882
      @randomcomment3882 9 лет назад

      +xXGurgleXx yeh in saying that +kixx6 is trying to say that why is it okay for the guy to be jealous while the girl can't handle him just talking about his ex. Girl loves the guy to be jealous but hates to be jealous herself when it comes to the guy talking to other girls.

  • @lukehall8384
    @lukehall8384 9 лет назад +47

    I tried playing with a girls hair once... Then she called the police

    • @loooooopy
      @loooooopy 9 лет назад +2

      which type of hair?

    • @wesm2691
      @wesm2691 9 лет назад

      Lmao!

    • @ryans413
      @ryans413 9 лет назад

      +Redmaster50 what you think lol

    • @5.7daniell
      @5.7daniell 8 лет назад

      hahahahahahahahaa lolol

  • @piotrk8403
    @piotrk8403 9 лет назад +15

    So, guys, just be everything at once, very simple.

  • @cooperdavis4212
    @cooperdavis4212 9 лет назад +20

    I'm all for gender equality and all, but this is where I draw the line. When people- in this case, women- become so into promoting themselves and trying to be 'equal' that they go so far as to put themselves above males, it is absolutely ridiculous. It is not a fight for equality anymore. It is a fight so women can get stuff out of the world for free.
    Think about it: people would vote for a person just because he was African American (you know who I'm talking about) because they believe that race should be 'paid back' for all of the harshness that came their way. If it works for them, don't you think it will work for women?
    I believe in equality. Not supremacy. And that is what lots of people are fighting for.

    • @scotts.7888
      @scotts.7888 9 лет назад +2

      I agree 100% with every word of your statement.

    • @cooperdavis4212
      @cooperdavis4212 9 лет назад

      Let me guess, Scott... Republican? :P

    • @scotts.7888
      @scotts.7888 9 лет назад +1

      +purplepizza117 The Purple How did you know?

    • @scotts.7888
      @scotts.7888 9 лет назад +1

      +purplepizza117 The Purple (That was a rhetorical question)

    • @cooperdavis4212
      @cooperdavis4212 9 лет назад

      xD

  • @razer0072073
    @razer0072073 9 лет назад +15

    4:01 I stopped watching when she said she's a mega feminist

  • @charl7540
    @charl7540 10 лет назад +3

    Oh my gosh Lizzie, you're like me life guru. I pretty much said, "That is so true!" to everything you said. It's awesome that you're Christian because the videos you make about going to God and dealing with faith have really helped me. (:

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +1

      Whoaaa, that's SOO cool & makes me happy!! I loveee making videos, so I am so, so happy people love watching them :) I LOVE YOUUU & we are #sistersinChrist :)

    • @issieflorence4172
      @issieflorence4172 10 лет назад +1

      Wow Lizzie ur really an inspiration most videos I watch ppl r embarrassed to say their beliefs n Christ n I'm a Christian to but I don't understand why ppl are hesitant to say that about themselves I'm glad ur a really honest n true person I love u😄😘😊

  • @nathanyoungyt
    @nathanyoungyt 10 лет назад +21

    #6 Guys like to cuddle, no need to worry about that :P

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +6

      Good! haha

    • @Melaifior
      @Melaifior 9 лет назад +2

      LizziesAnswers many guys are really romantic and make gifts .. workout just to look good for girls ... smell good ... make gifts to girls just because thats what they are... (girls usually dont realise this but we are romantic and sentimental...WHY!!!)

    • @blabbityblah
      @blabbityblah 9 лет назад +1

      Oh thank god. I thought I was the only one.

  • @robbix96
    @robbix96 10 лет назад

    your explanation of the friend zone is GOLD. It's not niceness that is rejected, it's lack of confidence, unfortunately nice guys are often times not the most confident ones

  • @Josaturn2
    @Josaturn2 9 лет назад

    Very well said by this girl in the video! Guys, I have learned to be more confident, less needy, relaxed enough to be humorous, gentlemanly, and a little edgy. In almost no time, the woman of my dreams is in my life.

  • @ELLENSPROVERB
    @ELLENSPROVERB 10 лет назад +1

    I loved this vid! I thought it was so awesome how you just 'laid it all out there' for us females, there were so many things that you said and i was like "yep so true!!!!". I've been in a relationship for almost 8 years and I am amazed at how well the things you said coincide with how I feel!! xoxo

  • @hokagejermz617
    @hokagejermz617 8 лет назад +4

    30 seconds into the video my doctor diagnosed me with cancer...

  • @wnossent2000
    @wnossent2000 10 лет назад +6

    Can you make a video of what to do when your BEST friend is in a relationship en you are slowly losing him/her

    • @caw6275
      @caw6275 10 лет назад

      I am in that boat with you

    • @musiclove4u62
      @musiclove4u62 10 лет назад

      Same😫😫😫

  • @cheetang9494
    @cheetang9494 8 лет назад +3

    I feel so good after watching this video. I have a date with a colleague this coming Tuesday and she loves me playing with her hair when we're at work. I can't wait !!! I hope I'll score on Tuesday night..... wish me luck guys! :)

  • @nightcorecreationz2938
    @nightcorecreationz2938 8 лет назад +19

    The moment she said that she's a feminist was the moment i knew when to stop watching this video...

    • @hokagejermz617
      @hokagejermz617 8 лет назад +3

      thanks for telling bro. I'm out now!

  • @007Environment
    @007Environment 10 лет назад

    I one time met a girl who when I just met, then was being told by her friends that her boyfriend cheated on her the day before, without her actually knowing. I was all the way out at Palm Desert that time when I met this girl. She told me the story, then her eyes begin to fill and then big teardrops started rolling down her face. Lastly I was able to talk to her and provide her with suggestive advice of what possibly can be done and I had then told her that she'll be okay and I at least was able to get her to have a smile on her face. I'm sure she's okay by now.

  • @MrChristainchris
    @MrChristainchris 10 лет назад +14

    I think you are wrong, nice guys end up in the friends zone. i am nice, women think nice is boring.

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +10

      If you are nice, you could also be boring. But being nice doesn't mean you have to be boring. Kindness and Being exciting/enthralling are two separate character traits.

    • @MrChristainchris
      @MrChristainchris 10 лет назад +1

      I dont think I am boring I interested in science, history and religion. But I never help a women shop for shoes.

    • @christophermitchell70
      @christophermitchell70 10 лет назад

      I actually agree with Lizzie- everyone knows me as a nice guy- I never curse, and am not violent, but I'm also pretty random and fun to talk with- thats how I started dating this one girl- I'm nice and fun/funny to talk with... Plus I think it doesn't matter if your exciting ALL the time, some times you just ARE boring or just having a nice conversation. Its just you're loved for your funny and nice characteristics

    • @MrChristainchris
      @MrChristainchris 10 лет назад

      To understand women, you have to understand evolution. Women can only have a limited number of children, so they are after the best dna they can get. The strongest mate who can produce the strongest children.

    • @christophermitchell70
      @christophermitchell70 10 лет назад

      Not exactly, some girls seem to only want a guy that has a personality they love and would love to have their children have that personality- some of the time that is guys with strong overbearing abusive characteristics that make the girl feel safe. But ideally a guy should have a balance of confidence so that they're not egotistical and become overbearing and abusive.

  • @skhan2902
    @skhan2902 10 лет назад +8

    Everything she said is 100 percent true...

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +4

      Yayyyy, thank you for validating my advice!! haha :)

  • @bartvanriel6767
    @bartvanriel6767 10 лет назад +7

    Actually, my mom said the tattoo on her lower back hurt more then childbirth and I weighed 4 pounds so please stop saying girls are way tougher

    • @alphajnitro0072
      @alphajnitro0072 10 лет назад

      Don't qoute me on this but I believe that 4 pounds is actually pretty light for a baby. Which is why you may have not caused as much strain on your mother. Now maybe 6 pounds or even worse Twins. That would do some stuff. Oh and don't forget the 9 months of agony toon

    • @bartvanriel6767
      @bartvanriel6767 10 лет назад

      AlphaJNitro007 I meant 4 kilos, excuse me.

    • @alphajnitro0072
      @alphajnitro0072 10 лет назад

      Bart Van Riel oh... 8 pounds. Wow.......

    • @bartvanriel6767
      @bartvanriel6767 10 лет назад

      Jeah i know

    • @bartvanriel6767
      @bartvanriel6767 10 лет назад

      I was one bigass baby

  • @lordberly
    @lordberly 8 лет назад +12

    #7 - Play with her hair
    DAMN!!.. What if she wears hijab?
    #JustMuslimProblems

  • @ellieporter5511
    @ellieporter5511 10 лет назад +1

    I love you Lizzie. Your videos always make me smile. :) Never stop making videos!

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      Yayyy, I'm SO happy :D

    • @ellieporter5511
      @ellieporter5511 10 лет назад

      oh my goodness! i can't believe you replied! you made my day! (as usual) thanks so much and i will always be subbed! PS i want to go to pepperdine!

  • @toby2537
    @toby2537 10 лет назад

    that last point. i really like that point. i used to think that i was super nice and girls were bitches when they didn't like me. now im not like that, ive changed alot in the last 4 months, but it realize it's not the niceness(because that's totally a word) that girls like, it's CONFIDENCE! lizzie you're a genius!

  • @SantaFe19484
    @SantaFe19484 9 лет назад +2

    6 and 7, seriously? I am never under any circumstances cuddling or petting my girlfriend. I will only do that with my wife. To me cuddling and petty are husband privileges, not boyfriend privileges.

  • @brishcourser7726
    @brishcourser7726 10 лет назад +1

    Pepperdine is so breathtaking! #10 and 11 yeeeessss please..... I hope a lot of guys will watch this.

  • @missmelodies52
    @missmelodies52 10 лет назад +1

    Lizzie, I know a lot of guys who have been super inappropriate in pursuing a girl who's not interested. Movies tell guys that they should just keep trying, but that's so not the case. Can you make a video about when to stop pursuing someone?

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      Yeahh, I know some guys like that too. It's crazy annoying & a little toxic.

  • @degpsde
    @degpsde 10 лет назад +1

    Quick question to Lizzie or any girl reading this. Does Axe or any type of spray like it smell good? Thanks!

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      I have noooo idea what scent it's called that's enthralling to me. I could tell you guys to ask haha, but idkkkkk

  • @117rebel
    @117rebel 9 лет назад +4

    You think girls are physically stronger than guys? Ok...lets go on a 10 mile run with 100 pounds of gear on!

  • @Nonamguys
    @Nonamguys 9 лет назад

    #8 is the hardest for me to comprehend. If you have a problem, and your letting me know about it, then why wouldn't you want help fixing it? I have learned on my own to not try and help fix it all the time, but it still makes no sense.

  • @bossmanfresh2816
    @bossmanfresh2816 10 лет назад

    Nice guys do not always get friendzoned.I am a nice guy and have forgotten more girls names than most guys can dream up. Stay strong lizzie

  • @travischung2800
    @travischung2800 10 лет назад

    Lizzie your videos are what I really want! I wish you could post more of these secrets of girls, and could you elaborate more on how to be confident? Thanks!

  • @markromney94
    @markromney94 9 лет назад +4

    physically stronger than guys? Really?

  • @MrTriplej27
    @MrTriplej27 10 лет назад +3

    I don't know what to do, i like this girl right but i don't think she likes me, i've talked to her over chat but i'm too afraid to talk to her in person , everyday i see her at school. just standing there or sitting somewhere with her friends, i've always wanted to talk to her but i don't know how to start the conversation since it might be a bit awkward or i might mess up. by the way she is in my photography class. Someone anyone please help me?

    • @MrTriplej27
      @MrTriplej27 10 лет назад

      cheers

    • @roninvagabond261
      @roninvagabond261 10 лет назад +1

      jesse chagar The best thing is really just be yourself, girls vibe off of how you feel, chances are if your nervous shes nervous, so be comfortable, and confident. Don't try to hard to be someone else... Hopefully you can find some kind of mutual attraction with her, to a sport, class, activities, even video game these days, and break ice talking about that, than ask alot of questions and be genuinely interested in what she has to say. Than just be cool and act like its no rush, you know youll see her again so dont rush it, unless its just a great time, than, "hey by the way can I text you later about that? Or Ill call you and let you know whats your number? " First base no problem guys

    • @MrTriplej27
      @MrTriplej27 10 лет назад

      Thank you for that :)

    • @roninvagabond261
      @roninvagabond261 10 лет назад

      No problem was it helpful ?

    • @MrTriplej27
      @MrTriplej27 10 лет назад

      A bit but still not enough, the thing is i'm a shy guy, i see a amazing girl at my school an i wana go talk to her so bad, but i just don't know how to start the conversation going with a random girl that i've never talked to before. Im ok talking to girls i know since i do have a girl best friend kinda and i'm use to talking to girls that has the same interest as i do like music or media, it makes the conversation much more easier and when i talk to a girl i look into her eyes (not a creepy way) but they like it a lot cause they know i'm a good listener and i'm actually listening to what they have to say but a lot of girls don't know that about me . But when it comes to talking to girls i have a crush on especially this one particular one who is in my photography class i don't even make a move to go talk to her. i just do my work in class and move on. i can't describe how much i actually like this girl cause to me she’s perfect. But then reality kicks in and i realise really is there any point on achieving my personal goal, my ambition my everything, well i don't know, i don't know at all.

  • @Ramie2Games
    @Ramie2Games 10 лет назад

    In my religion, I'm taught not to date until Im 16, and not get into a serious relationship until Im back from a 2-year mission after high school. Sadly, sometimes my wishful thinking get the better of me. In some lives, like mine, different ideals conflict with each other, especially in a lonely person's life.

  • @Crabitat
    @Crabitat 9 лет назад

    "Nice" is a neutral quality. By itself, it is not that amazing. But it's also not a negative. You want to be "nice +" - be a nice guy who also is passionate about your life. Be nice and also care about your outward appearance. Be nice and also be very direct with women - if you like a girl, tell her early on that you want to take her out. Define your intentions toward her. That is confidence.

  • @im4ge22
    @im4ge22 10 лет назад +8

    Love your videos

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +2

      Thanks!! I am soooo happy you found my channel :D

    • @Dean123123100
      @Dean123123100 10 лет назад

      LizziesAnswers HELP ME LIZZIE!!!! I can't do it... im too shy (i know im suppost to be confident (that's what i've heard from other youtuber's...)what should i do)

  • @imamrafi8095
    @imamrafi8095 9 лет назад +4

    Just realised a lot of unique things from this video. I subscribed.

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  9 лет назад +3

      Imam Rafi Yayyy, welcome to my channel!! ♥ I upload new videos every Monday and there's already 200+ videos on here that are organized into category playlists on my RUclips home page. :)

    • @MarcosHobson
      @MarcosHobson 8 лет назад

      +Imam Rafi I noticed some things too. Her big ass jugs.

  • @disneyparkstalker
    @disneyparkstalker 10 лет назад

    Hey Lizzie! I love this video it's soo spot on!! I love all your videos that you make! Thank you so much for making videos they're amazing and helpful. You are a great remodel and I look forward to watching all your videos!! God bless💕

  • @jonsnow936
    @jonsnow936 10 лет назад +1

    You should make a playlist of relationship advice videos

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +1

      I have! Here you go :) ruclips.net/p/PL6zP_UCWqLrEsnlKoWE1FbgEYBABkbRqi

  • @SwedishSubby
    @SwedishSubby 9 лет назад

    Ok I met this girl and she liked me from the start and now my friends told her I like her and she likes me but I don't know how to ask her out, help like I'll go up to her and walk away after making her laugh should I just say "hey you want to go out with me?" Around those lines?

  • @ThisGuyJustin
    @ThisGuyJustin 10 лет назад

    About #13... I'm super nice but I have been battling depression so how could I be confident while being depressed?

  • @lindseycastillo1133
    @lindseycastillo1133 10 лет назад +1

    Can you do a vid for trying to convince your friend their in a bad relationship it would really help

  • @freaq9015
    @freaq9015 9 лет назад

    Yeah well. 2 times getting friendzoned by the same girl. Happens to be my only girl friend that I had. So awkward, and get still showing a signs she likes. And how do I described this type of girl?

    • @lucifershell2
      @lucifershell2 9 лет назад +1

      Confusing as fuck

    • @freaq9015
      @freaq9015 9 лет назад

      lucifershell2 you tell me. She was like " I really want you but I can't" she's COMPLICATED

    • @lucifershell2
      @lucifershell2 9 лет назад

      +awang fellany the actual fuck. Just ask her why she keeps doing that to you

    • @freaq9015
      @freaq9015 9 лет назад

      +lucifershell2 I don't have the guts dude. She's COMPLICATED... Maybe I'll ask her.

    • @lucifershell2
      @lucifershell2 9 лет назад

      awang fellany
      you should then you can finally knw what she wants

  • @daubey171
    @daubey171 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks so much Lizzie! You are a abSolutely goregous! Your videos are amazing and have helped me in life so much! You are such an amazing role model and have helped me learn to value my relationship with God. I don't know what I would do with out your videos! They can always cheer me up and I consider you to be the big sister I never had! Love you Lizzie!

  • @lunawillows4126
    @lunawillows4126 10 лет назад +1

    Wow great video great effects with the title and I wish I could see where you shot that it's so beautiful we still have snow in Canada and it's awful. Your videos are amazing and anyone to disagree is clearly wrong. This video is amazing some other youtubers I watch did the same topic but it was almost all the same you put more perspective into it and got onto an emotional level. You made yours unique and in away that seems better then all the rest and like it's not missing any details.

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      Yay!! Thank you for complimenting my editing :) Usually people don't notice specifics, but the editing is what takes the longest time in the video making process. I shot this at Pepperdine, the University I go to! Haha, thank you :D I LOVE THIS COMMENT SOOOO MUCH!! Words of affirmation is my love language, so you just made me sooooo happy

  • @jennalynn2715
    @jennalynn2715 10 лет назад

    I personally dont tend to be drawn to the confident guys, personally i like the shy guys because they will never put them first and when a guy is shy i think it's the cutest thing because they try not to say the wrong words even if they do you understand that they didnt mean it and if you say its fine and not take it too seriously they will be so happy and like you even more. i had a crush on my guy friend and i told him and he said that i was special to him but he didnt start dating yet because he didnt want to ruin our friendship. yeah i was friend zoned but i just said okay thats fine because i was understanding i get i was happy with our friendship. so dont freakout if you are rejected/friend zoned BECAUSE GUYS LIKE IT IF YOU ARE UNDERSTANDING

  • @007Environment
    @007Environment 10 лет назад

    I'm sure that girl the one I met at Palm Desert was perhaps lucky to know me first before she had to hear from her friends about her boyfriend cheating on her and be saddened by it. If she hasn't met me by then, she perhaps would have been left out saddened without any solutions and perhaps would have been very uneasy to deal with the situation. At least she also provided me with some of her caring thoughts to me too for my first visit at Palm Desert.

  • @TheAgentAssassin
    @TheAgentAssassin 10 лет назад +1

    There is a girl at work that is a 'smiler' , but I sense some sadness.
    I've established that she likes me, I guess it's my job now to cheer her up , swoop her off her feet and give her some man time.

    • @Sifujetli
      @Sifujetli 9 лет назад +2

      How did u established that she likes you??

  • @darrelljohnson7235
    @darrelljohnson7235 10 лет назад

    Im a student and learning. The biggest lesson i learned is nice guys dont advance. They dont hint for a kiss or try. The girl gets bored moves on. If you want to learn there plenty of teachers.. i found the best coach is a girl. Yet you can learn by trial error. Ty Post Lizzie

  • @virtual240
    @virtual240 8 лет назад

    I have no idea how to be confident so i guess i'll end up alone like i have been. Im now 30 and stopped approaching women, texting them, or messaging them on dating sites. Its a waste of time, dating is meant to find someone and is not a game. Women need to wake up and realize that those guys theyre friend zoning or out right rejecting will give up and stop trying or even something worse. The friendzone kills men.

  • @Inf7cted
    @Inf7cted 6 лет назад

    Question to all the girls out there.... As a guy I have no clue what to do about this.. Girl I love deeply and we had a falling, but then we talked for a time and she said a few things that confused me.
    I sent her text messages on her birthday saying "God I wish I was there with you" she ignored my messages then told me later she was alone and that I should of came over - but at the same time she needed her space. Confusing!
    She tells me she misses me then still ignores all my positive messages confessing my love to her and telling her how much she means to me. She still ignored me for days - then I get upset with confusion wondering if she is done with me - then she gets upset and tells me to stop being negative.
    She comes to my house and confronts me on how I feel - never responding to all the love I sent her - she took the one negative thing I said "You do this to all the guys you date - you just up and leave" ( she told me she has done this before ) I said that because i felt like she was done with me and ignored me for days.
    Before she leaves the house - she looks at me and says I tried to make things right now its up to you - I'm so damn confused. Does she want me to just show up at her place instead of texting? Is she waiting for me to prove I want her by going to her in person?
    I don't want to show up and she gets annoyed by me - think that would suck I would feel like such a loser for doing that. She is so confusing - or do i just leave her alone and just say I want you in my life and then leave it alone? Or do I chase after her in person? She says she loves me - last week she missed me, but at the same time she wants me to do something and I have no clue what it is. Girls are so confusing.

  • @ekm3484
    @ekm3484 9 лет назад +3

    we don't have to give birth to babies, but we have to support the pain of a kick in the balls.

  • @robertolicano
    @robertolicano 9 лет назад +1

    Your videos inspire me Lizzie. Love them thank you(:

  • @AnythingBtOrdinary91
    @AnythingBtOrdinary91 10 лет назад +1

    Can we get guys opinions too? Also about the cuddling although girls do like cuddling both parties should be careful with how close the cuddling gets (guys want physical satisfaction-not saying guys are jerks it's just how they're programmed) but just the same girls don't want to feel used. So guys please be careful and don't take advantage of the cuddling opportunity when/if it arises.

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      I agree!! And I think the best way to deal with this is to clearly state boundaries before they get crossed. Be specific about this.

    • @michaelmoore6788
      @michaelmoore6788 10 лет назад +1

      im a 20 yo,guy i dont just think about sex but i am a rare breed most guys do.i like cuddling alot it makes me feel whole inside my heart and soul,where i normally feel heartbroken and empty,ive had women try to jump me when i just wanted to cuddle it goes both ways ive said no before,because i don't just want that i want a real relationship i'm lonely, sex comes after you know each other not before in my mind but i was raised by women with no real father figure i got programmed differently? idk i just want a girl who makes me feel loved and will accept me for who i realy am all my personalities and i can trust with everything. :/

  • @Vetlund
    @Vetlund 10 лет назад

    What should I think when you say that girls are fragile emotionally (and physiclly), but you also say that girls are tougher. It's kinda opposites. (post number 10)

  • @steelevangelist5610
    @steelevangelist5610 10 лет назад

    What are some ways that you can come off as more confident? My biggest concern is that my attempt at confidence will come off as either awkward or creepy. it's probably baseless, but I'd still appreciate the advice!

  • @buzzwario
    @buzzwario 10 лет назад

    LizziesAnswers After watching this video I still think girls are confusing. Some people have told me to be the person I want in a soul-mate but what I want doesn't exist in a girl. Girl's are too fragile when it comes to emotions, so how can I be the person I want in a soul-mate?

  • @TheBearded23
    @TheBearded23 9 лет назад

    That last point hit me and hit me real hard I asked this girl that I've being friends with for too long I could tell she liked me but I never told her how I felt about her so I asked her out a week ago and she was like do you how long Ive been waiting for you to ask me that....... thanks big time

  • @cragthnard7395
    @cragthnard7395 9 лет назад

    So my #1 crush was leaning in and taking to one of her friends while looking at me and I gave them a little smile but I couldn't tell if she was talking about me or just looking my direction coincidentally

  • @michellesunshinestar
    @michellesunshinestar 10 лет назад +1

    I agree, cuddle, but not too much. I love the blouse and pink shirt. Where are they from?

  • @jeremyfisher8461
    @jeremyfisher8461 9 лет назад

    Your so enthusiastic I can't help but listen to your advice, oh and great smile too!

  • @Kudal196
    @Kudal196 9 лет назад

    Lizzie, You did a great job on this one!!

  • @DespairSkullz
    @DespairSkullz 9 лет назад

    Went to a horror museum and in it there was one of those scream things where people scare you. She asked to hold on to my arm because she was scared and the next day at another horror museum she did it again other than that I really havn't seen definite signs. If your a girl please help

  • @lordmalice5243
    @lordmalice5243 10 лет назад

    what do i do theres a girl i like she's younger by a year or so but i can't talk to her she occasionally smiles when she see's me other times i catch her glancing then looking away i would like to talk to her its that every time i try it feels as though im suffocating trying to say one word. other time when shes looking at me i complete freeze

  • @Stiff_Napkin
    @Stiff_Napkin 9 лет назад

    You're a pretty nice person and you have the best advice about girls I had a girl who hated me and now we hang out every single evening

  • @nicklopez8004
    @nicklopez8004 10 лет назад

    4:27 that contradicts what you said about girls being physically stronger, girls feel pain way worse than guys feel pain

  • @madzcarroll8914
    @madzcarroll8914 10 лет назад +1

    Lizzie this video is amazing u have no idea how much I look up to you ur my inspiration I watch ur videos all the time your amazing 💖💖💖

  • @wolfhowlin1859
    @wolfhowlin1859 8 лет назад

    Another word of advice ( I'm a guy, this goes out to other guys who may be more desperate then me) girls, more often then not, like dark, sort of quiet guys. It's just somethin about the mystery of it all. They don't like that annoying jock who is always laughing, smelling like sweat, and talking about sports. Don't be that person who is all over the girls, but don't ignore them either ( I made that mistake before, but I learned)

  • @bossmanfresh2816
    @bossmanfresh2816 10 лет назад

    And as far as being humble and confident goes. Simply drop your emotional baggage and be happy with who you are. Embrace what you do. Others will see that and want to be apart of it. And also guys...girls really like this

  • @haroldredrerd8886
    @haroldredrerd8886 10 лет назад +1

    Hey Lizzie. I'm a huge fan of your advice and videos, and I'm on a different account today for a specific reason. I knew that if I posted on your "13 Signs A Girl Likes you!" video, I probably wouldn't get a reply. After all, you receive a lot of questions. So I'm just going to share my situation and see if you can help me--it's quite complex.
    Me and my, "crush" are both in middle school. We have two classes together, one in which I sit right behind her, the other in which we are a row and two desks apart. She lives down the street of my small countryish neighborhood, with one house separating us. We technically don't talk to each other, excluding the first conversation she had with me when she asked if I lived on her street. She is very popular, and she talks to a lot of people. I'm no a social person, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a boyfriend right now. Long story that goes on about my super hearing skills. Anywho! I consider myself a nerd and am looking for a group of friends. You know, a group of kids that can go out and watch a movie, stick together through high school, and eventually have all the same classes with everyone separating with their assigned crush. That's a stereotype group, right?
    Recently, she invited me to a Church event at her Church. I already have a Church, but went anyway. It was fun, I met a lot of people, and I felt like we, ehm, bonded that night. Now she wants me to come regularly. I can't because we already have a church. I want to tell her this, but I also want to be her friend, and later on, um, more than a friend. c:
    So, my questions are:
    1. How should I tell her I can't keep going?
    2. How should I become her friend and her friends' friend?
    Thanks so much. c:

  • @groveavenue
    @groveavenue 9 лет назад

    This is a good video camera; will you tell me what it is?

  • @breyannah22swaggingjesus2
    @breyannah22swaggingjesus2 8 лет назад

    What I want in a guy is mostly humour. But these are what you'll get if you date me:
    1. I love to play video games, and if it's with someone I love, it's a bonus.
    2. Food!!!!
    3. I won't force you to do anything... Because I know that people want free time
    4. Caring
    5. Not a big thing, But I like it when they are cute.
    6. Be who you are. I want you for you
    7. We gonna act like kids

  • @rshade227
    @rshade227 10 лет назад

    Okay I have this friend who is a girl we were best friends since we were 6 we spend a lot of time together and now I am 15.She admitted to me she liked me and I have not respond yet.I seriously have no feelings for her I treat her like my younger sister how should I tell her I don't like her?

  • @chandlermoody4597
    @chandlermoody4597 10 лет назад

    I need advice because my girlfriend rachel says she is ugly all the time because i guy that likes her said she was ugly but i know he was just jealous and i don't no what to do because she just keeps bringing it up so please help please

  • @husonuso
    @husonuso 10 лет назад

    How do you respond to a girl after you compliment her and she says, "THANK YOU OMG THAT ME SO HAPPY I ACTUALLY JUST WANNA CRY NOW"?

  • @perruchejw
    @perruchejw 10 лет назад +3

    These videos are realy helpfull for guys we learn a lot out of them

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +3

      Yayyy!! I'm happy I'm teaching you guys something :D

  • @jackwang4150
    @jackwang4150 8 лет назад

    I don't know why people are saying that girls have too high expectations based on this video, id totally love to sit in a comfy chair with my crush, and cuddle with her and play with her hair and tell her that she's beautiful. Cause she is. Smelling good is something you should do even if you are single. I wouldn't really punch her.

  • @azghost7448
    @azghost7448 10 лет назад

    I got a question for Lizzies, what happens if you get hurt and a girl likes you how will she react if she sees you get hurt

  • @angelalexanderarquero6665
    @angelalexanderarquero6665 10 лет назад

    This is amazing advice thanks (especially the friend-zone part that helps me a lot)

  • @ryanenglish565
    @ryanenglish565 10 лет назад +2

    Your a big help lizzie, thank you so much :)

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      I'm soooo happy this helped you!! Thank you for watching my videos :)

  • @LeeTheProdigy
    @LeeTheProdigy 10 лет назад

    Everything you said made since. Great tips :) The cologne I use is Versace Pour Homme. It's smells soo good, best cologne I've smelled ever. I put it on almost everyday..but yeah great video!

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      As a representative of girls, THANK YOU! Guys who smell good= the best :) And thank you SOOO much for watching~~ I post a #newvideoeverymonday

    • @LeeTheProdigy
      @LeeTheProdigy 10 лет назад

      LizziesAnswers Can you help me? - Background on this girl: A girl in my class. She hardly ever talks but when she does its in a low voice. Shes always stroking her hair, hangs out with certain people. Talks in a low voice with them also. Sometimes doesn't show up to class, & a lot of times she doesn't wanna share her school work with the class when the teacher asks her.
      Today we made eye contact from a distance, like I looked across the room then came across her staring, in this library, we looked for like 2 seconds then I looked back at my PC screen. I don't know if I'm right but I would've sworn she was staring for a little more after. What was up with that? How could I flirt? Helpp

  • @TheMikeBlueT
    @TheMikeBlueT 10 лет назад +1

    Thanks Lizzie, I'm a guy and I always enjoy your videos! Also, amazing scenery!

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      You're welcome!! Thank you SOOO much for watching them! haha, I knowww Pepperdine is gorgeous~ I am constantly posting ocean pictures of campus on my instagram, haha instagram.com/lizziereezay

  • @aldrichcedillo6484
    @aldrichcedillo6484 10 лет назад

    Please answer my question what if I'm super shy and I like this girl and I write her notes and give her stuff what else should I do

  • @chrisseekell
    @chrisseekell 10 лет назад

    I love these videos. I found you through one like it.
    Rule of thumb, I only talk about exes if she does. And I typically consider that we are in the friendzone if those conversations happen a lot, until something obvious happens to change that.
    The thing that I find difficult with girls, is that sometimes they only want to hear that they are beautiful from the person they like. Sometimes their friends' comments won't be enough if that special someone doesn't hold the same opinion. I guess I understand why this is, but it does frustrate me when one of my friends is disconfident in her appearance because of some comment some dude made, and my opinion doesn't have an equal enough weight to help her because I'm just a friend.
    I am STILL working on validation vs trying to fix things. I am such a man in that area. But I feel like I am getting better at that.

  • @luukvanderleede9086
    @luukvanderleede9086 8 лет назад

    Alot of girls say that theyre physically stronger than most of the guys, because of childbirth. But childbirth is Just pain and suffering that you have to go through to get a kid, and That doesnt have anything related to physical strength. It won't make you stronger or more pain resistant, its just alot of pain for a long time, but thats probably the only big pain girls will get in their lives, guys get way more.

  • @SJ-qs2gj
    @SJ-qs2gj 9 лет назад

    Damn! I'm sure Making a rocket is easier than the plethora of switches needed to talk to a girl like the way she said 😂😂😂

  • @gezzapk
    @gezzapk 10 лет назад

    4:06.. So you think girls are emotionally stronger than guys yet you contradict yourself at #1 and #2 and at lot others. Right...

  • @RandomPerson-rq5xn
    @RandomPerson-rq5xn 10 лет назад

    Problem is, I am too shy to ask my crush out (I am an 8th grader), any tips

  • @riekopo7638
    @riekopo7638 7 лет назад +1

    In this video she wants to be called beautiful and in her new video she hates it lol.

  • @stundown
    @stundown 10 лет назад +19

    Hey lizzie , you're beautiful.

  • @rycullen441
    @rycullen441 10 лет назад +1

    What's up with the number 13. Is that your lucky number or sometime

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад

      7 is my lucky #! 13 is my second favorite lucky # now, 4 years ago I made the "13 Signs A Girl Likes You" video & then the whole "13" thing just took off.

  • @alexsoul7477
    @alexsoul7477 10 лет назад +1

    What if you like your best friend?

  • @elizabethbreese3413
    @elizabethbreese3413 10 лет назад +1

    Hey lizzie love your videos and us girls we have twice as many pain receptors and a much higher pain tolerence

    • @LizziesAnswers
      @LizziesAnswers  10 лет назад +1

      Waittt, really?! Who run the worlddd? GIRLS

    • @elizabethbreese3413
      @elizabethbreese3413 10 лет назад

      Yeah cool right my mom was the one who told me and I looked it up
      it was true

  • @hfish83
    @hfish83 9 лет назад

    The best way to get a girl is to just relax and be yourself.smile, and make them laugh. Then at the right time, ask her out. If she says no, jokingly ask her, how are our children gonna get here, if we don't take the time to get to know each other baby? Hahaha

  • @codykelly9295
    @codykelly9295 10 лет назад

    Hey Lizzie quick question what are the odds of you meeting a girls best friend or one of them rather if she doesn't like you? We haven't know each other long and she stopped by on the before we went singing we arnt dating or anything and she said she isn't interested indating anyone because she just got out of a long relationship which I totally respect. She knows I like her though. (Oh and her friend they were roommates for 4 years)

  • @Skeletonboss12
    @Skeletonboss12 9 лет назад

    Yo how do I know when it's a good time to ask out the girl I want to help or even what to follow through with please help me out

    • @flysociety425
      @flysociety425 9 лет назад

      You just don't ................you must create the moment ✌

    • @Skeletonboss12
      @Skeletonboss12 9 лет назад

      So I've figured something out she rejects like every guy who asks her out unless she like
      S u and there is about 50% she will like me as I'm one of the two guys who she hangs out with so soon I will

    • @flysociety425
      @flysociety425 9 лет назад

      You should go for it

    • @Skeletonboss12
      @Skeletonboss12 9 лет назад

      I'll try idk

  • @austinbeebe5146
    @austinbeebe5146 10 лет назад

    "For girls, like, little comments can wreck us emotionally, and make us cry or scar us for months. So just be careful when you speak." This came shortly after "I think girls are way stronger emotionally than guys..."
    As a guy, you always have to walk on eggshells or girls will flip out. Guys don't cry over negative comments.

  • @mik-exe-
    @mik-exe- 10 лет назад

    I know it's meant to be an "insight" into the general female psyche, but there was a frightening number of contradictions and demands that even I as a female wasn't comfortable hearing. I think a review of some key aspects of feminism is in order.
    A curious familiarity about many of the things mentioned is that generally, guys have the same points.