What Japanese Kids Nursery Training is Like E.46
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2022
- We had to change our Japanese Nursery and had to go through Japanese nursery training Narashihoiku all over again.
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Every kid is different. Sometimes when a single child gets a lot of attention from the parents they are used to being the center of the universe. It can be an adjustment having to learn to be independent and socialize with other children.
most kids do "solo" play til 4 or sometimes 5. So if Wolfy plays by himself, it's to be expected. Don't worry.( mom of 5 and preschool teacher 18 years.)
True. As long as they are supported and loved they turn out ok.
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So true. They start playing by themselves. Then move to parallel play, where two children play solo but near each other and watching each other. Unless you have twins, where the normal rules don't really apply.
Exactly, children don't start being social animals until later.
Is it worth it being a preschool teacher? I’m graduating from college with my BA in Sociology. Initially I wanted to do social work but after working as a TA at a preschool I want to do that….lol I honestly have no idea what I want anymore 😂❤
As someone who owns a daycare in America, it is quite normal to start noticing behaviors that are contrary to how Wolfy usually behaves. Kids learn behaviors from other kids. So, if he sees another kid get more attention once he/she throws a tantrum or is whiny/crying. He could be having stronger displays of emotion to, as you said, get more attention. Also, as other comments have stated the blood in the nose is from dry air. The daycare is probably cooler and dryer than your home. 🧡
is it true in daycare they let babies cry it out
Paolo, it's completely normal to have parents not watch their kids in Canada! My mom teaches kindergarten, and even on the first day, having parents stand at the windows and watch makes the seperation anxiety worse. The kids fixate on the windows and trying to see their parents.
But if parents go home, then the kids get acclimatized really quickly and learn to play with each other, even on the first day. Honestly, the teachers are normally really really caring and want the best for the kids, so your loved ones are in good hands.
Yup. I'm a teacher, and I always say goodbye to parents at the door. Usually harder for parents to leave, then it is for the kids to stay.
I’m in NY and it’s the same way here, they encourage the hug, good bye, and leave fast. Though honestly I think I missed my kid more than he missed me 😅
It's the same in Germany. It makes the anxiety of the kids worse and the kindergarten teachers don't want to be constantly watched by the parents as well xD apart from that the rooms are simply not big enough to shelter the kids and their parents.
As an only child and showered with lots of attention at home, it’s bewildering for dear Wolfie at school. It’s so sweet to see you support him thru the transition! ❤
If the air is too dry, his nose might be cracking. Maybe the blood came from that. My nose has always been like that. Based on your outfits, it looks like it’s starting to cool down and humidity is probably low. Saline gel mist works very well and humidifier at night is also great
HE DID THE POINT AT THE END WITH YOU GUYS!!!
Oh my goodness that melted my heart
My heart left my body from the cuteness
That was sooo adorable.
Sensory overload after Nursery. Ohh I remember well. They come home and WHOMP THERE IT IS !!! Every emotion available repeated over and over in the space of half hour. Hope he's now more settled now. It was my routine I had adjust the most, not just the kids. After 16 years from being a new mum, Im still changing my routine for them. hahahaha.
"I'm new to this...What do I know?!" Haha! I can agree with this statement so much!!! He's getting so big💕❤️
I am a Preschool Teacher and my school still doesn't allow parents inside the school due to covid sop. However, we do have a school app system where teachers will upload photos and videos for parents to see the activities done everyday. Having said that, it is beneficial for the children to separate from parents during nursery time. It will help them become more independant emotionally. I understand as parents, it's concerning, but time will show how capable our children are at developing 😊 keep up your great job as parents!
He is very young! Give him a few months! He interacts very well with you and is quite social so he will do well with others!
At our daycare in Australia we get photo updates on the daycare app of what your child does. :) but we are encouraged to make goodbyes brief as it helps the kids to settle with the teachers.
He’s just so cute, and seems to be well rounded! He’s just learning how to communicate his feelings. They are big like any toddler. Y’all are doing a great job. You can definitely tell he feels loved and safe at home. ❤
This was so wholesome. Watching Wolfy change right before our eyes is crazy. Keep up the great work,
@2:04 Definitely a valid point for kids! They're trying to hard to behave at school that when they get home they just release all their emotions. I'm glad you guys are patient with him.
At the age he is they are still egocentric and will not play with other kids just yet. It is just an adjustment.
Egosentrical is NOT the word I would use.
@@the_oslovian thats is the correct Word. Egocentric stage is very different to be selfish. Egocentric stage is a healthy stage that every kid must to have for a healthy social development.
@@nfloresl Egosentrical also comes with a lot of connotations for most people, and very negative ones, I think a lot of people would and will misinterpret. I think it's better to say that they haven't developed the skills or interest to play with others yet.
@@the_oslovian well, it is not only that... the egocentric stage is a vocable correct in this case and if we said "they haven't developed the skills or interest to play with others yet" we can run out of information. I suggest read more about development stages of Piaget.
again.. to be the egocentric stage in this age is totally natural and show a healthy mental and social development. This is a technical vocable in pedagogy that doesn't have any negative connotation.
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more videos like this and it’s totally understandable that you have apprehension about leaving Wolfy at a new nursery where there are more children and maybe a little less one on one attention from his teachers but you’re doing an awesome 🤩 job as parents and so is Wolfy👦🏻 He likes to observe everything first, be reassured that he is safe, that he can play, but once he is comfortable in any situation, there is an immediate change in his confidence and he blooms like a flower 🌺👏🏽🫰🏽. Love you guys.
Sometimes bloody boogers can be from dry and/or cold air. Wolfy is such a sweetie, hoping it’s nothing too serious and that he adjusts to daycare soon 😊💚
I think you and Maiko are remarkable parents! Wolfy is so far ahead of kids his age because you guys give him the best attention and include him so he's bounding ahead! I think he really misses you guys but him going to school is so important. Don't worry too much! And that blood booger - it may be drier at the school so that can happen - my son used to get those, it wasn't anything bad. You are such good parents!!! Fighting!!! 💖💪🙏
I just love keeping up with you guys !
you two are good parents you teach him and work and play with him. Not all parents do that. most parents use the TV to entertain the kids. when my daughter was his age she knew what she wanted to wear.if you tried to put something else on her. she would have a fit. so I let her choose between two dresses each day. then there was no melt downs.
Glad to see you guys 😊
Omg, a blood bugger could mean the inside lining of his nose is dry. It doesn’t mean he got hit. It’s very common when the air is dry and maybe he has allergies. I get them all the time due to dry indoor air and have never had a nose injury. Don’t imagine the worst all the time
When my oldest one was still 2-3 yrs here in the San Francisco Bay Area , her preschool allowed in and outs for parents anytime of the day. It was nice to watch in the background while she interacted with her friends. It all changed during Covid , few mins during pickup and drop off now I believe for current schedules.
What a beautiful little man! He makes my heart melt
Thank you so much for sharing such a vulnerable and realistic experience with us! It’s hard to share the moments when a child isn’t just smiling or everything is going perfectly well and seeing the moments that show growth is so refreshing. Hoping Wolfy continues to grow and the adjustment gets easier for everyone!
It’s fun watching your family. 👍🏻
My son is Wolfie's age, and in Georgia (the country) we parents have an App where we can watch our kids during the day in their classroom, outdoors, and in the common area. This is amazing cuz I can monitor what he does, plus see how he interacts with other kids and teachers. sometimes if I see something I will call the teacher and mention it. He doesn't talk but I know when he wants water, he raises his hand and signals and I know it, and I used to call the teacher saying he wants water :))
its amazing as when he grows he starts to look more and more like both of you! so stunning!
Wow Japanese nursery is so different from the states! I’m currently trying to get my 18mo old son adjusted and they basically just let them cry it out. He cried for 4 hours straight 😢 I like how you get to go with them the first couple of days! It makes the transition easier for them it seems ❤
That's interesting. Here in Australia we have something called 'stay and play's' where before a child is officially starting, parents can bring them as many times as they want and stay as long as they want to get the child used to the childcare and the teachers. After the child seems comfortable the parents are asked to go somewhere (still in the centre) where the child can't see them for longer and longer periods to get them used to the parent not being there. The parents aren't charged for any of this as the child isn't officially in care.
What great parenting you two! and he is the cutest little boy I have ever seen. So sweet. ❤
My daughter around Wolfy's age is starting a new, also bigger, daycare/nursery in a couple of weeks! Thank you for describing what it was like, I have a better idea what to expect! I think that age is a little delicate when it comes to attachment and social interactions, but they adapt so well after a bit :)
Paolo thank you for sharing this journey of Wolfy with the world. He’s so adorable and I wish you and your family many more success and abundance of joy. What a sweet family. I enjoy watching your videos.
Awesome job you guys
Ah bless you all. I remember like it was yesterday when my son went to nursery for the first time. Its a big transition for you all. I use to be a nursery teacher and one thing I found was it dose take at least 3 weeks for the little ones to really settle in. He seams to be doing amazing well. When he puts his head down and seams shy it probably is because of Wolfies gentle but sweet nature but also he is demonstrating to his peers, hey I don't like it when you get too close or take my toy away. Some little ones are more dominant and pushy but when you think of a of the different personalities in the world this is all perfectly normal and natural demonstrations of behaviour. I think as parents your quite right to be concerned if his nose membranes where blood stained. If Wolfie is not a nose picker then I would surmise that he may of accidentally knocked himself slightly or he may of knocked into someone else or someone knocked into him. Little ones of Wolfies age have not got full spacial awareness as of yet and may bump into one another or furniture at times. All of these things are perfectly normal. Just keep an eye on his nose and any signs of continuing of nose bleeds just take him to his doctors to get him checked out but I'm sure his completely fine. Also it's a fantastic sign that the Nursery school is followed this up with you. As nursery teachers they will be on full alert 24/7. They are so precious our children and all of the things you have experienced and expressed are perfectly fine. He looks so happy and healthy and you can tell little Wolfie is going to be a quick learner and very bright indeed. Congratulations on getting through your first week of Nursery you all should be so very proud of each one of you. God bless and take care 🙂 🙏 ❤️ ♥️ 💕
you are absolutely doing the right thing letting him cry out but being there for him, its important he gets to express his frustration and feel heard, (read about the circle of security sometime for ino!) you're both a wonderful pair of parents!
awesome video! thanks Paolo
Glad you liked it!
The ending was so so awesome!! Wolfie point along side both of you guys 😍😍 so cute!!
Aloha - I love your family…thank you for sharing your adventures with us 💖
Showering children with love, confidence building autonomy practice and support from parents at the home is essential, I can tell he benefits from an abundance of these conditions with his parents, awesome to see you guys do so much together during his early years during pre-school stage. Will help the young man Wolfie adjust in all the new settings encountered in his journey, throughout each stage of his development as a person. Hang in there 👍🙂⭐️
Love your videos! 😁
Thank you for spending time with Wolfy, as new parents you guys are doing great! Ganbatte!
Wolfy is growing up and you both are awesome parents, i don’t know much of the Japanese system but I see that Wolfy is learning a lot by going to the nursery. He will one day be an Independent boy and with parents like you both, he’ll be okay 💜
I'm working in a kindergarten (incl. nursery) in germany and we don't let the parents out for AT LEAST 4 days! You are with us and the other kids for about an hour with your kid. So they get used to us, to the room, to the other kids. We always watch your kid and see, if they play only with you or near to you or if they don't care that you're there. If we think it's okay for you to leave, you go out for one hour. Only one hour. We see how the kids react and expand the time you are away from day to day (if the kids handle your leaving good)
Hi. I really missed you guys. Wolfy is so, so cute! 🥰 I think that Wolfy will be fine. Usually at his age, children tend to play side by side instead of interacting with each other. As long as he is engaging in some form of play, he’s making adjustments at his own pace. I was a daycare teacher for twenty years. I can tell that Wolfy is doing well😊Love from USA in Tennessee 💕
Wolfie is getting so big! He will come out of his shell soon. ❤️
You guys are amazing parents.🎉
You guys are good parents. He looks happy and loved
He’s getting so big ❤❤❤
Our two year old daughter watching this video with big interest. Great video...👍 greetings from Oslo, Norway.
My daughter just started at a nursery school. She's a little over two, and it's the same. They don't want you hanging around because it inhibits the independence of the child. It's funny, in their policy they say family members welcome to stop by anytime, but in the interview, they tell you different.
Paolo from Tokyo and This channel are the absolute best! I will live in Japan someday!
I think you are overthinking it a bit tbh. I spent my working life as a childrens nanny and considering young Wolfy wasn’t able to socialise as much because of the pandemic I think he is doing wonderfully. He is going to have little temper tantrums as he is struggling to process all these new things. He will be tired and cranky too, he is a little shy but that isn’t surprising either as I don’t think you had any kidlets of Wolfies age in your covid bubble. It might be an idea to talk to other parents and see if you can arrange a play date for him and another child that way he will have someone at nursery he can relate to. When you leave him in the morning it takes every child a while to settle and some do it immediately and some don’t. Wolfy is taking his own time to quietly process what is going on around him. He is a bright, happy little boy and the way you are both reassuring him is brilliant, as long as you support him that way he should be fine. Try not to worry everyone including gorgeous young Wolfy goes at the pace that works for them. Much love ♥️
Maiko thank you for sharing with us some Japanese phrases that are hard to find! Also you are the best!!
Omg I can watch him all day😂 he is toooo cuuuuuuute!!!!!!!❤
Good luck!!
I'm in Toronto Canada over here. We don't really have nursery training so I love how Japan has that. Kids get dropped off on the first day and if you want to pick them up earlier, that's up to your discretion. It's tough on parents and I've seen kids cry for hours in the first few weeks. We're also not allowed to stay inside or watch either.
As someone who works in childcare I don't think you need to worry!! It can take up to a few months for a child who is not used to being around other children to adapt. They have to learn to deal with the loud noises and how to interact with the other children. How to initiate play, what to do when another child takes a toy away etc. Also try not to freak about him getting hurt! He will come home with bruises and cuts, children fall over, misjudge distances etc. It's actually extremely important for development as it allows them to judge risks and figure out how to not get hurt next time :D
Just saw this. Feel for you both! Hope he's doing OK in daycare/school. Changes seem to be harder on the parents..lol. Even when they get older you, will still worry but kids are resilient and will be OK.
A lot of the nurseries in the States have a video feed you can log into from your phone or computer to see your child. It is nice so you can see if there are any issues.
Good job Wolfy!
13:53 Wolfy's "We're back" pose. 😄👏👏
Awwww, Wolfy is so adorable! 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Just explain to him that you will be back in a little bit. Making him independent will benefit him so much in the long run. Babies can get blood boogers from changes in air temperature and humidity.
I would honestly love for y’all to upload everyday or even maybe one day get a RUclips tv show. I love you guys. Much love from QUEENS, NY
Our son just started his second year of nursery school in the same place and had these same issues. They told us older kids have a harder adjustment than the younger ones. Luckily in France they send us pictures and photos to let us know how our little one is doing throughout the day
Paolo, I hope you see this message. Hoping you and your family are safe during the Typhoon that is hitting Japan.
I love both your concern for him. As a mother and previous Early Childhood Teacher... Toddlers being in a daycare is tough for them, everything you felt he was going through is true. At this age they just need mama and dada and being in a new environment with new people, children and adults they're not close with is hard. They do feel a bit lost and the teachers should be comforting him and encouraging him to be involved in play. I think finding a new nursery if possible sounds best, otherwise keep loving and supporting him as you are..
Poor Wolfy, hope he's doing well and good for you both being concerned and loving parents
Cute family ❤❤ and love this channel american here ❤
I hope this helpful to you about the bloody booger. My son had the same problem off and on. I took him to the doctor. Found out that it was cause by sinuses. The lining of his nose would get dry causing the blood. Even when he has a runny nose. I was told just to use nasal spray.
I’m a nursery practitioner in England. My feeling is that most children are not happy at nursery until they are able to enjoy playing with other children, around the age of 2 1/2 to 3 for most but often later. As practitioners we don’t have the possibility of giving children the 1-1 they need so if you have an only child like Wolfy, who isn’t used to not being the centre of attention it is even harder. Personally, I would have a nanny until the age of 4 and then think about group care. The clue is in the name - nursery can only offer care to groups of children, not individual children and if it worries you do something different, do not go with the cultural expectations that are built on an economic value (group care) rather than a care value (have a nanny). It’s tough but that’s the reality.
I agree with you. Very young children are often not ready to be in a school setting. They also get sick a lot the first year. Here in Israel, we have what's called a meeshpachton, which is a small nursery for toddlers....maybe 4 to 6 kids but they are private and like a private babysitter, may not be affordable which is a shame.
From Australia here, same rules apply for drop off and pick up (only allowed to stay for a few minutes at each) but we have an app that the educators use to let us know what our daughter has eaten, how many nappy changes (and if it was wet or soiled etc)
We first started sending her when she was 8 months old for 3 days a week. She’s now 16 months old and absolutely loves it. Took her a little while to adjust, but we always let the educators comfort her if she’s upset on drop off as we wanted her to realise they are good people and will comfort her just like we will when she’s upset.
She also plays a lot on her own, but she does at home too. We are lucky enough to have a playroom for her and we let her do her own thing, we are in there with her to supervise but she plays on her own a lot - she does bring over toys to play with us or will call us over but we like that she plays on her own!
Remember, daycare/nursery won’t give the same amount of care/attention to him as you do at home ❤
Wolfy, I'll catch you in the next one! ❤
thanks for sharing such honest adorableness. wolfy seems to be adjusting well, especially for his age. you as parents are obviously doing great with him. 🫶🏻
Be safe Wolfy!
😂❤❤ That endingg was just too cute!!
Wolfy washing his tiny hands is super kawaii 😆
Loosen up, that's my advice. Anxious parents make anxious children, your job as parents is not merely to protect him but rather to prepare him for the world. A little bit of discomfort is part of the process of growing up, which is a fantastic experience. 🤗
I remember when will for you first appeared on RUclips as just a small little boy but now he’s becoming a fully grown school kid now it’s so crazy knowing how far you’ve gone as far as RUclips but not only that joining the RUclips community is a funny comedian lol not only that the things he has learned along the way I love this channel I really do you guys are the best go 😉 The little star a.k.a. Wolfie
Wow!!!!..no words..
So cute Wolf 🇧🇷💕💕
Wolfy is doing great. I'm so impressed with his English. Do the teachers know that you are raising him with both languages?
It's such a hard process. Natural for most parents to be worried & not want their children to feel that way. Hope things have gotten better.
I remember taking my kids to their first day at nursery. They ran off and looked surprised to still see me a few minutes later. Maybe because they're twins we never had any problems with nursery or school, because they were never alone? Day one of school they looked over at their Dad 5 minutes after the bell rang and said "What are you still doing here?" At the gate their were parents having a wee cry. I did a victory dance, we got to the first school day and everyone had all their limbs. Victory!
Go with your gut feelings, ask questions, u can never b over protective
Maybe try getting some One on One play dates with some of the kids in the nursery or even with any other kids that you know to get him more sociable but its only the first week at a new place few days time he might be number 1 . As far as the bloody booger it could just be the type of heat in the school ,allergies does not have to be from a fall or a smack. I use to have massive nose bleeds as a child and as I grew up they went away. I am in my 40s now and have not had any more since elementary school. You are doing a great job giving wolfie lots of love and he's going to be a very smart and happy little boy .Best of luck with every thing guys!
Love your channel so much! Literally going through the same thing with my little one. Except of playing but herself, she scream bloody murder when I leave... 😢
Wow I was like omg he did that perfectly with miko and Palo the finger pointing
Beautiful and entertaining video. LOVE IT. I have subscribed to your channel. :-)
0:55 adorable
Awwwwwwhhhh... poor little guy... Even cranky, Wolfy is damn cute! ❤
I got bloody nose clots from dry air as a kid. Maybe he got a bit dehydrated and dry air from a new environment at the nursery. I still get them occasionally as an adult and have to run the humidifier at night for like a week every year when the heater is running a lot.
Aloha 🤙 from Honolulu! He'll be fine in a few days. He's just not used to being with so many other rug rats in a confined space. And he misses Mummy and Daddy
I have a general and burning question I would love for you to talk about either here or try show on your Tokyo channel, that is, how is the help and treatment of kids born with downs syndrome or any other kind of mental or physical implications in Japan. Is it common? Do people bot like to talk about it? Stigmitized? All og that! I work with children who have downs and they're absolutely amazing and cute. I would love to hear about the Japanese aspect in that regard! Thanks for your amazing channels! I love following you guys!
prioritys part of being a good parent, they come first !! you guys rock, aint it fun though
It's good to see that wolfy is playing with bus kun
classic only child scenario. Used to being the center of attention all the time. Being attended to constantly. Never having to share because everything is yours, getting your way pretty much all the time. Suddenly there're other kids around, and you aren't the center of the world any more, and the toys aren't yours exclusively any more. It's a big shock going from being the only one in the world, to one of several. An only child is used to being alone, and is naturally more independent than a child with siblings of course. I know, I'm an only child, raised primarily by a Japanese mother. He'll get used to it once his ego gets over the shock and he realizes they're other people in a bigger world than the small one he's used to.
Nice video.
Wolfy is such a cutiepie ! Can you make a video about his most favourite toys he spends more than 50 seconds with? Our son is the same age , would be great to get some new toy ideas
Blood boogers are common it's a build up of dirt and such , also due to dry air, I used to get them a lot when I was a kid, and most kids do,