Number 3 is so spot on :) As an INTJ, I have always been intrigued by that "smiling eyes" that ENFPs have, like saying to the rest of the world: "I see something in life that you don't".
That’s sweet! I sometimes think exactly the same “people will never see the world the way I do and that’s a shame :(“. Also it feels like we’re always more excited about things than the rest in general, like for real 😅
What amazes me the most as an INTJ is how the other person sees the world. I always want to know the other person is thinking especially when the see things differently. ENFPs are fun to be with.
As am INTJ, I find ENFP’s soften me. I’m sceptical as can be about everyone’s motivations but then I’ll listen to an ENFP and gain a little faith due to their sweet, inquisitive, authentic, and positive outlook. I just finished a novel and based the female lead on the ENFP’s I know and from RUclips because I could never get into that headspace without help. It’s too optimistic for this INTJ- that’s what I love about ENFP.
You're spot on. And when I see ENFP's thinking - I imagine a colorful storm in the universe of their minds firing off rainbows between neurons. It's not just the part about being amusing, it's kind of like intertwined with amazement, appreciating and recognising that something interesting is going on in there. Varied opinions, a stream of unique ideas. Along with the energy you give off. Looking back - I think my biggest crush ever was most likely and ENFP, back before I knew MBTI exists.
i am an enfp and I find myself exclusively only attracted to intj personalities haha my boyfriend is an intj and all of my favorite tv/movie/comic/anime characters are all intj’s haha
Haha I know! I like Mr. Darcy! Their quietness and intelligence comes to us ENFPs as sexy!! Check out my video on ‘Why ENFPs love INTJs’ ruclips.net/video/Bshste2aVNQ/видео.html
From a INTJ perspective, I think there is a ton of reasons to love ENFP's. You all carry a spark of life inside you. "This little light of mine" probably was written by a ENFP and it got jacked by the christians :). You have boldness and that brings a sort of bravery that a INTJ can respect and idealize. ENFP also bring a fun and acceptable level of spontaneity. ENFP's are much more but for a INJT, you add a spice to life that feel equivalent to Tinker-Bells fairy dust. Break it down all you want, ENFP's seem like a wonderful kind of magic. That's boundless curiosity to me :).
1) yep 2) yep 3) yep - All of these are spot on. To add to what you've stated in the video. I feel that INTJ/ENFP is possibly the best match for both these types. Both types cover each others blind spots well. This pairing also has a playful romantic compatibility that works really well. They both will give each other space to pursue hobbies/interests and down time (me time). They both often engage in deep meaningful conversations of similar interests. Both types like to travel/explore. The list goes on and on.
As an INTJ-A, what astonishes me the most is our intellectual connection, this Ne-Ni getting along for hours makes everything more colourful, meaningful and enjoyable. They always enlighten my days! Also, I love how observant and curious they are, like finding inspirations everywhere. I'ts fascinating, you guys! Ps: I'm using "they" but I've only known one ENFP, it's just that I didn't want to sound a bit obsessed with this person...
What other types (not NJs) might dislike about the ENFP or their lifestyle others would disapprove of is specifically what draws us to ENFPs. All the quirks, habits, peculiarities, strengths and weaknesses. I would imagine ENFPs and more broadly NPs might feel the same, the other way around.
4. ENFPs, and other extrovert types can also serve as another layer in our defenses against unwanted social interactions. Because the extrovert will automatically deal with it, and the INTJ can just relax.
I like what you said on your last point on when ENfPs have down days. I think the ENFPs feels something similar when something new has been revealed in a person of interest. Whenever I’ve seen the somber days of an ENFP my impression of the person goes from grape juice to a fine wine. I see a beautiful soul. Great video.
I actually (unfortunately) am not close with any ENFPs at all, but I have quite a few INFP friends and I found that I actually find some of their problems quite endearing, so I imagine that #2 would be spot on for me for sure.
Hi!! Thanks for sharing!! Even though it seems like only one letter, ENFPs and INFPs are quite different. You can see my take on their main differences here: ruclips.net/video/lCv5jz-aNVo/видео.html
@@Mindimalist For sure! Yeah, and I can even see the differences in cognition between my INFP friends and ENFPs I see on the internet. It'd be fun to maybe meet an ENFP in-person so that I can make the observations myself in real time lol
This is fantastic ! You have great insight about MBTI, or otherwise know as Myers-Briggs aka Myers Briggs Type Indicator. You have wonderful knowledge and assessment of INTP, ESTP, ENTP, ESTJ, ENFP, INTJ, INFJ, ESTP. Do you also know Nine Enneagram Type Descriptions ? You have real knowledge for personal growth, and self care. All your advice is based on sound psychology and draws from works Carl Jung, or Jungian Psychology. Your videos provide a great learning experience.
Salut, If you're still doing MBTI videos, could you please do a video on how to handle the ENFP emotional crash? That thing they do when they all of sudden shut down and have that empty killer gaze, just staring off into space, numb and unresponsive. How do we other types handle that?
In my younger days i will just be going about my business and will just attract women of the ENFP, INFJ, ENTP, INFP, varient. Women will just come to u. No need to find them. But one of my biggest regret was letting go of an amazing crazy ENFP. She just made me laugh all the time. Being a dark, brooding, serious, intj i need that in my life.
Can say something terrible now as INTJ: it's a rare thing I could have some ENFP company for longer period. The E part is usually too draining. Know just one that I can manage being friends with. And she's unusual in more ways than average.
Oh yessss!! I think that’s one of the reasons why INTJs open up to ENFP’s. Did you watch already my video on How ENFPs make INTJs open up? Here it is: ruclips.net/video/Bx55bkaiUm0/видео.html
@@Mindimalist You really know your stuff about INTJs. That video you suggested is spot on. Having an opinion, willingness to see INTJs are not trying to be right all time, and having healthy conflict about that differince in opinion, that is what turns us INTJs on.
I have covered that in a video as well: ruclips.net/video/hOwhzKJClfY/видео.html Make sure to check my MBTI playlist and or both the ENFP and INTJ playlist, you’ll find lots of relevant information for both types.
Hey, what are your thoughts on learning about enfp personality type deliberately to encomporate them into a relationship. Is this a bad idea or actually just normal. Also, by learning... I meant reading a +200 page book on enfp(and of course my own personality type) 😅 The reason I'm contemplating this is because it seem cheesy, like it feels inauthentic. Sort of like knowing someone generally before getting to know them. Looking forward to a reply this is super important to me :/ tyy -INTJ
Some people like to learn by doing, others prefer reading about it. I'm definitely one of the latter and I'm ENFP. If reading about it will help you get to know an ENFP better, go ahead.
As ENFP I love INTJs being cheesy cause they do it in a robotic clumsy yet authentic way that I find adorable. I think we ENFP value the interest you have in us: is like “this brilliant occupied person is putting time in learning about me, feel so flattered!” My INTJ boyfriend some times makes comments that help me to learn more about my self, maybe this important person will also apreciate this, but try to see first if this theory is confirmed by reality! Also you can say “i read that people with your personality does A and B, what do you think?” If you do it please come back to share what happened!! 👀
@@Mindimalist Sounds like a British accent, but at the same time sounds like a mix of British and American accents, 'cause sometimes you speak a little faster. How you pronunciate the "THs" so correctly makes you really cute. :)
Great question. The answer is no. I think normally we would take the "protection" as thoughtfulness. They seem to analyze us and do the best they can for us. Unless they are toxic people.
@@Mindimalist as always you provide insight into our overdriven INTJ minds😄 We usually come off as too collected or at least a little bit tepid so to speak. I guess when we show emotion it’s a rare sight.
@@ecetamer8593 haha, I think you'd like to watch my newest video: "My experience with INTJ males & What they do wrong in love/dating?!" ruclips.net/video/5tqSPT_rAFk/видео.html
omg my friend is enfp she can’t stand intj, cuz she had a intj bf and thought he was being ignorant and don’t appreciate her enough lol, but I do admit enfp is the introvert of extroverted type, they are so close minded when they think about relationships or intimacy relations.
As an INTJ, the most beautiful thing that I like about ENFP is their raw emotion.
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Number 3 is so spot on :) As an INTJ, I have always been intrigued by that "smiling eyes" that ENFPs have, like saying to the rest of the world: "I see something in life that you don't".
That’s sweet! I sometimes think exactly the same “people will never see the world the way I do and that’s a shame :(“. Also it feels like we’re always more excited about things than the rest in general, like for real 😅
You liar 🤥
What amazes me the most as an INTJ is how the other person sees the world. I always want to know the other person is thinking especially when the see things differently. ENFPs are fun to be with.
ENPF love to speak their minds all the time. We'll also never answer that we're thinking about "nothing".
As am INTJ, I find ENFP’s soften me. I’m sceptical as can be about everyone’s motivations but then I’ll listen to an ENFP and gain a little faith due to their sweet, inquisitive, authentic, and positive outlook. I just finished a novel and based the female lead on the ENFP’s I know and from RUclips because I could never get into that headspace without help. It’s too optimistic for this INTJ- that’s what I love about ENFP.
That was just so sweet!!! 💖💖💖💖
An ENFP would find that statement of facts sweet, yes. That’s what is nice about the INTJ/ENFP compatibility.
You're spot on. And when I see ENFP's thinking - I imagine a colorful storm in the universe of their minds firing off rainbows between neurons. It's not just the part about being amusing, it's kind of like intertwined with amazement, appreciating and recognising that something interesting is going on in there. Varied opinions, a stream of unique ideas. Along with the energy you give off.
Looking back - I think my biggest crush ever was most likely and ENFP, back before I knew MBTI exists.
Haaaa recognising that something is interesting is an under statement. We embody the thing that’s interesting and exciting - and become one with it. 😅
ENFP love everyone and , INTJ just love ENFP deeply ❤
i am an enfp and I find myself exclusively only attracted to intj personalities haha my boyfriend is an intj and all of my favorite tv/movie/comic/anime characters are all intj’s haha
Haha I know! I like Mr. Darcy! Their quietness and intelligence comes to us ENFPs as sexy!!
Check out my video on ‘Why ENFPs love INTJs’
ruclips.net/video/Bshste2aVNQ/видео.html
*cough* captain Levi *cough*
@@oliviamartin6963 I love Levi so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@oliviamartin6963 omg XD 😂 as both a enfp & a otaku , i get u
Omgeee saaaameeeeeee
From a INTJ perspective, I think there is a ton of reasons to love ENFP's. You all carry a spark of life inside you. "This little light of mine" probably was written by a ENFP and it got jacked by the christians :). You have boldness and that brings a sort of bravery that a INTJ can respect and idealize. ENFP also bring a fun and acceptable level of spontaneity. ENFP's are much more but for a INJT, you add a spice to life that feel equivalent to Tinker-Bells fairy dust. Break it down all you want, ENFP's seem like a wonderful kind of magic. That's boundless curiosity to me :).
💖💖💖
1) yep 2) yep 3) yep - All of these are spot on. To add to what you've stated in the video. I feel that INTJ/ENFP is possibly the best match for both these types. Both types cover each others blind spots well. This pairing also has a playful romantic compatibility that works really well. They both will give each other space to pursue hobbies/interests and down time (me time). They both often engage in deep meaningful conversations of similar interests. Both types like to travel/explore. The list goes on and on.
ENFP here, married an INTJ! so true!
Hi! Thanks for sharing and for watching!
your username is so cute~ sloth is coincidentally my intj's nickname :p
As an INTJ-A, what astonishes me the most is our intellectual connection, this Ne-Ni getting along for hours makes everything more colourful, meaningful and enjoyable. They always enlighten my days! Also, I love how observant and curious they are, like finding inspirations everywhere. I'ts fascinating, you guys!
Ps: I'm using "they" but I've only known one ENFP, it's just that I didn't want to sound a bit obsessed with this person...
That ENFP might be very glad to be your obsession 😉
@@octavia88 yesyesyes!
What other types (not NJs) might dislike about the ENFP or their lifestyle others would disapprove of is specifically what draws us to ENFPs. All the quirks, habits, peculiarities, strengths and weaknesses. I would imagine ENFPs and more broadly NPs might feel the same, the other way around.
4. ENFPs, and other extrovert types can also serve as another layer in our defenses against unwanted social interactions. Because the extrovert will automatically deal with it, and the INTJ can just relax.
Very true! Pfff that list can go on and on can’t it? 🤓 I have recorded another video on this subject again. Stay tuned!!
I like what you said on your last point on when ENfPs have down days. I think the ENFPs feels something similar when something new has been revealed in a person of interest. Whenever I’ve seen the somber days of an ENFP my impression of the person goes from grape juice to a fine wine. I see a beautiful soul. Great video.
My ENFP is a little unicorn... lol
Thats so cute 😊🦄
I actually (unfortunately) am not close with any ENFPs at all, but I have quite a few INFP friends and I found that I actually find some of their problems quite endearing, so I imagine that #2 would be spot on for me for sure.
Hi!! Thanks for sharing!!
Even though it seems like only one letter, ENFPs and INFPs are quite different.
You can see my take on their main differences here: ruclips.net/video/lCv5jz-aNVo/видео.html
@@Mindimalist For sure! Yeah, and I can even see the differences in cognition between my INFP friends and ENFPs I see on the internet. It'd be fun to maybe meet an ENFP in-person so that I can make the observations myself in real time lol
This is fantastic ! You have great insight about MBTI, or otherwise know as Myers-Briggs aka Myers Briggs Type Indicator. You have wonderful knowledge and assessment of INTP, ESTP, ENTP, ESTJ, ENFP, INTJ, INFJ, ESTP. Do you also know Nine Enneagram Type Descriptions ? You have real knowledge for personal growth, and self care. All your advice is based on sound psychology and draws from works Carl Jung, or Jungian Psychology. Your videos provide a great learning experience.
4:29 that's too good to be real.
Omg your channel look like rachel goddard from Indonesian🤣😁 me Indonesian. Thanks a lot for the videos!
Haha really? In which way?
I am an ENFP and I never met an INTJ ... All I want is an intj friend I hope I will find them soon 😁✌🏻
Hey! Watch this video to learn how to spot one!! :
ruclips.net/video/jcAlWDBBuB0/видео.html
👁️ I'm looking
Salut,
If you're still doing MBTI videos, could you please do a video on how to handle the ENFP emotional crash? That thing they do when they all of sudden shut down and have that empty killer gaze, just staring off into space, numb and unresponsive. How do we other types handle that?
In my younger days i will just be going about my business and will just attract women of the ENFP, INFJ, ENTP, INFP, varient. Women will just come to u. No need to find them. But one of my biggest regret was letting go of an amazing crazy ENFP. She just made me laugh all the time. Being a dark, brooding, serious, intj i need that in my life.
I love yor accent
Thank you!! ☺️
Can say something terrible now as INTJ: it's a rare thing I could have some ENFP company for longer period. The E part is usually too draining. Know just one that I can manage being friends with. And she's unusual in more ways than average.
Te child gives Fi child joy
Oh yessss!! I think that’s one of the reasons why INTJs open up to ENFP’s. Did you watch already my video on How ENFPs make INTJs open up? Here it is: ruclips.net/video/Bx55bkaiUm0/видео.html
@@Mindimalist You really know your stuff about INTJs. That video you suggested is spot on. Having an opinion, willingness to see INTJs are not trying to be right all time, and having healthy conflict about that differince in opinion, that is what turns us INTJs on.
still haven't met any ENFP dream woman…wish me luck 😚
Much luck!! 🙌
Oi oi you found me.
I dnt know abt bein ur enfp dream woman but i wood like 2 start off wit being a friend
Three only?!?! *pouts*
How does an intj spot an enfp?
I have covered that in a video as well:
ruclips.net/video/hOwhzKJClfY/видео.html
Make sure to check my MBTI playlist and or both the ENFP and INTJ playlist, you’ll find lots of relevant information for both types.
Hey, what are your thoughts on learning about enfp personality type deliberately to encomporate them into a relationship. Is this a bad idea or actually just normal. Also, by learning... I meant reading a +200 page book on enfp(and of course my own personality type) 😅
The reason I'm contemplating this is because it seem cheesy, like it feels inauthentic. Sort of like knowing someone generally before getting to know them. Looking forward to a reply this is super important to me :/ tyy
-INTJ
Some people like to learn by doing, others prefer reading about it. I'm definitely one of the latter and I'm ENFP. If reading about it will help you get to know an ENFP better, go ahead.
The effort alone is attractive. Go for it. Good luck
As ENFP I love INTJs being cheesy cause they do it in a robotic clumsy yet authentic way that I find adorable. I think we ENFP value the interest you have in us: is like “this brilliant occupied person is putting time in learning about me, feel so flattered!” My INTJ boyfriend some times makes comments that help me to learn more about my self, maybe this important person will also apreciate this, but try to see first if this theory is confirmed by reality! Also you can say “i read that people with your personality does A and B, what do you think?” If you do it please come back to share what happened!! 👀
Where u from? I'm just enchanted by your accent.
😅 Thanks! What’s your guess? How do I sound?
@@Mindimalist Sounds like a British accent, but at the same time sounds like a mix of British and American accents, 'cause sometimes you speak a little faster. How you pronunciate the "THs" so correctly makes you really cute. :)
I am an enfp and want an enfp to fall in love with me, any suggestion
ruclips.net/video/YKYAHrp5Xo8/видео.html this could help
Hey Mindy I know it sounds hilarious but do INTJs come off as “too protective” to you adorable pain in the ass ENFPs?
Great question. The answer is no. I think normally we would take the "protection" as thoughtfulness. They seem to analyze us and do the best they can for us. Unless they are toxic people.
@@Mindimalist as always you provide insight into our overdriven INTJ minds😄 We usually come off as too collected or at least a little bit tepid so to speak. I guess when we show emotion it’s a rare sight.
@@ecetamer8593 haha, I think you'd like to watch my newest video: "My experience with INTJ males & What they do wrong in love/dating?!" ruclips.net/video/5tqSPT_rAFk/видео.html
@@Mindimalist lol trust me we are even more rare specimen but female INTJs are not that different :D
I've pretty much given up on an ENFP because she did weird immoral things 🤷🏽♂️.
- Religious INTJ
Ouch 😓
@@Mindimalist looks like she didn't give up on me. Another date 😂
@@Mindimalist I am an enfp and want to make an enfp girl fall in love with me, any suggestion
Chaitanya Jain I have made a video on that. Look it up on my INTJ playlist. “How an INTJ can make an uninterested ENFP fall in love”
@@Mindimalist thanks
Intj infp is much better match than these enfps
omg my friend is enfp she can’t stand intj, cuz she had a intj bf and thought he was being ignorant and don’t appreciate her enough lol, but I do admit enfp is the introvert of extroverted type, they are so close minded when they think about relationships or intimacy relations.