For my adult life, I have been obese. In the past two years, I've lost half of my body weight and am fit now. As a treat for achieving personal goals, I've gone out and had a custom suit and several custom shirts made. My first fitting is next week and I'm VERY excited as I've never owned tailored clothing before.
As a blue collar factory worker, I don’t have many chances to wear nice clothing. That is until I received inspiration from Edwardian and old west era workers. Now I’m looking to invest in high waisted hard wearing trousers with suspenders and a decent sack suit with high arm sleeves to use at work and in town.
I drive truck working 80-100 hours a week, 6 weeks straight. I get (7) weeks total days off a year. So I feel your struggle. I too have decided to start dressing smarter during work, so I'm taking a cue from you.
I’m 64 and have been in banking for 42 years. Most of my career, the “uniform” was suit and tie. This often was without a great deal of thought on quality and fit. The last 10+ years has been very business casual. And wearing a tie often brings comments. As I contemplate the next chapter of life (retirement) I want to improve my style and be age appropriate. It doesn’t bother me what others think…I just want to be the best version of me! Thank you for your videos and in depth discussions. I always enjoy them!
You are not the problem in this scenario. Standards have slipped and people these days seem to want to dress like peasants. However just because they can do so does not mean that they should. Keep up the good work and never let standards slip to fit in with oiks.
You will find that if you dress better than the average person then people overall will definitely treat you better. You don't have to go over the top. This is especially true as you age and when you steer your personal style more towards elegance. It is a rare thing to do that makes you stick out in a good and intelligent manner. Wear with confidence.
Tony, Go for it! I'm 75 and we retired people should be confident enough to dress to the degree of elegance we are comfortable in. Then with each new acquisition add a little more pizazz. The sky is the limit! Hopefully we can influence other people of all ages to stop dressing like they just rolled out of bed.
I wanted to share my story of how I started. So about a year ago I randomly found your video "A good suit can change your life" and it was after that I started watching all of your videos and after collecting some tips I just went for it. I had never worn a dress shirt or pants, tie, jacket, absolutely nothing, But I decided, I'm just gonna do it. So my first outfit I put together was by vintage shopping, things I bought were: white dress shirt, gray pleated trousers, gray jacket, gray vest and a gray flat cap. Now all of these items were different shades of gray and they go together very well. I of course added brown leather shoes and boots with this outfit, after this I purchased multiple ties (personally with this gray outfit I love wearing a blue/red regimental tie). At the end I decided to add a white pocket square and cufflinks. All of this took me about a week to gather, yes it was weird at first wearing it out, getting weird looks, since almost nobody in my city wears anything like mine. But with all these looks, compliments came as well, on top of this some things started improving and going differently. Today I own tens of dress shirts, pocket squares, 10 + jackets, up to 30 ties and so on! I completely changed my wardrobe and I keep improving as I watch your videos and I keep taking notes. Thank you Hugo and Sonya, without your channel I wouldn't have gone on my journey to change my wardrobe!
Dears Hugo and Sonya, I'm in love with your channel, congratulations. I have a difficulty. My issue is that I live in Brazil, more specifically in the North, which here is very hot and wet. How to be sartorial in a tropical weather and still keep comfortable? I'd love to receive a reply from you. Thanks in advance.
@@tiagoamorim6010 try fresco wool such as Huddersfield Fresco lite or Drapers 4 ply:) those fabrics will make very breathable suits that allow you to wear in hot weather. I live in Singapore - similar weather as Brazil
I'm an amateur shoemaker and work as a teacher at school. I really love classic style. Hugo and his beautiful wife Sonya help me to look good when I enter my working place. Thank you very much for such informative videos and especially for "shoes talks"))) Keep yourself safe! :)
Yesterday I found a wonderful double breasted navy blazer made from a 200 Tasmanian wool. It is amazing how it feels on the body and how well it interact under various temperature and weather conditions.
As somebody who considers himself to be a "somewhat" experienced sartorialist, I actually found that I learned a couple of new things from this episode. Great job as always!
This is a very important message/video for men or women embarking on a sartorial journey. I have followed the stages you have suggested over the last 5 years or so. I am now a card holding wearer of the neck tie! I find vintage ties and vintage clothes from thrift stores. I am not a wealthy man but have bought some quality items that have brought me such joy! In fact, inspired by Hugo, I acquired a vintage doubled breasted, peaked lapelled navy blue blazer, with brass buttons (slightly tarnished so not too 'bling'). Man, it's like a wearing a constant hug! I just wanted to say Sonya: you are so sensitive and insightful; Hugo: very inspirational and confidence-building; both of you are fab - I love watching and learning from you x Tony
Many thanks Tony for your kind, uplifting and encouraging words. This kind of comment is exactly what gives a meaning to what we try to do on this channel. All our best wishes, Hugo & Sonya
Merci beaucoup de prendre le temps de faire ces vidéos. Je découvre votre merveilleux contenus à un moment pivot dans ma vie, où je prend en main ma santé physique, mon bien être intérieur et aussi extérieur afin d'être un exemple pour mes 3 jeunes enfants. Milles mercis à votre conjointe et vous 🙏
Funny that I actually followed most of these steps in the last 10 years of my journey :)) I remember my first leather shoes are actually military surplus black dress boots in style of chukkas. That pair actually could last until today, if not for me abusing them and finally permanently damaged them beyond repair.
Hi Rio. Glad to know the steps checked out in real life. I understand---My first quality shoes: Church's Grafton derby brogue... & the experience was much the same. Hugo
Dear Hugo and Sonya, I incredibly appreciate the work you are doing to spread the culture of dressing with style, class and sophistication. In recent years I have always followed your advice and observations, which have been enormously useful to me to define my style, to consciously understand what I like and what makes me feel at ease. I thank you because if today I understand certain concepts applied to the reality of well-dressed it is thanks to you two, who masterfully manage to spread these wonderful topics without snobbery, with education, quality of content and deep respect for art and craftsmanship.
Wow! Thank you both so much for your knowledge and wisdom on style. You both are amazingly beautiful. GOD has brought you two together for this. Hugo and Sonya.
I started with jeans, leather boots (red wing iron rangers), oxford button downs, harris tweed gilets and a tie. The tweed, jeans and boots went well together since they are all more rugged and combining it with a oxford button down ment it wasn't to formal. Gonna go buy some leather oxfords or brogues and some normal trousers next.
This is the episode I've been waiting for! What are the basic, beginning steps to get into Sartorial elegant dress. Both of you well qualified to educate a growing audience on this subject. 👔
As a 30 year old looking to start on my satorial journey, this is such amazing advice! I'll be following process to transition into my new personal style. I'll be back to let you know how it goes :) Thank you so much for these high quality talks.
I learned how to dress from my parents and grandparents. They dressed well and took me to the best clothing stores. My father bought for me a book titled "Dress for success" by John T. Molly. I have studied this many times. Also, it may sound funny, but wlatch "The Thomas Crown Affair" ( Steve McQueen 1968 )and the Sean Connery James Bond movies to learn how to appear the propper gentleman. Thanks Hugo. Thanks Sonya. William from Dublin (Ohio).
I too have the "Dress for Success" book. All those years ago before the internet, it was about the only thing I could find that provided any information about proper dress, style, tailoring, etc.
I was born with this personality and curiosity. I always wanted to try and see different combinations, but was afraid a little insecure about what people would think. It was great to listen to you guys unfolding these principles for gentleman's dressing.
This is an excellent episode for so many reasons. What really stood out for me was the shoe part of the discussion. I am delighted Hugo and Sonya both differed with everyone else I have heard on what is often said. The first pair of dress shoes you should buy are black cap toe oxfords. I recently purchased some chocolate brown suede cap toe derby Loake's which have now become my go to shoes. I can honestly say they work with all my jeans, chinos, flannels and most of my suits. I would never have had this versatility with the black cap toe Oxford.
It's always helpful to read about someone else's experience (with some detail), which can save others lost efforts and money. Thanks for taking the time share your story. Hugo & Sonya
In only a year since I have first found you, I made all those steps in a little different way. I started with a three-piece suit, just because I love it. The rest is history! I cannot express my appreciation enough for your channel, and for both of you! Special thank you for your time Ms. Sonya, you helped me a lot through our little idea exchange, and your energy is always uplifting and cheerful! Best wishes to you both! Have a great end of the weekend! Cheers!
Methodical is the way that I'd describe your means of explanation. And a ladder is the perfect analogy. Hand over hand, foot over foot. So many of your points landed with me just perfectly.
I consider myself fairly far down the road sartorially, and these guys are teaching me stuff regardless of the video I pick to watch. I love these two!
I love these videos and the channel, I just wear what I love which is classic style, and when flying people ask and I say, I always want to be prepared for any situation if I lose my luggage
I am currently in the process of loosing weight. One year ago I was at 137 kg, now I am down to 107. The ambition is to get rid of another 20 - 25 in the coming year, which will bring me down to the ideal weight for my height. Because of this it is a bit pointless for me to start just yet on the sartorial journey, and spend money on clothes I have every ambition to shrink out of. But one of the things that really motivate me is that once I reach my goal, I will book an appointment with one of the greatest tailors in the world, and commission my first bespoke suit. I haven't decided where to go yet, but I have a shortlist. Maybe Paris, maybe Savile Row - time will tell. Also, thank you for your great videos. They are very pleasant ad relaxing to watch, and they give so much useful information that I will remember when I finally - hopefully in about a year from now - am ready to start myself.
Congratulations on your weight loss journey! I would also consider getting a MTM(Made to measure) suit as your first option instead of bespoke. It’s a great entry point as it relates to cost and it gives you a bit of a simpler process as it relates to customization. In my experience there are some MTM shops that rival some bespoke makers. It all is dependent upon the tailor.
This is wonderful --- and the advice from ES seems right. You could experiment right now with MTM and be ready to go with a great bespoke suit (once your goal is met) with a little more experience. And it would be fun. Cheers ! Hugo and Sonya
@@elevatedsupernova Thank you for your reply. I have actually started with M2M. I had a suit made two years ago, and also a sports jacket with a selection of trousers and shirts. And it was an entirely new world to have clothes that fit that well! But this is 30 kg ago, and now it looks very strange when I put it on. When I reach my goal I will most likely have myself a new sports jacket. I had the previous one made at the local tailor here in town, and I believe I'll make the next one there as well. But the plan still stand to have a full bespoke suit made.
Love this so much! I got into real estate and corporate strategy almost solely to have an excuse to wear all these beautiful threads you discuss! Thank you for putting out such wonderful content
I wonder if there is a possibility of a segment on sartorial elegance in the warmer climes. I live in the California Desert (Palm Springs) where summer temps average 110 - 118 degrees in the summer months, so jackets, suits and ties are virtually non-existent and not practical for just moving around. Shorts and polo shirts are the costume of choice - Tommy Bahama as far as the eye can see. Yet at age 70 I would like to project a bit more individual elegance while not keeling over from the heat. I know linen is one suggestion but I have never reconciled myself to linen's inherent "messiness". I would very much like to hear your thoughts.
I lived in California for 26 years and I know that heat, now I live in El Salvador where is just as hot but with killer high humidity; so do reconsile with linen amigo. Here linen is prefered over cotton for its cooling effect, accept that it will wrinkle and you'll be fine. Live well amigo.
Dear Gene, the fabric industry and especially the Italian mills have made tremendous progress this last decade concerning "breathable" fabrics for warm climates like cotton-linen-silk blends or even light wool with silk blend (under 200 grams). Of course linen remains extremely efficient (if you accept the "charm" of the wrinkles), as well as plain weave fabrics like Fresco (hold it up to the light and you'll see trough). There are more possibilities than ever. Hope it helps, Hugo
As someone who lived in 100+ degree F weather, and wore suits and ties, the key is the cloth. You'll be looking for suits made from Marino wool material in a lighter weight. The European textile mills often call it 4-season material. There are some materials that are 100% Super130 marino wool and around that 160gsm - these are perfect. The wool is natural, it breathes, snaps back into shape and with a little airing, can be worn a couple of days in a row. Avoid the poly blends; the natural fibers (cotton, linen, and all the blends involving these) make wearing a suit in warmer weather easier.
Merci pour cette belle vidéo qui donne envie de monter sur l'échelle sartoriale. Une progression en douceur qui permettra d'atteindre le sommet avec sérénité.
This is a terrific introduction. What an excellent, simple and easy approach from beginner to experienced. There is so much to absorb in the subject and you perfectly provided a friendly path. Thank you for producing this!
I'm so glad to hear that we can eliminate belt loops and a belt and still be wearing proper attire. I have always had a problem with the buckle being too thick or peeking out from behind the bottom jacket button and creating and unwanted focal point. I think I will have my tailor remove all the belt loops from my trousers and I will replace them with side adjusters! Thank you for this information!
Great video Hugo and Sonya! You can incorporate a more casual tie even before a jacket with a v-neck sweater. I often get compliments on wearing a tie when I go to work, and it is a smart casual setting.
I startet this year (age 58) to change my stil, to wear other trousers nomore only Jeans and i wear Suites, it`s only Siutes from Suitesupply, but it feels good. I love it. First the People arround me looks about my change, but now i get compliments about it
What a wonderful talk, you two! I learned, for the first time the "same pattern, different size / different pattern, same size" rule. (My wife, I find out, already knew this.)
This is a great guide. I have only got as far as trousers with a shirt and jacket (apart from weddings and job interviews). I have bought a nice overcoat and got a lot of compliments for it. I’m now starting to explore going further and dressing “like an adult” at 35 😂
Well I love how I did nothing right on my journey. Started with the Black suit, no tie or pocket square. The blue and white stripe shirts - this is wear I got my love of patterns. Still only have two white shirts. I only recently bought my first grey flannel trousers. But I have now 5 suits, yes RTW but I am working on that. I now have 10 different pocket squares to add that pop, 10 ties all different shades and patterns. I have my first bespoke suit - three piece grey herringbone. Looking at my second in either a green or brown. I should look at blue but my RTW are mostly blue. It doesn't matter how you get there just enjoy it. Apparently there is only 5 individual that wear suits in my organisation and I'm one of them, accept that you look different but elegant, even if your fit isn't perfect, it's better than most. Sonya and Hugo are a massive influence on my journey. May it long continue.
I found this video especially relevant now that social life and going to the office are slowly returning as a part of daily life - my daily dress has definitely taken a beating over the last year and phasing things back in gradually (the shoes, the shirt, the jacket!) seems like a delightful way to mentally dileneate a 'rebirth' of sorts.
We can relate to that my friend (even if, thanks to our job, we did not stop dressing up during this crazy last year and a half). Let's dress up again and welcome the new world (post-Covid) with elegance and patience. Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
Strong statement " get rid of your belts" 😁 If you look pics from 40's or early 50's they have those cool narrow belts. And I think they are really part of the classic style as well as suspenders or side adjusters..😊
Great point about referencing the (30s) 40s and 50s for elegant images of belts. The "get rid of your belt" would have been better-framed as a personal experiment to find your preferences. Sorry for that and cheers ! ~Sonya
Thank you for making this beginner step by step video. It was so straightforward to follow. I have seen a number of your videos now and it is clear that you are both highly expert (absolutely the best I have seen on RUclips) and are totally sincere in your love for quality / elegance and in your wish to educate your audience. I absolutely intend following this journey for myself in the future.
Thank you for the insights! As a student at University it'll be difficult to start this, I'll begin looking for some great Brown leather shoes. Thank you!
Excellent video, very informative. I have got to know your channel yesterday. It made me want to go out and buy cloths and upscale my understanding of style (which is very low at the moment, I do have my wedding suite that still fit and my pocket square). Sonya I absolutely love the way you dress.
A few months ago I had bought suspenders and had gone looking for trousers without belt loops and side tabs and I could not find one. Consequently I had bought one with belt loops, bought a stitch picker, sewing needles and same coloured thread so that I can remove the loops and sew on the buttons for the suspenders. Now I have a dedicated pair of pants for my suspenders. As it does get very hot here in summer, I had taken the opportunities to dress up in winter seasons with French-cuffed shirts, vests and neckties. I had also used Eldridge knots, and Trinity knots to change the flavours to the overall outfit.
I love this episode. I have watched it three times. And against Hugo's advice I did write this down, so I have quick access to these steps. I like having the framework. I don't want to get out over my skis sartorially speaking, but it is always a temptation of mine to go for that statement piece instead of building the solid foundation. I have a beautiful odd jacket in my closet and I don't know what to wear it with yet because its a check pattern with lots of color in it and I am a newbie. Thanks for all the talks. -A
Dear Sonya and Hugo, i have to say it : you need to reconsider the belt. Im talking about the 2,5cm leather or suede belt, with a nice curved buckle. It can be very stylish, especially on a casual or ivy-influenced outfit. Just yesterday I was wearing my navy hopsack teba jacket and grey fresco trousers, buttoned down Oxford shirt and back penny loafers. I have to say my black thin belt was the star of the show! 😅 cheers!
New viewer here! I’d love to add to what you were saying about just starting out, you could pair flannel or cotton trousers with a well fitting polo shirt. I know even just a polo, a nice pair of trousers, and either Derby shoes or Chukka boots is a massive step up from what most people in my age group (that is 18-25) wear. Great video, thank you for sharing!
Even if published 1 year ago, such a great content. Love you both Hugo and Sonya. I'm currently contemplating the addition of a DB suit even if I'm most of the time working from home and if the dress code within my company moved significantly towards "casual". Back in the 2000s, when I started my career, it was impossible to enter the building without a proper suit / tie / shaved. Miss those days. I recently added 2 ties from Pini Parma (a honey one and a blue one both with great looing patterns)... will have a look on the brands you recently suggested ;)))
Many thanks Stéphane, I also remember very well this era (not so long ago actually) when a suit and a tie were mandatory (and absolutely not disagreeable). Times are changing, but we are resisting! Cheers, Hugo
Carey Grant wore trousers with side tabs. He did not like belts. He also preferred cardigan sweaters because he said crew necks messed up his hair when putting them on and taking them off. Very elegant man. I always thought that double breasted blazers should not be worn unbuttoned. I read that somewhere. A tailor once told me that double breasted blazers and overcoats should not be let out in the waist by altering the location of the buttons. They could be let out at the side seams if the color of the cloth would be the same but be careful about that because color fades as a garment ages. Thank you for the video.
Well I started my journey in my early 20s (I'm 30 now), I have several very nice suits, ties, shoes etc....but they stay in the closet since I decided to bike to work 😂 Cotton trousers and sportcoats are my go to because of this...
I love you both and you are an inspiration for me when I put an outfit together. Sonya, I'm not so sure about rolling up the sleeves of the jacket and showing the lining. It seems to me that is very late-stage sartorial dressing but I understand what you are saying. As for using a pocket square without a tie... I've never tried it but I just might, although it is definitely counter-intuitive for me. It seems to me a tie is easier to pull off than a pocket square. I loved the purple and yellow regimental tie (23:42)!
For my adult life, I have been obese. In the past two years, I've lost half of my body weight and am fit now. As a treat for achieving personal goals, I've gone out and had a custom suit and several custom shirts made. My first fitting is next week and I'm VERY excited as I've never owned tailored clothing before.
Awesome!! How’d it go?
As a blue collar factory worker, I don’t have many chances to wear nice clothing. That is until I received inspiration from Edwardian and old west era workers. Now I’m looking to invest in high waisted hard wearing trousers with suspenders and a decent sack suit with high arm sleeves to use at work and in town.
Best of all in your endeavors--- these aesthetics could turn out nicely if done well. ~Sonya and Hugo
I drive truck working 80-100 hours a week, 6 weeks straight. I get (7) weeks total days off a year. So I feel your struggle. I too have decided to start dressing smarter during work, so I'm taking a cue from you.
This is wonderful to hear.
I’m 64 and have been in banking for 42 years. Most of my career, the “uniform” was suit and tie. This often was without a great deal of thought on quality and fit. The last 10+ years has been very business casual. And wearing a tie often brings comments.
As I contemplate the next chapter of life (retirement) I want to improve my style and be age appropriate. It doesn’t bother me what others think…I just want to be the best version of me!
Thank you for your videos and in depth discussions. I always enjoy them!
Thank you, Tony & it seems evident that you feel at ease enough to do what you want, as you are led to do. Glad you're here ! Hugo and Sonya
You are not the problem in this scenario. Standards have slipped and people these days seem to want to dress like peasants. However just because they can do so does not mean that they should. Keep up the good work and never let standards slip to fit in with oiks.
You will find that if you dress better than the average person then people overall will definitely treat you better. You don't have to go over the top. This is especially true as you age and when you steer your personal style more towards elegance. It is a rare thing to do that makes you stick out in a good and intelligent manner. Wear with confidence.
Tony, Go for it! I'm 75 and we retired people should be confident enough to dress to the degree of elegance we are comfortable in. Then with each new acquisition add a little more pizazz. The sky is the limit! Hopefully we can influence other people of all ages to stop dressing like they just rolled out of bed.
Simon, you said it very well. The way the majority of North Americans now dress is deplorable. @@SimonTBam
“Elegance is not a destination, it’s a journey.” I love it! Great content, as always.
but are you contented ?
I wanted to share my story of how I started.
So about a year ago I randomly found your video "A good suit can change your life" and it was after that I started watching all of your videos and after collecting some tips I just went for it. I had never worn a dress shirt or pants, tie, jacket, absolutely nothing, But I decided, I'm just gonna do it.
So my first outfit I put together was by vintage shopping, things I bought were: white dress shirt, gray pleated trousers, gray jacket, gray vest and a gray flat cap.
Now all of these items were different shades of gray and they go together very well. I of course added brown leather shoes and boots with this outfit, after this I purchased multiple ties (personally with this gray outfit I love wearing a blue/red regimental tie). At the end I decided to add a white pocket square and cufflinks.
All of this took me about a week to gather, yes it was weird at first wearing it out, getting weird looks, since almost nobody in my city wears anything like mine. But with all these looks, compliments came as well, on top of this some things started improving and going differently. Today I own tens of dress shirts, pocket squares, 10 + jackets, up to 30 ties and so on! I completely changed my wardrobe and I keep improving as I watch your videos and I keep taking notes.
Thank you Hugo and Sonya, without your channel I wouldn't have gone on my journey to change my wardrobe!
Wow, Archibald you did an amazing job. Thank you so much for sharing your story which gives us a lot of energy! All our best wishes, Hugo & Sonya
Dears Hugo and Sonya, I'm in love with your channel, congratulations.
I have a difficulty. My issue is that I live in Brazil, more specifically in the North, which here is very hot and wet. How to be sartorial in a tropical weather and still keep comfortable?
I'd love to receive a reply from you. Thanks in advance.
That’s awesome Archibald!
Good for you. You've done remarkably well in creating this wardrobe.
@@tiagoamorim6010 try fresco wool such as Huddersfield Fresco lite or Drapers 4 ply:) those fabrics will make very breathable suits that allow you to wear in hot weather.
I live in Singapore - similar weather as Brazil
I'm an amateur shoemaker and work as a teacher at school. I really love classic style. Hugo and his beautiful wife Sonya help me to look good when I enter my working place. Thank you very much for such informative videos and especially for "shoes talks"))) Keep yourself safe! :)
How wonderful to read--thanks RC ! Hugo & Sonya
@rebelcaleb Have you watched Bedo’s also for shoe making skills? He is great for local shoe making
@@McSnacks930 looks like I haven't but I'll definitely watch it) thx)
Yesterday I found a wonderful double breasted navy blazer made from a 200 Tasmanian wool. It is amazing how it feels on the body and how well it interact under various temperature and weather conditions.
Congratulations Andrey! Best, Hugo & Sonya
I'm a Mexican navy officer,, so we have to enter to the job in suit,,, and feels great when you look sharp and elegant,,, thanks for the advices
I really love the episode, it’s nice to hear that there are still people who are passionate about classic style.
Thank you my friend! Hugo
After wearing suits and ties in my professional career for over 40 years, I think this was a great ladder to how to dress well. Great episode!!
Nice validation and appreciated. Yours, Hugo
Out of all you videos I have watched from this channel over the years perhaps this is the most valuable as taking that first step can be the hardest
This is valuable to know, Raj. Thank you very much for your comment ! Hugo
Hah! I'm 53, and just this year I've begun dressing well (or at least better) I really appreciate your videos. Thank you!
As somebody who considers himself to be a "somewhat" experienced sartorialist, I actually found that I learned a couple of new things from this episode. Great job as always!
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This is a very important message/video for men or women embarking on a sartorial journey. I have followed the stages you have suggested over the last 5 years or so. I am now a card holding wearer of the neck tie! I find vintage ties and vintage clothes from thrift stores. I am not a wealthy man but have bought some quality items that have brought me such joy! In fact, inspired by Hugo, I acquired a vintage doubled breasted, peaked lapelled navy blue blazer, with brass buttons (slightly tarnished so not too 'bling'). Man, it's like a wearing a constant hug! I just wanted to say Sonya: you are so sensitive and insightful; Hugo: very inspirational and confidence-building; both of you are fab - I love watching and learning from you x
Tony
Many thanks Tony for your kind, uplifting and encouraging words. This kind of comment is exactly what gives a meaning to what we try to do on this channel. All our best wishes, Hugo & Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS Long may you continue x
Merci beaucoup de prendre le temps de faire ces vidéos. Je découvre votre merveilleux contenus à un moment pivot dans ma vie, où je prend en main ma santé physique, mon bien être intérieur et aussi extérieur afin d'être un exemple pour mes 3 jeunes enfants.
Milles mercis à votre conjointe et vous 🙏
Funny that I actually followed most of these steps in the last 10 years of my journey :))
I remember my first leather shoes are actually military surplus black dress boots in style of chukkas. That pair actually could last until today, if not for me abusing them and finally permanently damaged them beyond repair.
Hi Rio. Glad to know the steps checked out in real life. I understand---My first quality shoes: Church's Grafton derby brogue... & the experience was much the same. Hugo
I love Hugo's passion. " a pocket square." 🤣 I don't mean to make fun I enjoy you.
No worries my friend 😂. Hugo
Dear Hugo and Sonya, I incredibly appreciate the work you are doing to spread the culture of dressing with style, class and sophistication. In recent years I have always followed your advice and observations, which have been enormously useful to me to define my style, to consciously understand what I like and what makes me feel at ease. I thank you because if today I understand certain concepts applied to the reality of well-dressed it is thanks to you two, who masterfully manage to spread these wonderful topics without snobbery, with education, quality of content and deep respect for art and craftsmanship.
Wow! Thank you both so much for your knowledge and wisdom on style. You both are amazingly beautiful. GOD has brought you two together for this. Hugo and Sonya.
Hugo is my new favorite advisor! ❤
"I have two loves in my life: my wife and my rust pocket square."
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You can always count on Hugo to make such a unique remark. Cheers ! ~Sonya
@@SkinnyMoney that's a beautiful thing!
I started with jeans, leather boots (red wing iron rangers), oxford button downs, harris tweed gilets and a tie. The tweed, jeans and boots went well together since they are all more rugged and combining it with a oxford button down ment it wasn't to formal.
Gonna go buy some leather oxfords or brogues and some normal trousers next.
This is the episode I've been waiting for! What are the basic, beginning steps to get into Sartorial elegant dress. Both of you well qualified to educate a growing audience on this subject. 👔
Great to read and always nice to hear from you, Ralph. Hugo and Sonya
As a 30 year old looking to start on my satorial journey, this is such amazing advice! I'll be following process to transition into my new personal style. I'll be back to let you know how it goes :) Thank you so much for these high quality talks.
Any update?
I already feel more elegant just by watching you lovely people!
Ha very happy to read ! ~Sonya and Hugo
"Elegance is not a destination it is a journey".....wow que frase tan hermosa
Gracias Ramon !
I recently graduated from university and I started with my grooming.
Wonderful, sending encouragement. Hugo & Sonya
You gave a nice progression up the ladder. I hope many people follow it and bring a bit more elegance into the world.
I learned how to dress from my parents and grandparents. They dressed well and took me to the best clothing stores.
My father bought for me a book titled "Dress for success" by John T. Molly. I have studied this many times.
Also, it may sound funny, but wlatch "The Thomas Crown Affair" ( Steve McQueen 1968 )and the Sean Connery James Bond movies to learn how to appear the propper gentleman.
Thanks Hugo. Thanks Sonya.
William from Dublin (Ohio).
I too have the "Dress for Success" book. All those years ago before the internet, it was about the only thing I could find that provided any information about proper dress, style, tailoring, etc.
Hugo, I absolutely love that tie!
Good evening Hugo and Sonya; another superb episode; thank you so much and kind regards Ryan.
Cheers to you, Ryan ! Hugo and Sonya
I was born with this personality and curiosity. I always wanted to try and see different combinations, but was afraid a little insecure about what people would think. It was great to listen to you guys unfolding these principles for gentleman's dressing.
Fantastic tutorial Sonya and Hugo. I always learn something new with each episode. Thank you as always.
Great to see this, Brett-- and thank you so much for making it a point to watch each episode. Cheers, Hugo and Sonya
Haven't seen it yet and already love it. I'm a fan. Greetings from Puerto Rico 🌴
Thank you sir! Love from Atlanta GA. Hugo & Sonya
Just watching I realized I am sort of half way the ladder, I guess I will climb up a little more. Thanks for the content!
This is an excellent episode for so many reasons. What really stood out for me was the shoe part of the discussion. I am delighted Hugo and Sonya both differed with everyone else I have heard on what is often said. The first pair of dress shoes you should buy are black cap toe oxfords. I recently purchased some chocolate brown suede cap toe derby Loake's which have now become my go to shoes. I can honestly say they work with all my jeans, chinos, flannels and most of my suits. I would never have had this versatility with the black cap toe Oxford.
It's always helpful to read about someone else's experience (with some detail), which can save others lost efforts and money. Thanks for taking the time share your story. Hugo & Sonya
Hugo, Sonia, you are sartorial royalty. Thank you for your knowledge.
Thank you, Juan -- and that feels good to read ! ~Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS You are very welcome Sonia, much love for you guys from El Salvador.👍
In only a year since I have first found you, I made all those steps in a little different way. I started with a three-piece suit, just because I love it. The rest is history! I cannot express my appreciation enough for your channel, and for both of you! Special thank you for your time Ms. Sonya, you helped me a lot through our little idea exchange, and your energy is always uplifting and cheerful! Best wishes to you both! Have a great end of the weekend! Cheers!
Fantastic tutorial. I'm keep coming back to it over and over again! Thank you!😊
Love this show
Methodical is the way that I'd describe your means of explanation. And a ladder is the perfect analogy. Hand over hand, foot over foot. So many of your points landed with me just perfectly.
Thank you for making the effort to say so, Henry. Cheers ! Hugo and Sonya
Jesus I subscribed last night and I love these two lol
Thank you Gennaro, you're very kind. Hugo & Sonya
A Blazer is a solid color, and usually has metal button. Some summer blazers will have a bone or pearl style button.
Yes! Hugo & Sonya
I consider myself fairly far down the road sartorially, and these guys are teaching me stuff regardless of the video I pick to watch. I love these two!
Thank you Jacob for your kind words. Very encouraging for us. Warm regards, Sonya & Hugo
Another fantastic video Hugo and Sonya!
Thank you Carlos ! Hugo and Sonya
I like both the shirts. You don't see many eyelet collars anymore. As usual, Hugo looks elegant.
Thank you ! ~Sonya & Hugo
I like very much your videos... always something to learn... always delightful and easy to watch... kisses 😘 Sonya and Hugo
Χαιρετισμούς στον Κοσμά!!!
Cheers to you! Hugo & Sonya
I love these videos and the channel, I just wear what I love which is classic style, and when flying people ask and I say, I always want to be prepared for any situation if I lose my luggage
A more than valid answer ! ~Sonya and Hugo
I am currently in the process of loosing weight. One year ago I was at 137 kg, now I am down to 107. The ambition is to get rid of another 20 - 25 in the coming year, which will bring me down to the ideal weight for my height. Because of this it is a bit pointless for me to start just yet on the sartorial journey, and spend money on clothes I have every ambition to shrink out of. But one of the things that really motivate me is that once I reach my goal, I will book an appointment with one of the greatest tailors in the world, and commission my first bespoke suit. I haven't decided where to go yet, but I have a shortlist. Maybe Paris, maybe Savile Row - time will tell.
Also, thank you for your great videos. They are very pleasant ad relaxing to watch, and they give so much useful information that I will remember when I finally - hopefully in about a year from now - am ready to start myself.
Congratulations on your weight loss journey! I would also consider getting a MTM(Made to measure) suit as your first option instead of bespoke. It’s a great entry point as it relates to cost and it gives you a bit of a simpler process as it relates to customization. In my experience there are some MTM shops that rival some bespoke makers. It all is dependent upon the tailor.
This is wonderful --- and the advice from ES seems right. You could experiment right now with MTM and be ready to go with a great bespoke suit (once your goal is met) with a little more experience. And it would be fun. Cheers ! Hugo and Sonya
@@elevatedsupernova Thank you for your reply. I have actually started with M2M. I had a suit made two years ago, and also a sports jacket with a selection of trousers and shirts. And it was an entirely new world to have clothes that fit that well! But this is 30 kg ago, and now it looks very strange when I put it on.
When I reach my goal I will most likely have myself a new sports jacket. I had the previous one made at the local tailor here in town, and I believe I'll make the next one there as well. But the plan still stand to have a full bespoke suit made.
Thank you for a great episode and I must say that Hugo's tie is beautiful
Love this so much! I got into real estate and corporate strategy almost solely to have an excuse to wear all these beautiful threads you discuss! Thank you for putting out such wonderful content
You are very welcome Branden! All the best, Hugo and Sonya
I wonder if there is a possibility of a segment on sartorial elegance in the warmer climes. I live in the California Desert (Palm Springs) where summer temps average 110 - 118 degrees in the summer months, so jackets, suits and ties are virtually non-existent and not practical for just moving around. Shorts and polo shirts are the costume of choice - Tommy Bahama as far as the eye can see. Yet at age 70 I would like to project a bit more individual elegance while not keeling over from the heat. I know linen is one suggestion but I have never reconciled myself to linen's inherent "messiness". I would very much like to hear your thoughts.
I lived in California for 26 years and I know that heat, now I live in El Salvador where is just as hot but with killer high humidity; so do reconsile with linen amigo. Here linen is prefered over cotton for its cooling effect, accept that it will wrinkle and you'll be fine. Live well amigo.
I would like to hear more about Bamboo, I see more and more stuff made of Bamboo but maybe it's not that good for bigger pieces of clothes ?
Dear Gene, the fabric industry and especially the Italian mills have made tremendous progress this last decade concerning "breathable" fabrics for warm climates like cotton-linen-silk blends or even light wool with silk blend (under 200 grams). Of course linen remains extremely efficient (if you accept the "charm" of the wrinkles), as well as plain weave fabrics like Fresco (hold it up to the light and you'll see trough). There are more possibilities than ever. Hope it helps, Hugo
As someone who lived in 100+ degree F weather, and wore suits and ties, the key is the cloth.
You'll be looking for suits made from Marino wool material in a lighter weight. The European textile mills often call it 4-season material. There are some materials that are 100% Super130 marino wool and around that 160gsm - these are perfect.
The wool is natural, it breathes, snaps back into shape and with a little airing, can be worn a couple of days in a row.
Avoid the poly blends; the natural fibers (cotton, linen, and all the blends involving these) make wearing a suit in warmer weather easier.
@@juanarce6900 Muchas gracias, Juan,. I appreciate the response and the insight. One must, I know, accept the inevitable.
I am 53 and just started( last few weeks) to get really interested in suit, shirt, and ties. Great video.
I absolutely love your channel! The advice is the very best! Thank you for your efforts and sharing your journey!
Starts off with the PERFECT question. How do I start? Thank you!!
I was always told to start at the beginning. I'd ask, where's the beginning?
Profoundly put ! Hugo
I read that the tie stipes in the US run from the right shoulder to the left because The US cut the cloth face down.
Loved this episode. Sartorilaism is an exclusive club that anyone can join!!!
Indeed and cheers to that ! Hugo & Sonya
Merci pour cette belle vidéo qui donne envie de monter sur l'échelle sartoriale. Une progression en douceur qui permettra d'atteindre le sommet avec sérénité.
Oui Yves, et vous verrez que le voyage est fascinant. Amicalement, Hugo
This is a terrific introduction. What an excellent, simple and easy approach from beginner to experienced. There is so much to absorb in the subject and you perfectly provided a friendly path. Thank you for producing this!
I appreciate your encouragement! Thank you, Hugo
As usual, You two encourage me to continue to try and upgrade my wardrobe.
That's encouraging and thanks for sharing some of your personal experiences ! H & S
I'm so glad to hear that we can eliminate belt loops and a belt and still be wearing proper attire. I have always had a problem with the buckle being too thick or peeking out from behind the bottom jacket button and creating and unwanted focal point. I think I will have my tailor remove all the belt loops from my trousers and I will replace them with side adjusters! Thank you for this information!
You're very welcome Ben! Cheers, Hugo
Great video Hugo and Sonya! You can incorporate a more casual tie even before a jacket with a v-neck sweater. I often get compliments on wearing a tie when I go to work, and it is a smart casual setting.
Nice one, which we should have included---thank you! Hugo & Sonya
I startet this year (age 58) to change my stil, to wear other trousers nomore only Jeans and i wear Suites, it`s only Siutes from Suitesupply, but it feels good. I love it. First the People arround me looks about my change, but now i get compliments about it
This is exactly what is needed! Thanks! I was really enjoin this video!
So glad to see this ! ~Sonya and Hugo
Excellent..un plaisir de vous écouter..
Le costume est hyper classe..les revers..la coupe...la couleur..
Vous faites un bon travail..cheers
Merci Saif. Cheers! Hugo
What a wonderful talk, you two! I learned, for the first time the "same pattern, different size / different pattern, same size" rule. (My wife, I find out, already knew this.)
Women (and some men) know this rule of thumb in home decorating, it's true. Happy you find it useful. Cheers ! Hugo
This is a great guide. I have only got as far as trousers with a shirt and jacket (apart from weddings and job interviews). I have bought a nice overcoat and got a lot of compliments for it. I’m now starting to explore going further and dressing “like an adult” at 35 😂
Excellent Steve! Have a nice sartorial journey! All my best wishes, Hugo
Well I love how I did nothing right on my journey. Started with the Black suit, no tie or pocket square. The blue and white stripe shirts - this is wear I got my love of patterns. Still only have two white shirts.
I only recently bought my first grey flannel trousers. But I have now 5 suits, yes RTW but I am working on that. I now have 10 different pocket squares to add that pop, 10 ties all different shades and patterns.
I have my first bespoke suit - three piece grey herringbone. Looking at my second in either a green or brown. I should look at blue but my RTW are mostly blue.
It doesn't matter how you get there just enjoy it. Apparently there is only 5 individual that wear suits in my organisation and I'm one of them, accept that you look different but elegant, even if your fit isn't perfect, it's better than most.
Sonya and Hugo are a massive influence on my journey. May it long continue.
Thank you dear Alexander. And we hope you enjoy your TLBs Spectators! Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
@@SARTORIALTALKS one of the things I got right. Still love those shoes.
FINALLY!someone spoke the truth about the f.... belts!Thank you Hugo!!
Ah ha. Cheers ! Hugo
Amazing and so much information and content, really I follow all your videos and appreciate support for the community
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. It means a lot to us. Hugo & Sonya
I found this video especially relevant now that social life and going to the office are slowly returning as a part of daily life - my daily dress has definitely taken a beating over the last year and phasing things back in gradually (the shoes, the shirt, the jacket!) seems like a delightful way to mentally dileneate a 'rebirth' of sorts.
We can relate to that my friend (even if, thanks to our job, we did not stop dressing up during this crazy last year and a half). Let's dress up again and welcome the new world (post-Covid) with elegance and patience. Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
Strong statement " get rid of your belts" 😁 If you look pics from 40's or early 50's they have those cool narrow belts. And I think they are really part of the classic style as well as suspenders or side adjusters..😊
Great point about referencing the (30s) 40s and 50s for elegant images of belts. The "get rid of your belt" would have been better-framed as a personal experiment to find your preferences. Sorry for that and cheers ! ~Sonya
Thanks for the great advice.
Thanks for watching ! ~Sonya and Hugo
Thank you for making this beginner step by step video. It was so straightforward to follow. I have seen a number of your videos now and it is clear that you are both highly expert (absolutely the best I have seen on RUclips) and are totally sincere in your love for quality / elegance and in your wish to educate your audience. I absolutely intend following this journey for myself in the future.
Thank you so much Ross, for your wonderful message and for your encouragements. Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
Thank you for the insights! As a student at University it'll be difficult to start this, I'll begin looking for some great Brown leather shoes. Thank you!
Excellent video, very informative.
I have got to know your channel yesterday. It made me want to go out and buy cloths and upscale my understanding of style (which is very low at the moment, I do have my wedding suite that still fit and my pocket square).
Sonya I absolutely love the way you dress.
I always appreciate your views and understand your perspective. Personally, I really like belts.
You two are so dear 😍! You make me feel very comfortable watching you. 😊🌹
Wonderful to read, thank you ! ~Sonya & Hugo
A few months ago I had bought suspenders and had gone looking for trousers without belt loops and side tabs and I could not find one. Consequently I had bought one with belt loops, bought a stitch picker, sewing needles and same coloured thread so that I can remove the loops and sew on the buttons for the suspenders. Now I have a dedicated pair of pants for my suspenders.
As it does get very hot here in summer, I had taken the opportunities to dress up in winter seasons with French-cuffed shirts, vests and neckties. I had also used Eldridge knots, and Trinity knots to change the flavours to the overall outfit.
Thank you Eddy for sharing your experience. All our best wishes, Hugo & Sonya
In the states, we sometimes use belts to holsters our guns. I’ll have to look into side adjusters
An absolutely excellent video. Truly a great resource within the sartorial space. Much love to you Hugo and Sonya, god bless!
Thanks from the heart ! God bless you, Hugo
I can honestly say that most of the "mistakes" in my wardrobe are a result of not following the steps described in this video, good work!
You _'can honestly say'_ ? Means, usually you lie, but not this time. 🤥
@@Claude-Eckel sometimes, i dont lie
I am following the path but I found such a good fabric in one of my favourite colour page and tan I couldn't stop buying suit for the same fabric
I love this episode. I have watched it three times. And against Hugo's advice I did write this down, so I have quick access to these steps. I like having the framework. I don't want to get out over my skis sartorially speaking, but it is always a temptation of mine to go for that statement piece instead of building the solid foundation. I have a beautiful odd jacket in my closet and I don't know what to wear it with yet because its a check pattern with lots of color in it and I am a newbie. Thanks for all the talks. -A
Excellent video. Very well said
I'm a 52yrs.old man & it's so true,one is never too old to learn something new especially when it comes to quality fashion 😃
Dear Sonya and Hugo, i have to say it : you need to reconsider the belt. Im talking about the 2,5cm leather or suede belt, with a nice curved buckle. It can be very stylish, especially on a casual or ivy-influenced outfit. Just yesterday I was wearing my navy hopsack teba jacket and grey fresco trousers, buttoned down Oxford shirt and back penny loafers. I have to say my black thin belt was the star of the show! 😅 cheers!
Hello Hugo, please do a video on trousers. How they should fit and when to wear turned up trousers etc.
This is a wonderful video. Thank you so much for this and all you do.
With great pleasure Jason! Hugo & Sonya
Informative, intriguing and utterly charming to boot. Thank you.
Great video guys I love to follow you guys because I love to dress up It makes me feel good
Thank you José! Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
what an exquisite way to spend my evening 😍
Ha thank you sp much Lizwi! Hugo & Sonya
New viewer here! I’d love to add to what you were saying about just starting out, you could pair flannel or cotton trousers with a well fitting polo shirt. I know even just a polo, a nice pair of trousers, and either Derby shoes or Chukka boots is a massive step up from what most people in my age group (that is 18-25) wear. Great video, thank you for sharing!
Thank you Warren for sharing your thoughts and experience! Cheers, Hugo
Even if published 1 year ago, such a great content. Love you both Hugo and Sonya. I'm currently contemplating the addition of a DB suit even if I'm most of the time working from home and if the dress code within my company moved significantly towards "casual". Back in the 2000s, when I started my career, it was impossible to enter the building without a proper suit / tie / shaved. Miss those days.
I recently added 2 ties from Pini Parma (a honey one and a blue one both with great looing patterns)... will have a look on the brands you recently suggested ;)))
Many thanks Stéphane, I also remember very well this era (not so long ago actually) when a suit and a tie were mandatory (and absolutely not disagreeable). Times are changing, but we are resisting! Cheers, Hugo
Carey Grant wore trousers with side tabs. He did not like belts. He also preferred cardigan sweaters because he said crew necks messed up his hair when putting them on and taking them off. Very elegant man. I always thought that double breasted blazers should not be worn unbuttoned. I read that somewhere. A tailor once told me that double breasted blazers and overcoats should not be let out in the waist by altering the location of the buttons. They could be let out at the side seams if the color of the cloth would be the same but be careful about that because color fades as a garment ages. Thank you for the video.
Many thanks William for your interesting and thoughtful comment. Cheers, Hugo
Just ordered my second pair of Beckett Simonon . I think I'll try to add a pair from Cobbler Union next.
Please do a video on prescription glasses
Specifically what do you want to know about them? Thanks, Hugo
Well I started my journey in my early 20s (I'm 30 now), I have several very nice suits, ties, shoes etc....but they stay in the closet since I decided to bike to work 😂
Cotton trousers and sportcoats are my go to because of this...
Understood, timing is everything ! Hugo and Sonya
Exactly the video I needed
I love you both and you are an inspiration for me when I put an outfit together. Sonya, I'm not so sure about rolling up the sleeves of the jacket and showing the lining. It seems to me that is very late-stage sartorial dressing but I understand what you are saying. As for using a pocket square without a tie... I've never tried it but I just might, although it is definitely counter-intuitive for me. It seems to me a tie is easier to pull off than a pocket square. I loved the purple and yellow regimental tie (23:42)!