Remember being eight? You had your friends and you ignored girls because they simply didn't matter to you? Happier days, right? It's time to reclaim that spirit.
I remember being eight, and had my guitar but no friends. Best time of my life and always will be. A stupid stick of wood with metal wires that made a noise was a better human companion to me than almost any human has ever been.
My wife of 15 years left me for another man yesterday. All thats left is a depressing hell with no way out but death. While he's going through that I'm going down to the pub with my mates.
We’re here for you brother. You enjoy yourself and remember, you saved yourself from a life time of a trash partner. The other guy is the real loser here not you. Stay up.
My grandfather was twice divorced - and a Senior Chief in the Navy during WWII At 5 - he told me to never get married - *EVER* He would always tell me the stories of the men he knew ruined by *Dear John* : Divorces, Cheating, Vindictive Manipulative Bullshit behavior .... He said if you ever feel like getting married - go buy a motorcycle instead.... I adjusted it to: If I ever felt like *dating* a girl - I would go buy a motorcycle. At one point I had 13 running in my garage and 5 *projects* en process. I am now 52 - Never Married, #Expat #DigitalNomad #NoKids Society sucks - Let it burn; all of it. Zero Fucks Given.
Damn. This is amazing. I'm 22 and I've had a shitty period after the break up that occurred almost a year ago, but even then i knew i diden't want to have kids and for SURE didn't want to marry. Now more than ever. Just having fun with some girls and focusing on my life.
Your pops is the G. I never met mine and my Dad checked out when I was 13 and left me in the concentration camp. PS, I survived 50 years in the plantation, and live to tell the tale, which showed me what a badass I am and was actually born as one. I will never return, they join my world or no beuno.
@DragonLorde It depends on the culture too and upbringing. Our culture indulges beautiful women too much. Tempting them to be vain. Rather than treat them as human beings.
@@johnrockwell5834 I think i have one. Been with her over 10 years and our relationship is better every year. But many men have said the same too in same situation... But i think i have the gold here.
Whenver I see a beautiful woman my heart aches. If my heart is located over my right buttock where I keep my wallet. I suspect it is referred pain from my wallet. Strongly suspect.
At least in the West. There will still be parts of the world where Feminism still hasn't completely corrupted it to the point where relationships aren't possible.
It's already true that marriage is something for the upper middle class and above. No need to wait until 2030. Anyone of a lesser class still marrying is either dumb or dangerously naive. @@latt.qcd9221 - "Feminism didn't ruin women. It allowed us to understand them."
Kinda the plan right there. If you remember the movie 1984 and the imagery it was to make the men and women unisex worker cogs. They're doing a great job of that.
Aaron, they just don't care... Mothers, if you can't understand why your sons are killing themselves? Listen to Aaron and Rollo and a dozen other Red Pillers and try to understand.
I've said this I think on Donavan's or Joker's channel. I've had talks with my mom about how ****ed up everything is. I get a blank "does not compute" stare.
I am a ripped and attractive 40 year old man that is 209 lbs and 13% body fat. I served in the Infantry and am a decorated war veteran. I was a Cop / SWAT officer for 12 years had have numerous awards from my time as a cop. I have a mechanical engineering and math degree. I was a championship college athlete from VMI. I was kind and loyal to two past ex wives and they both filed on me. I am on track to be a multi millionaire when I'm 55. Dating in 2020 is a flaming train wreck. I am an masculine and tough dude and I'm literally exactly what a woman is looking for. Marriage leads to familiarity and familiarity leads to contempt... Your not alone men. Your not alone.
@@mishasam319 a person who doesn’t live with the man would go away kinda forget about him but when they see him again they are reminded of his imposing size wealth maybe great personality and his multiple achievements (things a person can honestly respect) but someone who lives with the guy sees them every damn day, when he’s on the toilet, when he’s sick, when his dog dies and he cries alone, when he gets drunk watching the game on the television it gets so much easier to forget all those great things about a person when they become the background noise and focus on the bad shit because that bad stuff isn’t normal. And of course if there’s nothing bad at all life gets to be to perfect for a woman…too boring. When there’s nothing wrong with the relationship it’s a garuntee she’s banging the next door neighbor or your best friend because when a woman finds there’s nothing to complain about she’ll create the problem to complain about
Yeah, courts wrecked my brother, and my dad, and my friends. And i have watched women i am in love with just rack up a body count and spin plates like mad, without even trying. Hard not to be bitter and resentful/fearful. Dealing with women nowadays is torture sometimes.
@@joeblowseph2433 I have now. Managed to get my wizard card by not getting laid until 31. Currently there are 9 women who have made themselves available to me explicitly. 5 that i would consider banging. 2 of them are maybe relationship material. Sorta making up for lost time and paying back that sex debt. But sex is over rated it turns out, and it's hard to keep a woman away once you've banged her. My issue is that i feel like a giant target, ripe for divorce rape. I'm definitely not going to go the standard route of marriage because of that. I kicked out my last woman because she had stayed with me nearly long enough to own 1/2 my home. I will NEVER let that happen.
@@hosmerhomeboy That's 4-D relationship chess moves right there, man :D I also got my wizard card, but with the way things are going, I may as well go for wraith.
@@hosmerhomeboy No way that you have 9 women chasing you. If it were even remotely true, you wouldn't even be on this video, particularly the comments...
Highly devout churches have always been a safe place from insanity and degeneration. "He gave them laws and customs by which they could not live to show that he was truly the Lord." Get away from liberal churches and find an orthodox church. You might be shamed for being Christian but you will escape the moral rot of the world. One divorce has happened in my congregation and that girl left crying because she tried to pull feminist stuff out as excuses and she was gently rebuked. She had many friends outside of the church, so just look out for that.
Hey, I consider my ex-wife the greatest thing that ever happened to me. She was so neurotic, damaged, and twisted that she drove me to discover the red pill community. To that I say salute;)
Truth. After being in multiple serious relationships and 2 divorces, none of them ever helped out around the house, cooked, stayed fit, had any desire to better themselves, helped with the bills, or appreciated the energy I put into the relationship. Of course the icing on the cake is the sex drops off and they show thier true selves after 2 years of living with you. It's complete BS.
Truth be told. The men are the ones that need to realize that he's the prize. Don't try to make her realize it first .you better get that mindset now before it's too late.
@@alonzoquinones8976 Alonzo, I suspect that most women do know it. My proof: When the covid19 shtick hit women were creaming in their jeans to line up a 'partner' as if the Black Death was coming. That waned when the true nature of the disease was known. The thing to keep in mind is that they are like fish in water, they don't know they are swimming as the 'you go girl, FDS' environment is all around them. But every once in a while they step outside the bubble and see it for what it is then dive right back in as the whole infrastructure of their lives is built around and thru it.
Reminds me of this russian joke: Vasily: my wife left ran away with my best friend Eugene: I thought I was your best friend Vasily: you are but he's a better friend, the bestest friend I ever had, I don't even know his name😂
I recently shut down my bumble account (I still have the app). I'm still getting barraged with girls matching me (I paid the 80 bucks months ago to know when a girl would swipe right). I've had it up to here, I'm fed up with how I've been treated (free meal date, attention, validation, wanting to make her BF who I don't even know about jealous). This new batch that matched me I was beyond rude to. A couple of them still talked and asked to talk to me more because I was an "honest" guy. As soon, and I mean as SOON as you let your guard down and are polite and cordial, they get turned off and treat you like crap. It's so sad how broken society is. I'm done dating. Date yourselves, date your cucumbers, date your cats, become a lesbian (more and more of you are), just leave me alone.
All men can do is live the best life they can with the cards they were dealt. Took me 28 years to fully understand this, but I'm making every day count on my terms.
@@joeblowseph2433 I’ve had a slow but final transition. A girl I dated 5 years ago was a prostitute (never bothered to tell me of course) then we broke up and I dated another girl who God bless her heart, after dozens of warnings, put on a crap ton of weight. Then there was what I thought was finally the love of my life. As in I had the ring picked out but thankfully not bought. She went back to her abusive ex after several months. Like I said. I’m done. I'm 34, this omits when I was 19-21 the girl I dated who beat me and cheated on me repeatedly and laugh about it when I cried.
@@SisypheanSeas13 I’ve honestly thought about this a lot in the past few months, but the problem is so clear lol. You have one gender being raised for societal norms in the 50s, and another gender being raised for societal norms right now. It’s wreaked havoc on traditional families, love, and morality. Gotta give feminism its due unfortunately, it’s destroyed in 40 or 50 years what took society tens of thousands to evolve into. And look what we have now. A society where Ted Bundy could get more women after convicted of murdering dozens of them, than most average men these days. It’s sick, sad, and disgusting.
Yup. Being a normal decent guy, romantic, thoughtful etc is all deemed as weird and loser behavior. Treat them beneath you and say it to their face and they are all over you while bitching about how you aren't thoughtful or romantic. It's so stupid.
Ended up being a single father full time for 8 years after 16 years of hell. Learned to never let anyone cross your boundaries. Also learned that states don’t hold women accountable so much when it’s time for the wahmen to pay child support, which is the expectation anyway. It truly was for the betterment of my 3 kids. If you want to keep a guy don’t cross his boundaries, bottom line. Thank a boomer, they created it, Xr’s lived it with no pushback but now you get to live it. They created modern women to be completely incompatible with self respecting working ambitious men.
Years ago I was serving in the military and while I was deployed to the Middle East, she was banging my “friend.” It hurt at the time but I’m grateful. She packed in the pounds, divorced, and has 3 very eclectic looking kids that look very different from one another...and dating has gotten even worse.
Half goes to taxes. Half of the remaining half goes to saving for retirement because he doesn't have any one or any thing but himself to rely on. Woman drops him because he is living frugally and seems poor. Of course he seems poor because if he's living on 25K/yr he's making a 100K. Then she votes for more government and wonders where the financially marriageable men are.
I'm 32, going on 33. I spent my twenties being ignored by women and putting my effort into career. At this point, i could retire in 3-5 years. Comfortably. It's looking more and more likely that I will simply get a few surrogates to provide children for me.
What net worth or maybe "years of living expenses" do you think is required to retire early (I'm guessing it's mainly a function of age, health, and burn rate)? I'm not there yet but hope to be done with FT work by 45. After that I hardly care as long as I'm not working FT or more.
@@onezerotwofour184 The "years of living expenses" is a tough one. Especially because value is pretty unstable. I'd say 30k/year until 90 is safe. Or have a loving family. I went the route of storing tangible assets and getting myself passive income. currently 30% of my income is passive. In 3-5 years, my passive income should triple or perhaps quadruple. (i have 3 streams of passive income, the largest is a duplex i own (20-25% of my income), but it will be converted to a triplex, and i will own another duplex or triplex as soon as the next opportunity presents). ATM i live in the duplex, but i start camp work next month, and it will be up for airbnb 40% of the time at least. In addition to that, i may well purchase the next property and move into that, freeing up my main home for constant rent, while i build the next multifamily. This works favorably tax-wise, and liability wise, as my current place will be the only one with a mortgage. The other two streams are dividends (unreliable, but so far consistently 2% of my earnings) and Equipment rental/ usage. I own a lot of specialist equipment that I rent out, this nets me a steady trickle, and occasional flood of money. 5-10% of my earnings come from this historically. I think depending on a bag of cash on its own is not the best way. You could say the same about property, and usually, I'd say you're right. But real estate is a profoundly local thing; and if i have a property with no debt,with a solid place i built on it, I think its value will be retained, both in terms of its sale value, and its value as a rental.
thisisn'tmyrealname Thanks for that. It gave me some things to think about and it seems like you're in a very solid position. I want to make my first real estate purchase in the next year or so but was aiming for a two story house where I could rent out the top floor. Duplex ownership isn't something I've considered, but maybe I should since I care more about building equity than where I'm living.
@@onezerotwofour184 catch the wave of places coming up as the boomers retire and downsize/ move closer to the lake/ hospital/ family. They own most of the real estate, and have paid too much. Plus they're a demographic bulge, which means there won't be as many buyers with as much money as the boomers want. good luck buddy!!
Don't do it; kids aren't worth risking all of that. The surrogate mother can change her mind and keep the baby, if she wants. All she has to do is take it to court to get custody and, given how biased the court is, she will win and you can expect to pay child custody.
I never remembered it be this easy. I mean, I go on dates I tell them where and when. The girls are like wow you are the only guy who tells me where and what we are doing.... so easy.
i thought about legacy a lot, since i will never have any children (not my choice). i took "helping other people out" as the next best thing for a long time, but the truth is that its not worth it and its not a legacy. nobody remembers you for helping them in this narcissistic world. on the contrary - they exploit you. its all worthless nowdays and the worst part is that they are too stupid to even realize how wrong it goes
I feel this. I spent so much time helping people and I forgot about myself. A few weeks ago my smart yet kinda dumb cousin asked me to take them to the airport while they park the car at my place (being cheap). For context this individual makes good money and has no debt. I told them I couldn't, but they could park the train/bus station. Then they proceeded to ask how much it cost and what not. It's like some people can't think for themselves. I mean fuck take an Uber! Who asks for rides these days?
I don't know if women even know or care how much a bad relationship/ situationship changes good men We truly are broken after it The only commitment is to myself now
I am a heathen but the bible does have some god wisdom. Ecclesiastes 7:28 while I was still searching but not finding-- I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.
Point taken, but in context, that passage is more about redemption. That once men go down the path of sin, it's really hard to get them back... but once women go down that path, they're gone. (Still very relevant though)
@@evanm2024 one of the many problems with the bible especially through out history is all the interpretations. Everyone can read the same passage and interpret it all different ways. “Blessed are the cheese makers” my friend. 🤣🤣
Lol, women ask who hurt you.. Funny thing is they always assume it's a woman that did it. All that happens is those women make men go figure out how to deal with women. But it's mens fault. I lost everything I worked my ass off for and I'll be damned if I let a woman get that chance again. 3 kids, 2 live 2 states away, 1 is 8 states away in a home. I get 1 call a week, 1 visit a month with 30 days notice. Women get mad at me but I'm like, you're not an option to me. I'm fine with 2 birds
Once upon a time, I was married and had a family. But I was injured badly, disabled, and then abandoned and left for dead. It flipped a switch to something I didn't know was in me. I turned evil and became a nihilist. The real thing. I didn't even know. Just did whatever I wanted, took anything I felt like taking, didn't care about if it hurt anyone else. I did truly evil things. That turned out badly too. Eventually I realized what I had done and how wrong it was. Now I have to live with the remorse of things that cannot be undone. It haunts me. Don't let someone doing something terrible to you make you abandon doing the right thing. There are consequences. Now I have to pay them. I accept this. I got exactly what I deserved, and the pain that was required for me to elevate to a higher level of vibration. We all do. Don't run from the pain. Run into it. It's the only path to wisdom. When a man is right, his world will be right. Eventually my karmic debt will be paid. I'm not doing the wrong thing anymore.
I feel you on the being abandoned and left for dead. My ex wife suggested I try and get off antidepressants (do not listen to women on this stuff). I didn't realize how much confidence and fearlessness those antidepressants give you and I gave up and was weak and needy and got a divorce as a result. Went on reckless benders, pissed women off left and right by being creepy and socially uncalibrated. It was impossible to get into another relationship off them. Its just what women do, they do not want to take on another dependent of their own, its instinctual for them to leave you when you are down. Feminism and big pharma has wrecked every western society in my opinion.
The reality is women require either exceptionally good looks/height or monetary value from a man in order to gain their commitment when younger. The problem is the men that are deemed marriage/relationship material have endless options today. Why would they give up their freedom to have easy lays with no commitment and/or jeopardize their assets for one woman knowing divorce rates are through the roof? When women finally realize this and lower their standards to actually match their true market value the guys that are available understand she thinks she is settling. Knowing the new/current dating timeline of women, men also think they are settling with a post wall woman.
True statement. I'm 40, been through plenty of women and LTRs, and currently the only way I'll continue to see a woman is if she has genuine physical desire for me. That's it. Period. No beta male provider sex going on over here. I leave p*ssy on the table with this stance, but the sex I do get is phenomenal and the women stick around longer, and they're in my frame. But I'll admit, this scenario isn't easy to achieve for the average guy. Damn near impossible, in fact.
30 yo/m here. Cappy's right about the death of male marriage willingness. The men that are willing to marry are not suitable and those that are suitable won't marry. I'm not entirely sure which camp I fall into being both devastated by a woman *because* I surrendered my masculinity to her, but I'll never allow a woman to get that close again. Edit: the surrendering of my masculinity was me admitting to her that I wanted to be a better man for her. Her response: "be better for yourself". ALS icebucket challenge didn't have shit on that god damn.
@@jiggajigjones8210 she wanted to go to French Canada. She proposed Paris first but I told her that if I wanted to smell sewage and interact with frogs I'd open a sewer cover.
Yeah the constant gaslighting, emotional blackmail, sexual shaming. Most guys are emotionally dead in regards to relationships by about their mid twenties. Ironically about the time women start wanting to submit and start families. So yeah, he's gonna keep you at a healthy distance with low emotional investment and just like women who've been sexually/emotionally abused you can't really blame them for it.
Just the opposite actually. Most of the time, they will destroy the ex and then tell the next guy she was burned and the victim the whole time. The less you listen to women, the easier they are to understand, what they say is just their current feelings/mood.
There’s a neediness in some of us that compels us to willingly step into these prisons. It’s an outward search for something we think is missing inside, and we try to fill it with a relationship. There’s nothing outside that will address this need. The voice in your head is what hides the treasure inside you. It’s an inside job. However, after you’ve awakened within, the utter lack of neediness gives you tremendous power. No porn, no TV, no video games, no obsessive thinking. Get all that shit out of your head. Meditate; be here now.
Thanks for this chat man, really puts some things in perspective for me and my experiences. Feminists have lost their way and they are killing their mans without even realizing it.
Sean Connery passed away on Friday night,incase you didn't hear,as you're in America and news outside the US frequently doesn't get shown,as you mentioned Sean Connery . 😔
And the cuck legacy media made sure to point out an interview he gave in the late 60's about when it's appropriate to put your hands on a woman. It was disgraceful.
I recently had a dinner date with a lovely young lady whose interests and tastes in entertainment are virtually identical to mine. But the way that members of her gender treated me during my teen years have left me virtually asexual and with the tendency to hold people at arm's length. I'm still very happy to have her as a friend, but it probably won't go much further than that.
Aaron Clarey's right about women shaming condemning criminal women. That's an indicator that they care about men and if men don't see it then that's bad news.
Diagnosed. Sometimes childhood can be traumatic, sometimes accidents, situations, duty to act.. but marrying a woman you love after years of knowing her and planning parenthood.. to be betrayed and go through divorce and especially family court cuz "I'm not happy".. that lasts. bout the most traumatic kinda thing a man can go through, in my opinion.
@The VanGuardian Copy that. Wouldn't a soul- with a soul- blame you. I quit judging tragedy a long time ago. Some things break people, others make them, but terrible is still terrible. Childhood cancer? That is tragic
Complex PTSD, it's an actual thing. It's post-tramatic stress by a thousand cuts, usually induced by being in an abusive, dysfunctional relationship for a significant period of time.
@@Moonlitgarden21 I escort oversize loads for a living, but my college career was Biological Sciences, more specifically Kinesiology but I've always studied Psychology as a hobby for years (my son is autistic).. thank you, I will have to look that up. Frankly it sounds like something I could relate to.
It easier to eliminate the soldier on the other side of the battlefield than the double agent in your house. At least you knew one of these was definitely an enemy.
how is prostitution illegal when its a contract between two willing participants and a marriage is a con job made in bad faith where one party intentionally intends to defraud the other for massive financial gain and the total ruin of the other party? in contact law, prostitution should be more legal and marriage should be more subject to scrutiny and possibly putting women in prison for white collar crime...
Prostitution is disadvantageous to marriage minded women. They can't have that going on when they're the "true and rightful" gatekeepers to sex. In this manner... all they have to bring to the table is their anatomical body parts and access to them.
I'm amazed today's girls/women who see they can't keep a man and where divorce is rampant, don't go to much older ladies (70+) who have wedding rings on to ask them what the secret is.
That's an interesting question. I suspect the reason is that they already know the answer, they already know what the older lady will say, and it will be just too far out of what this generation has been taught to make any sense to her. There'll be just a ::shrug:: and an acknowledgment that "older generations had it different."
68 yrs. old SINGLE. Divorced 2X.......Free of pain and guilt since 2004! I don't date! Anytime I get the itch I read "The Book of Numbers" and "The Rationale Male." Then I look in my gun room and look at all my TOYS that I could never have if I had another or pain in butt GF!
Some of today's young guys it is about the shortage of money. That is me. lol Ladies, if you want a family with the man, you must give up on the government checks, especially those.
There was some rich lady in boulder CO, who married a tough british mountaineer.. being an adventurer has a LOT of attraction... and can make a good mate, regardless of his income. The marriage, admiration and loyalty csn also help a guy get a good entrepreneurial thing going.
Guys are increasingly staying out of the market. If they go in it's to trade not invest. Market manipulation requires it. It will correct- but many will be left out.
There is a actual instruction manual to this , but threw that away , we thought we knew better . Now everybody is messed up . But we will figure it out . Sure the day after hell freezes over . Which will never happen ever . And everyone is a philosopher , blah , blah , shut up , and study
Many women are just genuinely bat shit nuts. Their personality is not authentic, in terms of how they really comport themselves. My favorite nightmare story was the one that looked like Daisy Duke with smaller fits that neglected to share that the reason she didn't have a car or a decent job was because she was only a year out of prison after a two and a half year sentence for stabbing her last BF in the face. She was on the street in less than three years for almost killing a guy.
I’ve had moments where someone was interested in me but then their friend would end up giving me the girls number. At first I thought it was done jokingly but i found out it was legit. I just find it awkward because I don’t have a face to convince me enough to contact them even though I end up calling/texting them anyway because I’m a curious type of person. But later I end up getting ghosted or the other person doesn’t follow through to meet up
At almost 51 now. 1.1 mil. and all 7 digits burned off touching the stove so fuck this from happening ever again (like it would though, I only have to support me now). If you have success NEVER get married. If you get the "marry me or I will leave" respond with "you are obviously here for money" and watch her not actually leave. I get to now tinker around for money literally til the day I die with ZERO decent retirement ever. Stunning and brave women dont need a mans money so dont give them any.
Stop! The marriage and spouse comes first. Don’t ever tolerate a woman saying that the children come first. Children are a responsibility that have to be protected, but if her mantra is to say the children come first, that needs to be addressed in an absolute way. To say the children come first is a rephrase to say the husband comes last. No, not ok. In almost all cases the husband is the provider who gives his all to the family. You better look after him like he is important. He is your oxygen.
Cappy, you got me. Bad Marriage, bad divorce, seen hell I lived it. In a LTR, she’s a great gal, but parts of me are gone. But as Popeye would say, I am what I am. 😂
there was this commercial on one of these videos where these girls are reading dating app messages from guys and just saying snappy rejection comebacks to all of them.. they say, oh no one is ever interesting enough its always hey... then when a guy thinks of something clever they say its a cheesy line they probably googled.. they pretty much just made it a practice to find a reason to reject every single person.. thats the game.. guy contacts you, reject him and make up a reason.. where are all the good men? hi... mmmm message too short..
A provision of the National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA) would have added women to the military draft has been dropped. No one seems to understand what equality is.
I had a good run with woman ..ive stopped dating 3 years ago....just nothin out there worth pursuing...at this point friendly companions only..no games manipulation or hidden agendas...if she doesn't have it together than go find a guy who doesn't have it together *
My first wife was the fourth girl I had EVER DATED!! We dated for a year and a half BEFORE we got married, lived together for just six months BEFORE we wed, and in the end I was only married to her about two years (just short of) by the time I had, had more than ENOUGH OF HER ABUSE!!! And YES SHE ABUSED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She constantly beat me, slapped me, even threatened me with sharp objects! She spread lies to me to my own family and began to turn my family against me (which really wasn't that hard as I am the black sheep anyhow) and humiliated me constantly in front of our friends and her own family! In the end I was happy just to be rid of her, and I told her that "Either you go peacefully, or they will need dental records to establish who you are!" and she apparently ONLY THEN did she realized I had my fill of her abuse!!! And I am NOT a violent man.....and I have never learned how to fight or protect myself, and besides at 98 pounds soaking wet at 5 foot 11 inches, I certainly was by no means "an imposing figure" either!!! And so began a pattern in my life shortly after her which sort of blows my mind today when I recall my first wife telling me "YOU WILL NEVER FIND ANYBODY JUST LIKE ME!" Face it I can literally name names of women JUST LIKE HER, and I don't even have enough fingers and toes to count all of them!! Thankfully my first wife and I had no kids.....but it was my second wife that did even MORE DAMAGE to me ultimately and the women in between didn't help either!! I have met my share of cheaters, liars, manipulators and emasculating women!! And there is no shortage of women who are narcissistic, gas lighters, that treat me like "we owe them" and that these same women think the world revolves around ONLY THEM!!!!! Frankly speaking I am dating now, to a decent enough woman, but even she has her moments when she needs a "verbal slap" of reality to keep her in check, as I define for her, that her "sh*t test" isn't going to work like she thinks it will if she keeps pressing an issue!! My point is I have been dating women for 40 years now (starting at 16 years old and I am now 56) and I have had enough of the crap women have put me through!! So my "tolerance for bullsh*t" is every low anymore!! And I certainly don't have the patience or stomach any longer to play stupid games either!!
Remember being eight? You had your friends and you ignored girls because they simply didn't matter to you? Happier days, right? It's time to reclaim that spirit.
Exactly
Yep, remember it fondly lol.
I remember being eight, and had my guitar but no friends. Best time of my life and always will be. A stupid stick of wood with metal wires that made a noise was a better human companion to me than almost any human has ever been.
Hell yeah.
Space Ghost!
My wife of 15 years left me for another man yesterday.
All thats left is a depressing hell with no way out but death.
While he's going through that I'm going down to the pub with my mates.
We’re here for you brother. You enjoy yourself and remember, you saved yourself from a life time of a trash partner. The other guy is the real loser here not you. Stay up.
I'm sorry to hear that dude. Love the humor in your comment though. Hang in there.
Hey, I'd even consider giving the new guy the heads up... You might just save a life.
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My grandfather was twice divorced - and a Senior Chief in the Navy during WWII
At 5 - he told me to never get married - *EVER* He would always tell me the stories of the men he knew ruined by *Dear John* : Divorces, Cheating, Vindictive Manipulative Bullshit behavior ....
He said if you ever feel like getting married - go buy a motorcycle instead.... I adjusted it to: If I ever felt like *dating* a girl - I would go buy a motorcycle. At one point I had 13 running in my garage and 5 *projects* en process.
I am now 52 - Never Married, #Expat #DigitalNomad #NoKids
Society sucks - Let it burn; all of it. Zero Fucks Given.
@carlokrenzelak He retired in 59 as a Senior Chief. I never knew him as any other rank because I was born in 68.
Damn. This is amazing.
I'm 22 and I've had a shitty period after the break up that occurred almost a year ago, but even then i knew i diden't want to have kids and for SURE didn't want to marry.
Now more than ever. Just having fun with some girls and focusing on my life.
@@seeborisgo8074 someone always has to shit on a post. Gratz on living the dream for those of us who failed and played.
Based and redpilled as f
Your pops is the G. I never met mine and my Dad checked out when I was 13 and left me in the concentration camp. PS, I survived 50 years in the plantation, and live to tell the tale, which showed me what a badass I am and was actually born as one. I will never return, they join my world or no beuno.
Whenever I see a beautiful woman it only reminds me of past turmoil.
Rare is the beautiful woman who is also good.
@DragonLorde
It depends on the culture too and upbringing. Our culture indulges beautiful women too much. Tempting them to be vain. Rather than treat them as human beings.
@@johnrockwell5834 I think i have one. Been with her over 10 years and our relationship is better every year. But many men have said the same too in same situation...
But i think i have the gold here.
@@dinoXAs2
Yeah. snake eyes aren't gonna happen every time.
Whenver I see a beautiful woman my heart aches. If my heart is located over my right buttock where I keep my wallet. I suspect it is referred pain from my wallet. Strongly suspect.
I expect that by 2030 the only people still marrying will be upper middle class social registry types and homosexuals...brace for impact.
Just welcome communism and let it burn
At least in the West. There will still be parts of the world where Feminism still hasn't completely corrupted it to the point where relationships aren't possible.
It's already true that marriage is something for the upper middle class and above. No need to wait until 2030. Anyone of a lesser class still marrying is either dumb or dangerously naive.
@@latt.qcd9221 - "Feminism didn't ruin women. It allowed us to understand them."
Kinda the plan right there. If you remember the movie 1984 and the imagery it was to make the men and women unisex worker cogs. They're doing a great job of that.
@@DrugTalkTV yep
My girlfriend just left me because I wouldn't sign the union with her and the government. Not going through another divorce.
WINNING!
You didnt dodge a bulletin, you dodge a fucking nuke missile
You dodged an entire artillery barrage
Aaron, they just don't care... Mothers, if you can't understand why your sons are killing themselves? Listen to Aaron and Rollo and a dozen other Red Pillers and try to understand.
I don't think they'll ever truly understand us.
100% agreed
I've said this I think on Donavan's or Joker's channel. I've had talks with my mom about how ****ed up everything is. I get a blank "does not compute" stare.
They don’t want to understand you, they want you to understand them.
Vast majority of western women nowadays only care about what you can do for them. At least my grandmother was a great cook, mother, and home keeper.
I am a ripped and attractive 40 year old man that is 209 lbs and 13% body fat. I served in the Infantry and am a decorated war veteran. I was a Cop / SWAT officer for 12 years had have numerous awards from my time as a cop. I have a mechanical engineering and math degree. I was a championship college athlete from VMI. I was kind and loyal to two past ex wives and they both filed on me. I am on track to be a multi millionaire when I'm 55. Dating in 2020 is a flaming train wreck. I am an masculine and tough dude and I'm literally exactly what a woman is looking for. Marriage leads to familiarity and familiarity leads to contempt... Your not alone men. Your not alone.
Thanks for the heads-up. I think Hollywood movies and Social Media is another big culprit
Excellent Phil. I am a retired brother Officer with 2 exes. I'd rather be in a gunfight!!!!
"familiarity leads to contempt" why? plz explain..
@@mishasam319 a person who doesn’t live with the man would go away kinda forget about him but when they see him again they are reminded of his imposing size wealth maybe great personality and his multiple achievements (things a person can honestly respect) but someone who lives with the guy sees them every damn day, when he’s on the toilet, when he’s sick, when his dog dies and he cries alone, when he gets drunk watching the game on the television it gets so much easier to forget all those great things about a person when they become the background noise and focus on the bad shit because that bad stuff isn’t normal. And of course if there’s nothing bad at all life gets to be to perfect for a woman…too boring. When there’s nothing wrong with the relationship it’s a garuntee she’s banging the next door neighbor or your best friend because when a woman finds there’s nothing to complain about she’ll create the problem to complain about
Just say "NO" to marriage and do not have any kids and you will stay happy.
Yeah, courts wrecked my brother, and my dad, and my friends. And i have watched women i am in love with just rack up a body count and spin plates like mad, without even trying. Hard not to be bitter and resentful/fearful. Dealing with women nowadays is torture sometimes.
MGTOW monk route is a very respectable route nowadays in my opinion. Still think you should have first hand experiences with women first though.
@@joeblowseph2433 I have now. Managed to get my wizard card by not getting laid until 31. Currently there are 9 women who have made themselves available to me explicitly. 5 that i would consider banging. 2 of them are maybe relationship material. Sorta making up for lost time and paying back that sex debt. But sex is over rated it turns out, and it's hard to keep a woman away once you've banged her. My issue is that i feel like a giant target, ripe for divorce rape.
I'm definitely not going to go the standard route of marriage because of that. I kicked out my last woman because she had stayed with me nearly long enough to own 1/2 my home. I will NEVER let that happen.
@@hosmerhomeboy That's 4-D relationship chess moves right there, man :D I also got my wizard card, but with the way things are going, I may as well go for wraith.
@@hosmerhomeboy No way that you have 9 women chasing you. If it were even remotely true, you wouldn't even be on this video, particularly the comments...
Highly devout churches have always been a safe place from insanity and degeneration.
"He gave them laws and customs by which they could not live to show that he was truly the Lord."
Get away from liberal churches and find an orthodox church. You might be shamed for being Christian but you will escape the moral rot of the world. One divorce has happened in my congregation and that girl left crying because she tried to pull feminist stuff out as excuses and she was gently rebuked. She had many friends outside of the church, so just look out for that.
Hey, I consider my ex-wife the greatest thing that ever happened to me. She was so neurotic, damaged, and twisted that she drove me to discover the red pill community. To that I say salute;)
Same bro
The sad fact is the marriageable man is a rare beast indeed. The women don't realize who the real prize is.
Off topic to many fkn adds
Truth. After being in multiple serious relationships and 2 divorces, none of them ever helped out around the house, cooked, stayed fit, had any desire to better themselves, helped with the bills, or appreciated the energy I put into the relationship. Of course the icing on the cake is the sex drops off and they show thier true selves after 2 years of living with you. It's complete BS.
@@volkoff6357 I'm currently dealing with a pretender so long as she keeps her own place things will be good...That cat is fire to👅
Truth be told. The men are the ones that need to realize that he's the prize. Don't try to make her realize it first .you better get that mindset now before it's too late.
@@alonzoquinones8976 Alonzo, I suspect that most women do know it. My proof: When the covid19 shtick hit women were creaming in their jeans to line up a 'partner' as if the Black Death was coming. That waned when the true nature of the disease was known. The thing to keep in mind is that they are like fish in water, they don't know they are swimming as the 'you go girl, FDS' environment is all around them. But every once in a while they step outside the bubble and see it for what it is then dive right back in as the whole infrastructure of their lives is built around and thru it.
Reminds me of this russian joke:
Vasily: my wife left ran away with my best friend
Eugene: I thought I was your best friend
Vasily: you are but he's a better friend, the bestest friend I ever had, I don't even know his name😂
😂😂😂😂😂
I'm adding that joke to my repertoire. Thank you.
I recently shut down my bumble account (I still have the app). I'm still getting barraged with girls matching me (I paid the 80 bucks months ago to know when a girl would swipe right).
I've had it up to here, I'm fed up with how I've been treated (free meal date, attention, validation, wanting to make her BF who I don't even know about jealous).
This new batch that matched me I was beyond rude to. A couple of them still talked and asked to talk to me more because I was an "honest" guy. As soon, and I mean as SOON as you let your guard down and are polite and cordial, they get turned off and treat you like crap. It's so sad how broken society is.
I'm done dating. Date yourselves, date your cucumbers, date your cats, become a lesbian (more and more of you are), just leave me alone.
All men can do is live the best life they can with the cards they were dealt. Took me 28 years to fully understand this, but I'm making every day count on my terms.
@@joeblowseph2433 I’ve had a slow but final transition. A girl I dated 5 years ago was a prostitute (never bothered to tell me of course) then we broke up and I dated another girl who God bless her heart, after dozens of warnings, put on a crap ton of weight. Then there was what I thought was finally the love of my life. As in I had the ring picked out but thankfully not bought. She went back to her abusive ex after several months.
Like I said. I’m done.
I'm 34, this omits when I was 19-21 the girl I dated who beat me and cheated on me repeatedly and laugh about it when I cried.
@@duderanch18237 blackpilled again
@@SisypheanSeas13 I’ve honestly thought about this a lot in the past few months, but the problem is so clear lol.
You have one gender being raised for societal norms in the 50s, and another gender being raised for societal norms right now. It’s wreaked havoc on traditional families, love, and morality.
Gotta give feminism its due unfortunately, it’s destroyed in 40 or 50 years what took society tens of thousands to evolve into.
And look what we have now. A society where Ted Bundy could get more women after convicted of murdering dozens of them, than most average men these days. It’s sick, sad, and disgusting.
Yup. Being a normal decent guy, romantic, thoughtful etc is all deemed as weird and loser behavior. Treat them beneath you and say it to their face and they are all over you while bitching about how you aren't thoughtful or romantic. It's so stupid.
Women don't hear the word, "no" very often. So naturally, they don't respond well to it.
but they respect a man who can say NO and mean it.
100%
The difference between marriage and prostitution is that marriage offers women retirement and benefits, whereas prostitution is just a consulting gig.
A woman trying to convince a man to marry a second time is like a hot stove saying touch me.
Ended up being a single father full time for 8 years after 16 years of hell. Learned to never let anyone cross your boundaries. Also learned that states don’t hold women accountable so much when it’s time for the wahmen to pay child support, which is the expectation anyway. It truly was for the betterment of my 3 kids. If you want to keep a guy don’t cross his boundaries, bottom line. Thank a boomer, they created it, Xr’s lived it with no pushback but now you get to live it. They created modern women to be completely incompatible with self respecting working ambitious men.
A good man is usually deceived by women. So, when a real quality woman comes by it is hard for them to gain their trust.
AWALT
Years ago I was serving in the military and while I was deployed to the Middle East, she was banging my “friend.” It hurt at the time but I’m grateful. She packed in the pounds, divorced, and has 3 very eclectic looking kids that look very different from one another...and dating has gotten even worse.
Half goes to taxes. Half of the remaining half goes to saving for retirement because he doesn't have any one or any thing but himself to rely on. Woman drops him because he is living frugally and seems poor. Of course he seems poor because if he's living on 25K/yr he's making a 100K. Then she votes for more government and wonders where the financially marriageable men are.
^ THIS ^
She wants a made for TV fantasy man.
Lmao its so true, Ive told women “im trying to build something here!!!!” Then have them say “but you went to university” to which I reply “EXACT.Y”
If she loved him, she wouldn't pressure him to marry
If she loved him she would serve and be quiet
"He's broken"
I know the feeling.
I'm 32, going on 33. I spent my twenties being ignored by women and putting my effort into career. At this point, i could retire in 3-5 years. Comfortably. It's looking more and more likely that I will simply get a few surrogates to provide children for me.
What net worth or maybe "years of living expenses" do you think is required to retire early (I'm guessing it's mainly a function of age, health, and burn rate)?
I'm not there yet but hope to be done with FT work by 45. After that I hardly care as long as I'm not working FT or more.
@@onezerotwofour184 The "years of living expenses" is a tough one. Especially because value is pretty unstable. I'd say 30k/year until 90 is safe. Or have a loving family.
I went the route of storing tangible assets and getting myself passive income. currently 30% of my income is passive.
In 3-5 years, my passive income should triple or perhaps quadruple. (i have 3 streams of passive income, the largest is a duplex i own (20-25% of my income), but it will be converted to a triplex, and i will own another duplex or triplex as soon as the next opportunity presents). ATM i live in the duplex, but i start camp work next month, and it will be up for airbnb 40% of the time at least. In addition to that, i may well purchase the next property and move into that, freeing up my main home for constant rent, while i build the next multifamily. This works favorably tax-wise, and liability wise, as my current place will be the only one with a mortgage.
The other two streams are dividends (unreliable, but so far consistently 2% of my earnings) and Equipment rental/ usage. I own a lot of specialist equipment that I rent out, this nets me a steady trickle, and occasional flood of money. 5-10% of my earnings come from this historically.
I think depending on a bag of cash on its own is not the best way. You could say the same about property, and usually, I'd say you're right. But real estate is a profoundly local thing; and if i have a property with no debt,with a solid place i built on it, I think its value will be retained, both in terms of its sale value, and its value as a rental.
thisisn'tmyrealname
Thanks for that. It gave me some things to think about and it seems like you're in a very solid position.
I want to make my first real estate purchase in the next year or so but was aiming for a two story house where I could rent out the top floor.
Duplex ownership isn't something I've considered, but maybe I should since I care more about building equity than where I'm living.
@@onezerotwofour184 catch the wave of places coming up as the boomers retire and downsize/ move closer to the lake/ hospital/ family. They own most of the real estate, and have paid too much. Plus they're a demographic bulge, which means there won't be as many buyers with as much money as the boomers want. good luck buddy!!
Don't do it; kids aren't worth risking all of that. The surrogate mother can change her mind and keep the baby, if she wants. All she has to do is take it to court to get custody and, given how biased the court is, she will win and you can expect to pay child custody.
33 just divorced. It was a lie. This is great
I never remembered it be this easy. I mean, I go on dates I tell them where and when. The girls are like wow you are the only guy who tells me where and what we are doing.... so easy.
i thought about legacy a lot, since i will never have any children (not my choice). i took "helping other people out" as the next best thing for a long time, but the truth is that its not worth it and its not a legacy. nobody remembers you for helping them in this narcissistic world. on the contrary - they exploit you. its all worthless nowdays and the worst part is that they are too stupid to even realize how wrong it goes
Sourgocy
So true
adopt a kid. It's a huge burden. Your life will be more fulfilling because of the burden.
@@fpsDREDD don't do that it's a waste of time honestly that kid will never give back because you are not his dad
I feel this. I spent so much time helping people and I forgot about myself. A few weeks ago my smart yet kinda dumb cousin asked me to take them to the airport while they park the car at my place (being cheap). For context this individual makes good money and has no debt. I told them I couldn't, but they could park the train/bus station. Then they proceeded to ask how much it cost and what not. It's like some people can't think for themselves. I mean fuck take an Uber! Who asks for rides these days?
I don't know if women even know or care how much a bad relationship/ situationship changes good men
We truly are broken after it
The only commitment is to myself now
Paid sex is cheaper than free sex, as Dan Cariely would say.
I am a heathen but the bible does have some god wisdom.
Ecclesiastes 7:28
while I was still searching but not finding-- I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.
Proverbs 31:3
Point taken, but in context, that passage is more about redemption. That once men go down the path of sin, it's really hard to get them back... but once women go down that path, they're gone. (Still very relevant though)
@@evanm2024 one of the many problems with the bible especially through out history is all the interpretations. Everyone can read the same passage and interpret it all different ways. “Blessed are the cheese makers” my friend. 🤣🤣
@@evanm2024once a good girl has gone bad, shes gone forever.
They aren't loyal to you... They're loyal only to their emotions
Lol, women ask who hurt you..
Funny thing is they always assume it's a woman that did it.
All that happens is those women make men go figure out how to deal with women.
But it's mens fault.
I lost everything I worked my ass off for and I'll be damned if I let a woman get that chance again.
3 kids, 2 live 2 states away, 1 is 8 states away in a home.
I get 1 call a week, 1 visit a month with 30 days notice.
Women get mad at me but I'm like, you're not an option to me.
I'm fine with 2 birds
Once upon a time, I was married and had a family. But I was injured badly, disabled, and then abandoned and left for dead. It flipped a switch to something I didn't know was in me. I turned evil and became a nihilist. The real thing. I didn't even know. Just did whatever I wanted, took anything I felt like taking, didn't care about if it hurt anyone else. I did truly evil things. That turned out badly too. Eventually I realized what I had done and how wrong it was. Now I have to live with the remorse of things that cannot be undone. It haunts me. Don't let someone doing something terrible to you make you abandon doing the right thing. There are consequences. Now I have to pay them. I accept this. I got exactly what I deserved, and the pain that was required for me to elevate to a higher level of vibration. We all do. Don't run from the pain. Run into it. It's the only path to wisdom. When a man is right, his world will be right. Eventually my karmic debt will be paid. I'm not doing the wrong thing anymore.
I feel you on the being abandoned and left for dead. My ex wife suggested I try and get off antidepressants (do not listen to women on this stuff). I didn't realize how much confidence and fearlessness those antidepressants give you and I gave up and was weak and needy and got a divorce as a result. Went on reckless benders, pissed women off left and right by being creepy and socially uncalibrated. It was impossible to get into another relationship off them. Its just what women do, they do not want to take on another dependent of their own, its instinctual for them to leave you when you are down. Feminism and big pharma has wrecked every western society in my opinion.
There is no damn reason to get married. I should be able to marry and procreate without risking said children, wealth, and future income.
The reality is women require either exceptionally good looks/height or monetary value from a man in order to gain their commitment when younger. The problem is the men that are deemed marriage/relationship material have endless options today. Why would they give up their freedom to have easy lays with no commitment and/or jeopardize their assets for one woman knowing divorce rates are through the roof? When women finally realize this and lower their standards to actually match their true market value the guys that are available understand she thinks she is settling. Knowing the new/current dating timeline of women, men also think they are settling with a post wall woman.
True statement. I'm 40, been through plenty of women and LTRs, and currently the only way I'll continue to see a woman is if she has genuine physical desire for me. That's it. Period. No beta male provider sex going on over here. I leave p*ssy on the table with this stance, but the sex I do get is phenomenal and the women stick around longer, and they're in my frame.
But I'll admit, this scenario isn't easy to achieve for the average guy. Damn near impossible, in fact.
I don't think it will course correct.
No , serious and normal guys are a majority. Most guys are worthy of a relationship. Nothing has to be perfect.
But women are far far bellow
30 yo/m here. Cappy's right about the death of male marriage willingness. The men that are willing to marry are not suitable and those that are suitable won't marry. I'm not entirely sure which camp I fall into being both devastated by a woman *because* I surrendered my masculinity to her, but I'll never allow a woman to get that close again.
Edit: the surrendering of my masculinity was me admitting to her that I wanted to be a better man for her. Her response: "be better for yourself". ALS icebucket challenge didn't have shit on that god damn.
Thats not so bad, man. Don’t beat yourself up too much. At least you didnt have to go to Paris,
@@jiggajigjones8210 she wanted to go to French Canada. She proposed Paris first but I told her that if I wanted to smell sewage and interact with frogs I'd open a sewer cover.
@@doug4974 What a sh8tty thing to say.
@@chrisnamaste3572 good pun
She actually right, from a biological and cultural perspective.
Yeah the constant gaslighting, emotional blackmail, sexual shaming. Most guys are emotionally dead in regards to relationships by about their mid twenties. Ironically about the time women start wanting to submit and start families. So yeah, he's gonna keep you at a healthy distance with low emotional investment and just like women who've been sexually/emotionally abused you can't really blame them for it.
Got my vasectomy at age 23. Currently 47, it saved me twice in my 30's.
Smart mf
Im actually reallu suprised they gave one to you so young especially back in the day.
@@jebes909090 yes, had to go outside province and paid out of pocket, also told them I had mental issues because of my mission in Kosovo in 1999-2000
Most women you want to have kids with are on the pill. The women you dont want to have kids with, are like 50/50 on the pill.
Long story short, our society is toxic. And runs towards things that distroy them. The prognosis is grim.
Top advise they are never called out about destroying their ex .Disgusting behaviour but they never learn their lesson.
Just the opposite actually. Most of the time, they will destroy the ex and then tell the next guy she was burned and the victim the whole time. The less you listen to women, the easier they are to understand, what they say is just their current feelings/mood.
Don't fall for the Trojan horse guys 😂
There’s a neediness in some of us that compels us to willingly step into these prisons. It’s an outward search for something we think is missing inside, and we try to fill it with a relationship. There’s nothing outside that will address this need. The voice in your head is what hides the treasure inside you. It’s an inside job. However, after you’ve awakened within, the utter lack of neediness gives you tremendous power. No porn, no TV, no video games, no obsessive thinking. Get all that shit out of your head. Meditate; be here now.
That "neediness" is our genetics telling us to reproduce and create a family. Read "The Selfish Gene"
Men no longer care what women want. We don’t want them!
Have fun with your cats, ladies!✌️
Thanks for this chat man, really puts some things in perspective for me and my experiences. Feminists have lost their way and they are killing their mans without even realizing it.
Sean Connery passed away on Friday night,incase you didn't hear,as you're in America and news outside the US frequently doesn't get shown,as you mentioned Sean Connery .
😔
The last.man to admit openly to slapping a wench who is out of line...May Valhalla receive him with honor.
And the cuck legacy media made sure to point out an interview he gave in the late 60's about when it's appropriate to put your hands on a woman. It was disgraceful.
@@korbendallas8488 Doesn't matter that it was in the late 60's, his life advice is still applicable today. 😎 #Slapahoe
A man's MAN!!!!
@@RAndrewKReed lmao. The Resident Slapper
The 2 happiest days of a mans life are the day he gets married and the day he gets divorced.
We won’t have these damaged men if we still locked up the bipolars. We talk about feminism but what about the effects of deinstitutionalization?
Good point. Bipolar, BPD, and borderline PD are very rampant in women.
My divorce only cost me about $250 but I will not go through it again.
Wow, mine was in the 100s of $1,000s
I recently had a dinner date with a lovely young lady whose interests and tastes in entertainment are virtually identical to mine. But the way that members of her gender treated me during my teen years have left me virtually asexual and with the tendency to hold people at arm's length. I'm still very happy to have her as a friend, but it probably won't go much further than that.
Who paid for dinner?
@@ShaunHensley lI invited her, so me. She's unemployed at the moment because she's got some medical issues going on.
@@Maniac1607 you're simping.
@@EdTowel-ww7yh No I'm not. It's platonic. We're just friends.
Women are rarely friends, you are just an orbiting man in her mind no matter what she says. Women already have friends.
I have “old school” PTDS. It’s called doing extreme evil to other men. My ex did me in by the 10,000 cuts. Never again!
Aaron Clarey's right about women shaming condemning criminal women. That's an indicator that they care about men and if men don't see it then that's bad news.
Chickens are coming home to roost, a few chuckles may be in order, but overall a sad day for humankind.
The content in this video resonates with me. You just articulated the way I feel, I believe a good many men feel. You do great work Aaron. Thanks
It's definitely PTSD. I could definitely go to war and not get PTSD.
Diagnosed. Sometimes childhood can be traumatic, sometimes accidents, situations, duty to act.. but marrying a woman you love after years of knowing her and planning parenthood.. to be betrayed and go through divorce and especially family court cuz "I'm not happy".. that lasts. bout the most traumatic kinda thing a man can go through, in my opinion.
@The VanGuardian Copy that. Wouldn't a soul- with a soul- blame you. I quit judging tragedy a long time ago. Some things break people, others make them, but terrible is still terrible. Childhood cancer? That is tragic
Complex PTSD, it's an actual thing. It's post-tramatic stress by a thousand cuts, usually induced by being in an abusive, dysfunctional relationship for a significant period of time.
@@Moonlitgarden21 I escort oversize loads for a living, but my college career was Biological Sciences, more specifically Kinesiology but I've always studied Psychology as a hobby for years (my son is autistic).. thank you, I will have to look that up. Frankly it sounds like something I could relate to.
It easier to eliminate the soldier on the other side of the battlefield than the double agent in your house. At least you knew one of these was definitely an enemy.
It's very sad how many people's idea of a dream life is doing nothing
That's only AFTER seeing how others benefit from them chasing after their "Dreams"
how is prostitution illegal when its a contract between two willing participants and a marriage is a con job made in bad faith where one party intentionally intends to defraud the other for massive financial gain and the total ruin of the other party? in contact law, prostitution should be more legal and marriage should be more subject to scrutiny and possibly putting women in prison for white collar crime...
Prostitution is disadvantageous to marriage minded women. They can't have that going on when they're the "true and rightful" gatekeepers to sex. In this manner... all they have to bring to the table is their anatomical body parts and access to them.
I'm amazed today's girls/women who see they can't keep a man and where divorce is rampant, don't go to much older ladies (70+) who have wedding rings on to ask them what the secret is.
That's an interesting question. I suspect the reason is that they already know the answer, they already know what the older lady will say, and it will be just too far out of what this generation has been taught to make any sense to her. There'll be just a ::shrug:: and an acknowledgment that "older generations had it different."
They don't ask because they believe grandma was oppressed by the patriarchy and doesn't know any better.
My wife and I have been married for 35 yours and I've never had One younger person ask me how we did it.
68 yrs. old SINGLE. Divorced 2X.......Free of pain and guilt since 2004! I don't date! Anytime I get the itch I read "The Book of Numbers" and "The Rationale Male." Then I look in my gun room and look at all my TOYS that I could never have if I had another or pain in butt GF!
Jesus Christ himself states explicitly that one who is divorced is better to never marry again. Although it is not a sin to remarry, do not do it.
Some of today's young guys it is about the shortage of money. That is me. lol Ladies, if you want a family with the man, you must give up on the government checks, especially those.
My ex was like a boat. If you've owned a boat your second happiest day is the day you pick it up, and your happiest day is the day you get rid of it!!
There was some rich lady in boulder CO, who married a tough british mountaineer.. being an adventurer has a LOT of attraction... and can make a good mate, regardless of his income. The marriage, admiration and loyalty csn also help a guy get a good entrepreneurial thing going.
I think most young men are confused and not connecting the dots because of lack of exprience with women which is turning into flat out disinterest
I would willingly pay moneys to women police/regulate their own. Obviously not in the ways of 3 reich feminism.
Guys are increasingly staying out of the market. If they go in it's to trade not invest. Market manipulation requires it. It will correct- but many will be left out.
There is a actual instruction manual to this , but threw that away , we thought we knew better . Now everybody is messed up . But we will figure it out . Sure the day after hell freezes over . Which will never happen ever . And everyone is a philosopher , blah , blah , shut up , and study
The fact, that Cappy has that much success (even wearing that kid's headphones) shows that he's legit.
lmao
Many women are just genuinely bat shit nuts. Their personality is not authentic, in terms of how they really comport themselves. My favorite nightmare story was the one that looked like Daisy Duke with smaller fits that neglected to share that the reason she didn't have a car or a decent job was because she was only a year out of prison after a two and a half year sentence for stabbing her last BF in the face.
She was on the street in less than three years for almost killing a guy.
I’ve had moments where someone was interested in me but then their friend would end up giving me the girls number. At first I thought it was done jokingly but i found out it was legit. I just find it awkward because I don’t have a face to convince me enough to contact them even though I end up calling/texting them anyway because I’m a curious type of person. But later I end up getting ghosted or the other person doesn’t follow through to meet up
They say kids come first, just as long as the government can squeeze money out of them is the stipulation.
At almost 51 now. 1.1 mil. and all 7 digits burned off touching the stove so fuck this from happening ever again (like it would though, I only have to support me now). If you have success NEVER get married. If you get the "marry me or I will leave" respond with "you are obviously here for money" and watch her not actually leave. I get to now tinker around for money literally til the day I die with ZERO decent retirement ever. Stunning and brave women dont need a mans money so dont give them any.
Stop! The marriage and spouse comes first. Don’t ever tolerate a woman saying that the children come first. Children are a responsibility that have to be protected, but if her mantra is to say the children come first, that needs to be addressed in an absolute way. To say the children come first is a rephrase to say the husband comes last. No, not ok. In almost all cases the husband is the provider who gives his all to the family. You better look after him like he is important. He is your oxygen.
I am sending this video to any woman I get involved with in the future.
Don't. You're needlessly giving away insight into your brain if you do. Don't lie about your intentions, but let her figure it out for herself.
Don't. Doing that will ensiuate to them that you are insecure, which believe me, they hate that, especially with men.
Don't be passive aggressive ...use your words.
don`t. never let them know your next move and your plan B.
It won’t do any good. Women are not accountable for their actions.
Cappy, you got me. Bad Marriage, bad divorce, seen hell I lived it. In a LTR, she’s a great gal, but parts of me are gone. But as Popeye would say, I am what I am. 😂
I now have money in my wallet! For 19 years of marriage, I never had any money in my wallet.
Lol, like a magic trick; ain't it? I always thought I was poor.
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Who wants to own the Community Bike?🤣
One girl ask another girl who was the hottest male movie star ever one girl say "Sean Connery " The girl says back " but he's bald "!
Been there, done that, recovered… but it wasn’t easy.
Netflix and chill generation
Just Another Chameleon looking for a man to destroy his life .
trying to red pill my daughter, but it's not working.
Cappy, you are what became of the real Alex P. Keaton after the tv show ended.
Alex is keen!
🌎 is a sexual hellscape. A wilderness of nettles. A desert relieved with briny oases.
The Five Stages of Cray:
Tears 😭
Screams.
Threats.
Slaps.
🔥
Marriage is the casino, lady of the night is the drug deal.
there was this commercial on one of these videos where these girls are reading dating app messages from guys and just saying snappy rejection comebacks to all of them.. they say, oh no one is ever interesting enough its always hey... then when a guy thinks of something clever they say its a cheesy line they probably googled.. they pretty much just made it a practice to find a reason to reject every single person.. thats the game.. guy contacts you, reject him and make up a reason.. where are all the good men? hi... mmmm message too short..
The true man wants 2 things: danger and play. For that reason, he wants women as the most dangerous plaything. Friedrich Nietzsche
Petting the possum will forever be a part of my language now
Everyone will promise that they won't screw you over when the relationship is over. But in the end, everyone will use the law to their advantage
That's why I didn't marry her. 🙂
A provision of the National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA) would have added women to the military draft has been dropped. No one seems to understand what equality is.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This whole thing has me cracking up.. Good and factual video.
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i found a replacement for kevin samuel..........thank you bro!!
I had a good run with woman ..ive stopped dating 3 years ago....just nothin out there worth pursuing...at this point friendly companions only..no games manipulation or hidden agendas...if she doesn't have it together than go find a guy who doesn't have it together *
I was very fortunate to have a very good Dad. By his example he taught me as a boy what I would need to be as a man one day.
There should never be child support and custody needs to automatically be 50/50 ... that would solve at least SOME of the issues.
My first wife was the fourth girl I had EVER DATED!! We dated for a year and a half BEFORE we got married, lived together for just six months BEFORE we wed, and in the end I was only married to her about two years (just short of) by the time I had, had more than ENOUGH OF HER ABUSE!!! And YES SHE ABUSED ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She constantly beat me, slapped me, even threatened me with sharp objects! She spread lies to me to my own family and began to turn my family against me (which really wasn't that hard as I am the black sheep anyhow) and humiliated me constantly in front of our friends and her own family! In the end I was happy just to be rid of her, and I told her that "Either you go peacefully, or they will need dental records to establish who you are!" and she apparently ONLY THEN did she realized I had my fill of her abuse!!! And I am NOT a violent man.....and I have never learned how to fight or protect myself, and besides at 98 pounds soaking wet at 5 foot 11 inches, I certainly was by no means "an imposing figure" either!!!
And so began a pattern in my life shortly after her which sort of blows my mind today when I recall my first wife telling me "YOU WILL NEVER FIND ANYBODY JUST LIKE ME!"
Face it I can literally name names of women JUST LIKE HER, and I don't even have enough fingers and toes to count all of them!! Thankfully my first wife and I had no kids.....but it was my second wife that did even MORE DAMAGE to me ultimately and the women in between didn't help either!! I have met my share of cheaters, liars, manipulators and emasculating women!! And there is no shortage of women who are narcissistic, gas lighters, that treat me like "we owe them" and that these same women think the world revolves around ONLY THEM!!!!!
Frankly speaking I am dating now, to a decent enough woman, but even she has her moments when she needs a "verbal slap" of reality to keep her in check, as I define for her, that her "sh*t test" isn't going to work like she thinks it will if she keeps pressing an issue!! My point is I have been dating women for 40 years now (starting at 16 years old and I am now 56) and I have had enough of the crap women have put me through!! So my "tolerance for bullsh*t" is every low anymore!! And I certainly don't have the patience or stomach any longer to play stupid games either!!
Lucky me I only paid 550 for my divorced
Bro you need a comedy show real talk. Funny asf. "I'll never settle for anyone less than Eduardo" hahaha
Regardless your planet of origin, observation discloses that
“People are jerks”
Omfg, look at all the ad dots on the clip!!!! 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
37:34 Yes the coffee at the Jumbo is free
Married life in the military, I found Afghanistan preferable to "home"