Throw in the towel. I retired at 50 even though I was a high earner. My wife isn't a great homemaker or cook. About all she is good for is working so let her work. My kids grew up and moved away. I only see them a couple of times a year. I realized that I was destroying my health and slaving away so that I could leave everyone a big inheritance. I wanted to enjoy myself while I was still young enough to actually do something. Now my job is hiking, mountain biking, traveling, van life, furniture building, cooking, and home maintenance.
I'm in my 40s and in a similar situation. I'm not retired but working part time for the 5 years since I lost my job of 18. I weighed the pros and cons of my situation and decided to take this route for now until I can get myself in a better position for a divorce. The funny thing is now that she is used to the idea of me just being a deadbeat more or less she has never treated me better. XXs really are messed up in the head.
Mark, here is a hint for getting yourself some extra $ If she isn't too bright fill out a new W4 for her and over withhold. Mine fell for that hook line and sinker after I told her trump raised taxes on all the working people. Then when Biden got in I told her taxes were raised again to pay for all the money Trump stole when he left office. When I get the refund I look at it as my annual bonus for putting up with her.
@@angelicaangel2624 So many of you ladies act like that is some ultimate trump card. Sure it’s a big thing but it’s not like she didn’t want the kids, and your bodies are literally built to bear children.
@@tonydiesel3444 Yeah it is. For years I was the clean cut John Cena like alpha, who didn't put up with wah-men's schidt and wanted to find a wife, but since I didn't go to jail, use drugs, beat women, or have kids with other women, I was essentially invisible and undesirable to most girls.
@@tusk1375 Old school mentality, men use to have until their late 30s to get financially established before a wedding. Now it’s completely reversed. You have to have everything planned and in place before 25 years old now. Women can now hold off until their early 40s before getting married to a 20 something.
@@rppope1006 study your target country - plus up on their local language, learn their cultural differences. Secure a remote work gig. Sell all your domestic shiat. Get your passport, Get on a plane. *ALL I GOT*
Wow ..... I was a horndog until my early 60's. Now I couldn't give a crap about sex one way or another. I'm actually kinda jealous. I could have done a lot more with my life if I hadn't spent so much time trying to get laid.
@@JJ-vp3bd That's my strategy as well. If she wants it she'll find an excuse to sleep with you, if she doesn't nothing you say will be enough. So being upfront in that sense is the only solution if you don't wanna waste a massive amount of time
The best *Endorsement* for marriage ? NOT a SINGLE guy I know that is married is Happy, nor would they recommend it to a free guy. That is the brand that marriage actually needs. Millions Served - None Happy in sight.
I'm 68, we split aged 57. Best move I've made but should have kicked her out when I was 39 instead of struggling on with a bipolar wife who messed up our lives and ruined so many friendships. Never again despite having women chasing me......I can just smell trouble and don't want it.
I’m 61 and fortunately found a woman that’s not off her rocker. First, current, last and only wife I’ll ever have. She actually asked me what I’d do if I were single again. “I’m on the first thing smokin’ to Bangkok. Other than a visit at Christmas time, I will not be back…”
You're getting there, Aaron, someday you're gonna get to the actual raw truth: these women hate our guts with a passion. It's not grim or whatever, it is OBVIOUS. It's also time for MEN to admit that we don't really like them all that much. (And yes, we're the ones who are at that level, at the level of "not liking them that much"; them, they "hate our guts with a passion"). We don't like women all that much, we just like sex too much.
Give the man some credit he's given us amazing Red Pill content from a Psychological Perspective which is desperately needed. All Red Pill journeys are different he is on the path.
Yeah I’ve always thought he was too light on the interactions between men and women. He says they are indifferent to men. I personally think they hate men.
I'm in my 40s and do not really talk to them at all by choice. At my age, there is no reason to talk with them unless they are at least 10+ years younger.
It does start looking like this. They seem to hate that they, evolutionally speaking, need men to survive. It's wired in, and they haaaaaaaate it. And now it seems that they are finally able to live out their revenge, metaphysically speaking. Like all the previous female generations live out their hatred through the current generations. Or something, idk.
I’m 29 and and single every guy I’m friends with who are married are all complaining on Facebook all the time about their marriage. Like I got laughed at for being single but they don’t know I can buy a Ferrari cash 💰 Mostly buy gold, video games 🎮 luxury watches and cats 🐈 Everyone says I look 18 and how do I stay in good shape ! Being free and single is how 😊
1. The better you make yourself - the more demanding you're going to be as to what 'you want'. It's basically 'pricing one's self out of the market' - as most chicks passed 25 are destroyed. 2. You have to rewire yourself to not want relationships. You have to see the landscape as, 'a bunch of hookers who don't charge' - for that's what it is. If this guy was just hunting for new pieces, he could find them everywhere. Adapt, gentlemen. The worst case scenario - he finds a chick he likes, who's at a place where she's looking to settle down. That's what he thinks he wants - and that would destroy him, should he find it.
We're men. We have to adapt. Once we had a taste of "Rotten Meat", we either throw it out, live with it, or cut it apart. But there's no saving if it's all rotten
I'm in a similar situation - 59 years old, good BMI, active, very healthy and fit. Since the vast majority of women in my age group are not healthy or fit (not to mention alcohol dependency, feminism, bonkers) the chances of me finding what I would regard as a decent woman are slim at best so I simply won't bother - I'd rather spend my time doing stuff I enjoy which I know gives me a genuine return.
@@edenbreckhouse I'm Gen X, but I've dated women from your generation before - and they're highly 'relationship oriented'. They have no concept of 'friends with benefits'. But being you're in shape, you could easily pull Gen X women, and at least have a good time without a serious commitment to them. They don't have to be perfect. As long as there is something about them that turns you on enough to fool around, might as well have some fun. Like money, you can't take your johnson with you when you go. If they start acting like they're taking it too serious, break it off and find a new one; before it gets to a level where they become a pain. It's a fun system. You just have to rewire yourself away from 'the one' programming.
It's true. Women were forced into marriage by the man made religions. Now they realized all men will lie to them to breed them and in America they overturned Roe. There are entire generations of girls growing up that loathe men. And it's your own faults. Even in the buy bull it says "I will MAKE your mind for your husband" through bs government breeding mandates and an all male God that says serve men. We're leaving you to the men. Enjoy being with one another :)
And when you finally heal, you will realize they had nothing to offer you from day one. Just lies and bullshit. It was you who had everything they wanted
I had a good career but my wife developed bipolar disorder. After 6 years of a nightmare with her I gave up my finance career (high paying but extremely stressful), it was impossible to juggle her and my job. I emigrated to rural France with her to try and care for her, selling up in the UK. Then the nightmare resurfaced after a couple of years grace so I had to divorce to protect myself against more destruction. Looking back giving up my job in 2003, aged 48, was the first step. Separating in 2012 and divorcing her in 2014 made a massive improvement. Like a huge weight off me. I'm not rich but I don't need to work. I enjoy France, the countryside, fishing, riding my motorbike, camping trips. I've had a number of women after me but I'm not interested. I don't need a parasite, the nonsense and drama.
YES!! I'm married to a younger Filipina. Yeah, she's still female, but the difference between her and bitchy, fat American women is like night and day.
My idea is this: Being the emotional pillow and shoulder to cry on for many years I got enough testimonies to have come to the conclusion that "work on yourself" doesn't work. Girls telling me they were in toxic relationships with guys that were criminal, sex offenders, even one time a girl asked me if she should dump her BF that was so fat his cock was unreachable and he didn't give a fuck about pleasing her either. Each time I was just baffled that girls fell for these dudes. Clearly they've didn't worked on themselves or if someone who's got his shit together and is healthy still got to work on themselves to be able to compete with the absolute worst what does that make them? Seriously, it doesn't make sense. I think all this comes from a relationship pattern that people got from childhood, pleasing the narcissistic mother. A narcissistic mother will raise their kids to believe that they have to meet a certain condition in order to be loved which cannot be met. A narcissist can never be satisfied and will resent you and try to downplay everything you do if you do something that's actually noteworthy because they're super insecure and need to bring you down to their level to feel in control. So it's kinda just chasing the rainbow! How much will you need to have in order to be enough? It'll never be enough! You're being told to just work and work and work so girls will take you seriously, meanwhile, girls pick absolute trashbags. So be rational about it. Are these shitbag guys enough and you yet have to work your ass up to be at least as good as the worst or you're actually more than enough and you can actually chill now? You're in a hamster wheel chasing a gif of a girl running away from you while your environment tells you to just run faster. If you keep doing this long enough you're gonna snap.
It really does drive you made doesn't it? This is why you need to disconnect from the world and build yourself back up, independent of women. The irony of it all is that you will probably end up attracting more women since they will wonder why "this guy is ignorning me and not paying attention to me?". I've noticed this to - great women literally with trashbag men - and not JUST men who have an "edge" who are trashbags (the bad boy thing is understandable), but men who literally belie all dating advice with women. Men who are overweight, no jobs, low confidence/low social skills. I kind of have this theory that women see men as "archetypes". If you fit into a certain archetype then you will have some success with a certain women. In case it would be the "Messy life and I just don't give a crap about anything" archetype. and the achetype has to be polarizing to some extent. the bad boy. the investment banker hot shot. the drug addict. the hipster. however, most men on a self improvement journey don't really have a polarizing archetype. there is nothing to latch on to. nothing to fix. nothing that is exciting on the surface. If you prioritizer your health, finances, career, you just seem like a normal dude who has his chit together. Ironically, the best way to appeal to women in some cases (with the men who seem to have nothing going for them and still get women) is to FULLY COMMIT to it - manifest it in all ways. literally, quit your job in a frenzy, never change your clothes or get new ones, do drugs so you always appear disheleved, and have absolutely no purpose. When you do this you will finanlly fit the archetype and will attract a certain type of women who will feel the need to fix you. I've experimented with this in the real world, and it works. its messed up. women where I live say they hate the hunting/sporty/jersey/cap wearing kind of guy, but those are the types of men I always see with women. So one day, I threw on a football jersey, a basebally cap, and camo pants. went to a bar and shouted at the tv/game and lo and be hold women started talking to me. mind blowing.
@@psychosylocibin 100% a friend of mine always says "women are only complicated if you believe them" and it's true. Cannot tell how many instagram girls with: NO DMs, Taken, Message only on OF in their bio will just not respect their own rules and actually, trolling women has been somewhat a good strategy at getting their attention, a lot more than being nice or sending money and gifts.
My God this is SO DAMN TRUE. Comment of the damn year. All my friends keep telling me (the stereotypical nerdy introvert) is how bad I have to want it, how hard I have to work for it, how much better I have to be for it. REALLY, did Mr. Pumpanddump who had three kids with her out of wedlock amidst his wave of cheating, abuse, and meanness have to want it bad, work hard for it, and be better for it? I'm so tired of hearing that shit and it being sold to me as the "cure" while these other men did none of it and collected all the prizes, wore them out, and tossed them away like a dead battery. When I look at the world and how it seems to really work my bullshit meter bursts.
Great insight! Yeah, the childhood environment must create some kind of "attraction pattern" and the guy and girl both kind of somehow find each other...and they will continue to find themselves in those types of relationships over and over. Seeking something like this is motivated by some kind of deficit or hunger... and that feeling is a lot stronger than simply the attraction a girl would feel towards a decent guy.
It worked for me, best 3 year relationship of my life, then I came back to Murika to deal with my rental property. Dating has gotten wayyy worse in the 5 years I was down in South America.
It seems smarter to only chase money and success, then use your money to straight up buy your "fun" with girls. You can then still help your community/ family, but not pursue any women in your circle unless they "beg".
@@JJ-vp3bd There's zero tangible consequence to them staying single and sleeping with the 1%. Jobs are all at a desk, contraceptives are easy, and physical protection can be outsourced to the state. No need for men at all.
What's nuts about this is this decline has happened most rapidly in only 25 years (yes one could say post-1980). Moreseo, it has increased rapidly in the past 5. You can then extrapolate how quickly great civilizations could have collapsed in a time scale. Rome. Cahokia. Etc.
At this point you have to have a whole circle of rich successful good looking friends group. Any very attractive woman you might want to date would likely want some approval from this group that you are an all right guy; another hurdle women don’t have to face.
Yeah dudes had 70 women I’m at 0 make 80k and fit and got decent hobbies only 26 and it’s rough. Thing I could work on in person game but cold approach and in person meeting is just a lot harder to do these days
@@reanschwarzer2187 Cold approach is not that hard. Get to know everyone who lives within 1 mile of you for starters. Hang in a crowd that has a handful of women you like and get to know them over time.
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky well they date up get used and then have to take 3-4s or they cope to a point and go well ugly dude can’t get women so at least he won’t cheat not sure if that’s all but definitely seen it
Women will continue to bother @AaronClarey with complaints. And no, they will never officially say they don't want to be bothered. Why? Because the one thing they absolutely do need is your attention even if they're not interested.
I'm a 37 year old guy in a similar financial situation as this guy, plus a gym built physique....he aint lying. Just hold the line. Women don't save money. They will come begging for help in the next 3-5 year window, and that is when you will tell them to pound sand
There’s lots of mid tier guys who get married but that’s because women don’t necessarily want top tier they want a beast of burden who will be their little slave.
My take is that this guy and a lot of other guys are in their very late 20s or 30s and all the decent normal well adjusted women have been taken off the market. It doesn't help also that a lot of women are jaded due to the rampant degeneracy in our time and the casual hook up culture which has left women disappointed with men who have promised commitment but only did so to get laid with them. This has happened enough times for them to seriously lose interest in men, and biologically the female s3x drive is 1/10 of that of men so it doesn't help either. The take away should be that guys should seriously pursue women in their early 20s and secure commitment ASAP instead of playing the field.
@@InsaneOaf maybe you can date down like 10 years no problem so not sure I agree also unfortunately the younger women are getting damaged more often and more frequently every generation. You almost have to secure one in high school if you want to avoid the trauma
@@reanschwarzer2187 No, that's too large an age gap for decent normal well adjusted women. Think 5 years age gap at the absolute maximum preferably same age.
Since my divorce I've been able to pull maybe one chick a year, all on the apps because you can't approach women in public anymore. They've all been way bigger than they led on and mentally unstable. I've started lining things up to semi retire cabin in the woods style when I'm no longer on the hook for child support. That'll put me at ~45 when I can fully check out of society.
V early on post 21-year marriage break up, I gave up on finding an equal. Now I’m just happy with a rotation. Unless, u are seeking kids then don’t bother with girlfriends of fiancées.
Saw a pretty girl with a muscle bound guy who was a fitness instructor and earned $30,000 a year was dumb as a stump had no potential but he was fun so she chose him maybe it's not that women don't like men they just don't like educated hard-working wealthy men with brains I saw another woman who I asked out and she said no and then later I saw him with some guy who looked like he was homeless they're just not selecting for quality men that's not what they want they want to play
That's just crazy talk. Women are hypergamous and are biologically driven to seek out a man with the most resources. They will "ho around" and walk away from a good man because they found themselves a higher value man.
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky basically in my country republic of georgia woman always screaming how our man are non progressive and uslees not liberal and so on.. and they merry german,turkish, iraq, pakistani mans and i always wondered i mean what paradox is that from christian country you are going and merry muslim guys and go in muslim country which is stricter or go to germany well i analysed and its very simple german,turkish,iraq,pakistani guys are very very hardworking and very easily manipulated by pussy and woman thats it.. magic behind it.. german guys are fed up with liberal german girls and divorce rapes so they think georgian woman are different lol poor guys..
Girls hook up have fun when young. Then the wall hits and they realize just being used. Then after they are used up settle on any guy willing to support them. Be careful guys.
Watching the fall of the West is very much like watching a powerful motor with the oil slowly drained away. It's running rough, and rougher; soon to sieze up. I'm waiting for the part when the motor has stopped and most of the people who helped destroy the motor will be horrified the motor stopped. Despite their actions having contributed greatly to said stoppage. As the last echos of the once mighty engine fade into eternity, just before the darkness comes for us all, will come the cries of the sheeple. They will bleet that the engine stopped. They will bleet for it to just, start up again because they demand it. They will bleet against the very men who tried to warn of the inevitable consequences of their actions. Some few, some very few will bleet that they are sorry. They will swear they were wrong and will go back to the ways that made the engine work. All this as the last echo fades into eternity. Yes indeed, just before the darkness comes for us all, will come the cries of the sheeple. And my contemptuous laughter.
Genetically beautifull facial structure you cant get with surgery. You can train your body. You cant train your face. A few things. Dont eat too much soft food. Breath less through your mouth. Weight also influences how your face looks. Off course game works. It works best if you already have other things going for you.
Trying to force myself to throw in the towel but I am very stubborn. In the back of my mind I know the odds are against me. Fighting this programing of wanting a family and kids is very hard for me to break.
I see the real problem is he's looking for a high earner as well. What he should be looking for is someone that wants to become an actual mother and stay home and take care of their kids. He makes enough to afford that lifestyle. I'd also suggest to look for women in their mid 20's that haven't been run through. If you can even find that unicorn virgin you'll be so much better off...even if you have to wait till the wedding night to enjoy your fruits. Those girls exist...but you may have to look around religious schools (etc) The other suggestion I'd make is look for a girl that comes from a 2 parent home where the parents are still together (and mostly happy...no one is always happy all the time...that is just a flat out lie). A girl from that background will have pressure to remain in a marriage UNLESS there are serious problems. Marrying a girl from a broken home background is just setting yourself up for failure. I'd also say...if you are young and a high potential guy don't look down on locking a girl down even when you are younger. You may never get a second chance at a real keeper.
I know what this guys problem is. He is safe and as exciting as an insurance contract. Women want drama. He should fake a risky business like the tinder swindler.
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky One time I told a girl she wouldn't be interested in me because I was an a**hole. She wouldn't leave me alone. She told me on three seperate occasions I needed to ask her out. They are hooked on the drama for sure.
They would start dating angels, and then want a seraphim, when they have a nice mercurial who loves them unconditionally. And who wants a cherubim? Uh… ew!
The reason he comes to the table and she says “no not this one” is due to the fact of women having too many options. The best of the best they will find a problem with.
Aaron, why don't you ever mention the specific lucrative career fields of your case studies? I respect how you keep your writers anonymous, but that alone wouldn't be an identifier.
It's Easy. Trades - low barrier to entry, high independence, potentialy for charging a ton of money later in life (per hour). STEM/Engineering - spend 15 years industry - you can either an engineer or bridge into consulting, where you can charge 300+ per hour in your late thirties. Even healthcare - nurses make a ton
I had kids with the wrong one but I’m glad they’re here. That being said if i didn’t do that, I don’t see much a change to make kids with the right one. Getting older I do not want an older woman or one with kids. I’ll just stay close to my kids when they are adults and help with their kids then go off in the sunset when it’s my time to go.
Me and my best (4) best friends epitomize this trend. We are all mid/late 30's, high 6-figure incomes, 6' and up tall, in shape, business owners and engineers. I married a girl almost 10 years younger than me from eastern europe, another married a girl from india, another married a girl from china. Another friend is the heir of a massive business fortune and, after his fiance ran off with a drug dealer decided to travel SE asia full time and plays for the other team. I have yet to see a successful union with a western woman. It is a waste of time. The upside is that it's a huge world, and with sky high immigration you don't even need to leave the country to meet women from other cultures. Boycott Western women because they will run your lives. Long catfood stocks lol.
14:37 YES YES YES!!! Get your passport and a plane ticket to the Philippines!!! I've heard that Thailand is also good but there seems to be more of a party vibe there rather than settle down with a good housewife and mommy type. Also English is the 2nd national language (after Tagalog) and is taught in the schools here (I moved from So. Calif to the Philippines) so there is very little language barrier. But please be a quality husband type, not a player. These girls are so sweet and deserve good husbands. And, if Miss Universe contest REALLY knew beauty the Philippines would win EVERY year. I found my sweet wife here, so come on in the water's fine.
II've definitely considered going on vacation to the Philippines and checking things out. I've heard the women there are more traditional and kind. Thanks for the information. Any part of the country you'd recommend to visit?
@@addison9889 I live in Cebu but everywhere I've traveled is tropical paradise. Palawan is a place known for being more remote and "get away from it all" and the beauty of nature. If you want a cooler climate Bagio is up in the mountains of Luzon. Every where I've visited the people are the sweetest, friendliest people I've ever met. Type Philippine Tourism in the RUclips search engine and you will find videos that will keep you in stunned rapture at the beauty for hours.
I'm 53 divorced and work as a power linesman in Australia , I own my own place on 1.5 acres with a 4bed 2 bath house which I now own outright , earn over $120k aud . Given up on dating as women today are just so damaged , selfish and downright nasty bitches . I now prefer to sit ony back porch with my dog and a good whiskey , If I feel the urge then I know a great place that does an awesome massage and " extras " that takes care of things ...
Do yourself a favor and get out. financially, and numerically it makes the most sense. Men being logical still try to come up with the reason why. or maybe if I just x or y.. Instead of just accepting it is what it is and not blaming yourself for it (see the menu). You gotta focus life on you and not on if you pull the right levers a fairytale will occur. The fairytale was never there.
Add some dark triad traits to your psychology. If you are that good looking and make that much money, thats the missing piece for you. Women love them some dark triad traits.
16:16 "Just tell guys, make it official, 'We're not that interested.'" Dude, no, they are plenty interested. Boys are a prime source of Attention, regardless of whether tha girlsa keep 'em around long-term.
Just head overseas, especially to SE Asia. Plenty of fit, feminine, friendly, submissive, cooperative women there very keen to start a family and take care of their man. You won't regret the trip and you'll see what the rest of the world has to offer. And it's nothing like the disaster the west is now.
You know they can't just say that they don't ant men. They still want the attention. I'm just going to the Philippines. There are still some actual women there.
I’m from the uk so things are a little different, but the piece that caught my ear was, women voted in part? Now it takes two wages to bring up a family not one, I would love to know more on this, can any one point me in the right direction I want absorb this talking in my brain?
the answer is clear. just go do your own thing. They will rage, Women will scream. You will have a gin and tonic in peace. YOU will go to bed effetive and she won't "want to talk" after 11 hours of work - for you. Man, we all love women.....but ask yourself...are these REALLY women anymore? Or just complaint factories you dump money into and yell at you or threaten to call the "authorities" because you mowed the lawn?
I to wish that women would be honest and just say they're not interested in men and maybe even say they hate me. I think most guys would listen. Of course you always have for extreme elements who won't listen no matter what. But here's the thing. As soon as that happened and then started ignoring women all together, the women would start bitching about why aren't men chasing them anymore? Why aren't men helping anymore? Where have all the good men gone?
Steve, women don't want you and that's okay. Why do care if they complain since their not talking to you they are talking to the men they find attractive.
@@stud6414 I do care because these women get into their 40s and 50s and complain that all men are pigs. They expect the men that they ignored all the good men in their prime. But get upset when the ones they ignored make something of themselves and want nothing to do with these women now that they're used up. Then if they are lucky and find a Beta sucker, they treat him like crap.
i am in love with a woman. She's crazy. Wearing a mask in the house for a sniffle. Makes "the six figures" I live in my RV in a very remote place. i miss her. Not her crazy, not her abusive kid. Not their nonsense. I love her, don't miss the crazy.
Maybe, just maybe - he might be seen as a bit boring by women. Attraction is rational, if he doesn’t ‘spark’ their emotions, or comes across a bit needy - they may never perceive him as a potential lover. Otherwise, who knows!
What?? That guy spent $175 a month, *to meet* w0men?! How / on *what?* Let me guess: 1) eHarmony, 2) Match, 3) Plenty of Fish (definitely), 4) Tinder, 5) Bumble, 6) Hinge, 7) whatever *else* is out there..
Don't not throws in the towels! Stays in the marriages and makes the wifes happy! Happy wifes happy lifes! Is not a lies, its reals, wifes loves you more than there divorce lawyers!
Lmao as cynical as the book of numbers was it wasn’t cynical enough! Women don’t like men guys. But like to a weird creepy level that doesn’t even rationally make sense. What I mean by that is that guys are objectively more interesting, fun, friendly, and of course useful. Like I’d probably hang out with a gay dude more enthusiastically than a woman would hang out with a straight dude.
Women agree and find gay dudes mentally more stimulating too. Gay dudes pity women that they have such sub par hetero glands only to date. They all tell us how men only use us and think of us as objects. They tell us what is said behind closed doors when only men are talking. Gay men think hetero men are the lowest creation on the planet.
Man it so bizarre that everything in this world is on us even simple thing like dignity and respect We need to make all the hard work to make something working im not really wanna think what is gonna be next Who will take this mess, who is gonna take the lead and make it better its just pointless, we cant change our nature to something sustainable without really hard work like fanatic religion Life is nutz 🤡🤡
Also a lot of things a redpill guy might say on a date is considered a red flag by lot of women. I recommend Alpha Male Strategies video - signs you are too red pill.
He's WEF shill. Paid to tell the Western nations we plan to flood your countries with people from "the global south" and the excuses are climate change and low birth rate. Zehian is globalist and all he cares about is growing gdp and fighting wars for David.
I guess I'm not understanding dude's issue. I have a *very* similar overall profile to him (different career field but otherwise near identical), and while I would've preferred to settle down earlier I wasn't gonna force it. Instead, I had a damned good time not taking things too seriously, as even ridiculous people are interesting for a little while. Maybe I just don't understand the frustration since I was always a fan of the game and juggling 'em, etc. Guess I just don't get the quitting part. Live life and interact with those ya come across. If I hadn't met the 13-years-younger wife, I'd still be out having a dandy time. Shrug.
Philippines was my choice. Found a sweet wife here (not there because I'm not going back to the U.S., Philippines is HOME for me now), get your passport and plane ticket for the good life.
@@glstka5710 I'd do that myself, but honestly... I lived in china for 7 years, and unless the girls on the dating sites are just the low hanging fruit... I'm not seeing anything I'd find physically attractive, plus 90% of the girls I speak to seem to have low interest or scamming. did you meet your wife in person or on a app?
@@ministryofwrath I met my wife in person. Everything I've seen indicates that dating apps are just a waste of time. maybe the most basic introduction but you really need to opperate in real life.
@@ministryofwrath Her mom was a cleaning lady I hired 3 times a week. She kept bringing her daughters along to help until I promoted head house keeper to mommy-in-law.
Naw. You see the economy states otherwise. Women voted blue for so long this country can’t recover from it. Women gotta work, it’s what they wanted. Yay for equality!!! I won’t even pay for a woman’s drink. Free and convenient kitty or hard pass. And get mad buddy cause I get all the time.
A woman should only work as long as he is okay with her never having sex with him or cooking/cleaning etc. If a man doesn't provide then biologically he's useless.
a cute little crack har stops by my rural place sometimes when shes starving . im 64 , company is rare , i enjoy a little interaction with her . a couple of weeks ago as she was scarfing down her 4 th chilidog she asked me " how in the hell am i single ? " . ( pretty badassed chilidogs ) . i told her , " well the women nowadays are incredibly picky . guess what ? SO AM I " . she seemed to understand that im not in a groveling position . im not coming down to some stupid splittail's level . i have a rural shack -- some of them shits are living in their nonrunning car with 5 large dogs .
Throw in the towel. I retired at 50 even though I was a high earner. My wife isn't a great homemaker or cook. About all she is good for is working so let her work. My kids grew up and moved away. I only see them a couple of times a year. I realized that I was destroying my health and slaving away so that I could leave everyone a big inheritance. I wanted to enjoy myself while I was still young enough to actually do something. Now my job is hiking, mountain biking, traveling, van life, furniture building, cooking, and home maintenance.
I'm in my 40s and in a similar situation. I'm not retired but working part time for the 5 years since I lost my job of 18. I weighed the pros and cons of my situation and decided to take this route for now until I can get myself in a better position for a divorce. The funny thing is now that she is used to the idea of me just being a deadbeat more or less she has never treated me better. XXs really are messed up in the head.
Mark, here is a hint for getting yourself some extra $ If she isn't too bright fill out a new W4 for her and over withhold. Mine fell for that hook line and sinker after I told her trump raised taxes on all the working people. Then when Biden got in I told her taxes were raised again to pay for all the money Trump stole when he left office. When I get the refund I look at it as my annual bonus for putting up with her.
All shes good for is working? What? Did she not give birth to your children? My God the audacity. Your wife deserves so much better.
@@angelicaangel2624 , so she popped out a couple kids and that gives her a right to be a miserable bitch for 20 years.!?!?
@@angelicaangel2624 So many of you ladies act like that is some ultimate trump card. Sure it’s a big thing but it’s not like she didn’t want the kids, and your bodies are literally built to bear children.
Just grab your popcorn and watch the circus, boys. Dating is dead.
Yep. It's now right up there with Dinosaurs and ice boxes.
Get your passports bros.
Its great to be treated like trash when I'm a great guy
@@tonydiesel3444 There are people out there who will value you. It's just not the wahmens right now.
@@tonydiesel3444 Yeah it is. For years I was the clean cut John Cena like alpha, who didn't put up with wah-men's schidt and wanted to find a wife, but since I didn't go to jail, use drugs, beat women, or have kids with other women, I was essentially invisible and undesirable to most girls.
They want to get married, but they don’t want to be wives.
They want to have kids, but they don’t want to be mothers.
At least 51% truth, which is plenty good enough, today.
Let them pass on into history. Good riddance to bad company, let this be a lesson for future societies to learn from.
They want to be independent, but they don't put in the work.
Girls aren’t impressed with $100K because it’s only $40K alimony 😂
In all seriousness that might be it
Dang. That is actually a good conclusion. It's absolute wickedness, but logical, nonetheless.
Burned out at 35. Someone should have told me High School was my only chance at real success, lol.
Yeah that would’ve been good but honestly even In high school it’s small pickings when I was there
@@reanschwarzer2187 Yes you’re right. It would’ve been a miracle.
The advice I grew up with was "don't worry about dating. Focus on your education and career, the women will come later." What a load of BS that was.
@@tusk1375 Old school mentality, men use to have until their late 30s to get financially established before a wedding. Now it’s completely reversed. You have to have everything planned and in place before 25 years old now. Women can now hold off until their early 40s before getting married to a 20 something.
Get your passport bro.
I left 'merica 13 years ago, PassportDude / Expat / DigitalNomad / Retired / MGTOW - Never Wed, Never Bred, Never Will. Not my Monkeys, Not my Circus.
If the world ain't burning, I'm right behind you.
Could I email you. I'm 13 years your junior and could use your expertise
@@rppope1006 study your target country - plus up on their local language, learn their cultural differences. Secure a remote work gig. Sell all your domestic shiat. Get your passport, Get on a plane. *ALL I GOT*
Monk Mode is the best way to go. After 40 years old sex doesn't mean that much.
100 percent agreed
@@letshaveit11 yeah, for me it was after 35
When I reached 30 I felt freed from chains
Monk at 45. Slow learner.
Wow ..... I was a horndog until my early 60's. Now I couldn't give a crap about sex one way or another.
I'm actually kinda jealous. I could have done a lot more with my life if I hadn't spent so much time trying to get laid.
Don't waste a time being a good guy. State your intentions loud and clear, your time is valuable.
Used to be a glance or maybe a wink in a dimly lit bar. Now you yell across a crowded room, “I wanna stick in your butt.”
@@nickbeaucage4711 lmao
i tell ladies i wanna get laid thats it
@@JJ-vp3bd That's my strategy as well. If she wants it she'll find an excuse to sleep with you, if she doesn't nothing you say will be enough. So being upfront in that sense is the only solution if you don't wanna waste a massive amount of time
Hey Halpert…still queer?
😂
I’m 56 and divorced. I’m so glad all of that is in my rear view mirror.
The best *Endorsement* for marriage ? NOT a SINGLE guy I know that is married is Happy, nor would they recommend it to a free guy. That is the brand that marriage actually needs. Millions Served - None Happy in sight.
I'm 68, we split aged 57. Best move I've made but should have kicked her out when I was 39 instead of struggling on with a bipolar wife who messed up our lives and ruined so many friendships.
Never again despite having women chasing me......I can just smell trouble and don't want it.
I’m 61 and fortunately found a woman that’s not off her rocker. First, current, last and only wife I’ll ever have. She actually asked me what I’d do if I were single again. “I’m on the first thing smokin’ to Bangkok. Other than a visit at Christmas time, I will not be back…”
You're getting there, Aaron, someday you're gonna get to the actual raw truth: these women hate our guts with a passion. It's not grim or whatever, it is OBVIOUS.
It's also time for MEN to admit that we don't really like them all that much. (And yes, we're the ones who are at that level, at the level of "not liking them that much"; them, they "hate our guts with a passion"). We don't like women all that much, we just like sex too much.
Give the man some credit he's given us amazing Red Pill content from a Psychological Perspective which is desperately needed. All Red Pill journeys are different he is on the path.
Yeah I’ve always thought he was too light on the interactions between men and women. He says they are indifferent to men. I personally think they hate men.
I'm in my 40s and do not really talk to them at all by choice. At my age, there is no reason to talk with them unless they are at least 10+ years younger.
It does start looking like this. They seem to hate that they, evolutionally speaking, need men to survive. It's wired in, and they haaaaaaaate it. And now it seems that they are finally able to live out their revenge, metaphysically speaking. Like all the previous female generations live out their hatred through the current generations. Or something, idk.
@Obsidian More like the black pill.
I’m 29 and and single every guy I’m friends with who are married are all complaining on Facebook all the time about their marriage. Like I got laughed at for being single but they don’t know I can buy a Ferrari cash 💰
Mostly buy gold, video games 🎮 luxury watches and cats 🐈
Everyone says I look 18 and how do I stay in good shape ! Being free and single is how 😊
What are you guys doing for work?
@@kitsuneigo government
Good for you ....keep bible open your going to need it at the next great crash coming super soon!!!!
1. The better you make yourself - the more demanding you're going to be as to what 'you want'.
It's basically 'pricing one's self out of the market' - as most chicks passed 25 are destroyed.
2. You have to rewire yourself to not want relationships. You have to see the landscape as, 'a bunch of hookers who don't charge' - for that's what it is.
If this guy was just hunting for new pieces, he could find them everywhere.
Adapt, gentlemen.
The worst case scenario - he finds a chick he likes, who's at a place where she's looking to settle down.
That's what he thinks he wants - and that would destroy him, should he find it.
We're men. We have to adapt.
Once we had a taste of "Rotten Meat", we either throw it out, live with it, or cut it apart. But there's no saving if it's all rotten
I'm in a similar situation - 59 years old, good BMI, active, very healthy and fit. Since the vast majority of women in my age group are not healthy or fit (not to mention alcohol dependency, feminism, bonkers) the chances of me finding what I would regard as a decent woman are slim at best so I simply won't bother - I'd rather spend my time doing stuff I enjoy which I know gives me a genuine return.
@@edenbreckhouse I'm Gen X, but I've dated women from your generation before - and they're highly 'relationship oriented'.
They have no concept of 'friends with benefits'.
But being you're in shape, you could easily pull Gen X women, and at least have a good time without a serious commitment to them.
They don't have to be perfect.
As long as there is something about them that turns you on enough to fool around, might as well have some fun.
Like money, you can't take your johnson with you when you go.
If they start acting like they're taking it too serious, break it off and find a new one; before it gets to a level where they become a pain.
It's a fun system. You just have to rewire yourself away from 'the one' programming.
Get your passports bros.
"we don't need men" is just the polite/cowardly way of women saying they want nothing to do with men
I’ve been saying that for a while. What it really means is “we never liked you and now we don’t need you so we are free”
Get your passport bro.
They're free to do anything, yet they choose to always sell themselves to the highest bidder.
It's true. Women were forced into marriage by the man made religions. Now they realized all men will lie to them to breed them and in America they overturned Roe. There are entire generations of girls growing up that loathe men. And it's your own faults. Even in the buy bull it says "I will MAKE your mind for your husband" through bs government breeding mandates and an all male God that says serve men. We're leaving you to the men. Enjoy being with one another :)
"Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money."
-Good Charlotte
The older I get the more that album make sense
And when you finally heal, you will realize they had nothing to offer you from day one. Just lies and bullshit.
It was you who had everything they wanted
I had a good career but my wife developed bipolar disorder. After 6 years of a nightmare with her I gave up my finance career (high paying but extremely stressful), it was impossible to juggle her and my job. I emigrated to rural France with her to try and care for her, selling up in the UK. Then the nightmare resurfaced after a couple of years grace so I had to divorce to protect myself against more destruction.
Looking back giving up my job in 2003, aged 48, was the first step. Separating in 2012 and divorcing her in 2014 made a massive improvement. Like a huge weight off me.
I'm not rich but I don't need to work. I enjoy France, the countryside, fishing, riding my motorbike, camping trips.
I've had a number of women after me but I'm not interested. I don't need a parasite, the nonsense and drama.
Get a vasectomy to not make a mistake after all you've been through, buddy. It's easy.
Wht is criminal is tht i wasn't forced to listen to thisman 10 years ago.
x2
The menu is an excellent read. Thank you for writing that. RIP Fred
Outuooo
Excuse me, so you have a copy of the book?
@@bekaakhmetov6112 I got the audiobook. You know niggas don't read.
Fred shouldn't have had to go. I never knew him, but I felt the pain when I heard about it because I had been there, too.
The Philippines are looking better and better everyday...
YES!! I'm married to a younger Filipina. Yeah, she's still female, but the difference between her and bitchy, fat American women is like night and day.
Incel
SEAmaxxing is a cope.
If you wanna get murdered maybe.
You're spouting gibberish. It's smart to leave the country. Nobody should need to cope, just leave.
My idea is this: Being the emotional pillow and shoulder to cry on for many years I got enough testimonies to have come to the conclusion that "work on yourself" doesn't work. Girls telling me they were in toxic relationships with guys that were criminal, sex offenders, even one time a girl asked me if she should dump her BF that was so fat his cock was unreachable and he didn't give a fuck about pleasing her either. Each time I was just baffled that girls fell for these dudes. Clearly they've didn't worked on themselves or if someone who's got his shit together and is healthy still got to work on themselves to be able to compete with the absolute worst what does that make them? Seriously, it doesn't make sense.
I think all this comes from a relationship pattern that people got from childhood, pleasing the narcissistic mother. A narcissistic mother will raise their kids to believe that they have to meet a certain condition in order to be loved which cannot be met. A narcissist can never be satisfied and will resent you and try to downplay everything you do if you do something that's actually noteworthy because they're super insecure and need to bring you down to their level to feel in control.
So it's kinda just chasing the rainbow! How much will you need to have in order to be enough? It'll never be enough! You're being told to just work and work and work so girls will take you seriously, meanwhile, girls pick absolute trashbags. So be rational about it. Are these shitbag guys enough and you yet have to work your ass up to be at least as good as the worst or you're actually more than enough and you can actually chill now?
You're in a hamster wheel chasing a gif of a girl running away from you while your environment tells you to just run faster. If you keep doing this long enough you're gonna snap.
It really does drive you made doesn't it? This is why you need to disconnect from the world and build yourself back up, independent of women. The irony of it all is that you will probably end up attracting more women since they will wonder why "this guy is ignorning me and not paying attention to me?". I've noticed this to - great women literally with trashbag men - and not JUST men who have an "edge" who are trashbags (the bad boy thing is understandable), but men who literally belie all dating advice with women. Men who are overweight, no jobs, low confidence/low social skills. I kind of have this theory that women see men as "archetypes". If you fit into a certain archetype then you will have some success with a certain women. In case it would be the "Messy life and I just don't give a crap about anything" archetype. and the achetype has to be polarizing to some extent. the bad boy. the investment banker hot shot. the drug addict. the hipster. however, most men on a self improvement journey don't really have a polarizing archetype. there is nothing to latch on to. nothing to fix. nothing that is exciting on the surface. If you prioritizer your health, finances, career, you just seem like a normal dude who has his chit together. Ironically, the best way to appeal to women in some cases (with the men who seem to have nothing going for them and still get women) is to FULLY COMMIT to it - manifest it in all ways. literally, quit your job in a frenzy, never change your clothes or get new ones, do drugs so you always appear disheleved, and have absolutely no purpose. When you do this you will finanlly fit the archetype and will attract a certain type of women who will feel the need to fix you.
I've experimented with this in the real world, and it works. its messed up. women where I live say they hate the hunting/sporty/jersey/cap wearing kind of guy, but those are the types of men I always see with women. So one day, I threw on a football jersey, a basebally cap, and camo pants. went to a bar and shouted at the tv/game and lo and be hold women started talking to me. mind blowing.
@@psychosylocibin 100% a friend of mine always says "women are only complicated if you believe them" and it's true. Cannot tell how many instagram girls with: NO DMs, Taken, Message only on OF in their bio will just not respect their own rules and actually, trolling women has been somewhat a good strategy at getting their attention, a lot more than being nice or sending money and gifts.
Mental illness is the only thing that could possibly explain it. These women are irreparably broken.
My God this is SO DAMN TRUE. Comment of the damn year. All my friends keep telling me (the stereotypical nerdy introvert) is how bad I have to want it, how hard I have to work for it, how much better I have to be for it. REALLY, did Mr. Pumpanddump who had three kids with her out of wedlock amidst his wave of cheating, abuse, and meanness have to want it bad, work hard for it, and be better for it? I'm so tired of hearing that shit and it being sold to me as the "cure" while these other men did none of it and collected all the prizes, wore them out, and tossed them away like a dead battery. When I look at the world and how it seems to really work my bullshit meter bursts.
Great insight! Yeah, the childhood environment must create some kind of "attraction pattern" and the guy and girl both kind of somehow find each other...and they will continue to find themselves in those types of relationships over and over. Seeking something like this is motivated by some kind of deficit or hunger... and that feeling is a lot stronger than simply the attraction a girl would feel towards a decent guy.
I am leaving the west for good this summer. It's not just dating that is dead; the country as a whole is dying.
the western world is a huge state of decay.
Just send the asteroid. Extinct humanity like the dinosaurs.
Yeah my next move is likely going to be out of this country. I hate what the US has become.
I lived in Chile for 4 years. Getting women there was easy mode times 10, unlike here where it's the game is on impossible mode.
@@nealmccoy5727 they killed a guy after taking a pic.
If you don't get married by the time you are 25, it's over. Don't do it.
And then for no reason at all, Passport bros 😂
"Geomaxxing" is an enormous a COPE.
@Harrison Blackwood like spontaneous generation
It worked for me, best 3 year relationship of my life, then I came back to Murika to deal with my rental property. Dating has gotten wayyy worse in the 5 years I was down in South America.
Philippines did wonders for me. my wife is a sweet one.
2023 I’m officially dropped out of the dating market. This shit is totally not worth my time or headaches
Hard to find a woman who's not fat, single mom, or crazy. That eliminates probably 70%
@Ludakris I'll almost feel sorry for these women when they hit the wall. "What happened to all the men?"
Get your passports bros.
@@booneshow186390% lol
It seems smarter to only chase money and success, then use your money to straight up buy your "fun" with girls. You can then still help your community/ family, but not pursue any women in your circle unless they "beg".
I see this as the cheaper and more sane route. Women dont want relationships its weird. The corporation is there boyfriend.
@@JJ-vp3bd There's zero tangible consequence to them staying single and sleeping with the 1%. Jobs are all at a desk, contraceptives are easy, and physical protection can be outsourced to the state. No need for men at all.
@@JJ-vp3bd And the government is their daddy.
The ladies of the evening is the best ROI longterm wise
Incel
What's nuts about this is this decline has happened most rapidly in only 25 years (yes one could say post-1980). Moreseo, it has increased rapidly in the past 5. You can then extrapolate how quickly great civilizations could have collapsed in a time scale. Rome. Cahokia. Etc.
Major Reasons are pill and no fault divorce
Im same, late 30s, making 150k engineer, got 630k networth. I checked out. Its cheaper to go south america to get p sleeve, saves time and money.
At this point you have to have a whole circle of rich successful good looking friends group. Any very attractive woman you might want to date would likely want some approval from this group that you are an all right guy; another hurdle women don’t have to face.
I refuse to use social media and I’ve pretty much accepted the fact that no woman would want me based on that alone.
@@AsAugustSleeps If you're not on social media then to a woman you don't exist.
@AsAugustSleeps Same here. It's like becoming invisible to them. But I dispise social media, so it is worth the consequences.
Dating is doomed. This guy is the top 10% and still cannot get traction in dating .
Yeah dudes had 70 women I’m at 0 make 80k and fit and got decent hobbies only 26 and it’s rough. Thing I could work on in person game but cold approach and in person meeting is just a lot harder to do these days
@@reanschwarzer2187 Cold approach is not that hard. Get to know everyone who lives within 1 mile of you for starters. Hang in a crowd that has a handful of women you like and get to know them over time.
Pay upfront & call it a night.
@@bigneiltoo yeah hard part is I’m in a liberal hell hole due to work lots of very overweight women too.
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky well they date up get used and then have to take 3-4s or they cope to a point and go well ugly dude can’t get women so at least he won’t cheat not sure if that’s all but definitely seen it
Women will continue to bother @AaronClarey with complaints. And no, they will never officially say they don't want to be bothered. Why? Because the one thing they absolutely do need is your attention even if they're not interested.
I'm a 37 year old guy in a similar financial situation as this guy, plus a gym built physique....he aint lying. Just hold the line. Women don't save money. They will come begging for help in the next 3-5 year window, and that is when you will tell them to pound sand
They will simply vote to take your money from you.
Not this time, reserve currency status ends around 2027, hyperinflation or hyper depression. The women will be screwed.
Get your passport bro.
@@glstka5710 already got my passport. I see it, you see it, and i hope most men see it, that women in america are a lost cause.
That's a cope mindset.
Just live for the Lord Jesus Christ and turn your back to this evil world.
A 1% dude can't hack it.
Well, I guess I'm packing it in.
There’s lots of mid tier guys who get married but that’s because women don’t necessarily want top tier they want a beast of burden who will be their little slave.
I'm this guy, just 56. More net worth, but I just don't want to buy ANYTHING women have for sale. NOPE.
Get your passport bro. A trip to the Philippines might renew your hope.
My take is that this guy and a lot of other guys are in their very late 20s or 30s and all the decent normal well adjusted women have been taken off the market. It doesn't help also that a lot of women are jaded due to the rampant degeneracy in our time and the casual hook up culture which has left women disappointed with men who have promised commitment but only did so to get laid with them. This has happened enough times for them to seriously lose interest in men, and biologically the female s3x drive is 1/10 of that of men so it doesn't help either. The take away should be that guys should seriously pursue women in their early 20s and secure commitment ASAP instead of playing the field.
A lot of truth to that, if you go not get them by about 23 to 24 they are usually burned out, full of trauma and drama.
Men of any age should pursue women who are in their 20s
Bingo. All the decent normal well adjusted women are too young for this guy to date and thus he is left with no options.
@@InsaneOaf maybe you can date down like 10 years no problem so not sure I agree also unfortunately the younger women are getting damaged more often and more frequently every generation. You almost have to secure one in high school if you want to avoid the trauma
@@reanschwarzer2187 No, that's too large an age gap for decent normal well adjusted women. Think 5 years age gap at the absolute maximum preferably same age.
Since my divorce I've been able to pull maybe one chick a year, all on the apps because you can't approach women in public anymore. They've all been way bigger than they led on and mentally unstable. I've started lining things up to semi retire cabin in the woods style when I'm no longer on the hook for child support. That'll put me at ~45 when I can fully check out of society.
Get your passport bro.
V early on post 21-year marriage break up, I gave up on finding an equal. Now I’m just happy with a rotation. Unless, u are seeking kids then don’t bother with girlfriends of fiancées.
Saw a pretty girl with a muscle bound guy who was a fitness instructor and earned $30,000 a year was dumb as a stump had no potential but he was fun so she chose him maybe it's not that women don't like men they just don't like educated hard-working wealthy men with brains I saw another woman who I asked out and she said no and then later I saw him with some guy who looked like he was homeless they're just not selecting for quality men that's not what they want they want to play
blue pilled easily ruled man thats are to who most of woman attracted
That's just crazy talk. Women are hypergamous and are biologically driven to seek out a man with the most resources. They will "ho around" and walk away from a good man because they found themselves a higher value man.
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky basically in my country republic of georgia woman always screaming how our man are non progressive and uslees not liberal and so on.. and they merry german,turkish, iraq, pakistani mans and i always wondered i mean what paradox is that from christian country you are going and merry muslim guys and go in muslim country which is stricter or go to germany well i analysed and its very simple german,turkish,iraq,pakistani guys are very very hardworking and very easily manipulated by pussy and woman thats it.. magic behind it.. german guys are fed up with liberal german girls and divorce rapes so they think georgian woman are different lol poor guys..
Girls hook up have fun when young. Then the wall hits and they realize just being used. Then after they are used up settle on any guy willing to support them. Be careful guys.
My buddy had bedroom fun with over 20 women within a span of 6 weeks in Pensacola. He left and never looked back.
Watching the fall of the West is very much like watching a powerful motor with the oil slowly drained away.
It's running rough, and rougher; soon to sieze up.
I'm waiting for the part when the motor has stopped and most of the people who helped destroy the motor will be horrified the motor stopped. Despite their actions having contributed greatly to said stoppage.
As the last echos of the once mighty engine fade into eternity, just before the darkness comes for us all, will come the cries of the sheeple.
They will bleet that the engine stopped. They will bleet for it to just, start up again because they demand it. They will bleet against the very men who tried to warn of the inevitable consequences of their actions. Some few, some very few will bleet that they are sorry. They will swear they were wrong and will go back to the ways that made the engine work.
All this as the last echo fades into eternity.
Yes indeed, just before the darkness comes for us all, will come the cries of the sheeple.
And my contemptuous laughter.
Beautifully written.
These field reports sound accurate to me. It gives the lie to all of the self-improvement PUAs. I gave up several years ago.
Genetically beautifull facial structure you cant get with surgery.
You can train your body. You cant train your face.
A few things. Dont eat too much soft food. Breath less through your mouth. Weight also influences how your face looks.
Off course game works. It works best if you already have other things going for you.
Get your passport bro.
Trying to force myself to throw in the towel but I am very stubborn. In the back of my mind I know the odds are against me. Fighting this programing of wanting a family and kids is very hard for me to break.
Get your passport and a plane ticket to the Philippines.
Be careful what you wish for.
He has all these positive things going for him and HE'S STILL chasing after these ridiculous, entitled women! Some men just can't be saved.
He needs to get a passport and plane ticket to the Philippines.
I see the real problem is he's looking for a high earner as well. What he should be looking for is someone that wants to become an actual mother and stay home and take care of their kids. He makes enough to afford that lifestyle. I'd also suggest to look for women in their mid 20's that haven't been run through. If you can even find that unicorn virgin you'll be so much better off...even if you have to wait till the wedding night to enjoy your fruits. Those girls exist...but you may have to look around religious schools (etc)
The other suggestion I'd make is look for a girl that comes from a 2 parent home where the parents are still together (and mostly happy...no one is always happy all the time...that is just a flat out lie). A girl from that background will have pressure to remain in a marriage UNLESS there are serious problems. Marrying a girl from a broken home background is just setting yourself up for failure.
I'd also say...if you are young and a high potential guy don't look down on locking a girl down even when you are younger. You may never get a second chance at a real keeper.
I know what this guys problem is. He is safe and as exciting as an insurance contract. Women want drama. He should fake a risky business like the tinder swindler.
That's exactly it. What they say they want is opposite of how they act. Glad that is all behind me!
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky One time I told a girl she wouldn't be interested in me because I was an a**hole. She wouldn't leave me alone. She told me on three seperate occasions I needed to ask her out. They are hooked on the drama for sure.
@@ChrisJohnson-yw2ky Those are great! The girl I said that too was a bit manic on top of drinking Red Bulls like it was going out of style.
Get your passports bros.
He should sleep with their friends, cousins and sisters.
American women's demands are so high that they might as well date angels
They would start dating angels, and then want a seraphim, when they have a nice mercurial who loves them unconditionally. And who wants a cherubim? Uh… ew!
Get your passport bro.
Good to hear i'm not the only one who sees dating a laborious, exhausting pain in the ass
Get your passport bro.
5:40 last rock turners
The reason he comes to the table and she says “no not this one” is due to the fact of women having too many options. The best of the best they will find a problem with.
The squeeze ain't worth the juice anymore.
Aaron, why don't you ever mention the specific lucrative career fields of your case studies? I respect how you keep your writers anonymous, but that alone wouldn't be an identifier.
Why do you want to pry into people's lives?
It's Easy. Trades - low barrier to entry, high independence, potentialy for charging a ton of money later in life (per hour). STEM/Engineering - spend 15 years industry - you can either an engineer or bridge into consulting, where you can charge 300+ per hour in your late thirties. Even healthcare - nurses make a ton
I had kids with the wrong one but I’m glad they’re here. That being said if i didn’t do that, I don’t see much a change to make kids with the right one. Getting older I do not want an older woman or one with kids. I’ll just stay close to my kids when they are adults and help with their kids then go off in the sunset when it’s my time to go.
I’m married. All good. But we went out this weekend. Wow. Modern women are horrible. I feel for ya guys.
12:25 - to paraphrase Cappy’s “favorite”(sarcasm) rock group, The Doors, the music is over, turn off the lights.
Me and my best (4) best friends epitomize this trend. We are all mid/late 30's, high 6-figure incomes, 6' and up tall, in shape, business owners and engineers. I married a girl almost 10 years younger than me from eastern europe, another married a girl from india, another married a girl from china. Another friend is the heir of a massive business fortune and, after his fiance ran off with a drug dealer decided to travel SE asia full time and plays for the other team.
I have yet to see a successful union with a western woman. It is a waste of time. The upside is that it's a huge world, and with sky high immigration you don't even need to leave the country to meet women from other cultures. Boycott Western women because they will run your lives. Long catfood stocks lol.
Congrats, John Doe!
14:37 YES YES YES!!! Get your passport and a plane ticket to the Philippines!!! I've heard that Thailand is also good but there seems to be more of a party vibe there rather than settle down with a good housewife and mommy type. Also English is the 2nd national language (after Tagalog) and is taught in the schools here (I moved from So. Calif to the Philippines) so there is very little language barrier. But please be a quality husband type, not a player. These girls are so sweet and deserve good husbands. And, if Miss Universe contest REALLY knew beauty the Philippines would win EVERY year. I found my sweet wife here, so come on in the water's fine.
II've definitely considered going on vacation to the Philippines and checking things out. I've heard the women there are more traditional and kind. Thanks for the information. Any part of the country you'd recommend to visit?
@@addison9889 I live in Cebu but everywhere I've traveled is tropical paradise. Palawan is a place known for being more remote and "get away from it all" and the beauty of nature. If you want a cooler climate Bagio is up in the mountains of Luzon. Every where I've visited the people are the sweetest, friendliest people I've ever met. Type Philippine Tourism in the RUclips search engine and you will find videos that will keep you in stunned rapture at the beauty for hours.
@@addison9889 Here is one of many reasons for the Philippines ruclips.net/video/3v5jPWG6B4w/видео.html
I cut off my friends and girls that friend zoned me - now when they try to talk to me I say “Do I know you?” 😂
I’m 30 and life is only getting better
I'm 53 divorced and work as a power linesman in Australia , I own my own place on 1.5 acres with a 4bed 2 bath house which I now own outright , earn over $120k aud .
Given up on dating as women today are just so damaged , selfish and downright nasty bitches .
I now prefer to sit ony back porch with my dog and a good whiskey , If I feel the urge then I know a great place that does an awesome massage and " extras " that takes care of things ...
I don't understand why guys even give a shit anymore about finding a "partner". The only partner you need is for business.
Do yourself a favor and get out. financially, and numerically it makes the most sense. Men being logical still try to come up with the reason why. or maybe if I just x or y.. Instead of just accepting it is what it is and not blaming yourself for it (see the menu). You gotta focus life on you and not on if you pull the right levers a fairytale will occur. The fairytale was never there.
all i can say is just 'wow:.
Girls won't say that. That would make at least some useful simps leave their friendzones.
Fact is, women have made dating an absolute chore
Add some dark triad traits to your psychology. If you are that good looking and make that much money, thats the missing piece for you. Women love them some dark triad traits.
We, men, are just things for them to take from-as far as I can tell.
16:20 - isn't going to happen, because simps can stop simping, but women cannot suppress their need for validation.
What's happen is as amazing as is it deeply horrific.
Get your passport bro.
16:16 "Just tell guys, make it official, 'We're not that interested.'"
Dude, no, they are plenty interested. Boys are a prime source of Attention, regardless of whether tha girlsa keep 'em around long-term.
all these girls chasing the 5% of 6 plus foot tall, $200,000 income Etc. Then when 30 and used up they say I hate men.
6:56 - "you asked for it"
Just head overseas, especially to SE Asia. Plenty of fit, feminine, friendly, submissive, cooperative women there very keen to start a family and take care of their man. You won't regret the trip and you'll see what the rest of the world has to offer. And it's nothing like the disaster the west is now.
In my experience, this is absolutely true.
COPE. Also, as a foreigner, you will only get the dregs, if you even get anything at all.
Found my sweet wife in the Philippines.
Fellas throw the towel for committing but still go smash girls. U lose nothing ask them out and going on a few dates just lose some time and energy.
You know they can't just say that they don't ant men. They still want the attention.
I'm just going to the Philippines. There are still some actual women there.
I’m from the uk so things are a little different, but the piece that caught my ear was, women voted in part? Now it takes two wages to bring up a family not one, I would love to know more on this, can any one point me in the right direction I want absorb this talking in my brain?
@@stuartjohnston4353 oh my days they have shot them selfs in the foot trying be on top, epic fail
Butt cappy where have all the good men gone 😂
They have gone to the Philippines to find good women.
_____ is unstoppable
Hypergamy?
I don't mind being a good guy. I'd make a lousy chick.
Comment of the day! 👏
the answer is clear. just go do your own thing. They will rage, Women will scream. You will have a gin and tonic in peace. YOU will go to bed effetive and she won't "want to talk" after 11 hours of work - for you.
Man, we all love women.....but ask yourself...are these REALLY women anymore? Or just complaint factories you dump money into and yell at you or threaten to call the "authorities" because you mowed the lawn?
Tous les hommes sont dans le meme chemin
I to wish that women would be honest and just say they're not interested in men and maybe even say they hate me. I think most guys would listen. Of course you always have for extreme elements who won't listen no matter what. But here's the thing. As soon as that happened and then started ignoring women all together, the women would start bitching about why aren't men chasing them anymore? Why aren't men helping anymore? Where have all the good men gone?
Steve, women don't want you and that's okay.
Why do care if they complain since their not talking to you they are talking to the men they find attractive.
@@stud6414 I do care because these women get into their 40s and 50s and complain that all men are pigs. They expect the men that they ignored all the good men in their prime. But get upset when the ones they ignored make something of themselves and want nothing to do with these women now that they're used up. Then if they are lucky and find a Beta sucker, they treat him like crap.
i am in love with a woman. She's crazy. Wearing a mask in the house for a sniffle. Makes "the six figures"
I live in my RV in a very remote place. i miss her. Not her crazy, not her abusive kid. Not their nonsense.
I love her, don't miss the crazy.
Maybe, just maybe - he might be seen as a bit boring by women. Attraction is rational, if he doesn’t ‘spark’ their emotions, or comes across a bit needy - they may never perceive him as a potential lover. Otherwise, who knows!
You have to have a 7 or above face to date nowadays. None of that other shit matters.
8 i would say
I did the same being broke, short, ugly and fat. Saves you a lot of money, I am now only broke-adjacent.
Get your passport bro.
What?? That guy spent $175 a month, *to meet* w0men?! How / on *what?* Let me guess: 1) eHarmony, 2) Match, 3) Plenty of Fish (definitely), 4) Tinder, 5) Bumble, 6) Hinge, 7) whatever *else* is out there..
Don't not throws in the towels! Stays in the marriages and makes the wifes happy! Happy wifes happy lifes! Is not a lies, its reals, wifes loves you more than there divorce lawyers!
Upper Midwest and he Cappy hates the city? Sounds like Madison to me.
Yep he's doing online bullshit
Lmao as cynical as the book of numbers was it wasn’t cynical enough!
Women don’t like men guys. But like to a weird creepy level that doesn’t even rationally make sense.
What I mean by that is that guys are objectively more interesting, fun, friendly, and of course useful.
Like I’d probably hang out with a gay dude more enthusiastically than a woman would hang out with a straight dude.
Women agree and find gay dudes mentally more stimulating too. Gay dudes pity women that they have such sub par hetero glands only to date. They all tell us how men only use us and think of us as objects. They tell us what is said behind closed doors when only men are talking. Gay men think hetero men are the lowest creation on the planet.
Man it so bizarre that everything in this world is on us
even simple thing like dignity and respect
We need to make all the hard work to make something working
im not really wanna think what is gonna be next
Who will take this mess, who is gonna take the lead
and make it better
its just pointless, we cant change our nature to something sustainable without really hard work like fanatic religion
Life is nutz
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Also a lot of things a redpill guy might say on a date is considered a red flag by lot of women. I recommend Alpha Male Strategies video - signs you are too red pill.
Does he have game and is he approaching in real time?
Read peters zehian latest book he predicts what will happen next indirectly from dating as we deglobalize
He's WEF shill. Paid to tell the Western nations we plan to flood your countries with people from "the global south" and the excuses are climate change and low birth rate. Zehian is globalist and all he cares about is growing gdp and fighting wars for David.
I guess I'm not understanding dude's issue. I have a *very* similar overall profile to him (different career field but otherwise near identical), and while I would've preferred to settle down earlier I wasn't gonna force it. Instead, I had a damned good time not taking things too seriously, as even ridiculous people are interesting for a little while. Maybe I just don't understand the frustration since I was always a fan of the game and juggling 'em, etc. Guess I just don't get the quitting part. Live life and interact with those ya come across. If I hadn't met the 13-years-younger wife, I'd still be out having a dandy time. Shrug.
When did you get married?
@@bonnevillebagger9147 Dec 2019, right before Rona basically.
If you want a companion, go to southeast Asia. Women there haven't gone insane, at least not yet.
Philippines was my choice. Found a sweet wife here (not there because I'm not going back to the U.S., Philippines is HOME for me now), get your passport and plane ticket for the good life.
@@glstka5710 I'd do that myself, but honestly... I lived in china for 7 years, and unless the girls on the dating sites are just the low hanging fruit... I'm not seeing anything I'd find physically attractive, plus 90% of the girls I speak to seem to have low interest or scamming.
did you meet your wife in person or on a app?
@@ministryofwrath I met my wife in person. Everything I've seen indicates that dating apps are just a waste of time. maybe the most basic introduction but you really need to opperate in real life.
@@glstka5710 did you get know her slowly, or just walk up Introduce yourself and ask her out or exchange contact information?
@@ministryofwrath Her mom was a cleaning lady I hired 3 times a week. She kept bringing her daughters along to help until I promoted head house keeper to mommy-in-law.
Get a Ukrainian mail order bride
There's a war going on there - not a safe move
Don't bring a foreign girl to the U.S., the feminazis will ruin them. Try moving to the Philippines.
He wants a woman who financially supports herself? Eh nope. Men are supposed to provide, he needs to buy a skirt and get a boyfriend.
Equality. Women say they don't need a man and can make their own money, so we will expect that. You go girl!
Naw. You see the economy states otherwise. Women voted blue for so long this country can’t recover from it. Women gotta work, it’s what they wanted. Yay for equality!!! I won’t even pay for a woman’s drink. Free and convenient kitty or hard pass. And get mad buddy cause I get all the time.
A woman should only work as long as he is okay with her never having sex with him or cooking/cleaning etc. If a man doesn't provide then biologically he's useless.
Yep women marry to divorce grape to kingdom come and win cash and prizes. Enjoy the cats 🐈⬛
Men are "supposed" to provide?
Why would we bother?
a cute little crack har stops by my rural place sometimes when shes starving . im 64 , company is rare , i enjoy a little interaction with her . a couple of weeks ago as she was scarfing down her 4 th chilidog she asked me " how in the hell am i single ? " .
( pretty badassed chilidogs ) . i told her , " well the women nowadays are incredibly picky . guess what ? SO AM I " .
she seemed to understand that im not in a groveling position . im not coming down to some stupid splittail's level . i have a rural shack -- some of them shits are living in their nonrunning car with 5 large dogs .
How old is she?
@@SuperPenguin5495 shes probably 37 ish . unfortunately shes gonna get a hold of some of that fent - meth and die and thats sad .
@@searcymasonry thanks for the reply, dealt with a similar situation w/ a chic on crak - I agree. It's a sad cycle to observe in young women