Why? Sounds like she's prying into family business that she shouldn't be apart of. If I was in an argument with my family and my significant other chimed in. Id break up with them on the spot. No way you gonna tell family how to behave
@@BOT_JERRY lol exactly. I have a similar comment and then somebody said that I should appreciate this gesture otherwise I don't deserve her 😆 like bruh whatever it is he's your father, what's between you and him stays between you and him
She said it right and respectfully. He needed that. These are the types of parents who makes their children hate themselves for life thinking they are not enough. Josh needed that praise,its enough to keep him strong
If you notice the mum, standing behind the dad, looks very pleased that the dad is being put in his place for not valuing their son. Looks very much like the dad has turned the other son into the "golden child" and her date is the "scapegoat child". Sometimes it be doesn't matter how much the mum tries to intervene the dad refuses to change until he someone else calls him out. This may not forever change things instantly but the fact she did it in public might actually cause him to think.
@trenae77 How so? What did it enhance or emphasize that couldn't have been done without dropping "shitless" and an f-bomb over a 15-second span? If I were her date, I would have been appreciative but embarrassed. I'm guessing she's not officially a love interest at this point, but that doesn't help much for me.
@@Genariidoesn't need to emphasize anything, sometimes swearing just makes more of an impression. Either way, she's a grown ass woman and can drop the fuck bombs if she wants to 😂
My daughter-in-laws are both like this. And, it makes me so very happy my sons have such fearless wives who love them w/all their hearts & vice-a-versa. ❤❤
My ex-mother in law still loves me like this. 1. I was awesome to her son, 2. I made her a grandma, 3. Even after he and I broke up, I’ve continued to be a patient, graceful, & great ex-wife and wonderful mom to two beautiful and successful young ladies. She thinks her son was a fool to lose me, and so do I. 😉😂
I’ve defended my husband like this in the passed to his mother. His dad has never said he’s proud of him. He dad was a nobody who did nothing for his family, and my husband works so hard to provide for him, his dad’s jealous.
Yes! Jealousy of your kids is wild but I have a mom like that and it's so sad to see her grow old and still be immature. She used to tell me that I should aspire to be like her. One day I answered her that if that's the case that I never reached my potential, what does that say about your parenting? I told her as a parent, I am to be the floor to my kids. Never ever heard that from here and one day recently heard the floor part repeated to my sibling or kids😂😂😂😂😂 🤦🏾♀️
Starting at around the age of 13, I had to deal with little digs from my mom. It wasn't until I was a mom myself that I realized she was jealous. I only ever got backhanded compliments from her. She has put me through so much emotion turmoil. When she came to visit us for a few months, she tried causing issues between my husband and I, between me and my children, and would even bad mouth me to my friends. I let her walk all over me. Yes, I would stand up for myself, but she was my mom, so honor thy father and mother. One day, I vented to our pastor's wife and told her that it was hard to deal with her and honor her. I literally felt a weight lift when my pastor's wife said honoring your father and mother doesn't mean allowing them to walk all over you or take advantage of you. I went home and told her we were booking her flight home. I see mother and daughter relationships that I wish I had with mine, but I know that will never be. Sending her home and letting her go was the best decision I never made. I quit being the person who initiated the calls and visits, and ever since, we have very little communication. There are a few texts here and there, but with her, I'm out of sight, so I'm out of mind. She would only call when she needed money. Of course, the calls stopped as soon as I let her know that we would no longer be sending her money. No contact is better for us. However, I do miss the mom I thought I had when I was a child.
My dad took monry gro. Mr my whole life never uttering a single good word about me. Took mr 30 years to break out of debts and loans that i took to support him. And now he talks shit about me all the time if i give money to my mother or little brother saying "the son and his money sre for the father" What's more fked up about it is that he used most of the money i supported him with my whole life to buy 2 apartments which he gave to my sister and older brother, yhe family project was suppoded to be paid for by everyone but only 2 of us paid in it and 3 others watched and hid their monry but those teo especislly, both never gave him a penny and both came fightinh tooth and nail to take their "part" of the family project that they never been a part of. I can tell you this, nothing hurts a man more such a father, he literally stole my money, gave it to a brother who has money and my father most repeated line is " why can't you support your brother like i do" It is mindblowing. I did not realize modt of my life that He saw me as a tool to help my other brother have a above average life. So i am glad i cut him off in many ways and i learned i should fight to take my 15 years of investment back. A father who chooses one son over the other and uses the other is the worst kind of father.
At this very moment ? No. It's his brother's wedding and it would be very bad taste to use someone else's big day to do your own big gesture. He's probably thinking about putting a ring on it at this very moment though. And we can safely assume he does soon after the end of the movie.
My mother used to be like the father in this film: never enough for her even though I was the successful one with a professional career, a master, living abroad and speaking 4 languages… one day it dawned on me that I will be never enough for her and started a long period of suffering /sadness/ emotional pain that led me to seek help… took many years to heal this and now I am at peace with my life ❤
Wow...four languages you are amazing. In my country you grow up with three languages the international language the local national language and then your vernacular....and you will find most people are fluent in two and can only hear one. That means it is not that you were never enough you were so exemplary that she compared herself with you probably argued that you had more resources than she ever did but the brutal truth is that she was jealous of you in fact envious .It happens some parents let the devil creep in their hearts that they are even jealous of the beauty of their children when they are supposed to be happy. You deserve joy, peace and lots of love.. Treat yourself give yourself Me time celebrate yourself and keep thanking God for all he has done for you then ask God to give you the grace to forgive her and move forward without any burden .. because that was her issue and she has no idea how a child feels when the parent can't be happy for them. Glad you are at peace ❤❤❤
You can see the look on his face when She is talking him up. You just see the look on his face. It's the look of yeah I just madly fell in love with you, He felt proud for His girlfriend because she stood up for him. That meant more to him than his father could ever do for him
And this is why adult children have issues on so many levels. Some never recover and would forever spend their life seeking that parent validation and others
The fact that parents can't see the potential in their own children and/or make them compete with each other tells me everything I need to know about their parenting and them as a person
You can help your child build a foundation for their lives, but it's their actions and decisions that determines their future. You can want your child to do their best with what you've given them, and you can still offer them advice and guidance, but you should support them on the path THEY choose.
I’m like this with my husband. After 6 children. Grandchildren. I will battle fearlessly to show what an amazing man he is. Even when he doesn’t believe it. I do.
As a child of two parents who glorified Medical careers over anything else, who's today leading a very sad life. I admire this man for standing up to his father and dropping out of med-school to follow his dream.
As I watch this clip his brother already is acting like he's better than his own brother but his co-worker actually put he's father in his place was awesome.💯
I don’t think the brother cares about him very much at all because he’s marrying his ex-girlfriend so he literally is dating his brothers ex-girlfriend and then got married to her and feels no shame
Any woman who says a man makes her better by competing with him is revealing a well guarded secret women hold to their heart for centuries. She is a keeper. She just opened the door for him to fly and become truly great because any man who has a great woman behind him, even in a simple position is the greatest.
Dad or any parent who made a choice not to see or appreciate their own kid means something. Either favoritism card among his kids? Or his other kids isolating the parents over the well being of the not favorite kids? It's part of life. It's a reality that anyone should accept. Just run far away. Create your own home and own clan. Never return ever. Live with inner peace in that way. Save yourself from drama, violence and love yourself.
@@prissylovejoy702 Forgot to add the important note. Or do those tips after you have tried for 12 years seeking belongingness? Self love is as equally important in giving love to others. Protect oneself. Do not give that responsibility to others but yourself.
Well said. Took me 32 years to realize that it’s not me, it’s them who have the problem(s). Now I live a mostly happy life with a wonderful wife and couldn’t care less what the persons who should have been my parents think about me or my decisions. And yes. Just mostly, because even after getting rid of those bonds, those 32 years left me traumatized and caused several mental health problems I still have to work on. Never ever let anybody not even your nearest relatives tell you that your not worthy, a shame or not good enough. If you fail, it’s mostly their fault because they haven’t showed you how to be successful, they weren’t supportive or they just haven’t been present.
" I thought you had to be ambitious to be domineering!" Thank you for throwing that in the script. Because of the truth of this statement, my last ten years being homeless is completely justified!
It's honestly a praise to the mother as well at the same time. She bore the son her own husband is putting down. Mother did good in what she raised. ✨️
This is the kind of woman one thing . Someone who stands out to talk about the best of her man despite the negativity surrounding him . This kind of woman brings the very best a man could ever be in life .
This is a typical Nigerian dad! Maybe not that bad but definitely! No matter how successful one is, if you don’t have multiple university degrees and certifications, you will still be given a side eye and the fact you don’t have degrees will be mentioned at any given opportunity!
Maybe not degree but in lot of other ways in Indian society too. Does the fact about how parent's son/daughter success help you maintain stature in parents close circle plays a part?
I wish there were more fathers in the world that reallt do care for their sons and love them for who they are and what they are or do. Less problems for the world to care and to take care of, and rhis means less men in the world going crazy and doing bad things simoly because their fathers treat them bad and or dont appreciate what they done.
It’s not about treating the pt, hasn’t been for decades It’s about treating the illness or injury- that high the practitioner gets The pt is an aside “The surgery was a success!” oh yes, the pt did die; oh well
If you have a parent, like this fool, remember that they aren't original. They mimic behaviour of who taught them to be like this. BE original, and you've ALREADY won!
Parents can either make or break relationships w their childreno matter whathe age... Ur child istill ur child, no matter how old he/she is... Accepted for who they r❤
My husband is like my kid, sister & mom which is I can give them crap but I better not hear anyone else do it. My husband’s grandmother use to do this a lot and try to tell every faults & mistakes of his. I already knew cause he was very upfront so I would cut her off. The last time she stood outside the bathroom lying about her paying everything. I walked out of the bathroom with the bank info pulled up(we were engaged & combined) and ask her then who mortgage was drafted out this day & this bill on this day. She was shocked and started sputtering when I started to call him to have a group conversation.
My mom used to do this between me and my sister, I caught her one day trying to do it to my sister while I was in the room and she didn't know it. The instant she tried to say your brother would never I stepped in and immediately stopped her and explained that my sister and I were two different people and two different genders and that our choices with vary greatly and she should never compare us.
Naturally when this happened I was in my mid-20s and my sister was still in her mid-teens. my voice carried a lot more weight than it would have when I was younger.
my friend's mother is exactly the same...she has the habit of comparing both her son and daughter to one another...would have a habit of calling her daughter useless because she isn't as hardworking as her brother..(and also because she is a girl💀) and everytime I would speak up for my friend.. I would get shut down immediately and be considered a bad influence...she even told her daughter to stop being friends with me because I'm turning her against her brother..(the irony).. also the brother doesn't defend his sister..he finds it entertaining..parents are supposed to love their children equally regarding the differences but it seems some love to start rivalry and hatred within the siblings...not all parents deserve their children-
My father never said anything good about me, to me, until I was in my late 40's and met my second husband. The second time was when I gave him 2 grandsons through adoption. He died when I was 61, and only said 2 nice things to me my whole life. And he wondered why I never visited?
My mother is just like the father in this movie. My mother is a neurosurgeon, my brother is an Attorney in New York. I'm just a retired guy from the military who served 21 years. I enlisted when I was 17. Because of her it's taken me a long time to be proud of my service. I deployed 7 times. Iraq and Afghanistan and some time In Africa as well. My wife who's also a surgeon,ripped into my mother when I retired. She told her " he's the smartest out of all of us, he's retired at 38 and actually can be there for his kids when they need him." It was a sereal moment for me. It validated me as a man and husband. My mother and brother both were speechless.
I know it's a show,was there at least this Guy has her,I had to finally STAND @35 God bless the dead I'm STILL Standing at 63 even though in wheelchair now for 21/2 yrs😊. GOD HAS YOU 24/7 & MORE.
To have someone love you enough to stand up for you in front of family , fellow peers everyone because he believes in you and realizes how much you truly have been there for him , that love right there is so rare ! That love would have me forever and would never leave his side for nothing. The reality is every woman wants to felt protected and safe . If they have that, a woman would do anything and grow into levels no one has ever expected of them .
She Called out the demeaning father and put him in his place… as she should have. He is the type of parent that can destroy a child’s confidence instead of helping them see their capabilities and supporting them in what they choose as a career path or anything else in life.
Worse thing is this happens way too often, no matter your social status or income. Some people have no idea how to be respectful, let alone how to raise and treat their children.
It's well and good to want your child to grow up to be a lawyer or a doctor but whatever your child is or wants to be should be what you want for them! Why would you want to change your kids into what fits your agenda? Not how it works
My siblings and I were blessed with a father who has a photographic memory and had the highest grade point average ever at the University attended and decided not to finish his PhD for personal reasons. After having been promised a position that he didn't really want and knowing that not having a PhD would prevent him from having it. He never expected us to measure up to him and was always proud of whatever we did that we didn't shirk or try to take advantage of. He expected honest effort and didn't care where that effort lead as long as it was moral, decent, and legal. He died at the age of 80 in 1999 and I miss him so much. A father that brilliant that I can no longer ask questions to is my shame. I wish I would have had the questions I have now when I was younger and had a person who could answer me right there all the time.
This is exactly how my father is. It hurts when your own parents treat you like that. But also I’m thankful to my partner who’s exactly like this girl.
The mom wasn’t smiling because side she was setting the dad straight. She was smiling because of the way she was revering her son. The mom knows his gifts and potential. Her husband is an arrogant ass.
She said it perfectly! Who tf cares if he is not a doctor or engineer. The only thing that matters is the love and care for her which must come from his heart
Find yourself a partner who talks about you like this. And don’t take them for granted.
i did this, but got trashed anyway
Why? Sounds like she's prying into family business that she shouldn't be apart of. If I was in an argument with my family and my significant other chimed in. Id break up with them on the spot. No way you gonna tell family how to behave
@@BOT_JERRY lol exactly. I have a similar comment and then somebody said that I should appreciate this gesture otherwise I don't deserve her 😆 like bruh whatever it is he's your father, what's between you and him stays between you and him
@@BOT_JERRY Talking you up to other people is family business.
…Whatever you say, chief.
@@IfOUGHTpIRANHAz lolumad. Go fight some more fish
The moms smile at her husband being called out is just the chefs kiss on this whole interaction
In the book her reaction is even better!
@@carolinevanderschoor1442 I didn't know it was based on a book 😳😳 must read it!
Yes!
What book is it?
@@_P_a_o_l_o_ the hating game by Sally Thorne
Terrible dad, never tear down a son , let alone to favor his brother. Terrible brother for letting it happen.
Daughter also
You wish now our places had been exchanged. That I had died and Boromir had lived.
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That was so sad that his dad treated him like that, on Lord of The Rings.
He always came second, in the eyes of his father sadly. 😪
Not really. His some let him down by growing up to become a loser. Women never understand why it’s important to achieve.
@@LevKozlodoev he literally has a fiancée 🙄😑
She said it right and respectfully. He needed that. These are the types of parents who makes their children hate themselves for life thinking they are not enough. Josh needed that praise,its enough to keep him strong
If you notice the mum, standing behind the dad, looks very pleased that the dad is being put in his place for not valuing their son. Looks very much like the dad has turned the other son into the "golden child" and her date is the "scapegoat child". Sometimes it be doesn't matter how much the mum tries to intervene the dad refuses to change until he someone else calls him out. This may not forever change things instantly but the fact she did it in public might actually cause him to think.
There are times when cursing escapes the realm of vulgarity. This is one of those times.
@trenae77 How so? What did it enhance or emphasize that couldn't have been done without dropping "shitless" and an f-bomb over a 15-second span? If I were her date, I would have been appreciative but embarrassed.
I'm guessing she's not officially a love interest at this point, but that doesn't help much for me.
My father is that way, I have self stern issues since I was young. If I fail at something I feels he is right.
@@Genariidoesn't need to emphasize anything, sometimes swearing just makes more of an impression. Either way, she's a grown ass woman and can drop the fuck bombs if she wants to 😂
This movie is called The Hating Game
Your the only one that answered the question Patti ❤ thanks 🙏
Not all capes wear heroes.
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Thanks!!!🥰
My daughter-in-laws are both like this. And, it makes me so very happy my sons have such fearless wives who love them w/all their hearts & vice-a-versa. ❤❤
Who they choose as wives is very indicative of the kind of mother they were raised by ❤
@@diab8008 What a kind statement. And, when you put it like that ... Thank you.
That's beautiful! I may not know you or them, but I'm happy for them as well! ❤
@@rnicholson6579 I hope so happy just picturising your happy and healthy family values and as a mother in law you are so secure. God bless you all. ❤
My ex-mother in law still loves me like this. 1. I was awesome to her son, 2. I made her a grandma, 3. Even after he and I broke up, I’ve continued to be a patient, graceful, & great ex-wife and wonderful mom to two beautiful and successful young ladies. She thinks her son was a fool to lose me, and so do I. 😉😂
I’ve defended my husband like this in the passed to his mother. His dad has never said he’s proud of him. He dad was a nobody who did nothing for his family, and my husband works so hard to provide for him, his dad’s jealous.
Yes! Jealousy of your kids is wild but I have a mom like that and it's so sad to see her grow old and still be immature. She used to tell me that I should aspire to be like her. One day I answered her that if that's the case that I never reached my potential, what does that say about your parenting? I told her as a parent, I am to be the floor to my kids. Never ever heard that from here and one day recently heard the floor part repeated to my sibling or kids😂😂😂😂😂 🤦🏾♀️
if my son grew up to be better than me in every way then i have succeeded as a father and would be nothing less than happy
His dad sounds like a complete loser
Starting at around the age of 13, I had to deal with little digs from my mom. It wasn't until I was a mom myself that I realized she was jealous. I only ever got backhanded compliments from her. She has put me through so much emotion turmoil. When she came to visit us for a few months, she tried causing issues between my husband and I, between me and my children, and would even bad mouth me to my friends. I let her walk all over me. Yes, I would stand up for myself, but she was my mom, so honor thy father and mother. One day, I vented to our pastor's wife and told her that it was hard to deal with her and honor her. I literally felt a weight lift when my pastor's wife said honoring your father and mother doesn't mean allowing them to walk all over you or take advantage of you. I went home and told her we were booking her flight home.
I see mother and daughter relationships that I wish I had with mine, but I know that will never be. Sending her home and letting her go was the best decision I never made. I quit being the person who initiated the calls and visits, and ever since, we have very little communication. There are a few texts here and there, but with her, I'm out of sight, so I'm out of mind. She would only call when she needed money. Of course, the calls stopped as soon as I let her know that we would no longer be sending her money. No contact is better for us. However, I do miss the mom I thought I had when I was a child.
My dad took monry gro. Mr my whole life never uttering a single good word about me. Took mr 30 years to break out of debts and loans that i took to support him.
And now he talks shit about me all the time if i give money to my mother or little brother saying "the son and his money sre for the father"
What's more fked up about it is that he used most of the money i supported him with my whole life to buy 2 apartments which he gave to my sister and older brother, yhe family project was suppoded to be paid for by everyone but only 2 of us paid in it and 3 others watched and hid their monry but those teo especislly, both never gave him a penny and both came fightinh tooth and nail to take their "part" of the family project that they never been a part of.
I can tell you this, nothing hurts a man more such a father, he literally stole my money, gave it to a brother who has money and my father most repeated line is " why can't you support your brother like i do"
It is mindblowing. I did not realize modt of my life that He saw me as a tool to help my other brother have a above average life.
So i am glad i cut him off in many ways and i learned i should fight to take my 15 years of investment back.
A father who chooses one son over the other and uses the other is the worst kind of father.
If he's not putting a ring at very moment, I am.
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At this very moment ? No. It's his brother's wedding and it would be very bad taste to use someone else's big day to do your own big gesture.
He's probably thinking about putting a ring on it at this very moment though. And we can safely assume he does soon after the end of the movie.
she was crude and scandalous, an empowered woman, run.
My mother used to be like the father in this film: never enough for her even though I was the successful one with a professional career, a master, living abroad and speaking 4 languages… one day it dawned on me that I will be never enough for her and started a long period of suffering /sadness/ emotional pain that led me to seek help… took many years to heal this and now I am at peace with my life ❤
I am so glad that you have reached peace. And if no one else tells you: you are amazing.
@@Kat19760 You too lovely soul. Thank you 🙏🏽♥️✨
I hope everything is going well for you now. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
Wow...four languages you are amazing. In my country you grow up with three languages the international language the local national language and then your vernacular....and you will find most people are fluent in two and can only hear one. That means it is not that you were never enough you were so exemplary that she compared herself with you probably argued that you had more resources than she ever did but the brutal truth is that she was jealous of you in fact envious .It happens some parents let the devil creep in their hearts that they are even jealous of the beauty of their children when they are supposed to be happy. You deserve joy, peace and lots of love.. Treat yourself give yourself Me time celebrate yourself and keep thanking God for all he has done for you then ask God to give you the grace to forgive her and move forward without any burden .. because that was her issue and she has no idea how a child feels when the parent can't be happy for them. Glad you are at peace ❤❤❤
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Great job, lady!!
Dad is the prime example of a guy that failed at many things and therefore lives through his children.
My father is like in this video. But he didn’t fail at stuff, that I know of.
The father is very successful and wanted to make sure his kid also follow the path of the rich that he knows of.
Everyone fails at a lot of things. His ego is attached to his son's perceived status in the world. That's very different.
@@morgancardinale6098 yeah that's a better and more accurate description imo.
The Dad is a pompous, arrogant prat in my opinion. 🤦🏻♀️
I love that woman who stands up for her boyfriend. True love whatsoever ❤
she prolly wanted his money
Mom is standing there happy to see someone stand up to her husband about their son 🥹
Fuck moms like this that stand by and let it happen.
You can see the look on his face when She is talking him up. You just see the look on his face. It's the look of yeah I just madly fell in love with you, He felt proud for His girlfriend because she stood up for him. That meant more to him than his father could ever do for him
And this is why adult children have issues on so many levels. Some never recover and would forever spend their life seeking that parent validation and others
Absolutely, when you are an adult you should look at your parents as peers and not as giants you still need to please. Live your own life.
Or they walk away and never go back and find their ohana elsewere.
It’s how we got Donnie… All say his dad was awful.
The fact that parents can't see the potential in their own children and/or make them compete with each other tells me everything I need to know about their parenting and them as a person
You can help your child build a foundation for their lives, but it's their actions and decisions that determines their future. You can want your child to do their best with what you've given them, and you can still offer them advice and guidance, but you should support them on the path THEY choose.
Beautifully and aptly stated.
⬆️ Totally agree
Truth
Yes. 💯 % agree with you
Well said 👏
The way he was looking at her and the look of pride on his mother's face love it
"I like all of you.. UHM except you" 😂
I’m like this with my husband. After 6 children. Grandchildren. I will battle fearlessly to show what an amazing man he is. Even when he doesn’t believe it. I do.
As a child of two parents who glorified Medical careers over anything else, who's today leading a very sad life. I admire this man for standing up to his father and dropping out of med-school to follow his dream.
As I watch this clip his brother already is acting like he's better than his own brother but his co-worker actually put he's father in his place was awesome.💯
I don’t think the brother cares about him very much at all because he’s marrying his ex-girlfriend so he literally is dating his brothers ex-girlfriend and then got married to her and feels no shame
Any woman who says a man makes her better by competing with him is revealing a well guarded secret women hold to their heart for centuries. She is a keeper. She just opened the door for him to fly and become truly great because any man who has a great woman behind him, even in a simple position is the greatest.
MOVIE: The Hating Game
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To be a son a father can be proud off.
Takes a father a son can be proud off.
Ooooh I like that 👌
I love her she is awesome and I love the way he looks at her and the way she looks at him
That girl is a KEEPER!!
I love that her name is Lucy in like all the movies she plays in with that also being her real name
Dad or any parent who made a choice not to see or appreciate their own kid means something.
Either favoritism card among his kids? Or his other kids isolating the parents over the well being of the not favorite kids? It's part of life. It's a reality that anyone should accept.
Just run far away. Create your own home and own clan. Never return ever. Live with inner peace in that way. Save yourself from drama, violence and love yourself.
Oh yea don’t ever try to work things out. It’s always just about yourself.
@@prissylovejoy702 Forgot to add the important note. Or do those tips after you have tried for 12 years seeking belongingness?
Self love is as equally important in giving love to others. Protect oneself. Do not give that responsibility to others but yourself.
Well said. Took me 32 years to realize that it’s not me, it’s them who have the problem(s). Now I live a mostly happy life with a wonderful wife and couldn’t care less what the persons who should have been my parents think about me or my decisions.
And yes. Just mostly, because even after getting rid of those bonds, those 32 years left me traumatized and caused several mental health problems I still have to work on.
Never ever let anybody not even your nearest relatives tell you that your not worthy, a shame or not good enough. If you fail, it’s mostly their fault because they haven’t showed you how to be successful, they weren’t supportive or they just haven’t been present.
Anyone knows what's the name of the movie?
@user-se1zx9ge3w Movie The Hating Game. Hope that helps you.
" I thought you had to be ambitious to be domineering!"
Thank you for throwing that in the script.
Because of the truth of this statement, my last ten years being homeless is completely justified!
Ur not ambitious or domineering?
What?
If a girl defended me like this in front of all my toxic relatives, i would cherish her for life ❤
I love his mother's smile, when she praises him and downright does a smackdown on the father😂
It's honestly a praise to the mother as well at the same time. She bore the son her own husband is putting down. Mother did good in what she raised. ✨️
This is the kind of woman one thing . Someone who stands out to talk about the best of her man despite the negativity surrounding him . This kind of woman brings the very best a man could ever be in life .
Dad needed that.
She stood up for him when he didn't for himself.👌👌
This is a typical Nigerian dad! Maybe not that bad but definitely! No matter how successful one is, if you don’t have multiple university degrees and certifications, you will still be given a side eye and the fact you don’t have degrees will be mentioned at any given opportunity!
🤔🤔🤔 really? Nigerian dad's are that way? I grew up in Warri, Delta State and this story doesn't apply in that space. No offense please 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@nnennaudeh9536you are right. Maybe in some circles,but definitely not all Nigerian dads.
Becuz theyve bought the lie that degrees indicate ur value as a person
Degrees indicate ur ability to jump hoops, kudos
Maybe not degree but in lot of other ways in Indian society too. Does the fact about how parent's son/daughter success help you maintain stature in parents close circle plays a part?
The sort of woman every good man deserves but very few find.
Hint: Good Man is key
fr 😂
lot's of money is the key
@@totoybalisong6371 wha....
@@totoybalisong6371oh ffs 🙄
Josh good sir…. She’s an absolute KEEPER!
I wish there were more fathers in the world that reallt do care for their sons and love them for who they are and what they are or do. Less problems for the world to care and to take care of, and rhis means less men in the world going crazy and doing bad things simoly because their fathers treat them bad and or dont appreciate what they done.
Namenof the series please. Why do people post thungs without tittles? 😢
It's a movie and it's called The Hating Game
And I just got to know that there is a book, I think it has the same name
Thank you for sharing
@@ayoncosta2976Thank you very much
@@ayoncosta2976thank you ❤❤❤
"Tittles"?😊
As someone said,' never destroy one child to build another' 😢
I like all of you, Except you dad ,,,,,,,,,, IS GREAT
If my lady stands up for me like this, she’s the one.
Seeing that now a days most people become a doctor because of the money.....theres nothing left to that job that is noble.
It’s not about treating the pt, hasn’t been for decades
It’s about treating the illness or injury- that high the practitioner gets
The pt is an aside
“The surgery was a success!”
oh yes, the pt did die; oh well
This scene is even better in the book. 😊
Dad’s on the edge of abysmal eternity.
If a woman talks about me like THAT, she's a keeper
She told him 👏👏👏💯💯💯💯💯
Nah that my type of gurl, stands up for me in times of TROUBLE
Oh, she's a keeper.
Fun fact: Lucy Hale's Character in this movie is also named Lucy
If you have a parent, like this fool, remember that they aren't original. They mimic behaviour of who taught them to be like this. BE original, and you've ALREADY won!
Parents can either make or break relationships w their childreno matter whathe age... Ur child istill ur child, no matter how old he/she is... Accepted for who they r❤
Hooah! I love a woman who stands up for her man!
She’s SO INLOVE
Whats wrong with making coffee? Ahh
Better than selling drugs or robbing banks.
Lukas asking the real questions
@@perfectsplit5515 Facts
IKR
Lucy tells Josh's father off. She lays it all out. Lucy puts all on the table by saying Josh is better at his job and really good at what he does. 😊
Fuckin' A, that is one AWESOME woman!
Josh! Marry her! That's a real woman! She's adorable and polite
My husband is like my kid, sister & mom which is I can give them crap but I better not hear anyone else do it. My husband’s grandmother use to do this a lot and try to tell every faults & mistakes of his. I already knew cause he was very upfront so I would cut her off. The last time she stood outside the bathroom lying about her paying everything. I walked out of the bathroom with the bank info pulled up(we were engaged & combined) and ask her then who mortgage was drafted out this day & this bill on this day. She was shocked and started sputtering when I started to call him to have a group conversation.
I grew up with a man like him. Gaslighting was his popular language!
That's a woman i want in my corner
My mom used to do this between me and my sister, I caught her one day trying to do it to my sister while I was in the room and she didn't know it. The instant she tried to say your brother would never I stepped in and immediately stopped her and explained that my sister and I were two different people and two different genders and that our choices with vary greatly and she should never compare us.
Naturally when this happened I was in my mid-20s and my sister was still in her mid-teens. my voice carried a lot more weight than it would have when I was younger.
my friend's mother is exactly the same...she has the habit of comparing both her son and daughter to one another...would have a habit of calling her daughter useless because she isn't as hardworking as her brother..(and also because she is a girl💀) and everytime I would speak up for my friend.. I would get shut down immediately and be considered a bad influence...she even told her daughter to stop being friends with me because I'm turning her against her brother..(the irony).. also the brother doesn't defend his sister..he finds it entertaining..parents are supposed to love their children equally regarding the differences but it seems some love to start rivalry and hatred within the siblings...not all parents deserve their children-
Good for you! 👏
Only my mom has ever defended me like this.
My father never said anything good about me, to me, until I was in my late 40's and met my second husband. The second time was when I gave him 2 grandsons through adoption.
He died when I was 61, and only said 2 nice things to me my whole life.
And he wondered why I never visited?
@@greymama0515I'm sorry to hear that 😢 I hope you're thriving and at peace. ❤
I LIKE HER STYLE, should be more of her around!!
Mothers happy of her ❤
My mother is just like the father in this movie. My mother is a neurosurgeon, my brother is an Attorney in New York. I'm just a retired guy from the military who served 21 years. I enlisted when I was 17. Because of her it's taken me a long time to be proud of my service. I deployed 7 times. Iraq and Afghanistan and some time In Africa as well. My wife who's also a surgeon,ripped into my mother when I retired. She told her " he's the smartest out of all of us, he's retired at 38 and actually can be there for his kids when they need him." It was a sereal moment for me. It validated me as a man and husband. My mother and brother both were speechless.
This is probably a good way to alienate your son ... and test his partner's spine. 😅
He have a very strong girl friend. Someone who always have is back. That type father is someone who you can never please.
I know it's a show,was there at least this Guy has her,I had to finally STAND @35 God bless the dead I'm STILL Standing at 63 even though in wheelchair now for 21/2 yrs😊.
GOD HAS YOU 24/7 & MORE.
You do not tear your children down. And if you have to say something for Gods sake do it in private. Don't be that person. 😡😡😡
That dad is a great wingman. She wants josh so bad now
Thats the most idiotic thing I have ever heard.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂bro playing 4d chess
@@Sovereignlighttarotsays you only an idiot wouldn’t understand how this works
😂😂😂
@@Sovereignlighttarotit's quite obviously a joke.
It's very hard to find someone so suppoting hats off 🥰
She's a keeper 👏💜❗️❗️❗️❗️
And the son's Mom nows it👏💜❗️❗️❗️
That “expect you” was magically
W to that woman
To have someone love you enough to stand up for you in front of family , fellow peers everyone because he believes in you and realizes how much you truly have been there for him , that love right there is so rare ! That love would have me forever and would never leave his side for nothing. The reality is every woman wants to felt protected and safe . If they have that, a woman would do anything and grow into levels no one has ever expected of them .
Dang straight! This is how the right woman talks about her man!
That's the type of guy who will get banned from seeing his grandkids.
Find yourself a partner who stands up for you like that❤❤
She Called out the demeaning father and put him in his place… as she should have.
He is the type of parent that can destroy a child’s confidence instead of helping them see their capabilities and supporting them in what they choose as a career path or anything else in life.
Yes, well said 👏
Anyone know the name of this movie
Worse thing is this happens way too often, no matter your social status or income. Some people have no idea how to be respectful, let alone how to raise and treat their children.
Parents!
Repeat after me!
"My child's future is none of my business."
Repeat until maximum integration occurs.
Every job is noble...as long as it is your purpose
It's well and good to want your child to grow up to be a lawyer or a doctor but whatever your child is or wants to be should be what you want for them! Why would you want to change your kids into what fits your agenda? Not how it works
" I like all of you... except you" 🤣🤣🤣
What is the name of this movie??
The hating game
The hating game
Top Gun
Top Gun
😂😂😂
I watched this film 10 times. And watched it immediately again after watching it. Best film , its called the Hating Game
Good woman
My siblings and I were blessed with a father who has a photographic memory and had the highest grade point average ever at the University attended and decided not to finish his PhD for personal reasons. After having been promised a position that he didn't really want and knowing that not having a PhD would prevent him from having it. He never expected us to measure up to him and was always proud of whatever we did that we didn't shirk or try to take advantage of. He expected honest effort and didn't care where that effort lead as long as it was moral, decent, and legal.
He died at the age of 80 in 1999 and I miss him so much. A father that brilliant that I can no longer ask questions to is my shame. I wish I would have had the questions I have now when I was younger and had a person who could answer me right there all the time.
What is the show called?
It's a movie called "the hating game"
This is exactly how my father is. It hurts when your own parents treat you like that. But also I’m thankful to my partner who’s exactly like this girl.
Terrible Father
I love the intern character and the mother who smiled as the father got called out.
They are my new favorite people.
PREACH
He is so lucky to have her. Hold her dearly.
The mom wasn’t smiling because side she was setting the dad straight. She was smiling because of the way she was revering her son. The mom knows his gifts and potential. Her husband is an arrogant ass.
She said it perfectly! Who tf cares if he is not a doctor or engineer. The only thing that matters is the love and care for her which must come from his heart
All good but the using God's name as a swear word. "That's a damn shame".... is good enough.
Go ladies stand up for your man