Zan Perrion: How To Create A Reality That's Abundant With Women

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  • Close friend of The Fearless Man, Zan Perrion discusses how to create a reality that's abundant with women as he takes students through all the things he learned in his own journey from loner to men's coach, speaker, and author of "The Alabaster Girl."
    Zan Perrion (author, "The Alabaster Girl"; founder, Ars Amorata) is famous from Neil Strauss' "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists" but "PUA" teachings never jived with him.
    Zan considers himself to be a lover and student of women. He speaks to men and women around the world about his views and experiences with women, confidence, and life. He formed his "Ars Amorata" men's coaching program and wrote "The Alabaster Girl," - you can now get the book free on Kindle or buy a paperback copy here: www.amazon.com...
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Комментарии • 124

  • @christopherstrand9374
    @christopherstrand9374 3 года назад +64

    Zan Perrion never got bitter, never got angry, never gave up because he took extreme ownership and responsibility over himself and his behavior. Thats something that rare today and I can truly respect

  • @deinlebenleben7700
    @deinlebenleben7700 7 лет назад +94

    ...when you read "Zan Perrion" in the title and you know it's going to be awesome!

  • @Pyraus
    @Pyraus 6 лет назад +52

    This is a western shaman. We need people like this. Him and Brian - what a great combination. I can see why they would be drawn to eachother, same mission.

  • @r.g.3636
    @r.g.3636 6 лет назад +33

    zan,,, you have really helped me ( age 67 ) to love my 40 yr. old girlfriend much much better,,, and how to interact with people in general..... thank you mr. coolio......royman

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  6 лет назад +4

      We'll pass the message on! Thanks for commenting and glad Zan's helped you

  • @robbiepayne924
    @robbiepayne924 5 лет назад +25

    True Zan. You are a kind of father. You're all i want to listen to. Im 54 and I became a boy to a man when I read your book and began to listen to you.

    • @silencebeats14
      @silencebeats14 4 месяца назад

      Which Book ? Are you talking about 'Alabaster Girl' ?....I mean I just wanted to know if he's got some other book too

  • @rippedup4546
    @rippedup4546 4 года назад +16

    Zan and Brian's philosophy is the healthiest, most fulfilling take on masculine and feminine energy in relation to the dating world.

  • @deinlebenleben7700
    @deinlebenleben7700 7 лет назад +37

    This is the real deal! Every word he says is so powerful! and it's true: noone is gonna do it for you, but you!

  • @alealo7285
    @alealo7285 7 лет назад +36

    Zan has that Johnny Depp kind of energy but more cheerful :)

  • @kludgybrains3459
    @kludgybrains3459 4 года назад +9

    there is a perverse amount of truth to the grand points he makes and I'm so glad I've found this at a young age.

  • @Indies210
    @Indies210 6 лет назад +14

    I worked at an accounting firm for two years (quit in July..best decision of my life) but...I remember complimenting this one female co-worker when she would wear her wavy, with curls and it would always make her look so sexy. I would simply say that her hairs looks good when she wears it like this....I could notice the change in her, she would light up, seem happier in a way. Expressing truth and simply that w/out an agenda or something...just feels damn good.

  • @1212zeek1212
    @1212zeek1212 5 лет назад +15

    I have Zan's book sitting a few feet away from me. I'm about a quarter of the way through it. It's true what Brian says at the end. Reading the book, I really do get into the vibes Zan talks about. I feel how the "character" (Zan) feels. It's like reading any other book, or watching a movie. You start getting into the shoes if the main character....
    Been learning from Brian for 3 years and Zan for 2. I've had and continue to have many adventures with women, and, on a much deeper level, with myself. I'm tremendously grateful for their teachings.
    Keep with it, everyone.
    Much love. Question everything.

    • @artix86
      @artix86 Год назад

      There is also an audiobook read by Zan available now :)

    • @KennethKoronya77
      @KennethKoronya77 8 месяцев назад

      you bought it?@@artix86

  • @bobtheman1
    @bobtheman1 7 лет назад +34

    Wow, Zan is brilliant.

  • @Bossssssssssssssss
    @Bossssssssssssssss 7 лет назад +16

    The girl who's laughing should be speaking... :D

  • @Bossssssssssssssss
    @Bossssssssssssssss 7 лет назад +22

    Thankyou Zan and Brian...

  • @flingoo
    @flingoo 7 лет назад +9

    1:01:50 The Work by Byron Katie is a more in depth guide to what Zan is talking about here. Highly recommended stuff, changed my life!

  • @ZapatosVibes
    @ZapatosVibes 7 лет назад +9

    So much truth in one speech! However, I think (could be wrong, I can't really see the audience) that it went over their heads, simply because it's on a much higher level than what men typically are on when they attend this kind of seminar. Food for thought.

  • @soolikagsdi
    @soolikagsdi 7 лет назад +14

    I'm surprised to hear that 1. Zan has a daughter and 2. He actually did ayahuasca. Although when I think about it both aren't that surprising. For a person like Zan who is so in tune with himself ayahuasca actually makes sense now.

    • @AnandVenigalla
      @AnandVenigalla 7 лет назад

      eternal where is the detail of his having a daughter?

    • @soolikagsdi
      @soolikagsdi 7 лет назад

      don't remember now but he definitely said it somewhere in this talk.

    • @Zyvaar
      @Zyvaar 6 лет назад +1

      Anand Venigalla 1:39:10, speaking on others' fear of success.

    • @salimelhamzaoui1381
      @salimelhamzaoui1381 5 лет назад

      @Keylanos Lokj You are a close minded, shut up

    • @kugelmanno
      @kugelmanno 3 года назад

      @14Y4A SONG SHUAIPU thing is you should be really careful when it comes to trying this drug.
      Many people see demons and change afterwards. I know 2 people who have become real grifters afterwards.

  • @charlie5thumbs351
    @charlie5thumbs351 5 лет назад +11

    The way he describes himself when he was younger reminds me so much of me. If he can change, so can I!

    • @Papaleeo
      @Papaleeo 4 года назад +1

      Have you changed?

    • @charlie5thumbs351
      @charlie5thumbs351 4 года назад +4

      @@Papaleeo Honestly, in regards to picking up women, no. There are aspects of my life that have indeed changed. I'm more disciplined and confident than I used to be. However, I admit I still have a long way to go. I don't want to pick up a bunch of women anyway. Just looking for one.

    • @rohandeodhar858
      @rohandeodhar858 4 года назад

      Good for you bro !!! Cheers !!

  • @blackpeppericecream
    @blackpeppericecream 3 года назад +2

    Keep trying, change that loser mindset and have self acceptance.
    All those shit rejections will be great laughs with the girl u finally meet :)

  • @LianaBuzea
    @LianaBuzea 5 лет назад +6

    Yep, this was the best talk so far! Some stories repeat, but there is more information here than in many other speeches. Felt more alive than others - because he had more time to speak and get into more stories.

  • @Doctor.Kapow.
    @Doctor.Kapow. 7 месяцев назад +2

    "every great life has had a great renunciation."
    Word.

  • @bngdrummer9008
    @bngdrummer9008 5 лет назад +6

    Holy shit his book came out when he was 50 I'm 50 there's Hope. I'm getting over a 20-year relationship cuz she's very helpful it's honest

    • @seanchoes
      @seanchoes 4 года назад +1

      whats the 27 club? a nigga cant make it past 21...

  • @mauricesavaari
    @mauricesavaari 7 лет назад +12

    powerful talk

  • @douglaswilliams7720
    @douglaswilliams7720 6 лет назад +4

    Zan is always worthwhile. As a dude, I am totally cynical about politics, media manipulation, organized religion, and the negative state of gender relations in the West . It seems that screeching harpies of 3rd wave feminism attack men all the time, in an oppressive atmosphere of negativity about sexual desire and men. Zan offers a vision of a healing that this fractured society needs, and it is interesting that this information is not found on television nor radio with millions of listeners. I will continue to seek out this wisdom!

  • @TheFearlessMan
    @TheFearlessMan  6 лет назад

    EXCLUSIVE free training With Zan Perrion on "How You Can Develop The Masculine Energy Of A Man That’s Adored By Women" Click here for Today’s class... bit.ly/2NTGToP

  • @mark-mckelvie
    @mark-mckelvie 4 года назад +2

    So he grew up in a forest where his mom was abused by a succession of men and he lived off the land until he decided go into civilization and lead an international corporation before became a leader of the pickup movement, then wrote a book about it?

  • @Harryx74
    @Harryx74 7 лет назад +5

    I identify with zan soo much. I always think of women and appreciate rheir beauty. One day I will be as good as zan. He's such an inspiration

  • @intagiblemist9676
    @intagiblemist9676 7 лет назад +4

    Very good story. Actually. I enjoyed this. I had a sense this would be wholesome.

  • @TheFearlessMan
    @TheFearlessMan  5 лет назад

    Learn about these principles and how you can become a powerfully masculine, grounded and attractive man - www.thefearlessmanlive.com

  • @schuschnix5261
    @schuschnix5261 7 лет назад +6

    I always wanted to hear more details about Zan's Beginning, so what his work was about etc.Finally I heard it!What I miss abit is his "step into nothingness", meaning if you really give everything away, you still need someway to generate Money or have some, even if you just travel with the train or whatever.
    Or maybe Im wrong and just dont see the possibility even tho it exists.

    • @deinlebenleben7700
      @deinlebenleben7700 7 лет назад +7

      schusch nix I recommend to watch the youtube series "In Search of the Alabaster girl" on the Ars Amorata Channel. They discuss in 50 Episodes the entire book of him and therefore also the chapter "the way of discovery" where he also gives some new information about himself. Greetings!

    • @schuschnix5261
      @schuschnix5261 7 лет назад +2

      thanks okay I will. I actually have his book but havent gotten so far yet.

  • @FreedomLovin
    @FreedomLovin 4 года назад +2

    "Has there ever been a time when there were happy childhoods?" No, but that's exactly why we have the messed up angry world we do right now. It's good that at least some people are trying to heal their childhoods, most never do and this destroys society. Just look around today in 2020, think we need more healing of childhood traumas or less?

  • @emZee1994
    @emZee1994 Год назад +1

    The fear of success. Fuck me that's so true and I thought I was the only one who felt this

  • @michaelwinkler7841
    @michaelwinkler7841 6 лет назад +2

    Hi Brian and Zan,
    I have a personal question to you guys i'm very curious about: do you know the personality type system called the enneagram? What ware your types?
    Thanks for creating awesome content and talking about these things. Our generation of men needs this very much.

  • @vaultvon2126
    @vaultvon2126 9 месяцев назад +1

    always get inspired. wake up when i listen to zan

  • @emZee1994
    @emZee1994 Год назад +1

    Man I'm not even 10 mins in and I can already tell this talk is going to change my life
    EDIT: Amazing speech. I learnt so much. I swear every 5 mins was me going "f*ck" because I intuitively realised he just dropped a truth bomb on me that I knew was true subconsciously but consciously I didn't know it at all. I've only "met" this man a few hours ago and I already love him. I will buy your audiobook sir for sure

  • @kgaugelokevin5205
    @kgaugelokevin5205 4 года назад +2

    Zan Perion is my sage

  • @footlongsubzero1128
    @footlongsubzero1128 3 года назад +1

    I wish I knew this stuff 20 years ago, but I know my 20 year older self is looking back at me thinking, "I'm glad I learned this 20 years ago" 😉. Thanks for this 🙏🙏🙏

  • @chriswanderer138
    @chriswanderer138 6 лет назад +2

    Zan is certainly interesting, I would love to practice his material.
    What do you guys think of Brent Smith?

  • @theholdingcompany
    @theholdingcompany 6 лет назад +1

    Yo let's put together a big conference at Keystone and bring all the guys for a week and I'll bring him snowboarding and get Divinity moving through their body with our ninja ballerina snowboarding style. You guys got to get off the yoga mats and out of the f****** seminar rooms you got to start moving energy through your body's so you can tell women about it. Come out here book a conference I'll speak at it and do my part

  • @charly40fication
    @charly40fication 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful Zan. I love you brother. See you soon in Bucarest. - Charles

  • @adianroman2469
    @adianroman2469 5 лет назад +2

    I wish that one day I can be as honest with the world as Zan. I will take steps every day towards it, and I really want myself to get there, because that’s the beauty of man, and I see that now. I see that I haven’t been as honest as I’ve thought and I will do my best to turn that around. Also, I really want hit on my crush.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  5 лет назад +1

      Great realizations

    • @ericwimer4067
      @ericwimer4067 4 года назад

      Adian Roman I’m working to become this as well. I’ll definetlu get there. But as he said he started connecting the dots in his 30s and it sounds like it really came together in his 40s. Keep working my friend. The beautiful thing is we all have our inner “Zan Perrion.” We just have to chip away the excess.

  • @sufihoney403
    @sufihoney403 7 лет назад +1

    Never give up on your personal evolution, Zan =)
    Seek for eternity !
    Become a Buda !

  • @spookflytalker4206
    @spookflytalker4206 7 лет назад +3

    love the Bible verses you dropped in ever so slyly

  • @erandahettiarachchige7354
    @erandahettiarachchige7354 3 года назад +1

    Hey mate you say you figure out programming and website design yourself. You progress in in your carrier and then you quit it at the top. You wanted chase what you like which was women because you absolutely love them. Then you wanted lean about women but there were no self help books about women or internet?
    Apologies in advance in I didn’t get the sequence. I’m spending 2hrs of my life to listen and lean to your life but I’m a bit confused.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  3 года назад

      Do you have a question? - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @theholdingcompany
    @theholdingcompany 6 лет назад +1

    One method is to develop the ninja ballerina snowboard style within yourself

  • @kpthebyrdman4326
    @kpthebyrdman4326 6 лет назад +1

    1:54:10 not one person got in the crowd caught his joke there lol... good video man

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 6 лет назад +1

    Spot on in regards to reclaiming the polarity between men and women.

  • @brandonjones5401
    @brandonjones5401 7 лет назад +3

    Good stuff

  • @erikgabriel7102
    @erikgabriel7102 2 года назад +1

    This is gold

  • @jlukiss3050
    @jlukiss3050 3 года назад +1

    Bruh y’all look and sound the same

  • @mitsay
    @mitsay 2 года назад +1

    This is a beautiful speak. Thank you

  • @stevenus
    @stevenus 5 лет назад +1

    Inspiring as always, thank you Zan! 🙏🏼

  • @antongruber5978
    @antongruber5978 6 месяцев назад

    49 - from questions to statements *

  • @Checkpoint_official
    @Checkpoint_official 2 года назад +1

    Such a masterclass of life!

  • @questionseveryth1ng
    @questionseveryth1ng 4 года назад +1

    why tf would you base your life around women 🤷‍♂️

    • @alex_4trth
      @alex_4trth 2 года назад

      Have you read his book?

  • @raghavkhatri1763
    @raghavkhatri1763 5 лет назад +1

    thanks zan p nd brian b

  • @jbarkerhill92
    @jbarkerhill92 3 года назад

    Did they have to put the coughing guy right next to the mic. Really distracting

  • @George_S_Williams
    @George_S_Williams 5 месяцев назад

    Profound talk!

  • @ImmanuelSundar
    @ImmanuelSundar 7 лет назад

    at 1:33:37 Roger Scruton!!! I just watched another video where you said Beauty is not in Architecture and art and I Immediately remembered him :)

  • @almarinademi7968
    @almarinademi7968 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful!

  • @braddockakalatis2
    @braddockakalatis2 5 лет назад

    14:35 Is that girl saying "I know"? Is she a lesbian or bisexual? How did they calm the guys in the audience down for her presence there?

  • @ayseyyes
    @ayseyyes Год назад

    Great content man and you did it years ago. Thanks.

  • @clevertrevor9036
    @clevertrevor9036 5 лет назад +1

    40:00 thats so true

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 6 лет назад +1

    THRUST!!!!!

  • @joshklinger1
    @joshklinger1 6 лет назад +1

    WOW, JUST WOW

  • @zeroresistance7203
    @zeroresistance7203 6 лет назад

    Listening to this will help me get an abundant lifestyle with women?.

  • @oscarespinosa3276
    @oscarespinosa3276 7 лет назад +5

    22:00 this is the mental shift that we need to learn!!! god bless my friends

  • @70siddharth
    @70siddharth 2 года назад

    I could listen to him anytime so profound

  • @michaelwashington451
    @michaelwashington451 4 года назад

    Thank you for this it was very powerful it really speaks to your soul

  • @adm7038
    @adm7038 3 года назад

    🙏

  • @Christianpreaching
    @Christianpreaching 3 года назад

    Good message

  • @jsmalec
    @jsmalec 5 лет назад +2

    Since we are unable to hear the entirety of the questions from the audience it would be helpful if Zan would repeat the question for the RUclips viewing audience. Thanks.

  • @footlongsubzero1128
    @footlongsubzero1128 3 года назад

    This is so scary 😬, but thank you so so much for this video 🙏👍👍

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  3 года назад +1

      That's great to acknowledge. Can you say more about what is scary? - Andrew, TFM Staff

    • @footlongsubzero1128
      @footlongsubzero1128 3 года назад

      @@TheFearlessMan So sorry, minor misunderstanding 🙊. This comment belongs to a different video. I leave comments at the end of videos and autoplay must've confused my actions. Thanks for pointing this out so I'll recheck next time I leave RUclips comments

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  3 года назад

      @@footlongsubzero1128 No worries man, just was curious - Andrew, TFM

  • @bigh66666
    @bigh66666 5 лет назад

    Thank you!

  • @kpitonak
    @kpitonak 2 года назад

    That coughing guy...

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 года назад

      Don't let a minor distraction keep you from getting the benefits of Zan's talk. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @sithembelestofile3738
    @sithembelestofile3738 7 лет назад

    nah I lost him