Thank you. I've followed Zan for about three years now and never have I heard a woman profess her love towards men. It's revitalizing for the spirit and at the same time nurturing for the little boy in all of us that just wants to be good enough. As a young man trying to discover who he is and why he loves women so much, this was much needed. You are different and I hope you stay like that.
27:46 I’m a man and what Zan said was absolutely true about when we make love to a woman who we love, all the insecurities disappear and you almost feel reborn, reincarnated and free and loved and appreciated, and it’s the most beautiful feeling. Thank you very much for existing and being our messengers, people who watch and learn from these conversations are blessed, we are all blessed.
I used to tell myself "how come i've never in my life heard a woman say she loves men", i've never heard it. Until today. Wow... It's such a rare thing. You're an incredibly strong and beautiful woman!
Beautiful video. It started to dawn on me when you spoke about being a lover of men, you've put words on what I've unconsciously been seeking in a woman. Feels like reassurance, forgiveness. Much love
@@AricaAngelo hola Arica muchas gracias por ayudarnos ya que para nosotros los hispanos que vivimos aqui es algo dificil por que senos sale el latino y como que las mujeres se coiben entoces se retrae.....y ya eres aburrido en mi caso soy de colombia....una pregunta como hago para entrar en contacto con usted si fuera possible por favor😊🍒
As a woman, Arica, I feel the SAME passion you do for men. Zan’s book and interviews just bring me to tears. Amazing and profound. Thank you for this interview
Arica, thank you for what you're doing here. I grew up by a mom who was sexually shut-off and an absent, unhealthy father. Sexual expression has been very scary for me for years. Today I realized I need to hear women talk about sex. To hear them saying that they LIKE IT when men act masculine. Sexual healing is something I didn't realize would have such a tremendous impact on me. Thank you so much for your help. 🙏🙏🙏♥️
This is the best interview with Zan I have seen to date. Straight to the core of the matter, and bringing a female perspective that complements his message so beautifully. Thank you both for doing this! For anyone wanting to read or reading the book, check out the Alabaster video series on the Ars Amorata RUclips channel.
What a time to be alive - standing at the dawn of the age of embodiment. It's funny that after two years of trying to get to the core of Zan's message, I end up here. Looks like you're my next step!
this was an awesome conversation. I didn't realize it until you said it, but I've never heard a women say she loved men. it was such simple yet beautifully powerful thing. I really appreciated hearing that, thank you.
Another amazing video. This message is so needed. Thank you for sharing all of this. Being aware of and acknowledging the healing energy is pure magic!
Arica, thank you for being a gift to women as well, this message is profound and you have spoken and shared the truth for us ❤️ Zan’s message is raw and real, i am so grateful he has stood in his truth as a man, the immense gratitude i feel as i hear him speak about women expands my heart and gives me hope that men can hear this message and find freedom in it.
Even me as a man and musician when i see and listen Zan talking i feel that he is listening and feeling 100% what you have to say and understands.If i was a girl i would marry him.
I think of all the videos I have ever watched on my journey in learning about women I think this one was the best. Though I believe if I had watched it a long time ago I would not have understood alot of what Zan talks about. So amazing what I would neve have learned if i wouldve gotten married like I jealously watched so many of my friends and family do. Now I am not jealous. I am so fortunate to have had the chance to learn first so i might have the best marriage with an amazing woman someday. Thanks to beautiful people like this! Thank you Zan and this sweet lady.
@@AricaAngelo Hey thanks for the reply! Its been a long road. A year and a half now after being cheated on. I started learning and trying to rewire my thinking about 5 years ago knowing there was something i just wasnt getting right with women. I picked a bad one 3 1/2 years ago. It set me so far back with lots of confusion. My biggest deal now is remembering all the things that i hear in videos like this. Things that make me pause the video and think. I wish I could retain it all!! I feel i forget! I write things down and rewatch these just to help it stick. I want to get it right so if I have sons someday they dont have to go through the hell I have. I relate to Zan so much it isn't even funny. I grew up on a farm in kansas, my dad and ran trap lines along the river and we camped in the wilderness for two weeks at a time in the Colorado mountains. My dad taught me nothing about women. Zero! All my young life i was scared to let anyone think or know i loved women! It was something we didnt talk about. Sorry for the long reply but i think its easier for someone to suggest something for me knowing my situation than it is for me to ask for what I might need to learn next. After all I never knew just what I didnt know.. But there is one.. WHERE!? Where are good and beautiful ones!? I find it very hard to find them!
What Zan says at 29:00 is true. And it isn't every or any woman a man could be with. When it is a special woman it is healing, and like a blessing! It reminded me of a scene in the movie "midnight in Paris" when he is talking with Hemingway. Hemingway said when you are with a truly great woman, men loose fear of anything. But then it comes back after a while, and then you make love to her again lol. This video has a lot of truth in it! Thank you for sharing!
This video actually made me find myself as a man, my fear of woman has diminished, Arica Angelo i fear it will make me a ladies-man... you're a strong woman hey.
Ms. Angelo you are as Angelic as your name. This was both cathartic and a revelation. I in my 47 years on this Earth have only felt the true feminine a few times and I understand it is my own fault. However the sublime magic in those moments represent that mystery that is the feminine. It,in those moments, drew forth my inner primal protector and caregiver as my soul danced with her's in sync. Ying and Yang in harmony. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart , the depths of my soul and center of my mind!
Amazing Interview, the last 3 minutes about the Rebirth definitely spoke to me a lot and after reading The Alabaster Girl I'm a changed man. I understand women a lot more and Zen has opened my eyes. I'm glad you did this interview Arica.
That is soo true what Zan is saying!! My wife used to ask me why making love makes everything ok with you!! Didn't really understand why until Zan said she has forgiven me without even knowing it!! Soo yes I get now!! Thank you thank you!! WOW! powerful!!
Omg! That last comment by Zan just absolutly hit home for me. As a man who as a kid experienced abandonmemt trauma an ever since had mommy issues, feared rejection and weren't in his masculine. I therefore seeked relationships with super dominant women who were takers and I was the receiver, meaning reverse gender roles. However I still literally dreamed about being a taker and in one particular dream, a super feminine woman that I was in love with (IRL) allowed me to penetrate her.. And I started bursting into tears in one huge relief and release. Although I'm not attempting to "kill" my submissive side, I'm currently going through IFS trauma therapy and slowly healing some Child hood wounds, calming my overprotective ego and allowing my masculine sides to breathe more freely.
Great video, Arica! I really appreciate what you said about having a heart for men. After all the male bashing going on, what you said was very encouraging. It touched me. Thank you.
New subscriber for sure. U turned me on in the most passionate way. I've never heard a woman speak like u do. More women like you will definitely bring strength to me and many others! Don't ever change...wow this was just incredible! Thank u so much
I’m reading the Alanaster girl right now and it’s making me imagine what it would be like if a man and a woman were just to be fully present with each other, no insecurities, no games - how good that could be
Well you're amazing Arica. So happy to have found your channel. Ijust received my copy of alabaster girl, and can't wait to start reading it, and also looking forward to learning more about you as well.. New fan here 💙
26:25...the error in this perspective is that the true nature of the Male-female relationship has never been based on equality, but on complimentarity. (This is the fundemental flaw of the feminist/woman's movement).
There was something so unique and refreshing about this interview. Like the collision of two revolutionaries or something. I relaxed and enjoyed it entirely with the assistance of some fine alcohol. Arica you hit a chord with this one.
me as a Man brought me this to the Tears!.i love Zan very much!.i wish he would be my Brother!.Great Guy!.and you my lovely women, you are very feminin..wow!.thanks for that..
First video I've watched of Arica, and wow, I just fucking love when a woman can say, "I Love Men". Ah! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Great interview.
Arica, thank you so much for this video and for being so bold and honest with your opinions. I've just started to feel the essence of what you and Zan are talking about here so I don't know how to put what I'm beginning to understand into words. I'll do my best. Apologies in advance for the inadequate words I'm about to use... I love you, Arica. No, that's not at all what I mean to say except that it's exactly what I mean to say. Let me try again. I have a huge crush on you. That's not quite right either. I think what I mean to say is that if we ever met in real life, just you being you would immensely brighten my day. Not only that, but I would do my very best to show you what a wonder I think you are. I've seen another video on your channel and checked out your website. The world needs more people like you. Zan's "tagline" if you will, is : Men who love women are loved by women. Women who love men are loved by men. We love you, Arica. Apologies again for my inadequate words.
After watching this vid and experiencing the dialog between Arica and Zan, I knew that I had to have this book. And with it in my possession at this moment I find myself compelled to consume its pages with a ferociousness , but instead I sample the pages like I would drink a rare fine wine. I don’t want the read to ever end. The Alabaster Girl is like the Holy Grail of understanding the essence of both men and women!
Arica, great video thank you for the message. Most of the men out there have a hard time with women due to their past mishaps. I myself have gone through them with women that have played games and wasted my time. This has led me to go through moments where I feel jaded and come from a position of animosity when around women. Do you have a video that targets men out there that go through something similar?
Very interesting... Your words and viewpoints look like Zan shaved and changed sex. I love to see a woman that is that open and honest to herself and to others. And I'm a little sorry we weren't in the same playground.
Congratulations on this great video. Am a single male no kids or wife even girlfriend. Not to brag but am good with having beautiful women wanting me at 5 5 n some lost of hair. Am a sigmamale n didnt realize until started seen videos on mgtow it realy help me to understand the female nature n to manage my male nature not be angry instead to be the man that Jesus Christ, intended for me to be to honor Him n lives according to Him as much possible, am not perfect but working on my self improvement has let me see Jesus Christ, in my life more clearly n to make better choices as a man for my life n others around me. Spetsnaz mgtow is one of the group that it has help n many others n now very happy to have come to see your videos Arica, lots of Love n thank you.
This guy talks the truth. Guys will understand it completely. What is surprising, yet perhaps not so surprising is that the woman interviewer was taken aback by what he said. I doubt my grandmother would be.
This made me feel fantastic as a man, but I can't help but have some skepticism about if it's all true. Because everywhere I go I see women who are terrified of everything, even there own shadow!
It was your brutal honesty with what you want and how you view men. You say you love men as men love women, this really did something for it to click for me. Sometimes I think about it as men need to impress in order to get the girl because they will not like us for ourselves and it leads to me putting on a front at times in order to appear more confident.
The part that resonated most with me was when you said that men can never be replaced and that women need men. Knowing women love men as much men love women really made me put things into a more equal playing field. I find that sometime I put on a front in order to appear more confident with women in order to make them like me because I feel I am not good enough. Your brutal honesty really just made some things more clear for me. Thanks for that
There were many parts throughout the whole video, but the ending when Zan was talking about the beauty of the re birthing energy of the female spirit really moved me. I appreciate the work you're doing being authentic and wanting to help men restore their natural masculinity! It's gonna be a long road, and you two are both pioneers.
You're dead on about how-to's and steps being mostly irrelevant. However, they can still be useful in the same way training wheels are useful when you're learning how to ride a bike, even if it's only to be cast away as soon as possible, when you're stable enough on your own.
28:25 "If I knew that he was carrying that rejection...that shame..." You. Have. No. Idea. Men have committed suicide because of the excruciating sting of rejection.
27:50. This is crazy true. Being men we can take all the rejections and cold reactions. But if the moment Zan describes would never happen, we would just stop. And everything would stop.
I guess this is all well and good. I'm currently reading the Alabaster book and I do think he has interesting insights. It is, however, (having not finished it yet), seems written so far from the perspective of a childless, single man who has the time and energy to wrap himself up in chasing women. Perhaps he will get to the part about the challenges of parenting children as a single father or balancing life as a care giver for an aging parent. Perhaps these are addressed later in the book. If so, I intend to keep reading. Otherwise, it seems the relentless pursuit of eros is empty and futile and at my age (56) tedious. Thanks!
a Lot of good points. The essence is that western society is losing the true Christian faith. The essence is to love God with your all, and your neighbor as yourselves. God is love. He has made man and woman to express this.
I feel some kind of subconscious resentment against women. I don't know what caused it. Perhaps fear of rejection or I feel like I have to suppress my feelings around them or else they will want nothing to do with me. It stems from a deeper root of men who are supposed to supress their emotions in order to always appear "manly". Even as an adult we hear these things from other men and it reminds us of the trauma it gave us. Now I do think men should be strong, but supressing your emotions as a child fucks you up. I don't want to feel this way against women. I've had some girlfriends but I always felt like I could never fully express myself around them. That causes me to resent them. Will this book help me? I hate feeling like this.
Arica Angelo John Paul II once said that the sexual impulse was the foundation of civilisation, because it led to the formation of families and new human souls. In the mess caused by Original Sin, we forget about Primal Innocence, when we walked naked before God and each other without shame, & sex was not a battleground but a dance. We can (partly) get back to that by forming relationships based on passionate self-giving, which apply primarily to sex, but if applied to everything will change the world. Christopher West has done more than anyone else to promote it.
Arica Angelo I still remember at my wedding, 20 yrs ago, how there was a prayer that said that conjugal love 'was not left behind in the Garden, nor washed away by the Flood '. I loved that.
Whenever u want to...that is the right answer. But wait a second , I don't think a men would risk it; push woman against the wall...is not isolated from all the other ideas , standards , of our day, like, rape, arrested for being spontaneous ,or other negative consequences one might face...that is on the law like aspect of life. There are other views in our time, that likewise has not great consequences as I am sure u know , Its a little hard in today world, which is shaped differently then when that idea was isolated or singled out , could , or would be the dream of passion.I heard many a time from woman , they dream of such passions as found in the books u referred too, so My question , YES , I do envision such a relationship, with turn her suddenly and a little forcefulness, to show our passion, I do want that with my woman...and of course the the safest place to or safest person to do that, is someone your already in a relationship.
He knows Zan. He has a different approach, him suggesting having women pursue a man, cultivating that skill through working on one's vibe. Just thought what you would have thought of that, but nvm I guess then.
I've watched some of his videos, but I still don't really understand this "be a man" shit. It seems very vague to me. I guess I don't have any real man examples in my life because I don't know how to visualize that. I don't even know exactly what that means. Would be nice if he would explain that a little better. Maybe give some how to's.
Thank you.
I've followed Zan for about three years now and never have I heard a woman profess her love towards men. It's revitalizing for the spirit and at the same time nurturing for the little boy in all of us that just wants to be good enough. As a young man trying to discover who he is and why he loves women so much, this was much needed.
You are different and I hope you stay like that.
27:46 I’m a man and what Zan said was absolutely true about when we make love to a woman who we love, all the insecurities disappear and you almost feel reborn, reincarnated and free and loved and appreciated, and it’s the most beautiful feeling. Thank you very much for existing and being our messengers, people who watch and learn from these conversations are blessed, we are all blessed.
My man Zan is a lyrical poet. He puts that shit into words like no other.
I used to tell myself "how come i've never in my life heard a woman say she loves men", i've never heard it. Until today. Wow... It's such a rare thing. You're an incredibly strong and beautiful woman!
Probably the most impactful feminine spirit I have witnessed. Thank you Arica, thank you Zan.
Beautiful video. It started to dawn on me when you spoke about being a lover of men, you've put words on what I've unconsciously been seeking in a woman. Feels like reassurance, forgiveness. Much love
I do understand what Zan was talking about the healing energy of penetrating a women. All is forgiven, all is okay.. it’s like a reset
How do you get 'Healing Energy', being with a woman? You can feel great in her company.
"Let me put my poems in you...."
-Zan Perrion
Like Robin Williams in Dead Poets' Society: 'What is the purpose of language? To woo women!'
@@AricaAngelo hola Arica muchas gracias por ayudarnos ya que para nosotros los hispanos que vivimos aqui es algo dificil por que senos sale el latino y como que las mujeres se coiben entoces se retrae.....y ya eres aburrido en mi caso soy de colombia....una pregunta como hago para entrar en contacto con usted si fuera possible por favor😊🍒
13:56 -- That was one amazing, gorgeous minute. Thank you for that beautiful expression of love and understanding of men.
agreed that can be the highlight
As a woman, Arica, I feel the SAME passion you do for men. Zan’s book and interviews just bring me to tears. Amazing and profound. Thank you for this interview
Arica, thank you for what you're doing here. I grew up by a mom who was sexually shut-off and an absent, unhealthy father. Sexual expression has been very scary for me for years. Today I realized I need to hear women talk about sex. To hear them saying that they LIKE IT when men act masculine.
Sexual healing is something I didn't realize would have such a tremendous impact on me.
Thank you so much for your help. 🙏🙏🙏♥️
Did she say she loves men? First time in 33 years of life I've ever heard a woman say that.
Arica Angelo 😁👌 There is at least one woman who still loves us. Subbed.
Truly. That one statement is something I would've died never hearing...
Wow, I finally understand what "speaking from your heart" means. It's speaking what feels true vs. what you think is true.
This is the best interview with Zan I have seen to date. Straight to the core of the matter, and bringing a female perspective that complements his message so beautifully. Thank you both for doing this!
For anyone wanting to read or reading the book, check out the Alabaster video series on the Ars Amorata RUclips channel.
What a time to be alive - standing at the dawn of the age of embodiment. It's funny that after two years of trying to get to the core of Zan's message, I end up here. Looks like you're my next step!
Right on, the female perspective brings a wonderful complementarity to Zan's message.
Great video! The female energy inspiring the masculine once more.
this was an awesome conversation. I didn't realize it until you said it, but I've never heard a women say she loved men. it was such simple yet beautifully powerful thing. I really appreciated hearing that, thank you.
I love you too Arica. We need more woman like you! The Alabaster Girl is my favorite book.
Same for me. What a book hey ? :)
Another amazing video. This message is so needed. Thank you for sharing all of this. Being aware of and acknowledging the healing energy is pure magic!
Arica, thank you for being a gift to women as well, this message is profound and you have spoken and shared the truth for us ❤️ Zan’s message is raw and real, i am so grateful he has stood in his truth as a man, the immense gratitude i feel as i hear him speak about women expands my heart and gives me hope that men can hear this message and find freedom in it.
Made me cry. Thank you.
holy shit.. listening to this is like meditation.. you guys just expanded my understanding on a very intuitive, visceral level
I found forgiveness in all aspect after i became a Christian. Then i begun to be happy with a women. Arter working on my self Improvement. Thanks
Even me as a man and musician when i see and listen Zan talking i feel that he is listening and feeling 100% what you have to say and understands.If i was a girl i would marry him.
Well, the word is God. Religion is something different. I also love men too! 🥰
"A man who loves women is loved by women." You could interchange women with the world and it still seems to work.
Love the authenticity and rawness of both polarities from Zan and Arica!
I think of all the videos I have ever watched on my journey in learning about women I think this one was the best. Though I believe if I had watched it a long time ago I would not have understood alot of what Zan talks about. So amazing what I would neve have learned if i wouldve gotten married like I jealously watched so many of my friends and family do. Now I am not jealous. I am so fortunate to have had the chance to learn first so i might have the best marriage with an amazing woman someday. Thanks to beautiful people like this! Thank you Zan and this sweet lady.
@@AricaAngelo Hey thanks for the reply! Its been a long road. A year and a half now after being cheated on. I started learning and trying to rewire my thinking about 5 years ago knowing there was something i just wasnt getting right with women. I picked a bad one 3 1/2 years ago. It set me so far back with lots of confusion. My biggest deal now is remembering all the things that i hear in videos like this. Things that make me pause the video and think. I wish I could retain it all!! I feel i forget! I write things down and rewatch these just to help it stick. I want to get it right so if I have sons someday they dont have to go through the hell I have. I relate to Zan so much it isn't even funny. I grew up on a farm in kansas, my dad and ran trap lines along the river and we camped in the wilderness for two weeks at a time in the Colorado mountains. My dad taught me nothing about women. Zero! All my young life i was scared to let anyone think or know i loved women! It was something we didnt talk about. Sorry for the long reply but i think its easier for someone to suggest something for me knowing my situation than it is for me to ask for what I might need to learn next. After all I never knew just what I didnt know.. But there is one.. WHERE!? Where are good and beautiful ones!? I find it very hard to find them!
The Alabaster Girl is truly one of the greatest books on the subject of women ever written!
What Zan says at 29:00 is true. And it isn't every or any woman a man could be with. When it is a special woman it is healing, and like a blessing! It reminded me of a scene in the movie "midnight in Paris" when he is talking with Hemingway. Hemingway said when you are with a truly great woman, men loose fear of anything. But then it comes back after a while, and then you make love to her again lol.
This video has a lot of truth in it! Thank you for sharing!
This video actually made me find myself as a man, my fear of woman has diminished, Arica Angelo i fear it will make me a ladies-man... you're a strong woman hey.
Ms. Angelo you are as Angelic as your name. This was both cathartic and a revelation. I in my 47 years on this Earth have only felt the true feminine a few times and I understand it is my own fault. However the sublime magic in those moments represent that mystery that is the feminine. It,in those moments, drew forth my inner primal protector and caregiver as my soul danced with her's in sync. Ying and Yang in harmony. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart , the depths of my soul and center of my mind!
Amazing Interview, the last 3 minutes about the Rebirth definitely spoke to me a lot and after reading The Alabaster Girl I'm a changed man. I understand women a lot more and Zen has opened my eyes. I'm glad you did this interview Arica.
Thank you so much, have a nice day 💯
Zan is the best, amazing interview!
Beautifully inspiring chat. Makes me feel powerful and really speaks to my soul. Thanks to you both.
the most enlightening 32 minutes of my life. so grateful for you two
That is soo true what Zan is saying!!
My wife used to ask me why making love makes everything ok with you!! Didn't really understand why until Zan said she has forgiven me without even knowing it!! Soo yes I get now!! Thank you thank you!! WOW! powerful!!
Arica...you are so beautiful...not only to look at but also to listen to...so genuine and honest. Zan is a legend...loved his book.
Omg! That last comment by Zan just absolutly hit home for me. As a man who as a kid experienced abandonmemt trauma an ever since had mommy issues, feared rejection and weren't in his masculine. I therefore seeked relationships with super dominant women who were takers and I was the receiver, meaning reverse gender roles. However I still literally dreamed about being a taker and in one particular dream, a super feminine woman that I was in love with (IRL) allowed me to penetrate her.. And I started bursting into tears in one huge relief and release. Although I'm not attempting to "kill" my submissive side, I'm currently going through IFS trauma therapy and slowly healing some Child hood wounds, calming my overprotective ego and allowing my masculine sides to breathe more freely.
Great video, Arica! I really appreciate what you said about having a heart for men. After all the male bashing going on, what you said was very encouraging. It touched me. Thank you.
New subscriber for sure. U turned me on in the most passionate way. I've never heard a woman speak like u do. More women like you will definitely bring strength to me and many others! Don't ever change...wow this was just incredible! Thank u so much
I’m reading the Alanaster girl right now and it’s making me imagine what it would be like if a man and a woman were just to be fully present with each other, no insecurities, no games - how good that could be
Well you're amazing Arica. So happy to have found your channel. Ijust received my copy of alabaster girl, and can't wait to start reading it, and also looking forward to learning more about you as well.. New fan here 💙
Thank you Africa Angelo
WOW This is so powerful and we need more of this in today's world. Keep up the AWESOME work!
I love how honest she seems to be and understanding. And zan is a fucking legend!!!!
26:25...the error in this perspective is that the true nature of the Male-female relationship has never been based on equality, but on complimentarity. (This is the fundemental flaw of the feminist/woman's movement).
Love this woman!!! Big up Zan the man! Doing God’s work
Arica, I love this! I have been watching Zan's videos for a few years and have read The Alabaster Girl. This interview is fantastic.
what a lovely woman! thank you soo much !!
There was something so unique and refreshing about this interview. Like the collision of two revolutionaries or something. I relaxed and enjoyed it entirely with the assistance of some fine alcohol. Arica you hit a chord with this one.
me as a Man brought me this to the Tears!.i love Zan very much!.i wish he would be my Brother!.Great Guy!.and you my lovely women, you are very feminin..wow!.thanks for that..
her face during the whole interview, wow!! great interview
Arica Angelo it's the face of passion, of beauty, of freedom to be a woman.. Amazing
First video I've watched of Arica, and wow, I just fucking love when a woman can say, "I Love Men". Ah! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Great interview.
Arica, thank you so much for this video and for being so bold and honest with your opinions. I've just started to feel the essence of what you and Zan are talking about here so I don't know how to put what I'm beginning to understand into words. I'll do my best. Apologies in advance for the inadequate words I'm about to use...
I love you, Arica. No, that's not at all what I mean to say except that it's exactly what I mean to say.
Let me try again.
I have a huge crush on you. That's not quite right either.
I think what I mean to say is that if we ever met in real life, just you being you would immensely brighten my day. Not only that, but I would do my very best to show you what a wonder I think you are.
I've seen another video on your channel and checked out your website. The world needs more people like you.
Zan's "tagline" if you will, is : Men who love women are loved by women.
Women who love men are loved by men.
We love you, Arica.
Apologies again for my inadequate words.
This was such a powerful talk.. I’m in awe
After watching this vid and experiencing the dialog between Arica and Zan, I knew that I had to have this book. And with it in my possession at this moment I find myself compelled to consume its pages with a ferociousness , but instead I sample the pages like I would drink a rare fine wine. I don’t want the read to ever end. The Alabaster Girl is like the Holy Grail of understanding the essence of both men and women!
Arica, great video thank you for the message. Most of the men out there have a hard time with women due to their past mishaps. I myself have gone through them with women that have played games and wasted my time. This has led me to go through moments where I feel jaded and come from a position of animosity when around women. Do you have a video that targets men out there that go through something similar?
Very interesting... Your words and viewpoints look like Zan shaved and changed sex. I love to see a woman that is that open and honest to herself and to others. And I'm a little sorry we weren't in the same playground.
Congratulations on this great video. Am a single male no kids or wife even girlfriend. Not to brag but am good with having beautiful women wanting me at 5 5 n some lost of hair. Am a sigmamale n didnt realize until started seen videos on mgtow it realy help me to understand the female nature n to manage my male nature not be angry instead to be the man that Jesus Christ, intended for me to be to honor Him n lives according to Him as much possible, am not perfect but working on my self improvement has let me see Jesus Christ, in my life more clearly n to make better choices as a man for my life n others around me. Spetsnaz mgtow is one of the group that it has help n many others n now very happy to have come to see your videos Arica, lots of Love n thank you.
This guy talks the truth. Guys will understand it completely. What is surprising, yet perhaps not so surprising is that the woman interviewer was taken aback by what he said. I doubt my grandmother would be.
This made me feel fantastic as a man, but I can't help but have some skepticism about if it's all true. Because everywhere I go I see women who are terrified of everything, even there own shadow!
Two amazingly evolved people. Beautiful. "Shame don't play any part in truth." (me) Tks for sharing.
"I love that". Lady, you just love how those words sound
Damn you can feel the energy between the 2... in this interview...
okay, i subbed 👍✔ those last three minutes are breathtaking
Great video. Seeing her views on this issue was very eye opening
It was your brutal honesty with what you want and how you view men. You say you love men as men love women, this really did something for it to click for me. Sometimes I think about it as men need to impress in order to get the girl because they will not like us for ourselves and it leads to me putting on a front at times in order to appear more confident.
The part that resonated most with me was when you said that men can never be replaced and that women need men. Knowing women love men as much men love women really made me put things into a more equal playing field. I find that sometime I put on a front in order to appear more confident with women in order to make them like me because I feel I am not good enough. Your brutal honesty really just made some things more clear for me. Thanks for that
This is really inspirational. Thank you both!
There were many parts throughout the whole video, but the ending when Zan was talking about the beauty of the re birthing energy of the female spirit really moved me. I appreciate the work you're doing being authentic and wanting to help men restore their natural masculinity! It's gonna be a long road, and you two are both pioneers.
Great conversation! Amazing to hear a womens perspective on this!
Zan looks stoned AF ;)
You're dead on about how-to's and steps being mostly irrelevant. However, they can still be useful in the same way training wheels are useful when you're learning how to ride a bike, even if it's only to be cast away as soon as possible, when you're stable enough on your own.
28:25 "If I knew that he was carrying that rejection...that shame..."
You. Have. No. Idea.
Men have committed suicide because of the excruciating sting of rejection.
Great to hear it all from a womans point of view.
Just downloaded it. Sounds epic.
. . . . . . powerful Zan
27:50. This is crazy true. Being men we can take all the rejections and cold reactions. But if the moment Zan describes would never happen, we would just stop. And everything would stop.
Very interesting talk, thanks
I guess this is all well and good. I'm currently reading the Alabaster book and I do think he has interesting insights. It is, however, (having not finished it yet), seems written so far from the perspective of a childless, single man who has the time and energy to wrap himself up in chasing women. Perhaps he will get to the part about the challenges of parenting children as a single father or balancing life as a care giver for an aging parent. Perhaps these are addressed later in the book. If so, I intend to keep reading. Otherwise, it seems the relentless pursuit of eros is empty and futile and at my age (56) tedious. Thanks!
You are an amazing wonderful and beautiful human being wow absolutely an incredible woman
a Lot of good points. The essence is that western society is losing the true Christian faith. The essence is to love God with your all, and your neighbor as yourselves. God is love. He has made man and woman to express this.
He made man and woman to become one flesh
Always watch those you want to become..
28:00-30:00 unreal truths I understand but have never heard articulated
You are a blessing to all men .
What about for transgenders
yep, i do get what Zan is saying, yep, true.
Amazing to watch Again. :]
Dope. 👍🏾
Still waiting for the Audiobook
Zan Spirit is very strong
I feel some kind of subconscious resentment against women. I don't know what caused it. Perhaps fear of rejection or I feel like I have to suppress my feelings around them or else they will want nothing to do with me. It stems from a deeper root of men who are supposed to supress their emotions in order to always appear "manly". Even as an adult we hear these things from other men and it reminds us of the trauma it gave us. Now I do think men should be strong, but supressing your emotions as a child fucks you up. I don't want to feel this way against women. I've had some girlfriends but I always felt like I could never fully express myself around them. That causes me to resent them. Will this book help me? I hate feeling like this.
There's some overlap between this and St. John Paul II's Theology of the Body. Must get this book!
Arica Angelo John Paul II once said that the sexual impulse was the foundation of civilisation, because it led to the formation of families and new human souls. In the mess caused by Original Sin, we forget about Primal Innocence, when we walked naked before God and each other without shame, & sex was not a battleground but a dance. We can (partly) get back to that by forming relationships based on passionate self-giving, which apply primarily to sex, but if applied to everything will change the world.
Christopher West has done more than anyone else to promote it.
Arica Angelo I still remember at my wedding, 20 yrs ago, how there was a prayer that said that conjugal love 'was not left behind in the Garden, nor washed away by the Flood '. I loved that.
I want this book😭😭😭
Black hair, black top deep red lipstick olive skin, a grand slam home run.
Whenever u want to...that is the right answer. But wait a second , I don't think a men would risk it; push woman against the wall...is not isolated from all the other ideas , standards , of our day, like, rape, arrested for being spontaneous ,or other negative consequences one might face...that is on the law like aspect of life. There are other views in our time, that likewise has not great consequences as I am sure u know , Its a little hard in today world, which is shaped differently then when that idea was isolated or singled out , could , or would be the dream of passion.I heard many a time from woman , they dream of such passions as found in the books u referred too, so My question , YES , I do envision such a relationship, with turn her suddenly and a little forcefulness, to show our passion, I do want that with my woman...and of course the the safest place to or safest person to do that, is someone your already in a relationship.
Zan Is an awesome guy
I love you, so much. You have it right. So attractive
I am ,and will always be ,a "man of pleasure "
Porfirio Riburosa "The last playboy " the Lover of life
The Lover Archetype " check Carl jung
awesome
i just subscribed to you
Erica, do you know who Brent Smith is?
He knows Zan. He has a different approach, him suggesting having women pursue a man, cultivating that skill through working on one's vibe. Just thought what you would have thought of that, but nvm I guess then.
Yeap...
It is healing
Real love making is to be rebirth.
You beautiful people are fucking brilliant, I wish we were real life friends. Speak from your heart
Miss Ars Amorate.. The yin to zens Yang
I've watched some of his videos, but I still don't really understand this "be a man" shit. It seems very vague to me. I guess I don't have any real man examples in my life because I don't know how to visualize that. I don't even know exactly what that means. Would be nice if he would explain that a little better. Maybe give some how to's.
Hi
Two manly kisses for Arica
And for me too??