I swear these people must really think that r@pists will see the women's sign on a restroom and go "Aw squat! I was going to harass some women, but this bathroom is only for ladies, and I'd never go in there without a good enough reason." Like a fucking bathroom sign is gonna stop a predator.
Statistically public bathrooms are pretty safe places. Public, well lit, a part of or near high traffic locations, and not private. Of course there are exceptions and currently all the politics are making public bathrooms significantly less safe for trans people. But historically bathrooms and change rooms are not where women and AFAB people need to be particularly worried.
@@CorwinFound yeah I never feel unsafe in most public restrooms. Most predators aren't just going to walk into a bathroom they're not supposed to be in and start harassing the people in them. They're gross.
I talked to a forensic person on Twitter recently who told me that with even existing technology they'd be able to figure out from bones that a person was trans. (Assuming HRT for some period of time.) So not only would this theoretical archeologist not misgender us, they'd also be able to say that we were trans. Pretty cool stuff but obviously beyond grade 5 science that the phobes adhere to.
Most modern archeologists also adhere to strict moral codes and respecting the body of the person you are examining includes respecting their culture, gender and lifestyle among other things. Also about 100 percent of the time if we are just looking at bones we are guessing the sex. It's never 100 percent certainty when examining bones alone.
People denying intersex people existence is quite annoying too. They act like they know so much on chromosomes and proceed to say there's only xx and xy lol
I think they know there's more than xx and xy but as a Sunday school teacher taught me those people are just "extra female or extra male" and also considered abominations and blunders of God. They know intersex people exist, they just fucking hate them and want to fix them as soon as possible. But if you want to fuck with their head, tell them that there are people born with xy chromosomes who look female and have female genitalia. I wonder if those people are still required to "be the men they are."
i love accidental allies, once in a tik tok comment section i mentioned how im a trans guy and someone started "attacking" me saying how im a man and can never change that, and how ill never be a women no matter how hard i tried, made me feel good about myself not gonna lie :) it also just shows how uneducated people are, they dont even know who theyre attacking
You'll never be a woman no matter how hard you try!! /half joke (like you'll never be a woman heheh but also i wouldn't say that to a transfemme either) but also heyyyy, im glad he accidentally gave you some free gender euphoria hehehe
@@ninjireal okay but if they arent updated on gender or anything about it they shouldnt be speaking about it like they do, you just said yourself your a straight guy and you come in saying how trans people should react
When in the Netherlands, the men's public bathroom was closed so everyone had to use the women's bathroom. Nothing happened, we were all a bunch of people waiting in line to get their euro's worth of pissing time
This is kinda unrelated but I was at a concert once and the bathrooms there were divided into one bathroom for female, trans people and... idk other people but i kinda forgot the acronym haha; meanwhile the other bathroom was just "all genders" and I think thats epic
i was literally gonna say, who really even pays attention to who else is using the restroom. im there to do one thing and leave. i dont know why people find it so hard to mind their business
It’s so sad when ppl use the argument of “you don’t have period? You not women.” Because I’m cis and I don’t have my period atm cause I might have PCOS which in the long run can cause infertility which also plays into the argument “if you can’t have a child you’re not a women”. I’m tired of these people thinking their SOOO smart when they’re just ignorant pieces of crap. Also if I do in some ways I’m happy because I may have to go through hormone therapy and then I can just use that as an argument against transphobes lol
When a archeologist digs your skull they aren’t going to care about if it’s a man or a woman skull, they are going to say “Oh my god, hey Joel look I just found a skull. It look so cool. I love my job, archeology is fucking awesome.”
They will classify the bones according to one of the two human sexes based off well established differences between male and female bones. Idk why it’s so hard for people to accept simply scientific truths now a days?
@@richie9878 It's more likely they'll identify the gender based on artifacts found nearby. If, for whatever reason, they decide to engage in the rather imprecise undertaking of identifying the _sex_ of the subject, they may then determine that the subject is cis- or transgender, whichever the case may be. They'll observe this nuance because it's well established in anthropological disciplines that transgender and third-gender people have existed in many, many cultures throughout history and across the world.
I'm ftm, and I work at a truck gate and the other day, a driver came through, very loudly listening to ben shapiro on his radio, and cheerfully called me sir and bro multiple times It was hilarious
Perhaps he listens to ”BS” to know his views and sharpen his argument aginst what ever BS, ”BS” was talking about? I listen to and read different peoples books and podcast etc. I am waaaay left of the american democratic party ( in my country they are seen as conservative) But I can still read or listen to what they say. If we only listen to people we agree with, it would get a bit boring. At least for me.
I had someone, upon realizing that I'm trans, say that I obviously don't understand biology. Dude, I'm a biological laboratory scientist and I'm in the room because you asked a question that the tech couldn't answer so she went and got the boss. Understanding biology is my fucking job.
@yes I guess it caught me off-guard. I'm usually watching out for racism and sexcism. Most of my team are women and POC. I don't tolerate that at all and have kicked people out of the lab for that sort of behavior. We're a small independent laboratory that does sample collection as well as testing, and the pandemic kicked everything up to 11. I suppose that since I'm much more protective of my team I'm not really watching out for transphobia or homophobia because I'm the only queer person there.
Lmao so I came out as trans to this kid when I still had long hair and he was like, oh you would be pretty if you weren’t a boy and so from then on, he used he/him pronouns for me for the rest of the year and nobody has or is planing on telling Him I’m from not mtf 😂 edit: Bro I forgot about this comment, thanks bro im famous
I actually had this recently. I came out to my nan (shes lesbian so I knew she'd accept me) before my birthday and on my birthday she accidentally referred to me by he (I wanted to keep it a secret from the rest of my family until I was comfortable, they're quite ignorant) and one of my cousins said "so you are a male. I thought so, you look nothing like a woman and you'll never be one". Thank you for the validation, as I'm TransMASC. Thank you for your content sam, it helped me realised why I was struggling with body issues and why it absolutely SUCKED on my period
I also want to be super validating and say. You will never be a women! Your a man and thats what you'll always be! (Terrible grammar because that's how transphobes type) I know you said transmasc so that either means you identify as a man or you're on the masculine end of the non-binary spectrum.
@@neon17.08 I was originally gonna say non-binary since I don't think I can fully say I'm a transman, but definitely on the end-end of non binary. Easier to just say transmasc if anyone asks, since they just assume you mean man
Congrats on coming out! I understand it's a very scary process! Please remember that even if you come out fully as a trans man to your family- and you release you're just a very masc enby, that it's completely and utterly valid to let people know. Discovering the gender you feel comfortable and happy within is a long process, figuring out that you are or aren't something is completely normal and valid
@@Valentino016 take your L it honestly sounds like you're responding to a comment on some kind of video detailing and picking apart the intricate storyline of a fantasy book for some reason
The funniest thing about people getting mad about the bathrooms is that you know for sure at least a few terfs have used the opposite restroom because the line to the women’s restroom was too long.
I'm afraid of using the bathroom with terfs. They seem weirdly obsessed with looking in my underwear. And no, I'm not trans. Also yes, i think (around here at least) nearly every cis woman has used the mens room when the womens was too long... It's been an accepted thing forever.
@Steve Drago you're right. Its worse because if they just barge in they may see parts of people those people didn't consent to showing off due to urinals. So its worse. They're being hypocrites and disrespecting the rights of random people they never met all in one! Terfs are really the worst.
Umm using the guys washroom when theres a line up at the girls washroom is normal woman take forever and the washrooms can be grosser than the mens washroom with woman not flushing leaving blood and piss all over the seat eer some woman out there....
As a 52 year old cis grandmother who loves your videos, and who has "completed the menopause," I am now going to go to many different stores demanding products be labeled differently, just so we can prove that individual wrong. 🤣 😆 Thanks for the humor today, Sam. ❤
I have both a trans daughter and son-in-law they married before they came to the conclusion they were trans so now at 40 years they have both transitioned and they are now two of the happiest people ! I have never seen my son smile they he does now I so happy for them both to be free to make this choice ! I love them both so very much !
I had the most wholesome version of this happen the other day. I’m mtf but not out, so still using the men’s restroom, and this middle aged dude walked in, looked up wide-eyed, walked back out for a couple seconds, then came back in and said “hey I think this is the men’s-“ before seeing my stubble and getting super embarrassed, at which point I just laughed it off and we both went on with our days. So I guess it’s good to know I can pass when I don’t even mean to lolll
no but that's so fucking sweet. as a trans guy, anytime a stranger calls me anything remotely masculine, my heart feels like it'll explode with how happy i am especially since my voice is still squeaky. coming across accidental allies can be so nice.
Ugh this is so frusterating... In so many ways. I worked in social services (group home environment) and we had a youth who was trying to find themselves. They changed names and genders weekly in order to help them to find what felt the most honest to them. We went every single step of the way with them... Just holding their hand through this confusing time. They eventually felt they were non binary and gay. It was truly a beautiful (and sometimes difficult) thing to see/support them through. But they're extremely happy now and THAT'S what matters the most.
@Dave Hanning well, if gay is being used as a specific sexuality, then the definition of that it is an attraction to someone who is not a woman that is coming from someone who is also not a woman. You can also be lesbian and non-binary due to that being pretty much the opposite of being gay. Hope I explained this well enough for you.
@@Magneticitist Honestly? I don't. I don't see a need to "define" somebody else's existence and would rather let them do that themselves. Perhaps it's my Asperger's talking, but I legit don't care what is or isn't between somebody's legs. That isn't what makes them who they are for me. If it does to you, well... you do you, I guess. 🤷♀️
You know I asked my dad to buy a pads for me since I really needed some and didn't see it as too troublesome. He did end up buying them but he was super mad about it after and I was so confused about it wondering why he was so embarrassed about it. Now I wonder if he was scared that people were gonna think he was a trans man smh.
Guys can be weird about period stuff. A funny thing. In the Baymax clip there is a cis guy who speaks up. "My daughter always gets me to buy these ones!" I love how that clip imagines a world with zero period stigma.
@@noobulon4334 Yeah, but that's the thing I asked him to buy some pads not clean my blood. I find it very gross too but he's not the one who has to bleed every 14 days so I find it rather upsetting.
Im expecting a baby girl in a few months and her genetic results came back that she’s likely to be missing an X chromosome. I guess she’ll never be a “real woman” according to some idiots because she doesnt have 2 X chromosomes 💀 imagine having such black and white thinking, could never be me.
"You're not a woman if you don't have a period" How about my elderly grandmother or my aunt who's had a hysterectomy? I'm pretty sure they're both women.
@@justsomeguy6336 Okay, "wom·an /ˈwo͝omən/ Learn to pronounce noun an adult female human being. "a drawing of a young woman"" I don't see what you are trying to exactly come off as, but being a "Woman" has many definitions. You see, the main definition is "an adult female human being". I will not deny that females are of the sex that give birth, have a uterus, and such, but that is a sex, not gender. Besides, are you gonna tell a person who doesn't have periods or who is infertile that they are less of a woman or not a woman at all? Besides, what makes you allowed to decide what is and isn't a woman? Are you saying that women who cannot have children or get pregnant, or have no uterus are men? Then tell me what men who cannot have children either due to any problems out of their control. So to your logic if someone is a woman, and they cannot have children, then they are a man? What are men without the ability to produce sperm? Are they a woman? I simply cannot find your logic. If you want to talk about this more we can.
I literally love transphobes so much sometimes because the ones that aren’t inherently dangerous are just stupid and it always allows for a good laugh.
@@merloni7642 well whoopty doooo and good for you what you want a reward show off can you get any more original captain obvious you literally just stold what Leo SAID and turn it around
@Dave Hanning no, absolutely not. HRT does help with dysphoria for a lot of people, however it isn't "mandatory" or something needed to be trans. Hormones / surgery or not, you will always be who you are.
@Dave Hanning surgery and hormone therapy is not needed to be considered trans. if you experience gender dysphoria, that is enough to call yourself trans if you want.
@@Amai_Husky that's..... not how being transgender works. that's just literally not how being transgender works. did the definition somehow totally change somewhere in the last 2 years without my knowing despite me being trans?
Recently my mom and I visited the floor for patients with mental issues in the hospital and the nurse who welcomed us had both masc and femme features. Somehow that made me incredibly happy. Seeing us out in the world in real life living our best lives, not only on the internet. It was such a nice experience for me, tho I didn't actually talk to them. I kinda would've loved to ask them for their pronouns as a little gesture that shows "I get you, I see you! You're doing well, you're not alone and I'm one of you". But I was too shy and didn't know whether they'd appreciate it. Later my mom told me that she couldn't figure out that person's gender. I once again realised that for so many people, knowing someone else's gender is extremely important when really, it isn't necessary.
My first experience with a trans person was in preschool I think. I just remember this little dude in class came to school and their hair was cut from long to really short. Turns out he had cut it himself cause his parents wouldn't let him. And he told everyone in class he's a boy. We all went with it cause it was whatever. People know what they want. And they will transition if they so choose. Hating your kids is not the way. The kid left the school soon after. And the parents came to fuss at the teacher for "turning" their kid. Also as a pan person idc if someone is trans, if I like someone I like them no matter what is in the pants
I can't believe that the transphobes are figuring out that all of us they/thems are actually various forms of swarms or collections of animals in a very realistic trench coat. Personally I don't know how long I can conceal the fact that I'm just a swarm of bees 😔
These are always so great. As a pre-t trans guy, I really hope that I, too, will one day be able to bamboozle the transphobes into saying I'm a real man when they're trying to call me a confused woman.
This type of BS has gotten me beat to a plup many many times over the decades. Funny thing, now I am an ER/ICU nurse and no one has asked if I am XX or XY when they want me to help save their life. People just need to let others be who they are and accept them that way. Who knows it could lead to some really good friendships.
Love this series. I'll never forget the accidental ally on my Twitter who tried to harass me by saying "You look like you have low T, get to the doctor and then the gym!" and as a ftm I was like "omg thank youuuu~ :D" and the troll didn't reply, lmao.
what bothers me about the comments and messages where someone says "you are a man" is that they are *trying* to hurt the person they're talking to. it upsets and confuses me that there are people who want to hurt others and go out of their way to do so.
i know this is 4 months old but thank you so much for making videos. my parents just came over and i realised they are homophobic/transphobic af and my mother deadass told me, a nb queer individual, that being queer should be criminalized and a lot of other horrible things. im not out to them. they left and i started sobbing. your video made me feel so much better. thank you.
i hate when people say "you're not a real woman if you dont have a period or cant have childeren" like guess what, you're not only being disrepectful to trans women but you're also being disrespectful to intersex woman and woman who are infertile.
No they are not disrespecting those woman who cant have periods or infertile or whatever else might be stopping them from having a kid or a normal cycle that is normal for woman if they where healthy and no medical issues and aint trying to change themselves into a man... people are just confused as to how the whole trans thing really works....
@@cupidbaby78 one thing, trans men aren't trying to "change themselves into a man". They do take hormones and/ or undergo surgery so that they outer appearance matches the inside, because they were men all along. It's like you're wearing shoes that are way too small for you 24/7 without a break. The shoes don't fit the foot, just like the şēx doesn't fit the gender. And especially after a long time of discomfort, having the shoes or şēx that *does* fit is a pure moment of euphoria for the person.
My friend was a manager at a restaurant we used to work at and a lady spit at him and said "you'll never be a real woman!" dude is a trans man so he ended up just laughing and said thank you
I've always asked anyone who thinks Trans individuals should only use the restrooms that match their birth gender: "What the HELL do YOU do in public restrooms anyway?"
I love how this dude says some of the sweetest/nicest things and is just overall happy. But then his voice and face(most the time, sometimes just voice is,) are just in the most monotonous setting possible. I exist simply to watch his videos:')
At 3:50 you said that chromosomes aren’t imbedded in every cell in your body, which is not true, chromosomes are in every cell in the nucleus. I still agree with the points but I thought you should know :)
You know I remember when I was in the military. We were doing a wilderness survival thing about starting fires in harsh conditions, and the instructor guy told us all that we should all buy tampons to bring with us as an easily portable way to have something dry to light up in emergencies. Yes all the guys bought tampons. Yes they were jealous that some of us girls had some already pact to try out the hack during the course.
Whenever I read other peoples comments about trans people, and people being transphobic, I always love to watch your vids because I’m a trans man as well even though I’m a minor. You always make me happy even when people stupidity hurts.
I'm a 70 yr young trans woman, I just met my 22 yr old grand daughters 42 yr old boy friend. She told her boyfriend that I was trans and we were just talking and all of a sudden he comes up with a trans woman should used women's restrooms.. We went around in circles a few minutes and I figures hes a fricking transphobe and walk out of the restaurant were we were having lunch. Later my grand daughter messaged me and even though she loves me dearly but, she sadly can't understand that he's transphobic and swears he's not.
3:45 actually sam this is true. Chromosomes *are* in the nucleus of every cell in the body. They're necessary for cell division (which is how we grow obvs) because they hold the DNA and allow it to be accurately copied. Mistakes and mutations during this copying is how we get diseases like cancer. So the guy is wrong for being transphobic but right about the fact that, y'know, that's where our chromosomes are.
Right, and he also needs to work on his spelling. Also, on the subject of chromosomes, I always tell the "two genders" crowd that there are literally more than two genders because intersex people exist. Who can have XXY or XYY chromosomes. Are those male or female chromosomes? Imbedded in the cells? lol
I find the gender neutral bathroom debate hilarious because what transphobes probably don't understand is that in their own family home, with their mom, dad siblings whatever...they all use the same toilet, and that is gender neutral. But god forbid it's done outside of their family home. Also i do not think that some random ass person would dig my rotting corpse up to DNA test my bones to see what gender i was assigned at birth, neither do i think would that work on anyone because one theres people who cremate, and second its a random person probably no one cares to dig up and third i think that people in the future will be more (probably) accepting towards trans people.
i genuinely hate transphobes and homophobes, ive only met one trans person irl, and he is not only my boyfriend, but also the sweetest, most caring person ive ever met. trans men are men, trans women see women. keep going strong, king!
I'm a straight cis gender woman and don't care whether people think I'm gay, straight, or completely misgender me, I just don't give a shit one way or another. I'm not patting myself on the back I'm just secure enough in my sexuality and quite frankly too damn old to give a crap about what anybody thinks about me.
When I was a small child, I tried to be nice to everyone, but "trans" really confused me cause I couldnt ask much people about what it meant. Now I'm trans👍
Just had to say all your content is so educational..I kinda view you as my main source of info when it comes to learning about the community..the world needs more pople like you.. I'm grateful for you sharing your life and experiences with us..sending you positive energies and good vibes..
I remember when I was in fifth grade and I was first learning about trans people and I thought that trans girls were ftm and trans men were mtf. After learning more about the trans community, I soon realized that that wasn’t correct. It’s always nice to know that fully grown adults can be dumber than I was in fifth grade.
Advanced science fact: there is a known case of an XY intersex woman who gave birth to an XY daughter who also gave birth to an XY daughter. Genetics and kareotyping are a crazy science.
Hey! Just came here from One Topic's channel and wanted to say I freaking love your voice! And I find your deadpan commentary on the transpobia is both interesting and funny😊 Definitely going to watch some more when I get home from work!
I love how controversial loving who you love and being who you are is presented in that one cartoon. Are we supposed to argue with that sentiment? Like no kids, be miserable for life !!
The whole "XX or XY chromosomes only" argument is not just stupid, it is entirely wrong. Yes, those are the usual chromosome pairings, but people can have mutations with their 23rd set of chromosomes, some common examples are: Turner Syndrome: X Chromosome Klinefelter Syndrome: XXY Chromosomes Jacob's Syndrome: XYY Chromosomes Triple X Syndrome: XXX Chromosomes These aren't horribly rare either, going like this (estimates): Turner Syndrome: 1 in 2,000 to 1 in 2,500 Klinefelter Syndrome: 1 in 500 to 1 in 660 Jacob's Syndrome: 1 in 1,000 Triple X Syndrome: 1 in 1,000 In fact, you could even say these are somewhat COMMON, so, no, there is not only XX or XY
@@justsomeguy6336 mutations are not inherently bad, some are good, and some don't do anything. There's a good chance even you have a dormant mutation in your genes somewhere.
I had a fun one once. I'm a trans lady, and had a young queer person tell me "your beard is coming in so well!" It was so wholesome I didn't have the heart to tell them that i'm lasering it off!
Y'all- it really isn't that hard to ask questions. People in my theater were talking about trans people and my 5th grade self asked if a guy would be called a trans man or a trans woman. Like if a 10 year old can ask a question, so can you
Before I realized I was trans, I asked a trans person this. Was not difficult at all. Just sad it took me so long since my autism prevents me and others from communicating together so I have a tendency to self isolate.
I was misgendered once on purpose because I have a bit of facial hair. I don’t look like a man at all. I am AFAB and Cis. This Karen had to leave quickly because she felt so uncomfortable with my presence there. I didn’t even move a muscle. That’s power there. Power is to strike fear into Karen’s everywhere without moving a finger!!!!
On your chromosomes it says 'XX or XY or XXY or the other few variations' No-where does it say 'Woman' or 'Man'. Languages separate people by chromosomes using pronouns, for no needed reason. People's gender in their body and brain develop separately, so the same way your genetics can make you intersex, your mind can be disaligned to your body. The weirdest thing is in countries where the culture completely bans any reference to the LGBTQ plus community, there are still members of the community (and in ancient remains,animals etc... so being in this community is literally only ignored and bad in one context, someone decided to be a dick). If 'facts don't care about your feelings' then why are all these facts overlooked. Like even if trans people only seem 'sick' to you (weird as there are animals that display being trans) then why does the treatment which works matter to you. Begging to 'not be a part of the delusion' makes it sound like the only obstacle to their factually-proven-effective-treatment is your feelings. Fact: social (and sometimes physical) transitioning helps people with gender dysphoria live so much happier after a long time of preventable suffering. Nationality is mainly a social thing (it is influenced by genetics to ,as you are more likely to live in a certain region due to having specific genetics, but people still connect their identity to where they grew up which can differ from what is expected from their race). Race is almost fully genetic, like sex, but include things like mutations that change hormone levels that cause a different phenotype to what you expect, also caused by tumors that grow after birth. I am black and british. One is genetic and one part is my social identity standpoint. A transman for example has shown his genetic past in the 'trans' part (really only relevent to doctors though) and the 'man' part shows their social place. No-one would ever choose to suffer the life of being trans ,especially in third-world-countries. Yet they do. Overall when society tries to push away people it believes cannot 'fit' in its system, it does this by dehumanising them. Examples: the holocaust, the greek trandition of allowing disabled babies to freeze to death, segregation, the apartheid, the murder of trans and gay people by law and socially, the murder of apostates in religiously governed countries. It all starts with dehumanisation, then tolerance of such dehumanisation, then the obsession of 'ridding' these people, then public attacks both by government authorities (for example the ban on abortion in the USA) and by locals (shootings,lynching etc...) People think its 'these people' that cause the trouble ,by existing, when its those who wage a war against them that cause the issue. The ignorance is unbelievable as most people deem themselves as intelligent. You can be both intelligent and socially conditioned to be ignorant. I like to think of the world as a place in which people engineer the future. Facts- the current place of the world. Feelings- the emotions that drive the goals ,which by using facts (like physical facts), can become reality (like a trans person physically transitioning with hormones and surgery). The idea that facts have a holy status is already an established fallacy, the natural fallacy. Just because one thing is true , someone is born in a male body, does not mean that changing this fact is evil. Honestly it is also a fact that our bodies can be feminised or masculinised just as much as it is a fact that our bodies are born in an initial state. I ,as a hopeful future engineer, see the world as a canvas for human emotion to morph into a happy,individualistic (so inclusive) world. Saying a trans person is unnatural is like saying humans flying (paragliding) is unnatural or like saying women playing basketball is unnatural. So what. Their happy. The irony is that we made up: gender roles, the concept of only two sexes (false), sports, medicine, countries, strict races, pronouns etc... Apparantly they are not allowed to be adapted to suit the needs of today and the future. That is the DEFINITION of UNSUSTAINABILITY. OK I am done now. Do not expect anyone to read all this. 😅
Idk why but the skeleton discourse reminded me of Regina Hall yelling "Cindy this is a skeleton!! This is bones!!" in Scary Movie 2. Sam you'd love that movie.
Just a small correction, every cell does have all 46 chromosomes (23 pairs including the sex ones). Obviously this doesn’t have anything to do with how someone identifies.
The only thing I think needs to be figured out is the whole "trans people in the olympics" etc stuff. Obviously there needs to be something figured out because it's just straight unfair advantages to have a trans woman against binary women, that's the only thing that sticks out to me, it's just obviously something that can't stick, there needs to be some sort of secondary thing specifically for trans people. But aside from that, I'm a full supporter.
Sam.... i started yawning and litterally the second after you said "why are you yawning" while i was still jawning, dont get me wrong but you scared the shit out of me.
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That was so creepy I yawned and literally 2 seconds later: 6:03 THAT'S CREEPY
@@TheRedRos NO BECUASE THAT IS WHAT I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT BHAHAHAH
sam that was scary i had just yawned😭😭
13:20 My reddit post, thank you for sharing it.
I swear these people must really think that r@pists will see the women's sign on a restroom and go "Aw squat! I was going to harass some women, but this bathroom is only for ladies, and I'd never go in there without a good enough reason." Like a fucking bathroom sign is gonna stop a predator.
their logic is out the window
Statistically public bathrooms are pretty safe places. Public, well lit, a part of or near high traffic locations, and not private. Of course there are exceptions and currently all the politics are making public bathrooms significantly less safe for trans people. But historically bathrooms and change rooms are not where women and AFAB people need to be particularly worried.
@@CorwinFound yeah I never feel unsafe in most public restrooms. Most predators aren't just going to walk into a bathroom they're not supposed to be in and start harassing the people in them. They're gross.
I agree 100% but thank you for putting it in a way that I can explain to my mom next time she complains about it
That sign can't stop me cause I can't read...
Plus I do not adhere to normal behaviours of a functional human so fuck it
I talked to a forensic person on Twitter recently who told me that with even existing technology they'd be able to figure out from bones that a person was trans. (Assuming HRT for some period of time.) So not only would this theoretical archeologist not misgender us, they'd also be able to say that we were trans. Pretty cool stuff but obviously beyond grade 5 science that the phobes adhere to.
that is so sick I love having transgender bones
got transgender stamped on each of my bones
@@SupraMan38 Cant be misgendered by an archeologist if you litteraly feel it in your bones
That's awesome!!! Sometimes I think about that in the back of my mind, it's nice to know that no matter what, I'll always be recognized as a man
Most modern archeologists also adhere to strict moral codes and respecting the body of the person you are examining includes respecting their culture, gender and lifestyle among other things. Also about 100 percent of the time if we are just looking at bones we are guessing the sex. It's never 100 percent certainty when examining bones alone.
People denying intersex people existence is quite annoying too. They act like they know so much on chromosomes and proceed to say there's only xx and xy lol
I think they know there's more than xx and xy but as a Sunday school teacher taught me those people are just "extra female or extra male" and also considered abominations and blunders of God. They know intersex people exist, they just fucking hate them and want to fix them as soon as possible. But if you want to fuck with their head, tell them that there are people born with xy chromosomes who look female and have female genitalia. I wonder if those people are still required to "be the men they are."
You know nobody can deny intersex as a thing, its fact
But its not really an own sex 🤜🤛
@@sussybaka9878 ?
@@Lonely_Raven_666
♑
@shutupdude why are you here than? Lmao
Accidental LGBTQ+ allies has to be my favorite RUclips series on the internet
ME TOO SO FUN
@@SupraMan38 best of all Elliot Page biological male. Finally they admit that physical transition is sex change.😁
Same! Because they try so hard to hate us but still don’t get it right! Haha
You’ll definitely like the subreddit r/AccidentalAlly then
i love accidental allies, once in a tik tok comment section i mentioned how im a trans guy and someone started "attacking" me saying how im a man and can never change that, and how ill never be a women no matter how hard i tried, made me feel good about myself not gonna lie :) it also just shows how uneducated people are, they dont even know who theyre attacking
You'll never be a woman no matter how hard you try!!
/half joke (like you'll never be a woman heheh but also i wouldn't say that to a transfemme either) but also heyyyy, im glad he accidentally gave you some free gender euphoria hehehe
oh it's so satisfying to see people embarrass themselves. that's why knowledge is power!
btw you rock, man!! ✨
as a 🌩 straight white man all of this shit is confusing and I don’t blame anyone who isn’t updating their gender often for not understanding it
@@ninjireal okay but if they arent updated on gender or anything about it they shouldnt be speaking about it like they do, you just said yourself your a straight guy and you come in saying how trans people should react
@@ballsfartpissmychannelisdead i said nothing of the sort, stop putting words in my mouth :/
When in the Netherlands, the men's public bathroom was closed so everyone had to use the women's bathroom. Nothing happened, we were all a bunch of people waiting in line to get their euro's worth of pissing time
„Their euro‘s worth of pissing time“ has me CACKLING
In bars and clubs around here, many people just use the bathroom with the shortest line and no one cares.
Damn, duur toilet en zo😂
This is kinda unrelated but I was at a concert once and the bathrooms there were divided into one bathroom for female, trans people and... idk other people but i kinda forgot the acronym haha; meanwhile the other bathroom was just "all genders" and I think thats epic
i was literally gonna say, who really even pays attention to who else is using the restroom. im there to do one thing and leave. i dont know why people find it so hard to mind their business
As a trans woman, I can confirm that I will never be a man. It’s basic science.
very true!!
Your not a women
@@Valentino016 learn speak first
@@Valentino016 yes she is lmao
@@Valentino016 yea she is
It’s so sad when ppl use the argument of “you don’t have period? You not women.” Because I’m cis and I don’t have my period atm cause I might have PCOS which in the long run can cause infertility which also plays into the argument “if you can’t have a child you’re not a women”. I’m tired of these people thinking their SOOO smart when they’re just ignorant pieces of crap. Also if I do in some ways I’m happy because I may have to go through hormone therapy and then I can just use that as an argument against transphobes lol
thank you thank you thank you
*woman
Eyyy pcos gang
@@sobotica4173 shhhh we don’t talk about my spelling/grammar lol
@@kvr404 yeahhhh
When a archeologist digs your skull they aren’t going to care about if it’s a man or a woman skull, they are going to say “Oh my god, hey Joel look I just found a skull. It look so cool. I love my job, archeology is fucking awesome.”
This is such a lovely comment 😊
And who even cares what people say about their skulls? At that point you're long dead
Except for all of these skeletons laying around which have all been gendered.
They will classify the bones according to one of the two human sexes based off well established differences between male and female bones. Idk why it’s so hard for people to accept simply scientific truths now a days?
@@richie9878 It's more likely they'll identify the gender based on artifacts found nearby. If, for whatever reason, they decide to engage in the rather imprecise undertaking of identifying the _sex_ of the subject, they may then determine that the subject is cis- or transgender, whichever the case may be. They'll observe this nuance because it's well established in anthropological disciplines that transgender and third-gender people have existed in many, many cultures throughout history and across the world.
if i cared about a hypothetical archeologist digging up my body and finding out what my biological sex was i’d just get cremated
BABAHAHA
I'm ftm, and I work at a truck gate
and the other day, a driver came through, very loudly listening to ben shapiro on his radio, and cheerfully called me sir and bro multiple times
It was hilarious
Perhaps he listens to ”BS” to know his views and sharpen his argument aginst what ever BS, ”BS” was talking about? I listen to and read different peoples books and podcast etc. I am waaaay left of the american democratic party ( in my country they are seen as conservative) But I can still read or listen to what they say. If we only listen to people we agree with, it would get a bit boring. At least for me.
I had someone, upon realizing that I'm trans, say that I obviously don't understand biology. Dude, I'm a biological laboratory scientist and I'm in the room because you asked a question that the tech couldn't answer so she went and got the boss. Understanding biology is my fucking job.
@yes I guess it caught me off-guard.
I'm usually watching out for racism and sexcism. Most of my team are women and POC. I don't tolerate that at all and have kicked people out of the lab for that sort of behavior. We're a small independent laboratory that does sample collection as well as testing, and the pandemic kicked everything up to 11.
I suppose that since I'm much more protective of my team I'm not really watching out for transphobia or homophobia because I'm the only queer person there.
That person is *sooooo smart*.....
That is priceless.
Massive kudos to you. 😁
...you're kinda doing a bad job.
Lmao so I came out as trans to this kid when I still had long hair and he was like, oh you would be pretty if you weren’t a boy and so from then on, he used he/him pronouns for me for the rest of the year and nobody has or is planing on telling Him I’m from not mtf 😂
edit: Bro I forgot about this comment, thanks bro im famous
LMFAO
LMAOOO
EPIC WIN
He's a little confused, be he's got the spirit
W
I actually had this recently. I came out to my nan (shes lesbian so I knew she'd accept me) before my birthday and on my birthday she accidentally referred to me by he (I wanted to keep it a secret from the rest of my family until I was comfortable, they're quite ignorant) and one of my cousins said "so you are a male. I thought so, you look nothing like a woman and you'll never be one". Thank you for the validation, as I'm TransMASC.
Thank you for your content sam, it helped me realised why I was struggling with body issues and why it absolutely SUCKED on my period
I also want to be super validating and say.
You will never be a women! Your a man and thats what you'll always be!
(Terrible grammar because that's how transphobes type)
I know you said transmasc so that either means you identify as a man or you're on the masculine end of the non-binary spectrum.
@@neon17.08 I was originally gonna say non-binary since I don't think I can fully say I'm a transman, but definitely on the end-end of non binary. Easier to just say transmasc if anyone asks, since they just assume you mean man
@@moraelity
I'm non-binary too, I think I'm also more on the trans masc side of the spectrum, but I also have no idea and I could be entirely agender.
@@neon17.08 whichever you are, you're completely valid because gender is a spectrum
Congrats on coming out! I understand it's a very scary process! Please remember that even if you come out fully as a trans man to your family- and you release you're just a very masc enby, that it's completely and utterly valid to let people know. Discovering the gender you feel comfortable and happy within is a long process, figuring out that you are or aren't something is completely normal and valid
Reminder that if you're a cis person in a bathroom with a transperson statistically you're more of a threat to them then they are to you.
Dang you right... id never considered that.
“theyre more scared of you than you are of them”
How does this make any sense? our world is destroyed
@@Valentino016 take your L
it honestly sounds like you're responding to a comment on some kind of video detailing and picking apart the intricate storyline of a fantasy book for some reason
@@Valentino016 "I don't understand the comment, so clearly it's wrong"
As the other person said, just take your L and move on.
Also archeologists take EVERYTHING in to account. They will look at the clothes you were buried in and the name on your headstone.
That seems more like applying gender norms to people. What happens if a cis femboy gets buried in feminine clothes?
about the women needing to have periods thing, i guess once you enter menopause you're automatically a man now
Women who go through menopause? Man
Women who cant have kids? Man
women who dont get periods? Man
Children? All of them default men now
Or if you're on birth control that has the side effect of stopping your periods... I guess I've been a dude for 5 years now 🤷♀️
I guess we should add little girls who haven’t hit puberty & women who’ve had hysterectomies in the mix too.
Suffered with an ed for most of my life, and on the implant. I haven't had a period since I was like 14. Guess ive been a man for 8 years haha
The funniest thing about people getting mad about the bathrooms is that you know for sure at least a few terfs have used the opposite restroom because the line to the women’s restroom was too long.
how the tables turn
I'm afraid of using the bathroom with terfs. They seem weirdly obsessed with looking in my underwear. And no, I'm not trans.
Also yes, i think (around here at least) nearly every cis woman has used the mens room when the womens was too long... It's been an accepted thing forever.
@Steve Drago you're right. Its worse because if they just barge in they may see parts of people those people didn't consent to showing off due to urinals. So its worse. They're being hypocrites and disrespecting the rights of random people they never met all in one! Terfs are really the worst.
Umm using the guys washroom when theres a line up at the girls washroom is normal woman take forever and the washrooms can be grosser than the mens washroom with woman not flushing leaving blood and piss all over the seat eer some woman out there....
@Steve Drago How literally how
As a 52 year old cis grandmother who loves your videos, and who has "completed the menopause," I am now going to go to many different stores demanding products be labeled differently, just so we can prove that individual wrong. 🤣 😆 Thanks for the humor today, Sam. ❤
Aww i wanna hug you
I have both a trans daughter and son-in-law they married before they came to the conclusion they were trans so now at 40 years they have both transitioned and they are now two of the happiest people ! I have never seen my son smile they he does now I so happy for them both to be free to make this choice ! I love them both so very much !
awww, this is so sweet and wholesome! best wishes to you and your family!! ❤️
AYE WE LOVE A CUTE T4T RELATIONSHIP
I had the most wholesome version of this happen the other day. I’m mtf but not out, so still using the men’s restroom, and this middle aged dude walked in, looked up wide-eyed, walked back out for a couple seconds, then came back in and said “hey I think this is the men’s-“ before seeing my stubble and getting super embarrassed, at which point I just laughed it off and we both went on with our days. So I guess it’s good to know I can pass when I don’t even mean to lolll
That is super wholesome!
no but that's so fucking sweet. as a trans guy, anytime a stranger calls me anything remotely masculine, my heart feels like it'll explode with how happy i am especially since my voice is still squeaky. coming across accidental allies can be so nice.
Aw, hell yeah, sister! Ain't that the dream? Can't wait to get there myself 🏳️⚧️
Ugh this is so frusterating... In so many ways.
I worked in social services (group home environment) and we had a youth who was trying to find themselves. They changed names and genders weekly in order to help them to find what felt the most honest to them. We went every single step of the way with them... Just holding their hand through this confusing time.
They eventually felt they were non binary and gay. It was truly a beautiful (and sometimes difficult) thing to see/support them through. But they're extremely happy now and THAT'S what matters the most.
@Dave Hanning well, if gay is being used as a specific sexuality, then the definition of that it is an attraction to someone who is not a woman that is coming from someone who is also not a woman. You can also be lesbian and non-binary due to that being pretty much the opposite of being gay. Hope I explained this well enough for you.
@@leafytea9536 Don’t bother with them, they’re a troll
@@michace yeah. I was just hoping that wasn't the case :/
it always confuses me when they assume that trans people would call themselves what they don’t want to be-
they make it so much more confusing
It's because they see trans people as their AGAB, so when they think of a man who is trans they picture a trans woman
@@SupraMan38 I'm fairly convinced that they live in constant confusion when anything goes beyond fifth-grade education levels.
@@asherikamichaela8425 So.. How do you define males and females? What does that mean to you?
@@Magneticitist Honestly? I don't. I don't see a need to "define" somebody else's existence and would rather let them do that themselves. Perhaps it's my Asperger's talking, but I legit don't care what is or isn't between somebody's legs. That isn't what makes them who they are for me. If it does to you, well... you do you, I guess. 🤷♀️
6:08 I was LITERALLY yawning and Sam just started their sponsor link. The timing is impeccable 😂
that is SCARY
I was yawning when I found this! Impeccable
@@theradioestofbois same
Literally same💀
You know I asked my dad to buy a pads for me since I really needed some and didn't see it as too troublesome. He did end up buying them but he was super mad about it after and I was so confused about it wondering why he was so embarrassed about it.
Now I wonder if he was scared that people were gonna think he was a trans man smh.
Guys can be weird about period stuff. A funny thing. In the Baymax clip there is a cis guy who speaks up. "My daughter always gets me to buy these ones!" I love how that clip imagines a world with zero period stigma.
I always just assumed that men who were uncomfortable about period products just assumed they would explode when touched.
To be fair, the thought of bleeding from your genatals is unsettling. but also get over it they're not even your genatals
@@noobulon4334 Yeah, but that's the thing I asked him to buy some pads not clean my blood.
I find it very gross too but he's not the one who has to bleed every 14 days so I find it rather upsetting.
Really? My dad just bought them. The only question he asked was what color. I love my dad.
Im expecting a baby girl in a few months and her genetic results came back that she’s likely to be missing an X chromosome. I guess she’ll never be a “real woman” according to some idiots because she doesnt have 2 X chromosomes 💀 imagine having such black and white thinking, could never be me.
They are clueless about the wide world of chromosomes
"You're not a woman if you don't have a period" How about my elderly grandmother or my aunt who's had a hysterectomy? I'm pretty sure they're both women.
“Had a hysterectomy.”
@@justsomeguy6336 You can be a woman without a uterus.
@@0ldAcc0unt Define “woman”
@@justsomeguy6336 Okay,
"wom·an
/ˈwo͝omən/
Learn to pronounce
noun
an adult female human being.
"a drawing of a young woman""
I don't see what you are trying to exactly come off as, but being a "Woman" has many definitions. You see, the main definition is "an adult female human being".
I will not deny that females are of the sex that give birth, have a uterus, and such, but that is a sex, not gender.
Besides, are you gonna tell a person who doesn't have periods or who is infertile that they are less of a woman or not a woman at all?
Besides, what makes you allowed to decide what is and isn't a woman? Are you saying that women who cannot have children or get pregnant, or have no uterus are men? Then tell me what men who cannot have children either due to any problems out of their control. So to your logic if someone is a woman, and they cannot have children, then they are a man? What are men without the ability to produce sperm? Are they a woman? I simply cannot find your logic.
If you want to talk about this more we can.
@@justsomeguy6336 A “woman” is someone who identifies as such. Next.
I literally love transphobes so much sometimes because the ones that aren’t inherently dangerous are just stupid and it always allows for a good laugh.
I say the same thing about lgbtq people
@@merloni7642 well whoopty doooo and good for you what you want a reward show off can you get any more original captain obvious you literally just stold what Leo SAID and turn it around
Yes every trans person goes through years of hormone therapy, and spend tons of money on surgery just be peeping toms in public bathrooms.
@Dave Hanning no, absolutely not. HRT does help with dysphoria for a lot of people, however it isn't "mandatory" or something needed to be trans. Hormones / surgery or not, you will always be who you are.
@Dave Hanning surgery and hormone therapy is not needed to be considered trans. if you experience gender dysphoria, that is enough to call yourself trans if you want.
Your dumb I hope you were joking and not that much a dumbass
@@wonkybeansyou technically dont even need dysphoria to be trans because alot of people just prefer to be something different, no dysphoria involved.
@@Amai_Husky that's..... not how being transgender works. that's just literally not how being transgender works. did the definition somehow totally change somewhere in the last 2 years without my knowing despite me being trans?
I actually yawned right before he said “were you yawning?” And it scared the shit out of me
Recently my mom and I visited the floor for patients with mental issues in the hospital and the nurse who welcomed us had both masc and femme features. Somehow that made me incredibly happy. Seeing us out in the world in real life living our best lives, not only on the internet. It was such a nice experience for me, tho I didn't actually talk to them. I kinda would've loved to ask them for their pronouns as a little gesture that shows "I get you, I see you! You're doing well, you're not alone and I'm one of you". But I was too shy and didn't know whether they'd appreciate it. Later my mom told me that she couldn't figure out that person's gender. I once again realised that for so many people, knowing someone else's gender is extremely important when really, it isn't necessary.
My first experience with a trans person was in preschool I think. I just remember this little dude in class came to school and their hair was cut from long to really short. Turns out he had cut it himself cause his parents wouldn't let him. And he told everyone in class he's a boy. We all went with it cause it was whatever. People know what they want. And they will transition if they so choose. Hating your kids is not the way. The kid left the school soon after. And the parents came to fuss at the teacher for "turning" their kid.
Also as a pan person idc if someone is trans, if I like someone I like them no matter what is in the pants
hi sam!! i hope your are doing well today and i hope you’ve had plenty of water :)
i hope you are too :D
@@SupraMan38 thank you!!
I can't believe that the transphobes are figuring out that all of us they/thems are actually various forms of swarms or collections of animals in a very realistic trench coat. Personally I don't know how long I can conceal the fact that I'm just a swarm of bees 😔
Yeah...I myself am three foxes in a Sherpa coat... We might have to go into hiding again
(also why does this suddenly seem like it would be a funny comic-)
as a they/them can confirm I am multiple possums struggling at humaning please send trash
These are always so great. As a pre-t trans guy, I really hope that I, too, will one day be able to bamboozle the transphobes into saying I'm a real man when they're trying to call me a confused woman.
Go for it handsome 😚
Hey I just wanna say you're one of my favorite youtubers and you always make me laugh. I hope you have a good day Sam and take care of yourself
thank you so much i hope you have a great day
This type of BS has gotten me beat to a plup many many times over the decades. Funny thing, now I am an ER/ICU nurse and no one has asked if I am XX or XY when they want me to help save their life. People just need to let others be who they are and accept them that way. Who knows it could lead to some really good friendships.
Love this series. I'll never forget the accidental ally on my Twitter who tried to harass me by saying "You look like you have low T, get to the doctor and then the gym!" and as a ftm I was like "omg thank youuuu~ :D" and the troll didn't reply, lmao.
“I don’t get how you can be more then one person” 😂 I love that as a demigirl
what bothers me about the comments and messages where someone says "you are a man" is that they are *trying* to hurt the person they're talking to. it upsets and confuses me that there are people who want to hurt others and go out of their way to do so.
IM SORRY
I YAWNED AND YOU ASKING "were you yawning" TERRIFIED ME
that would scare me i would unsub asap
they will scream “Not all men!!” but will be so quick to group all trans people together.
it genuinely pisses me off when people define womanhood as being able to carry a child. like wtf
Cry
Laugh
@@justsomeguy6336 some cis women are infertile lmao
@@angelicosubs And?
Classic woman argument.
i know this is 4 months old but thank you so much for making videos. my parents just came over and i realised they are homophobic/transphobic af and my mother deadass told me, a nb queer individual, that being queer should be criminalized and a lot of other horrible things. im not out to them. they left and i started sobbing. your video made me feel so much better. thank you.
i hate when people say "you're not a real woman if you dont have a period or cant have childeren" like guess what, you're not only being disrepectful to trans women but you're also being disrespectful to intersex woman and woman who are infertile.
not only that but also women who simply *can't* get their periods because of PCOS or other things
No they are not disrespecting those woman who cant have periods or infertile or whatever else might be stopping them from having a kid or a normal cycle that is normal for woman if they where healthy and no medical issues and aint trying to change themselves into a man... people are just confused as to how the whole trans thing really works....
@@cupidbaby78 you're obsessed lol, stop stalking trans youtubers
@@cupidbaby78 one thing, trans men aren't trying to "change themselves into a man". They do take hormones and/ or undergo surgery so that they outer appearance matches the inside, because they were men all along. It's like you're wearing shoes that are way too small for you 24/7 without a break. The shoes don't fit the foot, just like the şēx doesn't fit the gender. And especially after a long time of discomfort, having the shoes or şēx that *does* fit is a pure moment of euphoria for the person.
You can do whoever you want- AS LONG AS ITS CONSENSUAL!!
AND AS LONG THEY ARE NOT A MINOR AND YOU ARE NOT ONE 😀👍
@@iamlostagain YES
i thought you said “whatever” and i was confused why you’d need consent to like, go swimming lol
My friend was a manager at a restaurant we used to work at and a lady spit at him and said "you'll never be a real woman!"
dude is a trans man so he ended up just laughing and said thank you
I've always asked anyone who thinks Trans individuals should only use the restrooms that match their birth gender: "What the HELL do YOU do in public restrooms anyway?"
They ask them if they have a penis or not because they don't want THEM to make THEM uncomfortable. As if that wasn't hypocritical enough.
I love how this dude says some of the sweetest/nicest things and is just overall happy. But then his voice and face(most the time, sometimes just voice is,) are just in the most monotonous setting possible. I exist simply to watch his videos:')
“ I can’t use they/them…bc I haven’t learned how to use them.”
It gets me when someone’s being hateful and fucks up the grammar 😂 they’re* not their
When those archeologists dig my skeleton up , they won't know how much they fucked up, my skeletons gonna be running free
I literally JUST got through with watching a NoahFinnce video, I'm so glad i can watch these new videos back to back lmao
Hell yeah
bro me too
i hope you're doing well sam!! you're one of my favorite youtubers, i found you recently and your videos are fun to watch!
thank you so much :D
I’m so glad I just have to not have kids and I can successfully not be a woman. nonbinary win.
nonbinary: 1
Transphobe: 0
Me: child-free
Also me: cis woman
People trying to make transphobic arguments: mad
I have been forcibly removed from womanhood
As a trans woman, I loooove your content! You are an absolutely amazing person, never forget that! I f*king love you bro!
At 3:50 you said that chromosomes aren’t imbedded in every cell in your body, which is not true, chromosomes are in every cell in the nucleus. I still agree with the points but I thought you should know :)
Hey dude, just want to remind u that u don't owe us anything, to go easy on yourself, and thanks for all the lives you help.
You know I remember when I was in the military. We were doing a wilderness survival thing about starting fires in harsh conditions, and the instructor guy told us all that we should all buy tampons to bring with us as an easily portable way to have something dry to light up in emergencies. Yes all the guys bought tampons. Yes they were jealous that some of us girls had some already pact to try out the hack during the course.
I'm AFAB & I can't have periods naturally because I was born without my pituitary gland. So I would have to take hormones to do so.
Whenever I read other peoples comments about trans people, and people being transphobic, I always love to watch your vids because I’m a trans man as well even though I’m a minor. You always make me happy even when people stupidity hurts.
How can people live a whole life and not know which form of there/they're/their to use?
I'm a 70 yr young trans woman, I just met my 22 yr old grand daughters 42 yr old boy friend. She told her boyfriend that I was trans and we were just talking and all of a sudden he comes up with a trans woman should used women's restrooms.. We went around in circles a few minutes and I figures hes a fricking transphobe and walk out of the restaurant were we were having lunch. Later my grand daughter messaged me and even though she loves me dearly but, she sadly can't understand that he's transphobic and swears he's not.
So do you think trans women are actually women if so why because I would think you would understand simple Scientific truths by now?
I love this subreddit. It’s one of my go-to places to find content because I make terf fail compilations on my Tiktok lol
your tik tok is rad then
someone actually said that to me while i was outside. atleast i passed as cis i guess lmao.
gotta love em
3:45 actually sam this is true. Chromosomes *are* in the nucleus of every cell in the body. They're necessary for cell division (which is how we grow obvs) because they hold the DNA and allow it to be accurately copied. Mistakes and mutations during this copying is how we get diseases like cancer. So the guy is wrong for being transphobic but right about the fact that, y'know, that's where our chromosomes are.
Right, and he also needs to work on his spelling. Also, on the subject of chromosomes, I always tell the "two genders" crowd that there are literally more than two genders because intersex people exist. Who can have XXY or XYY chromosomes. Are those male or female chromosomes? Imbedded in the cells? lol
1:55 actually on Brazil there is a fish called the armored catfish. And it can got on land.
Yes I’m a nerd.
I find the gender neutral bathroom debate hilarious because what transphobes probably don't understand is that in their own family home, with their mom, dad siblings whatever...they all use the same toilet, and that is gender neutral. But god forbid it's done outside of their family home.
Also i do not think that some random ass person would dig my rotting corpse up to DNA test my bones to see what gender i was assigned at birth, neither do i think would that work on anyone because one theres people who cremate, and second its a random person probably no one cares to dig up and third i think that people in the future will be more (probably) accepting towards trans people.
i genuinely hate transphobes and homophobes, ive only met one trans person irl, and he is not only my boyfriend, but also the sweetest, most caring person ive ever met. trans men are men, trans women see women. keep going strong, king!
I'm a straight cis gender woman and don't care whether people think I'm gay, straight, or completely misgender me, I just don't give a shit one way or another. I'm not patting myself on the back I'm just secure enough in my sexuality and quite frankly too damn old to give a crap about what anybody thinks about me.
When I was a small child, I tried to be nice to everyone, but "trans" really confused me cause I couldnt ask much people about what it meant. Now I'm trans👍
Just had to say all your content is so educational..I kinda view you as my main source of info when it comes to learning about the community..the world needs more pople like you.. I'm grateful for you sharing your life and experiences with us..sending you positive energies and good vibes..
I love these it's kind of clear that they haven't put any thought in what they say. Great video Sam! Have a good day :)
they don't even proof read it is amazing
the ad placement was so scary bc u literally asked it after id just gotten done yawning
That one scene in Baymax made me so happy & I as a gay guy thinks Elliot is fine as hell and if he weren't into girls could totally get it.
okay, that transition into the sponsorship was good, ill watch through
6:04 this genuinely terrified me because i just yawned 💀
GOT U
I remember when I was in fifth grade and I was first learning about trans people and I thought that trans girls were ftm and trans men were mtf. After learning more about the trans community, I soon realized that that wasn’t correct. It’s always nice to know that fully grown adults can be dumber than I was in fifth grade.
I just wanna say so glad your back too posting! Really missed you and hope you’re doing good!:)
i've missed you!
Advanced science fact: there is a known case of an XY intersex woman who gave birth to an XY daughter who also gave birth to an XY daughter. Genetics and kareotyping are a crazy science.
Hey Sam, I had a bad day today but this video cheered me up, thank u.
Hey!
Just came here from One Topic's channel and wanted to say I freaking love your voice! And I find your deadpan commentary on the transpobia is both interesting and funny😊
Definitely going to watch some more when I get home from work!
I love how controversial loving who you love and being who you are is presented in that one cartoon. Are we supposed to argue with that sentiment? Like no kids, be miserable for life !!
that ad read came up less than a minute after I yawned and because I didn't get much sleep I've never been that confused
The whole "XX or XY chromosomes only" argument is not just stupid, it is entirely wrong. Yes, those are the usual chromosome pairings, but people can have mutations with their 23rd set of chromosomes, some common examples are:
Turner Syndrome: X Chromosome
Klinefelter Syndrome: XXY Chromosomes
Jacob's Syndrome: XYY Chromosomes
Triple X Syndrome: XXX Chromosomes
These aren't horribly rare either, going like this (estimates):
Turner Syndrome: 1 in 2,000 to 1 in 2,500
Klinefelter Syndrome: 1 in 500 to 1 in 660
Jacob's Syndrome: 1 in 1,000
Triple X Syndrome: 1 in 1,000
In fact, you could even say these are somewhat COMMON, so, no, there is not only XX or XY
Really? That's pretty neat.
“Syndrome”, “abnormality”, “defect”, “mutation”
@@justsomeguy6336 mutations are not inherently bad, some are good, and some don't do anything. There's a good chance even you have a dormant mutation in your genes somewhere.
@@retsevlys Doesn’t prove anything.
I had a fun one once.
I'm a trans lady, and had a young queer person tell me "your beard is coming in so well!"
It was so wholesome I didn't have the heart to tell them that i'm lasering it off!
The people having sex on the gender neutral bathroom door is sending me
I read the thumbnail as a christian bale yard sale and was extremely confused and intrigued
as a trans man, i hated seeing the female sex symbol on my pads :')
Thank you for the chuckles! Love you!
thank you for watching :D
Y'all- it really isn't that hard to ask questions. People in my theater were talking about trans people and my 5th grade self asked if a guy would be called a trans man or a trans woman. Like if a 10 year old can ask a question, so can you
Before I realized I was trans, I asked a trans person this. Was not difficult at all. Just sad it took me so long since my autism prevents me and others from communicating together so I have a tendency to self isolate.
I was misgendered once on purpose because I have a bit of facial hair. I don’t look like a man at all. I am AFAB and Cis. This Karen had to leave quickly because she felt so uncomfortable with my presence there. I didn’t even move a muscle. That’s power there. Power is to strike fear into Karen’s everywhere without moving a finger!!!!
On your chromosomes it says 'XX or XY or XXY or the other few variations'
No-where does it say 'Woman' or 'Man'.
Languages separate people by chromosomes using pronouns, for no needed reason.
People's gender in their body and brain develop separately, so the same way your genetics can make you intersex, your mind can be disaligned to your body.
The weirdest thing is in countries where the culture completely bans any reference to the LGBTQ plus community, there are still members of the community (and in ancient remains,animals etc... so being in this community is literally only ignored and bad in one context, someone decided to be a dick).
If 'facts don't care about your feelings' then why are all these facts overlooked. Like even if trans people only seem 'sick' to you (weird as there are animals that display being trans) then why does the treatment which works matter to you. Begging to 'not be a part of the delusion' makes it sound like the only obstacle to their factually-proven-effective-treatment is your feelings.
Fact: social (and sometimes physical) transitioning helps people with gender dysphoria live so much happier after a long time of preventable suffering.
Nationality is mainly a social thing (it is influenced by genetics to ,as you are more likely to live in a certain region due to having specific genetics, but people still connect their identity to where they grew up which can differ from what is expected from their race).
Race is almost fully genetic, like sex, but include things like mutations that change hormone levels that cause a different phenotype to what you expect, also caused by tumors that grow after birth.
I am black and british. One is genetic and one part is my social identity standpoint.
A transman for example has shown his genetic past in the 'trans' part (really only relevent to doctors though) and the 'man' part shows their social place.
No-one would ever choose to suffer the life of being trans ,especially in third-world-countries. Yet they do.
Overall when society tries to push away people it believes cannot 'fit' in its system, it does this by dehumanising them.
Examples: the holocaust, the greek trandition of allowing disabled babies to freeze to death, segregation, the apartheid, the murder of trans and gay people by law and socially, the murder of apostates in religiously governed countries.
It all starts with dehumanisation, then tolerance of such dehumanisation, then the obsession of 'ridding' these people, then public attacks both by government authorities (for example the ban on abortion in the USA) and by locals (shootings,lynching etc...)
People think its 'these people' that cause the trouble ,by existing, when its those who wage a war against them that cause the issue. The ignorance is unbelievable as most people deem themselves as intelligent. You can be both intelligent and socially conditioned to be ignorant.
I like to think of the world as a place in which people engineer the future.
Facts- the current place of the world.
Feelings- the emotions that drive the goals ,which by using facts (like physical facts), can become reality (like a trans person physically transitioning with hormones and surgery).
The idea that facts have a holy status is already an established fallacy, the natural fallacy.
Just because one thing is true , someone is born in a male body, does not mean that changing this fact is evil.
Honestly it is also a fact that our bodies can be feminised or masculinised just as much as it is a fact that our bodies are born in an initial state.
I ,as a hopeful future engineer, see the world as a canvas for human emotion to morph into a happy,individualistic (so inclusive) world.
Saying a trans person is unnatural is like saying humans flying (paragliding) is unnatural or like saying women playing basketball is unnatural. So what. Their happy.
The irony is that we made up: gender roles, the concept of only two sexes (false), sports, medicine, countries, strict races, pronouns etc...
Apparantly they are not allowed to be adapted to suit the needs of today and the future. That is the DEFINITION of UNSUSTAINABILITY.
OK I am done now. Do not expect anyone to read all this. 😅
Idk why but the skeleton discourse reminded me of Regina Hall yelling "Cindy this is a skeleton!! This is bones!!" in Scary Movie 2. Sam you'd love that movie.
Me getting all excited over a unisex bathroom (it’s just a family bathroom lol) in a target, my sister:why the hell are you so excited
Oh dw me too, there was a toilet in my college which was labelled like unisex or something and I was so happy
STOP I was yawning RIGHT WHEN THE HELIX AD BREAK HAPPENED YES i am SLEEPY
glad you are posting again. stay safe and happy bro
thank you you as well!
@@SupraMan38 of course and thanks a lot
Just a small correction, every cell does have all 46 chromosomes (23 pairs including the sex ones). Obviously this doesn’t have anything to do with how someone identifies.
The only thing I think needs to be figured out is the whole "trans people in the olympics" etc stuff. Obviously there needs to be something figured out because it's just straight unfair advantages to have a trans woman against binary women, that's the only thing that sticks out to me, it's just obviously something that can't stick, there needs to be some sort of secondary thing specifically for trans people. But aside from that, I'm a full supporter.
Actually, the trans women against cis women in sports have an equal testosterone amount to cis women, due to estrogen.
Sam.... i started yawning and litterally the second after you said "why are you yawning" while i was still jawning, dont get me wrong but you scared the shit out of me.