It's simple. Just be yourself guys, all the time. Don't go impress too much, not be yourself, it comes back to bite you later on. Be true to yourself and my advice is do not rush into a relationship, know who you are. Good luck to all.
"be yourself" only works if you're a man of value, for most guys out there it's a horrible advice. They take it this way: oh I'm fat, paid minimum wage, play video games all my free time, I'm gonna be myself and the right woman will show up and love me. LMAO. She's not your mom bro
@@Emma-ox4ki That's if getting a woman is the goal. Getting a woman is not the end goal. Doing what you were born to do is. In the process, a woman will join you on that journey. Just my opinion.
@@angstvision7108 ok I'll clarify, even though I mentioned a woman, it shouldn't be about women at all. All those things (slaving away at work, not being fit etc) a man should fix for his own self. Regardless whether a decent woman shows up in his life. That's my 2c
I met someone. We hit it off good and I was so stoic. As soon as I started caring to much, she disappeared. Secretly I got desperate Not making that mistake again
My dad told me the secret to being married for decades is my mom never tries to change him. My mom’s answer was “I can’t even imagine trying to change him. He just gets it.”
People will always play hypothetical questions and my dad with a straight face will look her in the eyes and say “if you cheat on me I will find another woman." She just respects him as a blue collar electrician.
2:13 what happen here is, he fell for the lie... happy wife happy life, and men carry this even with their girlfriends or even while dating. that does not work with women. so, when she may complain, he then starts to adjust to "make her happy", WRONG MOVE... SHE NEEDS TO COMPLAIN. Women NEED those emotions for them to function. Let her feel/experience EVERY EMOTION POSSIBLE. Just do not intentionally hurt her, emotionally and definitely not physically.
I tend to stay away from most dating gurus and RUclipsrs these days because they’re simply giving wrong advice. It’s a business for most guys out there. Though I do think LFA is on the right path to helping men. Good work mate
Thanx for the content brother your killing it. You seem like you have control of your emotions too something most men arent able to do anymore and is a very important thing for us men to learn to master our emotions.
It's needy behavior, it usually stems from a scarcity mindset, a lack of confidence, and inexperience with women. And for many, all of these are often true. In 2020, I saw this girl who clearly liked me, confessed that she liked me and we even made out on the first date. But as she got to know me a bit more than just the superficial like my looks, she was clearly repulsed, now she only seems to listen to me just because she doesn't want to come across rude, and in the end, rejected me and friend zoned me. I've always wondered what happened, but looking back, it's clear as day that I was being a simp, getting a big cake with her name on it for her birthday despite just knowing her, being 30 minutes early for a date, trying to adjust my likings to hers in order to gain browny points. All of these signals to the woman that you're a weak man, and that's not what they're looking for.
@stevo6891 Even a rich elite level status Alpha Chad can get cheated on (Tom Brady), no man is bullet proof in the wild west. The difference being, he rebounded the next week into instagram model thirsting for him in his DM's. Most guys either jump off a rope, hit the bottle, and or completey fall apart. The best thing a man can do, is become the guy women thirst for and in turn give your girl competition anxiety. She knows there's consequences for her actions. Heres a trick i pulled on a chick i was talking to that fucked some other dude while she was drunk. I didnt get mad or get emotional, i said "How many times did you bang him"? Shes crying "Why does it matter". I said "Answer the question or you will never see me again". Twice she claimed. I said "Ok, so since im a good guy. Im gonna give you a choice. I could either bang this chick at work twice, thats crushing on me or i can bang her and another chick i know once a piece". You decide and get back to me. While i never planned on ever making her my GF/giving her title (Single mother), but i was loyal to her and sex was off the charts. It pissed her off at first, but she respected me more because i had the balls to give her a receipt for her actions.
Great video. I found it to be both insightful and engaging. I see now that instead of my ex adapting to my lifestyle and my principles, I adapted to hers. I was a weak man and probably still am. I'm working on this by steadily building my self-discipline.
Thanks for your input! Now I know what I did wrong in my last relationships. Now I know more and I will do better when I have a relationship again. Again, thank you for your video!
Maybe your best video yet. As someone with a massively controlling and domineering mother and a pathetic father who stood by passively and let all the narcissistic abuse happen. I don’t know how to lead. I only have a mental idea of how it could go. I had to enmesh with mother to stay safe. I’ve never felt “safe” my entire life . In fact I’m looking for a women to make me feel safe because that would be the opposite of my childhood
Same experience, but stop it. Women will always leave you, humiliate you, disrespect you, emasculate you if you look for nurturing, understanding, love from them. Make yourself feel safe. Workout, read the Stoics, go to the store immediately and buy Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. And "Can't hurt me" by Goggins. Then just ACT stronger/better, till it becomes a habit and you are better/stronger.
Sup LFA I use to make videos under a channel called CBP/Coach Black Pill which I deleted. Got bored of that vibe. I don't quite remember what I said, but I remember leaving a comment that you didn't appreciate. I was probably rude and in the wrong though. Good too see you doing well. You should go to Asia for a few months. Voice of experience
1. Most women have left me...because I'm stoic. 2. This guy is not up with the times: today's women feel like they don't need a man. They'll ditch you for any reason.
Think I made my ex despise me after she caught me texting another girl once. I dated her over two years, she was even a virgin when we started dating…but she cheated on me last month and told me all the details. She even told me the other guy was insulting me, think she wanted it to hurt. I left on the spot of course, but she already got a new man two weeks later…couldn’t believe she switched up on me like that. It still blows my mind, she was so wholesome at the start, or so I thought. But at some point she turned on me and lashed out with her full power. I was also discontent near the end of the relationship and was always debating on leaving her, but now that she’s gone I miss her a ton. She was super submissive through most of it all and wanted to get married, it sucks to see a good girl become corrupted. This world is ruthless.
"sucks to see a good girl become corrupted" my guy. YOU are the one corrupting her lmao. you took her virginity and then started texting other girls. how little self awareness do you have????? yo honestly. how little is your brain?
Nice vids, nice vid would be about how to get over that single mother loving mentality to loving like a father. Getting masculine. Hope you all are good out there
You’ve touched on a Couple Different POV that the Manosphere Never Touch, but are 100%. Unfortunately I learned the Hard way with several of these (And was Told by the Women I Didn’t Understand, Now I Do
8:13 a lot of male issues, and even female also is due to single mothers. and i am NOT bashing single mothers, it is just the CHEMISTRY of it all, female energy only nurturing the child is NOT A GOOD THING. It needs BOTH, both genders do. single mother's who claim they both mother & father is false, you can only provide for that child, but what testosterone does in nurturing a child YOU CAN NOT DO.
Blame the men who refused to care for their children and the mothers had to step up. 😂Dude stop blaming women who cared enough to raise their kids when the so called men decided to leave and not even pay child support
I don't even try with women anymore and i'm just a lot happier in life because of it. Women love drama and I dont want any part of it, i just want peace.
Yea that's a good video. Don't change who you are. There's a girl in my acting class that seemed to show interest and my buddy told me the secret to impressing her is to buy her white roses.
Is that what you would do though? Try to impress her in your own way dude and if she don't accept you for who you truly are then she ain't the one for you. Good luck though dude, hope it works out 👍
Dude. can i azk name origin? (LFA) anything ta do with cool Lexuz car? Prob more ta do with logical framework approach methodolgy eh tho? (excuze 'z' key ; juzt worn the one out between A & D. ha.
6:03 this why they would date gangsters, it doesn't make logical sense to a man, but for female nature, it does. this is why a man's status IS VERY IMPORTANT. social status will beat a man's looks and some times size of pocket EVERY TIME. because social status can give you a heavier pocket. that is how female nature views protection and provision. so if u have to pay for dates to see her, SHE IS NOT NATURALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU, she doesnt see your value as high, and now you have to pay for her time.
LFA I've been following your work. I've met a wonderful woman. A woman who has value believes in God who is attractive and respects me. There is one thing I'm struggling with and that is lust and desire for other women. Could you make a video on that? Does it ever go away even if you have a 10/10 woman. I know part of it is self control but I was wondering if u could share your thoughts. There are lots of married men who feel that way.
@denzelmolinazapico4861 thanks for the reply. Yes I do believe it's that cause when your eyes wander there's just so much out there. I just don't want to make a decision with my D
It might just not be being raised by a single mother per se, but it could be lack of motherly love/acceptance unconditionally (whether raised single or not). A guy named Tim Fletcher has some good videos on trauma and bonding. While there is definitely work to be done, each will work according to perception of costs and benefits.
I've binge watched many, many of your videos and other similar guys. I'm confused: What actually is a man? I hear these catchphrases like "protective", "strong", "unshakeable" etc., but can't really wrap my head around it. What does this even mean? Where does it start and where does it end? I can protect her from a spider in the bathtub, but not from nuclear war, e.g. Would appreciate your twist on this, maybe with some examples and breaking down what the fundamental factors of "being a man" actually is. At this point, I am just confused.
You're on the right track! You become strong and unshakeable when you're going through these scenarios. Train for the worst case. What are you doing in case of a nuclear war? Where is the nearest bunker? How fast can you be there!? Prepare a bug out bag! In case something happens, you'll be confident and know what to do!
It’s an acquired understanding of what attracts her to you as the man. Think of it like that. It guides your thinking before you might complain out loud let’s say or go to text her something you might be able to solve or figure out without her help. Practice it daily.
I’ve been away from my eastern Wife from no more than 4 months but no less than 3 for 2 years now and she’s only had issues when she thought I may be cheating (totally unfounded - I think I’ve finally got her convinced I am not cheating and that she’s the only one especially when she brings up the women she thinks I’m cheating with it’s like “are you out of your mind?!!!”)
I think this channel is mostly for men. It doesn´t matter. I think you are describing my type of man! My husband was that type! I do not like a weak man. He was loving, caring, but not weak. Anyway, He passed away four years ago. I am 58 now. There are a lot cruel men out there who also like to play games. So, I decided not trying to date anymore. I must confess I am afraid to be hurt. By the way, I am a latin lady, from Nicaragua.
What if I want to quit drinking right but she wants it too yeah (she don't drink but its about it being bad for me) she said if I thinks don't change on that front she won't fuck with me. Like it's for me not for her but is that submitting to her like indirectly. I'm not trying to like drink in spite of her but it's like idk...
Follow God and read the Bible this world is passing away daily and he is the only person that remains constant this women aren’t worth your purity if you value you it most will tell you to defile yourself with someone you won’t care about the minute after it’s done or later
Guys, I went back to my ex for the fourth time about a week ago then I split again. I'm not too attracted to her and I'm not really happy with how I look. I need tips from you guys so I never go back and that I never think about my past girlfriends.
I dunno. Gym culture is just fukin weird. I work out every single day at home. I'm 51 and look 35. Mostly because I remain single, never been married, and I make a lot of money. Pretty much my entire life factors into my health, but gyms, I don't get it. It's like masturbating in public. Fuck that.
Great video. And I totally agree. In my honest opinion? All you have to do is, low down the stress and just be yourself. Because if you try to act like the most perfect person from the beginning? you're eventually going to bounce back to your original self. & honestly? If she cannot appreciate the person you are?. There's literally no point in Moving On... I can't STAND fake people:| (that's probably why I hate those PUA idiots ...) ....Lines for what? A bang for a night? ... Or, honesty/ legitimacy for over a year. ( even if you just wanted to bang. Those pickup artists are absolutely ridiculous) "Your hair is like an ocean!" 🙄🤣 I'd be like, "naw, it's more like a stranded stream" (but thanks I guess..)
What you're saying about how she'll despise you for adapting or changing for her is probably how a lot of women are but I think this has a lot to do with how attracted she is to you in the first place. So like if she's really physically attracted to you because of your face and body, since these are the most important things, then she may even like that you adapt/change for her. So if there's no real attraction she'll find something about a guy that annoys her sooner or later. If it's not that than it can be something else like texting too much or even complementing her. I know guys that are like that with their girls but their girls seem very appreciative. But they are nice and seem to have more humble personalities. There are other things that a guy might be doing that she won't like. Being too funny or treating her like one of your friends will eventually turn her off. Women generally like and are more attracted to serious guys even from a very young age, which is why they liked the good looking guy in high school that didn't clown around or wasn't too talkative.
This might be true, but theoretically, if all men were like he described in the video, women would have no choice but date them cause there would be no other types of men. And eventually, they would see that this is the best possible type of a man. What Im trying to say is society would only benefit if men would try their best and become like described here.
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Word. Women in order to love you need to respect you more than actually like you.
It's simple. Just be yourself guys, all the time. Don't go impress too much, not be yourself, it comes back to bite you later on. Be true to yourself and my advice is do not rush into a relationship, know who you are. Good luck to all.
U said it all!
"be yourself" only works if you're a man of value, for most guys out there it's a horrible advice. They take it this way: oh I'm fat, paid minimum wage, play video games all my free time, I'm gonna be myself and the right woman will show up and love me. LMAO. She's not your mom bro
Some of our selves are really horrible .
@@Emma-ox4ki That's if getting a woman is the goal. Getting a woman is not the end goal. Doing what you were born to do is. In the process, a woman will join you on that journey. Just my opinion.
@@angstvision7108 ok I'll clarify, even though I mentioned a woman, it shouldn't be about women at all. All those things (slaving away at work, not being fit etc) a man should fix for his own self. Regardless whether a decent woman shows up in his life. That's my 2c
6:16 a man doesn't become king if he marries a queen, but a woman becomes a queen if she marries a King.
Based
There are no kings. You do you. And what comes, comes.
I met someone. We hit it off good and I was so stoic. As soon as I started caring to much, she disappeared. Secretly I got desperate
Not making that mistake again
My dad told me the secret to being married for decades is my mom never tries to change him. My mom’s answer was “I can’t even imagine trying to change him. He just gets it.”
she's got him where she wants him
And that’s the part every man needs to understand. You need the attitude of you can walk if you don’t like who I am because I don’t give a fuck.
People will always play hypothetical questions and my dad with a straight face will look her in the eyes and say “if you cheat on me I will find another woman." She just respects him as a blue collar electrician.
My dad certainly has 0 worried at all lol
@John_Wood_ don't project your beta mentality onto others.
LFA is the voice of reason
He's based.
Here we go what’s up brothers from another mothers
✊👊🤛🤜
2:13 what happen here is, he fell for the lie... happy wife happy life, and men carry this even with their girlfriends or even while dating. that does not work with women. so, when she may complain, he then starts to adjust to "make her happy", WRONG MOVE... SHE NEEDS TO COMPLAIN. Women NEED those emotions for them to function. Let her feel/experience EVERY EMOTION POSSIBLE. Just do not intentionally hurt her, emotionally and definitely not physically.
"she needs to complain"
make her complain to someone else
get in get out LOL
I tend to stay away from most dating gurus and RUclipsrs these days because they’re simply giving wrong advice. It’s a business for most guys out there. Though I do think LFA is on the right path to helping men. Good work mate
And most of them are chronically single.... it's like asking for sex advice from catholic priests
Lfa is the man. Big brother I never had
Excellent content bro! Your channel is truly underrated!
Thanx for the content brother your killing it. You seem like you have control of your emotions too something most men arent able to do anymore and is a very important thing for us men to learn to master our emotions.
Stop appeasing out of the fear of rejection and be yourself. A relationship is not more important than your personal confidence
Nothing vague you speak precise and straightforward. Great video!!
Lots to think about with this vid … you touched up on a lot of key points with this one ! 💯
It's needy behavior, it usually stems from a scarcity mindset, a lack of confidence, and inexperience with women. And for many, all of these are often true.
In 2020, I saw this girl who clearly liked me, confessed that she liked me and we even made out on the first date. But as she got to know me a bit more than just the superficial like my looks, she was clearly repulsed, now she only seems to listen to me just because she doesn't want to come across rude, and in the end, rejected me and friend zoned me. I've always wondered what happened, but looking back, it's clear as day that I was being a simp, getting a big cake with her name on it for her birthday despite just knowing her, being 30 minutes early for a date, trying to adjust my likings to hers in order to gain browny points. All of these signals to the woman that you're a weak man, and that's not what they're looking for.
This is your best video to date.
Insights on insights for 14min straight ✊
Always good to listen to brother LFA's wisdom.
I really needed this now
Favorite channel on RUclips. Keep ‘em coming LFA. I’d like to hear your opinion on Mystery and pua.
Brothers we meet again 😎
This is so true. Love it! We need to respect the man and this behaviour is literally disgusting. It keeps happening unfortunately
@stevo6891 Even a rich elite level status Alpha Chad can get cheated on (Tom Brady), no man is bullet proof in the wild west. The difference being, he rebounded the next week into instagram model thirsting for him in his DM's. Most guys either jump off a rope, hit the bottle, and or completey fall apart. The best thing a man can do, is become the guy women thirst for and in turn give your girl competition anxiety. She knows there's consequences for her actions.
Heres a trick i pulled on a chick i was talking to that fucked some other dude while she was drunk. I didnt get mad or get emotional, i said "How many times did you bang him"? Shes crying "Why does it matter". I said "Answer the question or you will never see me again". Twice she claimed. I said "Ok, so since im a good guy. Im gonna give you a choice. I could either bang this chick at work twice, thats crushing on me or i can bang her and another chick i know once a piece". You decide and get back to me. While i never planned on ever making her my GF/giving her title (Single mother), but i was loyal to her and sex was off the charts. It pissed her off at first, but she respected me more because i had the balls to give her a receipt for her actions.
Great video. I found it to be both insightful and engaging. I see now that instead of my ex adapting to my lifestyle and my principles, I adapted to hers. I was a weak man and probably still am. I'm working on this by steadily building my self-discipline.
Yo, what's up brother. As always, cool knowledge, thank's brother
People pleasers are disgusted in general
If it's genuine kindness then that's a strength.
Thanks for your input! Now I know what I did wrong in my last relationships. Now I know more and I will do better when I have a relationship again. Again, thank you for your video!
Probably the one video every man needs to see before this happens to them. Great job.
More good advice from the Biff chronicles
Ive inadvertently started saying your intro line with my bicep flexed when i see my boys at work 😂
Maybe your best video yet.
As someone with a massively controlling and domineering mother and a pathetic father who stood by passively and let all the narcissistic abuse happen.
I don’t know how to lead. I only have a mental idea of how it could go.
I had to enmesh with mother to stay safe. I’ve never felt “safe” my entire life . In fact I’m looking for a women to make me feel safe because that would be the opposite of my childhood
I never call my mother and I live 1000 miles away from her
Same experience, but stop it. Women will always leave you, humiliate you, disrespect you, emasculate you if you look for nurturing, understanding, love from them. Make yourself feel safe. Workout, read the Stoics, go to the store immediately and buy Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. And "Can't hurt me" by Goggins. Then just ACT stronger/better, till it becomes a habit and you are better/stronger.
Wtf that doesn't make you a good person and has nothing to do with getting women to love you .
Unless your mother is a total bitch.@@blockaderunner
@@SalPerez-io3mzsolid advice
I am a woman and I confirm that this is true!
I am convinced that women feel disdain and disgust for a man the second that they think that he cut off his other options for her
Still one of the best RUclipsrs. Keep it up LFA.
Common sense is a beautiful thing.
Scarce*
One of your best videos.
It's like you made this video at the perfect time for me. Bless you.
single life all the way bro, havnt hit up a chick in years. stay strong brothers
Are you gay?
Lonely though. You telling me you dont want a live in best friend you can bang?
@@bellavita3097 lol... women will never understand the real meaning of the word PEACE.
I like girls
That’s sad.
You're f'ing right brother. Thank you for this common sense.
Good Video Man!
Sup LFA
I use to make videos under a channel called CBP/Coach Black Pill which I deleted. Got bored of that vibe.
I don't quite remember what I said, but I remember leaving a comment that you didn't appreciate. I was probably rude and in the wrong though.
Good too see you doing well.
You should go to Asia for a few months. Voice of experience
1. Most women have left me...because I'm stoic.
2. This guy is not up with the times: today's women feel like they don't need a man. They'll ditch you for any reason.
Be stoic. Be you. Women are the side quest for a man on a mission to serve god.
Maybe they left you because you were too stoic aka maybe too cold or too distant or detached or for any other reasons you might not see.
@@angelcare5969 Too stoic? Yeah, I can see that.
You were faking it. Probably still are. Can't fake it.
He's up with the times. Women don't desire you. Man up and fix it.
The man of the hour 😊 What’s happening?
Think I made my ex despise me after she caught me texting another girl once. I dated her over two years, she was even a virgin when we started dating…but she cheated on me last month and told me all the details. She even told me the other guy was insulting me, think she wanted it to hurt. I left on the spot of course, but she already got a new man two weeks later…couldn’t believe she switched up on me like that. It still blows my mind, she was so wholesome at the start, or so I thought. But at some point she turned on me and lashed out with her full power. I was also discontent near the end of the relationship and was always debating on leaving her, but now that she’s gone I miss her a ton. She was super submissive through most of it all and wanted to get married, it sucks to see a good girl become corrupted. This world is ruthless.
"sucks to see a good girl become corrupted" my guy. YOU are the one corrupting her lmao. you took her virginity and then started texting other girls. how little self awareness do you have?????
yo honestly. how little is your brain?
Thats why she liked you in the first lace !!!True!
Nice vids, nice vid would be about how to get over that single mother loving mentality to loving like a father. Getting masculine.
Hope you all are good out there
What up brothaaaaaaaas
Excellent post bro. Your points are 💯 facts
Bro never missed 👏🏽
Do more retention videos to remind the brothers what's up
Good good message. Here. Amen
Artist bro thanks and cheers. 🍺
*LFA, excellent video! Very educational my guy* 💯
I can relate hard to this and yes I was raised by an exclusively female household
You’ve touched on a Couple Different POV that the Manosphere Never Touch, but are 100%.
Unfortunately I learned the Hard way with several of these (And was Told by the Women
I Didn’t Understand, Now I Do
My ex hated me for two main reasons. 1. She knew I didn't need her. 2. She couldn't change me but she wanted to be just like me!
Some women can’t love without feeling needed. Either way it probably wasn’t meant to last long
@@antonioarchuleta9365Oh she definitely loved me alright. But 3 and a half years is long enough. Yet, she's still in my orbit!
No gaps in the caslte wall broski.
Yeah it's getting worse patch that shit up LFA
It serves a purpose. There’s a crawl space.
So true.
8:13 a lot of male issues, and even female also is due to single mothers. and i am NOT bashing single mothers, it is just the CHEMISTRY of it all, female energy only nurturing the child is NOT A GOOD THING. It needs BOTH, both genders do. single mother's who claim they both mother & father is false, you can only provide for that child, but what testosterone does in nurturing a child YOU CAN NOT DO.
Blame the men who refused to care for their children and the mothers had to step up. 😂Dude stop blaming women who cared enough to raise their kids when the so called men decided to leave and not even pay child support
I don't even try with women anymore and i'm just a lot happier in life because of it. Women love drama and I dont want any part of it, i just want peace.
Everyman that Ive ever heard say that secretly wants women in their life
@jeremiahmediina7409 nah I'm good dude, my life is fine without one
Yup, doing so will do away with EVERYTHING that made her attracted to you to begin with and same with ALWAYS agreeing with her.
Yea that's a good video. Don't change who you are. There's a girl in my acting class that seemed to show interest and my buddy told me the secret to impressing her is to buy her white roses.
Is that what you would do though? Try to impress her in your own way dude and if she don't accept you for who you truly are then she ain't the one for you. Good luck though dude, hope it works out 👍
Brilliant!
We are gonna make it brahs
Dude. can i azk name origin? (LFA) anything ta do with cool Lexuz car? Prob more ta do with logical framework approach methodolgy eh tho? (excuze 'z' key ; juzt worn the one out between A & D. ha.
Yeah the bro is back
What up brothers 👊 ✌️ 😎
Brilliant
6:03 this why they would date gangsters, it doesn't make logical sense to a man, but for female nature, it does. this is why a man's status IS VERY IMPORTANT. social status will beat a man's looks and some times size of pocket EVERY TIME. because social status can give you a heavier pocket. that is how female nature views protection and provision. so if u have to pay for dates to see her, SHE IS NOT NATURALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU, she doesnt see your value as high, and now you have to pay for her time.
Give me some examples of status.
@@christosdelos3318 The main singer of the most famous rock band in your city, the best basketball player at your University team, blah blah blah
LFA I've been following your work. I've met a wonderful woman. A woman who has value believes in God who is attractive and respects me. There is one thing I'm struggling with and that is lust and desire for other women. Could you make a video on that? Does it ever go away even if you have a 10/10 woman. I know part of it is self control but I was wondering if u could share your thoughts. There are lots of married men who feel that way.
Just be busy and do something in your life sir. Do not use social media all the time scrolling and start sight retention
@denzelmolinazapico4861 thanks for the reply. Yes I do believe it's that cause when your eyes wander there's just so much out there. I just don't want to make a decision with my D
True that!
When you lose your frame by entering her frame, it’s a wrap. Stay 💪 👑 😎
It might just not be being raised by a single mother per se, but it could be lack of motherly love/acceptance unconditionally (whether raised single or not). A guy named Tim Fletcher has some good videos on trauma and bonding. While there is definitely work to be done, each will work according to perception of costs and benefits.
I always thought woman got frustrated with me for not changing. Guess I was wrong all this time.
I've binge watched many, many of your videos and other similar guys. I'm confused: What actually is a man? I hear these catchphrases like "protective", "strong", "unshakeable" etc., but can't really wrap my head around it. What does this even mean? Where does it start and where does it end? I can protect her from a spider in the bathtub, but not from nuclear war, e.g. Would appreciate your twist on this, maybe with some examples and breaking down what the fundamental factors of "being a man" actually is. At this point, I am just confused.
You're on the right track! You become strong and unshakeable when you're going through these scenarios. Train for the worst case. What are you doing in case of a nuclear war? Where is the nearest bunker? How fast can you be there!? Prepare a bug out bag! In case something happens, you'll be confident and know what to do!
It’s an acquired understanding of what attracts her to you as the man. Think of it like that. It guides your thinking before you might complain out loud let’s say or go to text her something you might be able to solve or figure out without her help. Practice it daily.
Read the way of the superior man
Guess thats where i screw up i guess....anytime they flake i just ghost even if they come back....
Good game
What kind of shirt are you wearing? Looks comfy.
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I’ve been away from my eastern Wife from no more than 4 months but no less than 3 for 2 years now and she’s only had issues when she thought I may be cheating (totally unfounded
- I think I’ve finally got her convinced I am not cheating and that she’s the only one especially when she brings up the women she thinks I’m cheating with it’s like “are you out of your mind?!!!”)
Could be projection...
Nah they watch a lot of Koran soaps and TV via RUclips that is “produced” cheating
I think this channel is mostly for men. It doesn´t matter. I think you are describing my type of man! My husband was that type! I do not like a weak man. He was loving, caring, but not weak. Anyway, He passed away four years ago. I am 58 now. There are a lot cruel men out there who also like to play games. So, I decided not trying to date anymore. I must confess I am afraid to be hurt. By the way, I am a latin lady, from Nicaragua.
Yes i cannot change just because of a woman I am what I am if she is not liking my lifestyle she is free to Move on
10:37 haha, yea both for themselves and their emotions and also to test the man's INTERNAL STRENGTH. F up by showing weakness and she is gone.
What if I want to quit drinking right but she wants it too yeah (she don't drink but its about it being bad for me) she said if I thinks don't change on that front she won't fuck with me. Like it's for me not for her but is that submitting to her like indirectly. I'm not trying to like drink in spite of her but it's like idk...
Any tips for virgins looking for classy women in a corrupt world of tattoos, face piercings and schitty attitudes ?
Man up.
Follow God and read the Bible this world is passing away daily and he is the only person that remains constant this women aren’t worth your purity if you value you it most will tell you to defile yourself with someone you won’t care about the minute after it’s done or later
stop looking, let God lead you to the right woman
7:26 can destroy you slowly and lose large amounts of time
Thanks again, Ben Affleck.
Wish I’d known this sooner.
Guys, I went back to my ex for the fourth time about a week ago then I split again. I'm not too attracted to her and I'm not really happy with how I look. I need tips from you guys so I never go back and that I never think about my past girlfriends.
Get happy with the way you look with or without her (probably without)
I dunno. Gym culture is just fukin weird. I work out every single day at home. I'm 51 and look 35. Mostly because I remain single, never been married, and I make a lot of money. Pretty much my entire life factors into my health, but gyms, I don't get it. It's like masturbating in public. Fuck that.
You did not pin the t-shirt company name.
It’s in the description and the comments.
This is some legit OG Pepecoin and BasedAI
Take her to "Los Cabos"
Exactly. Either u take the lead or she will lose the respect for u
Great video.
And I totally agree. In my honest opinion? All you have to do is, low down the stress and just be yourself.
Because if you try to act like the most perfect person from the beginning? you're eventually going to bounce back to your original self. & honestly?
If she cannot appreciate the person you are?. There's literally no point in Moving On...
I can't STAND fake people:| (that's probably why I hate those PUA idiots ...)
....Lines for what?
A bang for a night? ...
Or, honesty/ legitimacy for over a year.
( even if you just wanted to bang. Those pickup artists are absolutely ridiculous)
"Your hair is like an ocean!"
🙄🤣
I'd be like, "naw, it's more like a stranded stream" (but thanks I guess..)
It's you, dude. It's not some other "you" it's just YOU
What you're saying about how she'll despise you for adapting or changing for her is probably how a lot of women are but I think this has a lot to do with how attracted she is to you in the first place. So like if she's really physically attracted to you because of your face and body, since these are the most important things, then she may even like that you adapt/change for her. So if there's no real attraction she'll find something about a guy that annoys her sooner or later. If it's not that than it can be something else like texting too much or even complementing her. I know guys that are like that with their girls but their girls seem very appreciative. But they are nice and seem to have more humble personalities.
There are other things that a guy might be doing that she won't like. Being too funny or treating her like one of your friends will eventually turn her off. Women generally like and are more attracted to serious guys even from a very young age, which is why they liked the good looking guy in high school that didn't clown around or wasn't too talkative.
God made women so tht men dont die of happiness 😂
Never give up your frame that shows weakness another based report from LFA.
1:23 that dude got too weak, too much of a yes man to her. don't set boundaries and keep her accountable.
This stuff is for traditional women. Won't work with most modern western women.
This might be true, but theoretically, if all men were like he described in the video, women would have no choice but date them cause there would be no other types of men. And eventually, they would see that this is the best possible type of a man. What Im trying to say is society would only benefit if men would try their best and become like described here.
“Betatization by 1000 concessions”…