Probably the ick came from an emotional chemistry experiment gone wrong for a class Sam M used to take that it turn the flag red and it’s only infected people who hates him
He's giving "I would be a bad father" vibes. If he can't read an adult woman who has the capacity to verbalize herself, he will have a harder time with children who don't have that capacity. This was such a red flag moment.
She's soo into him and he's just there for the competition 😅.. I am not feeling that he likes her, Zero emotional connection between them, she kept asking him all the questions and he just sat there talking. no emotional Intelligence on his end.. No, thank you.
I thought the same thing during the dinner! Like…..she was baring her soul and on the verge of tears talking abt her family and I was like……..did he ask you any questions?! 💀
@@JasonFoo1653 I know that. It’s not about where they went. They could just enjoy each others company without jumping off the building. He should’ve been supportive of her from the beginning, but he was making her more uncomfortable and she felt alone. No one wants to feel that way on a date, especially a first one.
Not everyone wants to try everything and it’s OK. I would be so uncomfortable if I were Jane, especially your man is not being understanding and supportive to you. He only thinks about having fun. Boy!!
Sam never said a word of encouragement to Jenn. But the woman did. Sam never really cares about Jenn's feelings. He is more focused on his own adventure.
I like Sam m but he is not the one for Jenn. He is not emotionally available for her either he doesn't know how to be with words or just don't really care.
Here is what I don't understand. She knows about the dates in advance. She has a fear of heights but goes skydiving and jumps off of buildings. It's hypocritical and very strange.
I know the producers really cut the worst scenes out of this and put it together in his sneak peak promo which gave me more of a red flag on them more than him and I don’t want to get him more hated than how he was before
He is so narcissistic!! All women beware! He will push your boundaries all in the name of "think of the memories we made together". He does not care about a woman on live TV, he will not care about your in a private setting either. He did not show up for you. At the last moment so he would not look terrible.
Sam is not the one for Jenn, he was pushing her to do the sky jump even though she's clearly uncomfortable and scared. It took him a while to read her emotional struggles and comfort her properly. It'd be a red flag because Sam isn't going to emotionally support her. I would've refused to do the jump and dump him immediately.
I get what he was TRYNA do but as soon as he made the choice for the both of them without discussing it with her or voicing his belief that she could do it and that he’d b with her every step of the way or anything, he fked up. It was giving father saying “no actually she’ll have ___” upon ordering a different meal for his daughter . And then he spent too much time laughing like a child the way he does with his sidekick and watching her squirm from a distance. He couldn’t read her feelings quick enough for me. That is a red flag even if he did end up comforting her which was a relief like why wouldn’t you begin doing that? Too focused on having a good time on ur own
I really liked how Sam was a leader in this situation... He helped her make the decision to jump in the end. That's a go getter guy! Whichever lady ends up with him will not have a dull moment. He is also very good looking!
If it’s an adventure you’re not wanting to do or signed up for, it’s a bit tricky to go thru with it.. he didn’t even ask her first, he just chose it to happen for them lol
The way Jenn just flipped a 180 and was like “I loved how Sam showed up for me” Did she just not forget everything else that he just put her through?? Are you dumb??
He got that Tranformer Movie Rizz. "50 years from now when you're looking back at your life, don't you want to be able to say you had the guts to get in the car"
Sky diving is from 10,000 feet and the building is from 625 feet. It's a massive difference which proves she is a massive hypocrite. She enjoys playing the victim which makes her perfect for the role.
women in here saying he is not good either are LGBTQDFTRVBHNNASWYKVCX or, they just say it cause are jealous, they want to keep him single and have an opportunity with him 😂😂😂😂
i watched week 6 or 7 with him and he was so confusing. i'm like BRO do you love her or not. he's like a freaking robot. damn Capricorn!!! sorry but you're not compatible with a Sagittarius woman goodbye ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼
At first, I didn’t like how she was acting she can make the guy do something because she’s the bachelorette but when a guy challenges her to do something else she doesn’t wanna do it yet. I won’t do this either IB too scared but wondering or relationship you need to talk things over and not expect anybody just to do what you wanna do bachelorette or not bachelorette or bachelor. You should always talk over stuff that is not respect anybody else to do what you want she did it so I guess that was good for her, but I will do it but matter what you make people do stuff when this stuff is scary, but it depends what you’re afraid of heights stuff like this I won’t do it, but I don’t get it for people who are afraid of, cats or dogs that will never Heights I get but from the same token, the bachelorette got to learn if she’s going to make the guys do stuff the guys have the right to challenge her too be in the bachelorette or the bachelor should not make people do stuff that they don’t really wanna do in the first place it doesn’t matter who you are
She forced Hakeen to let that spider crawl all over him even though he has a phobia of spiders, then she sent him home anyways. But Jenn is a boss babe and what she says goes because everyone is afraid to hurt her massive, fragile ego.
Not a fan of Sam M., but he does have a point, although he could have done a better job of convincing her vs just telling her to do it. She knows once she does it, she'd be proud of herself, but she just had to get over the fear first. And it's a once in a lifetime opportunity, so she should grab the bulls by the horn and enjoy the ride.
I get what he was tryna do but as soon as he made the choice for the both of them without discussing it with her or voicing his belief that she could do it and that he’d b with her every step of the way or anything, he fked up. It was giving father saying “no actually she’ll have ___” and ordering a meal for his daughter . And then he spent too much time laughing like a child the way he does and watching her squirm from a distance. He couldn’t read her feelings quick enough for me.
She jumped out of a plane the day before. Her "im so scared and want to be pampered" act was ick for me! But hey she needs to make a silly show. At least Sam is real here. He knew she was full of BS. Jumped out of a PLANE the day before bulll💩 looking for attention.
They have 0 emotional connection, only the physical chemistry.
I agree .
Yep. I agree.
I have gotten too emotional for an emotional connection once and it still me look like the bad guy
She just want to HWUAK TUAH spit on that thing 😅
There's no physical. He wants maria or daisy
they don’t have emotional chemistry they just have the physical connection. He’s such an ick and red flag :/
Probably the ick came from an emotional chemistry experiment gone wrong for a class Sam M used to take that it turn the flag red and it’s only infected people who hates him
So she had to cry before he came to his senses. The laugh alone, I would be livid.
I'm sure that laugh has worked in the past with all of the other bimbos he dated. It's a form of manipulation.
He's giving "I would be a bad father" vibes. If he can't read an adult woman who has the capacity to verbalize herself, he will have a harder time with children who don't have that capacity. This was such a red flag moment.
I didn’t like how he wasn’t supportive in her vulnerable moments
You know how reality tv likes to cut things out and switched a few words or edit a few words out I know the producers are doing this on purpose
@@JasonFoo1653no…he wasn’t supportive until the last moment. She said it
And he laughed at her!
@@JasonFoo1653wow really huh thanks for telling me😂
@@katestclair5381Where at that moment he even laughed at her I did not see a smiling face from that
He has zero consideration and emotional intelligence.
He didn’t until the last moment. Took too long imo and he needed to know to not make that kind of a choice for her but hey.
I had so many emotional intelligence and lot of consideration one time for someone that it was used against me and people still based at me for that
He's a way too into himself. He thinks about his feelings not hers, so egotistic of him to do that.
Zero! And zero common interests on all levels.
She's soo into him and he's just there for the competition 😅.. I am not feeling that he likes her, Zero emotional connection between them, she kept asking him all the questions and he just sat there talking. no emotional Intelligence on his end.. No, thank you.
I agree with you, I noticed that even before tonight
I thought the same thing during the dinner! Like…..she was baring her soul and on the verge of tears talking abt her family and I was like……..did he ask you any questions?! 💀
Maybe he's been hurt. Don't judge before knowing someone's story! He cares in his own way.
Hot dudes are awful
This guy truly loves himself
So you’re saying you don’t want him love himself AT ALL?
@@JasonFoo1653 what I'm saying is he is conceded .. cares more about himself than anyone else .. he's a 'player'
@@Joyce-r4oIt’s not like the shows has been like a video game before and we’re are selecting to go into Jenn’s journey 😂😂😂
If someone did this to me on a first date..I would’ve sent him home. 😂😂 NEXT!
Well Sam M has no control on where to go on his 1-on-1
@@JasonFoo1653 I know that. It’s not about where they went. They could just enjoy each others company without jumping off the building. He should’ve been supportive of her from the beginning, but he was making her more uncomfortable and she felt alone. No one wants to feel that way on a date, especially a first one.
But you would have made out with him before sending him home right?
His eyes are scary; he has an empty untrustworthy look that freaks me out. The eyes say he is not emotionally invested; he gives me the creeps!
Sam N was more creepier than Sam M to me
So what are you going to now is Freak the Freak out 🎵🎼🎶
Not everyone wants to try everything and it’s OK. I would be so uncomfortable if I were Jane, especially your man is not being understanding and supportive to you. He only thinks about having fun. Boy!!
This guy gives me the creeps. Narcisist vibes. Have a feeling she may be drawn to creeps. Poor Jen.
She’s 30 and single. She probably is
@@BeastofBrooklyn She's 26 but looks 36 without her makeup.
I don’t see them together at the end…I thought I did until this
Sam never said a word of encouragement to Jenn. But the woman did. Sam never really cares about Jenn's feelings. He is more focused on his own adventure.
I like Sam m but he is not the one for Jenn. He is not emotionally available for her either he doesn't know how to be with words or just don't really care.
What do you like about him?
Oh Sam M thats a no for me too. Jenn run he doesnt care about your feeling thats a no!
Your name is No your son is No your number is No you need to let it go and you need to let it go you need to let it go I to the I to the No No No
I understand exactly how she feels because I also have fears of height..Its a literal nightmare when you are in this situation..
Here is what I don't understand. She knows about the dates in advance. She has a fear of heights but goes skydiving and jumps off of buildings. It's hypocritical and very strange.
He is so ick :/
Well that ick came from a emotional chemistry experiment he did that went wrong
How insightful, you're exactly the kind of girl who goes after superficial, thoughtless guys like Sam M.
Jenn he didn’t push you off? Say no and watch him. Stand your ground.
I like that she did stand her ground and wasn’t gonna do it until he comforted her and payed attention.
@@SupernaturalLove100that read as her being extremely codependent.
🙄@@Shewas-kathybates
@@kilaa3417 Seems like you relate! It’s not a personal attack.
@@Shewas-kathybates rolling my eyes because your comment is weird.
He's not the one, girl!😅
Well we’re not the ones who are making the decision for her
Besides why does your last name have the same exact last name as his anyway?
@@JasonFoo1653 ?
That's a no for me...
Your name is No your son is No your is number No you let it go you need to let it go I to the I to the No No No 🎶 🎼 🎵
For a long moment he acted like if he was with another man ! Totally cold , BUT he fixed it !
I know the producers really cut the worst scenes out of this and put it together in his sneak peak promo which gave me more of a red flag on them more than him and I don’t want to get him more hated than how he was before
@@JasonFoo1653huh???
He look like the actor from the passion soap opera forgot his name
@@freedom4063How do I know you are not that actor from the show 😱
@@JasonFoo1653 lol I'm not
He is so narcissistic!! All women beware! He will push your boundaries all in the name of "think of the memories we made together". He does not care about a woman on live TV, he will not care about your in a private setting either. He did not show up for you. At the last moment so he would not look terrible.
We’ll have you meet him in real life?
this will pissed me off
Eventually you need to take that to the toilet 😂😂😂
Sam is good looking but, he is not right for Jenn. Physical chemistry for sure but no emotional connection at all.
I don't think he is the guy for her, even before tonight, he is just all over her too much😮
Sam is not the one for Jenn, he was pushing her to do the sky jump even though she's clearly uncomfortable and scared. It took him a while to read her emotional struggles and comfort her properly. It'd be a red flag because Sam isn't going to emotionally support her. I would've refused to do the jump and dump him immediately.
🗑️ The person helping them kept on pushing Jenn too when she clearly didn’t want to
Yeah so it’s not all Sam M’s fault
I hope she won't choose the wrong bei the end.
I get what he was TRYNA do but as soon as he made the choice for the both of them without discussing it with her or voicing his belief that she could do it and that he’d b with her every step of the way or anything, he fked up. It was giving father saying “no actually she’ll have ___” upon ordering a different meal for his daughter . And then he spent too much time laughing like a child the way he does with his sidekick and watching her squirm from a distance. He couldn’t read her feelings quick enough for me. That is a red flag even if he did end up comforting her which was a relief like why wouldn’t you begin doing that? Too focused on having a good time on ur own
Well what’s more worse Sam M trying to comfort Jenn a little too late or not being comforting Jenn at all?
@@JasonFoo1653 BOTH R RED FLAGS.
@@SupernaturalLove100 Well then everything is a red flag to you
He was like "I want that, I think that, I want my wife to be like that" it's all about him him him... Typical hot guy.
She really like Sam you can see her face
He's such a walking red flag but unfortunately she really does like him
@@Keezie27Hate him all you want but you’re eventually going to take it too far
@@Keezie27How do you know the red flag isn’t walking him?
Sam failed miserably! He loves himself too much to consider her feelings.
Well saying that out doesn’t make you feel better regardless
So you’re saying you don’t want Sam M to care about himself AT ALL.
But he's so good looking, so to Jenn it all works out.
He can go! I'm not sure who's my favorite dude yet, but this guy isn't. ha
I really liked how Sam was a leader in this situation... He helped her make the decision to jump in the end. That's a go getter guy! Whichever lady ends up with him will not have a dull moment. He is also very good looking!
Clairr and Dale
What happened to her claim as an adventurous person?! Whether they have a connection or not, they should meet each other halfway.
Yeah but she shouldn’t have to jump off the building to impress him. As I'm typing this now I'm watching the episode as I write this message.
If it’s an adventure you’re not wanting to do or signed up for, it’s a bit tricky to go thru with it.. he didn’t even ask her first, he just chose it to happen for them lol
There's NO WAY, I'd jump! Way 2 high for me!
Also... deeper connections start with conversations with depth... not making out... Lust skews judgement.
The way Jenn just flipped a 180 and was like “I loved how Sam showed up for me”
Did she just not forget everything else that he just put her through?? Are you dumb??
Can I actually pretend to be sincere?
By saying that you already did
Where is the rest of the two of the one on one dates? Here only is the middle part
He got that Tranformer Movie Rizz. "50 years from now when you're looking back at your life, don't you want to be able to say you had the guts to get in the car"
Everything he says is a cliche or movie line.
Run Jen
And I love how he didn’t pull out her chair 😂
Where are their helmets??
They're both braindead so there's nothing to injure.
Wow this guy is a HUGE red flag. Not supportive at all.
She talks like a ventriloquist
How
I think marcus will be best for this
He's one of my top ones @ the moment but we'll see bc we really have to get to know them a bit longer. ❤️
Yes! He would’ve actually DISCUSSED it with her
Also Jonathan the creative director from Los Angeles he's a good guy for her also.
Didn’t she jump out of a plane earlier…
Playing the victim and being a hypocrite is necessary to play her role.
It's called Femininen vulnerability 😂
What the... but she literally sky dive so what's the difference?
It’s different . You can see the ground, you’re attached to a harness, it’s a lot
She was also with a real man during the sky dive thing that's not a tool bag and helped make her feel safe.
Sky diving is from 10,000 feet and the building is from 625 feet. It's a massive difference which proves she is a massive hypocrite. She enjoys playing the victim which makes her perfect for the role.
@@troysmith5749
Incel alert!!
@@SupernaturalLove100 Feminazi Alert!!!
women in here saying he is not good either are LGBTQDFTRVBHNNASWYKVCX or, they just say it cause are jealous, they want to keep him single and have an opportunity with him 😂😂😂😂
I don’t like him at all, send him home Jen. Goes to show you it’s not all about looks but we new that
I don’t have a soul just ratings date my other personality
Nothing about Sam M is bothering me and even if there is saying it won’t make me feel better
i watched week 6 or 7 with him and he was so confusing. i'm like BRO do you love her or not. he's like a freaking robot. damn Capricorn!!! sorry but you're not compatible with a Sagittarius woman goodbye ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼
At first, I didn’t like how she was acting she can make the guy do something because she’s the bachelorette but when a guy challenges her to do something else she doesn’t wanna do it yet. I won’t do this either IB too scared but wondering or relationship you need to talk things over and not expect anybody just to do what you wanna do bachelorette or not bachelorette or bachelor. You should always talk over stuff that is not respect anybody else to do what you want she did it so I guess that was good for her, but I will do it but matter what you make people do stuff when this stuff is scary, but it depends what you’re afraid of heights stuff like this I won’t do it, but I don’t get it for people who are afraid of, cats or dogs that will never Heights I get but from the same token, the bachelorette got to learn if she’s going to make the guys do stuff the guys have the right to challenge her too be in the bachelorette or the bachelor should not make people do stuff that they don’t really wanna do in the first place it doesn’t matter who you are
She forced Hakeen to let that spider crawl all over him even though he has a phobia of spiders, then she sent him home anyways. But Jenn is a boss babe and what she says goes because everyone is afraid to hurt her massive, fragile ego.
Not a fan of Sam M., but he does have a point, although he could have done a better job of convincing her vs just telling her to do it. She knows once she does it, she'd be proud of herself, but she just had to get over the fear first. And it's a once in a lifetime opportunity, so she should grab the bulls by the horn and enjoy the ride.
I know when he looked back at this he definitely thought I wish I said it a bit better
@@JasonFoo1653you know him huh?
I get what he was tryna do but as soon as he made the choice for the both of them without discussing it with her or voicing his belief that she could do it and that he’d b with her every step of the way or anything, he fked up. It was giving father saying “no actually she’ll have ___” and ordering a meal for his daughter . And then he spent too much time laughing like a child the way he does and watching her squirm from a distance. He couldn’t read her feelings quick enough for me.
@@SupernaturalLove100 I agree. I didn't care for his behavior here.
@@SupernaturalLove100I see what you are doing and guess what it’s not working!
Jenn should do it!
Sam hot and strong 😍!Wish him the best❤❤❤
I think he's the best for her. You all dont like him because he's not a mushy kind of guy. He's a manly man.
Hahahaha 😂
Repeatedly telling Devin he doesn't respect him backs up your comment.
He needs to go away
This guy is nothing
Ick
I love Sam M . He is the best . He is superior to the other guys. Its just a fact
ahha truth hurts . If she had to pick night one it would be all his
Could be. If so it’s due to physical attraction and as she said, that’s a mistake she’s made many times.
You’re Sam’s sister??
@@SupernaturalLove100Stop twisting what people are saying
@@SupernaturalLove100What if you’re Sam’s sister?
This Sam is handsome I hope she picks him
u hope she picks him js bc he’s handsome?😭
Bad reason to choose someone. They only have a physical connection. Sam M is a tool.
He'll be sent home.
@@sonyadrake7843Oh and then what? keep continuing hating on him until we gotten TOO FAR on that?!?
@@K4TSWRLDStop twisting her words up
She jumped out of a plane the day before. Her "im so scared and want to be pampered" act was ick for me! But hey she needs to make a silly show. At least Sam is real here. He knew she was full of BS. Jumped out of a PLANE the day before bulll💩 looking for attention.
She was seeking his attention...he was not having it😂 just went on with it! Sam is real❤😊