1:14 If Kayla was still alive, would he still be with her? Yes, she was his wife and the only reason why they aren't together anymore is because she is dead. And if the question was meant to ask if he would be with Amanda, the answer would be no because he would still be married.
Amanda has proven that she could only be happy when she has the op for herself and nothing else, that's beyond pathetic and ignorant as well and plus at least she can go with someone else that is single and start a serious relationship with him down the line.
NTA she needs to understand that she isn't going to replace your first wife, or replace your children with hers, which seems to be a recurring idea second spouse's seem to have in their heads. And saying what she did infront of everyone was very inappropriate.
Breaking up with your fiance ONLY because she says that would be a terrible move. But it seems clear that this one statement was not the only issue. Also, OP really wasn't sufficiently into his fiance to be getting married, so this is the best thing for everyone.
@@lifeisamess8100that woman boldly said in front of his kids and grandparents that she was glad their mother died, like really what kind of person says I'm glad another person died so I can step in a drive a wedge in his family not a normal person no. I don't know what good you see in her but the rest of us know
@@lifeisamess8100Excuse me? She is most definitely an AH. She said in front of the kids and other in-laws that she was glad the wife died! That is not an okay thing to do.
@@lifeisamess8100That is NOT “normal woman behavior.” I can’t imagine doing or saying what she did. If I had a friend who behaved like that, we would no longer be friends. She’s CRUEL and extremely selfish.
44 if op lives another 44 years. Wow He's willing to give up a whole lifetime of happiness and companionship with somebody else so, his kids can feel free in his house. And a lot of people praise him as a good dad for this sacrifice. Would he want that for his own kids? Is that what his mother wants for him? A lifetime of loneliness. Good luck with that as you watch TV alone and eat t.v dinners with your cat.
Homie, what kind of companionship would that even be? She tried her absolute best to run both of his children off, it's especially heinous that one of them was STILL UNDERAGE. Imagine someone you thought you were going to marry said they were glad that someone you loved dearly had died. Would you really still want to be with them? The way she nonchalantly though a half-hearted apology would "fix" everything and that she only showed a real reaction when he told her it was over are clear signs that she's a manipulator.
Why amanda was fighting to be with a dude only give his leftovers? Amanda deserves a person that put her first and thinks as his as the love of her life.
@@juliearmfield2634 he deserves a single mother that also lost her partnet to death. Amanda was giving her 100% to him and not even at her engagement party she would be a priority and they had to keep talking about the deceased ex.
@larissagomes451 She said she was happy that the first wife died. In front of the first wife's children, sister and BIL. She was pushing the kids to leave THEIR home because she wants OP all to herself. If having her partner all to herself is so important to her then she shouldn't have started dating a man who has children.
@@memawknowsbest4978 agree that is why i am confuse why the hell she is crying over this man. She should have not say that, but again, what the hell the sister and brother in law where doing there in the first place? The mother in law who the man told to bless her heart was 100% provoking the new woman. Her own bloody engagement party she need to suck it up and be reminded that she is only there because the ex died and everybody could not drop a ghost for one night and she needed to know her place she comes in 4° place as his loved one and priority.
The way my jaw dropped when she said I'm glad she died, definitely NTA, anyone who says something like that is disgusting
1:14 If Kayla was still alive, would he still be with her? Yes, she was his wife and the only reason why they aren't together anymore is because she is dead. And if the question was meant to ask if he would be with Amanda, the answer would be no because he would still be married.
aww he such a god dad nobody can tell me that this man doesn't love his children
Yea read the full story (real story) bet it would change that
Links? @@kennethsjvold9212
@@kennethsjvold9212?
Amanda has proven that she could only be happy when she has the op for herself and nothing else, that's beyond pathetic and ignorant as well and plus at least she can go with someone else that is single and start a serious relationship with him down the line.
OP is a awesome father ☺️😀
NTA she needs to understand that she isn't going to replace your first wife, or replace your children with hers, which seems to be a recurring idea second spouse's seem to have in their heads. And saying what she did infront of everyone was very inappropriate.
Breaking up with your fiance ONLY because she says that would be a terrible move. But it seems clear that this one statement was not the only issue. Also, OP really wasn't sufficiently into his fiance to be getting married, so this is the best thing for everyone.
OP isn't the AH.
But nither is the woman, that's probably a normal woman behaviour which similar to how divorce women's try to isolate their kids from their bio dad.
Get rid of the woman. Your kids are more important.
@@lifeisamess8100that woman boldly said in front of his kids and grandparents that she was glad their mother died, like really what kind of person says I'm glad another person died so I can step in a drive a wedge in his family not a normal person no. I don't know what good you see in her but the rest of us know
@@lifeisamess8100Excuse me? She is most definitely an AH. She said in front of the kids and other in-laws that she was glad the wife died!
That is not an okay thing to do.
@@lifeisamess8100That is NOT “normal woman behavior.” I can’t imagine doing or saying what she did. If I had a friend who behaved like that, we would no longer be friends. She’s CRUEL and extremely selfish.
That AI laugh is stupid. Good stories though
I saw this 8 seconds before I heard the laugh, and I was so confused. Then I heard the laugh and I was wondering wtf possessed my phone 😂
First part is real, but every update is fake as hell. The story is from 2012.
44 if op lives another 44 years. Wow He's willing to give up a whole lifetime of happiness and companionship with somebody else so, his kids can feel free in his house.
And a lot of people praise him as a good dad for this sacrifice.
Would he want that for his own kids? Is that what his mother wants for him? A lifetime of loneliness. Good luck with that as you watch TV alone and eat t.v dinners with your cat.
Loneliness is better than ab3se😊
Being alone doesn't always mean you're also lonely
Homie, what kind of companionship would that even be? She tried her absolute best to run both of his children off, it's especially heinous that one of them was STILL UNDERAGE. Imagine someone you thought you were going to marry said they were glad that someone you loved dearly had died. Would you really still want to be with them? The way she nonchalantly though a half-hearted apology would "fix" everything and that she only showed a real reaction when he told her it was over are clear signs that she's a manipulator.
Better to have a cat than someone like that woman and I use that term very loosely
@@someday3917exactly
Why amanda was fighting to be with a dude only give his leftovers? Amanda deserves a person that put her first and thinks as his as the love of her life.
Wrong he deserves someone that will respect him and his children
@@juliearmfield2634 he deserves a single mother that also lost her partnet to death. Amanda was giving her 100% to him and not even at her engagement party she would be a priority and they had to keep talking about the deceased ex.
@larissagomes451 She said she was happy that the first wife died. In front of the first wife's children, sister and BIL. She was pushing the kids to leave THEIR home because she wants OP all to herself. If having her partner all to herself is so important to her then she shouldn't have started dating a man who has children.
@@memawknowsbest4978 agree that is why i am confuse why the hell she is crying over this man. She should have not say that, but again, what the hell the sister and brother in law where doing there in the first place? The mother in law who the man told to bless her heart was 100% provoking the new woman. Her own bloody engagement party she need to suck it up and be reminded that she is only there because the ex died and everybody could not drop a ghost for one night and she needed to know her place she comes in 4° place as his loved one and priority.
@@larissagomes451 are you fucking serious?