Why I'm Not Moving Back to the US After Living in Germany for Over 4 Years

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @ZoieMarie
    @ZoieMarie  3 года назад +436

    Hi all! Don' forget to subscribe to my channel as well as follow me on instagram to see what I am up to daily. Looking forward to your comments below! 🤎

    • @ferrisferry
      @ferrisferry 3 года назад +4

      Welcome here in Germany! I

    • @darylcummins9236
      @darylcummins9236 3 года назад +18

      @bossymeg brown True, but by paying the taxes that contribute to services such as education & health care etc, most people in Western Europe don't have to take out huge loans to ensure that their kids can attend College/University, or cripple their own and their families financial future if they get sick. It's about what you get for how much you pay - and from everything I've seen, heard and read, we get a lot more bang for our buck from the Governments in Europe than in the US.

    • @pdppdp3854
      @pdppdp3854 3 года назад +5

      hey there sister, if you knew what going to occur in europe soon, you'd rethink your position on moving back to America. if one cannot already see the signs... then i'd encourage you to pray about it!! God can speak to people in various ways... but first we must ask concerning a matter... then await his response with open ears, eyes,mind and heart!!
      be blessed sister!!

    • @vapidrabbit198
      @vapidrabbit198 3 года назад +9

      @bossymeg brown as opposed to the USA, where people still have to pay a lot in taxes, and then the health insurance won’t approve your doctors or reimburse your medical fees… you have to pay most of the price of your meds yourself (which are more expensive than anywhere else in the world)……. And if you lose your job, you lose your insurance.
      …… and people wonder why crime in the USA is so much worse…

    • @vapidrabbit198
      @vapidrabbit198 3 года назад +8

      @@pdppdp3854 how do you know what’s going to happen in the future?… did Q send you messages in your dreams?

  • @notyourzon3
    @notyourzon3 3 года назад +3910

    For me as a german, think that‘s normal. It makes me happy to hear that you‘re enjoying our land.

    • @kardanski
      @kardanski 3 года назад +23

      Es gibt auch Hass in Deutschland... Ich frage mich haeufig, ob Deutsche jede Auslaender hassen... und warum...

    • @lovelyinnit7930
      @lovelyinnit7930 3 года назад +66

      Same I am not a German but I live here since I was a child and it's very lovely here

    • @lovelyinnit7930
      @lovelyinnit7930 3 года назад +101

      @@kardanski also ich bin Ausländer und die leute sind sehr freundlich damit ihnen juckt es auch garnicht, meine lehrerin mag es neue und andere Sprachen zu hören oder über unsere Kultur zu lernen oder zu hören und sie sind haben sehr viel Respekt

    • @thyrussendria8198
      @thyrussendria8198 3 года назад +40

      @@kardanski Nicht alle, aber eine Laute Minderheit. Die hasserfüllten sind oft genug jene, die in ihrem eigenem Leben schlechte Karten hatten oder einfach ihre Karten falsch gespielt haben und dann von jemanden einen Auslass für den Zorn gezeigt gekriegt haben.

    • @thomasschafer7268
      @thomasschafer7268 3 года назад +13

      Ja.genau. Deswegen kann motzi mabuse ruhig nach England auswandern. Weils da bestimmt besser ist!

  • @TechniSean1
    @TechniSean1 2 года назад +1117

    I spent a month in Germany this summer for work and I loved it. The travel part is so true, I was sitting in my hotel room one Saturday morning thinking of something to do, so I decided, "I guess I'll go to France today." Made this decision at 11:30am, and at 1:00pm I was at my destination in France. Spent the whole day there and was back in Germany in time for a late dinner, still trips me out. It's like traveling in the states, except each state speaks a different language
    Dying to go back.

    • @nikebull41
      @nikebull41 2 года назад +14

      Every country stands out from the ppl to food! Have to agree

    • @unlink1649
      @unlink1649 2 года назад +5

      When Europe is federalizing, and it eventually will, this will be even more true. Good times

    • @YouGotOptions2
      @YouGotOptions2 2 года назад +1

      It's exactly like that.

    • @schlumbl84
      @schlumbl84 2 года назад +3

      you should live where I live. I live about 30 minutes away from the french border. So a day trip to a different country is easy peasy from here. 😉

    • @1978JustinCredible
      @1978JustinCredible 2 года назад +1

      @@schlumbl84 Saarländer oder Pfälzer? 😅 ich bin gerade „hinter“ die Grenze gezogen…auch nicht das Schlechteste! ✌🏻😅

  • @andreaseufinger4422
    @andreaseufinger4422 3 года назад +3245

    Very valid points. There is one thing the americans have to understand:
    If you want roads in a good condition, affordable and good schools and universities, affordable and good public transport, you need to pay some taxes. Taxes are worth paying as long as they are used in a reasonable way.

    • @solidstate9451
      @solidstate9451 3 года назад +196

      I like paying taxes because I know they improve my life quality.

    • @mrmc2465
      @mrmc2465 3 года назад +215

      This is ridiculous, u can pay all the tax in the world, it doesn't mean that it will be spent wisely. An individual will always spend money more appropriately than a large government body.

    • @solidstate9451
      @solidstate9451 3 года назад +556

      @@mrmc2465 No, the idividual will spend it for lavish luxuries for himself. Like flying into space. Yeah, how wisely spent for society!

    • @Muschelschubs3r
      @Muschelschubs3r 3 года назад +52

      What? Ahahahahaha. What Libertarian youtube channel did you glean this turd of an opinion from?
      One look at how most individuals spend their money and you know that you just spouted nonsense.

    • @iamtheonlywilly
      @iamtheonlywilly 3 года назад +230

      The Germans take pride in their country from what I've seen. The US is more concerned with capitalism and getting rich so some things aren't prioritized.

  • @SloMo2723
    @SloMo2723 2 года назад +361

    I lived in Germany for almost 5 years. Coming back to the US was a shock to me! The German people showed me how to live a cool and simple life. I go back to Germany as often as possible and always hate leaving the country.

    • @kikijustme
      @kikijustme 2 года назад +32

      As a German it‘s so good to hear people talk nice about Germany. And it‘s so interesting to read all your experiences. I‘m glad you like to come back and found a second home here

    • @MiniLittleBabyDoll
      @MiniLittleBabyDoll 2 года назад +2

      @@kikijustme F germany

    • @adamstuhlman2206
      @adamstuhlman2206 Год назад +7

      @@MiniLittleBabyDoll Why? Are you Jewish? If so, I could understand...Polish as well. Is your anger related to WWII or German Colonialism?

    • @isaakasimov2456
      @isaakasimov2456 Год назад +2

      @@adamstuhlman2206 Are you American (of German descent)? Your name sounds German, although this name does not exist in Germany (I'm Austrian, they also speak German there.). This name sounds like the guy from the Police Academy (Schtulman).
      I was always interested in American of German descent, who anglicized their name.

    • @adamstuhlman2206
      @adamstuhlman2206 Год назад

      @@isaakasimov2456 Yes, my great grandparents came to the US after WWI. You?

  • @carolinepung5966
    @carolinepung5966 2 года назад +867

    I understand exactly what you mean. I am also a New Yorker who moved to Germany 17 years ago, our daughter was raised here, and she now attends university in Germany. At this time, we really have no intention of moving back to the US. Of course, Germany has its issues and problems, but I find the lifestyle we have been able to create here is better than what he had in New York. I feel safer here, our daughter was able to get her own apartment as a college student, which is practically unheard of in the states. The health care system is navigable and as a cancer survivor, I probably wouldn't even be able to get insurance if we lived in the US. I love the fact that the city we live in is so green. In general, our family has really thrived here.

    • @pricsillasammons7073
      @pricsillasammons7073 2 года назад +8

      How many hours does she have to work? I want to go to university in Germany but it’s interesting to know. :)

    • @ewansteele8478
      @ewansteele8478 2 года назад +8

      I want to move my wife and 2 kids to Germany from horrible Tennessee I’m from Ireland but haven’t been there since a child and my parents aren’t citizens of the USA but still live in Tennessee and refuse to move back to Europe. Any advice on moving to Germany? How do you combat the language and speaking English? Most Germans can speak perfect English right? Also what is the air quality like, we have a child with severe SEVERE asthma. And how is the weather? My wife has arthritis and the heat bothers her but so does extreme cold temps too. Thanks for your advise! This video and your comment really makes me want to live there now. Me and my family are NOT thriving here and I just want us to thrive.

    • @AquestoTermonde
      @AquestoTermonde 2 года назад +7

      @@ewansteele8478 man, there is Google and you can learn all the things from there, but Germany would be MUCH better than usa

    • @Orielparadise
      @Orielparadise 2 года назад +2

      @@ewansteele8478 I would say move back to Ireland either but while I think shares basically all the good traits mentioned here about Germany it’s become very costly to live there in recent years with housing and other costs.

    • @LoonyArtDesign
      @LoonyArtDesign 2 года назад +10

      @@ewansteele8478 Hey, yes, most of us speak (almost) perfectly English, except for the older people. Air pollution is good I would say, but for your daughter I would recommend that you mobe to the North Sea or Baltic Sea. I think the Baltic Sea is even better. Many patients with asthma or lung problems or rheumathism go there for a health cure because the air is particularly good. The temperatures there are also always somewhat cooler than in the Rest of Germany, but also windier. It doesn‘t get very cold there either. I hope I could help with this information.

  • @jessicalocke5042
    @jessicalocke5042 3 года назад +1400

    I'm an American living in Switzerland for the last 3 years and many of the benefits of living in Switzerland are the same as yours, especially the safety thing as a woman, and children walking home alone. There's a feeling a freedom that come with that which is really special.

    • @josephbenadam
      @josephbenadam 3 года назад +14

      Health care in Switzerland is private. I don't see any difference from US other than it's safer and more expensive than US

    • @Yyr85
      @Yyr85 3 года назад +3

      You live in the home of the dwarfs...

    • @kaszaspeter77
      @kaszaspeter77 3 года назад +64

      @@josephbenadam Healthcare is just but one aspect of life. All the rest like safety, infrastructure, schooling, nature, social safety net etc. are all valid points and apply to most Western European countries. (I live in Switzerland.) Yes, Switzerland is more expensive than the US (not sure about the healthcare costs, though), but the overall standard of living is way better. Especially for blue collar people who are becoming something like indentured servants with the crazy rent prices, no rights in the workplace and the rest.

    • @cobbler88
      @cobbler88 3 года назад +10

      Of course. Yet another country that's not only at least 90% white, but also about 2/3 Christian.
      No one should feel bad about finding the situation that suits them best, but almost everything she listed in this video is something she could have gotten by moving to any decent sized city in the United States that has a demographic similar to that of Germany. The only outlier is the cost of the university, and you get what you pay for in Germany.

    • @gloin10
      @gloin10 3 года назад +84

      @@cobbler88
      Since when has Germany been a country "...where at least 90% of the citizens are white European Christians"?
      Barely 55% of Germans claim to be Christian. About 40% claim to have no faith.
      There is a large Turkish/Kurdish minority, while Asians are about 9.1% overall.
      You really don't know what you are talking about, do you?

  • @professorlilith5933
    @professorlilith5933 2 года назад +2100

    Never apologize for wanting to have a lot of children. There's plenty of women, like me, who don't want to have children, and we will depend on your children to take charge of the world when we are older.

    • @pamdawson8598
      @pamdawson8598 2 года назад +167

      It's nobody's business if you want many or no children.
      Don't buy into people's negative comments.
      Bless you.

    • @jonathanduck5333
      @jonathanduck5333 2 года назад +91

      She mentioned, she wants to have 3 children. That is not a lot by any means. In my family 3-4 children is the average. Fun fact: My brother in law's father has 17 siblings😂.So yeah 3 children is very reasonable.

    • @wora1111
      @wora1111 2 года назад +50

      @@jonathanduck5333 In most families I know the current generation has less children than their parents. So three kids is above average - and we need that.

    • @newmankidman5763
      @newmankidman5763 2 года назад +23

      I have never wanted to have children either, and this feeling becomes stronger and stronger every day. I think maybe it is because my parents had ten children, of whom I am the youngest, and I have worked as a High-School English teacher, and, as such I saw how selfish and disrespectful most children are.

    • @blackrain1999
      @blackrain1999 2 года назад +1

      @@jonathanduck5333 Smugly says a man who never in his life is going to be pregnant and birth a child on his own. Funny how you also never once mentioned any of the women bearing all these children in your family, no one knows their living conditions lol. People want to have lives and not being breeding-maids for no ones 17 kids (or forever bound and dependent to some community d**head)

  • @findsch1123
    @findsch1123 2 года назад +612

    this is so crazy to hear as a German, we just take all of it for granted.

    • @unlink1649
      @unlink1649 2 года назад +32

      shit is bad out there. We have a good life here

    • @honesty_-no9he
      @honesty_-no9he 2 года назад +19

      You can leave one of the Ivy League universities in the USA with a masters degree and $150,000 in debt. But most of the people who go to those "schools" (US slang for university) are from the 1% but if you are not rich it is a lifetime of debt slavery before you even start your career. People go there because they think it will land them an elite high paying job that will pay off the debt quickly. Problem is that is often not the case. So it is safer to only pay $50,000 and go to a less prestigious college. In the US that is the cheap "school".

    • @sudheerkumar4421
      @sudheerkumar4421 2 года назад +1

      did u also take russian gas for granted???

    • @THEREALKINGOFWEST
      @THEREALKINGOFWEST 2 года назад +10

      AMERICA is much better than any country in Europe. BUT it comes with a lot of individual responsibility. I am European. (Norwegian) and I’ve lived in the US for 1/4 of my life now. I’ve also been in Germany a lot. But nowhere there can be compared for example to Orange County California. It’s amazing!

    • @michaelbyrd7883
      @michaelbyrd7883 2 года назад +20

      @@THEREALKINGOFWEST Have you ever lived in Texas from May-September and tried to go for a walk? What's so bad about Europe that makes America so wonderful?

  • @talitam.8414
    @talitam.8414 3 года назад +1578

    I was born in a European country and I remember my American friend being SHOCKED when I told him I had zero debt to pay whatsoever when I finished college. I was shocked he started his professional life with a debt hanging over his head. My mind can't comprehend this.

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +174

      A few years ago, my mother had tumours in both kidneys and they were not operable and malignant. I donated a kidney. My American colleagues asked me how I am financing this, if my family needs to mortgage the house etc. I was very confused, seeing how I paid nothing, really. I mean.. there were some minimal costs for the hospital bed and a 10 Euro fee for medication and in total (if I remember correctly) I paid around 250. My mother was a pensioner already and paid nothing. They then were even more shocked when I explained that I will continue to be paid during this time. Social safety nets - aren't they the best.

    • @alexandernoe1619
      @alexandernoe1619 3 года назад +93

      @@timolynch149 American politicians who get bribe money from the american health industry make sure that average Americans have no idea that the US health care system is among the worst of all developed countries.

    • @cjohnson3836
      @cjohnson3836 3 года назад +26

      It is to control us. People don't really learn history. The US was built on foreigners. In the early-mid 1900s US poached scientists from Solviet Union, for example. US policy is let other countries pay to give education, then steal them with the lure of better pay. So, of course, the gov't is going to take steps to prevent other countries from doing it to US. So, we get loaded with debt and then become incapable of emigrating. If you have student debt, the only places you could ever hope to earn enough to pay it off are the same countries that are most difficult to get into. Debt is a tool to keep the educated Americans from being able to leave

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +35

      @Jean juju In my home state of Baden-Württemberg, Germany, the current cost per semester is a €70 administrative fee, which also gives you access to services and local transport. This is for a degree course. If you already have a completed degree, you may be charged 600 per semester and up to 1500 if you are not an EU citizen.

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +3

      @@pjt.4841 Ah, yes, excellent point you made. Let me respond with an equally brilliant 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @patknick4201
    @patknick4201 3 года назад +780

    As a German, it's so humbling to watch videos like this one. Unfortunately, Germans often tend to be dissatisfied with everything and rant about politics and everything around it. But when you hear from US citizens how nice and good we have it here, it quickly brings you down again and makes you grateful. I like the background music though. Wish you all the best! :)

    • @lincolnsixecho51
      @lincolnsixecho51 3 года назад +41

      I am one of those "unsatisfied germans" - and i can tell you why: Because since the last 20 or s years we slowly but surely tend to lose all these great benefits and thats such a pity, because social and educational advantages as well as the health insurrance nowadays become more and more only suitablecfor rich people! When i was a young kid we had a great bunch of health care benefits, that we've alread lost meanwhile. If this development goes on, we won' t be much better then f.e. the USA in nearer future. Before this will happen, i think its
      important for the german people, to stand up and stop this de-structurizing of our social advantages and not point towards the rest of our benefits and say self-indulgent: "How fantastic is germany in relation to other bations!"

    • @Initium1000
      @Initium1000 2 года назад +9

      I'm American. Do you think we have it bad? We don't... Our system is different but it's NOT inferior. Everyone around the world lines up to live in the US. We lead and help protect the world. We don't have it bad here, it's beautiful here. We're tremendously diverse and you don't have anything like that in the world. Every state is like a different country.
      It's a great place to visit and for many it's a great place to live.

    • @patknick4201
      @patknick4201 2 года назад +25

      @@Initium1000 Sorry, didn't want to offend Americans or something like that. It probably was just expressed in a wrong way by me. Sorry again for that. Just wanted to say, that it's kind of humbling to see people from great nations like the US here in Germany talking about how great we have it here and that unfortunately there are lots of people out there not appreciating it, which makes me sad.

    • @lincolnsixecho51
      @lincolnsixecho51 2 года назад

      @The Perfect Crime Oh, i think, there must be a great *misunderstanding!* - I am not a racist, in fact i am married to a former refugee and am a friend of every person that comes for help to Germany!! - 🖤💛❤💜 EQUAL RIGHTS TO ALL PEOPLE FROM ALL PLACES!! - But that doesn' t mean, that i' ve no cause to criticize the german health care system as it is today and that is unfair to ALL people!! Not so bad then in the U.S. , but its ongoing getting more and more unfair! In my eyes it is not okay to find the german health care beyond all critical discussion, only because by NOW its fairer then in other places. I could explain you a lot of examples, but that would take it much too far here...
      The german system has been great in the 60ties, 70ties but started to get worse since Helmut Kohl became chancelor in The 80ties. And this process is still, continuing ...

    • @laerramarie2620
      @laerramarie2620 2 года назад +1

      @@Initium1000 Sorry, over there you have a school shooting every other week, you have expensive, inefficient health insurance or massive medical debt, sometimes even with insurance, you have a "democracy" with literally 2 parties and a system where not every vote is counted the same and your companies are pumping whatever shit is allowed in your food, which is highly illegal in most other developed nations. You guys didn't even sign basic human and CHILDREN'S rights. Yet you claim you aren't inferior?

  • @darpinih
    @darpinih 3 года назад +1089

    I'm not moving back to the U.S. because of the absence of universal health care there, period. I have other reasons but that's numero uno for me. I lived in France for seven years and now Germany for four and I can't describe how great it is to not have to even thing about, let alone worry about, how I'm going to pay for health care and perscriptions.

    • @robertczwartek4709
      @robertczwartek4709 3 года назад +25

      I'm planning to go back to Germany because I'm starting having health issues now.

    • @chevinbarghest8453
      @chevinbarghest8453 3 года назад +19

      14 years in the US. My healthcare bill was $330,000 last year. I am sick of religious mania too. UK Churchgoing is 5%. My wife is a USC and she won't survive outside the US. She tried in the UK but couldn't stand the (free) doctor not crawling to her. ok and finally..TRUMPUTINSKI FASCISTS ! Torch light parades with people wearing swastikas and shouting "Jews shall not replace us"

    • @chevinbarghest8453
      @chevinbarghest8453 3 года назад +17

      @@J01123 ...In France they have 4 times the number of doctors per head of population compared the UK. In 2017 I had my malignant prostate cancer spot radiated in Milwaukee using a huge German robot...ie 5 days @ 1 hour per day. Germany makes the kit that is used in the US. The UK is underfunded by the right wing government that is trying to make it ready for sale to American companies via trump's pals.. The US has good healthcare IF you can afford it. If you can't you will die in agony and nobody will care. When I visit the UK I too am struck by the smooth roads after Wisconsin, coz Wisconsin roads are like Somalia... When I emigrated to the US in 2007, I signed on with a new Doctor in WA. He shook my hand and sent me a bill for $185 for a 20 seconds meeting...

    • @robertczwartek4709
      @robertczwartek4709 3 года назад +60

      @@J01123 I don't know how true it is. But universal Healthcare is available in every single developed country in this world. Except of USA. I never met people before who don't have health insurance and when I read once that 100 million of American citizens never went to a dentist because they can't effort it I knew right away there is something wrong. And you hear all the time the number 1 country or the richest country in the world. Regarding the Healthcare and crime rates every so so country is doing better.

    • @robertczwartek4709
      @robertczwartek4709 3 года назад +58

      @@chevinbarghest8453 you know all this when you travel and compare. I'm blessed I'm European and went to more than 30 countries. And Im not rich. I met for the fist time in my life people who are proud they didn't have a single day off in 4 years. People who have 2 or 3 jobs and people who work full time and never had health insurance. Also people who wanted to touch me cause I have a weird accent and come from Europe and they never left their village. And cars fixed with duct tape. And all this happens in the "numer one country".So if anyone tells me the richest country in the world, I'm just laughing.

  • @marcocisneros4379
    @marcocisneros4379 Год назад +179

    It doesn't matter if you're American, Mexican, Or French you've gotta learn the language(German), But especially for Americans, I've met some Americans that actually believe that everyone is supposed to speak English to them wherever they go, Please make the effort to learn the language

    • @GLRYB2GD
      @GLRYB2GD Год назад +7

      💯

    • @kaleidoscopingme
      @kaleidoscopingme Год назад +29

      I get your point but she did not seem that type of person in fact there is a video where she actively is speaking and practicing German. Like I get your point but this rant out of context sounds quite rude to her in my opinion.

    • @keihan5
      @keihan5 Год назад +13

      @@kaleidoscopingme I don't think it was directed at her, imho. I do think it a good point though. My former father-in-law was a immigrant to the U.S. from Mexico city. He made it a point NOT to speak anything but English in his household when he came to the U.S. This was in an effort to force his children and wife to speak the common tongue of the country they wanted to call home.

    • @tldw8354
      @tldw8354 Год назад

      lol. to be fair: it's probably very hard to get over such a deep attitude, and second: even a lot of germans are to "lazy" to learn german language the right way - but to be fair again: german is kinda hard to master.

    • @DavidNelsonATX
      @DavidNelsonATX Год назад +5

      I used to try to speak German with people and they typically would reply in and want to practice their English. While I was OK with that as it increased the level of our conversation it certainly didn’t help me learn German.

  • @Atombender
    @Atombender 2 года назад +849

    When people hear safety, they often think of crime. But safety also includes safe traffic. In Germany, many cities are pedestrian- and bicycle-friendly, you can actually go or ride to places that aren't just around the corner. A very car-friendly city can be a pedestrian nightmare, plus there's increased levels of noise and air pollution. We're not the Netherlands in this regard but still miles ahead of most North American areas.

    • @anonymusug727
      @anonymusug727 2 года назад +6

      Wouldnt Go for a bike ride in Freiburg im Breisgau xD

    • @MrLowbob
      @MrLowbob 2 года назад +11

      @@anonymusug727 there are some really bad places, especially in the big cities. but most other places are pretty decent. in germany the city i liked cycling the most was oldenburg, but then again, i havent been to many cities yet

    • @tickytock2853
      @tickytock2853 2 года назад +2

      autobahn?

    • @BrokenCurtain
      @BrokenCurtain 2 года назад +1

      @@MrLowbob Oldenburg also has a very large pedestrian zone.
      I haven't been there in a while, how is the place nowadays? I hope the pandemic didn't force too many shops to shutter.

    • @MrLowbob
      @MrLowbob 2 года назад

      @@BrokenCurtain i don't know either, my last time there is kind of like 8 years ago or sth

  • @LydiaTifuh
    @LydiaTifuh 3 года назад +388

    The travel part is so true. You could literally drive for about 4 hours from where I live and be in Holland or Belgium and then back.

    • @sandramendeszoon8880
      @sandramendeszoon8880 3 года назад +21

      So true. I live in the Netherlands. With in a half hour drive i'm in Germany. And in a hour and half i'm in Germany. And 4 hours in France. And close to 5 hours in England.

    • @uiigo8560
      @uiigo8560 3 года назад +3

      @@sandramendeszoon8880 ye, ye smuggling that Weed my bro xD

    • @alexanderniessen5036
      @alexanderniessen5036 3 года назад +4

      Or you live in Moenchengladbach - Best soccer Club in Germany and you are only 25 Minutes a way from the Netherlands and 40 Minutes from Belgium. Go (the True) Borussia. Cheers from SoCal.

    • @97AshleyRose
      @97AshleyRose 3 года назад +5

      @@sandramendeszoon8880 man that’s amazing I live in south Texas USA in Texas it takes 8+ hours just to leave the state lol

    • @melize7035
      @melize7035 3 года назад +4

      That’s why I knew North America was not for me (I’m not American but lived there when I was a teenager) drive 10 hours and you’re still in America 😩😩😩😭😭

  • @marchellewhite-stein8195
    @marchellewhite-stein8195 3 года назад +1166

    What I love about Germany: no gun crime. The safety I enjoy as well even though I live in a big city!

    • @FrancisJoa
      @FrancisJoa 3 года назад +47

      No gun crime???? On which planet do you live? Of course there is also gun crime in Germany. It is really easy for criminals to get guns in Germany. All you have to do is to go to Eastern Europe and buy them there.

    • @jennyh4025
      @jennyh4025 3 года назад +233

      @@FrancisJoa maybe not literally no gun crime/violence, but probably not even 1% of the gun crime/violence rate of the USA.

    • @madrooky1398
      @madrooky1398 3 года назад +178

      @@FrancisJoa Well a shootout in Germany... its like a once or twice in a decade event, dont even remember the last one from the top of my head. And things like homicide in general are very rare. There are basically no gangs, which are the cause for most gun violence in the US. The normal german citizen barely experience any kind of life threatening crime in their entire life. Even at places where it is more dangerous compared to the rest of the country it is very unlikely that you get killed.
      Sure you can buy all kinds of guns, even in Germany, but the effort is so much higher that the entry barrier is so high that if you can affort it you wont have a need for it. And then tell me when did it happen that some criminal was using weapons from eastern Europe to shoot at people? Did i miss that event?

    • @AlainNaigeon
      @AlainNaigeon 3 года назад +78

      @@FrancisJoa In Germany have you heard about several mass shootings every year ?? NO, of course !

    • @FrancisJoa
      @FrancisJoa 3 года назад +8

      @@AlainNaigeon Of course we had mass shootings in Germany. Seems you don´t know sh... about my country.

  • @data7315
    @data7315 2 года назад +108

    As a German myself, i really appreciate my country even more after i see it trough your eyes.

  • @brownskinsisi
    @brownskinsisi 3 года назад +915

    I moved here 6 years ago to join my husband and we now have 3 kids. I missed living in the U S but the reasons I am staying are actually those you mentioned, education and time of being at the top of my list. I have to say it can feel lonely sometimes when I miss my friends but I enjoy my family and what we are building here. ❤️

    • @talibjalloh928
      @talibjalloh928 3 года назад +28

      As an adult, you best friends are your family. We tend to make loads of friends in your teens and early adulthood, as you grow older and make a family, you begin to prioritise and gradually losing your friends.

    • @12567NoYouCannot
      @12567NoYouCannot 3 года назад +7

      I am HAPPY for YOU. I am Glad that life Put You in a Good Place to live with Your family.

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +33

      And I hope my home country appreciates you because it should. Anybody for whom things like education and family are priorities are an absolute win for society, wherever that society may be. I grew up near a big army base near Heidelberg (which no longer exists) and I knew a good few US Americans who decided to stay for similar reasons. Education, social safety nets, more time with your family. They all did really well and very few eventually moved back to the States.

    • @12567NoYouCannot
      @12567NoYouCannot 3 года назад +13

      @@timolynch149 Reading your comment, I almost cried, you touched my heart. Ever since my parents brought me to America, when I was a little girl, I received nothing but hate, Rejection, discrimination at every turn, every where I go, they CONTROL everything about a person's life. They decide where you Can live, eat, what kind of car you are allowed to drive, they Control who to date and who I can share my life with, is a Constant Control, Hate, Discrimination, and Prejudice, and everybody does it, is just hate everywhere you turn, everybody here wants to destroy you One Way or Another, this is the most TOXIC nation.

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +26

      @@12567NoYouCannot I'm sorry to hear that. I have been to the USA and while I don't want to live there have met a lot of good people and there is much to admire as well. It makes me sad when I read that somebody feels the way you obviously do. At the end of the day, nobody I ever met, including myself, is free from prejudice and pre-conceived notions. All we can ever do is try and overcome those. If your experience is this bad and you feel this little appreciation, maybe you should, if your situation allows, consider moving either elsewhere in the US (it is after all a VERY big country) or moving abroad. They only good alternative is to stay and fight to make wherever you live a better place. Giving in and letting others push you around is never a good idea, but of course all of that is easier said then done.
      I've been very fortunate and have had, through work and social connections, many opportunities to travel and see a lot of places around the world. Most people I have met just want to live their lives as safely and healthy as possible and mean no harm to others. Meeting and working with people from around the world has, or so I hope, made me a little less ignorant and it taught me that if I respect people they'll usually respect me, even when we're very different. I was honoured to attend weddings of two of my friends in Costa Rica and a former colleague's big family party in India when the grandmother turned 90, being the only foreigner there each time and not for one second did I feel out of place and I think that is what, in an ideal world, it should be for anyone.
      I hope that things will, in one or another, turn to the better for you. I'd offer you to contact me if you ever felt like it, but this is the internet in 2021, so obviously, I could be some sort of weirdo or worse.

  • @meathead919
    @meathead919 2 года назад +799

    My acquaintances from America often mention "Yes you poor guys in Germany, you have to pay so much in taxes. Such terrible socialism!". Yes, but we all get high quality medical care, world-class education (for everyone, even if you were born poor). If you have 3 kids (like we we do now), we get excellent daycare in modern, safe facilities for the kids, we pay €250 a month for 2 kids since our household income is in the highest bracket. We happily pay that and our spots are guaranteed by law, all we had to do was fill out a form. Also, no need for private schools, because public schools are safe and excellent. And, yes they're free.
    So yes, we pay taxes, but we get services that are really worth it. Not everything is perfect, but overall it works. The rich pay more than the poor, so the poor can get the same services. A simple social contract. I was born into a working class family, I benefitted from the system through free public schooling and public university. Now I am a member of the upper middle-class and I am happy to pay high taxes so other families can get the same chances in life that I enjoyed as a child.

    • @valeenoi2284
      @valeenoi2284 2 года назад +6

      Question, have you calculated how much you are paying in total (federal + state equivalent)? I'm not talking about sales taxes.

    • @andreaweber8059
      @andreaweber8059 2 года назад +17

      @@valeenoi2284 I know the question did not go to me, but as I am German, too, and probably also upper middle class: Around 35% for taxes and medical insurance combined, sales tax not counted. Less if I had a lower income. Or did you mean an actual sum instead of a percentage?

    • @glennjanot8128
      @glennjanot8128 2 года назад +94

      I had a similar conversation and I added "Yeah, us poor Germans, never having to worry about our kids getting gunned down in school".

    • @glennjanot8128
      @glennjanot8128 2 года назад +18

      @@valeenoi2284 The taxes you see on your paystub are the taxes you pay, they're combined. You don't file or pay state and federal taxes separately.
      Also, the sales tax is included in the sales price. So when you go grocery shopping and something costs €1.29, then you pay €1.29 at the checkout, there's no "plus sales tax".
      The only difference is when you buy drinks that come in bottles with "Pfand", which is a deposit you pay that you get back when you return the bottles. The deposit system has been implemented to prevent littering

    • @daysailertogo
      @daysailertogo 2 года назад +42

      @@321gates Yes and therefore your poverty and illness and education costs are only your business. Hard price for your so called freedom. In Germany you have the freedom not to worry about everything and its absolut not socialism.

  • @leonie.christina6767
    @leonie.christina6767 3 года назад +629

    I m German myself and I find it interesting how other s think about my country. Kind of makes me proud 🤓

  • @1234pixy1
    @1234pixy1 Год назад +64

    I moved to Germany from the US this year ... my husband is Swiss/German... BEST DECISION. Family oriented... healthcare..Healthcare... support... low crime...education.... nature.... so many vacation options.... not to mention the culture of the swiss/German man is top tier.... no "bihhs and ho3s"... just hard working... family oriented and loving. So happy to see someone who looks like me with similar mindset.❤️

    • @bunteseinhorn7523
      @bunteseinhorn7523 10 месяцев назад

      healthcare..Healthcare... healthcare..Healthcare... healthcare..Healthcare... will soon no longer exist. Because everyone comes to Germany and takes advantage of it. Nothing against you personally. But the fact is, the healthcare system is certainly better than in the US, but it's going downhill.

  • @hannahpeterangelo7551
    @hannahpeterangelo7551 3 года назад +351

    I'm moving to Germany in a couple months for a job and this puts my mind so at ease about making this decision. It's been really hard making the call to leave a wonderful community, but this really is what I want. Thank you

    • @klamin_original
      @klamin_original 3 года назад +23

      You're going to join another great community. Just keep away from the Querdenker. Just remember that and you'll be fine :)

    • @lestatlegistat6553
      @lestatlegistat6553 3 года назад +4

      @@klamin_original 👍😁

    • @lestatlegistat6553
      @lestatlegistat6553 3 года назад +5

      Working in Germany is really great. You dont really have to care about being fired, because of the protection by law.

    • @makaylamelendez2393
      @makaylamelendez2393 3 года назад +1

      Hey! What’s your job? I wouldn’t mind a move to Germany for work so I’m curious. By the way I’m in my last year of high school so I’m deciding what to do with my life:)

    • @hannahpeterangelo7551
      @hannahpeterangelo7551 3 года назад +1

      @Makayla Melendez hi Makayla! Good for you for thinking about these things and researching stuff. I work in architecture (can't technically call myself an architect until I get licensed but now have all the schooling I need)

  • @jeanninestruck5203
    @jeanninestruck5203 3 года назад +220

    I am an american living in Berlin for 18 years. I raised my two kids here and they are both going to University here. I'm so glad I don't have to worry about tuition. And in general I'm so glad I raised them here for a number of reasons. I agree with your decision to stay. 🍻

    • @PittDaddy
      @PittDaddy 3 года назад +3

      Where did the money for their education come from? Money that you and others paid to the government for years in taxes. Your kids go to school for 4 years, but you pay for it in taxes for 70 years. It ends up a wash. But if your kids don't go to higher education, you STILL have to pay for those other kids to go.

    • @qczm99
      @qczm99 3 года назад +16

      Omg, my fellow germans will have the oportunity of great education. What a waste...

    • @jeanninestruck5203
      @jeanninestruck5203 3 года назад +25

      @@PittDaddy Yes I pay taxes. It doesn't just pay for college. I also get affordable healthcare, can take up to 3 years parental leave, get affordable childcare.

    • @PittDaddy
      @PittDaddy 3 года назад +2

      I didn't say it would be a waste. I said it is not free. You pay for it over your lifetime. And instead of paying for them, you could use it to build your own business with that money. I paid out of pocket for my BS and MBA degrees, my wife's BS degree, my daughter's BS degree, and my son's college. We did without many things to achieve that, but that was our priority. I don't want to have to pay for someone else's child as well. That is THEIR parent's responsibility, not mine.
      One other thing... my parents were immigrants after the war from Germany and came with nothing. Whatever we had was saved for by us. They didn't have the money to pay for me, so I saved for it.

    • @jeanninestruck5203
      @jeanninestruck5203 3 года назад +10

      @@PittDaddy Good for you!

  • @DerEineDude
    @DerEineDude Год назад +46

    For me as as german, it makes me happy to see other people from around the world that enjoy living here :) Only the best wishes for you! Greetings from Baden-Württemberg

    • @joergdetzel7848
      @joergdetzel7848 Год назад +1

      @DerEineDude and all the others: Greetings from a Bavarian living in Malaysia.

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 2 года назад +135

    As a woman, I genuinely feel so safe in Germany. I have never not even once felt like something bad was going to happen to me, and I’ve been here for six months.
    The little kids walking home alone always gets me because they are so lucky growing up in such a safe environment.

    • @st4ndby
      @st4ndby 2 года назад +11

      Yeha but its changing slowly

    • @ChefAnatoly
      @ChefAnatoly 2 года назад +1

      Sounds like a safehaven for uncle toms.

    • @Volkbrecht
      @Volkbrecht Год назад +2

      But I wonder: what does happen to kids in the U.S.? Is it really that dangerous for them or are people talking themselves into things that don't really exist? I mean, if I wanted to make money illegally, I wouldn't know where to start with a kid. They don't usually have stuff that is easy to sell, and the more disgusting crimes are frowned upon even among regular criminals. Or is it just road safety issues?

    • @KolyaBennett
      @KolyaBennett Год назад

      ​@@VolkbrechtIt's certainly real.
      It's because of corruption and the fact that America isn't a religious country (the news says it is).

    • @ManoharDeka
      @ManoharDeka Год назад

      ​@@st4ndbydont think Germans are polite they fucking started world war shit n wanted to seige whole europe by supporting Hitler

  • @richieredw2142
    @richieredw2142 3 года назад +153

    I´m a Jamaican living in Sweden...I have been travelling to Germany for over 20 years, I have a few German friends and I speak German as well, been travelling all over Germany and experienced the wall coming down and the change over to Euro. Very beautiful country

    • @natalee150
      @natalee150 2 года назад +4

      Im a Jamaikan too living in Germany

    • @lennoxlewerenz1366
      @lennoxlewerenz1366 2 года назад +4

      I'm german and freaking love Jamaica. People are a blessing super interesting culture and overall stylish self-aware people

    • @natalee150
      @natalee150 2 года назад +5

      @@lennoxlewerenz1366 bless up u damm self. 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪 one love

    • @lennoxlewerenz1366
      @lennoxlewerenz1366 2 года назад +4

      @@natalee150 salute

  • @BlissLovePeace
    @BlissLovePeace 3 года назад +71

    Very refreshing! Thank You for sharing your perspective & Willkommen in Deutschland!

  • @classicbird2627
    @classicbird2627 3 года назад +500

    Hi! For me as a native german this is actually a very interesting perspective, especially on issues such as crime or child and family friendlyness. Since from the inside perspective very often this is viewed totally different. Germans usually feel like they're living in a very cold and anti-children-society with crime rate constantly rising (in fact it has been decreasing for years ). So obviously, people tend to always depreciate what they have, no matter if that's something, other people would love to have but don't.

    • @zanderalex2463
      @zanderalex2463 3 года назад +18

      @@deenman23 Yes, that is correct. A country can be so beautiful - the feeling of not being able to move safely on the street destroys every beautiful feeling. I was in South America for the first time a few years ago, Brazil in Salvador da Bahia. I lived for a month near one of the beautiful beaches (near the lighthouse of Itapua) - in a beautiful villa with huge walls around it and an alarm system. I was warned not to move alone in the dark and not to have anything with me on the beach during the day, which shows that there is something valuable to get. I then already had a strange feeling during my beach walks. In fact, just before I went home, I was robbed on the beach - for the first time in my life! When I flew home 3 days later and stopped over in Frankfurt and then took the train to Hamburg, I had incredible feelings of freedom and happiness. It was clear that nothing was going to happen. That made me a bit euphoric and I really enjoyed the vacation time afterwards in Hamburg, my home. Everything!
      However:
      USA is not always crime. In many areas of California I felt just as good as in Europe and Germany. And then the sun and those wonderful beaches. No comparison with Brazil. I also loved Florida and the neighborhoods in Manhattan and Brooklyn. Maybe I didn't realize that where I lived, in Queens, there were also dangers. But it couldn't be as blatant as Salvador. Naples in Florida is just as save, Miami however not at all and in the north, Detroit, also not. It varies, but there are wonderful places in the U.S. when Donald Trump is not the president and destroying much of that feeling.

    • @xyzv8640
      @xyzv8640 3 года назад

      Speak for yourself buddy

    • @zanderalex2463
      @zanderalex2463 3 года назад +1

      @@rebeccarendle3706 Oha, that must have been a long time ago.

    • @haraldmax9685
      @haraldmax9685 3 года назад +4

      @@rebeccarendle3706 The proportion of women employed in Germany is 46%, as almost half of all employees or self-employed in Germany are women.

    • @eaten3405
      @eaten3405 3 года назад +4

      What's wrong with not wanting kids???
      Do you have a problem with the child-free movement?

  • @jolenares8525
    @jolenares8525 2 года назад +52

    I am Brazilian, but I live in Germany and I do agree with the things you said. I love Germany ❤

    • @neurolepticer1284
      @neurolepticer1284 Год назад +1

      And the Brazilian roads are even more dangerous than in America. In Brazil you're lucky if you can celebrate your 25th birthday without getting shot first.

    • @jolenares8525
      @jolenares8525 Год назад +1

      @@neurolepticer1284 You should study more about Brazil and not only believe in fake news that some videos spread on internet.

    • @neurolepticer1284
      @neurolepticer1284 Год назад +3

      @@jolenares8525 I watched a lot of videos about Brazil on Live Leak and all the videos were street killing videos, even women were executed in the street. Arms were cut off with machetes, or a 16-year-old boy shot a 13-year-old in the face for drugs until his face was broken. These videos are real. I know not all of Brazil is like that, but Brazil's roads can be tough..(Sorry for my English)

    • @jolenares8525
      @jolenares8525 Год назад +1

      @@neurolepticer1284 it is not like that everywhere. Therefore I say that before spreading fake news you have to know much better the place, and when I mean know is when u have been there. I have been in more than 26 countries in almost all continents and countries where a lot of people like u that do not know well say a lot of bulls… and it is not like that when I visited them. Therefore, visit the place and not just believe in videos that u see. :)

    • @roselynholloway7863
      @roselynholloway7863 Год назад

      @@jolenares8525do you miss Brazil

  • @danihesslinger7968
    @danihesslinger7968 3 года назад +580

    Forgot one of the most important points: our universal healthcare system!

    • @arzuriakuroi5323
      @arzuriakuroi5323 3 года назад +41

      @@deenman23 we have a democracy. we dont have tyrants ruling our country, neither are we socialist. We are a social capitalism.

    • @DerAua
      @DerAua 3 года назад +18

      @@arzuriakuroi5323 Lol, pretty sure this was sarcasm.

    • @edgar3105
      @edgar3105 3 года назад +8

      At the cost of being taxed to death on top of having low wages

    • @oleharder8490
      @oleharder8490 3 года назад +42

      @@edgar3105 : Point # 5 Higher standard of living in Germany. Please pay attention.

    • @arzuriakuroi5323
      @arzuriakuroi5323 3 года назад +33

      @@DerAua i am not so sure about that xD u wouldnt believe how much some americans are brainwashed into thinking everything that isnt hardcore capitalism, is communism/socialism and totally bad in every aspect. Its crazy sometimes

  • @nataliespitz4877
    @nataliespitz4877 2 года назад +251

    As someone from California, I felt very safe in Germany! And I felt more safe there than in any other country. Austria and Switzerland were a close second!

    • @tabithathewholistic
      @tabithathewholistic 2 года назад +4

      I'm also from California, and my significant other (a native) lives in Germany! I'm hoping to finally visit him around late May/June, and it would be my first time visiting! I'd love to hear more about your experience :)

    • @nataliespitz4877
      @nataliespitz4877 2 года назад +2

      @@tabithathewholistic I would love to! That’s so exciting! Where does your SO live? I may be able to give you more if I know. My godmother is also from Germany (and lives in Arizona) so I can ask her for her experience of Germany too!!

    • @nataliespitz4877
      @nataliespitz4877 2 года назад +5

      @@tabithathewholistic I remember Germany being very clean and the drivers drove like clockwork.

    • @tabithathewholistic
      @tabithathewholistic 2 года назад +1

      @@nataliespitz4877 Nice!! I can't wait to experience that 🙃

    • @vaskinderbasikhian8875
      @vaskinderbasikhian8875 2 года назад

      California it's boring and dirty and not safe

  • @pretti_dope
    @pretti_dope 3 года назад +306

    This video has basically convinced me to move to Europe.😊

    • @christopherhall6471
      @christopherhall6471 3 года назад +35

      In college I studied abroad in Germany for 3 years and everything she said is true. From the kids walking home unmonitored, to the overall safety. I remember feeling safe walking home @ 3 in the morning with my Macbook and bike with no worries at all. One night after a night of drinking, my friend Lauren ended up leaving her big ole purse/bag on the tram. In her purse was her wallet, laptop, passport, basically her life. Someone found her purse on the train and mailed everything in a box with all the contents still intact. A similar situation happened to me when I lost my wallet and my wallet was mailed to my house with the $350 I'd taken out the bank earlier in the week still in the folds. It's truly a beautiful, safe and welcoming country. I'd move back in a heartbeat if I could.

    • @МагжанСыдыков
      @МагжанСыдыков 3 года назад +12

      @@christopherhall6471 I don't know why you find it so unusual when kids go around alone and you can walk at night safely? Here in Kazakhstan we do walk at nights with no problem and kids walk to and from school unmonitored. I see it every day even though I leave in one of the most criminal cities of Kazakhstan, Oskemen. I even remember traveling intercity on my own when I was aged 12. Backpacking - no problema.

    • @christopherhall6471
      @christopherhall6471 3 года назад +3

      @@deenman23 Yeah, she didn't leave he belongings on the tram on purpose, she was drunk. I was just saying that if that were to happen in NYC for example or anywhere else in the US, her items never be seen again.

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +1

      And if you do it for the same reasons (more or less free access to education, reasonable social safety, a safe environment to have a family, the ability to travel and widen your horizon) pretty much anywhere in Europe could count their lucky stars to have you. Come to Ireland, it rarely rains :-P

    • @timolynch149
      @timolynch149 3 года назад +2

      @@christopherhall6471 As a native German I can tell you that that's not unusual. It's far from a given, but usually you'll be fine. It's the same in Ireland where I live these days. I once lost my wallet on a bus. ID, cards, 400 Euro or so. It was handed into the bus driver and there wasn't a thing missing.

  • @logicalparadox815
    @logicalparadox815 2 года назад +239

    As a German, I find it hilarious (in a sad kinda way) that every American that comes to live here ends up being like, "You know what, America is BS. I'm staying."
    Which says a lot about America, considering that I don't believe Germany is anywhere close to perfect.

    • @cameroncool7578
      @cameroncool7578 2 года назад

      Germany isn't close to perfect at all..... no freedom.

    • @Zahra.y7
      @Zahra.y7 2 года назад

      It just shows how USA is fked up lol

    • @lexburen5932
      @lexburen5932 2 года назад +13

      you could be wrong about it. indeed germany has its problem, but they are nowhere near as bad as in the states.

    • @HR-yd5ib
      @HR-yd5ib 2 года назад +23

      Given the condition Germany is in this is indeed SAD. For anyone with an entrepreneurial spirit German is a hell hole for sure.

    • @mr.smackson7814
      @mr.smackson7814 2 года назад +6

      @@HR-yd5ib I second that 100% The only country other then dubai where you can go to Jail for bankruptcy

  • @petersmiling9494
    @petersmiling9494 3 года назад +265

    Firearm crime in Germany is about 20 times lower than in the United States. Except for sport shooters, hunters, and police officers, it is almost impossible to legally obtain a gun in Germany.

    • @MegaBrownie19
      @MegaBrownie19 3 года назад +12

      I came to add this. The gun violence is out of control and makes me terrified most of the time

    • @sabineliebau6261
      @sabineliebau6261 3 года назад +42

      @@mela6046And I like it that we don't have to buy weapons in Germany ... ;)))
      It is absolutely not necessary.

    • @sabineliebau6261
      @sabineliebau6261 3 года назад +4

      @@mela6046
      Ahhh, now I understand ... :) And, is the saying correct ????

    • @sabineliebau6261
      @sabineliebau6261 3 года назад +1

      @@mela6046
      At the word snake, I was out ...... Buy me 10 weapons ... :D:D:D:D and stay healthy :)

    • @uliwehner
      @uliwehner 3 года назад +2

      @@mela6046 i don't know if you know that there are bears in germany, and wolves, and jackals, even lynx. The european lynx is bigger than the north american lynx btw. I will give you that there are more bears in the US, i live in Georgia myself. however, germany does a better job of separating villages and towns from forested areas. America has the "urban sprawl" going on. My commute to work is 20 miles one way, and i never get "out of town" while i am going. and i work 3 towns away from home....

  • @damiandavies4632
    @damiandavies4632 3 года назад +43

    Great video! I currently live in Germany with my family. I'm retiring in a few years from my government job and I told everyone, I'm not coming back. I'll figure it out, but my heart is in Europe. Simple living with a purpose.

  • @Cuteemogirl94
    @Cuteemogirl94 3 года назад +142

    Since you want to start a family, another great thing is that you get child support from the state, even with a job. Nobody will judge you for getting it since it's only for the children. It's really commonactually. Your children will get the child support untill they are 25 years old if they want to move out and make a professionell training. When you have a baby you can stay at home even 3 years if you want to, the money will just be splitt. There's something called "Elterngeld" that you will get once you filled out all the papers and have a Baby. By law you can't be be fired for taking your "Elternzeit". It can even be splitt with your partner. In a lot of places it's even free for little children since they don't eat as much as older children or grown ups or they can't use as manny things as grown ups. Zoo for example in our town you only have to pay for your child if it's a least 3 years old. Even without a job, Germany is very supportive for starting a family if the standarts are not to high at least, still better than in the US without a job.

    • @mackiemesser17
      @mackiemesser17 3 года назад +2

      It sounded like you get Elterngeld for the first 3 years. That's not the case. You get 67% of your former incomings for one year or 34% for two years maximum. So you either have to work after one year or rely on your husbands incoming.

    • @iigalaxyii9928
      @iigalaxyii9928 3 года назад

      Happy whites will a minority in all countries by 2050?

    • @inkenhafner7187
      @inkenhafner7187 2 года назад +5

      @@iigalaxyii9928 yes, hopefully by 2050 racists will be a very small and very unhappy minority on this planet.

    • @iigalaxyii9928
      @iigalaxyii9928 2 года назад

      @@inkenhafner7187 Racist for stating a fact
      And it’ll be whites who’re the minority and unhappy.

    • @inkenhafner7187
      @inkenhafner7187 2 года назад +3

      @@iigalaxyii9928 If the shoe fits you, wear it with pRiDe.

  • @ssquared2321
    @ssquared2321 2 года назад +89

    My number one reason to live abroad would be National Heathcare!!!
    Only in America do we call working people ‘essential’ but deny them sick leave, health care, and a living wage.

    • @bethlehemeisenhour5807
      @bethlehemeisenhour5807 2 года назад +4

      It never worked out for me in America. Never felt comfortable, left in 78, just shy of being 23 years old.

  • @mimilynn5619
    @mimilynn5619 3 года назад +638

    It’s says a lot that black woman feels safer in Germany. Wow 😮

    • @newzealand703
      @newzealand703 3 года назад +9

      I know!

    • @crocutabruta9723
      @crocutabruta9723 3 года назад +59

      Yes of course I mean there aren't that many black people in Germany so I would feel safer too.

    • @AmpdUpTee
      @AmpdUpTee 3 года назад +11

      Yet here it is, I’ve been longing to leave.

    • @bjarnetollevsen2163
      @bjarnetollevsen2163 3 года назад +35

      @@crocutabruta9723 She's dating a blond-haired, blue-eyed German man, by the way.

    • @iam9546
      @iam9546 3 года назад +71

      @@crocutabruta9723 I see you don’t travel much by your comment

  • @fayerocks
    @fayerocks 3 года назад +21

    Thank you so much for seeing my home in a different perspective. We need to do that more often ... I wish you every luck and success with you plans!

  • @itsciarajames
    @itsciarajames 3 года назад +191

    We love a sponsorship! 🎉 I have lived in the states all of my life and I am extremely ready to leave. Every Black woman that I’ve watched has felt more peace being abroad than here and that is saying something. Being from the South and the way that America has handled the pandemic, I look forward to living abroad in the future!

    • @johnnypunish
      @johnnypunish 3 года назад +26

      No fear! Go! Do It! I left USA in 1998. Best decision I've ever made in my whole life. It's been amazing. A blessing.

    • @vapidrabbit198
      @vapidrabbit198 3 года назад +10

      @@johnnypunish I left in 2001,… It was the best decision of my life too.

    • @jayomnisen1210
      @jayomnisen1210 3 года назад +15

      Interestingly, most African-Americans choose to move to white-majority countries when relocating abroad....

    • @johnnypunish
      @johnnypunish 3 года назад +41

      @@jayomnisen1210 People go where they have the best opportunity to live the highest standard of living. Period. This is a human trait, not a skin color trait. The best opportunity depends on the person. For this lady, it's Germany. For me, it's a "non-white" country.
      Thus, in my view, your comment lacks serious analytic depth and frankly insinuates white supremacy, which, in our 21st century, is actually incorrect.
      In fact, since the 1600s, Africa has been raped of its resources both human and material for centuries by European imperialist countries and their profiteering locally installed rulers. The rape made those places weak and terrible places to gain opportunity. Africa is getting better but it is still NOT a place of opportunity yet.
      Now, here as I sit on a long vacation in Europe (Austria), racism is NOT a major thing like in the USA. It's just not. This explains why this lady feels comfortable and happy living in Germany. Europe now is melting into diversity like never before.
      Globalization is changing the world and it's working its magic here in Europe, with some bumps, but it's working great. In the USA, the resistance to the inevitable is stronger but, in the end, it will fall under the weight of the future. And, in the end, the USA will have to accept that it's part of the world and will finally drop its racist past and accept all of its citizens as equal not just under law but into the true harmonious social fabric that would be a true civil society.
      I hope this helps you better understand migration, opportunity, and why some should leave the USA for greener pastures.

    • @johnnypunish
      @johnnypunish 3 года назад +6

      @@quanbrooklynkid7776 OK, but I left USA in 1998. But OK, bye again.

  • @steffiobergfell3584
    @steffiobergfell3584 2 года назад +50

    We need good people in our country, so thank you that you‘re staying and enriching it with your positivity! :-) I‘m glad when I see videos like your s because some people I know are so unpleased with Germany and think about to move to another country. Maybe Portugal, Polen etc. I think every country has it‘s bug, but I think we’re still so fortunate 😊 to have what we have.

  • @capricornwoman6726
    @capricornwoman6726 2 года назад +38

    I lived in Frankfurt for 12 years as a military brat. I still miss it and my high school has several reunions every year around the United States. We have websites, Facebook pages and friendships that have lasted over 30 years. That's the impact Germany has had on our lives. We learned German in school and a lot of us are still in contact with our teachers. The cleanliness, the beautiful countryside, the ability to travel, the friendliness of the Germans etc., are all pluses. Many of my classmates still live in Germany. I'm seriously thinking of moving back to Frankfurt. Luckily, I'm retired and have the ability to do so!

  • @TheJaymew09
    @TheJaymew09 3 года назад +75

    100% agree on all your points! I would also say the health care. I had an abnormal case of appendicitis in Germany, 6 nights in the hospital and only paid 10€ per night. In the States this would have been well over my college tuition cost.
    Similar to health care, the cost of a baby birth is low compared to the US. Oh! And the year long parental leave for both parents! These are things we shouldn't have to pay an arm and a leg for.
    Here in Germany, I feel much less stress when it comes to unexpected life events because of the Rentenversicherung, Krankenversicherung, Arbeitsversicherung, and Pflegeversicherung. If I lost my job, then I don't have to have a meltdown because I'd still receive an income until I find another job. Germany really feels like it takes care of people so they can enjoy their lives.

    • @herbttryhard7353
      @herbttryhard7353 2 года назад

      Yeah thats kind of true but you must keep in mind that you pay a shit ton of money to the state around 60 to 70 % of your overall income mit (Arbeitgeberanteil)(it's get the better above 70k income per year because you no longer must pay Renterversicherung ect for ever euro above)

    • @stevonshufford5552
      @stevonshufford5552 2 года назад +1

      Facts. I live in japan universal healthcare

    • @TheJaymew09
      @TheJaymew09 2 года назад +4

      @@herbttryhard7353 I am very happy to do this since the cost of living is relatively low compared to the States. There's still enough money going into savings to keep me satisfied. Sure it's less money directly in my pocket but the money I would have, would immediately disappear and potentially go into the negative with one major accident, health problem, or long term loss of job. The tax payment and benefits I've experienced creates a peace of mind that is well worth it.

    • @maryakage5197
      @maryakage5197 2 года назад +3

      We Germans do love our Versicherungen 🤣

    • @michaelbyrd7883
      @michaelbyrd7883 2 года назад +1

      Yea, I worked for a hotel chain in Texas and had health insurance with a $2500 deductible. One night I got poisoned bad enough to have to go to a hospital. They saw I had insurance and kept me the night for 14 hours just putting iv's in me. The doctor sat 10 feet from me and asked how I was feeling 10 minutes later she was gone. When I got home the bill came in a few weeks later the cost they billed my insurance $17,500. I couldn't pay the deductible because of the low wage hotel jobs so I applied for financial assistance for the deductible. They said I made 150% below a working wage for that area and that I owe nothing. The only time I was happy being in poverty. That's America and that's how the rich get richer and poor get poorer. That's about 60% of Americant's that's me an Americant. Living in Germany where do I sign up?

  • @carlac9782
    @carlac9782 3 года назад +25

    I am originally from the US and have lived in Germany for over 30 years now. I have seen this country change so that living and existing here has become much better than in the years before. Even in the rough times I knew I would stay in Europe for the long haul. Next year I am off to the Netherlands. Seems like I have found my contentment on this continent. I wish you much luck and happiness on your journey.

  • @dalgrandizoli
    @dalgrandizoli Месяц назад +1

    Hey, I moved 2 months ago from Brazil, I am loving Germany and I really loved your channel!
    I live in Schopfheim, close to Basel.
    I wish you all the best!

  • @itzsha2u
    @itzsha2u 3 года назад +255

    “The streets in NY are ghetto” 😹😹😹 felt that

    • @robbristle5642
      @robbristle5642 3 года назад +8

      I’m from NY and I resemble that comment.

    • @talibjalloh928
      @talibjalloh928 3 года назад +9

      German cities are gradually looking ghetto too, with graffiti and drug peddling, the police are just strolling bye and turn a blind eye...Recently, i was around Frankfurt station and I was hit by a strong smell of piss and spent drug syringes scattered around...

    • @larrybell1859
      @larrybell1859 3 года назад +1

      @@talibjalloh928
      True.

    • @28peruvian
      @28peruvian 3 года назад +7

      So are some of the streets in Frankfurt…specially downtown. I get catcall when I’m walking by my self…needless to say the train stations smell like urine and are graffitied. Berlin, Munich are better when it comes to that.

    • @talibjalloh928
      @talibjalloh928 3 года назад

      @@28peruvian Berlin is the mecca of graffitification in Germany ...

  • @maudeboggins9834
    @maudeboggins9834 3 года назад +31

    When I first arrived here I was stunned by the sea of bicycles going to school. Schools have an array of bicycle stands. I love that. A healthy start to the day & end of the day. I am thrilled with the education here. Truly. My husband & I are impressed with our kids education.

  • @kashanawhidby1159
    @kashanawhidby1159 3 года назад +30

    I don't blame you for staying in Germany you have established yourself, your boyfriend lives there, and it is much safer than the U.S. Also its easier to travel to other nearby countries. God Bless!

  • @RabielleParfait
    @RabielleParfait 2 года назад +21

    I love that you're a fan of Germany. Of course it's not perfect and this country has many issues regarding people who look different, but after having travelled different countries, I enjoy it to come back, I grew up my whole life here and you're pretty much save depending where you live. It's not the same as the USA ❤

  • @jerrihandy256
    @jerrihandy256 3 года назад +67

    Safety in Germany is different. I was shocked to see 4 and 5 year olds walking to bakeries by themselves. I say this all the time, but I'd definitely move back if the opportunity arose.

    • @Zwizazadera
      @Zwizazadera 2 года назад +12

      Yes, that's right. Children can go to the bakery alone or to other shops. THE !! You are safe !!! You don't have to be afraid of gun violence or robbery! AND children are brought up self-confident and independent adults. We are proud of that in Germany! Greetings from a safe Germany.

    • @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911
      @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911 2 года назад

      just go back

    • @metacob
      @metacob 2 года назад

      Going to the bakery on a Sunday morning is something of a tradition, and it's an easy and pretty safe way to introduce your child to grown-up chores. Usually there's a bakery nearby, so it's probably 5-10 minutes on foot. I remember doing that as a child and I was very proud of myself!

    • @user-um7tw6kx4r6
      @user-um7tw6kx4r6 2 года назад

      Seriously just go back while you still can and stay there lol. I should follow my own advice too.

    • @sudheerkumar4421
      @sudheerkumar4421 2 года назад +1

      black-on-black crime is non-existent in german...so u r safe dont worry

  • @vapidrabbit198
    @vapidrabbit198 3 года назад +277

    i love the german healthcare system and work conditions... 1 month paid vacation... sick days without stupid restrictions/limitations.
    and germany is really stable in comparison to the chaotic political cold-civil-war going on in the states right now.
    i also love the fact i don't have to drive here... i hate driving!
    i cant imagine ever moving back to the USA again... i feel freer in germany than i ever did in the USA!

    • @vapidrabbit198
      @vapidrabbit198 3 года назад +4

      @@deenman23 have you ever been to Germany?
      do we not have democracy in Germany?…

    • @sakibhasic8488
      @sakibhasic8488 3 года назад +27

      @@deenman23 hahahah someone who has never been to Europe pure jealousy USA is so far behind Europe but you are all brainwashed by the slogan “the greatest country in the world “try putting 4 kids through college in USA you willl be in debt for the rest of your life

    • @Zedek
      @Zedek 3 года назад +3

      @@vapidrabbit198 We have a kind of fake democracy here though. If you voted for a party, let's say "Die Linken" and they got 8%, they still can go into a coalition with other parties as it happend literally the past 15 years. If you have an 8% party in the government, that is not what I'd consider "democracy", because 92% of the demos ("the people", latin) did not vote for it. It is a super stretched form and has been abused by CDU and SPD the past Merkel years where the "union" (both CDU and SPD) basically played "Good Cop, Bad Cop" for a while.

    • @vapidrabbit198
      @vapidrabbit198 3 года назад +17

      @@Zedek it is messy, true… but practically all democracies today have a representative government.
      In the US, the power is held in 2 parties… in Germany the power is spread out among many parties.
      At least, if you belong to the 8% party, you still have some power through coalitions… it encourages compromise far more than the all or nothing “tug of war”, that is American politics.

    • @kam7r882
      @kam7r882 3 года назад +10

      @@Zedek oooh yeah so it's better than the US where both parties are corrupt , paid by companies who only think about their profits above all else even lives of human being... dude in europe , we live in a paradise, we need to know this

  • @JayStephan
    @JayStephan 3 года назад +121

    I agree with every point. I thought I was the only one that loved the "family" thing about Germany. It definitely is very heartwarming. We live 1/2 time in California and the difference between living expense is insane. Germany is a lot more affordable and the quality of life overall is better (in my opinion). Although we live in both places right now, we will eventually retire in Germany.

    • @cjohnson3836
      @cjohnson3836 3 года назад +2

      @@alberthorn180 wanna tone it down on the nazism there bud?

    • @arnodobler1096
      @arnodobler1096 3 года назад +5

      @@alberthorn180 wegen Leuten wie ihnen wurde in DE das Wort "Fremdschämen" erfunden
      faschistische, xenophobe Kommerntare - zum Kotzen

    • @cobbler88
      @cobbler88 3 года назад

      Everyone needs to find the situation that is best for them. I would only point out that with the possible exception of the cost of a university education, pretty much every single thing she listed in the video could have been just as easily solved if she moved to any decent sized city in the United States that had the same demographics as Germany. I'll leave it there.

    • @cobbler88
      @cobbler88 2 года назад

      @@Hanna-ls2sv Yes, but in most if not all of those situations she would be forced to live in societies that were predominantly created by non-whites. And she would have to live in those circumstances.
      I get the feeling she doesn't care for that. She wants to live in the Western culture that what Europeans and their descendants created without there being significant cultural diversity or non-white people around. As an american, she has seen what happens under those circumstances.

  • @kaybe3044
    @kaybe3044 Год назад +15

    I want to move to Germany too. It is literally such a good country to live in. This is coming from a person who lives in the Netherlands.

    • @tldw8354
      @tldw8354 Год назад

      whatt??? why? whats so wrong about the netherlands?

  • @jonnyhungg
    @jonnyhungg 2 года назад +22

    90 percent of people here in Germany that I first meet always asks me why do I want to live here instead of where I'm from (California)? I need to send them this video, you are hitting key points in the differences. I knew I wanted to stay forever when I got homesick from Germany while I was visiting the US in 2018🤣🤣

  • @jasminm.2607
    @jasminm.2607 3 года назад +22

    Thank you for your thoughts. I am German and used to live in New York (however as a teenager dependent on my parents). I never appreciated many things here in Germany, now I do. But I did love living in NY, miss it too.Lots of love from Aachen

  • @anaisdottavio
    @anaisdottavio 3 года назад +213

    I've been learning German for a few months now, hoping to be able to move to Bavaria one day - your videos inspire me to keep pushing for that goal. Thank you!

    • @MiLaKreativ
      @MiLaKreativ 3 года назад +27

      Even without knowing German, you can go to Bavaria (my home country) without hesitation. Most young people and also many old people have learned English in school. Even if they may not speak perfect English, they will understand you.

    • @ninadiamant8937
      @ninadiamant8937 3 года назад +8

      Hey I'm an online German teacher from Munich. If you're interested send a message through my channel.

    • @chrissieml9255
      @chrissieml9255 3 года назад +3

      @@ManOfPotato Weißt nicht inwiefern man sich als Nicht- Deutscher im Osten deutlich wohler fühlen sollte als in restlichen Teilen Deutschlands 😅

    • @chrissieml9255
      @chrissieml9255 3 года назад +3

      In your position I wouldn‘t move to bavaria because I think the „Dialekt“ (maybe accent in english? Idk) is very hard to understand and soooo common there 😂

    • @annagermanica
      @annagermanica 3 года назад +11

      There's German and then there's the Bavarian dialect (bayrisch).....fun times ahead!

  • @lorenzosalas6133
    @lorenzosalas6133 2 года назад +10

    This is such a good descriptive, yet brief introduction to what life is like in Germany. When traveling to Germany with my exchange class back in 2018, I had really fallen head over heels. Some of your points, "safety", "nature", & "education" really resonated with me. My time in Germany was spent in Kassel. Kassel is so beautiful and I cannot wait to visit again (hopefully move there some day).

  • @gingerguzman2022
    @gingerguzman2022 3 года назад +105

    I can understand, after being in Wroclaw, Poland for two weeks (business trip), I didn’t want to come back home lol, the culture, the food the friendliness the care they have for the environment! My goodness yes the states lack so much. What took me by surprise was the food I was able to eat without feeling so bloated, I was able to eat a lot healthier without feeling bloated or sick like I do in the states. I had such a great experience for my first time ever traveling overseas. Hope to continue traveling new places for work.

    • @iigalaxyii9928
      @iigalaxyii9928 3 года назад

      Happy whites will a minority in all countries by 2050?

    • @Aesandar
      @Aesandar 2 года назад +5

      @@iigalaxyii9928 this person talk about food and you are spamming about your propaganda here? Shame on you.

    • @iigalaxyii9928
      @iigalaxyii9928 2 года назад

      @@Aesandar Propaganda?
      More like a true fact, look it up....

    • @fj8264
      @fj8264 2 года назад +3

      @@iigalaxyii9928 Consider enlightening us plebs on your secret sources of QAnon-Elite-wisdom?

    • @iigalaxyii9928
      @iigalaxyii9928 2 года назад

      @@fj8264 Yeah it’s called “Demographic changes”
      By 2050 whites will be a minority because of immigration, low birth rates and multiculturalism.
      Who’s the Ignorant one?

  • @HomeWorkouts_LS
    @HomeWorkouts_LS 3 года назад +31

    I’m from TX where it’s more affordable than NYC but I agree with everything you said! Especially raising a family in the US seems dauntingly expensive to me.

    • @MiniLittleBabyDoll
      @MiniLittleBabyDoll 2 года назад

      Because u a Brokie

    • @lAmWrath
      @lAmWrath Год назад +1

      @@MiniLittleBabyDoll what an unintelligent response

  • @KAMILLE731
    @KAMILLE731 3 года назад +105

    You and everyone else that I watch (other Americans expats in Germany) say the same thing, and it makes me excited to relocate to Germany. It’s so nice to see you thriving in Germany…very inspiring! 🙂

    • @DixonDixon65
      @DixonDixon65 3 года назад +9

      She's right. Lived in Germany for 4 years, in Wiesbaden felt extremely safe. Back in Los Angeles now, l do love the beaches and weather but it's gotten expensive. Would never live in New York again. While living in Germany, l visited 7 countries, but lve always loved traveling before moving to Germany.
      Nice to see this video!

    • @MediaFaust
      @MediaFaust 2 года назад +1

      You are immigrants, not "expats".

    • @marvinlangohr7104
      @marvinlangohr7104 2 года назад

      they're immigrants, not expats.

  • @lunaqqb
    @lunaqqb 2 года назад +10

    I'm from Germany and live in Texas. I really miss the nature. Because I'm from Bavaria and it is so beautiful there. 😍
    I'm so glad you enjoy our country ❤️

    • @claudiaderrick5631
      @claudiaderrick5631 2 года назад

      Oh yes Texas No Nature way too hot

    • @OmariusHLD
      @OmariusHLD 9 месяцев назад +1

      minnesota hat auch schöne wälder und natur im Norden, immer wenn ich in den USA heimweh hatte hat es mir sehr getan da.

  • @dgrimes133
    @dgrimes133 3 года назад +17

    It's been a few decades since I lived in Germany. I remember seeing eldery ladies out on their own after dark on the street in the city where I lived. Very nice to hear that people still feel safe, even in cities.

  • @isalucie7522
    @isalucie7522 3 года назад +17

    Hi! Like your American perspective on Germany. I am french living in Germany. I can relate to your video; coming from another perspective, I also have different views on the different topics. Happy to you’re happy in Germany :-)

  • @melamusicworld
    @melamusicworld 3 года назад +21

    I really appreciate this video, it gives me more confirmation on making my move to Europe in 2022, thank you:)

    • @JLar-bb5hl
      @JLar-bb5hl 2 года назад +1

      Yep, come join us!

  • @janniapalmer5975
    @janniapalmer5975 2 года назад +52

    So happy you brought up the danger here in America; when I lived in Egypt I honestly was more safe there than I am here, wreckless murder is so common now and close to home my sister was caught in cross fire downtown Cincinnati this past 4th of July, luckily she was unharmed!

    • @bethlehemeisenhour5807
      @bethlehemeisenhour5807 2 года назад +4

      I was in Egypt, no problems, met nice people there.

    • @sebi6297
      @sebi6297 2 года назад +1

      Well, you have to thank the out of control Capitalismn in America for that.

    • @bethlehemeisenhour5807
      @bethlehemeisenhour5807 2 года назад +1

      @@sebi6297 Such A SAD Mess.

  • @nisanilopez793
    @nisanilopez793 2 года назад +28

    I am also a Black woman from Long Island that is doing my research to move to Berlin for the summer! This was really great to hear and I am so happy you love it

    • @nisanilopez793
      @nisanilopez793 2 года назад +14

      @@richrich9321 thanks so much for your opinion nobody wanted

    • @karltoffel
      @karltoffel 2 года назад +2

      How did it go? Did you already move to Berlin & what are your experiences?

    • @patriciahooks4799
      @patriciahooks4799 Год назад +1

      You will love Germany.

  • @dng2000
    @dng2000 2 года назад +31

    When I visited Germany for 15 days back in 2004, stayed with friends and traveled around the country on the Autobahn (friend driving) and the rail system (ICE), I was deeply in love over how convenient and efficient things are. Being from a Chinese background by ethnicity (born in the US to parents who are immigrants btw), I don't find Germans rude at all because people in my parent's home country act in a similar way too such as not smiling towards strangers and not saying excuse me when trying to pass through other people and merchants not saying thank you or have a nice day after buying something from them. It's just cultural.

    • @blackrain1999
      @blackrain1999 2 года назад +9

      Yeah, this American 'friendliness' often feels over the top and dishonest, performed or even overemotional for us. They might think we are unfriendly. it is really just cultural and not how one is as a person deep down.

    • @izzyrov5814
      @izzyrov5814 2 года назад +4

      Germans do say "entschuldigung" or excuse me when they pass through. Merchants also say thank you have a nice day when you buy something. They're not cold People.

  • @Lifeinstylej
    @Lifeinstylej 3 года назад +14

    Your video is right on time. I am looking to move to Europe & Germany 🇩🇪 is on my list. Thank you for giving your perspective.

    • @vivianesaibou9821
      @vivianesaibou9821 3 года назад

      You can move to France too South West where I live and enjoy your life here too. Anyway wherever you want to move in Europe can be safer than the US

    • @gentz8310
      @gentz8310 3 года назад

      Good choice

  • @lillianogugua
    @lillianogugua Год назад +3

    I’m from NY as well and I’ve been contemplating other countries so this was refreshing to watch!

  • @geneinnewade1278
    @geneinnewade1278 3 года назад +137

    I feel you on the safety tip. I went to Trier with one of my girlfriends this past weekend. She went and got her eyebrows done I roamed the streets, got a pedicure had a pretzel and cappuccino without one concern about safety. I am from Virginia and I don’t pump gas at night unless I’m on base. Constantly on guard. I love seeing the little kinder around too so cute and all of the well behaved dogs.

    • @Offthebeatenpath.
      @Offthebeatenpath. 3 года назад +6

      From Hampton Roads. Some areas are worse then others! That’s for sure!

    • @ellenanthony8232
      @ellenanthony8232 3 года назад +15

      Trier is one of the most beautiful cities in Germany. Its safe too. I love it there 🥰

    • @geneinnewade1278
      @geneinnewade1278 3 года назад +2

      @@ellenanthony8232 Hitting up Rudesheim and Heidelberg this weekend. The weather looks perfect.

    • @wora1111
      @wora1111 3 года назад +18

      As a German I wonder how I should comment on somebody lauding the "well behaved dogs" in Germany. Never thought about it.

    • @fjellyo3261
      @fjellyo3261 3 года назад +2

      Are you staying at Spangdahlem air base or why did you go to Trier?

  • @NickMillerismyspiritanimal
    @NickMillerismyspiritanimal 3 года назад +12

    Hey Zoie. Thank you for the video. I am visiting my family in the States right now and I already miss Germany. I agree with all the points you mentioned and those are the reasons I personally want to stay and build my life in Germany. Thanks again for the great video. REally enjoyed it and you looked so beautiful as always. Sending you lots of love and positivity.

  • @MoonCatArts
    @MoonCatArts 3 года назад +15

    I love hearing stuff like that :) I’m glad you found a new home here in Germany and I love hearing your reasons to stay! As a German I kinda take those things for granted because it’s just normal for me but this really pushes me to appreciate what I have even more 🥰

  • @nightflight4191
    @nightflight4191 2 года назад +5

    It's such a relief to hear something good about my country. It makes me happy as there are so many people lamenting about Germany.

    • @tldw8354
      @tldw8354 Год назад

      are those germans? if so, it's ok. A real german is alllllways complaining about everything. thats the natural attitude :D ^^

  • @crystaltharrell
    @crystaltharrell 3 года назад +29

    My boyfriend is German and when I went to visit him and his family it was a total culture shock. Even seeing how close his family is, made me understand more about how different the US is. I told him I wanted to raise our family in Europe and he was so family. I really don’t see myself living in the states after I’m done with school

  • @MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead
    @MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead 3 года назад +89

    I visited Switzerland, Germany, Austria, Lichtenstein, France, and Italy 2 years ago and I am absolutely in 100% agreement with you. If I had the option not to return to the US, I would have taken it. I've been heavily speaking to my partner about moving somewhere there. I was absolutely at home being there and so was he.

    • @MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead
      @MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead 3 года назад +11

      @@alberthorn180 I don't remember mention of color being a part of anyone's comment. What does that have to do with it?

    • @julianmarsh1378
      @julianmarsh1378 3 года назад +13

      @@alberthorn180 And they'd be even more fantastic, if racists like you weren't hanging around

    • @MsChunkums
      @MsChunkums 2 года назад

      @@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead did you decide to move? im in the south I want to leave too!

    • @MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead
      @MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead 2 года назад +2

      @@MsChunkums I would love to, but my partner cannot, too many business obligations. He owns 2 businesses. The Russian/Ukraine conflict has really effected him.

    • @MsChunkums
      @MsChunkums 2 года назад

      @@MissouriCrookedBarnHomestead Awww ok I see! Hopefully one day you will

  • @TreyDaze
    @TreyDaze 3 года назад +14

    We are about to move from Hawaii to Germany! This video was beyond helpful and insightful! We have a four month old son as well, so we are excited for him to grow up in Germany!

    • @MoobleOfficial
      @MoobleOfficial 3 года назад +3

      Im german and i think most germans would move to Hawaii if they could :D

    • @Morellas4
      @Morellas4 3 года назад +3

      @@MoobleOfficial Correct ;-)) I'm sitting here (Germany) thinking: Wow, and I always would love to visit Hawaii... (Not to LIVE there but to visit - not because it's the US but: it's HAWAII !) ;-)))

    • @mimosa27
      @mimosa27 3 года назад

      Congratulations to you. I'm so jealous!

  • @TheMackone66
    @TheMackone66 2 года назад +12

    Wow..I lived in Germany as a soldier, I can't wait to get back!! Less crime, air pollution and natural foods.

  • @matteloht
    @matteloht 3 года назад +109

    As A German myself I always like to hear other perspectives and views from "outsiders" concerning my home country. Glad you mostly like it here. And good to see, that some points you mentioned that we as citizens usually take for granted aren't present in other and even considered 1st world countries like the USA. Makes me worship the achievements of my country even more even though Germans (and sometimes me) tend to see the problems more than the benefits living here. I actually 1st false read the title "Why I'm Now Moving Back to the US After Living in Germany" and was worried that you might have had bad experiences with some ppl or couldn't connect to the more shy and reserved personality of most Germans. We tent do seem to be cold at the 1st encounter but losen up if we get to know a person better. Hope your plan of raising a family here will work out and you will grow to love our beautiful country even more. Also Germany is perfect for a travel influencer like you also seem to be, since it's located in the heard of good old Europe. Glad I stumbled upon your channel. Will follow your further adventures and development for sure.

    • @whtpwr
      @whtpwr 2 года назад +1

      If Germany continues letting in third world people, you will get a third world country. Guaranteed. Take it from an American living in fourth world AMERICA.

    • @whtpwr
      @whtpwr 2 года назад

      @femcel loli You people complain about gentrification and then displace other people in their country. Why not go where you're wanted, stop being on White people's jock.

    • @whtpwr
      @whtpwr 2 года назад

      @femcel loli ok kaneeshuwanda

  • @nukustudio6882
    @nukustudio6882 3 года назад +72

    I can really understand you. I am Ghanain, went to Germany at 19, stayed for 42 years, schooled and became Psychologist. Two children by racial, both working on PhD. Germany is my heart, it thought me so many things of value. Situated in the middle of Europe, so many many things to explore. I love the German Bundestag, the diversity, and you can trust the German Government no matter which party is in power. The people are curious they want to know who you are. Viel Spass in Deutschland 🇬🇭❤️

    • @marvinlangohr7104
      @marvinlangohr7104 2 года назад +6

      ich liebe dich für das "i love the german bundestag"! grüße von deinem nigerianischen Bruder

    • @RasmusWitzig
      @RasmusWitzig 3 месяца назад

      Stimmt. Obwohl ich vor einer AfD Regierung Angst hätte. Alle anderen Parteien (von Linke bis cdu)sind in Ordnung

  • @marvabaker961
    @marvabaker961 3 года назад +8

    Love your views and honesty on why you love Germany and will not be moving back to the US.
    I reside in the UK outside London.Love being here for all the reasons you love Germany.
    I am Jamaican and will not be returning for good.
    Love your videos always Zoie ❤❤

  • @Symbolsysteme
    @Symbolsysteme 2 года назад +12

    As a German I have to say what I apprechiate a lot about Germany compared to most other countries I have visited is our health care system. And I totally agree with your point about quality. When I was living in London I was shocked about how bad the heating system ect was. In Germany we care a lot about good handcraft. I only realized this after I went to other countries. There are also bad things to say about Germany, of course. For example that it's not easy to get in contact with Germans, why most of my friends are foreigners.

  • @itsStiflersMomTTV
    @itsStiflersMomTTV 2 года назад +20

    Happy to see you well stabilished in Germany. Plus, you can always easily visit other European countries. Try Portugal during summer vacations, Porto or Lisbon ❤️

  • @michaellust
    @michaellust 2 года назад +16

    In my experience as a Swede we have a lot of Americans here saying the same as you do.
    America is a very good country in many ways but they have to realize that they reached a dead end in some important areas.
    Hope you find the family you've been looking for.
    No worries you look lovely. 💯❤️. You can pick and choose.😂

  • @Wlf5953
    @Wlf5953 3 года назад +14

    Zoie-Marie, you do you and don’t worry about what others think. Piece of mind is paramount in one’s well being.
    Stay healthy,Cheers.

  • @TaliaMellifera
    @TaliaMellifera 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Zoie-Marie! I am from Germany and your view helps me to estimate what we have here. I appreciate the way you speak very clear so that I can understand you and I specially like the way you estimate the nature here. There is this word 'Waldbaden' for calming the mind by doing walks in nature.
    Wishing you well!

  • @sonaturelleity
    @sonaturelleity 3 года назад +17

    As soon as I saw the title. I figured why she wasn't going to move back. I wouldn't either. Stay safe!

  • @dustin2634
    @dustin2634 3 года назад +16

    Agree Germany is the place to be. After visiting I want to move there so bad.

  • @deejnpaul6512
    @deejnpaul6512 3 года назад +27

    I am from 🇱🇨 and i have been living in 🇬🇧 for the past 3 years! I have been travelling all around Europe and gurl i must say i totally agree with everything you said! Great video Zoie-Marie x

    • @deejnpaul6512
      @deejnpaul6512 3 года назад +1

      @@alberthorn180 what are u even talking about?? You and your racism comment!! Get outta here!! 🙄

    • @darcyliliana4907
      @darcyliliana4907 3 года назад +1

      Also a Lucian planning to move to Europe 🇱🇨🇱🇨

  • @geirkarlsen7329
    @geirkarlsen7329 2 года назад +7

    I have lived in both the States and Canada. Been alot in Germany in the past. I love my country Norway. But there is something special with the memories from travalling around in Germany in the past. I would recommand the Island of Sylt.. Amazing trainride from Kiel with the ocean on both sides of the train. This island is on the west coast Germany and I recommand renting a private home hotelroom. Great video :)

  • @msfashionmyworld
    @msfashionmyworld 3 года назад +135

    Living on and off in Germany for the past 20 years, I totally agree a lot of your reasons. I definitely feel at peace with my children who happened to be German and American living here. I love not having to feel panicked of having to have the if the cops pull you over talk. Living here teached me the value of having time off. In the state its a rat race, everyone takes pride on how much they work, or they have to work a lot just to make ends meet. I am going to be leaving Bavaria back to the states in month but once I get things together, I plan on moving back to Europe with the option of living part-time in Spain.

    • @chrissiec2123
      @chrissiec2123 3 года назад +5

      Hi, I'm somewhat flirting with the idea of moving to a western European country in my future. May you please expound on the idea of living part-time in Spain while living in another European country? I've never heard of the option to live in more than one European country simultaneously and would like to know more.

    • @jennyh4025
      @jennyh4025 3 года назад +9

      @@chrissiec2123 if you’re a citizen of an EU country, you can live and work in every EU country without a (big) hassle. I am German and I have colleagues from (at least) three other EU countries and pretty much all they had to do was change their registered main address (because they now live in Germany 10 out of 12 months a year). I think it’s a little bit more complicated for non-EU-citizens.

    • @chrissiec2123
      @chrissiec2123 3 года назад +3

      @@jennyh4025 I didn't expect living between EU countries to be so easy. Although, I guess I shouldn't have been surprised considering that EU countries go by virtually all the same rules. Thanks for answering my question.

    • @jennyh4025
      @jennyh4025 3 года назад +6

      @@chrissiec2123 well, don’t get me wrong, we do have a lot of rules.
      The EU was founded to help the economy, but really makes it easier for the citizens. I do remember waiting in the car waiting in line to cross the border to the Netherlands, now this border is nearly invisible.
      And actually moving from one country to another is also rather easy now.

    • @TheKitaroHouse
      @TheKitaroHouse 3 года назад +3

      @@chrissiec2123 I know several people from Germany who bought an apartment in Spain and flying there 1-2 time a year there to spend vacations. At the end it's just a question of money.

  • @12078098
    @12078098 3 года назад +24

    I have to agree with you about New York being dangerous. About 10 years ago I was sitting at the park with a friend and a group of guys pulled up on us, pointed a gun in my face and robbed us. I live in Europe too and while you might face some issues, depending on where you live, I never feel unsafe.

    • @Kai-bj5ol
      @Kai-bj5ol 2 года назад

      something like this can happen in Berlin, too. A friend of me was robbed in Berlin with knife next to me and i didn´t mentioned it in this moment.

  • @MegaBrownie19
    @MegaBrownie19 3 года назад +30

    We’re also trying to move to Europe (heavily considering Germany) and your reasons are primarily the reasons. I feel like hearing you speak it brings me that much more reassurance! Side note: you look stunning!

    • @peacegirlxx99
      @peacegirlxx99 3 года назад +2

      deffo try and learn the language!

    • @enkay223
      @enkay223 3 года назад

      @@deenman23 economy reasons and the welfare state are some major concerns too... But everyone has to make their own decisions..

    • @andreiandrei8647
      @andreiandrei8647 3 года назад +1

      Why not Canada? You already know the language.

    • @urbnctrl
      @urbnctrl 2 года назад +1

      Be sure to study the language before you come. Its not like the Netherlands where everyone speaks english. Plus learning a new language actually changes you for the better as a person.

  • @dianahorschmann1721
    @dianahorschmann1721 2 года назад +15

    I am so happy to see your video about Germany. Because for the most people in the US, Germany is terrible. Compared to America. I had to defend my country so many times. It was upsetting. And there are so many good things about this country. Secure jobs, secure Appartements, healthcare and so much more. Thanks for sharing your positive outlook 😊

    • @AP86777
      @AP86777 2 года назад +2

      We all have to be thankful. 👍🏻

    • @OzPozzy278
      @OzPozzy278 4 месяца назад

      I never heard they said anything bad about Germany if anything, most of Americans dream of moving to Europe, SEA, Canada, Japan, Australia

  • @marvinbartels2561
    @marvinbartels2561 3 года назад +6

    As a German I must say, through all these Videos from you and countless other Expats I just loved my Country again. So thanks for that! 🤗 It's so cool, what other think about us and that a lot of Expats feel so great living here and living a good life. I always think how bad our streets are and that New streets with renewed concrete don't last that long. 😅 We can do better in a lot of areas, but I have to admit, that there are a lof ot positives that I didn't see before and you guys let me see that again. So thank you so much for that. 🥰🤗 All the best for you Future and Life here. Stay safe!

  • @bobe.thomas
    @bobe.thomas 3 года назад +12

    Thanks for a GREAT video!! Yeah, me too! I've been here for over 13 years and there has not been a moment when I seriously considered moving back... Germany isn't paradise, but in terms of society, education, fairness, food, personal culture, it's an easy decision to want to stay and live here... sure I miss Boston in the summer (but not the winter), but that desire is easily satisfied after a week... and I'm glad to come back to my un-exceptional life with my friends and their families here... it took my several years to give up being "exceptional" but the day I realized it didn't matter anymore here, was one of the most important and happy days -- freed to just be a normal person living a normal life (with comprehensive health care, free education, etc etc)... now that's freedom!!

    • @bobe.thomas
      @bobe.thomas 2 года назад +1

      @Maria Christina no I didn't learn German before moving to Germany... I met my wife while doing a gig in Nürnberg and moved to Germany to be with her (since there was no real future for us in the US)...
      Sooo... it is definitely possible to move to Germany and to learn German "on the job" in Germany... but here are some things to consider..
      1. work... the best work for Americans in Germany (who have no connections to a big-company kind of job) is to teach English, which will earn in the beginning €15-24 per hour... with experience tha pay rate can go up to around €50 per hour, but that is after a couple of years
      2. work... if you have specific business skills, then you should research companies similar to the ones you work (have worked) for in the US and look for similar companies in one of the major cities, usually Hamburg, Köln, München, Düsseldorf... but also some middle-sized cities would be possible...
      3. Berlin... advantages are that many people speak English and it is entirely possible to live and work in Berlin with only the most basic German... also living in Berlin is not especially expensive compared to the other big cities (named above)... although the pay rate in Berlin is also, often, a bit lower... it is a funky city, but after a while a lot of people get tired of it for various reasons and move on to other cities in the south and west
      4. the language...best option is probalby the Uni option #5... but it can also work if you come here with enough money to live on for a year and to spend that year attending a good language school -- usually immersion is 9-12noon daily and costs anywhere from €200-300 (or more) per month... and then meanwhile find work teaching English at a generic language school evenings for €15-25 per hour (e.g. Berlitz, Inlingua, etc)
      5. the Uni system... if you have some money saved (e.g. €15-25k) an excellent way to get a foothold in Germany is to get a masters (or a bachelors) in an English-speaking subject, e.g. American studies or Anglistiks... this way you learn German and become integrated while going to school and getting a recognized German degree... note that age is not that important... a lot of Americans I teach with at the local Uni (Unis are regional, cost €250 per semester and are all more-or-less similar) have gotten a masters here at age 35+ so that they can earn more money teaching at the Uni level (rather than for local English-teaching or English-speaking businesses)... teaching at the Uni I make about €50 per hour, although I am limited to teaching 6 hours per week (for about 7 months a year, since it's a contract-job)
      5. money... overall living in Germany is much cheaper than the US, and especially much cheaper than Boston (I lived in Brighton, Watertown, Milton, Newton)... and food here is about half the price as the US (what you pay for a lb in Boston will often buy you a kg here, and the food here is fresher because Germany uses a lot of local produce and because we have a lot of growing countries nearby, e.g. Italy, France, Turkey, North Africa, etc)
      If you have any questions, feel free to ask... it's not easy making the move... Germans have a very specific culture and getting used to it takes time... and the German language is not easy to learn, at least at first

    • @bobe.thomas
      @bobe.thomas 2 года назад +1

      @Maria Christina it's worth the stress to move... because living in Germany you can know that the stress will soon reduce and you can have a new "normal" life... for me in the US it just felt like things just kept getting more and more stressful with no end in sight... here there is an end in sight, even though it took me 4 years or so to really find my way, at the end of those years I had a life that was much nicer, more enjoyable and living in a society where people's focus is on mutual responsibility and living together with a minimum of stress and no anger... it's well worth the jump... let me know if you sometime in the future have more questions or need encouragement... it's not an easy jump to make, but I've never for one minute (despite how difficult and sometimes discouraging it was in the first years) regretted the move and I've not for one minute ever considered moving back... why? here I have health insurance, a job I like (Germans believe you should have work that you personally find worthwhile), and my son is working on his PhD for €0 tuition... if we'd stayed, he would never have made it past a bachelors in the US (and with huge debt)...
      Good luck! Dare to be free!! ;-) I live in NRW near Bielefeld, let me know if I can ever be of help...

  • @MariaAndersenCrypto
    @MariaAndersenCrypto 3 года назад +5

    Thank you! It was really useful! I live in Spain now and I was thinking to move to USA, but now I'm thinking to move to Germany!!!

  • @SpaceTacos60316
    @SpaceTacos60316 Год назад +3

    Hey! I lived in Frankfurt for 4yrs and had planned on staying for good... but life derailed me. Working on finding my way back as soon as I can arrange it. Thank you so much for sharing. LOVED my time over there... not really enjoying NYC myself (not a native).

  • @oopsimovedagain.school
    @oopsimovedagain.school 3 года назад +4

    I’m so happy to see you’re enjoying our beautiful Europe. I lived in Finland, and I saw 6 to 7 years old bike to school, and back home. Welcome to Europe !

  • @nietzschesayshi2569
    @nietzschesayshi2569 3 года назад +8

    As a German I'm glad you like it here and feel at home :)

  • @sunnyrain9
    @sunnyrain9 3 года назад +26

    Awesome video, thanks for sharing. I definitely have thought about literally everything you’ve mentioned. I felt that way when I was stationed in Okinawa, Japan. I really think I’d like Europe and wouldn’t mind living there. The US is my home but we deal with a lot as you know.

    • @ZoieMarie
      @ZoieMarie  3 года назад +11

      Well said! And I mean I love NY, but there are some added safety benefits living here in Germany which I love

    • @uliwehner
      @uliwehner 3 года назад +6

      @@ZoieMarie we can love both, just for different reasons. I now live in Georgia, an hour north of the world's busiest airport, on 2 acres in the woods. that would have been much harder to accomplish in Germany.

    • @gentz8310
      @gentz8310 3 года назад +1

      @@uliwehner Try an 1st amendment audit standing in front of a police station and filming. ID, detained, handcuffed, etc RUclips is full of cop violence/harassment in "free" USA.

    • @uliwehner
      @uliwehner 3 года назад +2

      @@gentz8310 huh are you talking to me somehow? I can't see a connection to my post

    • @gentz8310
      @gentz8310 3 года назад

      @@uliwehner Try this what I wrote and afterwards you'll see that freedom is just a word on a paper for the US cops. Take care