My first ever girlfriend and I used to listen to this endlessly. We even saw them in concert, super small venue. I still listen to this often and somewhat recently sent a link for this to her. We talk, infrequently. Friends in as much as we’re able, separated by time and space. The lover that got away. We’ve each married, and have kids, our own families and we have no regrets, just these memories, bitter sweet, that persist through time, but it’s like honeysuckle on the wind. It comes and goes, you can’t get it back, you can only hope for its return never knowing the “if” or “when”. My first love, and I was hers. She’s in Germany now, where she grew up. Her English has gotten worse over the years. But still… 🖤🖤🖤
Think this is one of the most underrated songs of the 90s, it was awesome, and perfectly describes many relationships. And I'm not normally a guitar guy, but even I can tell that this guitar slays.
Back in 90 something, I found a mix tape at the thrift shop, unlabeled, with this song on it over and over. It became my favorite but I never knew who it was by, and forgot it by the time I could have found it on the internet. Totally having a moment.
I had this song was on a mix tape back in the 90s. My boyfriend at the time said he made it for me special. Turns out this girl that had a crush on him actually made the tape. He always said they were besties. I found out they had been dating a couple years in secret because he was embarrassed of her looks. He was awful to her, he had her give him rides to my place and make her wait outside for several hours and sometimes over night. One day she came barging into my house asking why we were listening to the tape she made for him... omg i was like uh, this bitch totally loves you on a deep level because this mix tape is all hard to find but bad ass music. This shit took time.. I will never put that kind of effort into you.. tell me why his girlfriend stuck up for him and called me all sorts of shit? She spread wild rumors about me, I sucked 13 guys off in the middle of a club while on ecstacy and let them blow all over my face.. people believed it too. Lol. I let shit go for a while but i eventually started dating her neighbor out of spite and blasting that mix tape on repeat for weeks. I still have that fucking tape and that girl still hates me.
And through no fault of my own I ended up seriously dating a different guys she had mega crushes on over the years. I always found out afterwards. This bitch had fine ass male friends. The final guy I ended up marrying like 2 weeks into dating him. That was 10 yrs ago and we are still married and best friends forever.. that bitch still prank calls me to this day! This has been going on from 1993 until now.. Its funny because if this bitch wouldn't of been petty to me over a guy, I'm sure we would be bffs! She has amazing taste in music, friends and has still makes prank calls in her 40s.. they are fucking hilarious too.. Its crazy that someone who has such hateful feelings towards me fills my heart with such joy.
Grunge kinda killed the momentum of the college rock scene of the early 90s. MTV 120 Minutes on Sunday nights (if memory serves) was can’t-miss tv. All my bands and new ones I’d come to love week to week. In NY we had WDRE but on a good night - when the stars aligned - I could get Real Rock Radio FM 106.3 ‘FM 106.3 - Modern Rock at the Jersey Shore.’ Great times. Glad to know they happened.
I saw this band at the Fastlane in Asbury Park, NJ. I bought their CD at the bar. I used to play this song over and over. I miss the pre-grunge music of the 90's. I loved grunge too, but their was some great bands that got eclipsed by the Seattle sound explosion from the fall of 91.
"pre-grunge"....😂 I like the terminology. When this album was originally released you would have to look for the CD in the college/modern rock section at Tower Records. Thirty years later Tower Records is gone as I'd the modern rock section(it now falls under "Alternative") but this song still rocks and the lyrics take on an even deeper meaning.
Definitely put this on a mixtape for my ex the summer b4 Freshman year (‘91/‘92). I live in Boston & my fav station back then was 95.5 WBRU out of RI (Brown Univ.). I called in to get this played & recorded myself on air on that mixtape. Ahhh the feels. ☺️🖤🖤
My first ever girlfriend and I used to listen to this endlessly. We even saw them in concert, super small venue. I still listen to this often and somewhat recently sent a link for this to her. We talk, infrequently. Friends in as much as we’re able, separated by time and space. The lover that got away. We’ve each married, and have kids, our own families and we have no regrets, just these memories, bitter sweet, that persist through time, but it’s like honeysuckle on the wind. It comes and goes, you can’t get it back, you can only hope for its return never knowing the “if” or “when”. My first love, and I was hers. She’s in Germany now, where she grew up. Her English has gotten worse over the years. But still… 🖤🖤🖤
Oh man, i was obsessed with this song back in the day. I had it on 7" single but it's been lost somehow over the years. Great to hear it again, thanks for the upload david.
@@rhanlon70 They said we were just going to jam since the singer was in Europe at the time. That went nowhere so they tried teaching me songs I’d never heard on the spot. It was not pretty. 😆
i heard this for the first time about 11 years ago on XM Radio. i emailed the station manager and they said this band was a one hit wonder. really obscure band. amazing song.
My buddies cousin played bass for them. I got to hang back stage at the old 930 club in DC and we hung out the next day. I didn't get to play as I had hoped as I was a struggling guitar player and wanted to play with them. They were great people. Sharky was a cool guy. They signed a poster for me, I laid it on a bed in our spare bedroom to hang the next day and one of my dogs slipped in and actually pissed on it, while it was on the bed like she knew I liked it. I was so pissed. I hope they are doing well.
lancevalek Sorry I missed your reply. He does have a car show, my buddy, his cousin, is doing the music for it. We have a band together now we are working on. Early stages though. The cousin, not JD.
texting with Sharky right now! Im a pal who played the shit out of this song in New Mexico before Clear Channel clearcut the FM trees and ol DJS like me from the scene!
This song was like a top 5 of the year on WBRU's top 95 songs of 91. try and find a Brown University college band's song called Dance by Angry Salad. not easy to find, but you'll love it.
Absolutely amazing. I had the cassette tape, unfortunately lost it at some point. Is she still around, would be amazing to hear her sing again, and the band is completely solid.
Laura B(her stage name in the late 80s early 90's; in place of her real last name (Barcelecivec, or something even harder to spell/pronounce) basically got screwed by David Geffen when the label signed them right before their second album. She didn't have much success after this band. She did some solo work and I heard she even did an album with old They Eat Their Own demos from the 80s. This song achieved it's biggest success reaching nearly ONE MILLION plays (😂 not an actual statistic😂) in my Ford Escort GT back when my high school girlfriend and I broke up
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2022! This song still slaps
I must have listened to this song about 10,000 times during the summer of 1991, maybe 1992. How is this song not on Spotify?
Spotify must be run by feminists
My first ever girlfriend and I used to listen to this endlessly. We even saw them in concert, super small venue. I still listen to this often and somewhat recently sent a link for this to her. We talk, infrequently. Friends in as much as we’re able, separated by time and space. The lover that got away. We’ve each married, and have kids, our own families and we have no regrets, just these memories, bitter sweet, that persist through time, but it’s like honeysuckle on the wind. It comes and goes, you can’t get it back, you can only hope for its return never knowing the “if” or “when”. My first love, and I was hers. She’s in Germany now, where she grew up. Her English has gotten worse over the years. But still… 🖤🖤🖤
Among the greatest underrated songs ever.
This song has been nearly impossible to find and it's absolutely amazing.
Think this is one of the most underrated songs of the 90s, it was awesome, and perfectly describes many relationships. And I'm not normally a guitar guy, but even I can tell that this guitar slays.
Back in 90 something, I found a mix tape at the thrift shop, unlabeled, with this song on it over and over. It became my favorite but I never knew who it was by, and forgot it by the time I could have found it on the internet. Totally having a moment.
Maevele Straw Do you know the other songs that were on that mix tape?
I had this song was on a mix tape back in the 90s. My boyfriend at the time said he made it for me special. Turns out this girl that had a crush on him actually made the tape. He always said they were besties. I found out they had been dating a couple years in secret because he was embarrassed of her looks. He was awful to her, he had her give him rides to my place and make her wait outside for several hours and sometimes over night. One day she came barging into my house asking why we were listening to the tape she made for him... omg i was like uh, this bitch totally loves you on a deep level because this mix tape is all hard to find but bad ass music. This shit took time.. I will never put that kind of effort into you.. tell me why his girlfriend stuck up for him and called me all sorts of shit? She spread wild rumors about me, I sucked 13 guys off in the middle of a club while on ecstacy and let them blow all over my face.. people believed it too. Lol. I let shit go for a while but i eventually started dating her neighbor out of spite and blasting that mix tape on repeat for weeks. I still have that fucking tape and that girl still hates me.
And through no fault of my own I ended up seriously dating a different guys she had mega crushes on over the years. I always found out afterwards. This bitch had fine ass male friends. The final guy I ended up marrying like 2 weeks into dating him. That was 10 yrs ago and we are still married and best friends forever.. that bitch still prank calls me to this day! This has been going on from 1993 until now.. Its funny because if this bitch wouldn't of been petty to me over a guy, I'm sure we would be bffs! She has amazing taste in music, friends and has still makes prank calls in her 40s.. they are fucking hilarious too.. Its crazy that someone who has such hateful feelings towards me fills my heart with such joy.
@@keliaydlotte1483 What were the rest of the songs on that tape?
@ Keli Aydlotte I know this comment is 3 years old, but you sound like a real one. I’m curious about your astrological placements lolol
Grunge kinda killed the momentum of the college rock scene of the early 90s. MTV 120 Minutes on Sunday nights (if memory serves) was can’t-miss tv. All my bands and new ones I’d come to love week to week. In NY we had WDRE but on a good night - when the stars aligned - I could get Real Rock Radio FM 106.3 ‘FM 106.3 - Modern Rock at the Jersey Shore.’ Great times. Glad to know they happened.
This is my 90s non hip hop anthem. This song bangs til this day. If the lead singer sees this post hit me up and let’s make magic.
Underrated classic from my senior year in college. 1990 was just a prelude to what would be an awesome decade in alternative music.
I saw this band at the Fastlane in Asbury Park, NJ. I bought their CD at the bar. I used to play this song over and over. I miss the pre-grunge music of the 90's. I loved grunge too, but their was some great bands that got eclipsed by the Seattle
sound explosion from the fall of 91.
peeceekiller VERY true!!
90's at The Fastlane, The Brighton, The Saint. Good times.
"pre-grunge"....😂 I like the terminology. When this album was originally released you would have to look for the CD in the college/modern rock section at Tower Records. Thirty years later Tower Records is gone as I'd the modern rock section(it now falls under "Alternative") but this song still rocks and the lyrics take on an even deeper meaning.
Definitely put this on a mixtape for my ex the summer b4 Freshman year (‘91/‘92). I live in Boston & my fav station back then was 95.5 WBRU out of RI (Brown Univ.). I called in to get this played & recorded myself on air on that mixtape. Ahhh the feels. ☺️🖤🖤
Love love this song
I'VE LOOKED FOR THIS SONG FOR SO LONG.
me too : ')
Very hard to find. Surprising because when you hear it your like "Oooh I loved this song!"
My first ever girlfriend and I used to listen to this endlessly. We even saw them in concert, super small venue. I still listen to this often and somewhat recently sent a link for this to her. We talk, infrequently. Friends in as much as we’re able, separated by time and space. The lover that got away. We’ve each married, and have kids, our own families and we have no regrets, just these memories, bitter sweet, that persist through time, but it’s like honeysuckle on the wind. It comes and goes, you can’t get it back, you can only hope for its return never knowing the “if” or “when”. My first love, and I was hers. She’s in Germany now, where she grew up. Her English has gotten worse over the years. But still… 🖤🖤🖤
What an awesome name for a band.
I can not believe that this is not on Spotify! Spotify have to step it up.
I literally have this on my "Not On Spotify =/" youtube playlist.
@@meatballhead15 that's not a bad idea
The greatest song never heard!!!!
Digging through my cds and came across this cd the other day. Listening to it again because it is so good!
I've always LOVED this song. Thank you for posting the real/uncensored version.
I first heard this song back in freshmen year in 1990 and never knew who sang it. Now after all these years searching, I finally know.
This whole album rocks! Guitar player is a real gunslinger!
John DeF Absolutely!!
Heard this on the current while sitting in traffic, what a great way to pass time. Awesome song.
Great song
I need this
I need this on Spotify.
Oh man, i was obsessed with this song back in the day. I had it on 7" single but it's been lost somehow over the years. Great to hear it again, thanks for the upload david.
The worst audition I ever had was when I went to play guitar with these guys. Total clusterfuck. 😂
Can you elaborate? What happened?
@@rhanlon70 They said we were just going to jam since the singer was in Europe at the time. That went nowhere so they tried teaching me songs I’d never heard on the spot. It was not pretty. 😆
@@ludlow555 Sorry you had to deal with that!
@@rhanlon70 Thanks, I appreciate that!
i heard this for the first time about 11 years ago on XM Radio. i emailed the station manager and they said this band was a one hit wonder. really obscure band. amazing song.
My buddies cousin played bass for them. I got to hang back stage at the old 930 club in DC and we hung out the next day. I didn't get to play as I had hoped as I was a struggling guitar player and wanted to play with them. They were great people. Sharky was a cool guy. They signed a poster for me, I laid it on a bed in our spare bedroom to hang the next day and one of my dogs slipped in and actually pissed on it, while it was on the bed like she knew I liked it. I was so pissed. I hope they are doing well.
J.D. Dotson was the bass player in a local band I did sound for. I heard he was doing a TV show on cars.
lancevalek Sorry I missed your reply. He does have a car show, my buddy, his cousin, is doing the music for it. We have a band together now we are working on. Early stages though. The cousin, not JD.
texting with Sharky right now! Im a pal who played the shit out of this song in New Mexico before Clear Channel clearcut the FM trees and ol DJS like me from the scene!
19k views in six years. That's insane. This is an amazing song.
This song was like a top 5 of the year on WBRU's top 95 songs of 91. try and find a Brown University college band's song called Dance by Angry Salad. not easy to find, but you'll love it.
THANK YOU FOR THIS MISSING PIECE OF MY CHILDHOOD!!!!
Rhythm guitar sounds like a chainsaw. Badass.
Maxwells Hoboken 1987? this chick had us mesmerized.
great song dude!
Great great song, can't find it anywhere else
Absolutely amazing. I had the cassette tape, unfortunately lost it at some point. Is she still around, would be amazing to hear her sing again, and the band is completely solid.
Laura B(her stage name in the late 80s early 90's; in place of her real last name (Barcelecivec, or something even harder to spell/pronounce) basically got screwed by David Geffen when the label signed them right before their second album. She didn't have much success after this band. She
did some solo work and I heard she even did an album with old They Eat Their Own demos from the 80s. This song achieved it's biggest success reaching nearly ONE MILLION plays (😂 not an actual statistic😂) in my Ford Escort GT back when my high school girlfriend and I broke up
Sweet song!
No, actually its was a month or so ago. I was listening to a station and this came on.They play older songs at a certain time of day.
The Clarences love & support They Eat Their Own!
Use to hear this on 1510 am The X
My pleasure ;)
had this album a while would like the cd though
Why isn't this song or band on Spotify
Was this ever released anywhere? I remember hearing it on the radio maybe once like 5-ish years ago and that was it.
Paige Vermilya I had it on tape in 1990. They use to play it on college radio back then and the video on 120 minutes
I used to hear it on kfsr 90.7 fresno
ditto!!!
your welcome ;)