True! She refuses to put up with the ridiculous questioning like whether she finds it a "coincidence" for BS! Amber's attorney won't be winning any awards! 🙄
She was one of the best witnesses. Because we could see the behavioral traits that this dr. described Amber Heard as having in real time, during Heard's own testimonies and every time the camera was on her.
Thanks for noticing. I suffer BPD and talking about our real selves or hearing it from a professional confirming it about YOU, makes you the most uncomfortable in your own skin out of the denial instinct. She's too much of a narcasstic to admit them bad traits because she lacks empathy so her body does the real talking 😂
What I noticed....whenever Amber is not threatened by a witness, she has that scary frozen stoic "model" face. Yet, if she feels threatened (because she knows witnesses speak the truth), she grabs that pad and begins scribbling! Lol. If you've watched enough Law cases - you KNOW the defendants are instructed to do this to prevent/offset any emotional expressions! She's so obvious.
She even copies his mannerisms. I noticed when the jury was leaving court after her testimony she glanced up at johnny and saw him adjusting his suit and then crossing his hand over and holding his wrist. This bih did the same effing thing 😂
Borderline is possibly the hottest of the disorders, followed by Schizoid and Avoidant. Histrionic and Narcissistic are among the least fun and most annoying, followed by psychopathy (Paranoid's also not so great).
@@drek9k2you don’t know what you’re talking about. First of all, borderline personality disorder is the least scary compared to sociopathy and psychopathy. If a person with BPD gets psychotherapy, they can improve, but people with antisocial personality disorders cannot magically gain empathy. They have different brains and genes and no medicine or treatment can help them. That to me is the most terrifying
@@justinbourgeois4685very attractive and charming. They are able to come off beautiful more than they actually are. Of course this is the image they craft just for the people they want to attract.
Haha I am dramatic personality disorder. It stems from trauma & abuse from families mostly. I know what love is clearly. God's love is perfect love and exactly what we all need 🩷 It's the true answer. We all need His love 🙏
They know what love is they just don't know how to believe they deserve it or how to receive it. They can love people but don't know how to feel or believe it for themselves.
100%. I have BPD and it frustrates me that she has no self awareness or intention on becoming a healthier person and managing her mental health when there have been ample signs indicating she should and now it has resulted in her hurting someone so much and yet still, I don't believe she sees it for what it is. She doesn't think she needs help and so she won't get any better.
Like when AH said she likes to read and likes poetry or shape shifting into JD by mimicking his mens suits and hairstyle throughout the hearing. Ok that makes a lot of sense.
All the rings she wore on her hands during the trial, at one point in time. Also, her use of “glasses” when every other time she’s viewed exhibits she hasn’t needed glasses to see. Or copying Johnny with drinking Fiji water
@@bobabooey289 She did it in a proper way then... because if it was so violent it wouldnt been allowed on the comments I know this cuz Ive done it before. Besides in my opinion AH deserves every BOO there is and some cuz she brought this upon herself.
@@Petunia1738 I wouldn't have blame someone for wrong doing. Comes to find out, it was her doing it to him all along, not only she burned JD but she made the real victims look bad. Also she's still claiming somthing new that He insulted her with a bottle they said it in the beginning.
It is extremely exhausting/ debilitating to be around to say the least confusing. On the other side, it truly feels like being in a movie with all the acting , no director and you never even asked to be an extra in 😢. It’s really difficult to watch/ be in and not be affected in any way 😮💨🙏🙏🙏
There’s being a narcissist and also narcissistic personality disorder, she wasn’t diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder but it is in the same cluster of personality disorders (there are 10 in total) , this can explain a person’s behaviour
I was diagnosed with bpd years ago and everything This Doctor said is 100% True! we Fear abandonment, we lie like a rug, with manipulate every situation and we push the person so far away and yet we are trying to grab a tight hold on the other person! it is a vicious cycle! and we are like pitbulls we snapped at anything.
So your an misbehaving immature child with little education that gets angry at normality when it places demands on you. Is that what you mean to say. Because what you say makes no sense at all except that you fear loosing what loves you you don't know how to love.
I've met one person I definitely think was histrionic. She was a manager at a restaurant I worked at a long time ago. She definitely played the princess role and would go into victim mode sometimes, crying even. She saw my passcode to my phone one time and I caught her going through my phone! She bragged about herself constantly and always HAD to be the center of attention. She would insert herself into any situation and schmooze. I personally got along with her but observing her was amusing. She was so obsessed with being "perfect".
Never quite understood why people make up stories when it almost has nothing to do with the conversation at hand. On the off chance I ever tell stories I may get some details wrong but I don't make things up, seems unnecessary. Attention getting, I can see it for narcissists. I guess the disorder part is they can't seem to stop themselves.
Not that I can see what she's doodling on but... for some reason all I could imagine whenever she was doing her near-endless scribbles for most if not the entire duration of the trial was her casually (yet very passive-aggressively) creating some kind of little cartoony and finely-detailed flip book of her slapping the sh*t outta Depp and possibly his whole legal team/supporters/witnesses Will Smith style and no one can convince me she wasn't unless I start seeing some proof of her doing otherwise! Lol 😜😆
They’re instructed to do so by their lawyers when uncomfortable topics are being discussed to prevent revealing any unintentional/revealing facial cues that may be indicative of any potential contradiction and/or lie in their case. Knowing a camera is watching her throughout the trial, it’s highly likely this is the reasoning in this particular situation
As a person that has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder i can say i truly felt guilty for understanding Amber and putting myself at the same point of view as her, i really hope she’s in treatment it really helps you to deal with it, sending lot’s of love and empathy, it’s a living hell for her and the people around her.
The way she described identity is outdated. Given our cultural shifts and hyper exposure to media it is actually more “normal” to shift interests, hairstyles, clothes, etc and do them all or shift in phases. It is more acceptable now as a “norm” people want the latest trends that change quickly or go back to a different trend once another is out. Also, her thing on being like the ppl around them, that is also so common. In every social circle the peer pressure ppl feel, again more than ever now, people want to fit in or pretend like they don’t but then mimic the popular group’s behavior who they are trying to be like, whether that’s for a promotion, climbing the social ladder, likes on social media, people will shift to gain something. Those things aren’t that relevant everything else makes more sense in the case but the identity thing did not have relevance, ppl do that and at the end of the day they are still able to choose and made the choices, she made the choice to lie.
It’s true that people are by default social creatures and herd animals, so-to-speak, and will do things to conform to their peers if it means fitting in (remains of evolution where being part of the pack = survival that hasn’t gone away despite our domination as a species over the planet). However, BPD identity disturbance goes well beyond this causal, normal need to fit in. It’s an extreme form of that insecurity. Firstly, all personality disorders are a disruption of the narrative self. Secondly, the way the narrative self is disrupted and the coping mechanisms to mend it are different from PD to PD. For BPD, they literally feel like they do not exist unless they’re being interacted with. And this isn’t emptiness as in the feeling you get when you’re alone on a Friday night; when Dr. Curry says ‘identity’ she’s really referring to ‘core sense of self’- when a pwBPD feels empty it means dissociation or derealization/depersonalization, along with feelings apathy, anhedonia, etc. They don’t know who they are unless they’re around people. They don’t “exist” unless they’re around people. They *need* to have someone to tether too in order to feel like a person (and the fear of abandonment ties into this, if they’re alone the Void will consume them, and a lot of pwBPD self harm, either as a means to combat their huge emotions and/or as a way to try and feel something when they’re alone/isolated). Yeah, some brown noser in corporate America may suddenly take up an interest in golf when he hears his boss talking about how he likes to golf on Wednesday, but that’s not the same thing as having an identity disturbance as is in the case of BPD. And finally, the idea that you believe that everyone is incredible fluid in personality and easily influenced by outside trends and external factors suggests you either have PD or at the very least PD traits (possibly HPD- part of the diagnostic criteria is easy suggestibility meaning they’re people who follow common trends and are willing to do what others around them want if it means being the center of attention, as Dr. Curry pointed out).
@@wildrose5554 i disagree with your opinion.. I think there is an identity issue with people who need to change their style with every trend. She described the identity problem very well
I wish she could do a podcast on how she was able to trick Johnny. His interview about her where he says she so kind and like a southern bell etc. you see her reflection these traits when Johnny just wants to leave the room when they Argo. Wow I can’t imagine what he went through 😢
I was diagnosed at one point with Borderline, fell in love with a guy who is Christian, we are now married and I finally read the Bible and Yeshua/Jesus changed my heart and soul. I pray something similar happens for her. I still have times when I slip up and act crazy, but God renews my mind daily. He anoints my head with oil (keeps the flies away from me mentally and spiritually).
@@M-i-k-a-e-l bcs if you believe BPD, NPD or HPD has changed, then you are decieved. They never change, just put a new mask to manipulate, lie and cheat. This "sister" has put a good brother in her loop of usage.
If it makes me sick and triggers some flashbacks.... well, I hate to admit it, but to some degree it is "true".... Can EBRSO actually do their job and admit him next time, like seriously.... *cough, cough, cough* huge lawsuit.............................................................💅🏽⏳ Huge, btw.
When I was in my twenties I read The Prince, Machiavelli. After which I found The Princessa by Harriet Rubin conveniently lying around for my inspecting grasp, so I read it. I tried to understand it. My biggest take away was that by emulating women energetic tones & behaviors I could pick up women incredibly easy. As an experiment it was rather disheartening because I’m really a very masculine male & immediately realized that all these women were attracted to was a relatable reflection of themselves & not actually me. They made me feel like the perfect man, I didn’t agree. Although I found both of these books enlightening in the perspectives, I don’t really apply them, but beware them, & would rather just be myself. I would rather listen to myself/heart, my environment, & listen to God. I’d rather adventure into the miraculous strange of God’s reign studying greater things than our own small mindedness then to sit & roost over our regular repetitious games. I am a dreamer… I believe in greater things then what the average life has to offer. I absolutely love the golden nuggets I find in the Holy Bible & cultural histories that associate so profoundly with the anomalies I’ve witnessed. There’s humans & cultures out there. 🛸✨
@@heythere6983 Is that your professional opinion, because defamation of character, malpractice, & misdiagnosis are legal offenses. Or maybe I’m just smarter than the buffoon that is you who is innately lazy to observe.? I mean, you’re not exactly a strategist or tactician with your blindsidedness, are you? You can 🪰.
So thats why she's got a yellow pad to write in she thinks she a lawyer now....😂😂😂 joking apart now I think the doctor has just described m markle as well, add jada to that and we've got our bogof........ (buy one get one free).
She is a forensic psychologist and she was asked to evaluate her. She is not her Dr as a treating Dr would not be allowed to do the evaluation due to the potential bias. The court ordered the evaluation because she claimed to have ptsd as a result of their marriage. (She specialises in ptsd and said she didn't find ah having ptsd).
Ah's personal Dr didn't diagnose her, however her team had her evaluated by another forensic psychologist as well who did diagnose her with ptsd and nothing else, but it seemed she was very biased (it was a very bisarre testimony). I think, if you look at ah testifying you can see a lot of that histrionic PD.
this is what i noticed about her shes a copycat, she probably watched too many movies or videos of other influential ppl, she copied their stories and speeches.
Most couples I see in relationships become their partners taste and interests, and how many American Couples want to dress the same. I believe it's called Twinning. I'm sure if all of us had a Pshyc evaluation we would all have a bunch of disorders because we've all been through challenging experiences in life that have an impact on our mental health. If any person wants to judge Amber I would tell them first to go and look at themselves in the mirror. If you can say you have no wounding from your childhood with your parents, ex partners, friends in your past, bosses, and work colleagues, well lucky you! Never judge another person unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. I think the majority of people on this planet are screwed up, there is no normal.
The difference between that and BPD is that you might see changes through years and years of marriage, like your wife slowly tolerating and actually starting to enjoy your music taste, whereas someone with BPD will completely mirror your opinions and personality, they’ll pretend to be whoever they think you want them to be, in a addition to this someone with BPD has a low threshold for this behaviour, whilst a normal person might be seen to do this after years of friendship, the borderline will do so in having just met their new ‘favourite person’
@@bigeddiespaghetti5618 this isn't actually fully correct. I have BPD and I do not take on other peoples opinions or pretend to be who i think the person wants me to be. I have my own opinions regarding things and I won't change them for others, but I will take on interests (e.g. listen to new music, like new movies/tv shows/games) the other person has, and as I slowly get to know them better then yes, I'll start mimicking the personality in some aspects. Not all of us copy people to that extent.
Its intresting to se ms Heard doing stuff during the testemony, sending the subtle message: whatever going on with my pappers are far moore important then whatever foolish thing this lady says.
One of Heard’s first testimonies of the trial, she fit this so well. ‘I just… stared at the floor. I was just paralysed and blah blah blah’. Perfect example of saying words and nothing at the same time.
AH threw herself under the bus. A serial domestic abuser, she committed perjury on three continents, all while trying to take JD for every cent she could while destroying his life. I can understand why she was so uncomfortable hearing her disorders; she's not used to having her actions exposed, only exposing others. I hope that she continues to work on herself, if not for the people she loves, but, especially for her child.
The way that you wrote that comments says more about you and is the answer to your own question. You are part of the ones you complain about if that’s how you write.
Is she defending Amber or testifying against her? Please don’t tell me this therapist is giving Amber an excuse for being the way she is --like Amber can’t help it ? Amber is self centered, entitled and mean and only wants her way in everything. This behavior needs to be punished.
She was brought in by Depps team I believe and I think this testimony shows that someone with this type of disorder can be abusive, especially if there is no treatment or therapy happening. In my opinion this will help Johnny and he even told heard he thinks she has Borderline Personality Disorder on one of the recordings, spot on really.
The psychologist is not excusing ms.heard she is stating that this may be the reason as to why she is in fact the short tempered, manic, ‘victim’, abuser.
@@KitKatSukiKat I know it is serious and you’re right the histrionic/BPD explains a lot. (I figured she was borderline years ago). This is a behavior issue that probably started early in life when she got her way in most everything so it only “strengthened” her impulses. I grew up with a sister with this disorder, and it should not be an excuse to being abusive, jealous, selfish, vindictive and entitled. For example , a pedophile is most likely born with some of his innate perverted tendencies, but we should not excuse his acting out his perverted desires because, “he can’t help it”. Odds are the desires began early in life where it started out only as temptation. In my book, one needs to “kill it (impulses) before it grows.” We all have our “demons”, but we must not act on them or the desires only get stronger until it becomes reality and people get hurt- including the perpetrator . I’ve seen this happen with every type of sin inside all of us. Amber got away with so much in life in hurting others to feed her ego. The best thing for her is to get punished so she can rethink her path. I think it will improve her as a human being. I think jail time would do her good.
This is the best witness called in this case.
i agree 1000000%
True! She refuses to put up with the ridiculous questioning like whether she finds it a "coincidence" for BS! Amber's attorney won't be winning any awards! 🙄
She is fascinating and fabulous. Yet Issac was also great in another way.
She was one of the best witnesses. Because we could see the behavioral traits that this dr. described Amber Heard as having in real time, during Heard's own testimonies and every time the camera was on her.
I'm never seen Amber look more uncomfortable. Truth 💣 s
Exactly. She looks like she is writing a book 😂
Thanks for noticing. I suffer BPD and talking about our real selves or hearing it from a professional confirming it about YOU, makes you the most uncomfortable in your own skin out of the denial instinct. She's too much of a narcasstic to admit them bad traits because she lacks empathy so her body does the real talking 😂
I really appreciate how she explained this out.
What I noticed....whenever Amber is not threatened by a witness, she has that scary frozen stoic "model" face. Yet, if she feels threatened (because she knows witnesses speak the truth), she grabs that pad and begins scribbling! Lol. If you've watched enough Law cases - you KNOW the defendants are instructed to do this to prevent/offset any emotional expressions! She's so obvious.
Does it make you wonder what she's scribbling
@@connieblackmon3932 - 😝....Right?!!
i thought the same thing, good catch
shows she is not at all threatened by Johnny
Ive noticed that too!
This explains why AH copies JD clothing choices all the time
@Mary Marinara she copys his clothes the fallowing day
She even copies his mannerisms. I noticed when the jury was leaving court after her testimony she glanced up at johnny and saw him adjusting his suit and then crossing his hand over and holding his wrist. This bih did the same effing thing 😂
Right?!
She even copied Dr. Curry’s hairstyle 😂
Right!
I came back here after AH's testimony today. Totally Histrionic. This Dr. nailed it.
Borderline is possibly the hottest of the disorders, followed by Schizoid and Avoidant. Histrionic and Narcissistic are among the least fun and most annoying, followed by psychopathy (Paranoid's also not so great).
@@drek9k2you don’t know what you’re talking about. First of all, borderline personality disorder is the least scary compared to sociopathy and psychopathy. If a person with BPD gets psychotherapy, they can improve, but people with antisocial personality disorders cannot magically gain empathy. They have different brains and genes and no medicine or treatment can help them. That to me is the most terrifying
@@NEnigma777 what does he mean when he says hottest? Like most popular in pop culture? Or does he mean hot like beautiful? My ex with BPD was gorgeous
@@justinbourgeois4685very attractive and charming. They are able to come off beautiful more than they actually are. Of course this is the image they craft just for the people they want to attract.
@@NEnigma777try BPD comorbid with ASPD. The rage they project can even scare the malignant narcissist.
I work in mental health, this is the best description of Borderline/cluster B that I ever heard
These people cant help themselves. They just want to be loved but they dont know what love is.😢
Haha I am dramatic personality disorder. It stems from trauma & abuse from families mostly. I know what love is clearly. God's love is perfect love and exactly what we all need 🩷 It's the true answer. We all need His love 🙏
Too bad, lol
They know what love is they just don't know how to believe they deserve it or how to receive it. They can love people but don't know how to feel or believe it for themselves.
@@MiladyMetalhead L
@@MiladyMetalhead Lol
Johnny won this round with this witness 🙂
She’s so clear and uses lay terms
Sadly, she not only accurately described AH, but also my ex husband. Very chilling to hear Dr. Curry's testimony.
Good!!!! TAKE notes amber so you can finally learn something about yourself!
She probably just does that to look smart. Meanwhile she’s drawing stick figures hahahahaaa
🤣🤣
@@teresa7667😂
100%. I have BPD and it frustrates me that she has no self awareness or intention on becoming a healthier person and managing her mental health when there have been ample signs indicating she should and now it has resulted in her hurting someone so much and yet still, I don't believe she sees it for what it is. She doesn't think she needs help and so she won't get any better.
Like when AH said she likes to read and likes poetry or shape shifting into JD by mimicking his mens suits and hairstyle throughout the hearing. Ok that makes a lot of sense.
Yes!
All the rings she wore on her hands during the trial, at one point in time.
Also, her use of “glasses” when every other time she’s viewed exhibits she hasn’t needed glasses to see.
Or copying Johnny with drinking Fiji water
@@xx.hannahrose : yup… someone pointed out she wore bee earrings when she spoke about her dog stepping on a bee.
I noticed, when this lovely lady was on the stand. The next day AH had her hair in the same style, there you go 😂
This psychologist just described her in a bit shell and corresponds with all the staff witness testimonies
That was extremely well explained. Thank you
This expect is very good! Spot on
Someone PLEASE wipe that stupid look on AH’s face! 🙄
@@bobabooey289 Freedom of speech and she wasn't being violent she said wipe not hit
@@bobabooey289 She did it in a proper way then... because if it was so violent it wouldnt been allowed on the comments I know this cuz Ive done it before. Besides in my opinion AH deserves every BOO there is and some cuz she brought this upon herself.
I’m not on her side at all. I hope Johnny wins. But how could you say that? How would you feel if the world was getting insight to your mental health?
@@Petunia1738 I wouldn't have blame someone for wrong doing. Comes to find out, it was her doing it to him all along, not only she burned JD but she made the real victims look bad. Also she's still claiming somthing new that He insulted her with a bottle they said it in the beginning.
@@bobabooey289 and you’re hiding behind a Howard Stern wanna be name! 😂 Bababooey! Ok
It is extremely exhausting/ debilitating to be around to say the least confusing.
On the other side, it truly feels like being in a movie with all the acting , no director and you never even asked to be an extra in 😢. It’s really difficult to watch/ be in and not be affected in any way 😮💨🙏🙏🙏
What notes could she possibly be pretending to make?😂
Didn’t amber steal her assistant’s story of abuse? Yea she does copying depp clothing
Narcissism comes to mind..
This is how I percive this Amber woman as well - a full on narcissist
What Dr. Curry diagnosed is spot on..
There’s being a narcissist and also narcissistic personality disorder, she wasn’t diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder but it is in the same cluster of personality disorders (there are 10 in total) , this can explain a person’s behaviour
Dr Curry nailed it…..as we can see from the trial and post trial interviews …absolutely nailed it
I was diagnosed with bpd years ago and everything This Doctor said is 100% True! we Fear abandonment, we lie like a rug, with manipulate every situation and we push the person so far away and yet we are trying to grab a tight hold on the other person! it is a vicious cycle! and we are like pitbulls we snapped at anything.
@johnnydepp183 who the heck are you
Not all with bpd are liars. Bpd causes splitting and often times a very firm "code" or moral compass.
@@Bucephalus84 I never said all bpd are liars now, don't put word's in my mouth!
So your an misbehaving immature child with little education that gets angry at normality when it places demands on you.
Is that what you mean to say.
Because what you say makes no sense at all except that you fear loosing what loves you you don't know how to love.
@@Bucephalus84
Aside from your opening statement.
Your comment leaves a lot to be desired.
Can you be more specific
All the way up to now I have never seen Amber so uncomfortable and edgy
Wow- amber was about to jump out her seat - this triggered her deeply
See Taylor Swifts decription of BPDs in her "Anti-Hero" song and video for the visual example....
I've met one person I definitely think was histrionic. She was a manager at a restaurant I worked at a long time ago. She definitely played the princess role and would go into victim mode sometimes, crying even. She saw my passcode to my phone one time and I caught her going through my phone! She bragged about herself constantly and always HAD to be the center of attention. She would insert herself into any situation and schmooze. I personally got along with her but observing her was amusing. She was so obsessed with being "perfect".
I wonder what she was writing all that time ... and if the psychologist had noticed this behavior too
It’s just sad.
Heard is writing "She's a Poopie Head" over and over again....
Also thought since Taylor Swift started out that she might have BPD/HPD/NPD.
Never quite understood why people make up stories when it almost has nothing to do with the conversation at hand. On the off chance I ever tell stories I may get some details wrong but I don't make things up, seems unnecessary. Attention getting, I can see it for narcissists. I guess the disorder part is they can't seem to stop themselves.
Love the fact that it seams that amber is learning something out of this lecture
Wow that first minute toootally reminds me of Brad Pitt and how he takes on pieces of the identities of the women he’s involved with.
How so??
@@DeePeeZee Right? How so?
Huh? How so?
Just kidding, don't care.
She's freaking doodling she's not even writing crap down hilarious
She’s writing....I’m so screwed 🤪
Writing ✍️ down all her points in order to defend back maybe
Not that I can see what she's doodling on but... for some reason all I could imagine whenever she was doing her near-endless scribbles for most if not the entire duration of the trial was her casually (yet very passive-aggressively) creating some kind of little cartoony and finely-detailed flip book of her slapping the sh*t outta Depp and possibly his whole legal team/supporters/witnesses Will Smith style and no one can convince me she wasn't unless I start seeing some proof of her doing otherwise! Lol 😜😆
They’re instructed to do so by their lawyers when uncomfortable topics are being discussed to prevent revealing any unintentional/revealing facial cues that may be indicative of any potential contradiction and/or lie in their case. Knowing a camera is watching her throughout the trial, it’s highly likely this is the reasoning in this particular situation
Spot on
As a person that has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder i can say i truly felt guilty for understanding Amber and putting myself at the same point of view as her, i really hope she’s in treatment it really helps you to deal with it, sending lot’s of love and empathy, it’s a living hell for her and the people around her.
It's funny how she faked reading books to look intelligent on the set of Aquaman yet we never see her reading books since.
This woman maps out Heard perfectly.
Ambers baby was about a year old during this trial. How sad. I don't know Amber but I wish her and her girl a happy life.
What the hell is she writing non-stop?!
There were some videos of her seen just hovering the pen over the paper...😂
They were describing Foodie Beauty to a T. 🥴
Excellent.
The way she described identity is outdated. Given our cultural shifts and hyper exposure to media it is actually more “normal” to shift interests, hairstyles, clothes, etc and do them all or shift in phases. It is more acceptable now as a “norm” people want the latest trends that change quickly or go back to a different trend once another is out. Also, her thing on being like the ppl around them, that is also so common. In every social circle the peer pressure ppl feel, again more than ever now, people want to fit in or pretend like they don’t but then mimic the popular group’s behavior who they are trying to be like, whether that’s for a promotion, climbing the social ladder, likes on social media, people will shift to gain something. Those things aren’t that relevant everything else makes more sense in the case but the identity thing did not have relevance, ppl do that and at the end of the day they are still able to choose and made the choices, she made the choice to lie.
It’s true that people are by default social creatures and herd animals, so-to-speak, and will do things to conform to their peers if it means fitting in (remains of evolution where being part of the pack = survival that hasn’t gone away despite our domination as a species over the planet). However, BPD identity disturbance goes well beyond this causal, normal need to fit in. It’s an extreme form of that insecurity.
Firstly, all personality disorders are a disruption of the narrative self. Secondly, the way the narrative self is disrupted and the coping mechanisms to mend it are different from PD to PD. For BPD, they literally feel like they do not exist unless they’re being interacted with. And this isn’t emptiness as in the feeling you get when you’re alone on a Friday night; when Dr. Curry says ‘identity’ she’s really referring to ‘core sense of self’- when a pwBPD feels empty it means dissociation or derealization/depersonalization, along with feelings apathy, anhedonia, etc. They don’t know who they are unless they’re around people. They don’t “exist” unless they’re around people. They *need* to have someone to tether too in order to feel like a person (and the fear of abandonment ties into this, if they’re alone the Void will consume them, and a lot of pwBPD self harm, either as a means to combat their huge emotions and/or as a way to try and feel something when they’re alone/isolated).
Yeah, some brown noser in corporate America may suddenly take up an interest in golf when he hears his boss talking about how he likes to golf on Wednesday, but that’s not the same thing as having an identity disturbance as is in the case of BPD.
And finally, the idea that you believe that everyone is incredible fluid in personality and easily influenced by outside trends and external factors suggests you either have PD or at the very least PD traits (possibly HPD- part of the diagnostic criteria is easy suggestibility meaning they’re people who follow common trends and are willing to do what others around them want if it means being the center of attention, as Dr. Curry pointed out).
@yanderevenom9793 so very well stated.
@@wildrose5554 i disagree with your opinion.. I think there is an identity issue with people who need to change their style with every trend. She described the identity problem very well
I would love to know who Amber's hair stylist is every day she has a different hairstyle and they're so cute
Lol
You're brave😃 I was thinking the same thing!💕
I wish she could do a podcast on how she was able to trick Johnny. His interview about her where he says she so kind and like a southern bell etc. you see her reflection these traits when Johnny just wants to leave the room when they Argo. Wow I can’t imagine what he went through 😢
Exposed 🤭
Why isn’t the trial on now?
I was diagnosed at one point with Borderline, fell in love with a guy who is Christian, we are now married and I finally read the Bible and Yeshua/Jesus changed my heart and soul. I pray something similar happens for her. I still have times when I slip up and act crazy, but God renews my mind daily. He anoints my head with oil (keeps the flies away from me mentally and spiritually).
What the hell?
No Bible or Jesus will change your BPD soul... you have spirit of Jezebel and party is awaiting you down there
@@MarkMarkko can't tell if you're trolling. If so, it wasn't very funny. If not, you need a padded room.
@@MarkMarkko Why on earth would you say such a thing to a sister? What is it about "love each other as I have loved you" you don't get?
@@M-i-k-a-e-l bcs if you believe BPD, NPD or HPD has changed, then you are decieved. They never change, just put a new mask to manipulate, lie and cheat.
This "sister" has put a good brother in her loop of usage.
If it makes me sick and triggers some flashbacks.... well, I hate to admit it, but to some degree it is "true".... Can EBRSO actually do their job and admit him next time, like seriously.... *cough, cough, cough* huge lawsuit.............................................................💅🏽⏳
Huge, btw.
This also describes megan markle exactly
this psychologist lady is beautiful
Histrionic personality disorder is very trendy today. smh….
I believe @amberheard
Wouldn’t surprise me if she’s writing down what the Dr is saying so she remembers how to act 💀😂
Amber is a typical borderline and habitual liar
I'd say most of the world has this disorder, so is it really something to worry about.
If you think everyone on the world has the disorder, then you more than likely have it yourself and are projecting 🥲
Most of the female world - not male.
@@jedg4746 ok old man, you’ve wandered a bit too far away from FB, let’s get you back where you belong before you hurt yourself
When I was in my twenties I read The Prince, Machiavelli. After which I found The Princessa by Harriet Rubin conveniently lying around for my inspecting grasp, so I read it. I tried to understand it. My biggest take away was that by emulating women energetic tones & behaviors I could pick up women incredibly easy. As an experiment it was rather disheartening because I’m really a very masculine male & immediately realized that all these women were attracted to was a relatable reflection of themselves & not actually me. They made me feel like the perfect man, I didn’t agree. Although I found both of these books enlightening in the perspectives, I don’t really apply them, but beware them, & would rather just be myself. I would rather listen to myself/heart, my environment, & listen to God. I’d rather adventure into the miraculous strange of God’s reign studying greater things than our own small mindedness then to sit & roost over our regular repetitious games. I am a dreamer… I believe in greater things then what the average life has to offer. I absolutely love the golden nuggets I find in the Holy Bible & cultural histories that associate so profoundly with the anomalies I’ve witnessed. There’s humans & cultures out there.
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The biblical god is a malignant narcissist
Not particularly religious, but I just like how you explained this, and for some, this is true.
@AO-wg9ne God's love is true for everyone. Can absolutely help anyone who calls on the name of Christ.
You sound like you may be a covert narcissist
@@heythere6983 Is that your professional opinion, because defamation of character, malpractice, & misdiagnosis are legal offenses. Or maybe I’m just smarter than the buffoon that is you who is innately lazy to observe.? I mean, you’re not exactly a strategist or tactician with your blindsidedness, are you?
You can 🪰.
Yikes
Amber taking notes so she can fake it better next time
So thats why she's got a yellow pad to write in she thinks she a lawyer now....😂😂😂 joking apart now I think the doctor has just described m markle as well, add jada to that and we've got our bogof........ (buy one get one free).
@marcum exe now that was just unnecessary, you're just being mean like AH, to someone you've never seen before or know.
@@LizzieCATs38 thank you Elizabeth.
Hearsay
Wait was this a psychiatrist? Also, is that her personal psychiatrist, and was she explaining disorders that Amber had?? I'm so lost & confused...
She is a forensic psychologist and she was asked to evaluate her. She is not her Dr as a treating Dr would not be allowed to do the evaluation due to the potential bias. The court ordered the evaluation because she claimed to have ptsd as a result of their marriage. (She specialises in ptsd and said she didn't find ah having ptsd).
Ah's personal Dr didn't diagnose her, however her team had her evaluated by another forensic psychologist as well who did diagnose her with ptsd and nothing else, but it seemed she was very biased (it was a very bisarre testimony).
I think, if you look at ah testifying you can see a lot of that histrionic PD.
At least ms.Beredde Hoff is consistent.
Opening statement - lame
Cross - lame
I am to borderline
Hoping u r ok. R u seeing a therapist cuz it will help. Prayers for u😃
this is what i noticed about her shes a copycat, she probably watched too many movies or videos of other influential ppl, she copied their stories and speeches.
Most couples I see in relationships become their partners taste and interests, and how many American Couples want to dress the same. I believe it's called Twinning. I'm sure if all of us had a Pshyc evaluation we would all have a bunch of disorders because we've all been through challenging experiences in life that have an impact on our mental health. If any person wants to judge Amber I would tell them first to go and look at themselves in the mirror. If you can say you have no wounding from your childhood with your parents, ex partners, friends in your past, bosses, and work colleagues, well lucky you! Never judge another person unless you have walked a mile in their shoes. I think the majority of people on this planet are screwed up, there is no normal.
That has zero to do with A💩 purposely seeking revenge thru lying about Domestic and Sexual abuse and using it as a weapon to destroy and bolster self
Amber is not being judged by her personality but her actions towards others. As everyone should be.
Are you triggered?
The difference between that and BPD is that you might see changes through years and years of marriage, like your wife slowly tolerating and actually starting to enjoy your music taste, whereas someone with BPD will completely mirror your opinions and personality, they’ll pretend to be whoever they think you want them to be, in a addition to this someone with BPD has a low threshold for this behaviour, whilst a normal person might be seen to do this after years of friendship, the borderline will do so in having just met their new ‘favourite person’
@@bigeddiespaghetti5618 this isn't actually fully correct. I have BPD and I do not take on other peoples opinions or pretend to be who i think the person wants me to be. I have my own opinions regarding things and I won't change them for others, but I will take on interests (e.g. listen to new music, like new movies/tv shows/games) the other person has, and as I slowly get to know them better then yes, I'll start mimicking the personality in some aspects. Not all of us copy people to that extent.
wauw... she just described my ex to a T
Its intresting to se ms Heard doing stuff during the testemony, sending the subtle message: whatever going on with my pappers are far moore important then whatever foolish thing this lady says.
Wow Dr. Curry is saaaavage
Wants attention that's her
Meghan Markle
Explains why she is a cost cat with Johnny Depp...dressing 😳
Psychologist needs a hair groomer
One of Heard’s first testimonies of the trial, she fit this so well. ‘I just… stared at the floor. I was just paralysed and blah blah blah’. Perfect example of saying words and nothing at the same time.
I think the term for that is "word salad".
This very proud "psychologist" helped throw an abused woman under the bus. congratulations. everything Amber Heard said that Depp did to her is true.
People hate to hear what you said. Johnny is not a saint at all. They are just bad for each other.
AH threw herself under the bus. A serial domestic abuser, she committed perjury on three continents, all while trying to take JD for every cent she could while destroying his life. I can understand why she was so uncomfortable hearing her disorders; she's not used to having her actions exposed, only exposing others. I hope that she continues to work on herself, if not for the people she loves, but, especially for her child.
can we exceute all the people who have these disorders cause I have a feeling they're the reason why the world is such a hell hole.
The way that you wrote that comments says more about you and is the answer to your own question. You are part of the ones you complain about if that’s how you write.
Have you met the people with anti social/narcissistic personality disorder and sociopathic and psychopathic ?
Attention seeker
She wasn't too accurate and her language isn't great... She's not amused other professionals.
This lady testify in front of Johnny depp & couldn’t even brush her hair?
her hair looks fine. calm down andrea
@@VoyagerD relax Bella I was on a cloud
@@Earthboundmisfit1 cool story bro!
@@VoyagerD lol why thank you
@@Earthboundmisfit1 👍
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Is she defending Amber or testifying against her? Please don’t tell me this therapist is giving Amber an excuse for being the way she is --like Amber can’t help it ? Amber is self centered, entitled and mean and only wants her way in everything. This behavior needs to be punished.
Borderline personality disorder is very serious. I’m not sticking up for her, but it would explain many of her actions and thoughts.
She was brought in by Depps team I believe and I think this testimony shows that someone with this type of disorder can be abusive, especially if there is no treatment or therapy happening. In my opinion this will help Johnny and he even told heard he thinks she has Borderline Personality Disorder on one of the recordings, spot on really.
This does not excuse AH of lies
The psychologist is not excusing ms.heard she is stating that this may be the reason as to why she is in fact the short tempered, manic, ‘victim’, abuser.
@@KitKatSukiKat I know it is serious and you’re right the histrionic/BPD explains a lot. (I figured she was borderline years ago). This is a behavior issue that probably started early in life when she got her way in most everything so it only “strengthened” her impulses. I grew up with a sister with this disorder, and it should not be an excuse to being abusive, jealous, selfish, vindictive and entitled. For example , a pedophile is most likely born with some of his innate perverted tendencies, but we should not excuse his acting out his perverted desires because, “he can’t help it”. Odds are the desires began early in life where it started out only as temptation. In my book, one needs to “kill it (impulses) before it grows.” We all have our “demons”, but we must not act on them or the desires only get stronger until it becomes reality and people get hurt- including the perpetrator . I’ve seen this happen with every type of sin inside all of us. Amber got away with so much in life in hurting others to feed her ego. The best thing for her is to get punished so she can rethink her path. I think it will improve her as a human being. I think jail time would do her good.
amber heard a queen
This woman is going on and on without saying much...Some fuvking expert....I don't know if she's saying Abner is good or bad
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She’s not saying either. Clearly her level of explanation is out of the scope of your ability to listen and transcribe lol
Check out the Depp v Heard clips with Dr Shannon Curry explaining BPD/HPD in court. Your questions will be answered.