Stevie Ray Vaughan is a SWEETHEART! | Alcoholics Anonymous AA speakers on Alcoholism Recovery

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @SoberJames
    @SoberJames  5 лет назад +65

    Stevie demonstrates true humility in this rigorously honest share! SHARING IS CARING! JOIN to help carry the message: ruclips.net/channel/UCqy7U-Yv4bWsBmo8HCefsvQjoin

    • @youknowwho5709
      @youknowwho5709 5 лет назад +4

      Love

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +3

      =)

    • @rickgonzales5194
      @rickgonzales5194 5 лет назад +4

      Your break8ng Tradition

    • @youknowwho5709
      @youknowwho5709 5 лет назад +3

      @@rickgonzales5194 these recordings carry the message, serving the singleness of purpose: staying sober and helping others to achieve sobriety.
      Besides, aren't you taking the wrong inventory?

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +3

      +1

  • @nikolaibarbarich7887
    @nikolaibarbarich7887 3 года назад +21

    Pushing 10 months after more than decade of heroin addiction. I've had over 9 months multiple times but this times different. My daughters mother overdosed just 1 month after her 3rd birthday and she's now in my care. She's been my life saver, my rock and my life. Shes helped me more than shell ever know. Love SRV and all the blues greats!

  • @billtownsley8077
    @billtownsley8077 3 года назад +43

    I celebrate 31 years sober this month. April 1st was my anniversary. Very grateful and by the grace of God and people in AA I could not have done it.

    • @gw593
      @gw593 3 года назад +2

      April 1st is my date as well! Congrats on the many years you have! I only have 14 months!

    • @beautifulbuds
      @beautifulbuds 3 года назад +1

      Incredible!! I salute you!!!!

    • @doughartley3513
      @doughartley3513 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT Год назад +1

      Hope 32 4 you

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing @billtownsley8077

  • @j.jennings7743
    @j.jennings7743 Год назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @mandybaby1037
    @mandybaby1037 4 года назад +50

    107 days for me and I've never felt better not to mention I went from rehab to a halfway house during this quarantine this is week 7 . but ive grown and learned so much

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Excellent Amanda! If you want some community, I'm streaming live every day at noon and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL4fufFjMk_prbKWBVuGoiRLayLO4d9D_l
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

    • @doughartley3513
      @doughartley3513 2 года назад

      Great, keep it going. You’re worth every second of your recovery.

    • @DavidSmith-tu1nd
      @DavidSmith-tu1nd 5 месяцев назад +1

      I passed my 4yrs of sobriety in June. Hope you are doing good staying clean. I miss SRV's music. He is another reason why I want to stay clean. I have much respect for his honesty and courage in telling his story.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 месяцев назад

      @DavidSmith-tu1nd good for you David, I’m happy to hear you’re sober. - Stop by for a live stream chat, any weeknight at 9pmET

  • @bradlausen1973
    @bradlausen1973 3 года назад +14

    Ive been sober for over 30 years now and peoples recovery stories never get old .

  • @rellek64
    @rellek64 2 года назад +14

    October 24 2022 I'll have 10 years clean and sober Stevie Ray Vaughan my hero not just as musician but he inspired me on my road to sobriety Rest in Peace SRV🎸

  • @tommatthews7982
    @tommatthews7982 5 лет назад +51

    You’re keeping people sober bro. Stevie Ray was my favourite. When I can’t get to a meeting I come straight to your channel. Thanks from England.🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +4

      Damn brother, I can't seem to express how much that means to me, thank you Tom!

  • @richardprice3816
    @richardprice3816 2 года назад +9

    6 years sober on July 19th, it's a painful journey, however, it is worth it. Change is challenging. I pray God Bless and Recover our family and friends!

  • @mals1959
    @mals1959 2 года назад +12

    Wow...What a fantastic human being! He makes my heart swell.

  • @zacharyhazard6646
    @zacharyhazard6646 2 года назад +8

    Thanks for posting. "I don't always know what I'm thinking or how I feel." Wow. I can relate to this. And it's taken some time to be okay with it. I'm sure I've caused myself some damage from all that I 've done, for so many years. There were times when I couldn't even speak but my mind would be racing. That's not escaping anything, that's being trapped. I knew I was trapped for so long and I stayed there until I was sure I would die. 8 years ago I asked for help. I knew I would miss my friends, my life was going to be different. And it is. My mind still races and I don't always know what it's telling me. Sometimes it makes me doubt myself and ask is it okay to feel okay? Shouldn't I feel doubt? And what should I do with it? But I make it through those times, sober, even if I'm not sure how. And that's okay.

  • @carlolding7699
    @carlolding7699 3 года назад +10

    Carrying the message! SRV opened the door for many! I can't help fantasizing if any of the big three got sober and talked about it openly/ All were members of the 27 club. Hendrix. Joplin. and Morrison. All were rich, famous, and had unbelievable talent. All went out hard and young. Alcoholic and addict teens like me WORSHIPED these folks. Thank God I found the true God through AA before I ended up like my idols. I still listen to their music. It still moves me. Now more than ever!!

  • @steves5113
    @steves5113 5 лет назад +57

    43 days for me today. Hitting the gym hard, starting to feel really good. I'm not going back to the craziness. Without my contribution, I think Coors may have to lay off the 3rd shift @ the brewery.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +3

      Lol nice Steve!

    • @jimwebster7317
      @jimwebster7317 5 лет назад +4

      Stay with it.....you will only get happier and sooo much more. So worth it. You will be amazed. Just give yourself the chance to live sober. You will thank yourself. Coors will do just fine without your contribution..:))...me over 30 years sober. When I went to rehab, the first 24 hours were the worst. You are way past that. It gets easier everyday. Do not fall into the trap of drinking because of some tragedy. Trust me it will only make it bigger and worse. find your natural highs and enjoy them...

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      +1

    • @steves5113
      @steves5113 5 лет назад +4

      @@jimwebster7317 Thank you, Sir!! I appreciate it. Congrats on the 30 years! That's awesome!!

    • @kdubb1208
      @kdubb1208 5 лет назад +5

      Buckle up life’s in session!! So worth it though. Keep it up Steve!

  • @spartan3536
    @spartan3536 3 года назад +6

    Just started sobriety today...gonna be difficult, but I am determined. I must undo that which has binded me throughout my life. 🙏

  • @TheGuitarManUK
    @TheGuitarManUK 4 года назад +16

    Thank you for sharing this. Stevie was always one of my heroes, and always been my favoirite guitarist. And when you hear he was in AA and he was able to admit he couldn't beat his addictions alone, it empowers me to feel it's not weak, it's strength, and I can do it too.
    On another note, it was great to hear him say how he was finally happy in in the last years before his life was so tragically cut short.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      I host live stream recovery meetings everyday at 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist.
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames
      Pledge today for your t-shirt discount on soberJames.com!

  • @m.coldren9328
    @m.coldren9328 3 года назад +7

    I've been sober for almost 13 years now I drank for about 40 years lost everything I had many times over my last rock bottom I found myself homeless jobless and friendless in the Bay area it finally hit me that if I didn't get sober and get it together I would be destined to live the moment I was currently in I had absolutely nothing buy the grace of God I found a detox center and from Thier I went to a sober living house AA meetings 3 times a day then did 6 months at salvation army after that 18 months at a Christian program I was busy all the time made goals got a job read the Bible all the way through and keep going to meetings I look back on my journey and realize it was all the wrong things I did that got me to right place that I needed to be I kept going down the wrong road and God would give me a detour and I'm greatfull for that. Life is good today and I appreciate every little thing. Thanks for letting me share.

  • @dirtydave2691
    @dirtydave2691 4 года назад +41

    One thing one will take notice of after some time of being sober is how much money can be saved by not drinking! Incredible.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      True dat Dave, it's like we get another paycheck.

    • @michaelsomer6829
      @michaelsomer6829 4 года назад +4

      My first meeting was tonight. Im looking forward to being sober and saving money

    • @arunentwistle
      @arunentwistle 3 года назад

      Isn't it just. You realise that you can survive on a lot less :)

    • @tommygamache7352
      @tommygamache7352 3 года назад

      True

  • @jamesewanchook2276
    @jamesewanchook2276 2 года назад +4

    God this is one musician, SRV, I met [won't detail story] in 1982 Los Angelas and I miss so much.. A fellow musician, fellow man and brother alky!!

  • @realdealio1
    @realdealio1 4 года назад +16

    I've never been addicted to alcohol thankfully, but I admire the courage of those who try to stay sober. Peace.

  • @keithwalters8740
    @keithwalters8740 4 года назад +9

    By the Grace of God I was delivered of 15years meth and pornography addiction and the grief of my 24yr old sons death! June 6, 2016! I became free, never looked back. I now share Jesus with everyone I meet!

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  2 года назад +1

      Is Jesus the name of your penis? Kidding!

  • @kathleenblair2518
    @kathleenblair2518 4 года назад +16

    I've been up most of the night with fear and anxiety. It struck my heart when he said that he has a choice to grow or be a shell. I've let up on meeting because I let my job come first and believe that my job is a reflection of my soul. He said he was expected to "know stuff on his own". Self reliance - I've relied on "knowing stuff on my own" and it doesn't work. God bless, I'm going to bed

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Sobriety first Kathleen, I've learned that the hard way. I stream live videos, Mon-Thursday at noon and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist.
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @j.jennings7743
    @j.jennings7743 Год назад +3

    Thank you for posting these truely inspirational stories.

  • @lancebettridge8003
    @lancebettridge8003 3 года назад +4

    Awesome share!! A musical legend! Got home from my home group meeting just now and then listened to this share, just to top the evening off. Keep coming back!

  • @stephenedwardleemusic8997
    @stephenedwardleemusic8997 3 года назад +4

    thanks for this James !!! My first time listening in. Friend of Bill's for 33 yrs. Im Grateful

  • @ragamuffin1605
    @ragamuffin1605 3 года назад +5

    Those are some seriously sick curtains dude! Love 'em! Great video! Love SRV. Thanks for sharing. 3 1/2 years sober here.

  • @metalband
    @metalband 2 года назад +4

    As I was beginning AA and MA his live videos started popping up for me ... had never known he was trying to get sober

  • @MrPopeye776
    @MrPopeye776 2 года назад +3

    Stevie Ray Vaughan my number 1 Musical hero over everybody in many ways Stevie Ray Vaughan is my hero Music And living a clean healthy life. He got clean and sober and stayed sober for four years before he was called Home. I miss my Hero.

  • @MusicCritic2024
    @MusicCritic2024 4 года назад +8

    I heard SRV share at the AA Musicians Meeting in LA back in 1990. Very humble, very nice.

  • @jeremyfossell389
    @jeremyfossell389 4 года назад +11

    Loved that you posted this. This guy is one of my favorite musicians ever and it's awesome that he dove right into the program.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      So humble too. Jeremy, if you're looking for more,
      I'm streaming live every day at 11amEST and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL4fufFjMk_prbKWBVuGoiRLayLO4d9D_l
      I post Zoom meeting invites here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @kdubb1208
    @kdubb1208 5 лет назад +6

    Thanks brother. I’m blessed to be speaking at a meeting tonight and just needed some inspiration. This came in clutch! Thanks James and thanks Stevie!! Unity Service Recovery

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      Unity Service Recovery!
      Glad I could help Kdubb! Plug Sober James channel in your speech?! Huh?! Who said that?👀😜

  • @suebee5225
    @suebee5225 Год назад +3

    Wow Stevie’s childhood mirrors mine, except I stayed away from all drugs and alcohol. I was in no way going to raise my baby the same way I was raised! This world lost a great person when Stevie left us. RIP!

  • @eriksoley6774
    @eriksoley6774 3 года назад +6

    AA really does work, the problem is, it takes 2 years of sobriety to truly understand AA. It is about service to others and making amends, which the alcoholic ego doesn't understand at first.

    • @mikelarsonmusicman
      @mikelarsonmusicman 2 года назад +1

      Yup

    • @bradleyb4920
      @bradleyb4920 Год назад +1

      Yup Yup

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  7 месяцев назад +1

      @eriksoley6774 seems it depends on the individual. “Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly…”

  • @guitarjag1
    @guitarjag1 4 года назад +20

    In this tough time of quarantine I am so glad I discovered your channel....thank you for everything you're doing!

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Thank you James, sorry bout the live stream cutting off, server issues. Lots of people indoors on their computers

    • @guitarjag1
      @guitarjag1 4 года назад +1

      Totally understood...stay safe

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      @@guitarjag1 you too brother

  • @angiebeavers9901
    @angiebeavers9901 4 года назад +4

    Yesterday I had 5 months clean and sober today I have been clean and sober 5 months and 1 day

  • @yyyzzz2991
    @yyyzzz2991 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you for all your videos. I have been listening to them most nights. I have been going to aa for a month now and have meet some amazing people and its really helping me. Your videos help me allot. So thank you !

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      I'm sincerely happy to hear I can help in some way Chris! AA works, I literally bet my life on it. Awesome to hear it dude!

    • @youknowwho5709
      @youknowwho5709 5 лет назад +1

      "Keeping coming back" (to the meetings)

  • @AnthonyFisher-uw2oo
    @AnthonyFisher-uw2oo 2 месяца назад +1

    AWESOME THAT U WERE VOLNERABLE & ATHENTIC! GOD BLESS/GREAT SHARE!

  • @paulahaney9104
    @paulahaney9104 4 года назад +7

    Sense meeting are closed alot. Because of virus I needed this thank u I have 15 yrs

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Congrats Paula! I'm streaming live every day at noon and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist.
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @marcusbrebner811
    @marcusbrebner811 3 года назад +3

    Met SRV in Adelaide Sth. Australia in March 1986. a beautiful Human. I am a life long guitar player and with a life long battle with Alcohol and Class A's. detoxed and went straight to rehab in August/September '86. fallen off the wagon more times than i care to remember. but Ive been off the Alcohol and for quite a few years and off the Smack for 20. Musicians, when giving ALL they got, Die a little with every performance. anyway after 1000's of AA meetings I slowly learned some tools to cope with the obsession and cravings. NO, it aint easy BUT the trick is NEVER give up trying. They promised in AA that the best is yet to come and if I continue to be compassionate , empathetic and Loving......Good things are waiting around the corner. Peace Brothers and Sisters.

  • @allansmasterspowerlifting.390
    @allansmasterspowerlifting.390 5 лет назад +9

    Awesome video. I’m coming up on five years. Cool recovery channel I just subscribed. I love going on Commitments and Telling my experience strength and hope.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      Thanks Allan! Congrats on 5 years! They say, biologically, that's when we get our brain back!
      January will be 4 years for me. Share the love!

  • @melissastorms7960
    @melissastorms7960 4 года назад +5

    Stevie thank you for sharing your story sober since February 5 2017

  • @lonewolffullmoon
    @lonewolffullmoon 5 лет назад +17

    By the grace of God there go I ....oh my my oh hell yes! To bad Tom didn’t get the message thanks for your video’s grateful today!
    P.S. When Stevie died I cried an amazing talent!

    • @flymech03
      @flymech03 5 лет назад +2

      +1

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +3

      Hell yes! I put the link for the tee shirt in the comments if you're interested, I get so many compliments on such a simple tee!
      Yeah, always a shame when they pass.

    • @bobturano1247
      @bobturano1247 3 года назад +1

      It is sad he didn't make the cut

  • @Stu_DLNGR
    @Stu_DLNGR 4 года назад +7

    Man. He was such a heavy dude. I've always loved this man. He wasn't anything close to regular. Metahuman.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      +

    • @jeffreymcneal1507
      @jeffreymcneal1507 4 года назад

      I would not recognize Mr. Vaughn if he fell on my head. It is dangerous to regard Mr. Vaugh's recovery as a "heavy dude," or anything other than a recovering drunk. Maybe a wealthy drunk, but no more a drunk that can afford the top shelf stuff.
      We are not here to broadcast what heavy, groovy dudes we have become. Mr. Vaughn, please shut up and sit down. You are not helping sharing what an amazing transformed heavy dude you are. You didn't impress Amy Winehouse, either.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +4

      @@jeffreymcneal1507 you okay bro? Did you catch mommy kissing Santa Clause and now you hate him and all celebs? You good?

    • @stickofbutter9733
      @stickofbutter9733 3 года назад +2

      @@jeffreymcneal1507 In case you didn't know, SRV was sharing his journey with others that have found themselves stuck on a similar path. Don't shit on someone for trying to better themselves and make difficult changes in their life.

  • @danniecombs38
    @danniecombs38 4 года назад +5

    I've been a tremendous fan of SRV since I was about 14 years old and somehow didn't across this in my 30 years of listening to anything I could get my hands on related to Stevie Ray. That that I'm in my mid 40s, this video has much more meaning than it did when it was made (early 1990, or so I estimate based on his comments). I know so many ppl who have benefited from AA - Thanks for sharing.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      Thank you Dannie! If you want some community, I'm streaming live every day at noon and 9pmEST(see my home page for upcoming streams) and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL4fufFjMk_prbKWBVuGoiRLayLO4d9D_l
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @lindaruss3772
    @lindaruss3772 3 года назад +4

    “Happy to be alive” I so look forward to that day, still not completely there. At least, I’m not hating life!! RIP Stevie!!

  • @josephinesquires8753
    @josephinesquires8753 4 года назад +5

    Just listened to Stevie Ray share his message of hope, Ty for your message 🥰🤗💙

  • @daltongragg8904
    @daltongragg8904 5 лет назад +10

    SRV has been my hero ever since I heard him play Little Wing when I was about 12. He inspired me to pick up a guitar and I’ve been playing for 11 years now. I was damn certain that I’d already heard every recording of him talking, read every article or book about him, Ive read or seen every interview, I’ve listened to every song even the shit quality bootlegs, and I’ve seen every video of him in existence BUT...
    I had never heard this, and this is the best recording of his voice ever. He’s still inspiring me by how honest and raw he is here. Running across this video is once again my higher power talking to me through another person. This tape was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      I love Little Wing! His humility and gratitude is so inspiring in this, and thanks for sharing your sentiments Dalton!

  • @LisaGrisham
    @LisaGrisham Год назад +2

    Stevie Ray Vaughan was and still is, a hero for many alcoholic's, and drug addicts. He was a gifted musician. A great talent!!! A humble and kind man. I don't understand why he was taken from us, when he was still so young. I watch him on u-tube playing in live performances, and it feels like he's still here with us. He lives on in our heart's, through his music and in his interview's. He was a soulful man, and it would have been great to have known him as a personal friend. We love you Stevie.🙏❤️

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  Год назад +2

      Well said, nj9. 🤘

    • @nedcampbell6851
      @nedcampbell6851 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes ,well said brother.Cant help feeling for SRV's close friends and family when it's still so raw for me,being a long time fan ,and all the questions I wish could be answered,even though it's seems pointless ,like why did the pilot take the sudden turn,at such low altitude,just feel ript off for SRV .Just have to feel blessed having what we have from SRV and DT,and all who have played with him .😞😓😔😑🎭🇳🇿

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  11 месяцев назад +1

      @nedcampbell6851 rip SRV 🤘✨

  • @jackschleich9475
    @jackschleich9475 3 месяца назад +1

    this makes me want to call my famous Aa friend. I didn't even know he was famous because he was from an older generation,but hes a really great man. Not Steveie Ray,but another guy.

  • @niallfanning3788
    @niallfanning3788 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for sharing these tapes man.. I really appreciate them.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Thanks for the feedback Niall. Hey, come around and chat every once in a while. I stream live videos, weekdays at noon and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist.
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @adamdavis4973
    @adamdavis4973 Год назад +2

    Proud of everyone giving recovery hell

  • @visam28
    @visam28 4 года назад +12

    Thank You for these. I met Robin William's at an aa meeting in San francisco. He was very nice and went put of his way to make everyone happy.

  • @philimac1278
    @philimac1278 3 года назад +3

    RIP Stevie, 1984 w Huey Lewis & the News Jax Fl. Civic center... 38-SPCL and Lynyrd Skynyrd crew came to support you. What a Great Night...Londonaire Longe, the place of the greats...What a Time...Larry Junstrum you a good dude...TY All...

  • @Vonnie2121
    @Vonnie2121 3 года назад +2

    a very insightful share. Thank you Stevie🥰

  • @MrCretemaniam
    @MrCretemaniam 4 года назад +6

    James I just want to say that I think you are doing a great job and a great service to others ! I was was doing AA in a very small town in Hawaii where I live . I think the biggest crowd we ever had was like 8 people ! Anyway... with the pandemic... no more meetings. Oh and only 2 meetings a week... the other was NA....and all the same people . I see NA and AA as pretty much the same thing. It's all about substance abuse and alcohol IS a drug ! I hope no one jumps me for this point of view. I have actually seen people get in heated arguments over this snd other silly stuff that really detracts from everyone's main goal....to be clean and sober ! Anyway your channel helps a lot ! And the purists or traditionalists or whatever they are who have a be in their bonnet ( to use a more mild analogy than the first one I thought of !) Well maybe those people should realize that the speakers who do not hide their identity but who are famous people are really going to be much more viewed and attract more viewers. What if some newbie kid get's his or her first taste of AA because they wanted to hear it from SRV ? Or Clapton? Or Anthony ? Hey these guys are heros to me and it reeled me in as Im sure it did others ! And Im sure they freely allowed their names being used or these vids would be removed in a minute . Its about saving lives people. That should be the bottom line.... whatever it takes.... within reason. Different times call for different measures. Thanks for your service James !

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      Wow Randall, I couldn't agree more. First, alcohol is a drug, literally by definition. In my opinion, one of the most destructive. Also, we share the exact point of view about speakers. You make some excellent points my friend. Well said.
      I'm glad you found me. If you're interested in a private online recovery community, including a 24/7 recovery chat room and Zoom meetings, consider pledging to my Patreon: www.patreon.com/soberjames

    • @MrCretemaniam
      @MrCretemaniam 4 года назад

      @@SoberJames Thanks for your reply James. Right now I have a very short . Of sobriety under my belt.I am using the speaker option so I don't know how this is going to come out but it's better than typing haha. I responded to that pop up regarding the 30-day pledge for sobriety with the daily emails and so forth.I already signed up for it and I'm glad that I saw thatone of my biggest stumbling blocks in trying to maintain sobriety is my lack of personal focus and I need reminders on a daily basis.I already passed that on as well as your channel to friends out here in the country where we live because we have no meetings anymore.so thanks to you we are getting help from two different sources and I'm very glad that I found your channel and I appreciate it all very much so! I'm going to continue watching your videos and we'll be in touch! Thanks again and be safe!

  • @bullywilson3687
    @bullywilson3687 3 года назад +2

    I needed this today

  • @chrissiebohnert6997
    @chrissiebohnert6997 3 года назад +3

    I am doing these rn ..because of my pot use I am not comfortable at meetings but 15 days in and great.

  • @michaelholbrooks1246
    @michaelholbrooks1246 4 года назад +4

    Thank you James it has took 30 years to hear that it put me to my knees with love I know what he was saying you wouldn’t believe me if I told you he was talking to me

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      I believe it Michael! I'm streaming live every day at noon and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist.
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @dyore6640
    @dyore6640 3 года назад +2

    This has helped me so much day 19

  • @jenni3lov3
    @jenni3lov3 3 года назад +3

    James I'm commenting on the fact that you mentioned let's stop fighting about an 80-year-old tradition and just pass on the love. You didn't exactly say it like that but you know what I mean. That was beautifully said very true. We're all here for the same reason. I'm sure Bill could speak now he would say whatever helps each of us. Nothing wrong with modifying things for today and for the future generation of AA

  • @tobymcgroby8967
    @tobymcgroby8967 3 года назад +5

    This July 1st, will be 4 years of actual, legit, hard earned sobriety. Narcotics were turning me into someone I didn't want to be.
    Although I was facing it alone, hiding it from everyone, poorly, fortunately I had enough sense to listen to the alarms in my head. I was leaning on other things for the first 4 years, other drugs & alcohol, but I couldn't run forever.
    I always thought I needed something extra to function. But I function better than ever without ANYTHING. Weird to find out in the end, but pleasant, I can sit here & just let my thoughts race, panic, wondering if I need something to help push through feelings, but the panic passes pretty quickly, to the point where it's laughable after it passes...
    We don't get to enjoy our sobriety for very long, if we were especially hard on ourselves in our years of destruction. Like Stevie, I feel like something is wrong, like I cheated somehow, but as time passes, & my body grows even stronger, I wonder if this fear of physical consequences is something that will pass too? Maybe I can be normal like everyone else.. Have to try to live well to find out I guess.
    Ugh I'm such a selfish douche lol... After listening to that honest speech from SRV I made a long winded comment about myself. I'm everything that's wrong with social media lmao..

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  2 года назад +2

      lol I’d hate on this message, if it weren’t for the last paragraph. Now I love it.

    • @tobymcgroby8967
      @tobymcgroby8967 2 года назад +1

      @@SoberJames I know right. I'm still on the brink of deleting it

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  7 месяцев назад +1

      @tobymcgroby8967 looking back at this exchange, I feel like I’m the douche for thinking I was cool with my opinions. You shared your truth, rock solid 🤘

  • @Plethorality
    @Plethorality Год назад +3

    Needs to be more support for those coming off sugar! That addiction has stolen so much more than gets acknowledged.

  • @GuyWhoLikesfunnystuff7
    @GuyWhoLikesfunnystuff7 4 года назад +1

    Thank u for being a supporter of suboxone! And congrats on 4 years!! Great speaker tape thank u!

  • @trees3d
    @trees3d 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing this

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  2 года назад +1

      You’re welcome Jeff. Thanks for commenting.

  • @karrysasfoot5407
    @karrysasfoot5407 4 года назад +1

    Way to go....we gotta give it away to keep it....thank you.

  • @thmmke6926
    @thmmke6926 5 лет назад +10

    this should have a million views, im gonna start sharing,

  • @jamesewanchook2276
    @jamesewanchook2276 2 года назад +1

    Love Stevie. So real the parallel to East End Vancouver kid in the 70's. rip!

  • @careybgrant2307
    @careybgrant2307 3 года назад +1

    Thx

  • @Stu_DLNGR
    @Stu_DLNGR 4 года назад +2

    New subscriber. Thanks for this!

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      Thank you Stu! I'm hosting online Zoom meetings now, I post the daily invites on my site: www.patreon.com/soberjames
      Please consider pledging a couple bucks to help me grow the channel ❤

    • @Stu_DLNGR
      @Stu_DLNGR 4 года назад +1

      @@SoberJames ❤

  • @kevinbrown8745
    @kevinbrown8745 4 года назад +3

    kudos soberjames for providing these, and I can imagine other resources. in response to any concerns regarding anonymity, most of our AA experience includes speaker meetings, whereby we place superpower capacity into the hands of another alcoholic-higher power, the sponsor-sponsee continuum, God works in mysterious ways, how or why should fame or notorioty limit or enhance one's propensity to identify with a speaker and receive an important message keeping the listener sober just for today or for the moment

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      I find it valuable that people of all walks of life have to admit powerlessness over their alcoholism.

  • @rcppop3090
    @rcppop3090 2 года назад

    Day two just got out of my first meeting in a long time. Love You Stevie

  • @youknowwho5709
    @youknowwho5709 5 лет назад +3

    Love

  • @billsmith1795
    @billsmith1795 3 года назад +2

    I now find that reality is a better (safer) place for me.

  • @naturewithmarian1823
    @naturewithmarian1823 2 года назад +2

    I tried to stop drinking on my own thought I was ok. But started again back to the habits so now I’m gonna start AA. I feel good when I go without drinking makes me proud and healthy. Healthy Happy New Year 2023 to all of us 🫶🏿

    • @UglyDoug304
      @UglyDoug304 Год назад +1

      I hear you loud and clear. I probably got sober 20 times and relapsed 20 times before I committed to the program in 2003. I celebrated 20 years of sobriety on 4/14/2023. Failure is a huge part of recovery. Spread the word ❤❤

  • @markbritton844
    @markbritton844 4 года назад +5

    I think I am at the point of realizing that I am an alcoholic. Now is trying to figure out what to do with the information.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      Good for you Mark. What to do? aa-intergroup.org/
      AA has your answers brother.
      I host live stream recovery meetings at 9pmEST everyday, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist.
      JOIN to help carry the message: ruclips.net/channel/UCqy7U-Yv4bWsBmo8HCefsvQjoin

  •  4 года назад +2

    2 decades clean off of meth and GHB. Graduated HS in the early 2002 year when cigarettes were a buck forty. Car bumpers were made out of military grade forged steel. The raptors were in the NBA championships and Michael Jordan just made his first free throw from the top of the Sears tower. Then 911 hit and my close colleague Mark Wallberg called me and told me he was going through a dark place in life and found out he had a tumor in his spleen.

    • @ananda_miaoyin
      @ananda_miaoyin 4 года назад +1

      GHB. Threw me in the WayBack Machine right there!

  • @JoshuaElijahC
    @JoshuaElijahC 5 лет назад +3

    I really appreciated this upload. Thank you

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      You're very welcome Joshua, I just posted a Bonnie Raitt interview if you're interested, she's sober too.
      ruclips.net/video/X2R_UVoCSqs/видео.html

    • @JoshuaElijahC
      @JoshuaElijahC 5 лет назад +1

      @@SoberJames thanks. I'll check it out

  • @andyb.1643
    @andyb.1643 Год назад +2

    I’ve been seeing a lot of these on my YT feed lately. It occurs to me that it’s called Alcoholics Anonymous for a reason. We don’t advertise or blow our own horns, especially in the press, radio or film, and by inference, on the internet. I’m glad these celebrities got sober, but it’s a fact that, after a lot of them get sober in AA and brag about it on tv, they relapse spectacularly, and the public gets the impression that AA doesn’t work. I’ve been sober for 32 years, and have pretty much seen it all. Celebrity ego has no place in recovery. Just stating my opinion here.

  • @Da_Xman
    @Da_Xman 7 месяцев назад +1

    "I know that (happiness is) always there, whether I can reach it or not..."

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  7 месяцев назад +2

      🥺

    • @Da_Xman
      @Da_Xman 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@SoberJames
      Hey there SoberdelicJames!
      I meant that in a positive light; Happiness is always there but,
      not too easily understood in light of typical 24/7 situations and mundane chaos.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  7 месяцев назад +2

      @Da_Xman oooohhhhhhhh. I projected, my bad. Good call 👍

  • @easternsunguitarist5791
    @easternsunguitarist5791 3 года назад +2

    Greatest blues guitarist that ever and will ever exist

  • @blakehire3817
    @blakehire3817 5 лет назад +4

    Good morning James! How ya doing buddy. Always good to see your vids.

    • @flymech03
      @flymech03 5 лет назад +3

      +1

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +4

      Good morning Blake! I'm well, and you? Always a pleasure to post a vid 🤗

    • @youknowwho5709
      @youknowwho5709 5 лет назад +3

      @@SoberJames +1

    • @blakehire3817
      @blakehire3817 5 лет назад +2

      @@SoberJames I'm good James. Just got home from my morning meeting here in Northern California.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      Nice! I went to rehab in Temecula Valley, South of you.

  • @JohnnyDollar720
    @JohnnyDollar720 2 года назад +1

    Extremely cool

  • @monolithickm
    @monolithickm 3 года назад +2

    Im an addict, if I wasnt allergic to alcohol then I would have been an alcoholic. god know I tried. today is my first day to recovery, just had a break down and my sins confronted me. My wife god bless her pointed me to your channel. I have already heard so much that has resonated with me and I wonder why Ive never realized this before. thank god my wife has stayed with me and is helping me through this. I hated myself so much, I was so disgusted with myself, if I was alone I wouldnt be here.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  3 года назад +1

      You're not alone monolith, and don't hate yourself. If you resonate with SRV and I, you're probably an addict/alcoholic. It's not a death sentence, or a disability, but it's definitely a reality.
      It's about how you handle it. Admit powerlessness over drugs/booze and leave them behind you. AA brother, run to AA.
      I host #addictionrecovery #livestreams every Mon and Thurs at 9pmEST here on the #soberjames channel.
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat Room: www.patreon.com/soberjames

    • @monolithickm
      @monolithickm 3 года назад +2

      @@SoberJames I've lost my parents house, I don't know how to tell my sister. She is the only blood family I have left and I don't know if she will even want to talk to me after these 4 years. God I've missed my nieses growing up. My wife has a friend who is in the program so I am getting in touch with them in the morning, I feel like I have been asleep for a long time.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  3 года назад +2

      Don't miss that connection with the program. If you do, find another. Here's one: aa-intergroup.org/

  • @davidtostado6948
    @davidtostado6948 4 года назад +1

    Every morning for a year to 14 months and still going thx

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Hey David I'm streaming live every day at 11amEST and 9pmEST, and all past streams are available in my live stream playlist: ruclips.net/p/PL4fufFjMk_prbKWBVuGoiRLayLO4d9D_l
      I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames

  • @MrGreeneyedcat
    @MrGreeneyedcat 4 года назад +6

    I find the inherant inspiration from this srv, share is the uniqueness of the intimate expression of his addiction, as opposed the the unadulterated gladiator he,s was proven to be whilst playing, thankyou for sourcing this material and sharing James, regards brian : ) .

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +2

      I love it too Brian, he's remarkably humble.

  • @ericwright4166
    @ericwright4166 3 года назад +4

    I stopped drinking 25 years ago!
    I will never stop smoking weed tho lol

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  2 года назад +1

      Twenty five years, good God. Good for you.

  • @arunentwistle
    @arunentwistle 3 года назад +2

    If someone agrees to their share being publicly available to help people then that's great. If someone doesn't and wants to stay anonymous then that's totally understandable too.

  • @barbarascotto3873
    @barbarascotto3873 3 года назад +1

    Great shirt BTW

  • @melodeetedder8824
    @melodeetedder8824 4 года назад +1

    Sober James-
    When was this originally recorded? And where?

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Not really sure, Melodee. You can find it on AA.ORG

    • @bahabobby8118
      @bahabobby8118 3 года назад +1

      Austin, tx AA meeting. Probably the Suburban group. That was his home group when he was in town. ( if your still curious )

  • @wolfatnight
    @wolfatnight 3 года назад +1

    did the guy who opened say "pop some subaxone"?

  • @johndunne7558
    @johndunne7558 3 года назад +1

    130 clean it works I am grateful CA mamberb💯

  • @josephinesquires8753
    @josephinesquires8753 4 года назад +1

    Hey James hope your having a great day miss you guys been sick 😩😩❤💚🧡💙

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Jump in the discord! I also host a 24/7 Discord Recovery Chat room and weekly Zoom meetings here: www.patreon.com/soberjames
      Pledge today for your t-shirt discount on soberJames.com!

  • @jimquinn4642
    @jimquinn4642 Год назад +2

    I want to thank you for this wonderful talk that you shared. But I will ask you to do one thing or suggest it, read the book out AA comes of age. There were reasons for that tradition. There are reasons for all the traditions. If we forget our history, I think will be in trouble. I agree with what you're doing and I'm not bashing you. But I just Don't ever want us to lose our traditions and our history. I've been sober 33 years. And it is my concern that this program will be around for the people who want it need it for many years to come. Thanks for being here. 23:21

  • @trip83
    @trip83 4 года назад +4

    Hope you're still making music somewhere SRV.

  • @yonta123
    @yonta123 2 года назад +1

    This one Danny’s, Tony’s and Clapton’s are the best by far.

  • @usa2121
    @usa2121 3 года назад +1

    35 years here........................... whatever it takes.

  • @eddiem8258
    @eddiem8258 5 лет назад +5

    when this dude said "pop some suboxone" i laughed so dang hard.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      😂
      I figured you'd like that Eddie!

  • @flymech03
    @flymech03 5 лет назад +4

    ❤❤❤

  • @alcoholfree6381
    @alcoholfree6381 5 лет назад +5

    Thanks for sharing this message. I have been sober for 38.5 years in AA. I support what you’re doing. I am so sad that Stevie Ray Vaughn and Jimi Hendrix are not around. This talk shows that alcoholism is not a respecter of how famous or accomplished a person has become they can become slaves to King Alcohol and have their lives shortened. I don’t know if alcohol had anything to do with his death in his airplane accident but thank God they had some sobriety.
    Robin Williams was one of us but our sick American culture possibly convinced him that if he couldn’t stay how he was that his life didn’t have any value. Hence suicide became his only choice. There is a wonderful way of life without alcohol, drugs, or false identities. Thanks!!

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  5 лет назад +2

      Well said Thomas, and so true indeed! I value high profile stories like these to teach me and others your exact points. Many thanks to you!

    • @daltongragg8904
      @daltongragg8904 5 лет назад +2

      ***AHEM*** *helicopter crash

    • @gmandersonjr
      @gmandersonjr 4 года назад

      I'm tbi survivor and alcoholic. Suck It up, we can make it.

  • @luciadelia2105
    @luciadelia2105 3 года назад +1

    Congrats to you for cleaning up.

  • @nic_danger
    @nic_danger 4 года назад +1

    Get well soon, James.

    • @SoberJames
      @SoberJames  4 года назад +1

      Been better every day for four years, thanks Nic.