True I think the reason why I never have sex & never really fall in love with someone is that I think spiritual & emotional intellectual love is much more important, the same values and it’s hard to find soulmate, and have a boyfriend is a waste of time if you two don’t get married, partnership is more important
I think true love is that you wanna have kids with the person, you wanna accompany the one, deeply get to understand with patience, and build up the family, is you wanna share the structure the feeling & co-evolving with her/ him.
Woah, if both partners are decent humans it can be a tremendous source of power and a wonderful “why”. If your Wife is petty, hateful and selfish it can destroy a man if he’s too weak to end it. It shouldn’t need to be said but there are good humans and terrible humans, learn to differentiate, some have one bad experience and hate the whole gender afterwards. I pray this message finds you well!
@@tb8827 perhaps, but sometimes outside, uninvolved 3rd party observers can see obvious signs that the People involved are unable or unwilling to see. Validation is irrelevant if you are secure enough in your friendships and marriage to be willing to consider the opinions of those who care, or who your paying to care about your well being. Are you secure enough to consider that seeking therapy is the exact situation I’m describing? Or are you seeking outside validation?
@@tb8827 my lord.....smh. Not at all. However I understand the intellectual and emotional blind spots One might experience when too close to the situation in question. So being open to input to those that care about you is different than being in an echo chamber refusing any input from those that care about you due to you thinking it’s being secure might only cause more problems in the relationship, if problematic enough you might seek therapy for. I never mentioned or promoted seeking therapy for yourself or a couple, that was you. I personally am A supporter of positive mental health and therapy if necessary, however I was simply pointing out the hypocrisy of your statement. Anyway I’m not even married to you and your exhausting me, I can only imagine what your Mr. suffers through. I can’t, you win, I lose, your right, I’m wrong.
@@tb8827 classic female tactic. your beating a dead horse, and nagging a point I’ve already submitted to losing. You win, I lost, your right, I’m wrong. In all seriousness though, I hope this message finds you well. And I pray you have a good day!
its language of the Universe. In Norse Mythology the original "being" was a giant named Ymir, Big Sound or Big Wave, he was killed by Odin and dwarves split his body into many pieces which created all the different tones,sounds, and vibrations of the Universe... I didnt get all the info right..., but please watch this video by Maria Kvilhaug. Its quite mind blowing when you stop and think these beliefs are over 1,000 years old. ruclips.net/video/evE6aLg-_Q8/видео.html
@ 315, Look how when he starts to talk about love changing the light in the room, his hand changes its movement pattern from sharp big moves to softer almost playing piano keys, Or is my weed just better than yours...
People are not addicted to Physical love....it’s their love language. Please don’t pathologist needs....our only hope is we can be with those that can speak to us in those ways.
I disagree. i think we need to be aware of all the love not just want one kind. sure there could be classifications... but i feel that its all important. one needs emotional intelligence
I don't think you can substantiate or break up a feeling such as love into parts there are no different parts there is only 1 Love unconditional love everything else is secondary
I think he was meaning some languages break up the word for "love" as we use it into several words. Greek for instance, "Philos" is loving what you do, being interested, liking a friend. "Agape" is charity, fondness, pity to the down trodden. "Eros" is romantic love, infatuation, idealizing another, possibly 'parataxic distortion'. I believe there's at least one other word.
Imagine being a kid and going to your family Christmas party getting to have long deep conversations with Jim Keller and Jordan Peterson
🤯
Bloody hell, I need to clean my room
@@MatthewOnAMissionFromGod great comment 100%!
"Why did I get this Lobster for Christmas dad?..." :)
I used to be depressed until I fall in love with this one girl that suddenly coloured my life❤️
I love Lex and I love this guy. The mutual respect and the quality of this conversation is beautiful.
True
I think the reason why I never have sex & never really fall in love with someone is that I think spiritual & emotional intellectual love is much more important, the same values and it’s hard to find soulmate, and have a boyfriend is a waste of time if you two don’t get married, partnership is more important
I think true love is that you wanna have kids with the person, you wanna accompany the one, deeply get to understand with patience, and build up the family, is you wanna share the structure the feeling & co-evolving with her/ him.
You continue you ask the real life questions lex and that’s what makes your podcast so amazing
This clip sparks joy
this is one of my favorite answers in the history of the podcast
Right now I feel like Lex but one day I want to have Jim's outlook
I never knew I would be getting profound knowledge from a Computer Architect.
You too are so good together, you should do an episode once or twice a year.
Woah, if both partners are decent humans it can be a tremendous source of power and a wonderful “why”. If your Wife is petty, hateful and selfish it can destroy a man if he’s too weak to end it. It shouldn’t need to be said but there are good humans and terrible humans, learn to differentiate, some have one bad experience and hate the whole gender afterwards. I pray this message finds you well!
Great comment indeed!
@@tb8827 you must be one of those females I described if you can’t see that those people, of both genders, exist. Said in all kindness of course.
@@tb8827 perhaps, but sometimes outside, uninvolved 3rd party observers can see obvious signs that the People involved are unable or unwilling to see. Validation is irrelevant if you are secure enough in your friendships and marriage to be willing to consider the opinions of those who care, or who your paying to care about your well being. Are you secure enough to consider that seeking therapy is the exact situation I’m describing? Or are you seeking outside validation?
@@tb8827 my lord.....smh. Not at all. However I understand the intellectual and emotional blind spots One might experience when too close to the situation in question. So being open to input to those that care about you is different than being in an echo chamber refusing any input from those that care about you due to you thinking it’s being secure might only cause more problems in the relationship, if problematic enough you might seek therapy for. I never mentioned or promoted seeking therapy for yourself or a couple, that was you. I personally am A supporter of positive mental health and therapy if necessary, however I was simply pointing out the hypocrisy of your statement. Anyway I’m not even married to you and your exhausting me, I can only imagine what your Mr. suffers through. I can’t, you win, I lose, your right, I’m wrong.
@@tb8827 classic female tactic. your beating a dead horse, and nagging a point I’ve already submitted to losing. You win, I lost, your right, I’m wrong. In all seriousness though, I hope this message finds you well. And I pray you have a good day!
"He really tired" laugh out fucking loud
The video title was captivating
I felt the look he gave at 2:29 deep in my soul.
You should read the Four Loves by C.S. Lewis!
Love always helps!
This is how I feel when I pick up acoustic guitar. I can speak a greater language than the one men use.
its language of the Universe. In Norse Mythology the original "being" was a giant named Ymir, Big Sound or Big Wave, he was killed by Odin and dwarves split his body into many pieces which created all the different tones,sounds, and vibrations of the Universe... I didnt get all the info right..., but please watch this video by Maria Kvilhaug. Its quite mind blowing when you stop and think these beliefs are over 1,000 years old. ruclips.net/video/evE6aLg-_Q8/видео.html
There are way too many facets of love to explore in just one lifetime.
@ 315, Look how when he starts to talk about love changing the light in the room, his hand changes its movement pattern from sharp big moves to softer almost playing piano keys, Or is my weed just better than yours...
The latter no doubt!
People are not addicted to
Physical love....it’s their love language. Please don’t pathologist needs....our only hope is we can be with those that can speak to us in those ways.
Jim sounds like a fabulous Father
thats really soo good man, thanks lex!
From which text is the quote by Bukowski taken?
Maybe Love is a Dog From Hell. I found this clip, maybe it's not in a text. ruclips.net/video/ktCyKIcdZAo/видео.html&ab_channel=DangerBirdFliesAlone
I think the book is Love Is a Dog from Hell.
The best comprehension of love. Damn!
Elon Musk mentioned Love on JRE and Lex has been hooked ever since
so amazing
Why are you on the other side Lex? I dont like this kind of change and it makes me uncomfortable. Love you, keep up the good work.
I disagree. i think we need to be aware of all the love not just want one kind. sure there could be classifications... but i feel that its all important. one needs emotional intelligence
What is Love 💘? BABY 👶 DON'T HURT ME 😢 NO MORE
Not sure what it is exactly but you probably can’t Code it 🤷🏿♂️
Oh lex. Their is no Stack in love. Technology, and programing won't help with you with the oldest thing.
I can’t even find my words... but ditto thoughts. Much love Lex. You’re too much a pearl to cast before swine!
I don't think you can substantiate or break up a feeling such as love into parts there are no different parts there is only 1 Love unconditional love everything else is secondary
I think he was meaning some languages break up the word for "love" as we use it into several words. Greek for instance, "Philos" is loving what you do, being interested, liking a friend. "Agape" is charity, fondness, pity to the down trodden. "Eros" is romantic love, infatuation, idealizing another, possibly 'parataxic distortion'. I believe there's at least one other word.
hehe
🥳🥳
analog computer tries to explain love to a binary computer
Yeah psychedelics can do that to you
his teeth are yellower than my urine