莉雅, awesome content, fresh perspective and the way you talk cater to the orientals really well. If you wonder what's next, would like to see longer ones, in-depth into the topics, talks converge daily life, culture, philosophy, current/local dynamics, social rules/expectations, life of the people that you are familiar with, aspects that are big in US but not well covered by media/film/not-well-known by the foreigners, because these are the most valuable things. The life may be so different between Chinese and Americans, but there is a common thing that can link both sides past and future, it's the content that can go long and short, shallow and deep, repeat and rediscover. As your audience ages, they will appreciate that, at least, I hope, and it can attract more people to your channel.
If there’s a need, then there’s communication. If a person feel hunger, they won’t hesitate to ask people for food. If there’s no need, then there’s no communication. Is not shyness but the degree of neediness for communication. Plus, sometime is very hard to communicate with someone if there's no "cross event" happening between the two, like going to the same school or working on a same project together. If there it, communication must be happening in order for the work to be done, so that every thing can flow through easily because they serve as a purpose. 譬如有时候很难跟异性打招呼，因为两个人的生活事件根本没有交叉之处，如果有的话，那就是缘分，缘分发生了交互就是理所当然的事情；若如果没有交叉之处，便是无缘，两者大概率就会错开彼此各干各事。所以，没有必要把东西都归纳为是自己的原因，因为有时候的确不是。
Thanks for your sharing! As an introvert i gain a lot from this video. Hope all of us could step out to a bigger world. Here's some suggestions. The Chinese subtitles is an obstacle for me to learn English since I am a native Chinese speaker myself. People always prefer the easiest way to get the comprehension. And that i just can't help my eyes looking at the Chinese subtitles though your English speech is easy to understand. So i hope if you will shut the subtitles in the next videos. Thanks again!
I like your teaching! Please keep up. This video is also very good, I like it that everyone should have their own life, the world doesn’t need everyone to be extrovert. Also, you are very beautiful!!!
Cannot agree more! Sometimes I still cannot control myself to think what other people thinking about me. I accept this feeling and I also fight against this feeling. No matter what, this is the real me. 讲得真好！INFJ深有同感～❤
You look so beautiful. Not sure what makes you feel less confident. But I do agree with your statement "being yourself，its not nessary to change yourself to the way that most people think it should be
Different from the Americans in my impression, especially American girls, this girl is reserved, very peaceful, and makes people feel very good. Especially the black hair has an oriental charm.
“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.” ― Arthur Schopenhauer, Essays and Aphorisms 一个人只有在独处时才能成为自己。谁要是不爱独处，那他就不爱自由，因为一个人只有在独处时才是真正自由的。 --叔本华
You are lucky living in the world people who are concentrated on themselves, there's other parties of world people who care other people more then care themselves. Ha, you might think that is weird but that's is where I grown up...😮
Thanks for sharing with us. I myself behaved the same when I was young and attempted to change but in vain. I struggled before and gave up eventually. I learned to comfort myself - Be yourself
when u have enough experience deal with all kinds of people, it will kame u more confident and confortable with people. i used to be like u before, but when u grow up start to dealling with more and more people, it will change u.
It's not a problem as long as you don't struggle about it. Acceptance is the key. Either accept the fact that you're afraid of being embarassed, don't try to do anything about it, or prepare to accept the any consequence of doing something embarassing. But acceptance is easier said than done. Some kind of spiritual training is needed.
For being yourself, you don't have to listen to others. I actually enjoy being and doing things alone even I have a good family. There is nothing wrong to eat alone, to travel alone or just stay in the situation whatever you like.
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善良，真诚是最重要的，你很棒，喜欢老师！❤
人漂亮，会表达，会多种语言，你有足够的条件在任何人面前自信地注示着对方并与其侃侃而谈。你拍得视频发表，证明你的问题不严重，再者，不是公众人物实在不需为这个而害怕。人们只关注自己，对别人的行为衣着兴趣不大
虽然在不同国家，虽然说着不同的话，但是听着就是那么亲切，仿佛另一个自己
做自己，最开心，不要为迎合他人改变自己。
这个视频 非常真诚，我产生共鸣了
你的分享非常有共鸣 我要全文背诵记起来鼓励和提醒自己 顺便练习英文哈哈哈
是的，我小時候也一直被要求大方表現，因此對於自己的內向害羞感到沒自信，但長越大越覺得那真的是大人不懂得欣賞和教育內向特質的小孩而已。不過還好我是生在台灣，亞洲人還是普遍比較內斂的，只要成績好，是學霸，人也很友善樂於助人，基本上人緣都還不錯，但在美國應該會比較辛苦吧，因為是一個更崇尚外向特質的社會。據說芬蘭人都很社恐😂 但那對我來說好像又太過疏離，內向人其實還是很需要一些知心好友，也更擅於深度交流，所以某種程度我很慶幸自己生在台灣，很熱心但也頗內斂的社會。
为啥你说的英语我听的特别清楚❤。谢谢！
Everyone is different, and this diversity makes the world colorful.
我也是不喜歡去人很多的聚會，一兩位好朋友的小聚還行。
这个世界需要更多包容性，让任何类型的人都可以从容的生活
Well said ! Thanks for sharing and I totally agree with what you have said ! You have a kind heart and God bless !
看起来内向的人都喜欢看书。。。看书真的是最轻松的活动了
Thank you for sharing. Even introvert, you are perfect just the way you are
知道外面世界的事情變化，但不一定要事事自己參與。社交很多是假象，做一個善良的自己，比做其他表面功夫重要。
Ithaca太小太清静了吧，哈哈。自己开心就行，内敛不代表抑郁不开心，自己舒心就好❤
I actually like that you're introverted. I’m an introvert as well, and I think it's great! It's just part of who we are. 我就喜欢你这样内向性格的！
莉雅, awesome content, fresh perspective and the way you talk cater to the orientals really well. If you wonder what's next, would like to see longer ones, in-depth into the topics, talks converge daily life, culture, philosophy, current/local dynamics, social rules/expectations, life of the people that you are familiar with, aspects that are big in US but not well covered by media/film/not-well-known by the foreigners, because these are the most valuable things. The life may be so different between Chinese and Americans, but there is a common thing that can link both sides past and future, it's the content that can go long and short, shallow and deep, repeat and rediscover. As your audience ages, they will appreciate that, at least, I hope, and it can attract more people to your channel.
voice so soft,like it
Thanks for your sharing.👍👍😊
If there’s a need, then there’s communication. If a person feel hunger, they won’t hesitate to ask people for food. If there’s no need, then there’s no communication.
Is not shyness but the degree of neediness for communication. Plus, sometime is very hard to communicate with someone if there's no "cross event" happening between the two, like going to the same school or working on a same project together. If there it, communication must be happening in order for the work to be done, so that every thing can flow through easily because they serve as a purpose.
譬如有时候很难跟异性打招呼，因为两个人的生活事件根本没有交叉之处，如果有的话，那就是缘分，缘分发生了交互就是理所当然的事情；若如果没有交叉之处，便是无缘，两者大概率就会错开彼此各干各事。所以，没有必要把东西都归纳为是自己的原因，因为有时候的确不是。
从抖音看到RUclips，很好的老师。
I feel you. You are amazing the way you are!😊
Be yourself non matter what they say----you are the best!
Thanks for your sharing! As an introvert i gain a lot from this video. Hope all of us could step out to a bigger world.
Here's some suggestions. The Chinese subtitles is an obstacle for me to learn English since I am a native Chinese speaker myself. People always prefer the easiest way to get the comprehension. And that i just can't help my eyes looking at the Chinese subtitles though your English speech is easy to understand. So i hope if you will shut the subtitles in the next videos. Thanks again!
You really are good teacher, I like you! Thank you for sharing!
I like your teaching! Please keep up. This video is also very good, I like it that everyone should have their own life, the world doesn’t need everyone to be extrovert. Also, you are very beautiful!!!
同感❤
Cannot agree more! Sometimes I still cannot control myself to think what other people thinking about me. I accept this feeling and I also fight against this feeling. No matter what, this is the real me. 讲得真好！INFJ深有同感～❤
you're so good 你很好 你说的观点也很棒 我听了之后很受用 -- 为什么人非要是外向的 -- 谢谢你分享你的观点 我很认同你的说法
我第一次在臉書上看到莉雅的影片時，就可以感受到妳是很內向的人
內向不錯啊，我就挺喜歡小孤獨 後藤ひとり的
真漂亮
Hi Leah, thank you for sharing. I find you honest, calm, beautiful and brave. I'd like to be a friend of you ❤
老师的性格非常好，祝你快乐，我爱你老师。
Your style is like a Chinese ,quiet and silence .
訂閱點贊留言支持美女老師❤
其實台灣大多數人也是害羞及不善交際應酬，但其實是內心熱情歡迎外國朋友，祗要願意走出第一步，來到台灣就會感受到這種情況，如果你不願意接觸別人，沒有人會理會你的生活方式！
和我印象中的美国人，尤其是美国女生不太一样，这个女生含蓄内敛，很平和，给人感觉很不错。尤其是一头黑发颇有东方神韵。
ai換頭的
I agree with you!
孔子曰，不学诗无以言，不学礼无以行。诗和礼就是文化境界，社会维度，因此每个人都需要通过学习来不断改进自己。
You look so beautiful. Not sure what makes you feel less confident. But I do agree with your statement "being yourself，its not nessary to change yourself to the way that most people think it should be
Posting on RUclips already makes you stand out of millions.
I feel you.
Embrace your true self. Follow your heart and do what feels right for you. Don’t be swayed by others’ advice-your life is yours to define.
Take it easy, just be yourself :)
喜欢莉雅老师
Different from the Americans in my impression, especially American girls, this girl is reserved, very peaceful, and makes people feel very good. Especially the black hair has an oriental charm.
❤You’re my role model, and I hope one day I can be a bilingual like you.
You are beyond awesome!
I wish you, the kind and lovely one, to always follow your heart and spend every day comfortably and happily.❤
Je suis surpris qu'il y ait autant de commentaires embêtants et arrogants dans la section commentaires.
Accept who you really are. ❤
每个人都是不一样的，自己觉得这样才是最舒适的就不用改变，性格是天授予的，自己很难改变，与其难受，不如坦然面对接受自己的这种性格。
咱俩很像😅
Exceptional beautiful and pure innocent elegant ❤
Very nice looking dress! No need to change your personality, just become confident.
還是美😊
“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”
― Arthur Schopenhauer, Essays and Aphorisms
一个人只有在独处时才能成为自己。谁要是不爱独处，那他就不爱自由，因为一个人只有在独处时才是真正自由的。
--叔本华
莉雅老师不必自责或者改变什么，你很漂亮，语言天才。我小时候也不喜欢在公众面前讲话，开会发言不写出来就语无伦次。你比我强多了，表达清晰，中文很棒！你在波士顿吧？要是在一个城市我会邀请你来我家玩。我孙子怕死人，怕躺着的雕塑，但是不怕跟生人说话；孙女有些腼腆，但是胆子很大，敢拿毛毛虫。
You are lucky living in the world people who are concentrated on themselves, there's other parties of world people who care other people more then care themselves. Ha, you might think that is weird but that's is where I grown up...😮
Thanks for sharing with us. I myself behaved the same when I was young and attempted to change but in vain. I struggled before and gave up eventually. I learned to comfort myself - Be yourself
做自己，活好自己
I have the same problem. The library and bookstore is my favorite hiding places.
A nice video for english learner❤❤❤❤
when u have enough experience deal with all kinds of people, it will kame u more confident and confortable with people. i used to be like u before, but when u grow up start to dealling with more and more people, it will change u.
为什么用 constantly 不用always ?
Many boys and men in Asia are a bit shy compared to European and American who tend to be talkable and confident in public speaking and social events.
It's not a problem as long as you don't struggle about it. Acceptance is the key. Either accept the fact that you're afraid of being embarassed, don't try to do anything about it, or prepare to accept the any consequence of doing something embarassing. But acceptance is easier said than done. Some kind of spiritual training is needed.
Beautiful and nice
爱老虎油
這視頻題目讓我聯想到small talk文化，真的所有美國人都這麼會聊天嗎？？？一定要small talk 嗎？
一位作家曾作出这样的感叹，你的生命与他人无关！当你走出校门后，你仔细 分析一下，你的哪一点进步是在他人的帮助下取得的？在目前的条件下，他人的意义主要在于社会分工：你用你挣的钱换取他人的劳动成果。或与他人合作，完成同一个工程。除此之外，走自己的路，更有利于自己的身心健康。或顺其自然。
我从小到大都很内向😂
我就是我，是颜色不一样的烟火
你好 很喜欢你的视频。我住在加州。希望可以和你有一些视频上的合作
我的英文不是那麼好，不足以確切表達，您很棒，而且獨一無二 👍👍您是否可以關注下聯合國SDGs或者Onehealth行動，可能更適合您！祝您天天快樂🌹🌹🌹
For being yourself, you don't have to listen to others. I actually enjoy being and doing things alone even I have a good family. There is nothing wrong to eat alone, to travel alone or just stay in the situation whatever you like.
请问莉雅老师在美国哪个州呀？太喜欢你了，人如其名清秀莉雅
you are beautiful being. I like you.
😅 that is why we like wfh
👍👍 lovely girl
You are good! Don"t worry.
有去看心理医生吗
莉雅老师非常敬业，教授英语时耐心细致，也很幽默.感觉老师和学生们沟通交流时，非常淳朴善良，还经常提醒大家，一定要吃早餐.祝福莉雅老师，开心快乐每一天！🌹🌹🌹🎉🎉🎉 🙏🙏🙏
在哪里上课，她？
@@bryanjofersion：莉雅老师网上有英语直播课程，每天早晨7:30（中国时间）.明天早上暂时不播，改在今晚9:30.（中国时间）.
@@billliang6056 website?
You are unique 😀
Where you learn mandarin?
Have a good day!Get inspired by your vedio.
您的中文怎么学的？
全网最美英语女教师❤
Come to Taiwan having a vacation, visiting the National Palace Museum. Please!
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shy make girl cute
但是妳很美呀！
内向性格和外向性格没有好坏之分。
Gong Cha ....
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不需要改变，对我来说我不太喜欢那种外向的人，认不认识就上来打招呼，嗨兄弟，无缘无故被搭话，今天过的怎么样。这对我来说并不是很好的体验，我喜欢熟人之间交流，和熟人我可以很open，但是一个陌生人，在没有刚性交集的情况下，我觉得没必要变成熟人。
做自己就好了啊 管人家