6 years unproductive years in ssc and upsc. i m 27 yrs old. i was sitting at home at father's pension. Now I started job in private sector since November 2021. salary is 17k/month. i know salary is low. but u and shwetabh gangawar's videos has impacted my life.
Most important reason is missing. Wrong career path with limited scope is chosen where growth is pretty low / average. When mistake is understood at that point too much time has already passed so can't reverse the things. Skills not properly channelized to growing field with higher scope.
In one of your videos you said "no one ever feels bad after a gym session" and frankly meine is baat ko ratta maar liya hai and even yesterday when i wanted to skip my Yoga class as i was feeling low - i reminded myself this line of yours and went for the class - The lives you are touching is far more than the views and likes you get on social media - and all i have to say is a BIG THANK YOU.
Hi Chetan, I recently started watching your videos. I live in NZ & have been here since last 4 years. I am in my mid 30's. All my life I was in India. When I migrated to NZ life threw a lot of curve balls at me. I was in & out of depression, rumination but survived because of my constant resilience & listening to my inner voice & working very hard on myself both physically, going to gym & emotionally/physiologically.. Everything that you preach in your vidoes is 200% accurate & sane knowledge & I get so much validation & motivation from them. Yes I want to tell everyone who is reading this comment that your videos have kept me going on days where I fall in the trap of self-doubt, pity etc. but one thing is for sure for everyone who is listening to Chetan/ or reading this comment, you gotta help yourself first & pick yourself from however shitty situation/ circumstance you are in or been victim to. We all humans are in billions & no 2 lifes are the same & learn to live with the fact that even if you are the most celebrated personality, at then end of the day you are just a being with limited time & energy. So make the most of it really. Life can be fascinating if you find a little purpose & keep challenging yoursdelf every single day & be humble about it.
All the best my young friend. I cracked JEE in 92 and just visited IITB for silver jubilee reunion of passing out batch of 1996. The best year of my life was the one year I prepped for JEE with no coaching institute but with correspondence course. Just keep enjoying solving problems. Learn new tricks and start appreciating the beauty of the problems. Never worry about result. You will get it.
I spend most of my life in a comfort zone, although the financial condition of my family was much worse. I just didn't care about the struggle that my family is doing for me. But I started to felt kind a regret from inside, which is forcing me to change my habit. Thank you sir for giving me a sweet motivation. I'm a huge fan of your books. Love from NEPALLLLLLL
The best thing about Chtean sir is that everyone can relate to him..I am 16 year old but still very much learn from him. His style of communicating is easy and simple to understand. I learnt to grow daily in life and be 1% better from him. Thank you sir !
@@ravimishra5745 hey nice to know about this. Would like to know what are you trying to do better or changing in yourself after watching his videos, as you already are already successful because you bare a doctor. PS- I am preparing for government job exams. I am trying to stop being lazy and yes trying to break out of comfort zone.
Just because of you sir , I controlled my social media addiction and now i got one more task from you by watching this video . I can do it and i am going to do it . Huge respect for you ❤.
What I learnt from this video. It helps you also who view this comment. 1) Accept If you did wrong with you. "SACH KA SAMNA". 2) Laziness 3) Update yourself in life ,Do something to be better Person 4) Choose friends Carefully-It means your company affect on your life. 5) Don't settle in your comfort zone. Give dare to yourself so you can come out from comfort zone. Thank you sir.
I agree Sir . I will face truth. I will overcome laziness. I will change my mind set. I will cut down wrong company. I will go beyond comfort zone. I will definitely change my mind set and it will change my life. Thank you sir and happy new year. ❤
My learnings from Chetan Sir-- 1. Journaling and daily self analysis 2. Digital detox and social media boycott except YT 3. Youth is gold, so as 22 I give myself utmost importance 4. Avoid people's opinion and care of them 5. Good friends only 3-4 at Max 6. Limited entertainment is boon 7. Prioritise health, I mended eating habits 8. Big goal is ultimate dissected into small goals. 9. Family is important but self growth panacea 10. I avoiding charm of celebrities because I wanna self creator myself. Thanks sir 🙏🔥
MINDSET DETERMINES EVERYTHING Reasons 1 Truth avoidance....escaping from reality...not ready to accept our mistakes 2 Habit of laziness 3 Unwillingness to change 4 Wrong company 5 Being trapped in comfort zone....getting settled for lesser These factors r not dependent on talent nd academics....so if u can work on these nd change ur mindset....u will do well in life!!!
Just want to thank Chetan sir for existing in this community and for giving advice and sharing wisdom like a big brother. Very much grateful for your presence sir. I know, views matter a lot for a content creator and I know you don't get much views on the type of content that you are creating because people don't like to see this type of eye opening content. But still you upload videos consistently for your audience..Very much grateful to have you in our lives sir ❤️
@@ChetanBhagat1 Sir Plz Do Another Live Stream With Shwetabh Gangwar Kaafi Mann Hai Phirse Aap Dono Ko Dekhne Ka Kyunki Literally Philosopher Persona Dikhai Dera Tha.
@@ChetanBhagat1 sir mera experience ye kehta hai log sirf aur sirf ek cheez ki wajah se aage ya piche reh jaate hein auur wo hai "UNDERSTANDING" or "SAMAJ"......jinko life seekhati hai wo late ho jaate hein aur jinke parents seekha dete hein wo kamyab ho jate hein...aur jinki wrong understanding hoti hai kisi b reason ki waja se wo hi nuksan khate hein....but "DUM" sab mein hota hai pr samaj ki waja se maar khaa jate hein
Thank you so much sir as right i felt destracted before watching your videos ...and i actually feel that these whole 8months waste a lot just because chasing somebody but when yt recommend me this video when i watched it carefully then i realise how bad things ...as well waste my whole time but right i am really much clear about myself ...😊 ..thank you so much ...its really help me a lot
Sir i am just not able to figure out what to do in my career. I am jobless. I do not have any company. I am struggling big time'. How to do well . Advice would be helpful
I totally agree with you. Especially about having the right company. I always enjoyed reading, writing & talking to an audience. But I have remained just a lecturer. Now I will do what I really like. Thanks a lot.
Yes, I totally agree.. But I would like to add my personal reason. I was very brilliant student during school. As I grew up my dad (who was a hero for his daughter) started to show imperfections within me in a very toxic manner. Puberty hit me n My self confidence went to 0. I really have severe issues with my dad. I love him a lot n I can't even tell him what he did was wrong.
I have a 1 year old daughter and I m going to raise her with utmost care. I will make her mentally strong. Talk to your father and he will be back to your old papa
Completely agree. I would like to add one more point. That is fear. 1. Fear of what people will say, 2. Fear of failure 3. Fear of struggle. Etc... stop people from achieving their full potential.
Aapki videos dekh k.. My perspective about myself has changed.. I started working on my health, career and family.. All thanks to u sir.. Really grateful to for this❤.
Agree with you sir ! It's the use of time which defines one's life. Laziness, spending time for girls, not willing to come out from comfort zone are the key things that distracts one from his goal and he left a man of hand to mouth.
There are few things which determine your life success or lack thereof - IQ, Attractiveness, Family Resources, Conscientiousness, Neuroticism, Health and Agreeableness. Most of these have a high degree of heritability. Life is just a roll of the dice.
I have been in my comfort zone for last 5-6 months and felt guilty about it unconsciously, now I know why. Thank you for your analysis, this is helpful 👍
Ek to aapka bolne ka tarika hamari sari family mai sabko bahut pasand hai . Bina kisi laag lapet ke aap bahut straight and common man ki bhasha mai samjhate h . Jitna bluntly aap kahte hai shayad hi koi batata hai ..Ek thapad laga dete ho jo jaroori bhi hai Thanks for everything 🙏💖
I am in final year of my graduation... I came to know you in my 6th or 7th class through a G.K book but never thought that would listen u like this....Lots of respect from the bottom of my heart... Thankyou Chetan Sir!
I was earning decently in a job, but my wife kept encouraging me to strive for more and more. This video played a BIG role in taking a step forward. I created a corporate workshop and now I am going to roll that out in market. Thank you sir.
I am preparing for UPSC , I don't use facebook , whatsapp . I am using youtube for current affairs lecture , and sometimes you motivate me for some extra efforts. Anytime when I realise , then push my self from bed to table for study . Keep motivating Sir 🌼🌼
Yes sir i totally agree with you My weight is 75 kg and BMI is 27.2.I tried many times to loose my weight do great in my career but because of laziness and comfort zone I have never maintained consistency and every time I got failed. But not this time I am promising to you and also to me that I will change myself. I will study hard and do yoga exercise to loose weight.
Here, take my energy bro! ⚡⚡ I dont even know you but you took time to comment here about your journey and shared with us which proves that you are willing. And I respect that 🙏
Agreed on all factor. Benefits from your video to me : 1 Faticher life jina bandh Kari de 2 Focused on goal 3 Aacha track bana reh ta he 4 Hard-work kar ne chah bdh ti he ✨✨ Thanks a lot
Thank you for opening my eyes, I have been sleeping for the past 4 months. I was just watching web series, movies, random videos on youtube as I thought I have achieved something so need to take some rest but I took 4 months. from now onward I'll work on my next goal and definitely gonna achieve those goals in 1.5 years.
Whatever you said is absolutely correct, people make those choices consciously or unconsciously. People choose food over fitness, sleep over work and comfort over pain.
I became ur fan the day I read 5 point some one in 2005. When my engineer friend and my roommate recommended me to read it. That was the first book I ever read in my lifetime. And coming to present day. Internet can be boon or curse it depends how you utilise it. Watching item no or listening to successfull people stories and thier struggle and experience. That’s what make you and breaks you.
Sir you have covered all the important points which hinder a person’s growth mindset but one more thing I want to add is comparison with pears and relatives , the constant pressure burden and the frustrations which comes with it .One more thing which hinder some people though its declining now is “ log kya kahenge”. Thank you once again sir for the motivating words of wisdom 🙏🏻
i have watched your video on who is true friend and who is not, basically that video is guiding me by knowing who actually is my well wishers and who are just only pretending and just trying to push me down. thank you
One thing I would like to add, since you said most of your viewers are still studying in college. This is the only time probably when you will have outcomes in your control, meaning you will only have to change things that are directly in your control, e,g studying harder and effectively. Success now will set you up well and things will be relatively easier later on in life. Effort now will pay disproportionate dividends later. As you get out of college your success will depend on many external factors, how you influence others, how others perceive you. Those things are way harder than changing yourself. Now is the time to act.
As you asked if your videos bring any change , I am very happy to tell you that I am now an IITian because of you...well obviously not just because of you but your videos definitely helped. If you remember , I had put a comment some months ago (to ask you to give method or solution instead of stating the problem only) and you took it and applied in your videos (even gave the comment a heart!). Happy to have someone like you helping us!
I agree with you sir. Not because that you are a good personality but you always tell the brutal truth of the life like all the mentor do. Your words hit the soul. Thank you ❣️ for all.
I completely agree sir . I would like to get one point- People are often afraid that if they do something unconventional then they might fail and lose everything , so they follow the rat race in which majority people are trapped. Great video! Thanks a lot!
Sahi kaha.. Whenever I try to focus on doing something unconventional, Govt job ki preparation dimaag mein aa jaati hai. I dont want to prepare for it nor do I want to do a routine job. But itni saari conditioning ho rakhi hai woh break karna hi mushkil hoti hai.
Atif is here .. from the beginning of ur channel i am with u sir . For me u r my GURU sir. I am implementing all ur talk in my daily life & it helping me a lot..
Yes sir I have started my upsc CAPF AC preparation..without any excuse ...no gf no porn no bakbas daily workout...spent time with family ...save money...i will try to be regular 😊.. thank you Chetan sir...
I am addicted to these videos now. After a very long time i am commenting on a video. So well put together and if i could add something then i would say making same mistakes again and again even while being productive.
Bahot kuch sikha hai maine aapke videos se..sabse achchi baat ye h ki ye videos Hindi me hai..larger audience isko dekh sakte hai aur samajh sakte hai.. itni achchi tarah se wohi samjha sakta hai jisne bahot najdik se zindagi k sabhi important ingredients ko dekha aur samjha hoga..hats off to you sir for what you are doing to make the change in our life through your learnings. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Sir I picked up your 400 days I completed it in 10 hrs Was shocked never devoted that amount of time in Reading Loved your book 🥰 Waiting for another great book
I totally agree...n i come up to u to take advice because m a teenager n u r a self made successful man in his 40s with lots of experience and wisdom .. thanks a bunch for sharing these views with us🙏
Sir, I think you are absolutely right. But I want to add one more point that: if you want to do hard work and try to get success, if your mentors guide you in a wrong way whom you trust you the most ,will also deprive you to achieve your goals... Sir pls reply me if I am correct or not🙂
Hello Sir ! Every single word you said is hardcore relatable... I'm going through the same phase of life . Just laying on couch and found your video . You made me realize !!! where i got frozen some between like what's wrong with me ? Thankyou sir !
Sir you change my life now i working on all three pillar first health then career after that relationships.. I never skip any video of you Keep going sir😊🙏
Aap life ki bitter truth ko samane la kr rakh dete ho sir you actually the true youtuber jinke videos se aapki baato se apki experiences se bhut kuch sikhne ko mil rha hai or samjhne ko sir....ki humne life mei kon si mistakes ko krne se bachna hai or kin chizo ko avoid krna hai thanks a lot sir 😊😊
I complete all my task ✅reading book(its like food for my mind) ✅learning new lang ✅martial Arts ✅job ✅content writing ✅helping mom Consistent in everything still feel like somethimg is missing then I remember Chetan's point he mentioned bear with your boredom. Bore hona bhi ek part hai life ka ❤
Having spent a period of time going through your column in TOI, This is my new venture on RUclips. Silver lining of success is thought driving one to where he is. Mending of mind is penecia for success.
Nice, simple and insightful video. To overcome all these issues, I feel there are couple of obstacles for people to overcome. 1. Develop and sustain self confidence at all times 2. Never have fear of failure or fear of success.
It's because of Law of averages.. 95% of the people will be mediocre n less than that only... And Dopamine control nhi hota unhe... Writing this before watching the video that's my knowledge about this topic... Anyways let me watch it now.. ❤️
Sir. Your each n every point is absolutely correct. I myself experienced each one of these. Thanks for making these videos. I often come here n listen to you. It drastically changes my mindset.
Sir last 2 years back I donated one kidney to my brother.after that covid 2nd wave came n previously I was working as a cordinator in a well-known school in bellary but after they them self thought that I can't work up to their expectations..I was at home for month's n I joined a school as a teacher but they give less salary a want me to work coz I am good at teaching but one of my colleague left last year I put to work mine n his work but again the same thing happened this year too..but I asked plz replacement is needed I can't work so..they dint hear.. finally thay said they can't take anyone and I even asked to atleast a half of that persons salary..they dint respond ..I felt stucked up an left the job recently I felt not to work coz I am unable to the job like the old one..now I got a lot of motivation by your videos.. really very happy to hear u in RUclips ths sir.. actually u r my favourite writer too
You are helping in people who want to do better every day .. and we like to listen to authentic advices which are difficult to find ..keep up d good work may god bless you and your cause 😇🙏
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6 years unproductive years in ssc and upsc. i m 27 yrs old. i was sitting at home at father's pension. Now I started job in private sector since November 2021. salary is 17k/month. i know salary is low. but u and shwetabh gangawar's videos has impacted my life.
Motivating bro💯
Ur not alone bhai. Same here.
Upsc me kitne baar P.T nikala tha bhaiya?
Bhai I am 2020 B.Tech graduate... Preparing for GATE EXAM...same feeling...ab job krni hi pdegi
Well done. Happy for you!
1. Mindset
2. Truth avoidance
3. Laziness
4. Unwillingness to change
5. Wrong company
6.Not leaving comfort zone
Most important reason is missing. Wrong career path with limited scope is chosen where growth is pretty low / average. When mistake is understood at that point too much time has already passed so can't reverse the things. Skills not properly channelized to growing field with higher scope.
Very true
Politics is big problem in India.
1. Mindset
2. Laziness
3. Unwillingness to change
4.wrong company
5. People afraid to geeting out of comfort zone
6. Ugly looks can ruin your life
Not ready to face true about themselves
I don't understand hindi, this really helps thank you bro
@@dontcheckmychannel5882 That's an excuse. How does making money relate to looks in a capitalistic society unless you're a model or actor?!
Laziness
In one of your videos you said "no one ever feels bad after a gym session" and frankly meine is baat ko ratta maar liya hai and even yesterday when i wanted to skip my Yoga class as i was feeling low - i reminded myself this line of yours and went for the class - The lives you are touching is far more than the views and likes you get on social media - and all i have to say is a BIG THANK YOU.
Chetan Sir you are a Legend, from being an author to a content creator you are exceptional. A humble man with a towering personality.
Sir aap to guru ho
Hi Chetan, I recently started watching your videos. I live in NZ & have been here since last 4 years. I am in my mid 30's. All my life I was in India. When I migrated to NZ life threw a lot of curve balls at me. I was in & out of depression, rumination but survived because of my constant resilience & listening to my inner voice & working very hard on myself both physically, going to gym & emotionally/physiologically.. Everything that you preach in your vidoes is 200% accurate & sane knowledge & I get so much validation & motivation from them. Yes I want to tell everyone who is reading this comment that your videos have kept me going on days where I fall in the trap of self-doubt, pity etc. but one thing is for sure for everyone who is listening to Chetan/ or reading this comment, you gotta help yourself first & pick yourself from however shitty situation/ circumstance you are in or been victim to. We all humans are in billions & no 2 lifes are the same & learn to live with the fact that even if you are the most celebrated personality, at then end of the day you are just a being with limited time & energy. So make the most of it really. Life can be fascinating if you find a little purpose & keep challenging yoursdelf every single day & be humble about it.
So true!
Thank you for sharing!
Hey, are you here @mallikabedi4661 , may I talk to you!!!
i am preparing for IIT
and thanks to you
my improvements in last 6 months
1) Bounce back mindset
2) walking alone
3) consistency
All the best bro ...crack it
All the best brother
Don't think about the result too much.you will get your desired result
Same bro is with me
All the best my young friend. I cracked JEE in 92 and just visited IITB for silver jubilee reunion of passing out batch of 1996.
The best year of my life was the one year I prepped for JEE with no coaching institute but with correspondence course. Just keep enjoying solving problems. Learn new tricks and start appreciating the beauty of the problems. Never worry about result. You will get it.
I spend most of my life in a comfort zone, although the financial condition of my family was much worse. I just didn't care about the struggle that my family is doing for me. But I started to felt kind a regret from inside, which is forcing me to change my habit. Thank you sir for giving me a sweet motivation. I'm a huge fan of your books. Love from NEPALLLLLLL
The best thing about Chtean sir is that everyone can relate to him..I am 16 year old but still very much learn from him. His style of communicating is easy and simple to understand. I learnt to grow daily in life and be 1% better from him. Thank you sir !
N I am 41 year old doctor, still I learn n grow from his videos without missing even a single one😊
@@ravimishra5745 hey nice to know about this. Would like to know what are you trying to do better or changing in yourself after watching his videos, as you already are already successful because you bare a doctor. PS- I am preparing for government job exams. I am trying to stop being lazy and yes trying to break out of comfort zone.
If you are watching at the age of 16, you are way ahead of a lot people. Best of luck for your future.
Very true 💖
Just because of you sir , I controlled my social media addiction and now i got one more task from you by watching this video . I can do it and i am going to do it . Huge respect for you ❤.
Thank you. Happy to help!
What I learnt from this video. It helps you also who view this comment.
1) Accept If you did wrong with you. "SACH KA SAMNA".
2) Laziness
3) Update yourself in life ,Do something to be better Person
4) Choose friends Carefully-It means your company affect on your life.
5) Don't settle in your comfort zone. Give dare to yourself so you can come out from comfort zone.
Thank you sir.
Yeah! And mindset!
Have never seen such a successful person talk so raw and real ❤️
I agree Sir .
I will face truth.
I will overcome laziness.
I will change my mind set.
I will cut down wrong company.
I will go beyond comfort zone.
I will definitely change my mind set and it will change my life.
Thank you sir and happy new year. ❤
You say blunt truth that no one say , You are an Inspiration Thanks for Life changing Advices .
My pleasure
My learnings from Chetan Sir--
1. Journaling and daily self analysis
2. Digital detox and social media boycott except YT
3. Youth is gold, so as 22 I give myself utmost importance
4. Avoid people's opinion and care of them
5. Good friends only 3-4 at Max
6. Limited entertainment is boon
7. Prioritise health, I mended eating habits
8. Big goal is ultimate dissected into small goals.
9. Family is important but self growth panacea
10. I avoiding charm of celebrities because I wanna self creator myself.
Thanks sir 🙏🔥
Best approach 🔥 buddy we will surely make it in upcoming times
👍
I appreciate your hardwork bro👍
Very gud bro
Thnku for telling in shorts
MINDSET DETERMINES EVERYTHING Reasons
1 Truth avoidance....escaping from reality...not ready to accept our mistakes
2 Habit of laziness
3 Unwillingness to change
4 Wrong company
5 Being trapped in comfort zone....getting settled for lesser
These factors r not dependent on talent nd academics....so if u can work on these nd change ur mindset....u will do well in life!!!
Just want to thank Chetan sir for existing in this community and for giving advice and sharing wisdom like a big brother. Very much grateful for your presence sir. I know, views matter a lot for a content creator and I know you don't get much views on the type of content that you are creating because people don't like to see this type of eye opening content. But still you upload videos consistently for your audience..Very much grateful to have you in our lives sir ❤️
It's my pleasure! Thank you so much ❤️
@@ChetanBhagat1 Sir Plz Do Another Live Stream With Shwetabh Gangwar Kaafi Mann Hai Phirse Aap Dono Ko Dekhne Ka Kyunki Literally Philosopher Persona Dikhai Dera Tha.
@@ChetanBhagat1 sir mera experience ye kehta hai log sirf aur sirf ek cheez ki wajah se aage ya piche reh jaate hein auur wo hai "UNDERSTANDING" or "SAMAJ"......jinko life seekhati hai wo late ho jaate hein aur jinke parents seekha dete hein wo kamyab ho jate hein...aur jinki wrong understanding hoti hai kisi b reason ki waja se wo hi nuksan khate hein....but "DUM" sab mein hota hai pr samaj ki waja se maar khaa jate hein
Thank you so much sir as right i felt destracted before watching your videos ...and i actually feel that these whole 8months waste a lot just because chasing somebody but when yt recommend me this video when i watched it carefully then i realise how bad things ...as well waste my whole time but right i am really much clear about myself ...😊 ..thank you so much ...its really help me a lot
Happy to help!
Why most people don't do well in life.....
1) Truth avoidance
2) Laziness
3) Unwillingness to change
4) Wrong Company
5) Comfort zone
Thnnk u 😃😁
😊
Sir i am just not able to figure out what to do in my career. I am jobless. I do not have any company. I am struggling big time'. How to do well . Advice would be helpful
You are 100 percent right
You are 100 percent right
" Too much comforte is not good in life "🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏
Thank you soooooo much Chetan sir ❤️🤗🙏
Most welcome!
Summary -
1. Escaping the reality
2. Laziness
3. Resistance to change
4. Wrong company
5. not leaving comfort zone
thanks for saving my 16 min
@@shobhitSays being oversmart sometimes lose you a lot
Tx
@@shobhitSays But you have to listen full video.
@@shobhitSays but you lost 16 minutes searching and conforming this comment , didn't you?
I totally agree with you. Especially about having the right company. I always enjoyed reading, writing & talking to an audience. But I have remained just a lecturer. Now I will do what I really like. Thanks a lot.
This is the best channel for someone who want to do well in life.
Sir, u r not just a youtuber, u r a true Guru 🙏.
Sir, you are absolutely correct, I will stop thinking big or try something big when I get into comfort zone.
Yes, I totally agree.. But I would like to add my personal reason.
I was very brilliant student during school. As I grew up my dad (who was a hero for his daughter) started to show imperfections within me in a very toxic manner. Puberty hit me n My self confidence went to 0. I really have severe issues with my dad. I love him a lot n I can't even tell him what he did was wrong.
I have a 1 year old daughter and I m going to raise her with utmost care. I will make her mentally strong. Talk to your father and he will be back to your old papa
Completely agree. I would like to add one more point. That is fear.
1. Fear of what people will say,
2. Fear of failure
3. Fear of struggle.
Etc... stop people from achieving their full potential.
Aapki videos dekh k.. My perspective about myself has changed.. I started working on my health, career and family.. All thanks to u sir.. Really grateful to for this❤.
Agree with you sir ! It's the use of time which defines one's life. Laziness, spending time for girls, not willing to come out from comfort zone are the key things that distracts one from his goal and he left a man of hand to mouth.
People are afraid of taking risks while not taking risks is the biggest risk.
Really agree very well said such simple bitter truth of life. Very motivating video
Thanks a lot!😁
this man always touched my heart by his thoughts and idealogy, huge respect & hats off to you Sir ❤🙌
धीरे धीरे ही सही पर सर आपके वीडियो से मेरे जीवन में परिवर्तन आ रहा है...
आपका बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद ❤
There are few things which determine your life success or lack thereof - IQ, Attractiveness, Family Resources, Conscientiousness, Neuroticism, Health and Agreeableness.
Most of these have a high degree of heritability. Life is just a roll of the dice.
Thats true but still u can overvome it
8:17 Main reason why people are living such lives and that’s the worst trap in anyone’s life that they need to get out !!!
Thank you sir!!!🙏
I have been in my comfort zone for last 5-6 months and felt guilty about it unconsciously, now I know why. Thank you for your analysis, this is helpful 👍
Ek to aapka bolne ka tarika hamari sari family mai sabko bahut pasand hai . Bina kisi laag lapet ke aap bahut straight and common man ki bhasha mai samjhate h . Jitna bluntly aap kahte hai shayad hi koi batata hai ..Ek thapad laga dete ho jo jaroori bhi hai
Thanks for everything 🙏💖
I am in final year of my graduation... I came to know you in my 6th or 7th class through a G.K book but never thought that would listen u like this....Lots of respect from the bottom of my heart...
Thankyou Chetan Sir!
I was earning decently in a job, but my wife kept encouraging me to strive for more and more. This video played a BIG role in taking a step forward. I created a corporate workshop and now I am going to roll that out in market. Thank you sir.
Great job!
I am preparing for UPSC , I don't use facebook , whatsapp . I am using youtube for current affairs lecture , and sometimes you motivate me for some extra efforts. Anytime when I realise , then push my self from bed to table for study . Keep motivating Sir 🌼🌼
Bhai upsc clear kiya kya
Nahi huwa lagta hai
Tiwari bhi hai
Yes ...you have rightly said, comfort zone is disastrous for not doing better in your life, for what you are capable of achieving.
Yes sir i totally agree with you
My weight is 75 kg and BMI is 27.2.I tried many times to loose my weight do great in my career but because of laziness and comfort zone I have never maintained consistency and every time I got failed. But not this time I am promising to you and also to me that I will change myself. I will study hard and do yoga exercise to loose weight.
Yes bro,, Let's do it... 🥰 Don't break the chain... Wish you a good health... Which city you from ?
Here, take my energy bro! ⚡⚡ I dont even know you but you took time to comment here about your journey and shared with us which proves that you are willing. And I respect that 🙏
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Hi Chetan, just wanted to acknowledge that your talks are absolutely eye opening and bluntly honest. Love
Agreed on all factor.
Benefits from your video to me :
1 Faticher life jina bandh Kari de
2 Focused on goal
3 Aacha track bana reh ta he
4 Hard-work kar ne chah bdh ti he
✨✨ Thanks a lot
I agree with you sir. .specially what you said on comfort zone..aapki videos ki help se mjh clarity milti hai..thankyou :)
I am in Goa and watching your videos is actually shaking me up to go back and change my life for the better ❤️
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Thank you for opening my eyes, I have been sleeping for the past 4 months. I was just watching web series, movies, random videos on youtube as I thought I have achieved something so need to take some rest but I took 4 months. from now onward I'll work on my next goal and definitely gonna achieve those goals in 1.5 years.
Huge respect to you!!
Even at this age , you are so motivated and hence guiding us to the right path.
💞
Whatever you said is absolutely correct, people make those choices consciously or unconsciously. People choose food over fitness, sleep over work and comfort over pain.
You just nailed it Chetan! Amazing perspective.
I became ur fan the day I read 5 point some one in 2005. When my engineer friend and my roommate recommended me to read it. That was the first book I ever read in my lifetime. And coming to present day. Internet can be boon or curse it depends how you utilise it. Watching item no or listening to successfull people stories and thier struggle and experience. That’s what make you and breaks you.
Sir you have covered all the important points which hinder a person’s growth mindset but one more thing I want to add is comparison with pears and relatives , the constant pressure burden and the frustrations which comes with it .One more thing which hinder some people though its declining now is “ log kya kahenge”. Thank you once again sir for the motivating words of wisdom 🙏🏻
i have watched your video on who is true friend and who is not, basically that video is guiding me by knowing who actually is my well wishers and who are just only pretending and just trying to push me down. thank you
One thing I would like to add, since you said most of your viewers are still studying in college. This is the only time probably when you will have outcomes in your control, meaning you will only have to change things that are directly in your control, e,g studying harder and effectively. Success now will set you up well and things will be relatively easier later on in life. Effort now will pay disproportionate dividends later.
As you get out of college your success will depend on many external factors, how you influence others, how others perceive you. Those things are way harder than changing yourself. Now is the time to act.
I have changed myself. It's you which made myself a good communicator and finally got a good job..Thanks chetan sir
As you asked if your videos bring any change , I am very happy to tell you that I am now an IITian because of you...well obviously not just because of you but your videos definitely helped.
If you remember , I had put a comment some months ago (to ask you to give method or solution instead of stating the problem only) and you took it and applied in your videos (even gave the comment a heart!). Happy to have someone like you helping us!
U r ryt ....
I agree with you sir.
Not because that you are a good personality but you always tell the brutal truth of the life like all the mentor do. Your words hit the soul.
Thank you ❣️ for all.
I completely agree sir . I would like to get one point- People are often afraid that if they do something unconventional then they might fail and lose everything , so they follow the rat race in which majority people are trapped.
Great video! Thanks a lot!
berojgaar h tu meri trh tabhi gyaan pel rha h
Sahi kaha.. Whenever I try to focus on doing something unconventional, Govt job ki preparation dimaag mein aa jaati hai. I dont want to prepare for it nor do I want to do a routine job. But itni saari conditioning ho rakhi hai woh break karna hi mushkil hoti hai.
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@@hitenisrani4855 18 saal k vyakti ko hi berojgaar bolte h
@@hitenisrani4855 for your kind information aapko remind kra du aapke upar already laakho rupee karch ho gye to get into tier 1 college .
Atif is here .. from the beginning of ur channel i am with u sir . For me u r my GURU sir. I am implementing all ur talk in my daily life & it helping me a lot..
Yes sir I have started my upsc CAPF AC preparation..without any excuse ...no gf no porn no bakbas daily workout...spent time with family ...save money...i will try to be regular 😊.. thank you Chetan sir...
I am addicted to these videos now. After a very long time i am commenting on a video. So well put together and if i could add something then i would say making same mistakes again and again even while being productive.
Covered topic :
1) Mindset
2)truth avoidness
3) Leziness
4) wrong company
5) comfort zone
Very pure and natural video, I will definitely change my life and get out of my comfort zone.
Destiny Matters But Karma Has The Power To Change It 👍
Reading ONE INDIAN GIRL now,,, it's amazing....! Fantastic work by Chetan Bhagat sir....!
Thank you❤️, I think "Consistency" is too needed for doing well in life.
Yes , Completely Agreed
For a Rapid Change in Life. Three things are most beneficial
1.Reading Good Books
2.Physical Exercise
3. Doing Meditation
This was such an awakening session Chetan Sir..💯😭
Bahot kuch sikha hai maine aapke videos se..sabse achchi baat ye h ki ye videos Hindi me hai..larger audience isko dekh sakte hai aur samajh sakte hai.. itni achchi tarah se wohi samjha sakta hai jisne bahot najdik se zindagi k sabhi important ingredients ko dekha aur samjha hoga..hats off to you sir for what you are doing to make the change in our life through your learnings. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Sir I picked up your 400 days
I completed it in 10 hrs
Was shocked never devoted that amount of time in Reading
Loved your book 🥰
Waiting for another great book
Hey which one please guide me
Is this a book pls share link
I totally agree...n i come up to u to take advice because m a teenager n u r a self made successful man in his 40s with lots of experience and wisdom .. thanks a bunch for sharing these views with us🙏
Your name is enough , more reliable and practically applicable
Agreed 💯
I see so many people wasting their lives because of one or many of the factors you mentioned.
Sir, I think you are absolutely right. But I want to add one more point that: if you want to do hard work and try to get success, if your mentors guide you in a wrong way whom you trust you the most ,will also deprive you to achieve your goals...
Sir pls reply me if I am correct or not🙂
Agree and amazing video to the point..
Ofcourse going to implement in my life too.
"Because they listen to their friends, or family or the people around them, and not do the things that they want to."
My part of the story.
So true, ignoring intuition and listening others
i am completely agree with you sir. From today, i am going to change myself and i will focus on my work more properly.
Hello Sir ! Every single word you said is hardcore relatable... I'm going through the same phase of life . Just laying on couch and found your video . You made me realize !!! where i got frozen some between like what's wrong with me ? Thankyou sir !
Definately
Yes absolutely agree with you 👍🏼
Thank you so much for sharing 💐
Sir you change my life now i working on all three pillar first health then career after that relationships..
I never skip any video of you
Keep going sir😊🙏
Strongly agree sir....it's life changing video.. thank you
Why I watch Chetan sir on YT : "Reality check in simple words."
Thanks so much for your kind guidance and sharing Sir Amazing work and I look forward to seeing you soon
Make a video on teenage life lessons sir😁 i will love to watch that
Ys sir
Padhai karle bhai
@@stealthoverflow bhai 10 sal se pdh rha hu kuch nhi ukad paya me
Tune kya achieve kiya?
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Aap life ki bitter truth ko samane la kr rakh dete ho sir you actually the true youtuber jinke videos se aapki baato se apki experiences se bhut kuch sikhne ko mil rha hai or samjhne ko sir....ki humne life mei kon si mistakes ko krne se bachna hai or kin chizo ko avoid krna hai thanks a lot sir 😊😊
I complete all my task
✅reading book(its like food for my mind)
✅learning new lang
✅martial Arts
✅job
✅content writing
✅helping mom
Consistent in everything still feel like somethimg is missing then I remember Chetan's point he mentioned bear with your boredom. Bore hona bhi ek part hai life ka ❤
I absolutely agree Chetan sir. Thank you for such a value addition
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Having spent a period of time going through your column in TOI, This is my new venture on RUclips. Silver lining of success is thought driving one to where he is. Mending of mind is penecia for success.
3 reasons according to me:
1. Lack of Discipline
2. Procrastination
3. Comfort Zone
Thanku will keep it mind!!
Nice, simple and insightful video.
To overcome all these issues, I feel there are couple of obstacles for people to overcome.
1. Develop and sustain self confidence at all times
2. Never have fear of failure or fear of success.
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I strongly agree and love your videos. You are doing a gr8 job. Thumbs up.
I am the first 🥇
Totally agree with u sir....ur videos keep motivated myself....like this always keep motivating people sir
It's because of Law of averages..
95% of the people will be mediocre n less than that only...
And Dopamine control nhi hota unhe...
Writing this before watching the video that's my knowledge about this topic...
Anyways let me watch it now.. ❤️
Sir. Your each n every point is absolutely correct. I myself experienced each one of these. Thanks for making these videos. I often come here n listen to you. It drastically changes my mindset.
Agreed.
You always inspiring everyone..this one not only inspiring one but it showing that what to do for living well desired life.thank you sir.
Agreed. You have hit the nail. One more thing is the feeling of insecurity, if one leaves the comfort zone.
Sir last 2 years back I donated one kidney to my brother.after that covid 2nd wave came n previously I was working as a cordinator in a well-known school in bellary but after they them self thought that I can't work up to their expectations..I was at home for month's n I joined a school as a teacher but they give less salary a want me to work coz I am good at teaching but one of my colleague left last year I put to work mine n his work but again the same thing happened this year too..but I asked plz replacement is needed I can't work so..they dint hear.. finally thay said they can't take anyone and I even asked to atleast a half of that persons salary..they dint respond ..I felt stucked up an left the job recently I felt not to work coz I am unable to the job like the old one..now I got a lot of motivation by your videos.. really very happy to hear u in RUclips ths sir.. actually u r my favourite writer too
You are helping in people who want to do better every day .. and we like to listen to authentic advices which are difficult to find ..keep up d good work may god bless you and your cause 😇🙏