If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho. It's real slavery. Jobless person is more free than u. Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki. In that state you will be free. But to reach that level is very tough
Ye sahi baat hai. If Chetan Bhagat have no Aukat we also have no intrest on Chetan Bhagat. Chetan Bhagat made a class and have intrest. Thankyou Sir for share your experiences. Grateful from heart. Thank you.
Cheetan sir iam from Pakistan and iam 💯 agree with your point when i was in Pakistan see all these things and now iam in Germany.. Now everyone want to talk me and gives respect❤
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day.... I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone.... It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy. But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.! Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships. And I love chetan bhgat...
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households. If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
Agreed with Chetan Sir. I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that. 3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message. Living well is the best revenge. 😉
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Ye feeling..toh mujhe bhi thi ke ladko ki aukkat banani padti hein jo itni aasasan nhi hein compare to ladkiyaan...Thanks Sir for telling this publically
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all .. Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta . Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still. Me apni side se he example de rha hu. Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye. Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain. Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
I agree with you sir बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
Really adds value , very important video. Khud ki life jeeni hai to khud ke pairo pe khada hona padega ... Health , personality aur most imp financial freedom hogi tabhi zindagi me kutch ukhad payenge....
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
Hello Sir, I totally agree with you. Recently a girl rejected me for silly reasons. I work in a company. That’s it I just work. But after seeing this video I feel that I need to step up and make it as a passion and climb as much as possible. I never disrespected any girl in my life it was the first time I shared with her my feelings but it was rejected. I became demotivated. But now the journey kick starts again with a boost. One fine day I will sure come over here and respond on my comment . Thank you once again to divert my feelings, view and thoughts.
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance) A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬 A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣 & for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
Bilkul sir. thanks a lot sir for this . Sach me aisa lag rha ki aap bde bhai ki tarah mere se hi kah rhe ho Abhi se Chutiyapa nahi . Bs hard work 3 videos dekh li or abhi studies kar rha
I literally felt tears in my eyes after watching this video.. you really do connect to the guys listening your session. That's why no doubt you are one of the best authors (and now youtubers) in India. Thanks for your existence and your content sir. 😊❤️
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
Totally agree sir...... U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother.... It means a lot for us........ Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path. Thank You Sir😊🙏
Sir Apko Sabse bada salam hai.Apne ek dost Banke hum sabko Samjhaya hai free mein .waise toh yeh sab gyan Books padhne se hi milte hai lekin apne toh humare liye Khud bol kar samjhaya hai.Love you sir .
Right on point! Sir! Moreover, here the 'auqaat' which signifies a kind of financial integrity is absolutely right, bcz we live in a society/world were the more money means the more social stature. You can't do anything about it, you just have to accept it. But more important is not how others jugde or perceive you, when u don't have auqaat, bcz, it is mere reflection of your own self.
Sir huge respect fr u seriously. Sir my eyes are full of tears and God promise sir when my eyes are just fill with tears ' u said 'ro le' , that is line which literally touches my heart ❤. Every word of yours is absolutely right and i m seeing this practically in my life from almost 2 years. This time i have also locked myself in room due to this reason Aukaat' and just feel that i didn't even exist. Thanks a lot sir.🥰💗💗💗
This is the kind of messaging that made me a fan of yours, when my aunt handed me 'What Young India Wants' some years back. This video is along similar lines. This isn't bitter, it's just sensible. Thank you Mr. Bhagat.
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
I agree with you sir❤️ I had seen in my family they don't value me because of my poor performance in exams yes sir it's very hurts me, one day I will surely made my aukaat sir🥰 your bitter truth video are very relatable & eye opening for me🎉🥰 Thank you sir for such a valuable content 😊😊😊
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore . STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE. keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
When I used to read Chetan sir's books, I used to feel the need to have a best friend like Ryan, Sam, Govind, Krrish, Gopal, Madhav.... Listening to you now who is guiding me to achieve good things in my life feels like I got my best friends 😊😊😊
Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!
Just started watching your channel and I would request youtube to pls recommend his videos to more people, because it is very hard to find a channel with such real content with proper guidance, love and respect ❤ Chetan Sir.
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
I wanna just say that: 1. working on health continuously last 1.5 years. 2. Improving my skill from 1 year to become Web Developer 3. Relation: parents and some countable friend.😊 and perusing 2nd year of my college. Can I get feedback from Mr. Chetan Bhagat.
Very great advise sir in simple words i respect you i couldnt find these costly advise in sandeep maheshwari and many other motivational channel but in your single videos i have feel everthing in my life💓💓i respect you sir💓💓💓
I've been following Chetan sir since four years and I've always seen him as my role model, I am in 12th standard right now and I am thinking of giving NEET this year I'm really thankful of you sir for this because for the recent months I've been really low and cant get my things together because of my past relationships and loneliness. Thank you lot this quick motivation i really needed that.
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Once I was arguing with my mom for branded shoes .That day my mom said to me "First deserve then desire". That line changed my life ☺😚
🥰
Right 👍
Wow
I m a girl and my mom says the same 🤣😂
Its nothing but kanjoosi at all 😂
The real freedom comes only when you are financially free 🙏
financially free and Real freedom are not relatable Bro. i wish you understand one day thankyou. No negative thoughts that i know what you want to say
If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho.
It's real slavery.
Jobless person is more free than u.
Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki.
In that state you will be free.
But to reach that level is very tough
very true..
financially free keya hota hai C @@@dakar
@@cryptonews5253 kya kehrah 🤣, financial freedom is first aur konsa freedom hoota h
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under a condition that he PROVIDES something "
- Chris Rock.
Feminazis will disagree
Exactly God will destroy this anti men world soon
🥶true
Then have multiple wives to get more love multiple children multiple dog
That will multiply the love you get
@@shaizilwarsi7852 Dogs suck
Ye sahi baat hai. If Chetan Bhagat have no Aukat we also have no intrest on Chetan Bhagat. Chetan Bhagat made a class and have intrest. Thankyou Sir for share your experiences. Grateful from heart. Thank you.
"Jisdin aukaat hogi ladkiya apne aap tere pass aayegi"🔥
true words
@rahul.........aur maze ki baat ye hai ki.......aukaat banne k baad ladkiyan zyada bhav deti hai 🤗
I don't think so ..looks matter more for us!!
@@gurleensekhon319 u r right.......lekin insaan ko shakal se zyada akal se smart hona chahiye
@The Quiver if we have multiple girls as friends.......then people will not ignore us, they will not insult us
Cheetan sir iam from Pakistan and iam 💯 agree with your point when i was in Pakistan see all these things and now iam in Germany.. Now everyone want to talk me and gives respect❤
"Women don't care about you , they only care about what you can do for them!"
Only your mother will love you unconditionally !
Always remember this!
Ohh really your mom ur sister and your female friends don't care about you. I am shocked
@@sdevi4759 here the word women is used for wife/girlfriend and not for mother or sister .
True bro very true
Humans* Not only Womens but guys too buddy.
@@Indian2.5 men love idealistically whereas women love opportunistically.
1. Career
2. Health
3. Relationship
Three major pillars of life,
focus and never forgot.
Bro health ki spelling sahi kr lo
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
@@shilpykumari6419 👌💃
@@divinesoul1313 may be he lost the gem. & sure he will regret later full of fake world if someone is caring abt him.. that's fortunate thing ..
@@aatifshah8476 I think..love vo h ...jo apki kamiya bta k apko improve kre...buttering to koi b kr leta h.
No school is teaching this as straight forward as this I wish someone was telling us 15 years back
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
All the best
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day....
I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Focus on carrier and health ... relationship musibat hai..single rho khush rho.. .after success relationship thik hai.. lekin pehle nhi..Agree?
Agree brother
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone....
It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
💯
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Keep in mind,,wat Shivam yadav said ,,, ok ,🙂
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
Bhai which aspirant ?
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
Totally agree! Bando ki aukat unke wallet se hi banti hai.. kadva sach!
Content is valuable and what chetan sir said is obviously correct. 'Men only valued whn they achieve something in their life'.
Applicable to girl as well
@@swapanarakshe3865 yes girls should also focus on their growth
@@swapanarakshe3865 Nice 🙃
@@swapanarakshe3865 I am a simp I value you bcz you are a girl. Now show me any a girl who can say the same for me 😀 .....
@@stevebellingham2319 not just any girl...only beautiful girl with a good character!!!
Unfair, Bitter but Absolutely True. Hope more people talk about this openly.
Lines
Kaash m tumse pyar kr paati matlab y paise se pyar h insan s nhi sir big hats for u 🙏..
6:48 Golden lines...🔥💫
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy.
But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Good bro 🙂🙂
Go bro ♥️
Keep it up bro
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
As a berozgaar engineer, I am living this today and what you said is 100% true.. But I haven't given up just yet, I'll rise and shine..
U will rise
Kyu engineering krli 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😂😝😁😂🌝
@@Sumit_XDF seems like some immature asking the question
Hey, u got this okay
@@Sumit_XDF look just becoz the nation cant provide jobs doesnt mean ull blame engineering.....
Absolutely correct Sir ,
Career+ Health+ Relationship = AUKAAT
Ekdam correct bola sir Aapne . Bitter but truth 😓
Without Aukat koi Kisi ladke ko koi Pyar nhi krta , respect nhi deta 🙏
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.!
Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships.
And I love chetan bhgat...
You are absolutely right bro 👍
But you will always have more options to choose from
Hence higher chance of getting someone better
@@adarshpareek8864
You said true that money gives you power to change the relationship if not working.
Thanks it helped me a lot.
Yes , you are right. Same thing I am also experiencing in my life. But I don't want to earn money just to be loved by some girl.
6:40 true , If you dont have 'Aukat' duniya ko ghanta parak nahi padta if you are even there or not . So build the aukat first !
Every word is precious for a young man whos is lost and confused with life and love.
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Those who have the ability to hear the bitter truth, no obstacle can stop them.....THANKS SIR...👍🏻👍🏻
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
100% right 👍
Kya bkwass Hai ye sab kuch ladke hi kare 🤪 bhai kya gyan de rhaa hai tu
100000000% true
@@knightwing2024 you will not understand. And that's OK. It's not for everybody👍👍👍
@@rajibdeka2207 tu ladki Hai issliye Esa bol rahi Hai pta Hai mujhe bkwass bawandar chup ekdum
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
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Same here
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households.
If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
That is the main problem because you see yourself as girl so please assume yourself as Atma and aatma never discriminates between Boys and girls.
@@MegaGreatape yeah but if they want their own achievements then the thing is different.
Indian youth ladko ko aap jese guider ki zarur he taki aapko sun ke ladki pe time waste karne ki bajaye careers pe time de, you’re great sir
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
The word aukaat is very very important in man's life 💯
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
Agreed with Chetan Sir.
I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that.
3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message.
Living well is the best revenge. 😉
Can you give some key points of your journey..... I am a fe cs student
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on RUclips for guidance.
You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
@@anshulsinha3629 Tech Dose by surya pratap kahar is best for DSA
@@sachin08425 Okay.
Sabhash 😎😎😎
Ye feeling..toh mujhe bhi thi ke ladko ki aukkat banani padti hein jo itni aasasan nhi hein compare to ladkiyaan...Thanks Sir for telling this publically
Chetan bhagat is like that teacher who shows your 'Aukat' in every lecture. Hats off to you Sir.
Thank you so so much sir.
Huge respect sir..
Accidentally I found this video ..
Thanks to God and you too ❤️
Solid video 💪🏻
If the videos were ranked, it would be ranked as No.1.
You are great sir, my life is changed due to you. Thank you so much ❤
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
"Aukaat" is everything 👏 Agreed sir.. This video will definitely change may perspectives 👌🙏
औकात it's not only word it's define life 🔥🔥🔥
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all ..
Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta .
Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still.
Me apni side se he example de rha hu.
Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye.
Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain.
Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
11:07 to 11:19 it's not bitter truth for a man who has self respect and responsible... It's the eye opening line.. 👍🏽
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
yes... mujhe meri aukat se zada chahiye and thanxx to u sir for guiding us
Exactly after 1 year, I will be back here with way more success in my life. This is the promice I make today to myself... ✨
Yes ,mai bhi aaunga
God bless you Bhai ❤️👬
@Ajey Mishra i will be waiting
Yes i also come💯💪
What happened?
Right sir chahe vo girl's ho ya boys,jinka aukaat nhi hota use koi nhi puchhta ☹️🙂
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai
to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
practical aadmi practical batein, your bitter true words are very effective
I agree with you sir
बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है
औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally".
"Chris Rock"
Really adds value , very important video.
Khud ki life jeeni hai to khud ke pairo pe khada hona padega ...
Health , personality aur most imp financial freedom hogi tabhi zindagi me kutch ukhad payenge....
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
Hello Sir,
I totally agree with you.
Recently a girl rejected me for silly reasons.
I work in a company. That’s it I just work.
But after seeing this video I feel that I need to step up and make it as a passion and climb as much as possible.
I never disrespected any girl in my life it was the first time I shared with her my feelings but it was rejected.
I became demotivated.
But now the journey kick starts again with a boost.
One fine day I will sure come over here and respond on my comment .
Thank you once again to divert my feelings, view and thoughts.
There is a statement..."aukaat me rahna.... now i realize.....there should be aukaat 💯 within us....... thankyou for inspiring ❤️.
You just defined everything in direct way with simple words.
Thanks alot sir.
Thanks Mota bhai for giving us the bitter medicine to make our life healthy❤️
Totally agree with you sir 🙌
I will build by Aukaat !!
Only women, child and dogs are loved unconditionally "A man is only loved under a condition that he provides something""
True🔥
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance)
A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬
A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living
If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣
& for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
कटू सत्य वचन- चेतन भाई🙏 ज़मीन-आसमान का फर्क पढ़ जाता है भाई जी लोगों के स्वभाव में अब "औकात" ना हो😓
Bilkul sir. thanks a lot sir for this .
Sach me aisa lag rha ki aap bde bhai ki tarah mere se hi kah rhe ho
Abhi se Chutiyapa nahi . Bs hard work
3 videos dekh li or abhi studies kar rha
I literally felt tears in my eyes after watching this video.. you really do connect to the guys listening your session. That's why no doubt you are one of the best authors (and now youtubers) in India. Thanks for your existence and your content sir. 😊❤️
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
Bilkul sach bol rahe ho sir aap, thankyou so much 🙏🏻
Totally agree sir......
U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother....
It means a lot for us........
Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path.
Thank You Sir😊🙏
Sir Apko Sabse bada salam hai.Apne ek dost Banke hum sabko Samjhaya hai free mein .waise toh yeh sab gyan Books padhne se hi milte hai lekin apne toh humare liye Khud bol kar samjhaya hai.Love you sir .
Remember binge reading his books.. And now the same with these amazing vids. Thanks Sir !
Right on point! Sir!
Moreover, here the 'auqaat' which signifies a kind of financial integrity is absolutely right, bcz we live in a society/world were the more money means the more social stature. You can't do anything about it, you just have to accept it.
But more important is not how others jugde or perceive you, when u don't have auqaat, bcz, it is mere reflection of your own self.
I like your simple words, no complications
Thank you!
@@ChetanBhagat1 always most welcome
Sir huge respect fr u seriously. Sir my eyes are full of tears and God promise sir when my eyes are just fill with tears ' u said 'ro le' , that is line which literally touches my heart ❤. Every word of yours is absolutely right and i m seeing this practically in my life from almost 2 years. This time i have also locked myself in room due to this reason Aukaat' and just feel that i didn't even exist. Thanks a lot sir.🥰💗💗💗
This is the kind of messaging that made me a fan of yours, when my aunt handed me 'What Young India Wants' some years back. This video is along similar lines. This isn't bitter, it's just sensible. Thank you Mr. Bhagat.
Single man in life till today....my heart seeks to meet you...bhaiya.... you are so great 🙏
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
Chetan is the brother who we all want in our lives ❤️
True story. Just realised few weeks ago after losing job at 28. This video just reinforced the reflection.
I agree with you sir❤️ I had seen in my family they don't value me because of my poor performance in exams yes sir it's very hurts me, one day I will surely made my aukaat sir🥰 your bitter truth video are very relatable & eye opening for me🎉🥰
Thank you sir for such a valuable content 😊😊😊
Agreed
You were calling us little brother
Dost thank you sir for all this love and care like our parents ❤️
Thank You very much for making this video!!
As always sir, straight from heart without being filtered.....your every video guide us in our lives to make it more vibrant sir 🙏🙏🙏
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore .
STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE.
keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
Yes, sir you are absolutely right " BINA AUKAT KE LADKO KO KOI NAHI PUCHTA".
When I used to read Chetan sir's books, I used to feel the need to have a best friend like Ryan, Sam, Govind, Krrish, Gopal, Madhav.... Listening to you now who is guiding me to achieve good things in my life feels like I got my best friends 😊😊😊
Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!
You are the person who always show the truth , that's why we love you 💕
Sir, U have rightly touched the nerve of all youth masses by sharing this bitter truth... thank you a lot for guiding us. ❤️😊
Just started watching your channel and I would request youtube to pls recommend his videos to more people, because it is very hard to find a channel with such real content with proper guidance, love and respect ❤ Chetan Sir.
I agree
Yourre honest person and there is pain in your voice❤️💚
Completely agree with you 🙌
Thanks sir for inspiring and guiding through your videos. Not just watching , but also applying them in my life ❤️
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
Start with Small business...Then go for big
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
Choose well and Stick to one of those ideas and pursue that throughout the odds.
Aap bilkul sahi kaha raha hai sir..tqs
I wanna just say that:
1. working on health continuously last 1.5 years.
2. Improving my skill from 1 year to become Web Developer
3. Relation: parents and some countable friend.😊
and perusing 2nd year of my college.
Can I get feedback from Mr. Chetan Bhagat.
add 'Sir' in the last...🙂
Bhai sath mein project kar sakte hai kya? Aap fronted ho ya backend ya full stack
Very great advise sir in simple words i respect you i couldnt find these costly advise in sandeep maheshwari and many other motivational channel but in your single videos i have feel everthing in my life💓💓i respect you sir💓💓💓
Bilkul sahi keh rahe ho sir aap. No one can ask you until you have built something.
I've been following Chetan sir since four years and I've always seen him as my role model, I am in 12th standard right now and I am thinking of giving NEET this year I'm really thankful of you sir for this because for the recent months I've been really low and cant get my things together because of my past relationships and loneliness. Thank you lot this quick motivation i really needed that.