If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho. It's real slavery. Jobless person is more free than u. Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki. In that state you will be free. But to reach that level is very tough
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day.... I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone.... It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy. But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.! Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships. And I love chetan bhgat...
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore . STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE. keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
Agreed with Chetan Sir. I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that. 3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message. Living well is the best revenge. 😉
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on RUclips for guidance. You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households. If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ??? After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her . Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
I agree with you sir बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance) A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬 A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣 & for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
Being a girl I know this is so fucking true men are always judged by what they do how much they earn but girls do not have this same things completely agreed to each and every pt what u said by the way this video was sent to me by my brother 😜
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
Totally agree sir...... U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother.... It means a lot for us........ Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path. Thank You Sir😊🙏
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
Sir , I am a girl and I think today girls also need to build their aukaat, if they get resources, and things are changing, if we don't then the society will fit us into that stereotypical image of conventional women . I agree with you 🙂.
What women desire from men - which is mostly related to their status, is very very different from what men desire from women. It's a very simple psycological difference. So girl building their aukaat is more of for themselves than for the man, where as it is moral duty of the man to do so. Ig that's my observation!
@@tejasverma622 I respect your opinion. But I have a question that why is it not a moral duty for girls to build their aukaat or image and why what a man or a woman desire of each other is so important. Because in our journey from birth to death , we are our own catch , in all the trials and tribulations that we face , it's totally ours . And tbh at the end it's just us. People just cross our paths , giving us memories. So let's do sth for ourselves rather than thinking about attention or desire or anything else. Let me know what do you think.
Agree...but a boy will be judged on the basis of his financial status and girl will be judged on the basis of her looks by society....No body cares if boy is down to earth and has good sense of humor....this is untold truth of society
@@chahakpugalia4931 yes..everything you say is absolutely right...but the thing is we are not talking about ideal thing that what should girl do what is justice and what are ideal things ....here we are talking about present situation. The bitter truth of this society at this present time is that making career for boy is moral duty and for girl is just for increasing their personal luxury.
I came to comment same thing, these days people don't value girls even if they are great at housework. my cousin is perfect housewive, she takes care of kids, elderly in laws, they don't need cooks, nurses, tuition teacher, someone to drop or pick kids, pay bills, pay taxes etc because she does all these, she sleeps at 11 because her husband will come home late and she gives him hot rotis and then wake up again at 5:30 to take care of in laws. She is very pretty, socially active and maintains good relation with entire extended in laws etc. She can cook for 50 people alone etc. But her mother in law still taunts her for not being a working woman.In smaller towns and certain type of business families, non working woman are accepted, but for urban woman it is same pressure as men.
Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!
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Once I was arguing with my mom for branded shoes .That day my mom said to me "First deserve then desire". That line changed my life ☺😚
🥰
Right 👍
Wow
I m a girl and my mom says the same 🤣😂
Its nothing but kanjoosi at all 😂
The real freedom comes only when you are financially free 🙏
financially free and Real freedom are not relatable Bro. i wish you understand one day thankyou. No negative thoughts that i know what you want to say
If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho.
It's real slavery.
Jobless person is more free than u.
Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki.
In that state you will be free.
But to reach that level is very tough
very true..
financially free keya hota hai C @@@dakar
@@cryptonews5253 kya kehrah 🤣, financial freedom is first aur konsa freedom hoota h
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under a condition that he PROVIDES something "
- Chris Rock.
Feminazis will disagree
Exactly God will destroy this anti men world soon
🥶true
Then have multiple wives to get more love multiple children multiple dog
That will multiply the love you get
@@shaizilwarsi7852 Dogs suck
No school is teaching this as straight forward as this I wish someone was telling us 15 years back
"Women don't care about you , they only care about what you can do for them!"
Only your mother will love you unconditionally !
Always remember this!
Ohh really your mom ur sister and your female friends don't care about you. I am shocked
@@sdevi4759 here the word women is used for wife/girlfriend and not for mother or sister .
True bro very true
Humans* Not only Womens but guys too buddy.
@@Indian2.5 men love idealistically whereas women love opportunistically.
1. Career
2. Health
3. Relationship
Three major pillars of life,
focus and never forgot.
Bro health ki spelling sahi kr lo
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
@@shilpykumari6419 👌💃
@@divinesoul1313 may be he lost the gem. & sure he will regret later full of fake world if someone is caring abt him.. that's fortunate thing ..
@@aatifshah8476 I think..love vo h ...jo apki kamiya bta k apko improve kre...buttering to koi b kr leta h.
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Good bro 🙂🙂
Go bro ♥️
Keep it up bro
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day....
I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
"Jisdin aukaat hogi ladkiya apne aap tere pass aayegi"🔥
true words
@rahul.........aur maze ki baat ye hai ki.......aukaat banne k baad ladkiyan zyada bhav deti hai 🤗
I don't think so ..looks matter more for us!!
@@gurleensekhon319 u r right.......lekin insaan ko shakal se zyada akal se smart hona chahiye
@The Quiver if we have multiple girls as friends.......then people will not ignore us, they will not insult us
Content is valuable and what chetan sir said is obviously correct. 'Men only valued whn they achieve something in their life'.
Applicable to girl as well
@@swapanarakshe3865 yes girls should also focus on their growth
@@swapanarakshe3865 Nice 🙃
@@swapanarakshe3865 I am a simp I value you bcz you are a girl. Now show me any a girl who can say the same for me 😀 .....
@@stevebellingham2319 not just any girl...only beautiful girl with a good character!!!
Absolutely correct Sir ,
Career+ Health+ Relationship = AUKAAT
Totally agree! Bando ki aukat unke wallet se hi banti hai.. kadva sach!
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone....
It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
💯
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Keep in mind,,wat Shivam yadav said ,,, ok ,🙂
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
Bhai which aspirant ?
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy.
But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
Ekdam correct bola sir Aapne . Bitter but truth 😓
Without Aukat koi Kisi ladke ko koi Pyar nhi krta , respect nhi deta 🙏
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
All the best
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
Unfair, Bitter but Absolutely True. Hope more people talk about this openly.
Focus on carrier and health ... relationship musibat hai..single rho khush rho.. .after success relationship thik hai.. lekin pehle nhi..Agree?
Agree brother
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally".
"Chris Rock"
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
100% right 👍
Kya bkwass Hai ye sab kuch ladke hi kare 🤪 bhai kya gyan de rhaa hai tu
100000000% true
@@knightwing2024 you will not understand. And that's OK. It's not for everybody👍👍👍
@@rajibdeka2207 tu ladki Hai issliye Esa bol rahi Hai pta Hai mujhe bkwass bawandar chup ekdum
6:48 Golden lines...🔥💫
Every word is precious for a young man whos is lost and confused with life and love.
Lines
Kaash m tumse pyar kr paati matlab y paise se pyar h insan s nhi sir big hats for u 🙏..
As a berozgaar engineer, I am living this today and what you said is 100% true.. But I haven't given up just yet, I'll rise and shine..
U will rise
Kyu engineering krli 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😂😝😁😂🌝
@@Sumit_XDF seems like some immature asking the question
Hey, u got this okay
@@Sumit_XDF look just becoz the nation cant provide jobs doesnt mean ull blame engineering.....
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.!
Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships.
And I love chetan bhgat...
You are absolutely right bro 👍
But you will always have more options to choose from
Hence higher chance of getting someone better
@@adarshpareek8864
You said true that money gives you power to change the relationship if not working.
Thanks it helped me a lot.
Yes , you are right. Same thing I am also experiencing in my life. But I don't want to earn money just to be loved by some girl.
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore .
STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE.
keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
The word aukaat is very very important in man's life 💯
Those who have the ability to hear the bitter truth, no obstacle can stop them.....THANKS SIR...👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
Agreeee sir. Really 💯🔥
औकात it's not only word it's define life 🔥🔥🔥
Agreed with Chetan Sir.
I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that.
3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message.
Living well is the best revenge. 😉
Can you give some key points of your journey..... I am a fe cs student
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on RUclips for guidance.
You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
@@anshulsinha3629 Tech Dose by surya pratap kahar is best for DSA
@@sachin08425 Okay.
Sabhash 😎😎😎
Agree 1000%💯Thnxx 👍
I agree Sir 😊🙏🙏 Love u 🙏❤️
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
Exactly after 1 year, I will be back here with way more success in my life. This is the promice I make today to myself... ✨
Yes ,mai bhi aaunga
God bless you Bhai ❤️👬
@Ajey Mishra i will be waiting
Yes i also come💯💪
What happened?
I agree sir and reality dikha di apne
Agreed 100% thank you sir...
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
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Same here
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households.
If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
That is the main problem because you see yourself as girl so please assume yourself as Atma and aatma never discriminates between Boys and girls.
@@MegaGreatape yeah but if they want their own achievements then the thing is different.
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
Love sir ❤️🤗
Your right
Thankyou for this Video!
Chetan is the brother who we all want in our lives ❤️
Chetan bhagat is like that teacher who shows your 'Aukat' in every lecture. Hats off to you Sir.
Agree sir
Love you for this kind information
Thank you so so much sir.
Right sir chahe vo girl's ho ya boys,jinka aukaat nhi hota use koi nhi puchhta ☹️🙂
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai
to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
If without aukaat boys don't get "love."..❣️
..then girls don't get "freedom".🕊️
Exactly
Haaa freedom is important for girls nowadays
@Whatsapp Backup I think by freedom she meant self -dependence
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ???
After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her .
Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty
If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
Freedom and independent is different....I think independent is better word that is you don't depend on another person for your happiness
Thank you Sir 🌱
Thank you for inspiring💪 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I agree with you sir
बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है
औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
Only women, child and dogs are loved unconditionally "A man is only loved under a condition that he provides something""
True🔥
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance)
A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬
A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living
If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣
& for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
Agree with it thanks soo much ❣️❣️❣️
Exactly sir u just explain my words......
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
Solid video 💪🏻
If the videos were ranked, it would be ranked as No.1.
You are great sir, my life is changed due to you. Thank you so much ❤
❤lovely advices. Straight forward
Sach me bhai teri baate dil ko chhu gayi thanks 🙏
Being a girl I know this is so fucking true men are always judged by what they do how much they earn but girls do not have this same things completely agreed to each and every pt what u said by the way this video was sent to me by my brother 😜
"Aukaat" is everything 👏 Agreed sir.. This video will definitely change may perspectives 👌🙏
Superb Superb Superb... lots of thanks
Thank you sir for ur valuable advice
11:07 to 11:19 it's not bitter truth for a man who has self respect and responsible... It's the eye opening line.. 👍🏽
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
I agree. I have enjoyed this video a lot. Thanks sir
Totally agree Sir .. 🙏
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
You just defined everything in direct way with simple words.
Thanks alot sir.
Totaly agree with you sir, love u
Sir ekdum on point boli baat boli aapne🥺🥺🖤
This is like an Older brother that I never knew I needed . Thanks Chetan 😊
Totally Agreed sir.
This is impact!! 👏👏👏
Absolutely agreed sir !
Totally agree sir......
U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother....
It means a lot for us........
Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Agreed
You were calling us little brother
Dost thank you sir for all this love and care like our parents ❤️
Bilkul sach bol rahe ho sir aap, thankyou so much 🙏🏻
Thank You very much for making this video!!
कटू सत्य वचन- चेतन भाई🙏 ज़मीन-आसमान का फर्क पढ़ जाता है भाई जी लोगों के स्वभाव में अब "औकात" ना हो😓
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
Salute h sir aapko ❣️❣️❣️
Thanku sir 🙇♀
Remember binge reading his books.. And now the same with these amazing vids. Thanks Sir !
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path.
Thank You Sir😊🙏
S.sir..deffnetly bahut motivate hua hoo sir...thanks..
Every and each line is true sir! Thanks 🙏🏻
As always sir, straight from heart without being filtered.....your every video guide us in our lives to make it more vibrant sir 🙏🙏🙏
Sir, U have rightly touched the nerve of all youth masses by sharing this bitter truth... thank you a lot for guiding us. ❤️😊
Absolutely the best ❤️
U R absolutely Right Sir, I experienced the same.
I had two failed startups in life.. i am 32.. i earned money but again my business failed.. i get many ideas in my head and i am confused what to pursue.. i describe myself as cunning and hardworking but things didn’t go well in past.. still i am going on but confused with the ideas that i get in my head…
Start with Small business...Then go for big
Ideas does matter but the main thing is where u put them, putting them in good place is all u need but that's the hardest part so keep trying in different areas👍
Choose well and Stick to one of those ideas and pursue that throughout the odds.
Completely agree with you 🙌
Thanks sir for inspiring and guiding through your videos. Not just watching , but also applying them in my life ❤️
Thanks sir and i agree with you
Superbb Sir...
Sir , I am a girl and I think today girls also need to build their aukaat, if they get resources, and things are changing, if we don't then the society will fit us into that stereotypical image of conventional women . I agree with you 🙂.
What women desire from men - which is mostly related to their status, is very very different from what men desire from women. It's a very simple psycological difference. So girl building their aukaat is more of for themselves than for the man, where as it is moral duty of the man to do so. Ig that's my observation!
@@tejasverma622 I respect your opinion. But I have a question that why is it not a moral duty for girls to build their aukaat or image and why what a man or a woman desire of each other is so important. Because in our journey from birth to death , we are our own catch , in all the trials and tribulations that we face , it's totally ours . And tbh at the end it's just us. People just cross our paths , giving us memories. So let's do sth for ourselves rather than thinking about attention or desire or anything else. Let me know what do you think.
Agree...but a boy will be judged on the basis of his financial status and girl will be judged on the basis of her looks by society....No body cares if boy is down to earth and has good sense of humor....this is untold truth of society
@@chahakpugalia4931 yes..everything you say is absolutely right...but the thing is we are not talking about ideal thing that what should girl do what is justice and what are ideal things ....here we are talking about present situation. The bitter truth of this society at this present time is that making career for boy is moral duty and for girl is just for increasing their personal luxury.
I came to comment same thing, these days people don't value girls even if they are great at housework. my cousin is perfect housewive, she takes care of kids, elderly in laws, they don't need cooks, nurses, tuition teacher, someone to drop or pick kids, pay bills, pay taxes etc because she does all these, she sleeps at 11 because her husband will come home late and she gives him hot rotis and then wake up again at 5:30 to take care of in laws. She is very pretty, socially active and maintains good relation with entire extended in laws etc. She can cook for 50 people alone etc. But her mother in law still taunts her for not being a working woman.In smaller towns and certain type of business families, non working woman are accepted, but for urban woman it is same pressure as men.
Sir you opened my eyes, I would like to thank you for that. I will definitely start focusing what adds knowledge and skillset from now on. Thank you very much!
Every single word is true..Thank you Sir.❤
Heavily agreed👌👌.this is the reality of life sir💯