A lot of asexuals use the split attraction model, so their romantic and sexual attraction are different from each other. The romantic attraction equivalent of asexual is aromantic, which is little to no romantic attraction. Some people can be asexual but not aromantic, aromantic but not asexual, or both (aroace).
To clear some things out. A person can be both asexual and gay/lesbian/straight/whatever, because sexual and romantic attraction are two different things. There is also an aromantic flag.
My Mom has a flag that says “Proud Mom!” With I swear to God, no less than 30 flags on it. I’m happy she’s supportive but girl, even I don’t know what some of those flags are supposed to mean 😂😂
As an asexual person I have absolutely no sexual attraction to anyone but i do feel romantic attraction. There are some people that dont feel either though.❤
@@MBJK_baby attraction ≠ action, asexual people do not experience the attraction part but that does not mean they are incapable of having sex (they may like the feeling and have a sex drive but not experience the attraction, the urge to do it with a specific person), although most do not want to /nm
@@MBJK_babyok then. I don’t and have never experienced sexual attraction to anyone, I’m an adult and I’ve never experienced sexual trauma or any other kind of trauma. And before you say it’s a medical issue I’ve consulted to separate doctors and I’m perfectly healthy. So go on make another assumption. Believe me I wish my sexuality or lack there of was so easy to explain by simple assumptions you make.
Of course the intolerant white people had to take it and change it into something else. They just hate toxic inclusivity, woke isn't what they think it is and people always sound stupid when they complain about being woke
Yeah but he is so right .. don't get it why people overcomplicate things and put the focus on genders and sexuality when people fought for hundrets of years that less focus is set on both.
@@vomm i guess thats true but i think peopel just like to identefy as somthing and are proud of it! Maybe its comforting for them! Still I understand why this may come across otherwise😊
@@vomm have you considered that you don't understand it because its not about you, and if it's important to other people then why not live and let live
Having specific words to express exactly how you feel on the inside is very important to understanding yourself and being comfortable in your own life. For the longest time, I didn’t understand that I was asexual and continuously pushed myself to engage in sex - something that I felt was expected of me because that is what society says I have to do when in a relationship. However, when I learned about asexuality, I finally had a word to describe the complex feelings I had around the act of physical intimacy, and why I would be pushed to tears after sex or why I had to consistently get drunk in order to just engage in sex even with someone that I loved. The amount of relief that I experienced finally having a word to explain my complex emotions was unexplainable. Having these classifications is very valuable for many people.
I have to wonder if the Sims team thinks the gay flag is synonymous with the previous LGBT flag (before the triangle was added) and didn't bother to do research on it.
Wtf is that aroace description. I’m aro and I’d more describe our relationships as “platonic but appears romantic/sexual to outsiders”. I admit, it’s very nuanced and difficult for others to understand, but it’s what some of us feel describes us.
That's something called a queer platonic relationship, a relationship in all senses but no romantic and/or sexual attraction! I'm arospec and my best relationships have been qp
To answer Satch's amusing yapping, the purpose of all these flags is to identify groups within a group. We have the rainbow flag to represent LGBT+ as a whole, and other flags to represent different groupings within that label. Unless a person is within a certain group, they don't need to know a particular flag. The common person isn't expected to know all the different flags, but they know 🌈 = LGBT. Think of it like sports jerseys. The common person displaying a sports jersey of Team 1, the common person thinks "okay that person is a sports fan". A sports fan would think "Ooh! A Team 1 fan! We can talk about sports". And Team 1 fan will think "Omg someone like me!"
just to clear things up, being pansexual means that you dont care about the gender of your partner while when you are bisexual you might have a prefered one
Thanks for adding “might” LOL As a bisexual I always find it super weird when people say that we “see gender” or so (makes it sound super judgy) when that was never even something mentioned in the original meaning of bisexual LOL. Bisexual is liking multiple genders just like pansexual but maybe with a few tweaks
As an asexual, I will give you two easy examples: We are not here for the woohoo part*, but the cuddles, cheek kisses and cakes along the way. And being an asexual and gay for example, It just means you are looking exclusively for a male partner. I hope these little examples shine a bit of light in the confusion. *(some might do, but there is no happy moodlet, unless wicked woohoo).
Yeah, personaly (as an ace myself) I feel a lot LGBT don't really get the difference between Ace and Aro though. At least Satch is honest about his confusion🤷♀️
I'm aroace spec, not here for the woohoo and only for the cuddles, kisses and cake if the other wanted the cuddles, kisses and cake first! ^^ (reciproromantic, only have romantic attraction if someone expresses romantic attraction to me)
@@something6833I'm not sure if Satch is joking when he says that he's attracted to lesbians and especially butch lesbians though. I would suppose that Satch could be joking, but the more he says it, I get suspicious, and he even said that he'd make out with a butch lesbian in a previous video, so he may not be exactly gay if he meant what he said. Oh right, and Satch also said that he'd woohoo a butch lesbian if she had male parts, so yeah. I'm confused, and he may be confused too. lol 😂
bear is a decade old term ... and it very much is a sexual thing (like twink, but the opposite) however it has always had such a huge community and specialized bars/meet-ups that a flag was created! it's like an identification so they could be easier to find. possibly because there really was no online spaces for it yet the blue-green gay flag is very new and not really "official" as it was created by a random on tumblr in like 2019/2020. gay man communities usually just go with the regular rainbow flag or twink/bear/leather flags! lesbian have their own because it is just as old as the other flags and have been widely used historically
basically the bear flag exists because so many fat gay hairy man existed and wanted to meet up decades ago lmaoooo. you could compare it to like how femme and butch lesbians have individual communities and meet-ups with the exception that it's not a sexual thing like bears and twinks
Most of the various queer flags were made on tumblr! As a denizen of tumblr, I've done my research, and you'd be surprised how much of queer culture is made there, and how much queer history is preserved there.
@@christabelle__ actually aware :) but its therefore less known outside of internet spaces. unlike older flags… only exception i can think of is honestly the new lesbian flag because it replaced the lipstick one so quick lol
I've found it's used more in order to explain what kind of person you're attracted to. I have friends who are twinks who are only into twinks, bears who are only interested in bears, and then the ones who would prefer a twink-bear pairing. Just like butch and lipstick lesbians. I do think, though, that it shouldn't be attached to homosexuality as much, because straight women can be butch and straight men can be twinks, yaknow?
Yep! Gays spaces IRL are very different than the ones online. Part of me is nervous for what happens when the tumblr era kids get a rude awakening to what it’s like offline? But I’m sure they’ll settle and find their place
Bears: One of my friends ran the very first bear web site, and he had to come up with an official definition for "what is a bear?" for the site. It's defined as "a bear is a person who says they're a bear." So if you want to be a bear, all you have to do is say you're a bear. Yes really anyone. It doesn't matter if they're thin and hairless, it doesn't matter if they're a woman, if they say they're a bear, they're a bear.
Listen, the current lesbian flag is 100x better than the old one. It's like a sunset. There's also a few variations, but the sunset one is the main one now.
As a Bi person, I don't fully understand the difference between Bisexual and Pansexual either. I just Identify as Bisexual because I like the flag better lol
A bisexual doesn't mind whether you are a man or a woman (and according to some, the central blended colour means they don't mind if you are a flavour of nonbinary either). A pansexual doesn't mind whether the inside of your pants is a p, a v, or a crocodile. Pansexual is more theoretical. Like in a world of aliens or cybernetic body enhancements, you'd still be down.
Hi. I'm neither bisexual nor pansexual so I hope what I'm about to say is correct. Bisexuality is the sexual attraction to cis men and women. Pansexuality is sexual attraction to all genders (trans, cis, nonbinary etc). The term I've heard them use is that they're into "hearts, not parts".
I had a new appreciation for pride flags when it was explained to me that the intensity of the colors’ saturation & spectrum were intentional- paralleling how pride should be unapologetically ‘loud’
😂 That's a fun explanation, but here's the secret: we just like sporting pride colors/flags that aren't literal rainbows, it's not any deeper than that.
@@Usernotfound31231 lol nah fam. It's fun to be profound, but at the end of the day, this is just "the poet said blue so they're obv depressed" level analysis. A couple of the flags? Maybe vibrancy is the underlying intention. Vast majority? Not that serious. Even the literal rainbow flag doesn't have anything to do with being "unapologetically loud." Which is cool. Not everything has to have a big ol' substantial meaning behind it to be relevant or relatable.
@@shikonahserigala5859 for me personaly, i like having a flag that i feel best describes me. it's more fun and personal than the rainbow flag which just means queer
one more thing.... a lot of these classifications are more for the people in the relationship than how they announce themselves to society. My husband is asexual but is attracted to girls which is no big deal to anybody but me, who HAS to understand what an asexual is if I wish to stay in my relationship. Fair?
As an ace person, absolutely fair. I think your husband is alloromantic, meaning he can experience romantic attraction normally (and allo isn't a label technically, it's just the umbrella for any non-aromantic identities), just no sexual attraction, which is honestly not talked about enough, someone being asexual but alloromantic
thank you for this comment. we are still trying to figure out our unique relationship =) it isnt all flowers for me since I LOVE sex but I also love him... lol better friends than lovers, right? @@JustASillyReally
perfectly describes him.... thank you so much!!!! honestly!!! Aromanticism is defined as "having little or no romantic feeling towards others: experiencing little or no romantic desire or attraction". The term aromantic was added to the Oxford English Dictionary in 2018.@@JustASillyReally
I’m not spokesman on gender issues, but I believe genderfluid is not when you _do_ something that is considered masculine or feminine. It’s more about how you actually identify yourself, how you feel on the inside. And it’s not necessary two basic genders (male/female). But that’s info I’ve gathered trough years. I think actual genderfluid people will explain it better.)
Hi, genderfluid enby here! You got that right; there are three dimensions: 1. sexual orientation/preference e.g. ace/allo, gay, bi etc., 2. gender e.g. trans-/cis- male, female, enby, agender (all with loads of subcategories) and 3. gender expression = the way one dresses, talks, walks etc. 😊
Yep, genderfluid generally means you identify differently on different days and may dress differently and prefer different pronouns on those days. Sadly they are often stuck with lifelong body dysmorphia because no set body will suit them every day.
Honestly, I wish to see more of you building/furnishing videos in the sims. I find the way you make the houses very refreshing. Other simmers they clutter the heck out of their houses and while it looks great and I like to watch them, the way you do it feels much more realistic, like the phone on the bed, a (not)storage room, less clutter in the kitchen as you usually need more space to prep. Idk, it's something different and not just all about the visual aspect. I really like it, I'll look forward for some more of these.
we don't need to cancel this man, we must protect him at all costs😂 its honestly a breath of fresh air to hear someone just being real and freely talking about this stuff without being scared of offending anyone
@@shreksoffspring not “pick me” have my own thoughts and feelings I like Blaire white u gonna start crying? Because satch follows her aswell - I like buck angel and Marcus dib being WOKE is bad because it makes you miserable Also pick me isn’t this - a pick me is someone who has extreme issues and seeks out validation from men. It’s putting other woman down for a man I have not done anything like that - I have my own brain and have my own thoughts and feelings. That’s not what a pick me is.
I think the labels give those who are unsure or marginalized in their communities and homes a safe place to belong and know they aren’t alone. Knowing you aren’t the only one to feel this way is so powerful. Especially if those feelings single you out for abuse.❤
the rainbow flag expresses pride as a whole while the individual flags represent their respective identities it’s actually so weird that homosexual doesn’t receive their own flag, but lesbians get both variations 😭 an embarrassing oversight for a game that really prides itself on representation
Why is no one talking about how well you did this challenge?! My favorite is the kitchen, I think you nailed it! But the rest of the house was done really well too!
The rainbow flag makes the most sense because the whole idea is the rainbow is a representation of the entire colour spectrum. By design it encompasses everybody.
LESBIANS ARE HOMOSEXUALS THO ☹️ we deserve to be taken seriously as same sex attracted and its seriously bothersome when people don’t consider us homosexual
As a genderfluid person, I interpret it as not feeling like a good fit for either binary option. I mostly present as my assigned at birth gender (biological sex) but I feel most comfortable when using gender-neutral pronouns and feel discomfort when other people project their heteronormative expectations on me. The happiness I felt when first using “they/them” was liberating. As a pansexual, I used to identify as bisexual and once I recognised my own gender fluidity, I knew that I actually was pansexual (otherwise I wouldn’t be attracted to someone like myself and that felt… wrong). I still do plenty of things tied to my biological sex and there’s a lot of people like me from what I see in online communities!
Educational and entertaining. I knew a few of these flags, but not all, and the comments section has been helpful for clearer understanding about a few orientations.
Asexual here, it's a bit of a grey area so to speak and some of the descriptions of it online are very vague, for me personally I find guys attractive and can be romantic with them but find the thought of sex with them or anyone both grosses me out and freaks me out, just a big no to that side of things.
Heres a quick, and more understandable rundown Asexual: feeling little to no sexual attraction Aroace: feeling little to no sexual AND romantic attraction (aroace is a mixture of asexual and aromantic. Aromantic being feeling little to no romantic attraction). Pansexual: sexual attraction to people regardless of gender. Basically like saying you like all genders --nbs included--, and is kind of a subset of bisexual. Bisexual is sexual attraction to two or more genders. Honestly bisexual/pansexual really confuse me but theyre often interchangeable depending on the person, and its basically the equivalent of saying "i like pizza" and "i like all pizza". One implies you like it all across the board, and the other could imply preferences or no preferences -- again, depending on the person. Nonbinary is anything outside of binary gender, but is technically still a type of trans. Its an umbrella term. Meaning you identify outside the binary of just a girl or just a boy. Theres a whole bunch of microlabels inbetween, such as genderfluid, which means the fluidity of gender. One day you may feel like a man, the next day a woman, and another day like neither. Honestly there are so many microlabels that i dont 100% understand or personally believe in, but yk whatever. People can identify however they please. I personally agree, however. I dont really like too many labels. I understand why some people would but i find them kind of boxing people in and more dividing, if anything. I dont understand why we cant just like girls as a girl, or boys as a boy, or no one as a person and just vibe with it for what it is without labelling it. And with all the microlabels we have today, it makes it confusing even for people *in* the community. No one is ever going to take gay or trans people seriously when were over here labelling what kind of gay we are down to being a brute, hairy man.
Hey Satch, I'm going to educate and hopefully help you figure out the differences... These are two different categories, Gender and Sexual Orientation: Gender: This says what you feel your gender is, for some it's cis (whatever your body was at birth), trans (when you are the opposite of what you were at birth), intersex (this can be from birth where you have traits for both like breasts on a man or woman without breasts or larger female genitalia to look almost like a man) nonbinary (where you don't feel like you are either gender) and genderfluid (where you are more of go with the flow with your gender). Both of the last two are basically not putting a label if they are a man or woman. Orientation: This one gets tricky... you know the basic 3 gay lesbian and trans, pansexual is basically bi but more specific since bi can mean your gender and not your gender and some people affiliate it with men and women and pan is everything (trans, nonbinary, etc). We further have descriptions of how much you can love as well, aromantic is you don't date anyone because you don't feel connections like others, demiromantic is you need to have a deep emotional bond before being romantic with someone, asexual is you don't want sex with anyone sometimes its revolting or sometimes you just have no interest in it. demisexual is like demiromantic but with sex. aroace is a short way of saying you don't want to date you dont want sex you just want to live your life in this hypersexualized world. Hope all this helps, Bears are just beefy gays or gays with dad bods.
About what you've said that you've never met anyone who identifies as one of these in real life - just wanted to share my experience, don't know if it's similar for other people or not. So I'm a trans-masc agender person who's panromantic and greysexual, but I usually just say that I'm a pansexual trans guy to most of the people I meet and who aren't my close friends, cause I just don't want to bother explaining all of that stuff every time and it wouldn't matter any way in 99,9% of interactions with these people. Finding my labels was mostly useful for understanding myself and to explain what I am to people who are interested in me romantically or sexually. So it might be possible that you know a lot of people like these and just don't know about that. Oh and I like these interior designs 😁
I’m by no means attacking you on this. I love your content. But I think the internet has a bad way of explaining Asexual. It’s different for everyone. Being Ace “every color” supposedly represents a different level of attraction. As in drive. So yes I find people attractive sometimes. But body parts I do not. So face and body can be attractive. But as soon as it gets to anything sexual I am not attracted. Like we still have sex drives… toys from the back wall of Spencer’s is a thing. It’s overall hard to explain. And everyone is different.
As an asexual myself, an actually real asexual means someone who is not attracted sexually to anybody. And does NOT have sex or desires to make sexual things. It's very simple idk why internet "asexuals" make it so complicated
@@deleted_bleed Your experience does not speak for everyone else’s. There are no “fake asexuals”. There’s people with different experiences and it’s that simple. Don’t over complicate it for yourself. (Edit, cuz I’m tried as hell right now and used the wrong “Your”.)
Honestly, Asexuality isn't so dogmatic. Like everything else, it's a label people use, it's not a book of rules they have to follow. Satch is queer, he should spend five minutes googling different parts of the queer community if he actually cares.
You are correct, the rainbow flag is meant to represent the whole lgbtqa+ community. A newer, progressive pride flag, the rainbow with the additional triangle represents including racial diversity among the community. But most of the flags are more about the individual letters, and subdivisions.
This was such a fun video! I had a blast watching this, and I LOVE your laughter haha. I like the idear of using the wheel to randomize rooms or buildings, I think I will start use that more - perhaps even when creating Sims to shake things up.
I'm nonbinary and aroace. To me being nonbinary means I just don't give a shit about my gender so I really don't care if people refer to me as a women or man. Being aroace means I don't experience romantic or sexual attraction to anyone so I don't have any desire date or woohoo with anyone. The asexually part is a little more complicated but I won't get into that. Also the nonbinary and ace flags are cool but I don't like the aroace flag.
I think Satch is def late 20's maybe 30's even, the way he's confused about all those screams gen y and I feel you bruh. I remember the times when it was just lgbt 😂
Satch being incredibly grammatically correct, he properly addressed the Fish Vs Fishes issue. Plural of fish is fish but when you address multiple types of fish, it's fishes. I just learned that yesterday and literally watching this video I was like: "Satch is being very woke (in a good way), addressing the lack of representation in the sims while appropriately using the right fish word in a sentence and representing the different types of fishes."
I think the blue/green gay pride flag is much more recent than the others. Originally the rainbow one was the gay flag, but since it’s become all encompassing, a specific flag was chosen to mirror the design of the lesbian flag. The Sims team hasn’t updated the flags in a few years, so that’s probably why it’s missing
lol'ing at Satch blunder his way through these flags and identities and playfully roasting us queers (while I smugly validate myself for knowing what all of these are and even what the colours represent cuz im a lil gay nerd) Also! satch hits the nail on the head without realising about how he says "I don't IDENTIFY as a man i just AM a man" - I hate how the definitions kinda subtly neg you for being a different gender or something, like we don't IDENTIFY as genderfluid, it's how we feel, and the way we represent that identity to others is through signifiers such as a flag or whatever.
I was wheezing endlessly when EA forgotten about the Homosexual's flag. Also I didn't even know we had a gay flag. I always thought the rainbow was our united flag.😂
think it would've been really cool if Satch had actually asked the people that identify with those flags what they meant than looking up articles and it couldve been a fun way to have guests and dynamic interactions then spreading more confusion or misinfo about the identities
But the problem is there is no official definition and everybody I’ve met have their own take on it, it’s not mis-info for the people that care they will know and find peace in that
Most of these are unofficial and just more complicated ways of saying “I like penis” or “I like vagina” and honestly it doesn’t matter anyway. Frankly not everyone wants to know who you’re trying to bang and why. It shouldn’t be so important to you that people understand your vague terms, because really nobody cares.
@@jeongbun2386 How is it edgy to have different beliefs than you people ? You have pansexuality and bisexuality and you think these two are different which is so woke lmao.
@@beigecat801 God this useage of woke is so cringe. 💀 Also who said i did? Idc what people identify as. I am bi. I don’t have a preference. Some people just like the term pan more. Imagine caring more about shitting on people’s individual labels than actually fighting for our own freedom. I encourage you to read more and relaise the majority of social progress in society has been and will be made by whatever you consider ‘woke’. Edit: Always moving the goalpost with you lot aswell. ‘How is it edgy to have a different opinion’ You never stated a differing opinion. 💀
A basic psychology explanation of gender and sexuality: the human brain has several parts that look a particular way depending on your gender, sexuality and romantic attraction. These develop separately from the gonads and gentials (which develop in the later part of the first trimester). The boost of testosterone that an XY fetus experiences affects this "organising" process quite greatly. It continues quite intensely for about two years after birth. Due to gender differences not just affecting a single part of the brain, this results in a large natural variety of genders and sexuality.
So the best way I can personally help folks understand being a gay aroace guy is: "You have a spicy magazine that turns you on. An allosexual person may want to act on that feeling with another person (or at least picture themselves doing so), but acting on it with another person to me would be the same as trying to have fun times with the magazine itself. It's just paper. I can like to look without touching." As for the multitude of flags, I view it as just a way to express yourself, the same way wearing a shirt with your favorite band on it or hanging up a movie poster. It's just representing an aspect of yourself. You don't need to get it or like it, because it's not for you. It's for the person using it. They go against the heavy stigma about sexuality in general by normalizing its presence. For things like the leather flag, it's just something they don't need to hide in a secret room for no one to see. Then if they're out and about and someone sees it, bam- common interest. Just like if they saw you in fishing gear, it's safe to assume you like fishing. So it is just folks living their life and expressing themselves with some colors. (Obviously there are some small vocal groups that take everything to obnoxious extremes, this is no exception)
Dude if we didn't give ourselves lables and took to the streets, queer rights would not exist. Caring is actually important. You wouldn't be watching netflix then, but be dead or in jail or being tortured in conversion therapy. Not to ruin the light-heartedness or anything but you say tons of very political stuff here
this video is hilarious, love it! as a bisexual person i don't 100% understand pansexuality either, but if people are comfortable with the label, go ahead and vibe with it.🤎 pan people usually describe their attraction as "not being affected by gender (or being genderblind)", while us bi folks say we're attracted to "any gender (so it can be anything between two, multiple or all, depends on a person)". which can, technically, be the same thing in some instances, but bi appears to be a more broad term while pan is very specific? at least that's how it was explained to me... hope it helps!
@@Serendipity92x totally fine! i’m bi and can be attracted to anyone so, it depends on a person. (plus, sex and gender are two different things anyways.)
@@Serendipity92x pansexual has nothing to do with trans people, I’m bisexual and attracted to every gender not to a certain combination of gender genitals and transition boxes
No. All these labels seem to confuse young people. Bisexual means sexual attraction to both (bi means two) SEXES. Biological males and females. If you enjoy sex with multiple or all genders, you are pansexual.
personally I feel like flags are just things people can use to help express their identities, not everyone needs to wave their flag around but some people do and thats a way they can show that they are proud of their identity. Bears are just another type of gay person, kind of like twink but the opposite. GenderFluid people are people who feel like their gender changes, its not something that they choose depending on what theyre doing but how theyre feeling in themselves
@@shreksoffspringMaybe you're young, but it definitely did. We used to contrast "woke and broke" in memes, where the educated take was woke, and the trashy take was broke. And even conspiracy theorists called themselves woke because they believed they were the only people 'awake' to the truth. Then it started being used sarcastically by people criticizing the left.
@@demo2823 woke was never about "spirituality" it's always been about supporting human rights and wanting equal rights for all races and sexualities. People use woke as an insult and say they're "not woke" when all they're saying is they are a bigot
So, the difference between bisexual and pansexual is that bisexual is sexual, Romantic, or any other type of attraction towards more than one gender. There are a ton of Genders, by the way, and this will come into play for pansexuality. So pansexuality is sexual, Romantic, or any other type of attraction for all genders, every single one, with no preference. A common misconception is that they are attracted to personality. That's not true. Also, there are a lot more gay people than we think, there's just a lot of homophobia still, sadly. Also, I totally agree with you, the bear lfag seems like a fetish. With a more uplifting note, I'm so glad you're getting adapted to the community! Once you learn enough about it, you can see it for what it is, most times it's just very wholesome. (::
The way I see it anybody can do whatever, whoever, and b whatever they want as long as ur not harming anyone. There r so many labels out there I've honestly stopped trying to understand them all bc it's overwhelming to me. If ur a decent living being do or b whatever u want
All the labels that fit me have the ugliest flags, yes. The other day I learnt there is actually one for my super woke niche-y orientation. I'm almond-/berri-sexual and yes apparently this is a thing
It feels like most of the flags weren't designed by people who have experience in art or design. I've also been an artist for years so I think I'm allowed to say that
@@Anyaaaah It means being mainly attracted to male/masc people and occasionally also to female/fem people, but rarely. Didn't know there was a label/flag for it, I usually just use "pansexual, 90% gay" for myself 😅 Not taking all these flags too seriously, but I love all these nuances in humans tbh.
I love your attitude in this video honestly. I get more of the ick when people are obviously trying way too hard to be inclusive (it just doesnt feel genuine at all). But if you want to understand these identities better, the main thing is differentiating "gender" from "sex". "Gender" being related more to identity and expression, while your "sex" is just the anatomy you were born with 😊
Satch - Is gay bear
Sims - Doesn''t have gay flag, nor bear flag
It's official! The sims 4 is SatchOnSimsphobic!
Satch was giving me sassy otter vibes than a bear. 🤔
calling Satch a bear is like calling him lesbianphobic 💀
A lot of asexuals use the split attraction model, so their romantic and sexual attraction are different from each other. The romantic attraction equivalent of asexual is aromantic, which is little to no romantic attraction. Some people can be asexual but not aromantic, aromantic but not asexual, or both (aroace).
idk sounds like horny people with committment issues making a flag 😂
To clear some things out. A person can be both asexual and gay/lesbian/straight/whatever, because sexual and romantic attraction are two different things. There is also an aromantic flag.
My Mom has a flag that says “Proud Mom!” With I swear to God, no less than 30 flags on it. I’m happy she’s supportive but girl, even I don’t know what some of those flags are supposed to mean 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 that’s cute and hilarious
that is so cute, I wish her a happy mother's day 🥰
aww thats so cute lmao
As an asexual person I have absolutely no sexual attraction to anyone but i do feel romantic attraction. There are some people that dont feel either though.❤
@@MBJK_babythere are adults who are asexual too you know…
@@MBJK_baby not always. It’s more common than you may think.
Aro/Ace here!
@@MBJK_baby attraction ≠ action, asexual people do not experience the attraction part but that does not mean they are incapable of having sex (they may like the feeling and have a sex drive but not experience the attraction, the urge to do it with a specific person), although most do not want to /nm
@@MBJK_babyok then. I don’t and have never experienced sexual attraction to anyone, I’m an adult and I’ve never experienced sexual trauma or any other kind of trauma. And before you say it’s a medical issue I’ve consulted to separate doctors and I’m perfectly healthy. So go on make another assumption. Believe me I wish my sexuality or lack there of was so easy to explain by simple assumptions you make.
i miss pre 2016 when woke actually meant something and wasnt just a term for whatever group annoyed you
Never read a truer comment
It did. It was co-opted and made into a derogatory term. It used to be a compliment.
Of course the intolerant white people had to take it and change it into something else. They just hate toxic inclusivity, woke isn't what they think it is and people always sound stupid when they complain about being woke
REAL
The term lost it's meaning unfortunately
This man is not scared of cancelation 😂
Edit : just wanted to add I love this man❤️. Don't come for him in replies😒
Yeah but he is so right .. don't get it why people overcomplicate things and put the focus on genders and sexuality when people fought for hundrets of years that less focus is set on both.
He low key wants it xD
@@vomm i guess thats true but i think peopel just like to identefy as somthing and are proud of it! Maybe its comforting for them! Still I understand why this may come across otherwise😊
@@vomm have you considered that you don't understand it because its not about you, and if it's important to other people then why not live and let live
Having specific words to express exactly how you feel on the inside is very important to understanding yourself and being comfortable in your own life. For the longest time, I didn’t understand that I was asexual and continuously pushed myself to engage in sex - something that I felt was expected of me because that is what society says I have to do when in a relationship. However, when I learned about asexuality, I finally had a word to describe the complex feelings I had around the act of physical intimacy, and why I would be pushed to tears after sex or why I had to consistently get drunk in order to just engage in sex even with someone that I loved. The amount of relief that I experienced finally having a word to explain my complex emotions was unexplainable. Having these classifications is very valuable for many people.
I have to wonder if the Sims team thinks the gay flag is synonymous with the previous LGBT flag (before the triangle was added) and didn't bother to do research on it.
The thing is, they must have done some research because they include 3 lesbian flags.
It looked a little like the swatch down from the first one but missing a line? Correct me if I’m wrong and it belongs to another group?
Wtf is that aroace description. I’m aro and I’d more describe our relationships as “platonic but appears romantic/sexual to outsiders”. I admit, it’s very nuanced and difficult for others to understand, but it’s what some of us feel describes us.
That's something called a queer platonic relationship, a relationship in all senses but no romantic and/or sexual attraction! I'm arospec and my best relationships have been qp
To answer Satch's amusing yapping, the purpose of all these flags is to identify groups within a group. We have the rainbow flag to represent LGBT+ as a whole, and other flags to represent different groupings within that label. Unless a person is within a certain group, they don't need to know a particular flag. The common person isn't expected to know all the different flags, but they know 🌈 = LGBT.
Think of it like sports jerseys. The common person displaying a sports jersey of Team 1, the common person thinks "okay that person is a sports fan". A sports fan would think "Ooh! A Team 1 fan! We can talk about sports". And Team 1 fan will think "Omg someone like me!"
just to clear things up, being pansexual means that you dont care about the gender of your partner while when you are bisexual you might have a prefered one
Thanks for adding “might” LOL As a bisexual I always find it super weird when people say that we “see gender” or so (makes it sound super judgy) when that was never even something mentioned in the original meaning of bisexual LOL. Bisexual is liking multiple genders just like pansexual but maybe with a few tweaks
This is not true. Personal preferences have nothing to do with orientation.
i love this man he doesn't care about anything lmao
Literally
As an asexual, I will give you two easy examples: We are not here for the woohoo part*, but the cuddles, cheek kisses and cakes along the way. And being an asexual and gay for example, It just means you are looking exclusively for a male partner. I hope these little examples shine a bit of light in the confusion.
*(some might do, but there is no happy moodlet, unless wicked woohoo).
this is so real omg
And we asexuals LOVE our garlic bread
This is actually a really nice way of explaining it.
Yeah, personaly (as an ace myself) I feel a lot LGBT don't really get the difference between Ace and Aro though. At least Satch is honest about his confusion🤷♀️
I'm aroace spec, not here for the woohoo and only for the cuddles, kisses and cake if the other wanted the cuddles, kisses and cake first! ^^ (reciproromantic, only have romantic attraction if someone expresses romantic attraction to me)
You missed such an opportunity to make the kitchen the pansexual room and fill the kitchen with pans..!
I saw what you did there 😂
Can't wait for Satch's transformation into full Bear gay man mode over the coming months
I'm not gonna lie, I thought he was already gay
@@something6833 he is lol
@@Orenjen Oh yeah, I could tell.
@@something6833I'm not sure if Satch is joking when he says that he's attracted to lesbians and especially butch lesbians though. I would suppose that Satch could be joking, but the more he says it, I get suspicious, and he even said that he'd make out with a butch lesbian in a previous video, so he may not be exactly gay if he meant what he said. Oh right, and Satch also said that he'd woohoo a butch lesbian if she had male parts, so yeah. I'm confused, and he may be confused too. lol 😂
@@something6833 he’s made it pretty obvious he’s gay. you aint getting any reward for being able to tell.
bear is a decade old term ... and it very much is a sexual thing (like twink, but the opposite) however it has always had such a huge community and specialized bars/meet-ups that a flag was created! it's like an identification so they could be easier to find. possibly because there really was no online spaces for it yet
the blue-green gay flag is very new and not really "official" as it was created by a random on tumblr in like 2019/2020. gay man communities usually just go with the regular rainbow flag or twink/bear/leather flags! lesbian have their own because it is just as old as the other flags and have been widely used historically
basically the bear flag exists because so many fat gay hairy man existed and wanted to meet up decades ago lmaoooo. you could compare it to like how femme and butch lesbians have individual communities and meet-ups with the exception that it's not a sexual thing like bears and twinks
Most of the various queer flags were made on tumblr! As a denizen of tumblr, I've done my research, and you'd be surprised how much of queer culture is made there, and how much queer history is preserved there.
@@christabelle__ actually aware :) but its therefore less known outside of internet spaces. unlike older flags… only exception i can think of is honestly the new lesbian flag because it replaced the lipstick one so quick lol
I've found it's used more in order to explain what kind of person you're attracted to. I have friends who are twinks who are only into twinks, bears who are only interested in bears, and then the ones who would prefer a twink-bear pairing. Just like butch and lipstick lesbians. I do think, though, that it shouldn't be attached to homosexuality as much, because straight women can be butch and straight men can be twinks, yaknow?
Yep! Gays spaces IRL are very different than the ones online. Part of me is nervous for what happens when the tumblr era kids get a rude awakening to what it’s like offline? But I’m sure they’ll settle and find their place
Bears: One of my friends ran the very first bear web site, and he had to come up with an official definition for "what is a bear?" for the site. It's defined as "a bear is a person who says they're a bear." So if you want to be a bear, all you have to do is say you're a bear. Yes really anyone. It doesn't matter if they're thin and hairless, it doesn't matter if they're a woman, if they say they're a bear, they're a bear.
I am now a lady bear. 😊
Love that! 🐻
Giving bear energy
I feel suddenly bear 😂❤
I love that so much
not you skipping over the bi flag room design 😂😭
fr the one I was most excited to see though (my flag)😢
Biphobic Satch confirmed
I feel like Bi people are always overlooked for whatever reason. I always found that weird.
Around 9 he does it or Not?
It's so representative of the culture as a whole
Listen, the current lesbian flag is 100x better than the old one. It's like a sunset. There's also a few variations, but the sunset one is the main one now.
plus the creator of the old one sucks
@@TheDreamingBeanno they don’t imo.
@@TheDreamingBean wait until you find out that they sell all variations at pride
The sunset flag is gross lol
Labrys flag is way better.
The aroace definition did us dirty 😭
As a Bi person, I don't fully understand the difference between Bisexual and Pansexual either. I just Identify as Bisexual because I like the flag better lol
A bisexual doesn't mind whether you are a man or a woman (and according to some, the central blended colour means they don't mind if you are a flavour of nonbinary either). A pansexual doesn't mind whether the inside of your pants is a p, a v, or a crocodile. Pansexual is more theoretical. Like in a world of aliens or cybernetic body enhancements, you'd still be down.
Hi. I'm neither bisexual nor pansexual so I hope what I'm about to say is correct.
Bisexuality is the sexual attraction to cis men and women.
Pansexuality is sexual attraction to all genders (trans, cis, nonbinary etc). The term I've heard them use is that they're into "hearts, not parts".
@@OKBoomer2k bisexuality isn't limited to only cis gender people, though.
@@OKBoomer2k not true at all, Bisexual includes everyone not just Cis gender, that's what the purple in the flag represents.
LOL. I identify will Pan because I like the flag, and I can pun with the Hellenic God
I had a new appreciation for pride flags when it was explained to me that the intensity of the colors’ saturation & spectrum were intentional- paralleling how pride should be unapologetically ‘loud’
😂 That's a fun explanation, but here's the secret: we just like sporting pride colors/flags that aren't literal rainbows, it's not any deeper than that.
@@shikonahserigala5859 you might just be speaking to your own depth babe
@@Usernotfound31231 lol nah fam. It's fun to be profound, but at the end of the day, this is just "the poet said blue so they're obv depressed" level analysis. A couple of the flags? Maybe vibrancy is the underlying intention. Vast majority? Not that serious. Even the literal rainbow flag doesn't have anything to do with being "unapologetically loud."
Which is cool. Not everything has to have a big ol' substantial meaning behind it to be relevant or relatable.
@@shikonahserigala5859 for me personaly, i like having a flag that i feel best describes me. it's more fun and personal than the rainbow flag which just means queer
@@Usernotfound31231 you're so quirky and special dude, seriously.
Satch, you are anti-depressant in human form
"The bisexual flag and bisexuals are boring and basic"
That one feeling I had left is so hurt
one more thing.... a lot of these classifications are more for the people in the relationship than how they announce themselves to society. My husband is asexual but is attracted to girls which is no big deal to anybody but me, who HAS to understand what an asexual is if I wish to stay in my relationship. Fair?
As an ace person, absolutely fair. I think your husband is alloromantic, meaning he can experience romantic attraction normally (and allo isn't a label technically, it's just the umbrella for any non-aromantic identities), just no sexual attraction, which is honestly not talked about enough, someone being asexual but alloromantic
thank you for this comment. we are still trying to figure out our unique relationship =) it isnt all flowers for me since I LOVE sex but I also love him... lol better friends than lovers, right?
@@JustASillyReally
@@jadedjhypsi Haha glad to help! Hope you the best of luck with your relationship ♡
we been married for 14 years so .... me too. wishing you well too =)@@JustASillyReally
perfectly describes him.... thank you so much!!!! honestly!!!
Aromanticism is defined as "having little or no romantic feeling towards others: experiencing little or no romantic desire or attraction". The term aromantic was added to the Oxford English Dictionary in 2018.@@JustASillyReally
I’m not spokesman on gender issues, but I believe genderfluid is not when you _do_ something that is considered masculine or feminine. It’s more about how you actually identify yourself, how you feel on the inside.
And it’s not necessary two basic genders (male/female).
But that’s info I’ve gathered trough years. I think actual genderfluid people will explain it better.)
Hi, genderfluid enby here! You got that right; there are three dimensions: 1. sexual orientation/preference e.g. ace/allo, gay, bi etc., 2. gender e.g. trans-/cis- male, female, enby, agender (all with loads of subcategories) and 3. gender expression = the way one dresses, talks, walks etc. 😊
Yep, genderfluid generally means you identify differently on different days and may dress differently and prefer different pronouns on those days. Sadly they are often stuck with lifelong body dysmorphia because no set body will suit them every day.
Do people feel genders?
Btw, aroace is just the term for someone who is both aromantic (little to no romantic attraction) and asexual (little to no sexual attraction) !
You aren't a proper bear unless you own at least 5 tins of mustache wax and 5 bottles of beard oil.
🤭
The pansexual should have been the kitchen, cause you know... pan... 😅
nooo I hate when people make that joke it's so old and so annoying
@@skopec7288 Womp womp
Honestly, I wish to see more of you building/furnishing videos in the sims. I find the way you make the houses very refreshing. Other simmers they clutter the heck out of their houses and while it looks great and I like to watch them, the way you do it feels much more realistic, like the phone on the bed, a (not)storage room, less clutter in the kitchen as you usually need more space to prep. Idk, it's something different and not just all about the visual aspect. I really like it, I'll look forward for some more of these.
I love how genuine you are, please never change xo
5:31 you can find those toilet seats in Chinese convenience shops in Spain
this is so random XD
@@JoB822 hahaha
So specific 🥲
we don't need to cancel this man, we must protect him at all costs😂 its honestly a breath of fresh air to hear someone just being real and freely talking about this stuff without being scared of offending anyone
Fr I’m bisexual and I’m not woke and that’s why I love satch so much.
@@JokersD0llthere’s nothing wrong with being “woke” lol
@@JokersD0ll pick me vibes are extreme rn
@@shreksoffspring not “pick me” have my own thoughts and feelings I like Blaire white u gonna start crying? Because satch follows her aswell - I like buck angel and Marcus dib being WOKE is bad because it makes you miserable
Also pick me isn’t this - a pick me is someone who has extreme issues and seeks out validation from men.
It’s putting other woman down for a man
I have not done anything like that - I have my own brain and have my own thoughts and feelings.
That’s not what a pick me is.
@@pierremiles unless u wanna look like a goblin be my guest be woke.
i feel the sims just thought the gay flag is still just the basic rainbow one. lol
Omg please do another of these with a second wheel of flags, I need it in my life.
I think the labels give those who are unsure or marginalized in their communities and homes a safe place to belong and know they aren’t alone. Knowing you aren’t the only one to feel this way is so powerful. Especially if those feelings single you out for abuse.❤
the rainbow flag expresses pride as a whole while the individual flags represent their respective identities
it’s actually so weird that homosexual doesn’t receive their own flag, but lesbians get both variations 😭 an embarrassing oversight for a game that really prides itself on representation
yeah lesbians get 3 different variations which is wild to me because 2 of them are literally the same, but one is the simplified design
@notsayaka that's what I said
It doesn’t take much to realize that this game isn’t actually diverse. It’s only the stuff that’s trendy
lesbians are homosexuals wdym
the thumbnail baited me into thinking you'll make an ace room 😫
I think you are more of an otter than a bear.
I like how it was giving you them in the same order as the acronym!
Why is no one talking about how well you did this challenge?! My favorite is the kitchen, I think you nailed it! But the rest of the house was done really well too!
oh reddit coming for you with so bad about this they will clip this video and try to get everything so out of context
The rainbow flag makes the most sense because the whole idea is the rainbow is a representation of the entire colour spectrum. By design it encompasses everybody.
5:05 it’s called Frutiger aero 😄 those dolphin toilet seats were so cute🥹 I wonder if they still do them
As a lesbian: slay king you did us right with that room imo
"we all vape" ur killing me😭
Let's not forget there's like 3-4 f*ckin lesbian flags but not a single homosexual one in the game ❤
I mean technically lesbians are homosexual too but true lmao i saw 3 lesbian flag and no gay man flag pahaha
Oh nooo the most accepted and least oppressed part of the lgbt community doesn’t get a flag in a silly game 😢
LESBIANS ARE HOMOSEXUALS THO ☹️ we deserve to be taken seriously as same sex attracted and its seriously bothersome when people don’t consider us homosexual
Giving a whole new meaning to Brother Bear 😂
As a genderfluid person, I interpret it as not feeling like a good fit for either binary option. I mostly present as my assigned at birth gender (biological sex) but I feel most comfortable when using gender-neutral pronouns and feel discomfort when other people project their heteronormative expectations on me. The happiness I felt when first using “they/them” was liberating. As a pansexual, I used to identify as bisexual and once I recognised my own gender fluidity, I knew that I actually was pansexual (otherwise I wouldn’t be attracted to someone like myself and that felt… wrong).
I still do plenty of things tied to my biological sex and there’s a lot of people like me from what I see in online communities!
Oh my god, the ally flag is there, but not the one designed for gay men. The Hecking couple exists, but they don’t get any in game rep
"I actually find lots of lesbians attractive" 😭😭 I can tell he's just not well informed but it's a lot /lh
This concept would be right at home in The Sims 3, with the CASt tool you can paint a single room in all 400 flags.
Educational and entertaining. I knew a few of these flags, but not all, and the comments section has been helpful for clearer understanding about a few orientations.
The trend is called Frutiger Aero, it comes from the early 2000s Web. But yes it has a very blue/dolphin/watery aesthetic to it.
we r talking abt genders, not sex, there r more than one gender (nonbinary, demigender, ...)
Woke-ification😭😂😂😂 I'm here for it
I think the Sims team assumed that the rainbow flag was the gay flag 😆
as sarcastic as he is, he really just is confused HAHA
Satch being color-fluid in that kitchen with the blue and red. 😂
no joke - there a lot of dumb toilet seats on aliexpress... wanted to show some to my friends and found a lot of them there!!!
Off topic but I love watching you clutter everything. It feels realistic but not too overdone.
Asexual here, it's a bit of a grey area so to speak and some of the descriptions of it online are very vague, for me personally I find guys attractive and can be romantic with them but find the thought of sex with them or anyone both grosses me out and freaks me out, just a big no to that side of things.
You’re so real for this
Heres a quick, and more understandable rundown
Asexual: feeling little to no sexual attraction
Aroace: feeling little to no sexual AND romantic attraction (aroace is a mixture of asexual and aromantic. Aromantic being feeling little to no romantic attraction).
Pansexual: sexual attraction to people regardless of gender. Basically like saying you like all genders --nbs included--, and is kind of a subset of bisexual.
Bisexual is sexual attraction to two or more genders. Honestly bisexual/pansexual really confuse me but theyre often interchangeable depending on the person, and its basically the equivalent of saying "i like pizza" and "i like all pizza". One implies you like it all across the board, and the other could imply preferences or no preferences -- again, depending on the person.
Nonbinary is anything outside of binary gender, but is technically still a type of trans. Its an umbrella term. Meaning you identify outside the binary of just a girl or just a boy. Theres a whole bunch of microlabels inbetween, such as genderfluid, which means the fluidity of gender. One day you may feel like a man, the next day a woman, and another day like neither. Honestly there are so many microlabels that i dont 100% understand or personally believe in, but yk whatever. People can identify however they please.
I personally agree, however. I dont really like too many labels. I understand why some people would but i find them kind of boxing people in and more dividing, if anything. I dont understand why we cant just like girls as a girl, or boys as a boy, or no one as a person and just vibe with it for what it is without labelling it. And with all the microlabels we have today, it makes it confusing even for people *in* the community. No one is ever going to take gay or trans people seriously when were over here labelling what kind of gay we are down to being a brute, hairy man.
You are incorrect. Bisexuals have been using the definition "attraction regardless of gender" since at least the 70s.
Hey Satch, I'm going to educate and hopefully help you figure out the differences... These are two different categories, Gender and Sexual Orientation:
Gender:
This says what you feel your gender is, for some it's cis (whatever your body was at birth), trans (when you are the opposite of what you were at birth), intersex (this can be from birth where you have traits for both like breasts on a man or woman without breasts or larger female genitalia to look almost like a man) nonbinary (where you don't feel like you are either gender) and genderfluid (where you are more of go with the flow with your gender). Both of the last two are basically not putting a label if they are a man or woman.
Orientation:
This one gets tricky... you know the basic 3 gay lesbian and trans, pansexual is basically bi but more specific since bi can mean your gender and not your gender and some people affiliate it with men and women and pan is everything (trans, nonbinary, etc). We further have descriptions of how much you can love as well, aromantic is you don't date anyone because you don't feel connections like others, demiromantic is you need to have a deep emotional bond before being romantic with someone, asexual is you don't want sex with anyone sometimes its revolting or sometimes you just have no interest in it. demisexual is like demiromantic but with sex. aroace is a short way of saying you don't want to date you dont want sex you just want to live your life in this hypersexualized world.
Hope all this helps, Bears are just beefy gays or gays with dad bods.
About what you've said that you've never met anyone who identifies as one of these in real life - just wanted to share my experience, don't know if it's similar for other people or not. So I'm a trans-masc agender person who's panromantic and greysexual, but I usually just say that I'm a pansexual trans guy to most of the people I meet and who aren't my close friends, cause I just don't want to bother explaining all of that stuff every time and it wouldn't matter any way in 99,9% of interactions with these people. Finding my labels was mostly useful for understanding myself and to explain what I am to people who are interested in me romantically or sexually. So it might be possible that you know a lot of people like these and just don't know about that.
Oh and I like these interior designs 😁
I’m by no means attacking you on this. I love your content. But I think the internet has a bad way of explaining Asexual. It’s different for everyone. Being Ace “every color” supposedly represents a different level of attraction. As in drive. So yes I find people attractive sometimes. But body parts I do not. So face and body can be attractive. But as soon as it gets to anything sexual I am not attracted. Like we still have sex drives… toys from the back wall of Spencer’s is a thing. It’s overall hard to explain. And everyone is different.
As an asexual myself, an actually real asexual means someone who is not attracted sexually to anybody. And does NOT have sex or desires to make sexual things. It's very simple idk why internet "asexuals" make it so complicated
@@deleted_bleed Your experience does not speak for everyone else’s. There are no “fake asexuals”. There’s people with different experiences and it’s that simple. Don’t over complicate it for yourself. (Edit, cuz I’m tried as hell right now and used the wrong “Your”.)
Right? there are no fake asexuals. we are all different.
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Honestly, Asexuality isn't so dogmatic. Like everything else, it's a label people use, it's not a book of rules they have to follow. Satch is queer, he should spend five minutes googling different parts of the queer community if he actually cares.
I 100% agree satch…I was confused when I found out all the flags isn’t that what a rainbow is for🤣😂😂
satch i really need to study your brain in a lab, this is so fucking funny what do you MEAN you didnt know
Genuinely lol. I'm just glad he isn't like a raging bigot, just very uneducated for whatever reason
nah he's just a normal sensible person, it's not bigoted to not support a million genders 🤡@@Thatprrrr
@@Thatprrrr”waging bwigot” 🤓 he follows Blaire white, if you don’t like that get tf out 😂
Sorry he has no idea about all chronically online new flags lgbtqiop+ flags he’ll do better next time I pwomise!🥺
@@JokersD0ll you mad
You are correct, the rainbow flag is meant to represent the whole lgbtqa+ community. A newer, progressive pride flag, the rainbow with the additional triangle represents including racial diversity among the community. But most of the flags are more about the individual letters, and subdivisions.
As a gender fluid person I’m not bothered that you don’t understand. It’s been a very confusing existence for me personally so I get it.
This was such a fun video! I had a blast watching this, and I LOVE your laughter haha. I like the idear of using the wheel to randomize rooms or buildings, I think I will start use that more - perhaps even when creating Sims to shake things up.
I'm nonbinary and aroace. To me being nonbinary means I just don't give a shit about my gender so I really don't care if people refer to me as a women or man.
Being aroace means I don't experience romantic or sexual attraction to anyone so I don't have any desire date or woohoo with anyone. The asexually part is a little more complicated but I won't get into that.
Also the nonbinary and ace flags are cool but I don't like the aroace flag.
I think Satch is def late 20's maybe 30's even, the way he's confused about all those screams gen y and I feel you bruh. I remember the times when it was just lgbt 😂
I’m gen z and were confused too. It’s not a generational thing, it’s an attention seeking thing
Speaking as someone who technically falls under the asexual label: I don’t understand the asexual label either.
Satch being incredibly grammatically correct, he properly addressed the Fish Vs Fishes issue.
Plural of fish is fish but when you address multiple types of fish, it's fishes.
I just learned that yesterday and literally watching this video I was like: "Satch is being very woke (in a good way), addressing the lack of representation in the sims while appropriately using the right fish word in a sentence and representing the different types of fishes."
I love you Satch and everything you stand for 🤣
I think the blue/green gay pride flag is much more recent than the others. Originally the rainbow one was the gay flag, but since it’s become all encompassing, a specific flag was chosen to mirror the design of the lesbian flag. The Sims team hasn’t updated the flags in a few years, so that’s probably why it’s missing
lol'ing at Satch blunder his way through these flags and identities and playfully roasting us queers (while I smugly validate myself for knowing what all of these are and even what the colours represent cuz im a lil gay nerd)
Also! satch hits the nail on the head without realising about how he says "I don't IDENTIFY as a man i just AM a man" - I hate how the definitions kinda subtly neg you for being a different gender or something, like we don't IDENTIFY as genderfluid, it's how we feel, and the way we represent that identity to others is through signifiers such as a flag or whatever.
I was wheezing endlessly when EA forgotten about the Homosexual's flag. Also I didn't even know we had a gay flag. I always thought the rainbow was our united flag.😂
the lesbian room is so 70s i love it
satch ohw to be a grifting pick-me
As sims youtuber, grifting is crazy
This was hilarious, thank you Satch :D
think it would've been really cool if Satch had actually asked the people that identify with those flags what they meant than looking up articles and it couldve been a fun way to have guests and dynamic interactions then spreading more confusion or misinfo about the identities
But the problem is there is no official definition and everybody I’ve met have their own take on it, it’s not mis-info for the people that care they will know and find peace in that
Most of these are unofficial and just more complicated ways of saying “I like penis” or “I like vagina” and honestly it doesn’t matter anyway. Frankly not everyone wants to know who you’re trying to bang and why. It shouldn’t be so important to you that people understand your vague terms, because really nobody cares.
is satch not gay😭😭whys he acting like that
attention probs
cause he’s normal
@@beigecat801 so edgy!
@@jeongbun2386 How is it edgy to have different beliefs than you people ? You have pansexuality and bisexuality and you think these two are different which is so woke lmao.
@@beigecat801 God this useage of woke is so cringe. 💀
Also who said i did? Idc what people identify as. I am bi. I don’t have a preference. Some people just like the term pan more. Imagine caring more about shitting on people’s individual labels than actually fighting for our own freedom. I encourage you to read more and relaise the majority of social progress in society has been and will be made by whatever you consider ‘woke’.
Edit: Always moving the goalpost with you lot aswell. ‘How is it edgy to have a different opinion’ You never stated a differing opinion. 💀
asexual you are still attracted to people just not sexually.
A basic psychology explanation of gender and sexuality: the human brain has several parts that look a particular way depending on your gender, sexuality and romantic attraction. These develop separately from the gonads and gentials (which develop in the later part of the first trimester). The boost of testosterone that an XY fetus experiences affects this "organising" process quite greatly. It continues quite intensely for about two years after birth. Due to gender differences not just affecting a single part of the brain, this results in a large natural variety of genders and sexuality.
Congrats Satch for educating stuffs. I am so proud of you.
My poor bisexual self being relegated to a tiny bathroom 😂
So the best way I can personally help folks understand being a gay aroace guy is: "You have a spicy magazine that turns you on. An allosexual person may want to act on that feeling with another person (or at least picture themselves doing so), but acting on it with another person to me would be the same as trying to have fun times with the magazine itself. It's just paper. I can like to look without touching."
As for the multitude of flags, I view it as just a way to express yourself, the same way wearing a shirt with your favorite band on it or hanging up a movie poster. It's just representing an aspect of yourself. You don't need to get it or like it, because it's not for you. It's for the person using it. They go against the heavy stigma about sexuality in general by normalizing its presence. For things like the leather flag, it's just something they don't need to hide in a secret room for no one to see. Then if they're out and about and someone sees it, bam- common interest. Just like if they saw you in fishing gear, it's safe to assume you like fishing. So it is just folks living their life and expressing themselves with some colors. (Obviously there are some small vocal groups that take everything to obnoxious extremes, this is no exception)
The flags feel like the flavors in the boba store: Different labels same taste
Omg I adore you! I laughed the entire video 🤣🤣 spot on with everything
The fact that sims team is too lazy to put a gay pride flag swatch 🙄
Dude if we didn't give ourselves lables and took to the streets, queer rights would not exist. Caring is actually important. You wouldn't be watching netflix then, but be dead or in jail or being tortured in conversion therapy. Not to ruin the light-heartedness or anything but you say tons of very political stuff here
To an extent. I think creating too many individual labels actually separates us rather than unifies us.
this video is hilarious, love it!
as a bisexual person i don't 100% understand pansexuality either, but if people are comfortable with the label, go ahead and vibe with it.🤎
pan people usually describe their attraction as "not being affected by gender (or being genderblind)", while us bi folks say we're attracted to "any gender (so it can be anything between two, multiple or all, depends on a person)". which can, technically, be the same thing in some instances, but bi appears to be a more broad term while pan is very specific? at least that's how it was explained to me... hope it helps!
Yep, you explained it better 😄 I think im bi but who knows
I'm bisexual but I'm only attracted to biological males and females so I understand why there's the term 'pansexual'.
@@Serendipity92x totally fine! i’m bi and can be attracted to anyone so, it depends on a person. (plus, sex and gender are two different things anyways.)
@@Serendipity92x pansexual has nothing to do with trans people, I’m bisexual and attracted to every gender not to a certain combination of gender genitals and transition boxes
No. All these labels seem to confuse young people. Bisexual means sexual attraction to both (bi means two) SEXES. Biological males and females.
If you enjoy sex with multiple or all genders, you are pansexual.
personally I feel like flags are just things people can use to help express their identities, not everyone needs to wave their flag around but some people do and thats a way they can show that they are proud of their identity.
Bears are just another type of gay person, kind of like twink but the opposite.
GenderFluid people are people who feel like their gender changes, its not something that they choose depending on what theyre doing but how theyre feeling in themselves
In agreement! Woke used to mean, "spiritually aware", like enlightened. Now it means the opposite.
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It never meant that
@@shreksoffspringMaybe you're young, but it definitely did. We used to contrast "woke and broke" in memes, where the educated take was woke, and the trashy take was broke. And even conspiracy theorists called themselves woke because they believed they were the only people 'awake' to the truth. Then it started being used sarcastically by people criticizing the left.
@@demo2823 woke was never about "spirituality" it's always been about supporting human rights and wanting equal rights for all races and sexualities. People use woke as an insult and say they're "not woke" when all they're saying is they are a bigot
So, the difference between bisexual and pansexual is that bisexual is sexual, Romantic, or any other type of attraction towards more than one gender. There are a ton of Genders, by the way, and this will come into play for pansexuality. So pansexuality is sexual, Romantic, or any other type of attraction for all genders, every single one, with no preference. A common misconception is that they are attracted to personality. That's not true. Also, there are a lot more gay people than we think, there's just a lot of homophobia still, sadly. Also, I totally agree with you, the bear lfag seems like a fetish. With a more uplifting note, I'm so glad you're getting adapted to the community! Once you learn enough about it, you can see it for what it is, most times it's just very wholesome. (::
Bisexuals have used the definition "attraction regardless of gender" since at least the 70s.
The way I see it anybody can do whatever, whoever, and b whatever they want as long as ur not harming anyone. There r so many labels out there I've honestly stopped trying to understand them all bc it's overwhelming to me. If ur a decent living being do or b whatever u want
All the labels that fit me have the ugliest flags, yes. The other day I learnt there is actually one for my super woke niche-y orientation. I'm almond-/berri-sexual and yes apparently this is a thing
What's that orientation meant to mean? No hate, I'm just genuinely curious lol
It feels like most of the flags weren't designed by people who have experience in art or design. I've also been an artist for years so I think I'm allowed to say that
@@Anyaaaah It means being mainly attracted to male/masc people and occasionally also to female/fem people, but rarely. Didn't know there was a label/flag for it, I usually just use "pansexual, 90% gay" for myself 😅 Not taking all these flags too seriously, but I love all these nuances in humans tbh.
@@idkkkk7588 I'm absolutely not a designer but I agree. Not very pleasing to the eye, most of them.
@@feenprinz ohhh that's cool, thank you for explaining ❤️
I love your attitude in this video honestly. I get more of the ick when people are obviously trying way too hard to be inclusive (it just doesnt feel genuine at all). But if you want to understand these identities better, the main thing is differentiating "gender" from "sex". "Gender" being related more to identity and expression, while your "sex" is just the anatomy you were born with 😊