Hello everyone I read a lot of the posts and it’s so good to know that my daughter has so much support from the people that watch her videos. I could not have said anything better myself thank you all for your support and I know she appreciates you all also.
Girl your experience has resonated with me. I went through a lot of unexpected losses last year but my faith, family and supported friends have brought me through. My goals this year is to file for divorce of a 40 yr marriage and get my own place and start a new life. Oh yeah and get a mini van. I am a survivor and your videos remind me to trust myself, the process and God. Thank you for being transparent. God bless you 🙏🏽😇😊
Really missed you, your smile and your positive vibes. It's okay to process and take the time to do that. It sounds like you were in survival mode. Girl, you are a survivor and your posts are helping so many people, in volumes that would blow your mind. We love you. Keep going and never give up. You've got this!
“A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.” You will make it and survive! Take it from someone who's been there. You got this!
Congratulations on your new place! You moved in on my birthday 🥳 I'm 5 yrs older than you. Thank you for sharing, Abiyah. I would like to leave you with this unsolicited advice that I learned through the toughest time in my life (2020-2022) - Let Go and Let God. Trust God, the process of your life's journey and live with gratitude for all that God has blessed you with. Take your time healing, you will come out of this even stronger woman. Sending you so much peace, love & light. 💛💛
Hello Abiyah, was thinking about you last night and hear you are. GOD hears prayer. I'm at a turning point in my life at the age of 64? Married for 42 years and feeling heavy in my heart about my own true happiness!!!
Hey Abiyah It’s good to see you. Life happens. It has its ups and downs and downs and that’s okay. What’s important is that we dust ourselves off and get moving again. I see that for you. It’s time for a restart. You’ll be fine. You are a strong black woman. You’ve got this. I’m cheering for you. Congratulations on your apartment!
Hello Abiyah , we all deal with everyday life situations . The most importanting thing is to seek help if you are feeling over the whelm , they are trained professionals that are abel to help , we are not responsible for what our spouse do or not do , we can't make a marriage work if both ppls aren't on the same page , we have to learn how to forgive them & move on with our new life & the forgivene is not for them , but for us so that you can heal , take one day at a time & press forward to making your new apartment your home & never waist time on what is not there anymore , this 2 shall pass , it's a learning experience & a healing process that you will go thru 5 different steps & once you reach the step where you feel no more pain, anger , guilt, why me , then your total healing will start & next year you will look back & thank GOD for blessing you to go on & be happy & most of all enjoy your new peace .
First, it's so good to see your beautiful face and to know you're OK. 2:30 - Life is lifing right now and you're going through all the stages of grief due to the dissolution of your marriage. Understood. It's going to take time for you to heal. I'm praying for you, girlfriend. 🙏🏽. Okay let me finish watching.
Yes, Abiyah, these types of changes can take a lot out of you. I've been there, done that, so I clearly understand. Just know that your community had you covered in prayer. It's good to see that you're back and that things are going well🎉❤🙏🏽✨️
Omg! I just see you posted! I have been checking on you everyday and now Iam late. Lol. Congrats!!! Iam soooo PROUD OF YOU! I have been where your at now, divorced, homeless, got a job and a new place! Girl we got this. Exhale and breath in, only the best is to come now. So happy for youuuuuu❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sometimes you just need to be still and know. You have a strong foundation and drive. Give yourself the time you need. I too was divorcing my ex at 48 with a teenager but God is good and made it through to a much better life (got some serious calluses in my knees). You’ve been through the fire now hold your head high, fix your crown and live a life of joy
I’m inStLouis and been following for a while. I admire your transparency and your motivation to keep going. I too am newly separated not yet divorced and although things seem as if they should be falling apart. Things are really promising for me!! Stay the course. Pray and let GOD have his way
I went and still going through that so I know how you feel. I did not talk to family or friends really nobody. Working is hard but I have to keep working. God bless. So great to see you
✨💝✨Hi Sis. I sent you a message on IG because I was so concerned since you hadn’t uploaded a video. Thank you for pushing through and giving us an update. I’m praying for you. Hugs and much love.✨💝✨
Abiyah great to see your smile again you r just starting a new chapter in your life as long you have got you health and sound in mind you got this Abiyah you go girl ❤
So glad to see you back! Really missed you and your videos. Sometimes you have to be silent. We can usually find ourselves in the silence and find our way. I am so happy to see you thriving❤ So glad you are now in your own place. Wishing you much success and love ❤
It's ok Abiyah go thru your feelings just don't stay there. It won't rain forever. Their is a 🌈. Things will work out and one day you'll tell yourself I'm in a good place.
Abiyah girl so good to see take the time you need girl these things arent easy to go through everyone has feelings and things they go through your an awesome person be strong you will be ok and happy again
I WANNA SAY TO YOU THAT YOU CHOSE YOU AND I CONGRATULATE YOU BC ITS NOT EASY MAKING SUCH A BIG TRANSITION. IM GOING THROUGH A SIMILAR SITUATION SO I INNERSTAND. CONTINUE TO TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME. SENDING PURE LOVE N HEALING YOUR WAY.💛
Praying for your emotional strength. Take care of you! Don’t worry about filming. Sometimes we must just be still. GOD will provide. I am so sorry you are going through this. Remember YOU must come first. Sending prayers, hugs and complete understanding. 🙏🏾🫂😍
I've been following you for awhile and I am very happy for you! It wasn't easy to get where you are but you have, I too have been through a lot in my life and I intend to be happy hopefully soon...keep pushing on and your definitely a person people could learn alot about survival! Take care ❤
Congratulations on moving forward to the next chapter of your life. I missed your videos but I'm glad you are prioritizing YOU!!! Continued prayers and blessings. 🙏🙏🌹
You got it girl been there done that it's only up hill from now on don't look back go forward i had four small kids and twenty dollars in my pocket but we made it they are all grown now
Someone once said that "divorce" requires a period of "mourning" just as you would mourn a Loved one's death. Especially if you have been married for awhile. Process things at your pace, there will be difficult days but fortunately more good ones👍keep up the good work ❤
Abiyah GOD has given you the strength you need to make it through with the Endurance you talk about. I know you got this cus GOD's got you. Many blessings Aniyah 🤗🩵🙏🏻
It's wonderful to see that you have a nice apartment to start off! Thanks for sharing and I totally understand being silent and taking it all in... Wonderful progress!
Congratulations on your new apt. I can truly understand what you have been going through. I pray you continue to heal emotionally. This is a new chapter and new you in this journey called life. Remember there’s always a rainbow at the end of a storm. Blessings always. ❤
Hi,👋🏾 CONGRATULATIONS!!🎉🍾💐❤️I can’t wait to follow along with you on this new journey. May faith grace you as you continue to push forward. It may be bitter sweet right not, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and in its right time. Peace, Love, and Light…..keep standing and shining in your faith ❤
I’ll add to what the others have said, welcome back and you have been missed and prayed for. Glad to see you moving forward!! Be blessed my sister!!! Keep on keeping on!!
Hi. I just came across your channel. This is the first of your videos I have seen. I don’t even know you but I am feeling your elation for your new apartment and the beginning of the new chapter in your life. I could feel some of your pain when you said that now that the divorce is final it is bittersweet. I know that sometimes when we close the door on an old (and maybe sometimes painful) chapter in our lives it is a relief but as you said it can be bittersweet. We think about what it could have been if things had gone in a different direction but sometimes things are just not meant to be. I don’t know if I’m using the right words but just know that I feel where you are coming from. Wishing you the best on your new journey. I love your new apartment and can’t wait until you give us the new tour after you have your place set up the way you want. One thing I do know is that I could never affords a two-bedroom apartment in my area. Even a one-bedroom is very expensive in my neck of the woods. Fortunately, I own my house. Again, all the best.
Hello everyone I read a lot of the posts and it’s so good to know that my daughter has so much support from the people that watch her videos. I could not have said anything better myself thank you all for your support and I know she appreciates you all also.
I am glad she is healing. Biggest hugs 😊
To her mom you did a great job. Continue to be her biggest cheerleader 🙏🏼🙏🏼Blessing
We love your daughter❤🎉
We absolutely love her.
You're post to all of us, shows us you did a very great job in nurturing the spirit within Abiyah. We thank you for her!
Congratulations on your new home, continued blessings!
Girl your experience has resonated with me. I went through a lot of unexpected losses last year but my faith, family and supported friends have brought me through. My goals this year is to file for divorce of a 40 yr marriage and get my own place and start a new life. Oh yeah and get a mini van. I am a survivor and your videos remind me to trust myself, the process and God. Thank you for being transparent. God bless you 🙏🏽😇😊
I’m so pleased to see you back. Coping and processing major changes in your life must be done in your own way and your own time. And, that’s okay.
Really missed you, your smile and your positive vibes. It's okay to process and take the time to do that. It sounds like you were in survival mode. Girl, you are a survivor and your posts are helping so many people, in volumes that would blow your mind. We love you. Keep going and never give up. You've got this!
“A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.” You will make it and survive! Take it from someone who's been there. You got this!
I pray for your peace of heart and mind during this sad time Abiyah. This too shall pass. You deserve to feel joy again, and will.
You are a beautiful spirit. Keep pushing. The Creator has you in hand and in mind.
Congratulations on your new place! You moved in on my birthday 🥳 I'm 5 yrs older than you. Thank you for sharing, Abiyah. I would like to leave you with this unsolicited advice that I learned through the toughest time in my life (2020-2022) - Let Go and Let God. Trust God, the process of your life's journey and live with gratitude for all that God has blessed you with. Take your time healing, you will come out of this even stronger woman. Sending you so much peace, love & light. 💛💛
You’ve said it all! We love you Abiyah and wish you nothing but the best on your new life adventure❣️
Hello Abiyah, was thinking about you last night and hear you are. GOD hears prayer. I'm at a turning point in my life at the age of 64? Married for 42 years and feeling heavy in my heart about my own true happiness!!!
Its ok to be a little sad Abiyah sending a big hug girl and sending positve thoughts and prayers congrats on the apt
Hey Abiyah
It’s good to see you. Life happens. It has its ups and downs and downs and that’s okay. What’s important is that we dust ourselves off and get moving again. I see that for you. It’s time for a restart. You’ll be fine. You are a strong black woman. You’ve got this. I’m cheering for you. Congratulations on your apartment!
Hello Abiyah , we all deal with everyday life situations . The most importanting thing is to seek help if you are feeling over the
whelm , they are trained professionals that are abel to help , we are not responsible for what our spouse do or not do , we can't make a marriage work if both ppls aren't on the same page , we have to learn how to forgive them & move on with our new life & the forgivene is not for them , but for us so that you can heal , take one day at a time & press forward to making your new apartment your home & never waist time on what is not there anymore , this 2 shall pass , it's a learning experience & a healing process that you will go thru 5 different steps & once you reach the step where you feel no more pain, anger , guilt, why me , then your total healing will start & next year you will look back & thank GOD for blessing you to go on & be happy & most of all enjoy your new peace .
First, it's so good to see your beautiful face and to know you're OK. 2:30 - Life is lifing right now and you're going through all the stages of grief due to the dissolution of your marriage. Understood. It's going to take time for you to heal. I'm praying for you, girlfriend. 🙏🏽. Okay let me finish watching.
You are looking good……so glad you showed up Congratulations on your Divorce it's only UP from here.
Yes, Abiyah, these types of changes can take a lot out of you. I've been there, done that, so I clearly understand. Just know that your community had you covered in prayer. It's good to see that you're back and that things are going well🎉❤🙏🏽✨️
I can't wait for the apt tour when you are all settled in. I'm so happy for you!!! Like a breath of fresh air and a new healthier environment.
Abiyah from one soulsista to another you are one bad ass lady! You can do this and all will work out for your good! More blessings heading your way!
Omg! I just see you posted! I have been checking on you everyday and now Iam late. Lol. Congrats!!! Iam soooo PROUD OF YOU! I have been where your at now, divorced, homeless, got a job and a new place! Girl we got this. Exhale and breath in, only the best is to come now. So happy for youuuuuu❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
So glad you are back! I wish immense happiness in this new chapter in your life.
Be happy as much as you can i have been through stuff also older than you children praying for you it will get better you do you😊
Sometimes you just need to be still and know. You have a strong foundation and drive. Give yourself the time you need. I too was divorcing my ex at 48 with a teenager but God is good and made it through to a much better life (got some serious calluses in my knees). You’ve been through the fire now hold your head high, fix your crown and live a life of joy
So happy for you🥰! Please do not make us wait this long for video. We like to make sure you ok.
I’m inStLouis and been following for a while. I admire your transparency and your motivation to keep going. I too am newly separated not yet divorced and although things seem as if they should be falling apart. Things are really promising for me!! Stay the course. Pray and let GOD have his way
You demonstrate being a go-getter, even in the midst of unpleasant circumstances, so well! I am so happy for you and can't wait to see what's next! :)
Heyyyy Abiyah, WELCOME BACK!!! ❤
Do whatever you need to move forward. We’ll wait while praying for you.
I went and still going through that so I know how you feel. I did not talk to family or friends really nobody. Working is hard but I have to keep working. God bless. So great to see you
✨💝✨Hi Sis. I sent you a message on IG because I was so concerned since you hadn’t uploaded a video. Thank you for pushing through and giving us an update. I’m praying for you. Hugs and much love.✨💝✨
Very nice place!!! I pray it brings you a sense of peace and joy 😊
Missed you Girl! Been there too. It all works out. ❤
So very glad to see you!! Missed your positive vibes. You will get there eventually 🙏🏽😇
You were missed. Do what you need to do for you❤🙏🏾
Welcome back!!! And congratulations on your new home Abiyah.❤❤
Congratulations! I’m really happy for you ❤
Best wishes for you, living in the moment🌹
You have been on my mind. Glad to see a video
🌹Be Blessed Abiyah. Yah be with you and guide you through your transitions victoriously.
It is good to see you and I am glad you’re doing well. Now that part of life is over now it begins a new life. May God be with you.
Oh, so happy to see you 😊
congrats on the new apartment and many blessings to come
Abiyah great to see your smile again you r just starting a new chapter in your life as long you have got you health and sound in mind you got this Abiyah you go girl ❤
Abiyah hope you r all right haven’t heard from you lately miss you
Nothing feels better than having your own space....congrats!
🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations Im so Happy for You i really miss you
*Thank you for the update!*
*We love you, Abiyah!!*
🙂👍❤️
Congratulations on finalizing your divorce and your new home, Abiyah. Good things to come for you.
So glad to see you back! Really missed you and your videos. Sometimes you have to be silent. We can usually find ourselves in the silence and find our way. I am so happy to see you thriving❤ So glad you are now in your own place. Wishing you much success and love ❤
I am so glad to see you you are you are so inspiring to me. Thank you.😢😢😢😢😢
It's ok Abiyah go thru your feelings just don't stay there. It won't rain forever. Their is a 🌈. Things will work out and one day you'll tell yourself I'm in a good place.
Abiyah girl so good to see take the time you need girl these things arent easy to go through everyone has feelings and things they go through your an awesome person be strong you will be ok and happy again
I WANNA SAY TO YOU THAT YOU CHOSE YOU AND I CONGRATULATE YOU BC ITS NOT EASY MAKING SUCH A BIG TRANSITION. IM GOING THROUGH A SIMILAR SITUATION SO I INNERSTAND. CONTINUE TO TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME. SENDING PURE LOVE N HEALING YOUR WAY.💛
Congratulations on pushing through and on moving forward in a way that supports your nourishment! Super proud of you ❤️
Glad you have a place to call home ♥️
Praying for your emotional strength. Take care of you! Don’t worry about filming. Sometimes we must just be still. GOD will provide. I am so sorry you are going through this. Remember YOU must come first. Sending prayers, hugs and complete understanding. 🙏🏾🫂😍
it's so good to see you and to know you've been taking care of you
I've been following you for awhile and I am very happy for you! It wasn't easy to get where you are but you have, I too have been through a lot in my life and I intend to be happy hopefully soon...keep pushing on and your definitely a person people could learn alot about survival! Take care ❤
Hang in There Young Lady , Things Can't Stay Rough All The Time . Look You Can Do It ! Just Don't Give Up
Abiyah, I wish you all the best as you start this new chapter in your life. That’s a nice apartment. Hope you show us how you decorate it! 😊
Thanks for sharing!!! Take care Abiyah 🥰
You look soooo good. A weight has been lifted and now it’s time to be free and do you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👊🏽👊🏽
Congratulations on moving forward to the next chapter of your life. I missed your videos but I'm glad you are prioritizing YOU!!! Continued prayers and blessings. 🙏🙏🌹
Abiyah, I'm so proud of you and I'm sending an abundance of prayers, blessing and prosperity to you.🥰😇
God's got you and this. Just know that. Congratulations on your new home. Peace is everything. Love is not everything. Trust me on this. ❤
Things Change , Nothing Stays The Same 😔
😢🙏🏾4U. Much ❤. Glad you are in an apartment and not on the road all the time. Home is wherever you are. May you have peace.
Life comes with changes…welcome to your new life! Embrace it and be free 😊.
You are strong and God will continue to lead you and bless you in everything you do 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I hollered! 🙌🏾😝 we missed you Abiyah!
Really missed you very much❤😊
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 on The Divorce Keep Going Forward .
You got it girl been there done that it's only up hill from now on don't look back go forward i had four small kids and twenty dollars in my pocket but we made it they are all grown now
Self care is the best care❤❤I'm so happy you are taking care of yourself the way you need to ❤❤
Someone once said that "divorce" requires a period of "mourning" just as you would mourn a Loved one's death. Especially if you have been married for awhile. Process things at your pace, there will be difficult days but fortunately more good ones👍keep up the good work ❤
Abiyah GOD has given you the strength you need to make it through with the Endurance you talk about.
I know you got this cus GOD's got you.
Many blessings Aniyah 🤗🩵🙏🏻
48 is great! Congratulations on your new beginnings ❤
Love your FOA sweatshirt! @lifewithAnthony❤❤
It's wonderful to see that you have a nice apartment to start off! Thanks for sharing and I totally understand being silent and taking it all in... Wonderful progress!
I'm glad, you're back!!!!!!!😊😊😊
Congratulations on your new apt. I can truly understand what you have been going through. I pray you continue to heal emotionally. This is a new chapter and new you in this journey called life. Remember there’s always a rainbow at the end of a storm. Blessings always. ❤
Hey Gurl!! Good for you, you’ll have a piece of mind now. You’ll be just fine. Proud of you🎉🎉❤❤
You got this. Girl😀😎
It’s so good to see you’re back … you popped up this morning and I said wow she’s back!
The changes must be for the better because you look amazing. You have a glow. ✨️
Beautiful apartment,congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
I'm happy for you. God bless you and keep you strong.
I'm glad you're learning to heal.
You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Keep praying God got you and you will make it through.
Blessings, to you on your new chapter. I too started over at age 56, rediscovering myself and growing from the lessons learned.
Really happy to see you back.... Praying for you, sister 🙏
Hi,👋🏾 CONGRATULATIONS!!🎉🍾💐❤️I can’t wait to follow along with you on this new journey. May faith grace you as you continue to push forward. It may be bitter sweet right not, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and in its right time. Peace, Love, and Light…..keep standing and shining in your faith ❤
I so glad to see you back. I missed you. Keep your chin up, because everything will be alright. Proud of you 👍 ❤
I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. Your apartment is looking really spacious, though! Here's to new beginnings!🌻💐✨
I’ll add to what the others have said, welcome back and you have been missed and prayed for. Glad to see you moving forward!! Be blessed my sister!!! Keep on keeping on!!
Glad to see that smile. Congratulations on new beginnings..
Enjoy Your Best Life 🎉🎉🎉 You Are Slowly Doing What You Said 👍 Keep Going Forward
Welcome back. I don't commitment often,but missed your videos
Congratulations
That's a very nice apartment Abiya!! Congrats!! & enjoy!!!
Miss you Abiyah, so happy to see you are doing well.
Hi. I just came across your channel. This is the first of your videos I have seen. I don’t even know you but I am feeling your elation for your new apartment and the beginning of the new chapter in your life. I could feel some of your pain when you said that now that the divorce is final it is bittersweet. I know that sometimes when we close the door on an old (and maybe sometimes painful) chapter in our lives it is a relief but as you said it can be bittersweet. We think about what it could have been if things had gone in a different direction but sometimes things are just not meant to be. I don’t know if I’m using the right words but just know that I feel where you are coming from. Wishing you the best on your new journey. I love your new apartment and can’t wait until you give us the new tour after you have your place set up the way you want. One thing I do know is that I could never affords a two-bedroom apartment in my area. Even a one-bedroom is very expensive in my neck of the woods. Fortunately, I own my house. Again, all the best.