It’s really disgusting how people think its okay to take jabs at black women and our hair as a way to go viral. But we can’t ignore the fact that the reason why some of them feel this comfortable to talk horribly about our hair is because some people will go online and complain and bash their own hair and then other races or people with looser textures think its okay for them too to speak negatively. Why would they not if they see you do it? We need to stop speaking down on ourselves ladies please its getting ridiculous at this point.
Setting up ringlight on every working day to complain about how you hate your hair is another problem within the natural. So yes, people like him would leverage on those insecurities...and make you more insecure!
I went through her videos and she always had box braids on. Braids are great truly, but now I understand the breakdown. Her hair is always tucked away!
Wearing hair out is really great advice, you'll start accepting your hair more and also try styling it with conditioner after wash day instead of gel if gel is itchy to you, game changer for me. Great video ❤💚
4C hair I feel looks the best in styles and stuff. Though I just have wavy hair but every lady I've seen with 4C hair usually styles their hair so detailed and they're so beautiful.
Nothing wrong with going RIGHT in to natural hair if you have no fears. The key is to learn as you go. Be patient and explore. 4c shrinkage is the magic beauty of 4c hair. I love that our hair does that. It’s a flex not a flaw. 4c hair is not difficult. It is the person who wants 4c hair to do things that it is not meant to do that makes it difficult.
I have 4a hair.But back in haiti people who have 4c hair, they add castor oil and african thread.When they wake up in the morning, they do ponytail. I used a hair pin to stretch it when i was back home.
Me as a 4A, I honestly do not like my hair texture. I wish my hair was more straight and the curls were a bit loose. Ive always struggled to love my hair but I just don’t. On me atleast for others it is beautiful but for me it’s annoying to take care of and lots of work and efforts put into it. On top of that if I wear a hat and want to take it off I can’t….i have to keep the hat on. It’s annoying and very frustrating, I also just do not like my hair texture, all my family members have wavy/straight hair but me…..I also don’t understand why do ppl have a problem when others express their feelings and frustration when it comes to our hair?. Like our feelings are valid as your opinions are about natural hair.
Your feelings are valid,but I think it stems from the fact every other family member has a different hair texture/ curl pattern. You literally do not have a support system (someone to look at and feel inspired and motivated). There are also hairstyles you can wear and still rock your hat. You've probably heard this many times,but your natural hair is beautiful...and when you stop seeing it as a problem,you can move forward. Its okay to come online and rant about your hair. Just don't make it your whole personality.
@@natura__essie no definitely and I agree with you 100%. I’ve been now growing out my hair and am learning to love it. Because it’s what God gave me and I can’t change that no matter what. I have to love me before anyone else period. But I also do agree with you some ppl do make their love and hate their whole personality when it comes to natural hair. I just wish my hair was a bit more versatile especially when it comes to hair styling. But I honestly wouldn’t trade my hair for anything and that’s the truth lol I just have my moments where I don’t like it to where I do like it 😭😭.
I agree with your tips. There is so much information out there on haircare and styling. We are in the information age. Even chat gpt has hair routines for type 4 hair. I discourage any woman with type 4 hair from any, I mean any form of texture release or chemical treatment. If you're bored or dont know what to do just wear a curly/coily wig temporarily. Then do a twist out, braid out and if you have the face for it so many elegant updos and styles galore. Have fun and learn something new
I watched a video on Instagram (I'll try and find the link) and in the video a black hairstylist was styling a woman with 4c hair and she said the woman had told her(the stylist) that lots of stylists didn't want to style her hair because it's 4c. So I asked in the comments if they were black women turning these women down and to my shock, they were. It's so sad to think that if I go somewhere, I'll be turned down because my hair is too stubborn 😭
@@Marie-Fey40 In this present day and age,we keep going back and forth about this. There's a video I'll make soon. A lady who shared her experience at Fenty salon. This hairstylist legit asked her to relax her natural hair,that it'd make it easier to manage.
Look how happy she was when they told her she looked good. It be your own people who scream 😱 out your insecurities. Your own people will tell you your hair is bad 👎 😒 that first guy is ignorant
6:04 Im 18, and I'm learning how to take care of my hair right now. Growing up, we didn’t do much with my hair due to me being severely tender headed. When I did get it done, it was either in a ponytail, straightened, or in braids. I do think it is the responsibility of the lady to learn how to take care of her hair, but I'm not all for judging her since there are many situations where we black girlies are just not taught about this kind of stuff growing up(either our parents dont know how to style hair either, or for some other reason they never taught them).
@@limeagel Natural hair is not something we all grew up loving. Most of us went natural as teenagers,so I genuinely understand the struggle. Before going into skincare,we try to understand our skin and learn the basics. It took me a while to learn how to care for my hair. As soon as I went natural,I started learning basic things about hair care. You don't necessarily need to know how to style your hair,just learning a few tips and hacks can help. The reason it's partly her 'fault' (not in a bad way) she doesn't understand her hair and feels frustrated,is because she rarely wears it out. You can't have your hair tucked in 247 and expect to understand overnight? For instance you've never opened your textbook and it's time for exam,you try to download all the content of the book overnight,it won't be easy at all. I genuinely understand her struggle,cos we've all been there at one point. Its all trial and error!
i'm a black male with 4c kinky hair i don't want to switch it up i disagree don't resonate witht this advice at all to be honest i have to switch it up because i don't want to switch it up because i want to stick with one hair style that is my favorite now that is the round 70s afro style that's just me i don't really care for braids anymore i feel like it doesn't suit me anymore i feel like afro suits me i love how the way i look with afro hair that's just me i'm a fan of that hairstyle i will also admit i'm the only one that i love nappy hair i know nappy hair and kinky hair always get demonized that our hair have to be certain way that nappy kinky hair is a bad thing i competely disagree with that too i think nappy hair is not bad to me i think it look good to me in my honest unpopular perspective take i just don't like being told what to do being force how my hair how it should or shouldn't be because i think everyone hair is difference what may what do someone else may not work for some of us i think you guys have to respect everyone's free will decsions path on how they want to do there hair i think it's fine if some want to switch it up and some want want to switch it up well for me i'm not switching it up as long they are doing it for them by being themselves not anybody else being someone they are not just to please others i think it's a problem to me when mot being someone they are not but i do agree what you said afro i beautiful hair style i respect your perspective i also just want it to make that clear i just want it too share my own differene perspective too
@@shawn6306 honestly,with men,it isn't much of a problem. My audience are mostly women and that was why I talked about switching things up. Afro is classic and extremely beautiful. You as a male,can always rock it. Women want to be extra sometimes. So,I didn't try to invalidate your feelings or try to tell you what to do or how you like to rock your hair.
@@natura__essie oh ok thanks for letting me know this video is for your audience is for mostly women and no for men sorry for the misunderstanding and you got a good point sometimes most females love to switch it up but there are also some females that don't want to switch it at all that want to keep it the same that love there hair just the way it is and i'm glad you made that clear with me i hope you have a great day take care
@@theduchessofdarknessofficial he said with 4a hair,it's almost impossible to comb it out and you struggle with shrinkage. He was literally more focused and a lot negative towards 4c hair,that's why it's the main focus. I have 4a/4b mix as well.
@@natura__essie he don't know what he talking about 4a hair is one of the easiest to detangle and style not only that but 4A is easy to stretch and becomes 3C when it's stretched 4a hair is no harder to take care of than 3C in fact a lot of the methods to take care of 3C work just as well on 4a. He's dumb
@@mariepearl-harbour2335 he's baiting and chasing clout. Cos topics targeted at black women goes viral. Reason I didn't make a longer video on what he said
@@natura__essie He is a clown . Coily and kinky, coarse textured hair that is considered 4c hair does not look the same wet and dry, as it shrinks when wet, and can look like little locks when wet. This guy is an idiot, he has nothing better to do... Spiral curly hair can also have shrinkage. He is winding up people.
@@natura__essie This guy is a clown and attention seeking. Coily and kinky texture, coarse textured hair considered 4c does not look the same wet and dry, as it does shrink up like little locs for some. So what is this idiot talking about? Spiral curly hair, type 3 can also have shrinkage. This guy has nothing better to do. He is a wind up merchant.
@@pinklotus9684 You are too sensitive. I'm laughing at this clown. He is blatantly race rage baiting and attention seeking from his target audience. You cannot take him seriously. He is a joker.🤣😄
I mean it is the worst hair type. Pretty much everyone with it cannot stop complaining about it, covers it up, and bashes it. Other races also don’t like it. How is 4C hair versatile when you literally cannot do anything unless you fry it? Also Asians can get type 4 hair if they perm it.
@@WoodyDinosaur21 4C HAIR is not the worst hair type. The fact that majority complain, doesn't mean they hate it. I'll like to know how you came up with that statistics? Also, How would you know 4c hair is versatile when you probably don't have 4C or you have little to no hairstyling skills? What do you mean it has to get fried? Please get your facts straight! ASIANS can't get 4C hair. They can mimic the afro,but not the curl pattern. Your comment sound so ignorant and there's some internalized hate and texturism going on!
@@theduchessofdarknessofficial 4A hair isn’t that bad, most people with 3C hair have 3C/4a hair is they are black. 4A hair is when the hair starts to tug back though so it’s annoying to style. It also looks a but weird.
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No truer words, like How do you understand your hair when you keep hiding and tucking it away?
Amazing video as always! 👏🏾
Honestly! You need to give your hair a chance. You keep the book on the shelf and you want to understand its content in a day? Let’s be realistic!
It’s really disgusting how people think its okay to take jabs at black women and our hair as a way to go viral. But we can’t ignore the fact that the reason why some of them feel this comfortable to talk horribly about our hair is because some people will go online and complain and bash their own hair and then other races or people with looser textures think its okay for them too to speak negatively. Why would they not if they see you do it? We need to stop speaking down on ourselves ladies please its getting ridiculous at this point.
Setting up ringlight on every working day to complain about how you hate your hair is another problem within the natural. So yes, people like him would leverage on those insecurities...and make you more insecure!
@@natura__essie setting up a ringlight to complain😂😂
Exactement, c'est une question de logique en faite.
I went through her videos and she always had box braids on. Braids are great truly, but now I understand the breakdown. Her hair is always tucked away!
Sadly, lots of people are ignorant on type 4 bair
@@Marie-Fey40 even some self acclaimed professional hairstylists hates to see 4c hair coming! Its insane!
What was his comments for type 1 hair? As this was mentioned.
Wearing hair out is really great advice, you'll start accepting your hair more and also try styling it with conditioner after wash day instead of gel if gel is itchy to you, game changer for me. Great video ❤💚
@@tintamanengu seconded!
4C hair I feel looks the best in styles and stuff. Though I just have wavy hair but every lady I've seen with 4C hair usually styles their hair so detailed and they're so beautiful.
@@Urolling Like! Its literally so beautiful 😍
Nothing wrong with going RIGHT in to natural hair if you have no fears. The key is to learn as you go. Be patient and explore.
4c shrinkage is the magic beauty of 4c hair. I love that our hair does that. It’s a flex not a flaw.
4c hair is not difficult. It is the person who wants 4c hair to do things that it is not meant to do that makes it difficult.
I have 4a hair.But back in haiti people who have 4c hair, they add castor oil and african thread.When they wake up in the morning, they do ponytail. I used a hair pin to stretch it when i was back home.
Me as a 4A, I honestly do not like my hair texture. I wish my hair was more straight and the curls were a bit loose. Ive always struggled to love my hair but I just don’t. On me atleast for others it is beautiful but for me it’s annoying to take care of and lots of work and efforts put into it. On top of that if I wear a hat and want to take it off I can’t….i have to keep the hat on. It’s annoying and very frustrating, I also just do not like my hair texture, all my family members have wavy/straight hair but me…..I also don’t understand why do ppl have a problem when others express their feelings and frustration when it comes to our hair?. Like our feelings are valid as your opinions are about natural hair.
Your feelings are valid,but I think it stems from the fact every other family member has a different hair texture/ curl pattern. You literally do not have a support system (someone to look at and feel inspired and motivated). There are also hairstyles you can wear and still rock your hat.
You've probably heard this many times,but your natural hair is beautiful...and when you stop seeing it as a problem,you can move forward.
Its okay to come online and rant about your hair. Just don't make it your whole personality.
The man mentioned spiky hair and 1a-1c on the list???
@@natura__essie no definitely and I agree with you 100%. I’ve been now growing out my hair and am learning to love it. Because it’s what God gave me and I can’t change that no matter what. I have to love me before anyone else period. But I also do agree with you some ppl do make their love and hate their whole personality when it comes to natural hair. I just wish my hair was a bit more versatile especially when it comes to hair styling. But I honestly wouldn’t trade my hair for anything and that’s the truth lol I just have my moments where I don’t like it to where I do like it 😭😭.
I agree with your tips. There is so much information out there on haircare and styling. We are in the information age. Even chat gpt has hair routines for type 4 hair. I discourage any woman with type 4 hair from any, I mean any form of texture release or chemical treatment. If you're bored or dont know what to do just wear a curly/coily wig temporarily. Then do a twist out, braid out and if you have the face for it so many elegant updos and styles galore. Have fun and learn something new
I watched a video on Instagram (I'll try and find the link) and in the video a black hairstylist was styling a woman with 4c hair and she said the woman had told her(the stylist) that lots of stylists didn't want to style her hair because it's 4c. So I asked in the comments if they were black women turning these women down and to my shock, they were. It's so sad to think that if I go somewhere, I'll be turned down because my hair is too stubborn 😭
@@Marie-Fey40 In this present day and age,we keep going back and forth about this. There's a video I'll make soon. A lady who shared her experience at Fenty salon. This hairstylist legit asked her to relax her natural hair,that it'd make it easier to manage.
Why does a person without 4c hair have an opinion on 4c hair? Its giving weirdo stalker.
Look how happy she was when they told her she looked good. It be your own people who scream 😱 out your insecurities. Your own people will tell you your hair is bad 👎 😒 that first guy is ignorant
@@nikicarrie4071 Fr. I loved how her coworkers lifted her spirit without even knowing
@@natura__essie me too. B people hurt b people the most about looks. There's nothing wrong with our hair. It's really nice
I doing 4c hair, its the best to style. I also have 4c hair, I can do anything with it.
6:04 Im 18, and I'm learning how to take care of my hair right now. Growing up, we didn’t do much with my hair due to me being severely tender headed. When I did get it done, it was either in a ponytail, straightened, or in braids. I do think it is the responsibility of the lady to learn how to take care of her hair, but I'm not all for judging her since there are many situations where we black girlies are just not taught about this kind of stuff growing up(either our parents dont know how to style hair either, or for some other reason they never taught them).
@@limeagel
Natural hair is not something we all grew up loving. Most of us went natural as teenagers,so I genuinely understand the struggle. Before going into skincare,we try to understand our skin and learn the basics. It took me a while to learn how to care for my hair. As soon as I went natural,I started learning basic things about hair care. You don't necessarily need to know how to style your hair,just learning a few tips and hacks can help. The reason it's partly her 'fault' (not in a bad way) she doesn't understand her hair and feels frustrated,is because she rarely wears it out. You can't have your hair tucked in 247 and expect to understand overnight?
For instance you've never opened your textbook and it's time for exam,you try to download all the content of the book overnight,it won't be easy at all.
I genuinely understand her struggle,cos we've all been there at one point. Its all trial and error!
@natura__essie Ok, I understand that. Thank you for fixing the misunderstanding.
I got long way to go to master hair care lol.
You and your twists are so beautiful
@@LifeisaBeautifulting thank you 😊
Type 4 abcdef or whatever is the best hair!! ❤❤❤❤
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Ladies type 4 hair is amazingly versatile! Rock it however you want to!
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They are not serious 😅.
i'm a black male with 4c kinky hair i don't want to switch it up i disagree don't resonate witht this advice at all to be honest i have to switch it up because i don't want to switch it up because i want to stick with one hair style that is my favorite now that is the round 70s afro style that's just me i don't really care for braids anymore i feel like it doesn't suit me anymore i feel like afro suits me i love how the way i look with afro hair that's just me i'm a fan of that hairstyle i will also admit i'm the only one that i love nappy hair i know nappy hair and kinky hair always get demonized that our hair have to be certain way that nappy kinky hair is a bad thing i competely disagree with that too i think nappy hair is not bad to me i think it look good to me in my honest unpopular perspective take i just don't like being told what to do being force how my hair how it should or shouldn't be because i think everyone hair is difference what may what do someone else may not work for some of us i think you guys have to respect everyone's free will decsions path on how they want to do there hair i think it's fine if some want to switch it up and some want want to switch it up well for me i'm not switching it up as long they are doing it for them by being themselves not anybody else being someone they are not just to please others i think it's a problem to me when mot being someone they are not but i do agree what you said afro i beautiful hair style i respect your perspective i also just want it to make that clear i just want it too share my own differene perspective too
@@shawn6306 honestly,with men,it isn't much of a problem. My audience are mostly women and that was why I talked about switching things up. Afro is classic and extremely beautiful. You as a male,can always rock it. Women want to be extra sometimes.
So,I didn't try to invalidate your feelings or try to tell you what to do or how you like to rock your hair.
@@natura__essie oh ok thanks for letting me know this video is for your audience is for mostly women and no for men sorry for the misunderstanding and you got a good point sometimes most females love to switch it up but there are also some females that don't want to switch it at all that want to keep it the same that love there hair just the way it is and i'm glad you made that clear with me i hope you have a great day take care
I have 3C/4a hair I'm interested in what he has to say about 4A why cut off 4a we are a part of the kinky group too
@@theduchessofdarknessofficial he said with 4a hair,it's almost impossible to comb it out and you struggle with shrinkage.
He was literally more focused and a lot negative towards 4c hair,that's why it's the main focus. I have 4a/4b mix as well.
@@natura__essie he don't know what he talking about 4a hair is one of the easiest to detangle and style not only that but 4A is easy to stretch and becomes 3C when it's stretched 4a hair is no harder to take care of than 3C in fact a lot of the methods to take care of 3C work just as well on 4a. He's dumb
@@natura__essieType 1 hair was mentioned also. He is just gaslighting you,this young lad.
@@mariepearl-harbour2335 lmao. Its called rage bait. That's why he mentioned 4c hair twice and was bashing it in the comment section.
@@natura__essie There you go. Everyone's hair is unique. The Andre Walker Chart is all hierarchy.
I like washdays but I dread making it myself 😢
@@ayobamioluwaranti9191 😂😂 I guess we're the same
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@@nkroks4492 😌😌
This guy is gaslighting you. Trigger effect.😅🤣
@@mariepearl-harbour2335 he's baiting and chasing clout. Cos topics targeted at black women goes viral. Reason I didn't make a longer video on what he said
@@natura__essie He is a clown . Coily and kinky, coarse textured hair that is considered 4c hair does not look the same wet and dry, as it shrinks when wet, and can look like little locks when wet. This guy is an idiot, he has nothing better to do... Spiral curly hair can also have shrinkage. He is winding up people.
@@natura__essie This guy is a clown and attention seeking. Coily and kinky texture, coarse textured hair considered 4c does not look the same wet and dry, as it does shrink up like little locs for some. So what is this idiot talking about? Spiral curly hair, type 3 can also have shrinkage. This guy has nothing better to do. He is a wind up merchant.
The fact that you're happy about that says a lot.
@@pinklotus9684 You are too sensitive. I'm laughing at this clown. He is blatantly race rage baiting and attention seeking from his target audience. You cannot take him seriously. He is a joker.🤣😄
Because why😢
British* not American
@@LethalLemonLime ok
You are way out of your lane!
To say 4C is ‘bad’ hair is inappropriate. ALL hair is good hair.
@@vegasvalleymom6223 one would think I was the one who say 4c is is bad...please rephrase.
I mean it is the worst hair type. Pretty much everyone with it cannot stop complaining about it, covers it up, and bashes it. Other races also don’t like it.
How is 4C hair versatile when you literally cannot do anything unless you fry it? Also Asians can get type 4 hair if they perm it.
@@WoodyDinosaur21 4C HAIR is not the worst hair type. The fact that majority complain, doesn't mean they hate it. I'll like to know how you came up with that statistics?
Also, How would you know 4c hair is versatile when you probably don't have 4C or you have little to no hairstyling skills? What do you mean it has to get fried? Please get your facts straight!
ASIANS can't get 4C hair. They can mimic the afro,but not the curl pattern.
Your comment sound so ignorant and there's some internalized hate and texturism going on!
Its not truly "the worst". You think that because you hate yourself and other self haters are getting online and saying it too.
@@Riverlily12 I don’t have 4C hair though, I have 3C hair lol. I love my hair.
Do you care to explain what's wrong with 4a hair what it looks just like 3C (I have 3c/4a)
@@theduchessofdarknessofficial 4A hair isn’t that bad, most people with 3C hair have 3C/4a hair is they are black. 4A hair is when the hair starts to tug back though so it’s annoying to style. It also looks a but weird.