MAURICE BENARD STATE OF MIND with HALEY PULLOS
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- Опубликовано: 26 фев 2022
- This week's episode I'm joined by Haley Pullos. You may know Haley best from her roll as Molly Lansing on General Hospital.
I love talking with our younger generation about mental health because they’re our future in helping to erase the stigma.
Haley and I talk about anxiety, depression, ADHD, the good and bad of social media. We even touch on Britney Spears and our thoughts on what she’s been going through.
You can listen to Haley's podcast, Criminally Insane here: li.sten.to/aasQhFR
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Maurice, people need to, have to stop being mean. Period. Building one another up is what we were created to do. Loving. Kind. Caring. Holding one another for a little while; literally and figuratively.
Imagine how, who and where we would be, if we did. God is love!!
Absolutely
Anmen to that
You don’t know how much it helps to hear people like Haley talk about taking anxiety meds. I struggle with anxiety constantly and have for many years. Medication has been a life saver!! Maurice, never stop doing these interviews!! ❤️
I won’t🌹
@@MBStateOfMind That's good to hear!🎉
I love Haley who is intelligent and beautiful 😍
I love video I have felt bad about myself I have autism and ADHD. To see Haley is a huge inspiration
This young woman (Haley) was so refreshing. I loved her temperament. Maurice, you are so relaxed in this "role" of interviewer. Your candor and ability to do these conversations on some really deep topics is appreciated. I look forward to seeing more of these interviews even post GH. It is nice to see the human, vulnerable, and personal side of your actor colleagues. It looks like everyone is relaxed and enjoying the format too. It is also nice to share your own stories and insights with others so openly. We don't often see this. Thank you!
I had to come back and rewatch this episode. I am so sad to read now about Haley's DUI arrest. After hearing what she said in this interview, obviously she was more deeply troubled than she revealed here. Too much sadness is swirling around the GH set. We need you more than ever now Maurice. Someone so young, talented and beautiful to end up this way is so awful. I really hope Haley gets the help she needs now...🙏💌
@@EagleFang86 losing her job is the least problematic aspect of what's happened to her. She is obviously struggling and needs some serious therapy, which I sincerely hope she is getting now.
My opinion is she got involved with the wrong people over the last year that got her into the drugs!!
@@deborahkline3482happens to most young women who want to live that 304 life. She went from dresses and beaches to Hollywood parties and skimpy outfits lol
@@deborahkline3482 could be the other job she was working at in the hours leading up to the horrific crash.
My opinion is that she was dealing with mental illness, medications and alcohol combined.
I have watched General Hospital since college...am 64!! It is my daily fix.
I love Haley, she is such a well spoken young lady.
She is such a sweetheart with an amazing personality!
it's a shame about her drunk driving arrest. i hope she gets the help she needs
I am praying for her.
I love Haley, she is really wonderful. I love also that you want more young people to speak out about mental illness. Stress and anxiety. Great conversation! Thank you again Maurice for all that you do 😊❤️
Do you still love her after she crashed into another vehicle while drunk ?
@@taylorbrown8329 She's human. Instead of passing judgement and crucifying her we need to keep her and the other girl in our prayers. Hopefully this is a wakeup call and she gets the help she needs.
@@Spunky1991
Most of the time, I'd agree, however, she hasn't taken any kind of responsibility.
She basically just said "I had an oopsy and I'm temporarily off the show. I'm okay, just need to heal."
She should have said "I made a lot of mistakes, I'm going into rehab. I'd like to make a public apology to the person I injured after I chose to drive after having a drink."
She then got violent with a firefighter saying "This is a f***ing $400 shirt!" Then got violent with hospital staff, having to be sedated.
Her ego is way too big and I unfortunately don't see her learning from it. It's really a shame because I always loved her.
@@TaraConway16 When a person is intoxicated they say a lot of things they don't mean/wouldn't say or do when sober. I don't hold that against her. Nobody is perfect we all make mistakes. I hope this one is a wakeup call for her. I'm sure once she's completed rehab and resolved the legal issues surrounding it she will speak more on it. None of us know her personally or what she's going through. She doesn't have a history of drunk driving so I'm not as judgemental as others are. I'm pulling for her to get the help she needs. And hope ABC stands by her side during this difficult time. Because support is what she needs.
It was because of Maurice Bernard tweeting me back a long time ago referring The Power Of Now by Eckhart Tolle . I couldn’t read it an understand so I had to listen to the audio version. I should listen to it again soon. Its a good book. Thank you for referring it.
Having Haley on was amazing. Her giggle made me laugh. I have from anxiety had to sit down in the middle of Safeway just to get my breathing back to somewhat normal. I know strange but that's me. Thank you Maurice and Haley. 😄❤️
I am with you, sister! Me, too. So many people, and the yellow lighting. I got you!
Dear Maurice: This video changed my life. I watch your channel because I'm a huge GH fan, and I've battled depression most of my life, so mental illness is a subject near and dear to my heart. I had no idea when I started watching this interview that Haley would say something that would literally change my world. When she discussed her ADHD and the symptoms, I realized she was describing me. I looked into it, and went for testing with a psychologist, and sure enough, it was confirmed that I do have ADHD, in addition to Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety, and Persistent Depressive Disorder. I am now 41 years old, and only just got this diagnosis...because of you and Haley (whom I've watched grow up on screen into a gorgeous young woman, inside and out). I can't tell you how grateful I am for what you're doing. I actually started crying when I thought, "Sonny Corinthos just changed my life." Thank you. And please, tell Haley thank you as well. I feel I owe you both a debt 🙂
Yes struggle with anxiety myself it started when I was 34 yrs old didn't know what was going on with me, but it felt like a heart attack it was so very bad my PCP at the time started me on Ativan 1mg, Wellbutrin 100mg for depression, HCTZ for blood pressure. I was on anxiety meds for 6 months I couldn't stay on it long because it's, and narcotic it had stopped then came back in 2016 on me again and this time I had started on Vistaril 100mg for it ,but it wasn't good for me .I'm on Buspiron 30mg twice a day I'm feeling so much better like my old self thank you for sharing your story with us on State of Mind makes other people wanna share their stories!! Thanks Maurice Bernard !!! Haley love this !!!🥰🥰❤❤
Exactly ! I have felt like I was dying in a horrible nightmare when I come out the other side I'm exhausted.... People are SO mean its been 34 years I'm on meds I still suffer even family say just get over it ...Wow if only I could...Maurice thank you great interview as always lots of love !
Love this young lady. With all that is happening with her today, I do hope she gets the help she needs to function each day in her daily life without drugs or alcohol.
What a great show for having Haley on we need to reach the younger generation.. the world is taking away human contact, As always God bless Maurice
General Hospital has been outstanding with the powerful storyline that crafted for their teen cast. It's a well balance i
Of teen angst and first relationships with some heavy duty stuff like the Oscsr and Joslin storyline or the work Elizabeth s kids put in when learning to trust Franco. This show never disappoints. And thanks most of all for Maurice and thus much needed platform.
I hope young women GH, none GH viewers and those who've followed you on here and are going through what Haley has will watch this. Behind that bubbly excited personality is a young woman with a sensitive soul. So true what she said about sticks and stones, some 30 years later and names I was called and the rejections and bullying I faced still leave psychological wounds. I am also Hyper sensitive.. so like Haley said we feel rejection more. There will always be cruel trolling bullies on SM. We know from Twitter how ugly it can get
Thank You
Thank you, Maurice, Haley, and the chat. It's a pleasure to be with you all every week. I don't have family outside the remaining kids. It gets REALLY lonely since only one lives with me now. So, I do view you all as family. Thank you so much for that. This was a great chat today. MUCH NEEDED. I for sure NEEDED to vent. I've been overwhelmed for a while now but NEVER put myself first. EVER. That's catching up to me.
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Haley speaking out about her anxiety is so helpful to young ppl who suffer from it and also about social media of bullying. If someone can’t say something nice they shouldn’t say anything at all I 100% agree with we need to make ppl more aware of the suicide rate among the young people it’s devastatingly out of control they need a safe place to get help and understanding they are not alone. Thank you for bringing so much more awareness of mental health.
Haley, you just described how I feel inside...like I'm dying. Maurice, I've been prescribed lexapro for my depression/anxiety that I've been fighting since my mom passed in 2013. I'm scared to start it. I love this episode. I know I need to start it. All I do is cry
I hope that Maurice shares his experience, atrength and hope w you in re to starting your meds. I believe he will. I look forward to state of mind every Sunday.
Strength*
This was a great conversation, and I hope more young people step forward to open up. Growing up in I think the last generation before social media, I would have loved the ease of access to information we have now, but I couldn’t imagine navigating the mess of High School with the addition of social media pressures. It’s also great that she talked about women and girls being miss diagnosed. It’s quite common, and something that needs to be addressed more often. My best friend was 29 when she was diagnosed with autism. Thank you for continuing to bring awareness. Your conversations and ability to spread hope and understanding reaches so many, and is truly a blessing.
Thank you, Maurice and Haley. Haley, I’m so sorry you’ve experienced bullying on social media. It’s terrible. People have turned social media into a place where they feel safe and anonymous to hurt people. Love it that Maurice is talking to youth. This dialogue is so needed. I enjoyed your talk. Thank you and God Bless you both ♥️
I’m 62 and watch your channel often, but this really touched me. I’ve never heard anyone describe that feeling of things hurting so deeply. I’ve always wondered why things hurt me so deeply and was embarrassed to talk to anyone about it until I was older. I get a lot of aha moments from your show and this was one of those times. Thank you for bringing this open dialog, I am sure you help many people struggling with mental health.
I’ve been enjoying the State of Mind interviews, esp as a GH fan back in the 80s-90s. I haven’t watched GH since & didn’t remember this beautiful actress. So I researched HP’s bio just now, 2 years after this interview, & learned of her horrific DUI car accident. 😢 Omg, wishing her & the victim a full healthy recovery as soon as able. 🙏🏼Maurice, keep doing the great work you are doing for your mental health, your family’s, and ours! We keep learning & living. Thank you.
I love I wasn't an overnight success. Came to LA at 8 was a regular on GH by 10. She has been a treat to watch grow up on the show.
It's amazing how she described her anxiety. Because that's exactly how I feel. I feel like I'm on fire. And nobody understands when I tell them that. What a wonderful interview.
Haley is a very impressive young lady. It was great to get to know her a little bit more. I just love her and TJ on GH. Maurice wow, you hit other home run on State of Mind. I agree with you we need to talk about metal illness more. Like you said before it would be great if they could talk about it in schools. Thanks to both of you. God bless 💙💕
I just loved this sit down with Haley. The conversation just flowed between them it was very interesting. I really enjoyed it
To be so young and dealing with anxiety at her age, Haley is sure putting herself out there and I appreciate it. It's so nice to learn things about the people we enjoy watching. Thank you for sharing and keep taking things day by day and you'll surpass everything your mind and heart wants to do in your ife.
I’m really glad you had someone on that is talking about adhd in women. Although she touched on Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria there are so many other aspects to it and it often occurs with bipolar. (I am a licensed professional who works with this population) the lead research in this area actually shows the opposite about stimulant medications and addiction. It is a personal preference of course Properly treated early can actually reduce the incidence of developing an addiction partly because it helps with impulse control. Neurodevelopmental differences are a bit different that mental health although they co-occur often. Taking medication for adhd is like taking medication for diabetes. It is good to put the most accurately researched information out there otherwise it can perpetuate a narrative of fear that taking medication for adhd is bad instead of that it can also be life saving for many undiagnosed/diagnosed with adhd. It is often traumatic for women to go through the process of getting adhd medication because it has only previously recognized in boys and men. I have watched it personally and professionally. We need more advocates for women with adhd! Thank you for your service!
Hey! Maurice,
I truly enjoy watching you on General Hospital. I love how you play Sonny and the love you have for your family and friends.
Thank You
@@MBStateOfMind you're more than welcome
Such a great episode! Haley is such a burst of sunshine! She is a beautiful soul. Keep your head up and be proud of yourself. Hurt people sadly, hurt people! Thank you Maurice for every episode and for every guest who share their lives with us. Mental illnesses real and whomever is afflicted by it , should never be looked down or made to feel ashamed or ignored! Love and blessings! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for creating State of Mind. Your journey with mental health and what your guests shares with us give people like me who struggle with their mental health hope we can come out on the other side!
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Watched on TV yesterday loved the interview❤❤
Love an kindness we need more of you are so wonderful an Haley is just wonderful very insightful happy sunday moe hope you enjoy the new 🐐 you have
This helped me with Anxiety my friend has Anxiety really bad, and she struggles with it everyday
Haley is such a doll, what a wonderful interview!
I really have bad anxiety and recently I went to see a psychologist and one of the things I was surprised that he said that my brain is doing its job. At first I didn't get it but now I do. It's a really bad disease and it's really hard to get it under control. It's hard to understand the person on what he/she is going through unless you're or a loved person is going through it. I totally understand Haley's story.
Thanks Maurice for state of mind. I love Haley she so great.
Great interview, Maurice. Haley is a well-spoken young lady who brought insight to more mental awareness. Thank you for sharing her interview.
Thank you Maurice & Haley for this enlightening interview! You are both so amazing! Bless your beautiful hearts for these important conversations! ❤
I struggle with anxiety too! I try to stay calm and breathe and fresh air in my face until it passes. I love Haley awesome Actress!! Sweetheart! 💕
Thank you Maurice for another great interview.
Haley is adorable and so smart beyond her age.
Happy Sunday Maurice.. Thanking you for taking time for mental health~ well ess conversations... Your compassion~ concern is most definitely appreciated..
Wonderful way to spend a Sunday with you and Halley, such a fantastic woman Halley is... Sincerely Tanja
Haley, I completely know what you’re going through! I’m 21 and I just got diagnosed with ADHD too. I love you so much! Thank you for sharing. 🥺💗
Have you ever spoke to Ryan Adams about his struggles with mental health? His last bout with anxiety/depression/cancel culture , etc. literally played out on social media. I believe he is 5 months sober now and has experiences worth sharing.
Your podcast is something very special. ❤️
Who??
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Thank you Ms Pullos and Mr Benard.
Loved Haley, very sweet young lady. Great interview as always. Thanks for doing this Maurice, it’s been so helpful to me also.❤️
Thank you Haley! I suffer from sever anxiety and you described how it feels so beautifully and accurately.
I loved this talk. One of favorites i just love Haley and getting to know her better was the best part.
I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder. When I am in an unfamiliar space or situation where I don't have control, I get triggered. My face gets hot, my heart starts pounding, my hands gets sweaty and shaky, my breathing gets fast and shallow, and I start to cry. I didn't get diagnosed until I was 46, ten years ago. I was in therapy, which helped, from age 26. GAD was not a legitimate diagnosis until the 1980s. Some medical professionals still don't acknowledge GAD as any different from panic attacks. The difference is the feeling of anxiety is present every minute of every day. It is its own distinct and separate mood disorder. Medication changed how I see myself. I am not my illness. I have an illness. When I take my meds, I am able to separate these two truths. Then I am able to name it and tame it. Part of GAD is constant negative self talk. Now I say to myself, " That's just my brain beaking off. An irrational message malfunction. I know who I am, and I can do this." Most days I can, some days I can't, and that's part of the GAD. This constant challenge of managing this nasty head talk is EXHAUSTING. I need a good sleep, 9 hours. And, I also nap most days. What else helps? Pets, exercise, good friends, talking to supportive people who love you. And knowing you're not alone. THANK YOU, MAURICE, for using your platform to share your story. We need you!
I just love, Haley! Love watching her grow into this beautiful young woman. Insightful, yet again, Maurice! Brava 👏🏿
Great interview, you connected so well on everything! Thank you for sharing!!
Maurice, thank you for using this platform to bring mental health awareness and for sharing your story along with other's, whom appear on your show! No one else is talking about it and so many are embarrassed and/or ashamed 😔 I have PTSD, anxiety, depression, and I suffer with panic attacks every day is a struggle. I bought your book and I loved it! God bless you...
Great interview like always. Thank you.
As usual I love this sunday's show Haley is a great actress very wise for her age. Yes I think the ability to care less about what other people think about you comes with age maybe, just speaking for myself I realized it in my later years 40 50 and now 64 . Keep up the great work
Always love your shows .Please don't stop making them !
This was wonderful! Haley is so wise! She speaks so well. Love her energy and light!
I wish this were longer! I was laughing when you two were speaking about documentaries, serial killers etc because all I watch almost 24/7 is the ID channel.
Seriously though this was great and I am so glad that you are bringing mental awareness to all ages! Thanks for sharing your story Haley ❤
Yes, so true. I wished this had been a longer interview, too.
Happy birthday for tomorrow ! You look great ! Thanks again for all your help & honesty you are amazing ! You are so brave to be so honest love it ! Love Sonny been watching since 93 Your book is also the best !
Catching this on repeat again! But wonderful conversation. Haley is a beautiful young lady who doesn't need to stress over mean comments. People need to grow up and stop being mean just because they think they can. Thanks Maurice for all you do.
I love Haley; I’m glad you got to have her on State of Mind! I’ve been on Lexapro since I was 14 (I’m 28 now) and it has helped me so much. I look forward to watching every week, Mo!
Really enjoyed watching this. She's great and beautiful. And a great actress♥️❤️♥️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Once again, great interview. Love Haley.
Lovely conversation 👏🏽🙌🏽❤️
Hello I’m enjoying this session. You never know who has mental issues and it’s nice to hear Young people discussing their problems. Love it
Thank you Maurice for having Haley on your show. And wanting to share Mental Illness with the younger people about Depression. Your show is great.
Thank you Haley you described my anxiety. Like dying ... Glad you spoke about this. Love you on GH
Amazing and what a bright light in the world. Understanding why people behave the way they do is crucial for all of us to evolve and truly help one another. 💖
Wonderful interview!! The book "You Are Here" by Thic Nhat Hahn is very helpful anxiety.
Another great interview loved it and haley is such a sweet person
Another great episode. I think Haley is great. I love her character. She plays her so good.
🌹❤️. Thanks so much Maurice. I hope you realize what a difference you have made in my mental health. 🌹 I didn’t realize that I wasn’t the only one who felt like me. I really believe you have made me go forward and feel happy. Thank you so much. ❤️
I love you both ,your acting is on point.
God bless
@mauriceBenard Thank you for another great interview!! Adhd is another one of those mental health issues with alot of stigma. There has been studies regarding boys who are put on adhd meds like adderall and riddelin who end up addicted to Street drugs like meth. NOT SAYING ALL KIDS END UP THIS WAY..... But opening up the important conversation is so important so Thank you!! My son was diagnosed with adhd and the meds(ritalin) made him like a zombie. They have come a long way since then. It's been 20 years. But I tapered him off the meds and didnt tell the teacher and she was so proud of herself for helping us get him on the medication. Because he was doing so much better in school. I was upfront with his dr. And I dont suggest parents do this. This was before we had the information highway at our fingertips like today. But my son developed anxiety and panic disorders and did have a problem with drugs later on. Luckily he is 3 years in recovery and got professional help. We need to talk more about mental health. Thank you!!❤
I Kimberly A Sample say what a Honest conversation with a young lady who has her head on straight and not letting anyone define who she is ....i say good roll model for so many youngins her age ...as usual (State of Mind ) Good Frame of mind is always better and Bubbly .....So natural and easy conversation with someone young .....age ain't nothing but a number ...Real talk all day between the two of them.
Great episode, loved hearing her experience with ADHD and anxiety. It's great learning Ted is her favorite as well. I will never forget you using Ted as an example to hand me my ass on Twitter last year, it was great! 😄😆
Love this great guess Maurice fir having Haley she awesome 😁😁😁
Love love love you guys!! Big fan!!
Love this talk
I love Haley shes so amazing and I enjoy watching her on gh shes my favorite
Thank you Haley on same meds great actress love state of mind great help someone struggling
Wonderful interview!! The book "You Are Here" by Thic Nhat Hahn is very helpfu forl anxiety.
Great interview!
Haley is such a sweet person. So glad you had her on
Thanks for the information. Mental Health is serious. Sonny your the best from GH.
So useful to watch each week. Seems like Frank Valenti would be an interesting guest.
Thank you, Haley ❤️ Thank you for bringing her on, Maurice ❤️
Bullying intervention starts at home and it starts when children are old enough to understand. Parents need to teach their children that they're going to meet people who aren't like them. They won't have the same skin color as them; they may not weigh the same as them; they may dress differently and be from a different social class as them; they may be a little slower at learning things or act differently in another way, but in the end, they're still human and it's okay for them to be different. They need to teach them that if they can't say anything nice, then, they shouldn't say anything at all.
However, some adults are bullies, themselves, unfortunately. They talk poorly of others at home and so their child(ren) pick up on this and then, start looking down on people who are different from themselves. So it's important for parents to stop and take a look at themselves and realize the very thing I just said in the above paragraph. This is the only way we're going to end bullying.
Love Haley She's Gorgeous Great Interview Amazing Insight So Inspiring Loving Your Book !
Another great State of Mind!
I loved the sharing you two did, with the experiences and differences in generations not a reason to fail to communicate with one another. I’m glad the subject of bullying came up. So many kids lives are hurt dramatically from their peers. I think it would be cool to have a few more younger actors on occasion for that perspective. My only problem was that you watch Geraldo, lol...but that’s your choice and not mine to tell you my political lean (bet you can guess!). Keep up the good work!
I just love you two very well said both of you
Love her wonderful interview
Getting help from wherever and however you can is absolutely critical. I think anxiety isn't taken seriously (along with some other mental health issues) by society in general. Usually because of all the misconceptions, misinformation and stigmas attached to it. This is why speaking out and doing the work to bring about change is so very important!
In regard to social media, if you are strong enough to monitor yourself and step back when it gets too toxic then it can be a useful thing. But when it starts to bury you (as it was doing to me) I had to cut it out. And what was surprising to me when I did that is, as time went on, I noticed that I really didn't miss it at all. I came to the realization that I had lived the majority of my life without it, so was it really that critical for my well being? The answer was no...💌💌
This is another great interview very excited when he interviews Tyler (OG Nikolas) soon
Great conversation and Mo is 🔥🥰😍❤️
She explained anxiety to the T
My 1st episode lasted months until I got help. Lost so much weight.
F.E.A.R. 'False Evidence Appearing Real' got the best of me. I literally could not stay still so I drove from place to place all night long. Like Haley Pullos said,
"she felt like she was dying" Exactly how I felt.
Haley has a beautiful soul. Maurice you have helped me so much and i thank you. People do not understand if they have not been through a traumatic thing in their lives i was diagnosed with P.T.S.D. D.I.D. and bipolar, anxiety depression. i have been on meds since1979. I was held against my will beaten, sexually assaulted for hrs. i was 20 weeks pregnant my injuries were so bad my unborn baby girl didn't make it she died 4 minutes after i got to the ER. in the palms of my hands. There is no expiration date on grief. I will never just get over it seems to me if i was going to just get over it i would of after 43 yrs. i will never ever get over my daughter's murder. And my son overdosed on fentanyl in 2017 we are not supposed to bury our children.
Haley is a beautiful young lady and a good Actress Maurice I look forward to State Of Mind And Seeing Who Your Talking To Next keep up the good work
Haley you are absolutely beautiful and you have the cutest personality 💜💜 Maurice you are Amazing for doing this 💯💯
I enjoyed this episode, too!
Maurice... When you and Hayley talked about her podcast, I immediately thought of a channel that I really enjoy. Grizzly True Crime on RUclips is hosted by a really classy lady named Gisela. She's from South Africa and now lives in the Netherlands.
She's written 5 books on serial killers including Bundy.
I think you will enjoy her work. She deep dives into these criminals minds and actions.
Haley looks adorable and is the best.. Thanks Maurice!
What she did was wrong and there’s no excuse for it, but I still love an support her and I hope she gets the help she needs. I hope she uses this as a learning experience and changes her life for the better.