Healing from a toxic mother

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @donnabramante2419
    @donnabramante2419 3 месяца назад +100

    That mother was angry and bitter and jealous of her own child. So toxic and sad . But this happens more than we know

  • @pippiesroom4822
    @pippiesroom4822 3 месяца назад +110

    Tyler Perry on this channel like 👀✍️ 👀 ✍️. Story telling on fleek! Had tears all in my eyes!!!

    • @becca575
      @becca575 3 месяца назад +2

      Me too.😢

    • @quasondrapease7445
      @quasondrapease7445 3 месяца назад +2

      Fr 😢

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic 3 месяца назад +3

      I wish he would cause his films do the most without the script giving the best 😂❤

    • @meme1982
      @meme1982 3 месяца назад +5

      Give her a job now I would start back looking at tp if she was on the team or starring in the movie

    • @CourtneySmith-u1k
      @CourtneySmith-u1k 3 месяца назад +7

      @pippiesroom4822 yes I don't even try to miss one beat of listening to Zin's stories that's just how good she is and she's so full of wisdom and also Tyler Perry does need a person like Zin 👍

  • @earthmatters8866
    @earthmatters8866 3 месяца назад +33

    I can relate😢… I wish everyday I had a mother who accepted me because I am a really good person.

  • @charissaeverett9811
    @charissaeverett9811 3 месяца назад +59

    Her mom was just evil.

    • @LeiMillie
      @LeiMillie 3 месяца назад +8

      Or Jealous...

  • @karlisemartin724
    @karlisemartin724 3 месяца назад +29

    She’s a survivor. One thing about it..Tay’s gunna cry for three hours first.

  • @LoveLightandMilkLLC
    @LoveLightandMilkLLC 3 месяца назад +22

    Unfortunately, this is a cycle that has been going on for generations. Well done, gave me chills!

  • @TheExtraIntellectual
    @TheExtraIntellectual 3 месяца назад +15

    You are a gifted storyteller Zin! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @CourtneySmith-u1k
    @CourtneySmith-u1k 3 месяца назад +38

    The mom had issues with trust and self-esteem and a lot of other messed up things about her

  • @treasurcanada5953
    @treasurcanada5953 3 месяца назад +13

    This chokes me up so bad because I am climbing my way out of emotions from divorce and a lot of trauma of never getting the love I give. So I decided to love myself and my babies and God. I know God is all up in this story because I feel that He will do all the things he said he would. He hasnt forgot about us.

    • @aujenecofield1097
      @aujenecofield1097 3 месяца назад +1

      Loving ur self is the best medicine! Enjoy your journey on getting to know you again ❤❤❤❤simply beautiful and amazing take care blessings

    • @wendyjones1231
      @wendyjones1231 3 месяца назад +1

      The scripture really help me through my divorce 10 years ago‼️ the Bible says thy maker is thy husband‼️ my story is massive, but the love of God is all up in it‼️ God loves you with a perfect and everlasting love, and nothing can separate you from God‘s love‼️

  • @Pinky-kb2hd
    @Pinky-kb2hd 3 месяца назад +18

    Did anyone else get frustrated every time an ad come on interrupting this amazing storyline? 👏🏽 Thanks Zin for sharing!!!❤❤❤

    • @Pisces_Queen
      @Pisces_Queen 3 месяца назад

      I watched the whole thing and only had one ad at 31 minutes in.

  • @lisahightower8370
    @lisahightower8370 3 месяца назад +9

    Mothers sometimes carry the burden of generational toxicity down to their own children never healing. But thank God that the daughters didn’t carry it over to their children and learned from it. Forgiveness is important. Great job!!

  • @Joyce-n6t
    @Joyce-n6t 3 месяца назад +4

    2:10 Like alcohol can be a cycle, also people can be a toxic, cycle. And is very hard to break away from. It's sad but, the first one's to hurt you is your own family.. She left an abusive relationship, that was good. And like the guy that helped her get back on her feet, he told her to leave him and never go back! She did . You only live once, she realize that she had to forgive the one's that hurt her in life., in order to move forward break that cycle of toxi people in her, life She realize, she also can pass on that vicious cycle. So , she made those calls to everyone in her life that hurt her. And apologies. Toxic, people can be a cycle she broke that chain. You have to go through something in order to grow up and learn to love yourself first. Forgiveness is a bi part of this story In order to move on. Love you, Zin. 😊❤❤❤❤ 4:37

  • @merlynneats5591
    @merlynneats5591 2 месяца назад +4

    Man this story really hit home for me. Like man I know each character personally(not them but from my life)

  • @tashasmith1191
    @tashasmith1191 Месяц назад

    Wow this story is off the chain 😮🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾 you never know who is who ! that could’ve been an angel or that could’ve been God in somebody’s body. They had no right to do that to that ladys .👏🏾👏🏾God will always work it out, no matter how hard and how difficult the situation looks is never lean on your own understanding

  • @Mermaidd0ll
    @Mermaidd0ll 3 месяца назад +13

    I want to thank you for sharing this story with us 🙏🏾 it did make me a little emotional because I have a toxic mother and I still deal with her and I'm 35 years old with autism and ADHD. 🙏🏾 God bless you ❤❤❤❤

  • @SagaeNelson
    @SagaeNelson Месяц назад +1

    An amazing story of trials but ends with a beautiful message of forgiveness and love💯💕

  • @britnee2586
    @britnee2586 3 месяца назад +33

    Her mom wasn’t just toxic that bih was EVIL 😮, this was a good story though!

  • @treneshagant
    @treneshagant 3 месяца назад +11

    The father, mother and older sister are all toxic and the failed this baby. As someone who has been through this, I would have and have her even thought about Turning any of my siblings away. Healing from toxic parents, toxic family members, and breaking generational curses is one of the most difficult things to do.

  • @astatine0085
    @astatine0085 3 месяца назад +36

    nothing like being falsely accused. it's a gut-wrenching feeling.

  • @houseofcreativity1
    @houseofcreativity1 3 месяца назад +6

    My mom is toxic. My mom doesn’t realise how toxic she is. I was so used to it that I never realised it until I had a 2 year break from talking seeing my mother and I feel so better she is out of my life.

  • @sharonahmoshe7371
    @sharonahmoshe7371 3 месяца назад +4

    Every child deserves parents but not every parent deserves children. Love your stories. Thank you

  • @OrganicallyYahs
    @OrganicallyYahs 3 месяца назад +9

    😭I’m nowhere near the type of mom that tay but I can certainly do better than I’ve done with my 14 year old. She’s still upset with me from a riff we had this past weekend and will barely speak to me. She’s shut down and I just sent her a message saying “please forgive me for it’s my first time living on earth. I’ll make mistakes but I’ll get better the more I practice living “😢❤ thanks Zin. You’re making your mark on this earth. Keep going and seeking his face!

    • @annabella7188
      @annabella7188 3 месяца назад +3

      Be strong this age group is rough🫤my delivery was too rough with mine and she swears I’m emotionally abusive when I was frustrated with her behavior(stinking attitude)

    • @OrganicallyYahs
      @OrganicallyYahs 24 дня назад

      @@annabella7188 😔it’s getting better

  • @samuelaustin7757
    @samuelaustin7757 3 месяца назад +22

    Wow, your energy in tell stories is absolute the best. I had laundry to do, but couldn't stop listening to your story. What a great ending. Keep up the good work. By the way I am a subscriber 😀😀

    • @LynnManna
      @LynnManna 3 месяца назад +2

      Zin is such a beautiful person.i loved her story too.

  • @yvettemccoy8616
    @yvettemccoy8616 2 месяца назад +2

    What a great story. When people let you down God will take care you. Thank you,

  • @donnaherrera6464
    @donnaherrera6464 3 месяца назад +14

    This was a good one zin.un life we all just need that one person who is willing to help so things could get better.

  • @msladyshiek
    @msladyshiek 3 месяца назад +16

    Zin, how does it feel to walk in your calling!! This was a great story

  • @aliciawilliams7626
    @aliciawilliams7626 3 месяца назад +2

    I really like this story. I listened the whole time.
    Unbelievable!
    Taye is strong and has a beautiful soul.
    God took care of her the whole time.
    I am so glad she overcame the challenges she endured.
    She had a patient, strong, and determined soul the whole time.
    Inspirational.🎉

  • @Butterfly_Dreamz
    @Butterfly_Dreamz 3 месяца назад +14

    Wow just wow! This story was so deep and the message that came afterwards 🔥🔥🔥🔥 keep'em coming!!

  • @larrykelley6728
    @larrykelley6728 3 месяца назад +12

    I'm in tears 😢 😭 🤧 cause this this is my first time hearing this story about having one life to live. I love your storytime, and I thank you beloved big Sister for your gifts 🎁 and talents making room to see 👀 our first time in spirit and truth Asè-ONE 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 🤴🏾 💙 ❤️ 💖 Supreme rising 🎉growing in grace with healing longevity and power 🔋 to the people who believes in themselves.

    • @QueenOfSolutions1963
      @QueenOfSolutions1963 3 месяца назад +1

      💯❤️🌹🌹🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👑🤗

    • @larrykelley6728
      @larrykelley6728 3 месяца назад +1

      @Msanthalina61 thank you chocolate 🍫 😘 blessed 🎶 👏🏾 🙌🏾 be beloved Goddess 🎶 💖 my the sweet waters 💧 of Oshun keep your chocolate self sweet and pure

    • @QueenOfSolutions1963
      @QueenOfSolutions1963 3 месяца назад +1

      @@larrykelley6728 My pleasure always my friend. Thank you so very much🥰❤️🤗😘🙏🏾🙏🏾💃🏾💃🏾👍🏾

  • @lorribrooks2088
    @lorribrooks2088 2 месяца назад +2

    Gurlllll you are gifted and have a sprit of discernment 🙏

  • @JMzcarmel
    @JMzcarmel 3 месяца назад +9

    Heartbreaking yet beautiful story! 😢😢😢 You're a great storyteller!

  • @LeiMillie
    @LeiMillie 3 месяца назад +10

    This was so f**king good...what a story.... truly humbling....thx for the message...

  • @angelastewart6584
    @angelastewart6584 3 месяца назад +9

    She should have written in her journal while she was at school in the office with her counselor. The counselor should've known the mom would find it.

  • @Perfectly-Imperfect1
    @Perfectly-Imperfect1 2 месяца назад +1

    WHY are you always making me cry with the real life stories?! But it was excellent!!!

  • @jacquelineparris7253
    @jacquelineparris7253 3 месяца назад +1

    Awesome story Zin with great life points! God made a way for Tay when family closed the door on her... David helped her get on her feet! God gave her the strength needed to do what was necessary to achieve her desired goals... now she has her sister and father in her life! ❤

  • @nicolemollette1407
    @nicolemollette1407 3 месяца назад +17

    OMG, what a great story ...you pulled me in sis ..sincerely should write books !! 🙏

  • @Ohjaye_Behave
    @Ohjaye_Behave 3 месяца назад +5

    I just love the way you tell stories. I can see and feel everything as if I’m there. This was extremely triggering for me because I had a toxic aunt who adopted me when I was 13. I wrote a book about my life and how horrible she was to me. It’s called Borderline Beauty;life in the system. Crazy because I’m standing behind my desk at work and I’m a hotel concierge like how Taye was. I remember being homeless when I started this job and ALWAYS wished that I could be a resident. Thank you for this beautiful message Zin 💕

  • @deliciarenise4642
    @deliciarenise4642 3 месяца назад +2

    Zin, I can’t help but think this is your story. You painted the picture to the T. Loved it!!

  • @MEDIC2.0-p9f
    @MEDIC2.0-p9f 2 месяца назад +1

    Girl you gone make me cry I can't take it they treating this poor child terrible OMG

  • @jayjordan9275
    @jayjordan9275 3 месяца назад +8

    Zin, much love from Bmore. Continue to eat big back meals, give wisdom and guidance for healing through your stories and cooking too. Peace & blessings.

  • @latigrafortenberry2059
    @latigrafortenberry2059 3 месяца назад +6

    🖤 I love these! Zen you got something goin with these baby! Keep ‘em coming. I got a lil emotional but on this one but I guess the feeling of abandonment doesn’t go away if not dealt with. Whew. Great ending love.✨

  • @dineyalesanders8338
    @dineyalesanders8338 3 месяца назад +6

    Love Love Loved It!!!!! ❤ My Mom was a story teller she told me and my siblings stories all the time 🤗 she even did storytime at church 😊 everyone would always tell her that she needed to write a book.. Keep up the good work lady bug 😊❤

  • @sheilabradford5467
    @sheilabradford5467 29 дней назад +1

    Wow❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤What a beautiful story and so true to life🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹

  • @fabriennealexander2254
    @fabriennealexander2254 3 месяца назад +3

    Crazy thing is parts of this is what I’m going through now. This is such an amazing story ❤

  • @rasheenanjohnson
    @rasheenanjohnson 3 месяца назад +1

    Zin your tht TRUTH! That story was a tear dropper for sure..

  • @paperbagbrown6733
    @paperbagbrown6733 3 месяца назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 Great story Zen🥰🥰🥰

  • @kmona111
    @kmona111 3 месяца назад +2

    This made me cry cry cry… I related to this story . Thank you for telling your story.

  • @sunflowerglo1771
    @sunflowerglo1771 3 месяца назад +20

    You know this is serious because there's no food 😔

  • @iggygirlsballersclub7819
    @iggygirlsballersclub7819 3 месяца назад +3

    Zin I don't know if this story is real or not, what I do know is that; first off, you tell a story sooo..good lastly, this story is so healing for me. Thank you and keep telling these stories 😊❤

  • @ladykkarisma6929
    @ladykkarisma6929 3 месяца назад +2

    I had tears in my eyes. This was a good story. Loved this!

  • @KalindaM
    @KalindaM Месяц назад

    Zin this was awesome. Don’t ever stop sharing life lessons like this❤

  • @MEDIC2.0-p9f
    @MEDIC2.0-p9f 2 месяца назад +1

    Girl you told that story. .. I enjoyed it

  • @MEDIC2.0-p9f
    @MEDIC2.0-p9f 2 месяца назад +1

    Damn if that child didn't have bad luck she wouldn't have any luck

  • @alocintsruh
    @alocintsruh 3 месяца назад +1

    Girl you are one heck of an amazing story teller. I did want your video to end.

  • @BhigBrown85
    @BhigBrown85 3 месяца назад +1

    ..I am in tears Zin. Thank you. Never look back❤

  • @erickawilson6286
    @erickawilson6286 3 месяца назад +5

    Diamond n the rough 1👏🙏

  • @simplysoups7
    @simplysoups7 3 месяца назад +2

    OMG I had a mini movie of the whole thing in my head as you was telling the story and 😮wow it was amazing!! You really do have an incredible storytelling style!! Muchas gracias ❤ from Australia 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺

  • @lking1260
    @lking1260 3 месяца назад +1

    That story was very touching. The wisdom of that child, was beyond her years. Really loved it!!!

  • @tammymcdonald362
    @tammymcdonald362 3 месяца назад +3

    Zin your story telling gets better and better .. keep them coming😊

  • @angelabarnes5263
    @angelabarnes5263 3 месяца назад +2

    You are a great storyteller, I was in tears in the beginning and thank God for the beautiful ending. We all go through a lot of pain, but we must never give up. Thank you Zin, you keep doing what you do. ❤🎉😢😊

  • @mercedesgiron3606
    @mercedesgiron3606 3 месяца назад +3

    U r a very special cookie!!! A few months ago I bumped into one of ur absolutely delicious food eating videos. Yet something about ur eyes said something else!! So. Subscribed!!! OMG!!! U have a gift-u can a tell a story from the soul!!! Thank you so much for sharing!!! I appreciate ur words!!! much luv from nyc!!!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜💜

  • @kelevettanwajagu5940
    @kelevettanwajagu5940 3 месяца назад +7

    Wow, just Wow.

  • @becca575
    @becca575 3 месяца назад +7

    Oh my goodness you touched my heart with that story. Please write a book you are so talented. You have been blessed with such special gift. Please consider if not a written book consider audio books. ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾
    😊

  • @khristalwoodall6679
    @khristalwoodall6679 3 месяца назад

    Zin u had me in 😢 with this one.❤ you have such a gift.❤

  • @SimpleTruth818
    @SimpleTruth818 3 месяца назад +3

    Girl, you told that story. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Theskincarevixen
    @Theskincarevixen 2 месяца назад +1

    The best storyteller ❤❤❤

  • @KayKay-bc9tr
    @KayKay-bc9tr 3 месяца назад +2

    This was so very good. Thank you so much for sharing your talent.

  • @portiawilliams1127
    @portiawilliams1127 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow! this is a Best Seller, you can write a book, this was great,at my age i have listen to this and learned much ,it is never to late to make a difference in someone life , blessings to you and your Family 🎉❤.

  • @kayetoday6856
    @kayetoday6856 3 месяца назад +1

    I was blessed for this topic today.❤

  • @Saphirestewart56
    @Saphirestewart56 3 месяца назад +1

    This video gave me so much healing. Thank you so much❤

  • @karenhinton2875
    @karenhinton2875 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow! You are blessed and talented! Couldn’t put my phone down… couldn’t wait to hear the entire story. Amazing! Drama filled👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🎬

  • @mzkayla4real
    @mzkayla4real 3 месяца назад +3

    🥰 Hi Zin boo 👋👋👋👋👋 😁
    Your stories are the best!! 💖😊

    • @Zinwithinn
      @Zinwithinn  3 месяца назад +4

      Thanks glad u enjoyed 😊

  • @NikiReynolds_2swift
    @NikiReynolds_2swift 3 месяца назад +2

    That is twisted. I hope she is in jail. She is choosing a man over her own daughter? WTF?

  • @christinewalker8183
    @christinewalker8183 3 месяца назад +1

    I truly enjoyed this story time

  • @LauraHutto-ux3sv
    @LauraHutto-ux3sv 3 месяца назад +2

    You are a great story teller. I am proud of you.

    • @Zinwithinn
      @Zinwithinn  3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much!

  • @Jenna_beans
    @Jenna_beans 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Zin!💕❤️

  • @prttyrzzy
    @prttyrzzy 3 месяца назад +1

    Damnit Zinnnn you done done it again got me in here boohooin. This story was just for me today. I needed that cry. Hoping my story turns out even slightly as sweet as Tay’s. It’s goin on 4 years since I broke loose from my mom and I feel just like Tay, just TRYING. Thank you Zin that was so encouraging ❤❤

  • @CryssNPink
    @CryssNPink 3 месяца назад

    I needed this message! It's your first time and you only live once & to forgive while moving forward ❤

  • @shalamarhubbard6112
    @shalamarhubbard6112 3 месяца назад +1

    Zinnnnnnn, the was a heck of a story. You had me 🔒 in all 👂. This needs movie visual, but your narrative skills are on point I can do without. You give the visual thru your storytelling. You have a gift that will be used by God in a bigger way. Keep at it ❤🔥

  • @selenahambrick9414
    @selenahambrick9414 3 месяца назад +3

    Absolutely Great ...You need to write a book Zin

  • @toshamd
    @toshamd 3 месяца назад

    I really enjoyed this. I don’t want it to end!

  • @lindamc2443
    @lindamc2443 3 месяца назад +1

    I am hooked on this story!

  • @beautiib8672
    @beautiib8672 3 месяца назад

    Wow Win. I had tears in my eyes at the end and will adapt this to my life.

  • @linwilliams9846
    @linwilliams9846 3 месяца назад +1

    Such a great story Love it!! ❤

  • @antoinettiagreen3247
    @antoinettiagreen3247 2 месяца назад

    I love your story times!!!

  • @dalandawallace9969
    @dalandawallace9969 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow😢 this is sooo touching a message with a true meaning it's only our first time 😢😢😢

  • @pameladickerson5272
    @pameladickerson5272 3 месяца назад

    Omg this story time was so good got me in this Atlanta traffic crying and snotting😂😂!

  • @KeonT-pl7lg
    @KeonT-pl7lg 17 дней назад

    Round of applause 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @allisonbriscoe5124
    @allisonbriscoe5124 3 месяца назад +3

    Hey Zin, love the storytelling!!!!

  • @latigrafortenberry2059
    @latigrafortenberry2059 3 месяца назад +3

    This damn story time got me in 😭

  • @chroniclesofvanityslay1198
    @chroniclesofvanityslay1198 3 месяца назад +1

    Much needed, thanks ❤

  • @marquetta2017
    @marquetta2017 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi just wanted to say you did a fantastic job with your stories really touched my heart and I'm quite sure touched others that smile so talented❤😊

  • @tokyo4512
    @tokyo4512 3 месяца назад +1

    Man do these videos more often!! I’m locked in

  • @wendyjones1231
    @wendyjones1231 3 месяца назад

    There are generational, blessings and cursings in families‼️ a lot of times the mother in the family don’t have time to focus on themselves and get healed because they are taking care of the children working outside the home taking care of the home making sure everyone eat going to the game running into the school praying for the family and making sure the cookies stay hot for daddy!! It’s called iniquity it has to be dealt with spiritually‼️ the sins of the parent rest of the children down to 1000 generations until someone breaks the curse with the love of God first loving God themselves and then others‼️ it’s a process in a lifelong journey‼️

  • @HazelBurnett-x7f
    @HazelBurnett-x7f 3 месяца назад +1

    Love your stories

  • @sandrellag1629
    @sandrellag1629 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the story I'm glad you had a happy ending.

  • @ingridtorchon6512
    @ingridtorchon6512 3 месяца назад +2

    Great story

  • @deniserivers8992
    @deniserivers8992 3 месяца назад +2

    You are so freaking amazing

  • @SummerBeautful-n4m
    @SummerBeautful-n4m 3 месяца назад +2

    Zinni u are great story tellers

  • @ayana188
    @ayana188 2 месяца назад

    Excellent story ❤❤❤❤ I’m getting better at it today 😊😊