BBC RADIO DRAMA: ANY OTHER NAME by Ellen Dryden

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • Any Other Name by Ellen Dryden was broadcast on BBC Radio 4 in 2002.
    Story:
    A woman teacher disappears. There is no reason for her to leave home, a long term partner, two children and a job she loves. Then her car is found, with her blood inside, and her partner is held by the police for questioning....

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  • @chrisreynolds3351
    @chrisreynolds3351 8 месяцев назад +5

    Good to hear a well written play that wasn't a formulaic as the run of the mill mystery of a 'missing' person.

    • @dmisso42
      @dmisso42 3 месяца назад

      Really? Seems pretty formulaic to me. Except, perhaps, the "wife" wasn't physically dead.

  • @janeclarkson8471
    @janeclarkson8471 Год назад +16

    Listening to it again, I'll add the absent mother loved only herself! Much more than her children. Self-obsessed.

  • @alansawden7345
    @alansawden7345 3 года назад +11

    Excellent, I like it when the Police turn up in these plays. Thank you.

  • @ayelenayelen2596
    @ayelenayelen2596 Год назад +11

    excellent drama :-) thank you so much !!

  • @fredmartin7842
    @fredmartin7842 4 года назад +63

    Many years ago in my hometown there was a case of a woman who walked out on her husband and children while they were up at the front of the local Catholic church taking holy communion. When they returned she was gone from the pew, never to be heard of again. I haven't thought of it in years, until now.

    • @leemorris2924
      @leemorris2924 3 года назад +8

      Where was this?

    • @fredmartin7842
      @fredmartin7842 3 года назад +8

      @@leemorris2924 Chatham, New Brunswick, Canada

    • @issacbentley7396
      @issacbentley7396 3 года назад

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    • @JoJo-mm8sn
      @JoJo-mm8sn 2 года назад +6

      Was there domestic abuse?

    • @alexanderson1193
      @alexanderson1193 Год назад +5

      Good for her. Men do that all the time and no-one bats an eyelid

  • @janebrown7231
    @janebrown7231 10 месяцев назад +6

    If you are coming fresh to this, DON’T read any of the comments.
    It seems about half the comments are spoilers with no alerts. 😠 😡

  • @lcarole3131
    @lcarole3131 4 дня назад

    This was really very good,believable- certainly on the part of the mother. Everything about how she handled the whole ordeal shows what an actress she was.

  • @jordsupp
    @jordsupp 4 года назад +8

    Hmmm ... Not sure what I thought about that, only in the sense that it wasnt what I thought it was going to be. Thanks for uploading.

  • @margaretormerod6943
    @margaretormerod6943 2 года назад +8

    Good story thankyou 👍

  • @active6302
    @active6302 Год назад +11

    Excellent portrayal of a selfish, ego-centric woman whose family is now better off without her noxious influence.

  • @bartram33
    @bartram33 Год назад +27

    I suspect a lot of us feel like her, but duty keeps us from running away.

    • @doriellesoler7502
      @doriellesoler7502 10 месяцев назад +5

      And maybe ordinary human decency, like, for example, caring one job about your children.

    • @imlistening1137
      @imlistening1137 3 месяца назад

      I should hope not. It’s a coward’s life. If one is unhappy, then make changes and let the others free to find someone who truly cares.

  • @pragatibhushan8697
    @pragatibhushan8697 2 года назад +13

    Very cruel on children.
    Children are not projects that can be lleft in between

    • @TomTomicMic
      @TomTomicMic 2 месяца назад

      Well actually they were near "adults" by then and they leave the nest and start their own families, the bloke on the other hand.....!?!

  • @saraknight3605
    @saraknight3605 Год назад +21

    A very good play. Very well acted especially the boyfriend- conceited, arrogant and emotionally detached.

  • @janeclarkson8471
    @janeclarkson8471 Год назад +29

    Selfish mother. I intensely dislike selfish parents who put themselves first! The child's welfare ALWAYS come first!

    • @leanneclare3750
      @leanneclare3750 10 месяцев назад +2

      I agree, all this tit for tat in relationships the children get forgotten.

    • @TomTomicMic
      @TomTomicMic 2 месяца назад +1

      They are near adults than children!?!

  • @Tinyflypie
    @Tinyflypie 10 месяцев назад +15

    This made me so sad. I keep picturing her 6 months down the road, realising she's alone, no career, no love, just a lonely middle aged woman who abandoned and cruelly damaged her children.

    • @bogdiworksV2
      @bogdiworksV2 6 месяцев назад

      Or maybe free and open to possibilities. Career and a family don't have to be the only options. Middle aged is not old, either. She could have 30 to 40 years ahead of her.

    • @Tinyflypie
      @Tinyflypie 6 месяцев назад

      @@bogdiworksV2 optimistic. But did you know, according to studies, optimists tend to be on the lower end of intellectual capacities?

  • @user-rv4mt8yz9g
    @user-rv4mt8yz9g 9 месяцев назад +5

    To think I spent nearly an hour listening to this play, and it turned out it was just a selfish woman abandoning her children in the cruellest way, and deserting her partner with no explanation or thought for him. And at the end, I think the dramatist intended us to sympathise with her. My advice - don't waste your time on it. I'd love to hear something showing the true effect of this kind of selfishness . Just another woman moaning, as if life was dead easy for men. Which I'm sure it isn't. (I'm a woman BTW. I've never thought men have an easy time.)

    • @kerryh3833
      @kerryh3833 7 месяцев назад +2

      men do have an easier time 😐 There's so many things they don't hey expected to do. they just have to smile at their kids and they are a good parent. And it's almost acceptable for a guy not to cook or clean in the home.

    • @didds1000
      @didds1000 7 месяцев назад +1

      Not on our house. Not my parents house when I was growing up

  • @betsya7054
    @betsya7054 8 месяцев назад +3

    Shouldn't have read the comments before I attempted to listen😢

  • @TheSuperHarrygeorge
    @TheSuperHarrygeorge 10 месяцев назад +5

    First rate upload. Clear an do ads. Brilliantly portrayed play. Thoroughly enjoyable.

  • @buenavista312
    @buenavista312 2 года назад +7

    Excellent…!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @user-zn7of3bd6o
    @user-zn7of3bd6o 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you so much 😊

  • @Angela-cc1hd
    @Angela-cc1hd Год назад +12

    Good play and well acted, its actually a far worse thing to leave a family in this way than if something had happened to her!

  • @terryleetv1
    @terryleetv1 4 года назад +18

    So sad. As a mother I just don’t understand it. But thanks for uploads.

  • @mathonamoore123
    @mathonamoore123 Год назад +1

    Hello, from Ireland. It is Wednesday, the 4th of October 2022. 🧡🇮🇪💚

  • @doneldamacdonnell8602
    @doneldamacdonnell8602 8 месяцев назад +1

    Recently in the UK, three women went missing and were found dead in the water. Mysterious cases. Popular opinion is that they were depressed and had committed suicide.

  • @countrybeach6966
    @countrybeach6966 3 года назад +7

    Nothing too dark so safe to listen to

  • @jacquiadams863
    @jacquiadams863 8 месяцев назад +2

    The father's behaviour is quite disturbing

  • @lyndaa7560
    @lyndaa7560 2 года назад +8

    Brilliant drama, Many thanks x

  • @royhadley686
    @royhadley686 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you

  • @NoosaHeads
    @NoosaHeads 5 месяцев назад +1

    A rather unsatisfactory end.

  • @margaretormerod6943
    @margaretormerod6943 2 года назад +2

    Good listen

  • @theDOHN
    @theDOHN 3 года назад +2

    Another belter Archie ty !!

  • @jackiewacky346
    @jackiewacky346 3 года назад +2

    Thankyou

  • @dl18336
    @dl18336 Месяц назад

    Good story

  • @judiththomas9995
    @judiththomas9995 Месяц назад

    Why do so many of the comments give away the story line?
    Spoil it for others.

  • @suchetadutta1570
    @suchetadutta1570 4 года назад +12

    Very haunting.... Heard it a few times before.. Very haunting....

  • @janisg7409
    @janisg7409 Год назад +3

    THANKS Angela, now I know it has A AWFUL ENDING, BLABBER MOUTH.

  • @mefor5199
    @mefor5199 5 месяцев назад

    Very good production and acting
    Spoilers :::::
    presume there are mothers like that but I won’t be one. I love my kids too much. If I see or eat something good I call them to share how I wish they been with me !!

  • @mikamee5459
    @mikamee5459 Год назад +2

    Hmm not sure if I'm too intrigued by this story. Maybe at the time it was written it was groundbreaking.

    • @rosemarykennedy5430
      @rosemarykennedy5430 10 месяцев назад +1

      Very well put! I’ll use “not overly intrigued “ ❤

  • @elizabethroberts8829
    @elizabethroberts8829 3 года назад +5

    Not a bad listen 👂😀👏🏼👏🏼

  • @angelaavery4264
    @angelaavery4264 7 месяцев назад +1

    Shouldn't have read the comments, it ruined it for me

  • @doneldamacdonnell8602
    @doneldamacdonnell8602 8 месяцев назад +1

    It’s impossible for such a creative person to live with such a self centred narcissist.

  • @judymoraign7078
    @judymoraign7078 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a bunch of nonsense She had no reason to leave her family. Actions of a bratty teenager!!

  • @lauralaladarling3775
    @lauralaladarling3775 10 месяцев назад +4

    I loathed the story of this play. The only characters with any compassion or concern about their missing mother were the poor children. The father was viscious, indifferent, sarcastic, aggressive and impatient with his children. He went on an insane rant of what he imagined the police thought of him regarding his partner's dissappearance, yelling at Susie macabre death scenarios of his murdering her mother and cutting her up! All this self-pitying explosion focused on himself and not on comforting his children. It was ridiculous he hadnt even been asked to atrend the police station let alone been hounded by the press as a suspect. Then the mother, totally indifferent to her children being scared to death as to if she was dead or alive, bangs on, in about 4 tapes, about how she feels with appalling self-centered insensitivity, and then, to capt it all, says she did love them but no longer part of their lives. Or similar. Ghastly. Xx

  • @johnsharples143
    @johnsharples143 10 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoyed it until she started whining away on that cassette at the end.

  • @annchristine47
    @annchristine47 Год назад +5

    The woman is mentally ill.The tragedy is the children.Unfortunately,things like this happens everyday.

  • @leciabella9461
    @leciabella9461 2 года назад +9

    Well not everyone is willing to give up one’s life for family…. Seems selfish but it’s brave at the same time 🤷‍♀️

    • @janeclarkson8471
      @janeclarkson8471 Год назад +2

      It's NEVER brave!

    • @MoodusOperandi
      @MoodusOperandi 11 месяцев назад +2

      Nah, it's textbook cowardice.

    • @doriellesoler7502
      @doriellesoler7502 10 месяцев назад +1

      Brave is the very last thing you could call it, actually.

    • @trishtraynor
      @trishtraynor 10 месяцев назад

      I agree. She drew a line under a situation that was toxic for her and therefore bad for everyone around her. Her children are almost grown, the only baby is her partner. However, I think she's done it before and was given the Laura identity by the judicial system. I loved this play !

    • @lindam9018
      @lindam9018 10 месяцев назад +4

      It's one thing to leave your partner, it's inexcusable to leave your kids like that. Nothing "brave" about it.

  • @elizabethbard5135
    @elizabethbard5135 4 года назад +9

    What an utterly self centered dramatic person. There are ways of getting help with why she feels like that, there are ways of having at least some of the kind of life you need. The children will find it hard to love her, they will never understand why she did what she did. Would you?

    • @liscatcat8756
      @liscatcat8756 3 года назад +5

      youve told half the story ,,, cheers

    • @warplanner8852
      @warplanner8852 3 года назад +1

      @@liscatcat8756 and helped a lot of people from wasting their time with this rancid piece of trash play! To bad I didn't read the comments!

    • @mrk7397
      @mrk7397 3 года назад +1

      @@warplanner8852 I enjoyed it. And have listened to it more than once.

    • @sylviaroberts8103
      @sylviaroberts8103 3 года назад

      @@warplanner8852 Agree with you. It’s a turgid little tale, best left alone.

    • @JoJo-mm8sn
      @JoJo-mm8sn 2 года назад +2

      @@liscatcat8756 Dont check comments b4 listening

  • @adamarlem9863
    @adamarlem9863 Год назад +3

    Rather crappy.

  • @angelajones6719
    @angelajones6719 2 года назад +1

    ?????????

  • @tp9876
    @tp9876 Год назад +1

    😂

  • @nigeloakes1948
    @nigeloakes1948 Год назад +5

    The guy was horrible too !

    • @Beauloqs
      @Beauloqs 10 месяцев назад +1

      Ahh, well, i guess that makes it ok then........

    • @user-rv4mt8yz9g
      @user-rv4mt8yz9g 9 месяцев назад +2

      He didn't walk out on his children or partner with no explanation or warning, leaving them to the cruellest fear and worry about her. She was vile. He wasn't. (I'm a woman. I don't see why we're supposed to sympathise with her, as suggested at the end of the play).

  • @francesca4982
    @francesca4982 Год назад +6

    A very nasty play about a deeply selfish woman, who didn't care about destroying her children, or her partner. And I think the writer expected us to sympathise or admire her. The deepest irony was when she said to her family: "I will always love you". She loved no-one but herself. But she did love herself very much. As a said, a very nasty little tale. Wish I hadn't wasted an hour listening to it.

    • @liscatcat8756
      @liscatcat8756 Год назад +7

      Because of your SPOILER I obviously don't need to listen cos you've told the whole bloody story ... how selfish are you ????

    • @user-rv4mt8yz9g
      @user-rv4mt8yz9g 9 месяцев назад +1

      I've saved you from wasting an hour of your life.

  • @Beauloqs
    @Beauloqs 10 месяцев назад +3

    Ahh, "poster child" for a modern woman.

    • @user-rv4mt8yz9g
      @user-rv4mt8yz9g 9 месяцев назад +1

      I agree. This play is an example of the way women are now encouraged to be deeply selfish, as if no-one else in their lives has feelings or needs.

  • @Mounhas
    @Mounhas 2 месяца назад

    Great play, dreadful woman.

  • @stevie-ray2020
    @stevie-ray2020 3 года назад +8

    Can you blame her when he's so emotionally cold?

    • @JoJo-mm8sn
      @JoJo-mm8sn 2 года назад +2

      She wasn't married to him

    • @susanhawkins5914
      @susanhawkins5914 2 года назад +4

      @@JoJo-mm8sn so??? They obviously had experienced a long term commitment, co-habituated and 2 children. Should they have separated (as in marital divorce) , both the partner’s no-fault rights & obligations would still be the same … at least in Australia 🇦🇺 😉

    • @janeclarkson8471
      @janeclarkson8471 Год назад +6

      What about her children? She loved herself much more than them! A vile piece of work and a coward!

    • @user-rv4mt8yz9g
      @user-rv4mt8yz9g 9 месяцев назад +2

      She was a nasty selfish piece of work. Her partner was well rid of her. And she wasn't worried about the effect on her children. Always love them? Always love herself, I think.