I was married to an American born Filipina for almost 15 years until she passed away from a terminal illness. The last 27 months of her life I took care of her myself 24/7. I did everything for her, I learned to do her hair and makeup and dress her in whatever clothes she chose. I bathed her and gave her a manicure&pedicure every week plus helped her with her regla every month. She refused to let me remodel our home to accommodate a wheelchair so I picked her up and carried her everywhere in our home she wanted me to. Our son was 11-13 during that time and got to witness how a “real man” takes care of his wife and doesn’t stick her in hospice where strangers rob her of her dignity. Before she passed she made me promise to get married again and not spend my life alone. She told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a woman worthy of a man like me and to be happy. Lastly, she told why she refused the wheelchair remodel. She said it was because she wanted to be in my arms as much as possible every day 😢😢😢😢😢. I teared up. Well I finished raising our son alone, not even dating. I found my new soulmate in the Philippines!! Yes she is younger than me but not the typical 20ish girls you see with foreigners. She’s now 38, I’m 54 and she was a single mother of two children. I adopted both and she and I have 2 children together with a 3rd on the way 😂. I have no interest in the absolute hell women in the west put their men through. Those men hit 40, their eyes glaze over, and they definitely have PTSD! So if you are a “real man” not a guy, and want an intelligent, beautiful, talented, loving, caring and traditional wife then come to SE Asia. Treat them right and you will be happy for the rest of your life.
Thank you sir, not only did you took care of you wife, a You are correct, your son also so how things should be. And the wheelchair reason, for sure at times you get tired, but now that you know the reason.. she was right.. in a similar way, I have a 5yr old. I often pick him up, even when going down the stairs I ask him to climb up my back, not bec he can’t go down on his own but I want to bind with him and hold him. Which will not be easy once he grows up
Divorced two feminist American women then met a beauty from Japan. I never thought I’d be married three times. However, my first wife constantly belittled me and always wanted to argue about everything. She loved sex but not with me. My second wife was an improvement but constantly had major projects for me to do. I never had anytime to relax. She too loved fucking around. She had an amazing temper and was really paranoid about everyone. My third wife is what I call normal. She is non judgmental and very supportive I what I want and do. She is a fantastic cook, enjoys doing laundry and cleaning house. She is a charmer in public and a sex goddess at home. I don’t know if all Japanese like her but I am finally a happy man.
im sure you cant divorce her either. they will hurt you even if you tried leaving, dont care if they clean or cook for you. all women got some kind of temper. remember the woman your with will eventually become a woman that will make you feel imprisoned sooner or later just wait cause you cannot leave once youve married these women.
I have worked for 7 Japanese men in Indonesia. The wives never want to live in what they call "dirty" SE Asia. Not even one came! They never want to accompany their husbands. Japanese men aren't happy with Japanese women. The women are so selfish. One of their wives had this rules...I take care of the kids during the weekdays and I have the weekends to myself. She would be with her friends playing sports. The husband goes out with both kids on the weekends. They NEVER do anything with her. So just the 3 of the them for decades. She was never around during the weekends. One western guy married a Japanese woman and lived with her in Indonesia. Of course a western guy won't let the wife not be with him, but she looked miserable. This makes me believe that they are really stuck up. Japan's cleanliness is the same as any western country, but western women would accompany their husbands, even in the slums of Africa. Now I hear from Japanese friend who is a man, nowadays Japanese young couples in Japan have these separate lives from each other. That is such a weird partnership and marriage.
No such thing as a perfect marriage, brother. We are talking about two imperfect people creating a union. There will always be plenty of room for compromise and forgiveness. 🙂
Yes; no marriage is picture perfect all the times. That is important to remember. Also if the wife and husbond are from different countries. Especially if the wife and husbond are from different countries.
I met my wife in the Philippines. I met her on Instagram, and chatted for a couple years. She never asked me for money, and she would call me every day to have a conversation; even if it was for 5 minutes. Two years layers I decided to visit her, not expecting much. I was so impressed with her that I wanted to marry her. After more vetting and talking, I finally made it happen and I married her. I’m so happy with her. She’s not perfect, and we have our ups and downs, but the life that I’m having with her, no American woman would give it to me.
I had a similar experience. I got tired of Western women and moved to the Philippines in Feb 2022. I'm much older, but I found a 36-year-old widow with 2 teen daughters who are great. We plan to get married in August 2023. She is not perfect either, but her and my daughters keep me happy and laughing every day. I have never been happier.
@@lonley1753 Normally, the answer is no. I give my wife an allowance each week, and she may send some of that money to support her father. Officially, being retired myself, the only family I plan to support is my immediate family which is a wife and two teen daughters which I pay for their very expensive International Private School (they are honor students) and make sure they have some pocket money. I am also paying for my wife's College Degree at 33,500p a semester for a special program where you can get a Business Degree in one year because she already has a 3-year college degree. On the other hand, I do occasionally support her family by funding needed "special projects" on a case-by-case basis. I helped her brother get his car air conditioning fixed. I will give him money to buy paint for the inside of his house that was reconstructed. If her father needs something like vitamins, medicine, food or clothes I always get it for him, he is age 81, but that is not very often, he lives with another daughter. We just flew out for his birthday party which I basically funded, and I bought him multiple types of high quality shoes, pants, and shirts for his birthday. That's what he wanted. But I have no regular allowance going to any family outside my own -- and that was known before we got married, and she agreed with that. I do not even give my daughters a regular or scheduled allowance, but somehow they seem to have money. I said "where did you get the money to buy this stuff that they ordered on Shopee?" They said "You Dad, you're our key benefactor." I am?? "We save up the "tips" you give us for helping you."
@@lonley1753 my friend, let me tell you. Unfortunately both of my wife’s parents perished over a decade ago. Also, her older brother who made sure she was safe, also perished back in 2019. She has 2 older sisters, and they have good husbands who have stable jobs and incomes. I mean yeah, once in a while when there’s a calamity we’ll send them money or gifts on Christmas. But that’s why I tell the men looking for wife’s in Phils, to make sure she takes care of your money. Make sure she’s not berating you around, and telling family you have money. 1. Make sure she has a job and can support herself without you. 2. Make sure she has strong ties with her family (positive ones). 3. Make sure she believes and has respect for God (or higher being whatever your religion is). 4. She needs to contact you daily without you initiating contact. 5. She needs to take care of your finances. 6. Gives you respect. 7. Wants to create a home with you. 8. Knows how to cook, and doesn’t mind cleaning. 9. Respects your family also. Follow those 9 things and you’ll be fine 👍🏽 good luck 🍀
It's not just Asia. Women in Colombia, South America typically have traditional family values and are raised with housewife skills. Many of them aspire to have a happy family and a clean home. Imagine that! Gentlemen, get your passport!
@@danspencer4235 Sure, here is a short list as follows: Ethiopia, Ghana, Uganda, Rwanda, Tanzania, Gambia, Morocco and Senegal. In addition, non English speaking nations tend to have more feminine women in general, because they have not been influenced as much by the Western feminism compared to English speaking nations.
@@jahbless4ever But this video is specifically about why more men are attracted to Asian women. I'm sure there's a similar video about African women somewhere. I personally love East Asian women. Specifically Japanese women. ❤
I'm also retired with a six-figure income and a very high net worth. I married my late Filipina wife in 1973. She and I worked hard and built our retirement to live in Southeast Asia. We have homes and a resort in four countries. After my late wife passed I married a younger Filipina woman half my age. My young wife still works as a physician at a major hospital, even though I told her we don't need the income, she wants to work because her parents sacrificed to put her through school at John Hopkins in the US. What I like about living here is the culture and the respect the young people give to the elders. The women are sweet and very caring. Maybe this is why there is a high demand for them in hospitals and care centers around the world. I can't say much about Western women because i had only one girlfriend who left me when she found out that i was badly injured in Vietnam. I was only seventeen when i went to war and too young to know what love really meant.
I CONCUR 1000% :)) PINA GIRLS Are SOME of The VERRRRY WOMEN in The WORLD ( I Lived In 4 Countries & TRAVEL to Over DOZEN ) !!!!! Was Married TWICE to US Girl ( BOTH " VERY RELIGIOUS " ) And BOTH CHEATed On ME & DIVORCED ME (Later WANTED to Get Back TOGETHER ??? ) !!! EACH TIME..... They FINANCIALLY DESTROY ME :o(( NOW , I FIANALLY LEARNED ( My LESSON ) And ONLY SEEKING PINA GIRLS
I'm sorry for your loss of your beloved 1st wife, GOD willing you'll see her again. I am so glad that she was replaced by another good woman. I wish you both peace and all things good.
808pera6 - So what does the 'six figure income and very high net worth' and the "homes and resort in four countries" have to do with the topic. Other than a weird flex....?
As an Asian man my advice 1. Observe this Asian women how they treat their local men (Mostly western men are treated like kings in Asian places) 2. Never get them westernized at all cost.
Well, as an Asian man myself, I can say that if you treat your women like queens, then they will treat you like king. Most Asian men's problem is money and care.
Hear ye me brothers! I have lived in southeast Asia and South America. My declaration is that the Philippines is overwhelmingly ideal for finding a partner because they generally speak English, are a Catholic/Christian nation, and are super family-oriented. There is no other nation that has so many compatible characteristics. Colombian women are lovely but they do not speak English. Learning Spanish is actually quite challenging if you want to express yourself clearly and freely. Philippines wins hands downnnnnnnnnnn. Vietnamese and Thai and Cambodian are far far less compatible with language and religious and cultural differences, which create a perfect storm for misunderstandings and potential conflict.
I agree 💯. Best GF ever was a Filipina. Last GF was Colombian. Both Unique and beautiful. Filipina was definitely low maintenance compared to Colombiana. I would love to find another sweet Asian lady. 😊
big dog. what about a brazilian bird that can speak english? ive lived in asia and south america too. many chicks in argentina chile brasil speak English quite well. Asia birds are defs more cooperative though
Women here in Philippines not fighting about money', values we of relationship more important in we can help. Our man to building House and cook clean happy wife' with good husband',
@@greyowl750 me too. :) Philippines doesn't even know the word feminist 98% of the time. Filippina are very sweet female and kind, the opposite of feminists... That is why good men will always respect them the most. Men simply have no time for men hating feminists anywhere.:)
I was married to a German woman who was not a good household contributor and used affection as a lever (by holding back). I acknowledge that part of that was just her personality, not representative of everyone from her culture. I had previously traveled to SE Asia, and I always avoided Filipinas, mostly because I'd end up meeting the wrong kind of girls in the wrong kind of establishments. I eventually decided to give a Filipina I met in Singapore a chance. Though it didn't work out eventually (Coof and other reasons), I couldn't believe that I'd been missing that the whole time. She was just an average girl, though her previous employment wasn't always on the up and up... She treated me better than my ex wife ever did. I'm now waiting on a fiance visa to get approved and hit the reset with a really great girl...
Found a woman in central Europe after 33 years of dating Western women. In the West I often found various combinations of too much pride, selfishness, rudeness, lack of composure, materialism, masculinastion, untrustworthiness. Now I found genuine love and care, constructive partnership, classic (conservative) values, femininity -and all from an educated women that gave me three children. Not all progress is progressive, but regressive.
@@NotClosedMinded Germany is Central Europe. Former soviet states are just conservative. Doesn't necessarily make them non-Western. Western Civilisation is complicated. But I'd argue that USA is heading towards becoming less Western than certain Eastern Bloc countries such as the Baltics and Poland.
@@MMOfreakOUT1 Germany is culturally Western (culturally Westernized modernity) more than Poland, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Slovenia, Hungary, etc. Eastern Europe is beyond that. Good thing too. Too much US inspired consumerism, confidence and selfishness packaged as empowering, while a lacking etiquette erodes the core.
My wife is a kindergarten teacher here in the Philippines, and I tell you, she have so many "mixed" kids, western dads plus filipina mothers and it's so adorable to look at.
@@Cons2911 Yeah agree, half asian- half white kids are beautiful kids and when they grow into women they become stunning most of the time, like our 2 miss universes and one of our celebrities.
Wonderful job on this video!! Very professional and interesting. I love my Filipina. She is great and I would not change a thing about her. She is the best girlfriend I have ever had since high school. I would say this about her and “us”. She speaks very good English. Also… we work TOGETHER! It’s a team effort for us and she does very well in that role. I am not expecting any housework from her. I presently do all of that myself and plan to continue to do it in the future.
Yes, of course you need to be patient and find a good match for yourself but I quickly discovered the dating process is much simpler and easier with Asian women. I always hated the dating aspect with American women but it is a lot quicker and easier with Asian women. It’s almost enjoyable with them. If they like you and are serious about you they get down to business quickly and typically don’t play games.
I've been married to a Filipina for 16 years now and we live in the Philippines. Best choice I've ever made. We have an awesome relationship and unlike others I had in the past with western women, no fighting and arguing about anything, not even once. Don't get me wrong, we have disagreed on some things a few times but it never devolved into arguments. We take care of each other. In past relationships it was a whole lot of me taking care of her but not much of that care in return. I wouldn't want to give you the impression that all the women here are like this but, if you take your time and use the right head to make your choice, you can end up with an awesome partner that will likely add years to your life due to less stress and more happiness.
I am married to a chinese woman. Asian women are more traditional and wants a man that are able to be a leader in a relationship. She will ask you as a man to make decisions for her. If you are together with an asian woman you need to have the capability to be a good leader or she will regard you as weak and leave you.
In my experience you have to take the lead but only as far as she allows. You might have to make the decision, but what you decide has to be in her best interests, with leadership comes responsibility and a good wife will let you know when you get it wrong. Western women are a waste of time.
As a retired Pacific Fleet, U.S. Navy veteran, I can vouch that Asian women are far more attractive, traditional, feminine, fit, friendly, & welcoming. Do not waste your time on Western women who are poisoned by feminism, their own maternalistic selfishness, & sense of entitlement arrogance, & anything but traditional, feminine, fit, & friendly.
Being Asian I've only been with an Asian woman. That's because non Asian females never gave me a chance oh well . I have absolutely no problems getting along with Asian females. I'm glad too. They are extremely loyal to their family, work, home, etc. And the same with all females in our family to their man.
@@raymondlin8728 Some westernized female Asians look down on Asian men even their own ethnicity with the standard excuse, "He reminds me of my brother" Lol. It's f-ed up.
Yes, I found that out in the 70's when I was on deployment with the Marines. Never got to the Philippines, but got to Taiwan (fell in love), Korea (fell in love again), and Japan. I regret not marrying the woman from Taiwan. I don't have a "fetish" for Asian women, I have a preference for them. Not American Asian women, truly Asian women. I regret that I never got to the Philippines, because I would have gotten married. I had many friends that were very happy with their Philippina brides.
I dated plenty of American girls in college and after that. I went on one date with a woman from the West Indies and knew this woman was marriage material. 25 Years later, and yes I just keep falling deeper in love. All marriages are work but when you both work together both obtain more.
There's nothing wrong with American men wanting to date and marry Asian ladies. As an American widow who's physically disabled, I cannot bring a lot to the relationship 'table'. There are many things one can't put a price on kindness, understanding, being a good listener, being intelligent, being polite, and having good morals. I'll i'm saying is don't forget American ladies, we get lonely too.
I actually prefer American ladies for some reason. This whole servitude to a man attitude is nice but can be choking. I like the wild spirited American girls hehe and I’m from Russia
There is everything wrong if you stop looking at the situation from your own narrow, self-centered perspective. The problem is we don't want y'all to come to our country. You're known as LBH here. Only the extremely desperate or the extremely brainwashed people in our society are susceptible being taken advantaged by you, and it's sickening.
I’ve been married to a Thai for 5 yrs now and she is amazing, attentive and hard working too. My English ex was a lazy, ungrateful witch. There is absolutely no comparison., She is university educated but it would not matter to me if she worked in a laundrette cos she is my world 🙏🏻
Very encouraging story! ALL my friends had ungrateful witches for wives, as the men worked their asses off to be successful. Their reward for all their hard work??? Their wives left them, took half of everything, and found some deadbeat guy to share the wealth with. Just say "No" to western women...I agree with you!!
This is very helpful,it's good to know my fellow brothers are no longer putting up with western women's crap anymore and are travelling overseas to find decent asian women.
Question: What's the difference between a western wife and a vampire? Answer; One is a horrible, evil monster that can totally drain every ounce of a man's will to live and the other is a vampire.
@@RandinoHenson-jf2de I know some older wives that would fit the turned into a bat description. Some are commonly referred to as old bats by many. To avoid any confusion, I decided to be blunt. I wanted even a blonde to understand it's meaning. Thanks for your opinion. You tell the joke how you want and I'll tell it how I want. Have a nice day!
I am in the process of moving and retiring to the Philippines and I am doing this by choice , some for liberal politics and others for a traditional mate. I totally understand why men leave the west to meet a beautiful lady in Asia and its not so they can control and manipulate a partner. There is one word that describes your issues with what western men moving to Aisa ...JEALOUSY !!!!!!!!
The western women you presented with their TikTok videos are EXACTLY why so many men are going overseas to start a new life and perhaps begin a new relationship or marriage. Like many of the other men who have moved abroad, I am a successful executive but I also wish to live abroad. It only makes sense to live your retirement in a country where you can afford a much better standard of living but without having to constantly budget. My parents were married for 62 years before my father passed and my mother stayed at home when my sisters and I were young but return to her nursing profession when we were old enough to be at home unsupervised. My father was a shift worker so we always had at least one parent with us. My mother NEVER went insane from being a housewife. She had her friends in the neighborhood who regularly came around during the day for a cup of tea. So many of these western women today think that they are ENTITLED and that the men should serve their every whim. Screw that!!! I am MUCH happier and wealthier WITHOUT THEM! I know too many men who have been financially destroyed during a divorce due to the laws in the western countries. I am not willing to go down that path of destruction and then live as a pauper whilst they live comfortably off my money which I worked for and saved for the future.
@@georgeargyropoulos5664 I wish you the very best outcome George. As sad as it is to say, I consider myself to be one of the lucky ones because I became a widower after the passing of my wife. At least we parted loving each other but too many of my male friends are emotional and financial wrecks after the courts raped them of everything including their dignity and hope for the future. I hope you are one of the few luckier men who can walk away without riding the anal pineapple.
Now they teach young women that housewives from the 50's went insane and were heavily medicated to to be able to stay at home and raise kids. I do not remember any of my moms friends having any of those issues. Just more BS Propaganda to screw over the Male Population.
Western women are revulsive these days. They are completely - utterly - *self-centered,* and are incapable of bonding to anything near that will result in a stable, lasting family. The West is dying, both culturally and demographically. Men - the smart ones - do not want to waste their time and money on the selfish, narcissistic leeches that pass for women in the West.
I started dating Asian women in 1989 when I was in my teens and I never looked back. I'd had enough of British girls' wanting to sit on the sofa eating chips and not taking a shower, but the worst was the overwhelming self-entitled, agitated, attitude. My attraction towards the cultures of East Asia later led me to graduate from three universities in subjects that I made a career out of. So, Asian women opened a whole new way of life for me. Depending on the culture - because I believe all Asian cultures are very different - I've enjoyed some of the most exciting and wonderful relationships anyone could imagine and adventures in East & Southeast Asia.
@@sagatuppercut2960 Yeah. I dated a couple of British girls who didn't take showers for a few days and it was difficult to ignore when we got intimate. I love the way Asian girls shower or bathe everyday and always smell nice.
Lots of American women are as junky as UK women... over and over I hear the divorce stories ..from my friend guys..what is up with the nasty hygiene habits too I wonder....
@@floogelhornzzz4770 As a broad generalisation, I found that all East and Southeast Asian people shower or bath every day. I've never been to the Philippines, but in Japan, there are a lot of neighbourhood bathhouses and natural springs which are great fun. Getting fresh and clean, and then going for a few beers is great. Japanese girls also enjoy a healthy diet and take care of their appearance, which is a bonus.
I'm attracted to a personality type and physical fitness. Asian women just happen to have the things I look for. It's not rocket science. I live in the Philippines. There is more freedom here. Cars make up a small fraction of the traffic. Most people get around by walking, motorbike, tricycle or bus. I hate the city layouts in America. I can't go anywhere without a car in America. People look at me like a nut job if I walk. The food is organic most of the time and the portions are smaller. I've lost a ton of weight just by changing my diet... and probably reducing stress. It's difficult to figure out a way to have an income source in a foreign country. The locals will work 3x harder than you will and do it for 1/8th the pay. You cannot compete. But if you can get $1k per month, you can live well.
“Asian” is an incredibly broad label encompassing Persia, India, Vietnam, Japan, Korea and China among others. The women from these countries are very different. Lots are very attractive. As are women from Eastern Europe and South America.
Factually true but the term "asian" is usually used when refering to eastern and south eastern people of the asian continent, aka japanese, chinese, koreans, indonesians philipines ect. No body calls arabs "asians" for example, or indians, are always called indians
As someone from Southeast Asia I feel sad that Europeans think that we are uneducated, poor and waiting for a while man to save them. Majority of us prefer men from our culture, but we value marriage and we work to keep our marriage. We learned traditional roles from young age. We would give a lot to keep the marriage. Even career women would cook. Clean, look after kids etc.
I can only speak for myself. I see Asians as well educated, hard working with good values. If we didn't see you as superior in many ways why would so many want to go there?
Please don't assume the actions of a few men for your experience. We are all human and looking for a life partner and Philippine culture is so attractive to guys looking for love and family.
Good video. Thanks. I have also discovered the Philippines. I am married to a Filipina and we live in Cebu in the province. We are happily married and completely adore each other. I am 34 years her senior, receive a very small pension and we live in a simple and crude small province house. She obviously never married me for my money as the Filipinos all around us earn the same or even more than us. Also I am not a young sex buck. We love each other and always enjoy our company.
I would like to share my thoughts so please no hate because I mean no offense to anyone. Am speaking as an american born woman from Hispanic/Asian parents. I was married and had two children with my husband. And was with him through illness and when he passed away. I always worked and didn't depend on him to pay for my personal bills, we had a home budget and separate bank accounts, etc. Because he loved shopping and when we had the same accounts was always bouncing accounts. Haha. Anyways, I loved him because we helped each other there wasn't a that's a wife's job or a husband's responsibility but a partnership between us. Am happy that there were things he could do that I can't. I loved that he always opened doors for me and things like this. In my opinion there has to be compassion, respect, love and communication between both. I have many Asian family and friends because in my family we fall for the person, not an image. And will say that it depends on how a person's character and personality are no matter where they're from. The TikTok videos of women saying those things I find personally unacceptable because it's no one's obligation to take care of them. And belittling a man because of where their from is disgusting to me. I now find myself with men who want me to take off their bills etc. The reason am still single. I have been on 3 dates and these gentlemen not only went to the bathroom or got an emergency call all of a sudden when the bill came. But thought somehow I owed them something for paying the bill. Which I found very laughable, I don't care about going half or paying for the entire bill but this can go either way. It's not if a woman is asian that makes her better it's how the ladies or gentlemen are raised and who their around that can influence their way of believing how a relationship should go. Just my thoughts. I wish everyone a wonderful day and enjoy your journey because life is one of those no refund kinda things. Haha. God bless. And God speed.
@Radd Astronaut You met Asians before? You thihk we smart, humble and simple. We are as stupid, idiotic, arrogant and complicated like you. The danger here is too many of you guys are stereotyping asians as easy going etc. Asians are just as complicated and prone to drama as any white person. Remember that.
I have been waiting for a video like this. I have had Asian girlfriends since I was a teenager. In 2000 I moved to Thailand for work where I remained for 7 years, I was 39 years old at the time. I immediately noticed the difference in Asian women compared to Western ones. The opening assessment of this in this video is correct. In my first couple of months in Thailand i spent in Bangkok until everything was ready for my move to our factory. I met an American man about my age sitting on the steps of the 7-11 about 3 AM. I noticed he had a shirt that said some USA reference and struck up a conversation as Americans were far a few between back then. He told me had just recently arrived quit his job and moved to Thailand. He told me that he had left America to escape "Sexual Persecution". We discussed how beautiful young women were interested in us and back home overweight unattractive women wouldn't give us a second look.I had a rather average looking girlfriend tell me she was going to find herself a good looking rich guy. It was so easy to meet girls in Thailand. That worked in Department stores, Hotels , restaurants etc. giving me their phone numbers. I eventually met my wife of 23 years and have a 21 year old daughter. My co worker who arrived after me from the US met and married a Thai as well. In both of our cases we were living there and had time to develop genuine relationships. In the small town where we lived there was a bar that was run by an expat where we would all congregate. Almost every long term expat had a Thai wife and children. There was a young American engineer who was there for 6 months working on a Plant that was being built. He commented that we all had Thai wives. He said that he didn't have to worry about that because he did not like asian women. We all just smiled and said oh that's nice. about a month or do later he shows up at the bar one night and says he was getting married and showed us the picture of his amazing fiance. We all looked at each other and said wasn't that the guy that said he didn't like Asian women. I love telling that story.
@@anniesok868 cope haha, you offer nothing, but expect the world. provincial asians quite often love to build a life with their man, without expecting the world, whilst being more feminine, and beautiful than you. this is just reality. and now that more and more western men are going oversees, women like you (have lost power) and this threatens you. so you have to resort to insults (whilst watching videos that you know doesnt include you). this isnt your space, it's time to leave.
As somebody who is married to a Filipina I think that this combination - Filipina wife and Western man - is perfect because there are a lot of cultural, religious and historical overlappings. Before my marriage I also had long relationships with Thai, Indonesian and Indian women but the mentality differences are waaay bigger and cultural expectations will cause a lot of misunderstandings.
My good wife, God rest her soul, I was married to her for 35 years. I met her not in S. Korea, but here in America....Till cancer took her away from me.
Now in my second Far Eastern Marriage and loving every moment. Yes headed for the Philippines for the first which lasted 16 years. Then got chosen by a lovely Chinese Girl and have done 18 years and have a daughter. Mixed Children are out of this world and ever so pretty. Boys flock to her.
It's not even just about domesticated chores we want from women; it's things like Respect, honesty, integrity, truth, love and a companion that is a life partner.
USA women don't realize most all jobs have 80% boring repetitive, boring and tediouse things to do. The Eastern women realize this and would rather work for her husband than some uncaring boss
You get respect if you give it. Obviously you either dated the wrong people or you don't respect others yourself. If you see someone as an object you can't respect them.
@safffff1000 these days, you literally can't support a family on one income. Housework is just tedious and boring hun. But once you're a mother, your job lasts 24/7 unless the man actually helps you with the kids. (He should as he is a father and should want to spend time with them)
@@kayleewilliams1232 Unless in the lower 5% you can be a one work outside household. You buy used cars, cloths, appliances, ect. All jobs have boring parts. My mother raised 5 children and had plenty of time to herself, she had brains to be organized, set up routines and delegated to children. My father provide and did no house work. As for most the families I knew. No it's not 24/7 even with babies, unless you hold that child for24hrs.
I read through alot of these comments on this thread and see people shaming men or a couple's lifestyle for what works for them. The fact that men are considered so simple and yet the basics have to constantly be explained to women. The ones who understand have found a situation that works for them. They are happy. They don't diminish a man's contribution to the world and the lifestyle being provided to a woman and the family. Each of us plays a "role" in a relationship.
I never really had a problem dating in the US but I definitely prefer dating in Asia! I think 🤔 the lifestyle that the country provides definitely makes dating and relationships easier! 😊
i wonder why the bot maker cant make a list of comment like 200 different sentences slightly different so the bot not too obvious. also what the bot trigger word?
@@anniesok868 actually, the woman know how to be wives. So it’s rather refreshing to actually date a women that you can visualize as a wife! Unlike in the U.S. most women that don’t understand this concept are not married!
After I divorced my American born cheating ex wife,I moved to Costa Rica,and found the brown girl of my dreams. 20 years of marriage, and two beautiful kids later,we are still in love. Pura Vida desde Costa Rica 😎
At the end of the day you want someone to be there for you, to love and support you. No man wants someone to take away your peace and tranquility! What is wrong to want a better life elsewhere with less money? Man needs to be man and be smart about life now matter where you want to live in and the kind of woman you want to settle with.
I am married to a Malaysian, and that is one of the best decisions I've made in my life. Nothing more to say. To my brethren who are still searching for a life partner who would not cause you major headaches, my advice is to get your passports and head to Asia.
malaysia? some foreigner that marry malaysian or indonesia are forced to convert to islam dan sometimes are paraded by her to her friends, but mostly the guy are happy
Great video. You should always know that just because you go to the far east looking for that special someone you can still encounter heartache and pain. It's not about the women of Asia... it's all about you !!! Your Hope's. Your dreams and your money !!!
I have been with my beautiful Thai wife for 23 years and it has been the best decision of my life. She always puts me first and has reasonable expectations. Recommondation: I learnt the language first to increase my chances to find a good girl.
And as long as you have your own money as a woman, you need a man mostly for - partnership. Partnership is something that friendship cannot offer. There is a much stronger connection here. When you get married, you form a new community, a community that is not comparable to a friendship or a friendship+,what many young people like nowadays. You take the responsibility for each other for better or worse. You hold a mutual obligation, especially when you have children together. You are responsible for each other. This is a completely different obligation than you have with a sweet date on tinder. Actually, I am not really sure if tinder is the right place to find a partner for a real marriage but as I am old, I should not judge the youth so maybe I am completely wrong...
@Pearoroncino nope I would like to see those statistics for your claims? A relationship is a mutual agreement. Women who have jobs don't expect men to have more than them unless she's home most of the time doing the chores and makes less. That is a generalization made by you. Which is probably why you can't get people to date you. You judge people before they even see you. You make assumptions and generalizations. It's no different then the "I hate all men crowd"
I married a Japanese woman in 94. She came here with twin daughters in 90. In the years before her, and the years after her death I've never met a western woman who cared about me. I was simply a free meal. Mai told me once that if she passed away that she treated me to good, so if something ever happened to her to find myself either a Chinese woman or another Japanese woman. She really had nothing nice to say about Filipinos or Thais. She told me that was the equivalent to going to the North side of our town and expecting to find a clean woman. (her words were actually MUCH more vulgar and the north side of my home town is the "wrong" side of town in every possible way) I've actually tried to get to know a few Filipina women over the years. Get to know them online, try to visit them. Yeah they were worse than western women when it came to trying to game me. One woman couldn't even keep straight how many kids she had. The other absolutely refused to help me figure out what needed to happen to get her a way to visit the U.S. She expected me to do everything, including things that would've been easier for her to do like checking on local laws etc. Another flatly asked me for money a week into our chats. I'll stay single thankyou very much. Maybe the next time my daughter and I go back to Japan to visit her grandmother I'll find myself a old Japanese woman close to my age who doesn't really have any family left but would like to come to the U.S. with me and complain about the younger generation and laugh at stupid people on youtube.
Sorry for the bad experience about Filipino women. My advice is to date educated Filipino women with a good family background. There are a lot of Filipinas in the lower socio economic background who just hunt for men as a ticket out of poverty. Usually, these are women who like older men and really have dysfunctional relationships with their family.
@@MM-zo1zwI've been watching 90 day Fiance and there's a Filipina woman named Mary who's exactly like you described but thing is the guy she is with has no balls and is getting owned so badly
I think most of us have decided to follow our dreams of finding someone who appreciate what we can do for them and not take everything we do for granted. We do not want to spend a fortune on a fancy house, 2 cars, a nice boat on a trailer, a cabin at some mountain resort and 2 international holidays per year then not even get some respect for all we do for the family. And we end up loosing everything in a divorce. That's why we try our luck in other countries.
It seems to me that we have a disposable culture. If the toaster breaks, you don’t try to fix it, they simply throw it away and buy another. We treat relationships the same way…why make an effort when so many men are waiting . Our parents tried very hard to make relationships work
I've noticed in London many European men with their East Asian and Southeast Asian wives and children. It's something I was curious about. I could see that it was a trend. Men are quietly voting with their feet.
Don't be fooled into thinking that SE Asian women who want to date Westerners are expecting to take on a 1950's trad wife role, they can get that sort of male partner at home. Totally agree with your last statement, if you want to be treated like a king, treat your partner like a queen. With a SE Asian partner, sex is not a transaction. You don't do good deeds and expect sex as a reward, that sort of relationship will fail hard.
Yes; they most likely will not. Countries like Thailand and Vietnam have moved A LOT; and although that women there seem petite and feminine, they do have their own will and expectations. And we haven't even started on China and Japan yet...
I'm happy to announce out of the five women I have married, the record length of marriage is now held by my Filipina wife. While I am through with marrying should the current Mrs. prematurely passes before me, I can truly say, having married a Asian woman has made the difference in my life and never again would I seek the same in any women in the US of A.
@@iknow2145 There is no doubt in my mind I am the common denominator, however, it is her upbringing and her culture which has allowed us to be more cohesive than those Western women.
@@iknow2145 While its unlikely, its still possible for the women to be the issue while making the logical fallacy of assuming that it had to be him after his 5th marriage, that said, you can def blame him for not knowing how to pick up women, he managed to marry later on, which can prove the point i was making.
Why only South East Asia though? Mongolia, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyztan, even Azerbaijan are such amazing places where most of what you said about SE Asia is also true, but slightly different - mixed with Eastern European culture
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Good video, Mate . There were MANY views I agreed with in this video ! I am Canadian man living in Brasil. I married a Brasillian woman who has some what traditional views about marriage. I came to Brasil when I was 55 years old to escape the cold and have never looked back. DML.
Never married but retired USMC so I have been all over the world and experienced life in numerous parts of it. I just plain gave up on American women (for the most part) several years ago. #1 reason narcissism.
And most of the guys I know that go to other countries to meet women these guys are also wealthy. We could try to date American women but we just don't want to. I mean a flight to another country and hotels costs alot more then buying dinner for some B in America. It is not about the money is about the quality of the women.
People need to understand. This isn't a new movement. This has been going on for the last 40 or 50+ years, and not just guys from the US. Social media is late to the game.
@@2genmc true but it was mostly older guys that retired. Now younger guys can have way more options and work remotely. The internet has given many men options they never had before. And never has there been a better time to have those options.
A "born & raised, currently living in asia" asian woman here! I feel like, a big factor that western (esp white) men forget is that asian people idealize the west a LOT so having a white/ western partner is inherently seen as a win... families will choose you over a local man for their daughters etc etc
It really doesn't have to be Asian women TBH. You can find those qualities in a female everywhere in the world except countries where toxic feminism has propagated. (US, UK, Nordic Countries etc..)
Right, as a high wealthy value man, which things I cannot buy with money? When I want have fun, I can buy it, when I want talk to someone, I can buy it, when I dont want do householdchores, I can buy it - when I want have a real value women, I choose overseas long time ago as this is rising happening
i'm 60 years old and worked as a bricklayer with younger fellas in their late 20s early 30s. These 2 fellas went to Vietnam and Cambodia for a month long holiday surfing, fishing and diving. They didn't go with any intentions of looking for wives or anything like that. Anyway they had such a great time and met lots of good people there that they went back again for an extended holiday. This time though they met a couple of lovely women and they both got married. They ended up both moving there to live, they built houses and started tourist businesses. They love the country (especially the way the government doesn't tax you to death, nor do they interfere in your life with ridiculous regulations and rules etc), the people their wives and extended relatives that they now have there. Their wives are winners, they work hard, never complain, are happy and thankful that they are married, having children and living a comfortable happy life. The fellas said that they have never met women like these in Australia, how the women over there love to work and really put in, they don't want expensive material nonsense like hand bags worth 1000's of dollars, they also never whinge and whine about everything. Also to top it off they love surfing, fishing, diving hunting etc, they loved all that stuff before they met the Aussie dudes, it was how they all met, they shared the same love of those things.
I'm female from a heavy military family with a # of these types of couples. These women buy better clothes and jewelry from my relatives military salary.
The worst mistake I ever made was saying I Do to a white woman. The marriage lasted a year and change. Clearing up the mess from the divorce took me a good 10+ years.
I married a lady from Saigon 48 years ago would have been longer unfortunately the paperwork took about 18 months.... we were blessed with 2 kids both in Their 40's now. I married her because of love and still love her today. My advice married for love nothing else matters. Beauty money status. Nothing
It's not that I prefer Asian women. I prefer women that are RAISED BY BOTH PARENTS , taught to have MANNERS, taught to respect men, aren't trying to ruin people's lives, don't eat more than I do, don't have a feminist/man-hating/competitive agenda, and don't think they are the center of the damn world because they have a lot of likes on a social media site.
I am from the U.S. and married and divorced twice. The 1st one was in Georgia and she went crazy and threw away all our plans and did everything she wanted with no concern for me or our toddler. That divorce bankrupt me, I borrowed $30,000 to get through it all and still wrote off $250,000 worth of debt and lost my car and the ability to visit my only child. Obviously she had a much better lawyer than me. The 2nd one came from money and for no reason she told me to get out. Her mother paid for the lawyer as her parents were multi-millionaires and they were afraid I would go after their money. I was not allowed to go get all of my belongings so I walked away from that. for the next 20 years I dated around and found ALL the single women of various ages and in different locations around the U.S. were not marriage material. Finally I started looking at the Philippines. I had been there in the early 1980s when I was in the Marine Corps and stationed in Okinawa plus had worked with Filipinos in a few of my jobs. Having a good understanding of their culture I went online and did my search. After finding the one, I made a couple of trips there in 2019 to meet her and her family and to travel around. We married in 2022 and even though we have had a few challenges, she still makes me very happy. I am also considering moving there permanently. I love it over there, the people are very friendly, everything is much cheaper over there, and I enjoy Island life and the storms do not bother me. I now encourage every young man to focus on his career until he is 35 or 40 and then go to the Philippines to find a good Province Girl. If she is already in my country then she is already broken!!
Financial expectancies (apart from visa having wings ) by extended family members in poor countries is one of the main problem affecting marriages when Americans, Canadians, English, or anyone from a rich country marry someone from poor countries. I have seen that happening over, and over here in Jamaica. Some people refuse to visit here home, because their partner will be exploited, and they will be embarrassed. I mentioned 'visa having wings" , because some extended family members want to exploit the marriage as an opportunity to get to these countries. Do you have a brother, or sister who wants to marry me too? Its the truth. It hurts me to see that happen, because collectively it does not look good for us, and no one deserve it.
The part about dating in Western countries being some game where you have to navigate your steps spoke to me. In America romantic grand gestures seemed to be frowned upon. Being in an environment where a woman appreciates a gentleman. Rather looking at a gentleman as weak or someone worthy of being manipulated is something I have yet to experience.
yeah western women can date each other for all i care , because they drive any decent man away with their behavior and attitude . when they are in their 20s they all try to score top 2% chads only to end up as rejected/used or as single mothers and in their 30s and 40s they wonder why no decent man that was previously not good enought for them don´t want them anymore now that they have baggage and spend their best years chasing bad boys and players .
Why must a man pay a woman's rent? I live in 🇯🇲 and I find this criteria very wild and ridiculous. What is this mindset? Dinner? Yes clothing as gifts? Yes Possible transport (local)? Yes Rent, tuition/schooling, inter country travel, living expenses...unless you are my wife, men are not obligated to this. Also there are men who give into these criteria like mad people.
Delusionally they feel entitled to men's money for nothing more than sex because that's the only thing a lot of them offer and the man gets stuck with all the bills.
Caucasian American WOMAN here. I was just curious so I thought I would watch to see what all this is about. Not all western women are "westernized". It really depends. There are still alot of us with conservative values out there. I am happily married to a caucasian man who I treat very well and he treats me like a queen. We treat each other with respect. He did not have to travel across the sea to find me either. As far as going to Asia I do know my brother's friend married a filipino gal and she went crazy in America. She ended up running around on him and they had a little girl together so that was very sad because he ended up divorcing her. She ended up working as a go-go girl and when she got older and lost her looks, I ran in to her working as a cashier at McDonalds. A male friend of mine married a filinpino gal and he is now divorced and she initiated it and she changed quite a bit when she came to the US. I also worked for a filipino who was my manager as I was nurse under her. She was very harsh on the caucasian nurses and even when her fellow filipino nurses made mistakes she would cover for them. She bullied nurses who were not her ethinicity including a fellow Indian nurse friend of mine whom I found in tears one day due to her unfairness. So people are people no matter what nationality there is no magic people group out there that is perfect.
❤ Japanese women. Has anyone noticed how obese Western women and girls are becoming these days ? This Fat Acceptance, Plus Size, Big Is Beautiful culture is way outta control.
As an Asian living in the West for ALMOST 40 YEARS! I want to move back to SEA to find a better companion ETC. And it isn't $$$ issue nor lack of confidence, but EXACTLY many of what OOA mentioned.
I joined the club early (atleast that´s what they all say to me) .... 36 and been going to Thailand 6 years now. Not in situation to live over there yet, but I´m stepping up my game from 1 month per year to 3 months a year in 2024. Also going to check out the philippines and cambodia next.
I found my fiance overseas. Despite everything going wrong in my life the past four years, she is still by my side. A Western woman would have left me the moment I had a problem. All I want is a family of my own. I cannot have that here in the West, especially in the US.
What’s with the now? This isn’t a now thing. There’s been plenty of guys preferring Asian women for many years before now. I’ve been married to my Asian wife since the mid 1990s and I’ve been living in Asia since 98. This isn’t a new thing.
The girl at 7 minutes is speaking straight facts lmao. You just disagree out of simply not liking the reality and don't reflect on ANYTHING she actually said. You just start talking about obesity meds, and then give a vague "back in those days relationships had a solid foundation". Uh no they didn't, that's exactly her point. Putting on a show for society and wanting to die inside is not a solid foundation. You also say "no sane men are advocating to go back to the 50's"...And then listing all the things you think was happening back then and why you want it. Your double speak is amazing.
I live in Thailand now. Went on a date two nights ago. She cooked a great meal. Beer was included. I went home with enough for three more meals, and she paid my taxi. The next day she sent 4 mangoes. She's 35 years younger than me and runs her own business. No, I'm not rich. But I live well on SS.
Most men do not understand that the empowerment of Western women comes from the laws we have intended to destroy us but any woman can use these laws. In fact, a foreign woman can cause more profound harm to the gullible man who thinks Asian women are better. Our reality is that what makes women exploitative is what needs to be changed laws and dogma. Too many men are willing to provide and protect women who will abuse these noble acts.
I have a 3 year university qualified teacher Vietnamese wife and are very happy western woman's attitude is what can you do for me A good Asian wife attitude is how can i improve your life Chalk and cheese
As a Filipina living in the US for 8 years now, it is quite true that American/western women are more difficult to please than southeast Asian women. It’s the culture. We are generally submissive by nature and we treat our men like kings even if they sometimes do not deserve it. We take pleasure in the smallest things and gestures. Give us a good home, enough love and security and you will be happy that you did. We don’t ask for too much even if we do, the downside maybe is that we are very helpful to relatives in general and you will most likely find that we send money overseas to help. Having said that, Filipinas in general are hard working and efficient and can also earn their own money without having to depend on the husband. Get yourself a pinay wife, you will be glad that you did. I won’t be surprised if western women would react negatively towards it. It is what it is.
Aren't Asian women even more materialistic than Western women? I hope not but it seems like any woman from a developed nation (including Japan and South Korea) will be materialistic
You are very wrong, if you have enough money to provide for the family that's all a woman needs....but also in developed countries like japan and korea. You have less chances of finding a wife cause they stick with their own people.. yes they might be curious to date a foreigner but that's that
You failed to mention one other big point, the family court systems. In the Philippines I have way more rights as a father than I do in America. This is a very big thing to many men. For me I had always wanted a family, having grown up on a multi generational farm. Well my first marriage in the US failed do to my x liking other men, and with the family court systems I lost my daughter. Not because I was a bad Dad, or she was a great Mom. It simply works that way in the US. I will also say it has alot to do with American womans attitude. There a bunch of man haters, and "victims". They take 0 responsible for anything, and bring 0 to a relationship other than sex. Personally I could give a rats arse what those woman think of me. I payed my dues, I'll do what I want to be happy in life. They just mad since they cannot be happy.
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I was married to an American born Filipina for almost 15 years until she passed away from a terminal illness.
The last 27 months of her life I took care of her myself 24/7. I did everything for her, I learned to do her hair and makeup and dress her in whatever clothes she chose.
I bathed her and gave her a manicure&pedicure every week plus helped her with her regla every month.
She refused to let me remodel our home to accommodate a wheelchair so I picked her up and carried her everywhere in our home she wanted me to.
Our son was 11-13 during that time and got to witness how a “real man” takes care of his wife and doesn’t stick her in hospice where strangers rob her of her dignity.
Before she passed she made me promise to get married again and not spend my life alone.
She told me I would have to go to the Philippines to find a woman worthy of a man like me and to be happy.
Lastly, she told why she refused the wheelchair remodel.
She said it was because she wanted to be in my arms as much as possible every day 😢😢😢😢😢. I teared up.
Well I finished raising our son alone, not even dating.
I found my new soulmate in the Philippines!!
Yes she is younger than me but not the typical 20ish girls you see with foreigners.
She’s now 38, I’m 54 and she was a single mother of two children. I adopted both and she and I have 2 children together with a 3rd on the way 😂.
I have no interest in the absolute hell women in the west put their men through. Those men hit 40, their eyes glaze over, and they definitely have PTSD!
So if you are a “real man” not a guy, and want an intelligent, beautiful, talented, loving, caring and traditional wife then come to SE Asia.
Treat them right and you will be happy for the rest of your life.
TRUMP chose a foreign woman for a reason.
❤️🙏😊👍💯👋👋
God bless you, man. Tons of happiness to you!
Yea my wife is from there. She cooks and take of the kids. I make sure her and my kids are good, and have no problem doing that.
Thank you sir, not only did you took care of you wife, a
You are correct, your son also so how things should be.
And the wheelchair reason, for sure at times you get tired, but now that you know the reason.. she was right..
in a similar way, I have a 5yr old. I often pick him up, even when going down the stairs I ask him to climb up my back, not bec he can’t go down on his own but I want to bind with him and hold him. Which will not be easy once he grows up
Divorced two feminist American women then met a beauty from Japan. I never thought I’d be married three times. However, my first wife constantly belittled me and always wanted to argue about everything. She loved sex but not with me. My second wife was an improvement but constantly had major projects for me to do. I never had anytime to relax. She too loved fucking around. She had an amazing temper and was really paranoid about everyone. My third wife is what I call normal. She is non judgmental and very supportive I what I want and do. She is a fantastic cook, enjoys doing laundry and cleaning house. She is a charmer in public and a sex goddess at home. I don’t know if all Japanese like her but I am finally a happy man.
im sure you cant divorce her either.
they will hurt you even if you tried leaving,
dont care if they clean or cook for you. all women got some kind of temper.
remember the woman your with will eventually become a woman that will make you feel imprisoned sooner or later just wait cause you cannot leave once youve married these women.
Did you show them (ex wives) how happy is your life now? Wonder how are the reaction..😂
Sounds typical
You lucky bastard.
I have worked for 7 Japanese men in Indonesia. The wives never want to live in what they call "dirty" SE Asia. Not even one came! They never want to accompany their husbands.
Japanese men aren't happy with Japanese women. The women are so selfish. One of their wives had this rules...I take care of the kids during the weekdays and I have the weekends to myself. She would be with her friends playing sports. The husband goes out with both kids on the weekends. They NEVER do anything with her. So just the 3 of the them for decades. She was never around during the weekends.
One western guy married a Japanese woman and lived with her in Indonesia. Of course a western guy won't let the wife not be with him, but she looked miserable. This makes me believe that they are really stuck up. Japan's cleanliness is the same as any western country, but western women would accompany their husbands, even in the slums of Africa. Now I hear from Japanese friend who is a man, nowadays Japanese young couples in Japan have these separate lives from each other. That is such a weird partnership and marriage.
Going on 34 years married to my Wonderful wife (Filipina, straight from Philippines). Is our marriage perfect? No...Is it worth it? YES😊
No such thing as a perfect marriage, brother. We are talking about two imperfect people creating a union. There will always be plenty of room for compromise and forgiveness. 🙂
@@OOICU812 Absolutely:)
Ditto. Few things are perfect, but it is still well worth it.
worth it to marry a boring woman
Yes; no marriage is picture perfect all the times.
That is important to remember. Also if the wife and husbond are from different countries. Especially if the wife and husbond are from different countries.
I met my wife in the Philippines. I met her on Instagram, and chatted for a couple years. She never asked me for money, and she would call me every day to have a conversation; even if it was for 5 minutes. Two years layers I decided to visit her, not expecting much. I was so impressed with her that I wanted to marry her. After more vetting and talking, I finally made it happen and I married her. I’m so happy with her. She’s not perfect, and we have our ups and downs, but the life that I’m having with her, no American woman would give it to me.
I had a similar experience. I got tired of Western women and moved to the Philippines in Feb 2022. I'm much older, but I found a 36-year-old widow with 2 teen daughters who are great. We plan to get married in August 2023. She is not perfect either, but her and my daughters keep me happy and laughing every day. I have never been happier.
have you sent her family money though? Are you paying them an allowance?
@@lonley1753 Normally, the answer is no. I give my wife an allowance each week, and she may send some of that money to support her father. Officially, being retired myself, the only family I plan to support is my immediate family which is a wife and two teen daughters which I pay for their very expensive International Private School (they are honor students) and make sure they have some pocket money. I am also paying for my wife's College Degree at 33,500p a semester for a special program where you can get a Business Degree in one year because she already has a 3-year college degree. On the other hand, I do occasionally support her family by funding needed "special projects" on a case-by-case basis. I helped her brother get his car air conditioning fixed. I will give him money to buy paint for the inside of his house that was reconstructed. If her father needs something like vitamins, medicine, food or clothes I always get it for him, he is age 81, but that is not very often, he lives with another daughter. We just flew out for his birthday party which I basically funded, and I bought him multiple types of high quality shoes, pants, and shirts for his birthday. That's what he wanted. But I have no regular allowance going to any family outside my own -- and that was known before we got married, and she agreed with that. I do not even give my daughters a regular or scheduled allowance, but somehow they seem to have money. I said "where did you get the money to buy this stuff that they ordered on Shopee?" They said "You Dad, you're our key benefactor." I am?? "We save up the "tips" you give us for helping you."
@@lonley1753 my friend, let me tell you. Unfortunately both of my wife’s parents perished over a decade ago. Also, her older brother who made sure she was safe, also perished back in 2019. She has 2 older sisters, and they have good husbands who have stable jobs and incomes. I mean yeah, once in a while when there’s a calamity we’ll send them money or gifts on Christmas. But that’s why I tell the men looking for wife’s in Phils, to make sure she takes care of your money. Make sure she’s not berating you around, and telling family you have money. 1. Make sure she has a job and can support herself without you. 2. Make sure she has strong ties with her family (positive ones). 3. Make sure she believes and has respect for God (or higher being whatever your religion is). 4. She needs to contact you daily without you initiating contact. 5. She needs to take care of your finances. 6. Gives you respect. 7. Wants to create a home with you. 8. Knows how to cook, and doesn’t mind cleaning. 9. Respects your family also. Follow those 9 things and you’ll be fine 👍🏽 good luck 🍀
@@user-DrJoe-Future define "perfect"?
It's not just Asia. Women in Colombia, South America typically have traditional family values and are raised with housewife skills. Many of them aspire to have a happy family and a clean home. Imagine that! Gentlemen, get your passport!
Women in Africa make good wives too.
@@jahbless4ever Africa is a pretty big place. Perhaps more specific advice would be helpful.
@@danspencer4235 Sure, here is a short list as follows: Ethiopia, Ghana, Uganda, Rwanda, Tanzania, Gambia, Morocco and Senegal. In addition, non English speaking nations tend to have more feminine women in general, because they have not been influenced as much by the Western feminism compared to English speaking nations.
All the Passport Bros boarding a flight to Asia after watching this video. 😂
@@jahbless4ever But this video is specifically about why more men are attracted to Asian women. I'm sure there's a similar video about African women somewhere. I personally love East Asian women. Specifically Japanese women. ❤
I married a Filipina 5 years ago and it has been the best decision that I ever made.
And how old are you? 89? And your wife 16?
yeah man the mahal are good and respectful
the best descision to marry a boring woman
I'm also retired with a six-figure income and a very high net worth. I married my late Filipina wife in 1973. She and I worked hard and built our retirement to live in Southeast Asia. We have homes and a resort in four countries. After my late wife passed I married a younger Filipina woman half my age. My young wife still works as a physician at a major hospital, even though I told her we don't need the income, she wants to work because her parents sacrificed to put her through school at John Hopkins in the US. What I like about living here is the culture and the respect the young people give to the elders. The women are sweet and very caring. Maybe this is why there is a high demand for them in hospitals and care centers around the world. I can't say much about Western women because i had only one girlfriend who left me when she found out that i was badly injured in Vietnam. I was only seventeen when i went to war and too young to know what love really meant.
its kinda backwards because men who see women in America very nice always say its a red flag.
I CONCUR 1000% :)) PINA GIRLS Are SOME of The VERRRRY WOMEN in The WORLD ( I Lived In 4 Countries & TRAVEL to Over DOZEN ) !!!!! Was Married TWICE to US Girl ( BOTH " VERY RELIGIOUS " ) And BOTH CHEATed On ME & DIVORCED ME (Later WANTED to Get Back TOGETHER ??? ) !!! EACH TIME..... They FINANCIALLY DESTROY ME :o(( NOW , I FIANALLY LEARNED ( My LESSON ) And ONLY SEEKING PINA GIRLS
Congrats and a hug to both you and your wife.
I'm sorry for your loss of your beloved 1st wife, GOD willing you'll see her again. I am so glad that she was replaced by another good woman. I wish you both peace and all things good.
808pera6 - So what does the 'six figure income and very high net worth' and the "homes and resort in four countries" have to do with the topic. Other than a weird flex....?
As an Asian man my advice
1. Observe this Asian women how they treat their local men (Mostly western men are treated like kings in Asian places)
2. Never get them westernized at all cost.
Most Asian women treat me badly.
@@alvinandzin1982 LOL!
they are slowly turning into one
Unfortunately, there are plenty of guys doing just that.
Well, as an Asian man myself, I can say that if you treat your women like queens, then they will treat you like king. Most Asian men's problem is money and care.
Hear ye me brothers! I have lived in southeast Asia and South America. My declaration is that the Philippines is overwhelmingly ideal for finding a partner because they generally speak English, are a Catholic/Christian nation, and are super family-oriented. There is no other nation that has so many compatible characteristics. Colombian women are lovely but they do not speak English. Learning Spanish is actually quite challenging if you want to express yourself clearly and freely. Philippines wins hands downnnnnnnnnnn. Vietnamese and Thai and Cambodian are far far less compatible with language and religious and cultural differences, which create a perfect storm for misunderstandings and potential conflict.
I agree 💯. Best GF ever was a Filipina. Last GF was Colombian. Both Unique and beautiful. Filipina was definitely low maintenance compared to Colombiana. I would love to find another sweet Asian lady. 😊
big dog. what about a brazilian bird that can speak english? ive lived in asia and south america too. many chicks in argentina chile brasil speak English quite well. Asia birds are defs more cooperative though
Women here in Philippines not fighting about money', values we of relationship more important in we can help. Our man to building House and cook clean happy wife' with good husband',
I know your right. I met my Filipina. She is wonderful!
@@greyowl750 me too. :) Philippines doesn't even know the word feminist 98% of the time. Filippina are very sweet female and kind, the opposite of feminists... That is why good men will always respect them the most. Men simply have no time for men hating feminists anywhere.:)
Women everywhere value that......Never pride yourself over other women. Because each culture has its bad and good
@@bobbruce4135 yes true. I'm very old fashioned for my young age and did things like ask her parents for courtship etc
Yeh, tell that to your family when you'te dating a kano.
I was married to a German woman who was not a good household contributor and used affection as a lever (by holding back). I acknowledge that part of that was just her personality, not representative of everyone from her culture. I had previously traveled to SE Asia, and I always avoided Filipinas, mostly because I'd end up meeting the wrong kind of girls in the wrong kind of establishments. I eventually decided to give a Filipina I met in Singapore a chance. Though it didn't work out eventually (Coof and other reasons), I couldn't believe that I'd been missing that the whole time. She was just an average girl, though her previous employment wasn't always on the up and up... She treated me better than my ex wife ever did. I'm now waiting on a fiance visa to get approved and hit the reset with a really great girl...
Found a woman in central Europe after 33 years of dating Western women.
In the West I often found various combinations of too much pride, selfishness, rudeness, lack of composure, materialism, masculinastion, untrustworthiness.
Now I found genuine love and care, constructive partnership, classic (conservative) values, femininity -and all from an educated women that gave me three children.
Not all progress is progressive, but regressive.
How is Central Europe not Western Women? You don't get more Western than Europe lmao.
@@MMOfreakOUT1 Former soviet states are still very traditional, although some are becoming more and more western.
@@NotClosedMinded Germany is Central Europe. Former soviet states are just conservative. Doesn't necessarily make them non-Western.
Western Civilisation is complicated. But I'd argue that USA is heading towards becoming less Western than certain Eastern Bloc countries such as the Baltics and Poland.
Lucky here too with a Greek girl who us funny, knows how to look after a household/children and a hard worker too .... NOTHING like my lazy ex.
@@MMOfreakOUT1 Germany is culturally Western (culturally Westernized modernity) more than Poland, Czech Republic, Slovakia, Slovenia, Hungary, etc. Eastern Europe is beyond that.
Good thing too. Too much US inspired consumerism, confidence and selfishness packaged as empowering, while a lacking etiquette erodes the core.
My wife is a kindergarten teacher here in the Philippines, and I tell you, she have so many "mixed" kids, western dads plus filipina mothers and it's so adorable to look at.
Where? Manilla, Cebu, Davos??
@@celticmulato2609 Cebu bro, We both work in a private school.
Oh yeah, kids, esp half Asian almost always beautiful. Not saying that I’ve seen ugly ones but I’m saying exceptionally beautiful
@@Cons2911 Yeah agree, half asian- half white kids are beautiful kids and when they grow into women they become stunning most of the time, like our 2 miss universes and one of our celebrities.
@@Cons2911 Totally agree!!!
Wonderful job on this video!! Very professional and interesting. I love my Filipina. She is great and I would not change a thing about her. She is the best girlfriend I have ever had since high school. I would say this about her and “us”. She speaks very good English. Also… we work TOGETHER! It’s a team effort for us and she does very well in that role. I am not expecting any housework from her. I presently do all of that myself and plan to continue to do it in the future.
Yes, of course you need to be patient and find a good match for yourself but I quickly discovered the dating process is much simpler and easier with Asian women. I always hated the dating aspect with American women but it is a lot quicker and easier with Asian women. It’s almost enjoyable with them. If they like you and are serious about you they get down to business quickly and typically don’t play games.
@Eric and Gelda: And what does it mean: "They get down to business"?
@@floogelhornzzz4770 It means they have sex with them fast
I've been married to a Filipina for 16 years now and we live in the Philippines. Best choice I've ever made. We have an awesome relationship and unlike others I had in the past with western women, no fighting and arguing about anything, not even once. Don't get me wrong, we have disagreed on some things a few times but it never devolved into arguments. We take care of each other. In past relationships it was a whole lot of me taking care of her but not much of that care in return. I wouldn't want to give you the impression that all the women here are like this but, if you take your time and use the right head to make your choice, you can end up with an awesome partner that will likely add years to your life due to less stress and more happiness.
I am married to a chinese woman.
Asian women are more traditional and wants a man that are able to be a leader in a relationship.
She will ask you as a man to make decisions for her.
If you are together with an asian woman you need to have the capability to be a good leader or she will regard you as weak and leave you.
basically you're failures ☺
@@anniesok868 In opposite to most women in the western world she is a real woman and not a freak that think she is a man.
The total opposite of American boss b***hes.
In my experience you have to take the lead but only as far as she allows. You might have to make the decision, but what you decide has to be in her best interests, with leadership comes responsibility and a good wife will let you know when you get it wrong. Western women are a waste of time.
You're about right. I'm an Asian woman and married to an Asian man. I told my husband, as long you love me and show me good leader, I'm happy.
As a retired Pacific Fleet, U.S. Navy veteran, I can vouch that Asian women are far more attractive, traditional, feminine, fit, friendly, & welcoming. Do not waste your time on Western women who are poisoned by feminism, their own maternalistic selfishness, & sense of entitlement arrogance, & anything but traditional, feminine, fit, & friendly.
Materialistic
Thank you for your service
Being Asian I've only been with an Asian woman. That's because non Asian females never gave me a chance oh well . I have absolutely no problems getting along with Asian females. I'm glad too. They are extremely loyal to their family, work, home, etc. And the same with all females in our family to their man.
@@raymondlin8728 Some westernized female Asians look down on Asian men even their own ethnicity with the standard excuse, "He reminds me of my brother" Lol. It's f-ed up.
Yes, I found that out in the 70's when I was on deployment with the Marines. Never got to the Philippines, but got to Taiwan (fell in love), Korea (fell in love again), and Japan. I regret not marrying the woman from Taiwan. I don't have a "fetish" for Asian women, I have a preference for them. Not American Asian women, truly Asian women. I regret that I never got to the Philippines, because I would have gotten married. I had many friends that were very happy with their Philippina brides.
I dated plenty of American girls in college and after that. I went on one date with a woman from the West Indies and knew this woman was marriage material. 25 Years later, and yes I just keep falling deeper in love. All marriages are work but when you both work together both obtain more.
There's nothing wrong with American men wanting to date and marry Asian ladies. As an American widow who's physically disabled, I cannot bring a lot to the relationship 'table'. There are many things one can't put a price on kindness, understanding, being a good listener, being intelligent, being polite, and having good morals. I'll i'm saying is don't forget American ladies, we get lonely too.
I actually prefer American ladies for some reason. This whole servitude to a man attitude is nice but can be choking. I like the wild spirited American girls hehe and I’m from Russia
There is everything wrong if you stop looking at the situation from your own narrow, self-centered perspective.
The problem is we don't want y'all to come to our country. You're known as LBH here. Only the extremely desperate or the extremely brainwashed people in our society are susceptible being taken advantaged by you, and it's sickening.
Love your response!
Never again, can't handle the drama, and entitled behavior of north america women, sorry
@@temich1985do you share your 'wild' American wife? Oh wait- you don't get to choose.
I’ve been married to a Thai for 5 yrs now and she is amazing, attentive and hard working too.
My English ex was a lazy, ungrateful witch. There is absolutely no comparison., She is university educated but it would not matter to me if she worked in a laundrette cos she is my world 🙏🏻
Very encouraging story! ALL my friends had ungrateful witches for wives, as the men worked their asses off to be successful.
Their reward for all their hard work??? Their wives left them, took half of everything, and found some deadbeat guy to share the wealth with.
Just say "No" to western women...I agree with you!!
This is very helpful,it's good to know my fellow brothers are no longer putting up with western women's crap anymore and are travelling overseas to find decent asian women.
Question: What's the difference between a western wife and a vampire? Answer; One is a horrible, evil monster that can totally drain every ounce of a man's will to live and the other is a vampire.
and the other can turn into a bat…. Irony works better when it is abstract.
@@RandinoHenson-jf2de I know some older wives that would fit the turned into a bat description. Some are commonly referred to as old bats by many. To avoid any confusion, I decided to be blunt. I wanted even a blonde to understand it's meaning. Thanks for your opinion. You tell the joke how you want and I'll tell it how I want. Have a nice day!
@@RandinoHenson-jf2de Good one!
😂👍
At least with a Vampire - you do not remember the Damage that was done !!
I am in the process of moving and retiring to the Philippines and I am doing this by choice , some for liberal politics and others for a traditional mate. I totally understand why men leave the west to meet a beautiful lady in Asia and its not so they can control and manipulate a partner. There is one word that describes your issues with what western men moving to Aisa ...JEALOUSY !!!!!!!!
The western women you presented with their TikTok videos are EXACTLY why so many men are going overseas to start a new life and perhaps begin a new relationship or marriage. Like many of the other men who have moved abroad, I am a successful executive but I also wish to live abroad. It only makes sense to live your retirement in a country where you can afford a much better standard of living but without having to constantly budget. My parents were married for 62 years before my father passed and my mother stayed at home when my sisters and I were young but return to her nursing profession when we were old enough to be at home unsupervised. My father was a shift worker so we always had at least one parent with us. My mother NEVER went insane from being a housewife. She had her friends in the neighborhood who regularly came around during the day for a cup of tea. So many of these western women today think that they are ENTITLED and that the men should serve their every whim. Screw that!!! I am MUCH happier and wealthier WITHOUT THEM! I know too many men who have been financially destroyed during a divorce due to the laws in the western countries. I am not willing to go down that path of destruction and then live as a pauper whilst they live comfortably off my money which I worked for and saved for the future.
Do I know this my brother. Going thru a divorce now.
@@georgeargyropoulos5664 I wish you the very best outcome George. As sad as it is to say, I consider myself to be one of the lucky ones because I became a widower after the passing of my wife. At least we parted loving each other but too many of my male friends are emotional and financial wrecks after the courts raped them of everything including their dignity and hope for the future. I hope you are one of the few luckier men who can walk away without riding the anal pineapple.
Now they teach young women that housewives from the 50's went insane and were heavily medicated to to be able to stay at home and raise kids. I do not remember any of my moms friends having any of those issues. Just more BS Propaganda to screw over the Male Population.
ABSOLUTELY 💯
Western women are revulsive these days. They are completely - utterly - *self-centered,* and are incapable of bonding to anything near that will result in a stable, lasting family. The West is dying, both culturally and demographically. Men - the smart ones - do not want to waste their time and money on the selfish, narcissistic leeches that pass for women in the West.
I started dating Asian women in 1989 when I was in my teens and I never looked back. I'd had enough of British girls' wanting to sit on the sofa eating chips and not taking a shower, but the worst was the overwhelming self-entitled, agitated, attitude. My attraction towards the cultures of East Asia later led me to graduate from three universities in subjects that I made a career out of. So, Asian women opened a whole new way of life for me. Depending on the culture - because I believe all Asian cultures are very different - I've enjoyed some of the most exciting and wonderful relationships anyone could imagine and adventures in East & Southeast Asia.
They didn't take showers?!
@@sagatuppercut2960 Yeah. I dated a couple of British girls who didn't take showers for a few days and it was difficult to ignore when we got intimate. I love the way Asian girls shower or bathe everyday and always smell nice.
Lots of American women are as junky as UK women... over and over I hear the divorce stories ..from my friend guys..what is up with the nasty hygiene habits too I wonder....
Is it Filipinas you're talking about or also Japanese girls? How are they at showers?
@@floogelhornzzz4770 As a broad generalisation, I found that all East and Southeast Asian people shower or bath every day. I've never been to the Philippines, but in Japan, there are a lot of neighbourhood bathhouses and natural springs which are great fun. Getting fresh and clean, and then going for a few beers is great. Japanese girls also enjoy a healthy diet and take care of their appearance, which is a bonus.
I'm attracted to a personality type and physical fitness. Asian women just happen to have the things I look for. It's not rocket science. I live in the Philippines. There is more freedom here. Cars make up a small fraction of the traffic. Most people get around by walking, motorbike, tricycle or bus. I hate the city layouts in America. I can't go anywhere without a car in America. People look at me like a nut job if I walk. The food is organic most of the time and the portions are smaller. I've lost a ton of weight just by changing my diet... and probably reducing stress. It's difficult to figure out a way to have an income source in a foreign country. The locals will work 3x harder than you will and do it for 1/8th the pay. You cannot compete. But if you can get $1k per month, you can live well.
“Asian” is an incredibly broad label encompassing Persia, India, Vietnam, Japan, Korea and China among others. The women from these countries are very different. Lots are very attractive. As are women from Eastern Europe and South America.
Factually true but the term "asian" is usually used when refering to eastern and south eastern people of the asian continent, aka japanese, chinese, koreans, indonesians philipines ect.
No body calls arabs "asians" for example, or indians, are always called indians
Thailand and Philippines too
As someone from Southeast Asia I feel sad that Europeans think that we are uneducated, poor and waiting for a while man to save them. Majority of us prefer men from our culture, but we value marriage and we work to keep our marriage. We learned traditional roles from young age. We would give a lot to keep the marriage. Even career women would cook. Clean, look after kids etc.
I can only speak for myself. I see Asians as well educated, hard working with good values. If we didn't see you as superior in many ways why would so many want to go there?
Please don't assume the actions of a few men for your experience. We are all human and looking for a
life partner and Philippine culture is so attractive to guys looking for love and family.
Sorry young lady but that is not what we think anymore, but maybe you get the wrong man before you
Lolz I think western women are more uneducated
@@protectorh9167 Well... in Scandinavia we definitely see people from Thailand, the Philippines, Vietnam, etc. as poor.
Good video. Thanks. I have also discovered the Philippines. I am married to a Filipina and we live in Cebu in the province. We are happily married and completely adore each other. I am 34 years her senior, receive a very small pension and we live in a simple and crude small province house. She obviously never married me for my money as the Filipinos all around us earn the same or even more than us. Also I am not a young sex buck. We love each other and always enjoy our company.
I would like to share my thoughts so please no hate because I mean no offense to anyone. Am speaking as an american born woman from Hispanic/Asian parents. I was married and had two children with my husband. And was with him through illness and when he passed away. I always worked and didn't depend on him to pay for my personal bills, we had a home budget and separate bank accounts, etc. Because he loved shopping and when we had the same accounts was always bouncing accounts. Haha. Anyways, I loved him because we helped each other there wasn't a that's a wife's job or a husband's responsibility but a partnership between us. Am happy that there were things he could do that I can't. I loved that he always opened doors for me and things like this. In my opinion there has to be compassion, respect, love and communication between both. I have many Asian family and friends because in my family we fall for the person, not an image. And will say that it depends on how a person's character and personality are no matter where they're from. The TikTok videos of women saying those things I find personally unacceptable because it's no one's obligation to take care of them. And belittling a man because of where their from is disgusting to me. I now find myself with men who want me to take off their bills etc. The reason am still single. I have been on 3 dates and these gentlemen not only went to the bathroom or got an emergency call all of a sudden when the bill came. But thought somehow I owed them something for paying the bill. Which I found very laughable, I don't care about going half or paying for the entire bill but this can go either way. It's not if a woman is asian that makes her better it's how the ladies or gentlemen are raised and who their around that can influence their way of believing how a relationship should go. Just my thoughts. I wish everyone a wonderful day and enjoy your journey because life is one of those no refund kinda things. Haha. God bless. And God speed.
Because Asians have to best food, they are best looking, and they tend to smart, humble, and simple. The things people should be.
@Radd Astronaut You met Asians before? You thihk we smart, humble and simple. We are as stupid, idiotic, arrogant and complicated like you. The danger here is too many of you guys are stereotyping asians as easy going etc. Asians are just as complicated and prone to drama as any white person. Remember that.
I have been waiting for a video like this. I have had Asian girlfriends since I was a teenager. In 2000 I moved to Thailand for work where I remained for 7 years, I was 39 years old at the time. I immediately noticed the difference in Asian women compared to Western ones. The opening assessment of this in this video is correct. In my first couple of months in Thailand i spent in Bangkok until everything was ready for my move to our factory. I met an American man about my age sitting on the steps of the 7-11 about 3 AM. I noticed he had a shirt that said some USA reference and struck up a conversation as Americans were far a few between back then. He told me had just recently arrived quit his job and moved to Thailand. He told me that he had left America to escape "Sexual Persecution". We discussed how beautiful young women were interested in us and back home overweight unattractive women wouldn't give us a second look.I had a rather average looking girlfriend tell me she was going to find herself a good looking rich guy. It was so easy to meet girls in Thailand. That worked in Department stores, Hotels , restaurants etc. giving me their phone numbers. I eventually met my wife of 23 years and have a 21 year old daughter. My co worker who arrived after me from the US met and married a Thai as well. In both of our cases we were living there and had time to develop genuine relationships. In the small town where we lived there was a bar that was run by an expat where we would all congregate. Almost every long term expat had a Thai wife and children. There was a young American engineer who was there for 6 months working on a Plant that was being built. He commented that we all had Thai wives. He said that he didn't have to worry about that because he did not like asian women. We all just smiled and said oh that's nice. about a month or do later he shows up at the bar one night and says he was getting married and showed us the picture of his amazing fiance. We all looked at each other and said wasn't that the guy that said he didn't like Asian women. I love telling that story.
I've spent 5 years in Asia. I have NO plan to go back to the land of Exceptionally Narccistic women.
That one is kind of you man. Men have been warned literally for decades to to bring them back west. You kinda lit that fuse all on your own.
basically you're failures ☺
No your just not worth the bother 😅
@@anniesok868 cope haha, you offer nothing, but expect the world. provincial asians quite often love to build a life with their man, without expecting the world, whilst being more feminine, and beautiful than you. this is just reality.
and now that more and more western men are going oversees, women like you (have lost power) and this threatens you.
so you have to resort to insults (whilst watching videos that you know doesnt include you).
this isnt your space, it's time to leave.
As somebody who is married to a Filipina I think that this combination - Filipina wife and Western man - is perfect because there are a lot of cultural, religious and historical overlappings.
Before my marriage I also had long relationships with Thai, Indonesian and Indian women but the mentality differences are waaay bigger and cultural expectations will cause a lot of misunderstandings.
My good wife, God rest her soul, I was married to her for 35 years. I met her not in S. Korea, but here in America....Till cancer took her away from me.
😢❤
Now in my second Far Eastern Marriage and loving every moment.
Yes headed for the Philippines for the first which lasted 16 years.
Then got chosen by a lovely Chinese Girl and have done 18 years and have a daughter. Mixed Children are out of this world and ever so pretty. Boys flock to her.
It's not even just about domesticated chores we want from women; it's things like Respect, honesty, integrity, truth, love and a companion that is a life partner.
USA women don't realize most all jobs have 80% boring repetitive, boring and tediouse things to do. The Eastern women realize this and would rather work for her husband than some uncaring boss
You get respect if you give it. Obviously you either dated the wrong people or you don't respect others yourself. If you see someone as an object you can't respect them.
@safffff1000 these days, you literally can't support a family on one income. Housework is just tedious and boring hun. But once you're a mother, your job lasts 24/7 unless the man actually helps you with the kids. (He should as he is a father and should want to spend time with them)
@@kayleewilliams1232 Unless in the lower 5% you can be a one work outside household. You buy used cars, cloths, appliances, ect. All jobs have boring parts. My mother raised 5 children and had plenty of time to herself, she had brains to be organized, set up routines and delegated to children. My father provide and did no house work. As for most the families I knew. No it's not 24/7 even with babies, unless you hold that child for24hrs.
I read through alot of these comments on this thread and see people shaming men or a couple's lifestyle for what works for them. The fact that men are considered so simple and yet the basics have to constantly be explained to women. The ones who understand have found a situation that works for them. They are happy. They don't diminish a man's contribution to the world and the lifestyle being provided to a woman and the family. Each of us plays a "role" in a relationship.
Nearly 40 years ago I married a lovely lady from the Philippines and never once regretted it
I never really had a problem dating in the US but I definitely prefer dating in Asia! I think 🤔 the lifestyle that the country provides definitely makes dating and relationships easier! 😊
basically you're failures ☺
is annie ok a real black woman or a bot? if you are real, is that photo from back when you are younger?
it's a bot the person keep commenting the same thing over and over again
i wonder why the bot maker cant make a list of comment like 200 different sentences slightly different so the bot not too obvious. also what the bot trigger word?
@@anniesok868 actually, the woman know how to be wives. So it’s rather refreshing to actually date a women that you can visualize as a wife! Unlike in the U.S. most women that don’t understand this concept are not married!
After I divorced my American born cheating ex wife,I moved to Costa Rica,and found the brown girl of my dreams. 20 years of marriage, and two beautiful kids later,we are still in love. Pura Vida desde Costa Rica 😎
At the end of the day you want someone to be there for you, to love and support you. No man wants someone to take away your peace and tranquility!
What is wrong to want a better life elsewhere with less money?
Man needs to be man and be smart about life now matter where you want to live in and the kind of woman you want to settle with.
I am married to a Malaysian, and that is one of the best decisions I've made in my life. Nothing more to say. To my brethren who are still searching for a life partner who would not cause you major headaches, my advice is to get your passports and head to Asia.
basically you're failures ☺
Malaysia is a Very cool Place!
malaysia? some foreigner that marry malaysian or indonesia are forced to convert to islam dan sometimes are paraded by her to her friends, but mostly the guy are happy
@@anniesok868
Why? Because you're running out of friendzone orbitals?
Malaysian girls. They are no different at all.
Great video.
You should always know that just because you go to the far east looking for that special someone you can still encounter heartache and pain.
It's not about the women of Asia... it's all about you !!!
Your Hope's. Your dreams and your money !!!
Fr, I don't know why they are not emphasizing on this
A percentage of Men have always preferred Asian women 😅
Yep. I’m one of them.
Very interesting perspectives..just watched a few of your videos.. Learned quite a bit, Thank you !
My pleasure!
I’m Asian and I prefer Asians.
I have been with my beautiful Thai wife for 23 years and it has been the best decision of my life. She always puts me first and has reasonable expectations. Recommondation: I learnt the language first to increase my chances to find a good girl.
Go where you are appreciated the most!
And as long as you have your own money as a woman, you need a man mostly for - partnership. Partnership is something that friendship cannot offer. There is a much stronger connection here. When you get married, you form a new community, a community that is not comparable to a friendship or a friendship+,what many young people like nowadays. You take the responsibility for each other for better or worse. You hold a mutual obligation, especially when you have children together. You are responsible for each other. This is a completely different obligation than you have with a sweet date on tinder. Actually, I am not really sure if tinder is the right place to find a partner for a real marriage but as I am old, I should not judge the youth so maybe I am completely wrong...
women with money still want a man who make more than them.
I read one phrase of your comment and you already lied
@Pearoroncino nope I would like to see those statistics for your claims? A relationship is a mutual agreement. Women who have jobs don't expect men to have more than them unless she's home most of the time doing the chores and makes less. That is a generalization made by you. Which is probably why you can't get people to date you. You judge people before they even see you. You make assumptions and generalizations. It's no different then the "I hate all men crowd"
@@kayleewilliams1232 *accuses people of making assumptions
*proceeds to assume i cant get a date.
Ah the stupidty of women
I married a Japanese woman in 94. She came here with twin daughters in 90. In the years before her, and the years after her death I've never met a western woman who cared about me. I was simply a free meal. Mai told me once that if she passed away that she treated me to good, so if something ever happened to her to find myself either a Chinese woman or another Japanese woman. She really had nothing nice to say about Filipinos or Thais. She told me that was the equivalent to going to the North side of our town and expecting to find a clean woman. (her words were actually MUCH more vulgar and the north side of my home town is the "wrong" side of town in every possible way)
I've actually tried to get to know a few Filipina women over the years. Get to know them online, try to visit them. Yeah they were worse than western women when it came to trying to game me. One woman couldn't even keep straight how many kids she had. The other absolutely refused to help me figure out what needed to happen to get her a way to visit the U.S. She expected me to do everything, including things that would've been easier for her to do like checking on local laws etc. Another flatly asked me for money a week into our chats.
I'll stay single thankyou very much. Maybe the next time my daughter and I go back to Japan to visit her grandmother I'll find myself a old Japanese woman close to my age who doesn't really have any family left but would like to come to the U.S. with me and complain about the younger generation and laugh at stupid people on youtube.
Sorry for the bad experience about Filipino women. My advice is to date educated Filipino women with a good family background. There are a lot of Filipinas in the lower socio economic background who just hunt for men as a ticket out of poverty. Usually, these are women who like older men and really have dysfunctional relationships with their family.
@@MM-zo1zwI've been watching 90 day Fiance and there's a Filipina woman named Mary who's exactly like you described but thing is the guy she is with has no balls and is getting owned so badly
I think most of us have decided to follow our dreams of finding someone who appreciate what we can do for them and not take everything we do for granted. We do not want to spend a fortune on a fancy house, 2 cars, a nice boat on a trailer, a cabin at some mountain resort and 2 international holidays per year then not even get some respect for all we do for the family. And we end up loosing everything in a divorce. That's why we try our luck in other countries.
It seems to me that we have a disposable culture. If the toaster breaks, you don’t try to fix it, they simply throw it away and buy another. We treat relationships the same way…why make an effort when so many men are waiting . Our parents tried very hard to make relationships work
A toaster has more value than a western woman even a broken one
To make a relationship work with a SE Asian woman, you have to make the effort and put in the work.
@@sirclarkmarz That's a very nasty thing to say. Good riddance to men like you.
@@sirclarkmarz Well, this comment shows that men are not any better as far as relationships today are concerned.
@@yvonnehorde1097 exactly
You got that right!!!😊😊😊
I've noticed in London many European men with their East Asian and Southeast Asian wives and children. It's something I was curious about. I could see that it was a trend. Men are quietly voting with their feet.
Don't be fooled into thinking that SE Asian women who want to date Westerners are expecting to take on a 1950's trad wife role, they can get that sort of male partner at home. Totally agree with your last statement, if you want to be treated like a king, treat your partner like a queen. With a SE Asian partner, sex is not a transaction. You don't do good deeds and expect sex as a reward, that sort of relationship will fail hard.
Yes; they most likely will not.
Countries like Thailand and Vietnam have moved A LOT; and although that women there seem petite and feminine, they do have their own will and expectations.
And we haven't even started on China and Japan yet...
I'm happy to announce out of the five women I have married, the record length of marriage is now held by my Filipina wife. While I am through with marrying should the current Mrs. prematurely passes before me, I can truly say, having married a Asian woman has made the difference in my life and never again would I seek the same in any women in the US of A.
you married 5 times and you think the women are the problem? lmao
@@iknow2145 There is no doubt in my mind I am the common denominator, however, it is her upbringing and her culture which has allowed us to be more cohesive than those Western women.
@@iknow2145 right lmbo
@@iknow2145 While its unlikely, its still possible for the women to be the issue while making the logical fallacy of assuming that it had to be him after his 5th marriage, that said, you can def blame him for not knowing how to pick up women, he managed to marry later on, which can prove the point i was making.
Why only South East Asia though? Mongolia, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyztan, even Azerbaijan are such amazing places where most of what you said about SE Asia is also true, but slightly different - mixed with Eastern European culture
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Then who are the men in Asia dating and marrying? I'm skeptical about this.
Good video, Mate .
There were MANY views I agreed with in this video !
I am
Canadian man living in Brasil.
I married a Brasillian woman who has some what traditional views about marriage.
I came to Brasil when I was 55 years old to escape the cold and have never looked back.
DML.
Never married but retired USMC so I have been all over the world and experienced life in numerous parts of it.
I just plain gave up on American women (for the most part) several years ago.
#1 reason narcissism.
And most of the guys I know that go to other countries to meet women these guys are also wealthy. We could try to date American women but we just don't want to. I mean a flight to another country and hotels costs alot more then buying dinner for some B in America. It is not about the money is about the quality of the women.
Exactly. Here in the Northeast Us, it is the privileged and entitlement culture because of the way they were raised.
People need to understand. This isn't a new movement. This has been going on for the last 40 or 50+ years, and not just guys from the US. Social media is late to the game.
@@2genmc true but it was mostly older guys that retired. Now younger guys can have way more options and work remotely. The internet has given many men options they never had before. And never has there been a better time to have those options.
A "born & raised, currently living in asia" asian woman here! I feel like, a big factor that western (esp white) men forget is that asian people idealize the west a LOT so having a white/ western partner is inherently seen as a win... families will choose you over a local man for their daughters etc etc
I am happy living in SE Asia with my Filipina wife of 28 years, and I will never live elsewhere.
It really doesn't have to be Asian women TBH. You can find those qualities in a female everywhere in the world except countries where toxic feminism has propagated. (US, UK, Nordic Countries etc..)
They are all the same. Not different at all.
Especially Nordic countries! Faen i helvete!
Right, as a high wealthy value man, which things I cannot buy with money? When I want have fun, I can buy it, when I want talk to someone, I can buy it, when I dont want do householdchores, I can buy it - when I want have a real value women, I choose overseas long time ago
as this is rising happening
i'm 60 years old and worked as a bricklayer with younger fellas in their late 20s early 30s. These 2 fellas went to Vietnam and Cambodia for a month long holiday surfing, fishing and diving. They didn't go with any intentions of looking for wives or anything like that. Anyway they had such a great time and met lots of good people there that they went back again for an extended holiday. This time though they met a couple of lovely women and they both got married. They ended up both moving there to live, they built houses and started tourist businesses. They love the country (especially the way the government doesn't tax you to death, nor do they interfere in your life with ridiculous regulations and rules etc), the people their wives and extended relatives that they now have there. Their wives are winners, they work hard, never complain, are happy and thankful that they are married, having children and living a comfortable happy life. The fellas said that they have never met women like these in Australia, how the women over there love to work and really put in, they don't want expensive material nonsense like hand bags worth 1000's of dollars, they also never whinge and whine about everything. Also to top it off they love surfing, fishing, diving hunting etc, they loved all that stuff before they met the Aussie dudes, it was how they all met, they shared the same love of those things.
Great feedback. Thanks
I'm female from a heavy military family with a # of these types of couples. These women buy better clothes and jewelry from my relatives military salary.
The worst mistake I ever made was saying I Do to a white woman. The marriage lasted a year and change. Clearing up the mess from the divorce took me a good 10+ years.
19:13 "If we remove sex from the equation there isn't much a man can't do for himself."
Oh, I think men can take care of that one too!
I married a lady from Saigon 48 years ago would have been longer unfortunately the paperwork took about 18 months.... we were blessed with 2 kids both in Their 40's now.
I married her because of love and still love her today. My advice married for love nothing else matters. Beauty money status. Nothing
It's not that I prefer Asian women. I prefer women that are RAISED BY BOTH PARENTS , taught to have MANNERS, taught to respect men, aren't trying to ruin people's lives, don't eat more than I do, don't have a feminist/man-hating/competitive agenda, and don't think they are the center of the damn world because they have a lot of likes on a social media site.
Asian woman more feminine and less toxic
Thats so bullshit u dint have to be “asian” to be femine
I am from the U.S. and married and divorced twice. The 1st one was in Georgia and she went crazy and threw away all our plans and did everything she wanted with no concern for me or our toddler. That divorce bankrupt me, I borrowed $30,000 to get through it all and still wrote off $250,000 worth of debt and lost my car and the ability to visit my only child. Obviously she had a much better lawyer than me. The 2nd one came from money and for no reason she told me to get out. Her mother paid for the lawyer as her parents were multi-millionaires and they were afraid I would go after their money. I was not allowed to go get all of my belongings so I walked away from that. for the next 20 years I dated around and found ALL the single women of various ages and in different locations around the U.S. were not marriage material. Finally I started looking at the Philippines. I had been there in the early 1980s when I was in the Marine Corps and stationed in Okinawa plus had worked with Filipinos in a few of my jobs. Having a good understanding of their culture I went online and did my search. After finding the one, I made a couple of trips there in 2019 to meet her and her family and to travel around. We married in 2022 and even though we have had a few challenges, she still makes me very happy. I am also considering moving there permanently. I love it over there, the people are very friendly, everything is much cheaper over there, and I enjoy Island life and the storms do not bother me. I now encourage every young man to focus on his career until he is 35 or 40 and then go to the Philippines to find a good Province Girl. If she is already in my country then she is already broken!!
Financial expectancies (apart from visa having wings ) by extended family members in poor countries is one of the main problem affecting marriages when Americans, Canadians, English, or anyone from a rich country marry someone from poor countries. I have seen that happening over, and over here in Jamaica. Some people refuse to visit here home, because their partner will be exploited, and they will be embarrassed. I mentioned 'visa having wings" , because some extended family members want to exploit the marriage as an opportunity to get to these countries. Do you have a brother, or sister who wants to marry me too? Its the truth. It hurts me to see that happen, because collectively it does not look good for us, and no one deserve it.
The part about dating in Western countries being some game where you have to navigate your steps spoke to me. In America romantic grand gestures seemed to be frowned upon. Being in an environment where a woman appreciates a gentleman. Rather looking at a gentleman as weak or someone worthy of being manipulated is something I have yet to experience.
yeah western women can date each other for all i care , because they drive any decent man away with their behavior and attitude .
when they are in their 20s they all try to score top 2% chads only to end up as rejected/used or as single mothers and
in their 30s and 40s they wonder why no decent man that was previously not good enought for them
don´t want them anymore now that they have baggage and spend their best years chasing bad boys and players .
Why must a man pay a woman's rent?
I live in 🇯🇲 and I find this criteria very wild and ridiculous. What is this mindset?
Dinner? Yes clothing as gifts? Yes Possible transport (local)? Yes
Rent, tuition/schooling, inter country travel, living expenses...unless you are my wife, men are not obligated to this. Also there are men who give into these criteria like mad people.
I am a married man, medical doctor by profession and these women are a complete laughing stock out here.
Delusionally they feel entitled to men's money for nothing more than sex because that's the only thing a lot of them offer and the man gets stuck with all the bills.
Caucasian American WOMAN here. I was just curious so I thought I would watch to see what all this is about. Not all western women are "westernized". It really depends. There are still alot of us with conservative values out there. I am happily married to a caucasian man who I treat very well and he treats me like a queen. We treat each other with respect. He did not have to travel across the sea to find me either. As far as going to Asia I do know my brother's friend married a filipino gal and she went crazy in America. She ended up running around on him and they had a little girl together so that was very sad because he ended up divorcing her. She ended up working as a go-go girl and when she got older and lost her looks, I ran in to her working as a cashier at McDonalds. A male friend of mine married a filinpino gal and he is now divorced and she initiated it and she changed quite a bit when she came to the US. I also worked for a filipino who was my manager as I was nurse under her. She was very harsh on the caucasian nurses and even when her fellow filipino nurses made mistakes she would cover for them. She bullied nurses who were not her ethinicity including a fellow Indian nurse friend of mine whom I found in tears one day due to her unfairness. So people are people no matter what nationality there is no magic people group out there that is perfect.
You are right. There are good and bad every where.
I wish everyone a happy life.
I’m going to marry my Fiancé ❤this September in Hong Kong 😊. YAYYY 😅
It's because they're beautiful, respectful, and loyal.
Most level headed video on this subject that I've seen. Well done
I love ASIAN women they are fit, feminine and cooperative.
❤ Japanese women. Has anyone noticed how obese Western women and girls are becoming these days ? This Fat Acceptance, Plus Size, Big Is Beautiful culture is way outta control.
Yessir, amen to that! 🙏🏻
As an Asian living in the West for ALMOST 40 YEARS! I want to move back to SEA to find a better companion ETC. And it isn't $$$ issue nor lack of confidence, but EXACTLY many of what OOA mentioned.
We have always preferred them,I think men getting smarter
I joined the club early (atleast that´s what they all say to me) .... 36 and been going to Thailand 6 years now. Not in situation to live over there yet, but I´m stepping up my game from 1 month per year to 3 months a year in 2024. Also going to check out the philippines and cambodia next.
I found my fiance overseas. Despite everything going wrong in my life the past four years, she is still by my side. A Western woman would have left me the moment I had a problem. All I want is a family of my own. I cannot have that here in the West, especially in the US.
Down to earth common sense approach.. Like the pro's and cons of your fact filled dialogue..
What’s with the now? This isn’t a now thing. There’s been plenty of guys preferring Asian women for many years before now. I’ve been married to my Asian wife since the mid 1990s and I’ve been living in Asia since 98. This isn’t a new thing.
great segment. thanks!
The girl at 7 minutes is speaking straight facts lmao. You just disagree out of simply not liking the reality and don't reflect on ANYTHING she actually said. You just start talking about obesity meds, and then give a vague "back in those days relationships had a solid foundation". Uh no they didn't, that's exactly her point. Putting on a show for society and wanting to die inside is not a solid foundation. You also say "no sane men are advocating to go back to the 50's"...And then listing all the things you think was happening back then and why you want it. Your double speak is amazing.
Talk all you want, at least things were SOMEWHAT functional. Today, it's just chaotic. No real plan. Just all about "da feelz".
Well-balanced and rational presentation of the phenomenon.
basically you're failures ☺
@@anniesok868 copy and paste comment.
@@anniesok868I am from the UK with a good heart if you want a chat please text me xxx
I live in Thailand now. Went on a date two nights ago. She cooked a great meal. Beer was included. I went home with enough for three more meals, and she paid my taxi. The next day she sent 4 mangoes. She's 35 years younger than me and runs her own business. No, I'm not rich. But I live well on SS.
Just because she does, doesn't mean you should. Know that men should still pay especially since it's a lower cost already than in US.
Of course. Just pointing out the different mindset from Western women.
Good Lordy Lord, balanced, provides links to sources, good job!
Most men do not understand that the empowerment of Western women comes from the laws we have intended to destroy us but any woman can use these laws. In fact, a foreign woman can cause more profound harm to the gullible man who thinks Asian women are better. Our reality is that what makes women exploitative is what needs to be changed laws and dogma. Too many men are willing to provide and protect women who will abuse these noble acts.
I have a 3 year university qualified teacher Vietnamese wife and are very happy western woman's attitude is what can you do for me
A good Asian wife attitude is how can i improve your life
Chalk and cheese
As a Filipina living in the US for 8 years now, it is quite true that American/western women are more difficult to please than southeast Asian women. It’s the culture. We are generally submissive by nature and we treat our men like kings even if they sometimes do not deserve it. We take pleasure in the smallest things and gestures. Give us a good home, enough love and security and you will be happy that you did. We don’t ask for too much even if we do, the downside maybe is that we are very helpful to relatives in general and you will most likely find that we send money overseas to help. Having said that, Filipinas in general are hard working and efficient and can also earn their own money without having to depend on the husband. Get yourself a pinay wife, you will be glad that you did. I won’t be surprised if western women would react negatively towards it. It is what it is.
It's nice to have someone to have a conversation with
Aren't Asian women even more materialistic than Western women? I hope not but it seems like any woman from a developed nation (including Japan and South Korea) will be materialistic
You are very wrong, if you have enough money to provide for the family that's all a woman needs....but also in developed countries like japan and korea. You have less chances of finding a wife cause they stick with their own people.. yes they might be curious to date a foreigner but that's that
It’s an amazing issue ! I just would like to know , where is this beach ?
that's probably in El Nido palawan, Philippines
You failed to mention one other big point, the family court systems. In the Philippines I have way more rights as a father than I do in America. This is a very big thing to many men. For me I had always wanted a family, having grown up on a multi generational farm. Well my first marriage in the US failed do to my x liking other men, and with the family court systems I lost my daughter. Not because I was a bad Dad, or she was a great Mom. It simply works that way in the US. I will also say it has alot to do with American womans attitude. There a bunch of man haters, and "victims". They take 0 responsible for anything, and bring 0 to a relationship other than sex. Personally I could give a rats arse what those woman think of me. I payed my dues, I'll do what I want to be happy in life. They just mad since they cannot be happy.
basically you're failures ☺
@@anniesok868 you're proving the point of the video😁