TBF he DID tell her not to work (which in my opinion is fvcking stupid if she's not child rearing - her ass needs to contribute.) His pride refused to let her work, BUT she should NOT have been hiding money.
The lady who found a good man needs to stay a good woman. Many good men find good women, but years in, she finds her bestest guy friend from years back. Or her best girlfriend is going through some stuff, and as we all know, "Misery loves company."
If she had worked and was putting the money aside from her own income that would be one thing but the fact that she was taking THEIR money that he was the soul contributor of in case SHE wanted to get out is the the problem. Now if you and your spouse both work you should have an indepent bank account a house account and an emergency account but what she did was stealing from THEIR money to cover herself. A prenup is also to protect both parties a prenup doesn't say that if she is a stay at home and he works he keeps everything she would still be entitled to some form of alimony.
@@TropicalDepression138 no it wouldn't, women love to say our the mans money is our money but never considers her money to be our money. Also, the prenup would determine what both parties would receive that's the whole point, so of course she would get something.
@@johnkacoyannakis9800 I am not saying that. I am saying that it would still be wrong but it would make more sense for her to have formed such a problematic behaviors. "whats his is ours and whats mine is mine". either way she is wrong but I could at least see where she was coming from if she was squireling away her own hard earned money.
@strategygalactic wtf, he trusted her to use the/his hard earned money that's supposed to support them to pay the bills. Instead she was taking that money and partially paid them filling her bank account. She was robbing them his contribution to their success. It's stealing! Sure she saved her own money too whn she was working, but she still put aside that money too whn she should have been all in the same as he did. She sabotage the marriage. Shame on that mom to push her bad experiences on her daughter.
Yep, I wonder what she would say if he was sitting on a 47k "escape account"? I bet she would say he was a piece of trash. Marriage is "for better or for worse". She was evil and made it clear he was there to fund her existence.
What's ironic about this is that apparently when a woman sets up an "escape fund" in case things fall apart, it's for her protection and perfectly okay. But if a man asks for a prenup in cases things fall apart it's harmful to the relationship and insulting because it's implying that the relationship won't last.
she put aside 750 a month. Insane. She is a criminal. "My money". Insane. She SHOULD give him his money back, that she stole from him, he should work less and she should get a job.
The other reason I'd be mad is. Anyone who could lie straight to your face when you're down & out. But couldn't be truthful. Well what else could they lie about
😂😂😂😂 You guys really believe that she saved fourty seven thousand dollars at two hundred dollars a month? Think about 47k devided by 200 usd per month equals 235 months or 19.5 years. If thats the case wouldnt the husband realised that she was pulling out all that money over a period of 19 years? Something doesnt add up 😅
I bet her mom is a single cat lady. Loneliness and bitterness will be her destiny. She's not trustworthy. A relationship is always done for once the trust dies.
I was red pilled in the 1990s by a woman who had two kids, child support payments coming in, and wanted my checks deposited into her account and "help" me save money. Four weeks later, she isn't giving me access to "our" money. I was bringing home $1,500 a week and didn't have money for a beer. I did the budget with her, and she was doing great! I started giving her $400 a week, and she had a fit. Her ex was paying quite a bit but she wanted me to pay more than him into "our" money that I couldn't get to. Never again!
The fact that someone would need to ask this in this circumstance tells you all you need to know. Then air your shit out on the internet for all to see is just typical of modern women.
Ironically, having an escape fund whilst married will be part of any divorce settlement. If the man has less wealth than her, chances her that account (s) will be split up by the lawyers.
She kept referring to it as HER money. It was THEIR money. He was working himself to death and all she could do was worry about her escape fund. Well, let her have her escape fund and let her escape on it.
They're married. Legally, you're one person when you're married. Don't get married if you want to keep thinking it's each for their own. So no, not his*, it's THEIR.
@@OneStepBeyondu Technically all of it is his. But if he lets her go with it, she probably won't ask for anything else. Seems to me that would be a cheap amount to pay to get rid of her.
If she wants a backup plan, she needs to get a degree that will guarantee her a job if something happens to her husband, NOT as an exit plan if she gets unhappy.
@@Susan-d2y , you going straight to being abused as an excuse to divorce is disingenuous. Women initiate 70-90% of divorces, depending on location and income. Are you trying to say that many women are abused in their marriages? Did the men suddenly become abusers or did the women knowingly marry abusers? Neither seems statistically likely. YES, women should divorce an abuser or - better yet - more carefully vet the men they marry. But women should stop divorcing because they get bored or are unhappy because of XYZ.
@@Tony-om5kr , they are now. Back last century when I got mine, the only useless degree was a "General Studies" degree because all these weird useless degrees didn’t even exist.
at 66 I've learned one important fact, never let women have access to your money. Doesn't matter if it's an employee or a relationship if a woman has access to the fund's they will take advantage of it
My wife agreed with me to keep our finances separate. Her money is her money and my money is my money. We split the bills evenly and we're happily married for 17 years now.
She said with her own mouth and words "nothing is forever" thats why you women sign the prenup that the man presents you AFTER you go over it with YOUR lawyer and everything is agreed on as "NOTHING LASTS FOREVER"
The other thing is, he knows about the money now. If he decides to file for divorce he has proof the money exists and can get half of it back from her in court. if she says she spent it all, the insinuation is that she did so to keep him from being able to get any of it, and she can end up facing jail time. She blew the relationship on the advice of her mother, and now mother dearest is going to send her to jail.
She refers to it as HER money. Not one thought of it being for both of them in hard times. No kids, so now she can be single and have to work 40 hours a week and pay her own bills. What a selfish, short sighted way of thinking.
Why, as an adult is this grown woman listening to her mom like she is a child. She is a child and needs mom to continue to raise her. Husband should dump wife and go get a adult woman to become his wife.
Half that money is HIS. She can't take off with all that money. Not legally anyway. That will never fly in court. Dude needs to get a good lawyer, then hit the road and stay single the rest of his life!! I could never, ever trust them again!!
Your assuming the courts will be fair , but usually they are not, they are still bias towards women and usually will well reward them if they can. So what a few men get lucky, but that isn't most.
Michael Jordan didnt play to lose, he played to win. He focused his energy on being successful on the court. This is the mind needed for marriage. You gotta go into it w a plan for success.
You have, no clue. State sponsored marriage is evil. Period. If a man wants children, move to a country where you marry a young virgin from a small village and LIVE There, keeping your income and assets OUT OF THE COUNTRY.
Disgusting how she keeps calling it her money when she withdrew it from their account without his knowledge. She wasn't hiding money from him for years. She stole from him for years. No wonder they were having hard times.
It sure looks that way. Western modern women are definitely low hanging fruit, so much most foreign men wouldn't marry a western woman, although have no issue with a pump and dump . so women like Susan-d2y can at least look forward to that. I wonder what this feminist strick is , commenting on men's channels . What is her goal?
I've seen this story before. Everyone seems to overlook that it was not her money, she was pocketing his money for years, even while they were struggling. This would be wrong no matter which partner did it.
If she has an escape fund, then she is already planned for your divorce. She is not worthy of being a wife. You are his property as a wife. If you refuse this position then don’t get married. This position is maintained until the day you die. Regardless of what any judge might say. Such a woman is unfaithful disloyal, and has no place being anywhere near a man.
If they now divorce she has $23,000, because any assets produced doing the marriage belongs to them both. But the fact that she was hiding it could cause a judge to award the entire fund to him in a divorce and then they'd just split the remaining assets. If a spouse was really worried then they'd sit down and discuss a rainy day fund for them BOTH so each would have a cushion in the event of a divorce. THAT is what a true partner would do. All she need do to answer her question is how would she react if she found out he had a separate escape fund that he hid from her? An off shore account that he funded to cushion against the courts robbing him blind in the event of a divorce? Exactly...
Wrong. She and her lawyer would keep that account to themselves and never declare it. Cause they know that only a forensic audit would discover that she had her own private account. That means only law enforcement would have the authority to go looking for money's she has.
It is, but it's not uncommon for people making that kind of money to be wastrels without a plan. It's hard to feel sorry for them. Plus... this is 1% territory.
Modern women can’t be trusted bookkeeping without oversight. My Mom did it in 60s, but she was a virgin before my dad & would never divorce him EVER. It’s all different now.
The gold digger that said nothing is forever, then why should she get an allowance?nothing is forever and he will need that money to fight her in divorce court
So mature and emotionally intelligent. Her only chance to come clear about the money had been after the accident, directly. Like Honey, I saved money for these problems all the years, but instead she went to toddler mode when her childish mother explained life to her. So mature.
It's sickening that these women want to live these lavish or luxurious lifestyles while their boyfriends/husbands are breaking their backs for them. They really get the word "provider" mixed up. They will understand that when the world comes to an end, none of that materialistic stuff will matter. They want marriage, but dont want to take on the responsibilities that come with it. Heck, they dont even want marriage, they just want a wedding so they can show all their single friends. They say "men ain't ish" no ma'am, YOU ain't ish.
This is out and out financial abuse, and this woman clearly did NOT love her husband. He should divorce her because of these two points. He can NEVER trust her again. Relationship are based upon trust, respect, and appreciation.
Close... saving "their money" but calling it "hers". If she had "matching" accounts one for him and one for her with equal distribution as a general "security net" that would be fine. But the security net was only for her, and of course the most glaring... didn't inform him of her "security net" which means she was embezzling from her relationship. Pretty evil activity if you ask me. She mad it clear his job was to fund her existence and when he failed to provide, she was going to be "out".
She took their money to plan her escape. When he caught her, she says, she took "her" money? All I hear is Me Me Me. Her mom told her to bail because of a problem the wife created? Holy shit....Dude, take that money and run!
He literally was killing himself for the family, and she just watched.
That's how most of them are
She was contributing to it because she was STILL taking money while he was killing himself
Because she belongs to the fucking Streets.
TBF he DID tell her not to work (which in my opinion is fvcking stupid if she's not child rearing - her ass needs to contribute.)
His pride refused to let her work, BUT she should NOT have been hiding money.
The lady who found a good man needs to stay a good woman. Many good men find good women, but years in, she finds her bestest guy friend from years back. Or her best girlfriend is going through some stuff, and as we all know, "Misery loves company."
Women will throw a fit when asked to sign a prenuptial but happily hide away "escape money". Such cowards
Sir.. this comment gets Mic Drop of the day...
" but the entire time from getting on one knee up to the wedding is supposed to be romantic " - some quote somewhere..
That word is the truth! They're really such that word!!! That word is associated with men but it truly shows, it truly shows...
Especially if she is building it up out of his paycheck.
If most men did`nt show their true colors after they get married an escape fund would`nt be needed. my escape fund saved my butt!
Let me get this straight: prenup is bad, woman setting money aside for potential separation is OK??
If she had worked and was putting the money aside from her own income that would be one thing but the fact that she was taking THEIR money that he was the soul contributor of in case SHE wanted to get out is the the problem. Now if you and your spouse both work you should have an indepent bank account a house account and an emergency account but what she did was stealing from THEIR money to cover herself. A prenup is also to protect both parties a prenup doesn't say that if she is a stay at home and he works he keeps everything she would still be entitled to some form of alimony.
@@TropicalDepression138 no it wouldn't, women love to say our the mans money is our money but never considers her money to be our money. Also, the prenup would determine what both parties would receive that's the whole point, so of course she would get something.
Don't try to use logic to work it all out, you know women will never do that. 🤣😂🤣
@@TropicalDepression138all of it is their money. Why should his money be theirs and hers be hers?
@@johnkacoyannakis9800 I am not saying that. I am saying that it would still be wrong but it would make more sense for her to have formed such a problematic behaviors. "whats his is ours and whats mine is mine". either way she is wrong but I could at least see where she was coming from if she was squireling away her own hard earned money.
The fact that she was stealing money from him, to leave him while he's working himself to death and she's surprised he's upset 😡
You can't steal from your spouse.
@@strategygalactic Taking something without permission and having no desire to inform or return what was taken is the definition of stealing.
@strategygalactic wtf, he trusted her to use the/his hard earned money that's supposed to support them to pay the bills. Instead she was taking that money and partially paid them filling her bank account. She was robbing them his contribution to their success. It's stealing! Sure she saved her own money too whn she was working, but she still put aside that money too whn she should have been all in the same as he did. She sabotage the marriage. Shame on that mom to push her bad experiences on her daughter.
@@strategygalactic: So, if she was working a job and he kept confiscating her paychecks to spend on booze or drugs, it also wouldn't be stealing?
The woman's to blame for him choosing to work himself to death?
That's marital assets, he needs to divorce for financial abuse
Yep, I wonder what she would say if he was sitting on a 47k "escape account"? I bet she would say he was a piece of trash. Marriage is "for better or for worse". She was evil and made it clear he was there to fund her existence.
So, she stayed home and embezzled his paycheck and wouldn't spend it on THEIR BILLS?
With out kids, there is absolutely no reason for her to be a housewife. Even if he wanted it that way
Yes.
What's ironic about this is that apparently when a woman sets up an "escape fund" in case things fall apart, it's for her protection and perfectly okay. But if a man asks for a prenup in cases things fall apart it's harmful to the relationship and insulting because it's implying that the relationship won't last.
I'd be more surprised if there weren't double standards in this day and age.
Facts
If I were to have a "escape fund", I would at least have the decency of building it up with my own money, not my partner's.
Guys should always get a prenup. Don't trust women ever. More people end up divorced than staying married prenup prenup prenup.
she put aside 750 a month. Insane. She is a criminal. "My money". Insane.
She SHOULD give him his money back, that she stole from him, he should work less and she should get a job.
Well, the wife and her mother can sit in her mom's house petting the cats and guzzling boxed wine together.
Exactly these two are a couple of🦠
I don't mind wife's saving money. A rainy day fund is done by wise people.
The mistake made. Was hiding it. And assuming it was only for HER. Not them
The other reason I'd be mad is. Anyone who could lie straight to your face when you're down & out. But couldn't be truthful. Well what else could they lie about
Box wine and cat land. 40 to 80 is a long time
😂😂😂😂 You guys really believe that she saved fourty seven thousand dollars at two hundred dollars a month? Think about 47k devided by 200 usd per month equals 235 months or 19.5 years. If thats the case wouldnt the husband realised that she was pulling out all that money over a period of 19 years? Something doesnt add up 😅
She was keeping his money for her rainy day. No wonder the man was short of money when his own wife was secretly holding on to it.
And also spending his money decorating and shit from what I can tell lol
You can say stealing from the family
That same woman saying nothing lasts forever would be offended if you asked her to sign a prenup
Since you're mother knows everything & you trust her word over your relationship, marry her!
Facts
I bet her mom is a single cat lady. Loneliness and bitterness will be her destiny. She's not trustworthy. A relationship is always done for once the trust dies.
"My money"
No. She stole tens of thousands of dollars from him.
I was red pilled in the 1990s by a woman who had two kids, child support payments coming in, and wanted my checks deposited into her account and "help" me save money. Four weeks later, she isn't giving me access to "our" money. I was bringing home $1,500 a week and didn't have money for a beer.
I did the budget with her, and she was doing great! I started giving her $400 a week, and she had a fit. Her ex was paying quite a bit but she wanted me to pay more than him into "our" money that I couldn't get to. Never again!
That must have been one hell of a sales pitch brother, because on paper, you're making me scratch my head.
@@ximkai8794exactly😂 he sounds like a mark
I was quite naïve as well.
" Am I an A hole for embezzling money from my husband " - wmn
YES ! - Everyone with integrity.
The fact that someone would need to ask this in this circumstance tells you all you need to know. Then air your shit out on the internet for all to see is just typical of modern women.
Ironically, having an escape fund whilst married will be part of any divorce settlement. If the man has less wealth than her, chances her that account (s) will be split up by the lawyers.
As it should be. They were married.
Depends on how hard she hides it.
0:01
Her Mother poisoned her
Not an excuse.
She was already poisonous
Typical poison snake poisoning other shake this is typical in old unhappiness women
So much for, for richer and poorer and in sickness and in health huh? Those vows mean nothing to them, just as long as they benefit from them.
So she squirrels away money from his earnings, but it's her money?
This is how the kool-aid drinking women think. I bet her "mother" is divorced too!!!!
Women
Sounds like stealing with extra steps
If she is a SAHM, she should keep the savings in a family account. It's not her money, its family money. She is a vampire. Or a tick, actually.
Keep going MGTOW Gentlemen. Relationships aren't worth it
Never let your wife or ex take your hard earned money
Just never get married and you won’t have either a wife or an ex. See, fixed that for you.
She kept referring to it as HER money. It was THEIR money. He was working himself to death and all she could do was worry about her escape fund. Well, let her have her escape fund and let her escape on it.
I must disagree, half of that fund is his after all.
His*
They're married. Legally, you're one person when you're married. Don't get married if you want to keep thinking it's each for their own. So no, not his*, it's THEIR.
@@OneStepBeyondu Technically all of it is his. But if he lets her go with it, she probably won't ask for anything else. Seems to me that would be a cheap amount to pay to get rid of her.
He can take half of it back I he chooses to take her to court
"Nappy headed 304s" -Don Imus
This is another reason why no man in his right mind would want to get married the b literally said "escape money" like wtf?
Two jobs just to make ends meet is suggesting previous problems.
@@boslyporshy6553 got that right smh
He should just divorce her and claim half of it because it is shared & take the massive L that is marrying a modern woman.
If she wants a backup plan, she needs to get a degree that will guarantee her a job if something happens to her husband, NOT as an exit plan if she gets unhappy.
But that would require effort and sacrifice on her part..
Or abused.
@@Susan-d2y , you going straight to being abused as an excuse to divorce is disingenuous. Women initiate 70-90% of divorces, depending on location and income. Are you trying to say that many women are abused in their marriages? Did the men suddenly become abusers or did the women knowingly marry abusers? Neither seems statistically likely.
YES, women should divorce an abuser or - better yet - more carefully vet the men they marry. But women should stop divorcing because they get bored or are unhappy because of XYZ.
Degrees are overblown unless they're in STEM. Better to get a trade from a 2 yr program in community college without a mountain of debt.
@@Tony-om5kr , they are now. Back last century when I got mine, the only useless degree was a "General Studies" degree because all these weird useless degrees didn’t even exist.
She stole 47k from him over the years. That is theft no matter how you look at it. Taking money he earned and pirating it away to a separate account.
at 66 I've learned one important fact, never let women have access to your money. Doesn't matter if it's an employee or a relationship if a woman has access to the fund's they will take advantage of it
Sir, I have been saying this very thing for years!!! It WILL be misused!!!
My wife agreed with me to keep our finances separate. Her money is her money and my money is my money. We split the bills evenly and we're happily married for 17 years now.
If you are involved with such untrustworthy women, finances are the least of your problems.
@@jasoncardinal86 That`s the way I`ve always insisted on after an x threatened to clean out our account, I don`t trust anyone with money.
Keep a tight reign on the finances fellas.
Won't sign a prenup but have an escape fund?
Promises mean nothing anymore.
If people change, do their promises?
She stole his money and now won't give it back. Its that simple.
She said with her own mouth and words "nothing is forever" thats why you women sign the prenup that the man presents you AFTER you go over it with YOUR lawyer and everything is agreed on as "NOTHING LASTS FOREVER"
She keeps calling it her escape money when it was he earned it and she stole it from him.
2:49 escape fund? that’s embezzlement. It would be different if it was her own money that she had before the relationship.
I thought married life was a partnership, apparently not in today's society.
Define partnership
@boslyporshy6553 married 47 years I know
Using the man just for his pay check, which she hid from him. Let him suffer and burnout. Tale as old as time.
0:13 she's a monster.
Lmfaoooooo she built her escape fund with his money
The other thing is, he knows about the money now. If he decides to file for divorce he has proof the money exists and can get half of it back from her in court. if she says she spent it all, the insinuation is that she did so to keep him from being able to get any of it, and she can end up facing jail time. She blew the relationship on the advice of her mother, and now mother dearest is going to send her to jail.
It's easy to meet someone... just lower your standards till you can find a date.
He should divorce her immediately !!!!!
Yes, she almost killed him.
Obviously her mother never approved of her husband. I can guarantee her mother is MANLESS as RP says.
She refers to it as HER money. Not one thought of it being for both of them in hard times. No kids, so now she can be single and have to work 40 hours a week and pay her own bills. What a selfish, short sighted way of thinking.
The scam was planned right from the start. She's a psychopath. Split the difference and kiss her goodbye.
It would be my ex-wife had $47,000, and believe me I would have the printouts of her skimming money out of the household accounts too show my lawyer!!
She was just selfish to him. This piss me off.🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡
Why, as an adult is this grown woman listening to her mom like she is a child. She is a child and needs mom to continue to raise her. Husband should dump wife and go get a adult woman to become his wife.
Women are TALL children.
It's just words she gotta say to get the money.
Daddy issues
She was raised by a single mom. Daddy issues. Enough said.
Half that money is HIS. She can't take off with all that money. Not legally anyway. That will never fly in court. Dude needs to get a good lawyer, then hit the road and stay single the rest of his life!! I could never, ever trust them again!!
Bullshit! Been there done that! You are not going to get shit back!
Your assuming the courts will be fair , but usually they are not, they are still bias towards women and usually will well reward them if they can. So what a few men get lucky, but that isn't most.
No big deal if she was working for the money she was putting aside, but the way she did it made her untrustworthy
no, it is still a big deal if she`s not paying towards the bills.
Michael Jordan didnt play to lose, he played to win. He focused his energy on being successful on the court. This is the mind needed for marriage. You gotta go into it w a plan for success.
You have, no clue. State sponsored marriage is evil. Period. If a man wants children, move to a country where you marry a young virgin from a small village and LIVE There, keeping your income and assets OUT OF THE COUNTRY.
Your Mom was jealous of your relationship with your husband. You shouldn't have listened to your Mom. Periodt 😅
Disgusting how she keeps calling it her money when she withdrew it from their account without his knowledge. She wasn't hiding money from him for years. She stole from him for years. No wonder they were having hard times.
Men go all in when getting married. Women always have one foot in and on foot out just waiting for the slightest issue to use to leave.
LOL!
It sure looks that way. Western modern women are definitely low hanging fruit, so much most foreign men wouldn't marry a western woman, although have no issue with a pump and dump . so women like Susan-d2y can at least look forward to that. I wonder what this feminist strick is , commenting on men's channels . What is her goal?
He should never have let her manage the money, UNSUPERVISED!!!!!!
She was stealing money from him for her own selfish needs. Absolutely a gross woman
It was his money she saved not hers
wow, she wants him dead. Her mother is just as bad. Stealing from your family is disgusting.
$47000 is one year of income after taxes. This is pure evil to keep this amount hidden from spouse.
I've seen this story before. Everyone seems to overlook that it was not her money, she was pocketing his money for years, even while they were struggling. This would be wrong no matter which partner did it.
So she just stole from him
Homeboy was shaking with excitement waiting to speak in this. Watch the dude in the white tee.
it was not her "escape fund," it was her golddigging fund.
The escape fund was self fulfilling. What a surprise.
If she has an escape fund, then she is already planned for your divorce. She is not worthy of being a wife. You are his property as a wife. If you refuse this position then don’t get married. This position is maintained until the day you die. Regardless of what any judge might say. Such a woman is unfaithful disloyal, and has no place being anywhere near a man.
Wasn’t her money in the first place, he earned it! What a pos!
2:27 my money ?
The money you took........
from your man.......
That money ?
Why be with a person that you even think there is a possibility that they could be dangerous and harm you.
she stole money from her own loving husband over their entire marriage
and people are afraid to call it out
Yup. You were worthy of dumping. Zero loyalty.
I mean we all know its because when she leaves she's taking ALL that money. Its not for "the family"
That's just disgusting
She was embezzling from the marriage
If they now divorce she has $23,000, because any assets produced doing the marriage belongs to them both. But the fact that she was hiding it could cause a judge to award the entire fund to him in a divorce and then they'd just split the remaining assets. If a spouse was really worried then they'd sit down and discuss a rainy day fund for them BOTH so each would have a cushion in the event of a divorce. THAT is what a true partner would do. All she need do to answer her question is how would she react if she found out he had a separate escape fund that he hid from her? An off shore account that he funded to cushion against the courts robbing him blind in the event of a divorce? Exactly...
Wrong. She and her lawyer would keep that account to themselves and never declare it. Cause they know that only a forensic audit would discover that she had her own private account. That means only law enforcement would have the authority to go looking for money's she has.
Would be a completely different story. The world would literally stop turning if it were the other way around!!!
she outright betrayed him
She robbed her husband
Escape fund = "More bank for me when I dump this chump and take half his stuff."
How would she have felt if it were the opposite way is a better question
Mid 6 figures? That is 500,000! And then broke when he gets ill? Sth seriously fishy here.
It is, but it's not uncommon for people making that kind of money to be wastrels without a plan. It's hard to feel sorry for them. Plus... this is 1% territory.
Modern women can’t be trusted bookkeeping without oversight. My Mom did it in 60s, but she was a virgin before my dad & would never divorce him EVER. It’s all different now.
Don't get married.
I love how she said. I made this home, its my money
To a thief "ill-gotten gains" are earned.
It was his money in the first place
If you need a escape account you should never be in that relationship period
He was probably eating potato chips and bologna sandwiches for lunch all those years.
The gold digger that said nothing is forever, then why should she get an allowance?nothing is forever and he will need that money to fight her in divorce court
That's what I don't understand. It's not like they won't get 50% of everything he has anyway.
In corporate America that is called embezzlement.
Saving the money is one thing. Continuing to take it from his paycheck even when they were struggling is borderline evil.
That's why separate accounts are needed. If she wants money, she would have to ask for it instead of stealing it.
Hiding or lying about anything in a relationship will ruin it
So mature and emotionally intelligent. Her only chance to come clear about the money had been after the accident, directly.
Like Honey, I saved money for these problems all the years, but instead she went to toddler mode when her childish mother explained life to her.
So mature.
Dang. .. thats painful..this is another type of evil...
It's sickening that these women want to live these lavish or luxurious lifestyles while their boyfriends/husbands are breaking their backs for them. They really get the word "provider" mixed up. They will understand that when the world comes to an end, none of that materialistic stuff will matter. They want marriage, but dont want to take on the responsibilities that come with it. Heck, they dont even want marriage, they just want a wedding so they can show all their single friends. They say "men ain't ish" no ma'am, YOU ain't ish.
This is out and out financial abuse, and this woman clearly did NOT love her husband.
He should divorce her because of these two points. He can NEVER trust her again. Relationship are based upon trust, respect, and appreciation.
Yes you are ! You're A partner in the marriage, not a victim. Even if you kept the account, it shouldn't be secret.
Saving his money and calling it hers 😂
Close... saving "their money" but calling it "hers". If she had "matching" accounts one for him and one for her with equal distribution as a general "security net" that would be fine. But the security net was only for her, and of course the most glaring... didn't inform him of her "security net" which means she was embezzling from her relationship. Pretty evil activity if you ask me. She mad it clear his job was to fund her existence and when he failed to provide, she was going to be "out".
She took their money to plan her escape. When he caught her, she says, she took "her" money? All I hear is Me Me Me. Her mom told her to bail because of a problem the wife created? Holy shit....Dude, take that money and run!
That’s insane!
He should use her escape money and escape from her.
Drizzle Drizzle.
Hmmmm listening to old bitter women for advice 🤔
That's how it is but men have to help women but women can't help financially?