Exploring Chiang Mai's Safety vs. the West

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    Introduction: Welcome to our channel! Today, we're diving into one of the most important factors for expats considering Chiang Mai, Thailand: safety. Specifically, Do I feel safe as an ex-cop in Chaing Mai. Listed below are some of the reasons I think you will feel safe. Let's get started.
    1. Low Violent Crime Rates: Chiang Mai boasts remarkably low violent crime rates compared to many Western countries. The city is known for its peaceful atmosphere and low incidence of serious crimes like robbery and assault. This makes it a reassuring choice for retirees and elderly expats seeking a secure living environment.
    2. Welcoming and Respectful Thai Culture: Thai people are renowned for their hospitality, respect for elders, and overall friendly demeanor. This cultural attitude extends to how they treat expatriates, especially retirees. Elderly expats often find themselves embraced by the local community, making it easier to integrate and feel at home in Chiang Mai.
    3. Supportive Expat Community: Chiang Mai hosts a thriving expat community that provides a strong support network for newcomers, including the elderly. Whether it's through social clubs, expat forums, or community events, there are ample opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals and receive assistance when needed.
    4. Healthcare Facilities and Services: The city offers excellent healthcare facilities, catering to the needs of elderly residents. From modern hospitals to specialized clinics, expats can access quality medical care at a fraction of the cost compared to many Western countries. This factor alone provides peace of mind for retirees concerned about their health and well-being.
    5. Infrastructure and Accessibility: Chiang Mai's well-developed infrastructure ensures ease of mobility for elderly residents. From accessible public transportation to pedestrian-friendly areas and amenities, the city is designed to accommodate individuals with varying mobility needs.
    Conclusion: In conclusion, Chiang Mai, Thailand stands out as a safe haven for expats, particularly the elderly, due to its low crime rates, welcoming culture, strong expat community, excellent healthcare services, and accessible infrastructure. Whether you're considering retirement abroad or seeking a peaceful lifestyle change, Chiang Mai offers a secure and supportive environment to call home.
    Thank you for watching! If you found this video helpful, don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment below. See you next time!

Комментарии • 172

  • @ericsimpson1176
    @ericsimpson1176 18 дней назад +20

    I am retired Houston police officer, a month or more every year in Thailand for 30 years, when in American I always have a gun I feel very uncomfortable without one....in Thailand I've never felt uncomfortable without one.....bad things can happen anywhere in the world but extremely rare in Thailand ( I often spend time in poor area's of Bangkok but I do speak thai)

    • @amgr33r
      @amgr33r 18 дней назад +1

      Hi Fred. Glad to see all is well. Love & Miss you!!

    • @user-tr7do3hq6x
      @user-tr7do3hq6x 17 дней назад

      You don't have to carry any weapons if you are in Thailand, no matter who you are, I hope you have a good experience. Welcome to our Thailand. ❤🎉😊

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад +1

      Congratulations on your retirement,!! I will always have situational awareness but if feels good not having my head on a swivel.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      *it

  • @shyamdevadas6099
    @shyamdevadas6099 18 дней назад +11

    When I went to live in China for a couple of years on business years ago, my views on gun ownership and the actual safety it brings changed forever. I was staying in a big city. Upon arrival, I was met by someone who drove me to my apartment. It was like about 11:30 at night and I was still on U.S. time. I asked him if the neighborhood was safe to take a walk in. He enthusiastically said "Oh, yes...its absolutely safe." Then, he surprised me by saying "Don't worry...we don't have guns in China." We both laughed a bit at this. I set out and walked several block and I was really surprised in many ways. The Chinese cities are very modern, but they don't have the amount of street lighting that we do everywhere. There were dark sections that you would have avoided in the U.S. This spooked me a little, but I kept walking. I soon learned that I had nothing to worry about. There were as many/few cops around, as I would find back home. The difference was that people just walked the streets with the knowledge that crime was punished severely and there were NO GUNS. The place I lived was nothing special, but at night the amount of people out taking casual walks was at the level you'd find in some fancy pedestrian mall. These were a mix of working class and middle class people. It was real nice. After a while, I realized that safety really wasn't the result of me defending myself. It was mostly about living in the right place. In the U.S., this means a gated community or high-class area. In some parts of the world, this means almost any decent neighborhood. I recently decided not to retire in a certain part of Panama because apparently a lot of the American expats there take advantage of the lax Panamanian laws on gun ownership. Leave it to Americans to spoil paradise. So, I can totally understand what you're talking about here. I've traveled the world (mostly on business) for the past 30 years and what you say is true in most places. Stay away from sketchy people and places. Make friends with the right people. Great video. Thanks!

    • @philipdupont2308
      @philipdupont2308 17 дней назад

      In Swiss everybody has guns. Do you ever hear of shoot outs in Switzerland? It is the cowboy mentality and lack of social coherence in the USA that causes all those violence in the streets. I'm from Europe and well travelled and for me the USA is a 3th world country with a few rich. All you see is poverty and police at every street corner. In Chiang Mai that' a different story, police barely patrols. You see them setup check points but they are not walking or driving the streets. And nothing ever happens. At least not if you don't go look for it. On my last stay, I saw a serious violent crime from my balcony. Someone got attacked with a bomb. Within seconds the street was deserted. All the shops closed and nobody called the police. That was quite surprising. Later someone told me that throwing home made bombs is something loan sharks would do to enforce payment.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      What a great experience in China, thanks for sharing this with me. Panama was on our list as well at one time but for some of the reasons you stated, it became a " No" for us.

  • @InvestigatorJoe
    @InvestigatorJoe 11 дней назад +2

    You’re right. I retired in 2013 and living here in Orlando (LOL) I am always on alert. Sense of safety is always important for me. Thank you

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  11 дней назад

      Hey Joe,
      Congratulations on your retirement! I had no idea how hyper vigilant I was until I found something different, stay safe Brother!

  • @thichalp9103
    @thichalp9103 19 дней назад +18

    As Thai people, I am happy to hear that and welcoming you to stay here as long as you want. 😊

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +10

      Thank you so much, and trust that I will honor and respect your country and the people.

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 18 дней назад +6

      ​@farawayfred802 I think it's clear you do deeply appreciate and respect the culture. I have to ask you this though - Is it a good idea to encourage more Americans to come to Chiang Mai ?
      They do not all behave as well as you and if too many come the changing demographics will damage or even destroy the local culture. America has already become pervasively ubiquitous in Thailand with its (mostly low quality, highly marketed) products and services.
      Chiang Mai is already referred to as a 'farang city'. Enough. There is already some local resistance.

  • @TheDodges.Travels
    @TheDodges.Travels 19 дней назад +14

    I agree 100%. I had plenty of guns when I lived in the USA. While I had a concealed carry permit and did work as armed security for a while, I rarely carried a gun unless it was needed for work. You are correct about "weight" that accompanies carrying a firearm, and I was usually happy to not deal with that. On the other hand, I really enjoyed Trap and Skeet shooting and 100-yard target shooting and did that frequently. There are gun clubs here where foreigners can go and pay to participate in shooting sports, but I have not yet done so (it seems pretty expensive to me).
    In terms of safety, I have not yet felt unsafe anywhere in Chiang Mai. When I walk down the street in the USA, I feel people looking at me the way a cat looks at a mouse; I think we all know what that feels like. I've never felt that in Chiang Mai. There are other parts of Thailand where the news reports problems with Russian mafia, and in other tourist areas (specifically Pattaya and Phuket) somebody has offered me drugs within 10 steps of leaving the hotel or resort. That doesn't happen here. Marijuana is legal and easily accessible, and despite being so close to the Golden Triangle (the Thai-Lao-Burmese border, an area known for opium production) I have not seen any evidence of opioids here (no needles in the gutters, no strung-out tweakers talking to themselves in dark doorways).
    Thai culture is very laid back, very live-and-let-live. It is such a welcome change from the USA where everybody is all up in your business, judging everything you do and don't do, and criticizing your every move. I agree that it really feels like many Americans are LOOKING to be offended. Whatever activity you like, somebody else doesn't like and can't accept that you enjoy it. Whatever you don't like, somebody else can't accept that and is COMPELLED to try to change your mind. You can't even like or not like food without somebody vehemently disagreeing and looking to fight you over it. Here nobody cares! They may ask if you like spicy food, and if you say yes then they will serve it to you and if you say no they will warn you about every spicy dish on the menu. They are being polite and respectful of your preferences.
    As a foreigner, I understand that I am a guest here. Just as I would feel a need to be very respectful when visiting a friend's home in the USA, I feel an extra obligation to be respectful and kind to the Thai people and the Thai nation who have extended their hands to me in friendship. Above all that, this is a beautiful country, an honorable and ancient culture, and the Thai people are some of the most beautiful, sweet, friendly people I have ever met. This isn't the USA, and anybody coming here thinking their life here will be the same as it was in America will find that isn't true. There are many culutural differences to get used to, but as long as you come here with an open and inquisitive mind, you should love Chiang Mai!

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +5

      Well stated my friend. Living in a judgement free zone really feels good. It does take a shift in ones thinking to truly appreciate what this country has to offer, but once you do, it's amazing.

    • @theauroralightyr
      @theauroralightyr 18 дней назад

      ❤🎉😊

  • @christopherparker4001
    @christopherparker4001 18 дней назад +3

    Well said,from a Brit living outside of Pattaya,a lot of what you say makes sense,best of health mate.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Thank you, I appreciate it!

    • @christopherparker4001
      @christopherparker4001 15 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 your a nice guy,and what you say is mostly correct,Chang Mai is more docile than Pattaya where i live,im on the East side,the Darkside as they call it,the biggest problem is the drivers,and mostly Motorbikes,im a Brit trained driver(wont have a bike here)i was shocked first,even though same side as UK,but i had to adapt(13.8 years here),i dont do the city bar life but captain of a pool team and player for another on Darkside,i dont drink alcohol when driving,but i enjoy here

  • @diethuis
    @diethuis 18 дней назад +5

    Good to hear you found peace of mind in Thailand. I wish you many happy gunless years, being able to sit with your back to the door. In the Netherlands we cannot begin to feel how frightening it must be to live in the USA and be so tense all the time. I have to say that I know what it feels like abit, having visited Memphis, Miami and St. Louis. but it is not normal in the biggest part of the world luckily. Glad that you found a safe place too.

  • @MJBsays
    @MJBsays 18 дней назад +4

    I'd say the only threat you have living there is finding a 3mt snake winding down your home 😅. I believe that Buddhism is very much the reason. The approach to inner peace and actual belief in karma makes the whole difference.
    Btw I only recently discovered your channel but watching a few videos I thought these places look familiar then realised you live in Doi Saket. It's is a great district. Had some friends from Australia living there for 5 o 6 years and we went to visit them. When we did they had just moved to a new home so we had the privilege of assisting to a house blessing ceremony from the local monk and village chief. Really enjoyed the experience. My spouse and I live in Asia too, lived in Hong Kong, then Vietnam now back to HK and I get everything you say about safety. It's priceless having that peace of mind.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Thank you so much for this post, it is on point. I love it here in Doi Saket, it has the traditional feel with the modern conveniences right around the corner.

  • @LePubPattaya
    @LePubPattaya 18 дней назад +2

    Hi Fred.
    First time I have seen your channel. Thank you for creating this video.
    I’m from the UK but lived 16 years in Thailand. I have never even held a gun, let alone discharged one. I have no fascination whatsoever with them. First time I even saw a gun was when I went on a school trip to Barcelona, Spain.
    I’m so sad that you don’t feel safe with your back to the door. Astonished that you feel that leaving your door unlocked with just a mosquito screen is something out of the ordinary.
    You have a very natural, engaging delivery on camera.
    Thanks again Fred.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Thank you so much for your post. I do feel like I'm going through a transformation for the better over here. It's like rediscovering how to live. Thank again.

  • @CarmenMulder
    @CarmenMulder 18 дней назад +2

    Interesting video and take on safety from your perspective. Subscribing from South Africa. 😊

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  17 дней назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching and subscribing, stay safe over there😎

  • @johnrencher442
    @johnrencher442 18 дней назад +4

    I to was a Certified Nursing Assistant and thanks to my mother encouragement I advanced to a Licensed Practical Nurse, and managed to make my way to Florida where I thought this would be my retirement home….. Crime, taxes, politics and the insurance is killing us… Definitely looking to retire outside the USA… Thank you for sharing your journey… I greatly appreciate it… your honesty and kindness is very nice to hear… Keep up the great work…. Blessings to you and your wife….

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +1

      Thanks so much for the kind words, good luck on our journey. I hope you find your peaceful haven.

    • @craigdawson7632
      @craigdawson7632 18 дней назад +1

      Heath care in Thailand is top notch as well. I'm looking at Cambodia, a lot less developed, health care isn't as good. But it's cheap, tax is so much better than NZ, opening a business is really easy compared to Thailand. The pollution and waste management is my big hang up in that part of the world.

  • @CrimeFighter1943
    @CrimeFighter1943 18 дней назад +9

    I have lived in Chiang Mai, for the last 14 years and have never been concerned about the need to carry a gun. You are 100% correct about CM, being a safe place to live. You have an interesting channel Fred. 🥰🥰

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +2

      Thank you.14 years, that's amazing!. I'm loving it more everyday. Whatever faults it has, it is made up ten fold by all the wonderful things here.

  • @thailandmopedadventures611
    @thailandmopedadventures611 День назад

    Great Content and the Way of your Approach, Fred. After 15 Years in Thailand I can say, the Thai People are very friendly, open minded and helpful. One Danger I see almost every Day - it’s called ON THE ROAD. After many aggressiv Races, I slowed down, because I knew only the be on the wrong Side. Some Years ago a German lost his Patience on the Road in Chiang Mai and showed another Driver (Thai Man) the Middle Finger. He ended up dead with a Bullet in his Head😢

  • @Lifeisforreallad
    @Lifeisforreallad 18 дней назад +1

    Hello, new subscriber here. I’m 58 years old and plan Retirement in the Philippines, but I come across your content and it has me reconsidering. Me and my wife are coming to the Philippines this coming November for a boots on the ground type thing and a vacation of course. The only thing that I come across on RUclips about Thailand is seedy, so your channel is refreshing. I’m a continue watching your content.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад +1

      Thank you, and please let me know if you have any questions. Also, if you decide to take a trip over to Chaing Mai I will be more than happy to meet up.

  • @josephsoto8294
    @josephsoto8294 14 дней назад

    Much appreciated perspective! (Newly Subscribed)
    I very much relate, as a US citizen. The time I've spent in CM and all over the Northern Providences, i always had a very noticeable sense of at ease. And, like you, I've always been very much attuned to my surroundings and situational awareness! *I will be in CM in November, looking to retire there in a few years.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  14 дней назад +1

      @@josephsoto8294 ,
      Thank you for dropping in, and I appreciate your perspective! It is indeed something I hadn't experienced before and I'm glad I made my way here. I hope you enjoy your trip here in November.

    • @josephsoto8294
      @josephsoto8294 14 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 Thank Yoy! 🙏

  • @RobertDavis-jb5mk
    @RobertDavis-jb5mk 18 дней назад +3

    Funny how fellow law enforcement officers think alike. I completely agree with your thoughts. I too am former law enforcement. I worked 20+ years for the state of NJ. I retired as a Sergeant. I am thinking about moving my wife and I to Panama. Not easy to get a gun. I probably wouldn’t buy one. Stay safe and enjoy.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      Thanks Robert,
      I appreciate it, and stay safe!

  • @sn2546
    @sn2546 12 дней назад

    Fred, appreciated your talk about safety in Chiangmai. I would like to bring up another kind of safety, which is road accidents. Be very careful as people could drive carelessly, just because they are careless. So, when on the roads, be careful.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  11 дней назад

      Thank you! and you are right. I did a video called " Don't die in Chaing Mai" that addresses that as well. I'm glad that I took defensive driving classes my entire career, they definitely are useful over here.

  • @TheAlphacad
    @TheAlphacad 18 дней назад +2

    Yes Fred, once again an insightful bit of video. Thank you

  • @sarahogawa5408
    @sarahogawa5408 19 дней назад +6

    Fred, I’m an expat from Chicago living in Kyoto for thirty years. Chiang Mai is my favorite city in Thailand! Your videos have the highlights of travel vlogs but also offer a deeper look into society and comparisons with the US that are well researched and insightful. So appreciate you! Looking forward to more!

    • @mancamerashakuhachiscooter8941
      @mancamerashakuhachiscooter8941 18 дней назад +1

      hey sort of neighbor, greetings from Osaka. Hope you are ready for the Typhoon! Best wishes!

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +3

      Thank you so much Sara, I truly appreciate it. I feel blessed to have the opportunity to live here and hope to help others make an informed decision as well.

    • @Tony-eb5kh
      @Tony-eb5kh 18 дней назад

      Hey Fred
      Had a chuckle when you said near impossible to get a gun here. Can get anything he in the los. 😂

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      @@mancamerashakuhachiscooter8941 ,
      Yeah, it's a blessing in disguise. We live in a pretty safe area with not much flooding.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      @@Tony-eb5kh ,
      That is hilarious 🤣

  • @dutchie05
    @dutchie05 18 дней назад +1

    Thanks for the information and conformation on safety in CM

  • @The40SW
    @The40SW 13 дней назад

    Hello Fred.
    Thank you for your service. I am a brother in blue myself , just retired from a Sheriff Dept. as a Reserve Deputy.
    I am also a Thai who live in the US for the past 40 yrs. I can relate to you about don't sit with your back to the door.
    When we eat out , my wife know to pick a table that I can sit facing the door and back to the wall LOL.
    As far as guns goes in Thailand even if you can own one my advice to you not to carry it please.
    Thailand is like any country in the world if you looking for trouble you'll find trouble.
    There are places that even the loco's will not go to.
    Avoid the bar's , night life entertainment places. You will be fine.
    BTW if you come back to the state you still cover under HR218 but you probably have to requal.
    Stay safe , wacth your 6 .
    Jesse

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  13 дней назад

      Thanks for dropping in Jesse. I have no desire to carry a gun over here. I still carry my situational awareness but definitely feel safer over here. Definitely past my nightlife stage, lol. Stay safe brother, hope to meet you one day.

  • @nokkeawnokkhunthong
    @nokkeawnokkhunthong 18 дней назад +5

    As a Thai, I'm feeling sad with some Thai people want the free gun law in the country. And I've seen news about gun violence almost every day And they blame they want a gun.
    But half of the gun violence is the family problem.

    • @northernbohemianrealist
      @northernbohemianrealist 18 дней назад

      I live in the US. Do everything you can to stop it. Americans love their guns more than their children.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +3

      I agree, guns are not the solution. Especially for people with anger issues. Thank you for stopping in and your comment.

    • @northernbohemianrealist
      @northernbohemianrealist 18 дней назад +1

      @@farawayfred802 Your comments about responsibility are unusual, which is unfortunate. My standard response is, "You think that your gun will protect you, but that's not it. It will allow you to kill someone. Who do you know who killed someone, maybe in the army or in law enforcement?" It never works, which is also unfortunate. That leaves the gun people shirking responsibility.

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 18 дней назад +2

      Thank you for raising this. Thailand is far from gun free. Thank goodness registration is quite strict. I hope it remains so. Too many young people getting their hands on guns is very dangerous.

    • @philipdupont2308
      @philipdupont2308 17 дней назад +1

      I think gun ownership in Thailand is comparable with that in the USA. Most people own a gun. At least that's what they tell me. They are not gonna walk with it in the streets or show it off.

  • @MoreFormosa
    @MoreFormosa 14 дней назад

    New sub here. Good videos buddy, your channel is under appreciated, but you’re on the right track. Just keep regularly posting interesting quality videos like this. And doing interesting interviews like you have (especially try collabs with other YT’errs) , and the viewers will find you

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  13 дней назад

      Thanks for coming on board. I greatly appreciate it and will continue to bring content that I hope the viewers will enjoy.

  • @billyjohnson9166
    @billyjohnson9166 18 дней назад +1

    Hey Fred I totally understand I live in the Philippines and feel safe also. I’m not worried of my car getting breaking into. I also feel safe in Thailand. My wife and I travel together and never see in Asia what’s going on in the U S. Chiang Mai is beautiful we visit there every year.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  17 дней назад +1

      Thanks Billy! Give me a shout next time you visit. Maybe my wife and I could meet you for dinner.

    • @billyjohnson9166
      @billyjohnson9166 17 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 for sure we’d be happy to.

  • @TheRealMafoo
    @TheRealMafoo 18 дней назад +1

    Where are you walking? Looks like a nice park, and always looking for a new place to walk :)

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад +1

      This is Doi Saket Lakes. I walk here about 5 days a week. The people are friendly and there are nice coffee shops and a few restaurants around the lake as well. Here is a link:
      g.co/kgs/b8KG8Zz

    • @TheRealMafoo
      @TheRealMafoo 15 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 Nice! However I am southwest of the airport, so a 50 minute drive for me. If I am up that way, I will check it out! :)

  • @PassportDreamGetaways
    @PassportDreamGetaways 18 дней назад +1

    So glad to hear you found peace in Thailand. It was interesting to listen to your story about guns and never sitting with your back to the door 🚪 I am from Australia and when i travel i tend to take that sense of security with me to other countries. I felt very safe travelling through the whole of Thailand. Enjoy the beautiful Buddhist culture, chang mai does have a different feeling i agree 😊

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Yes indeed, thanks for dropping in and providing your input as well.

  • @WillManuel
    @WillManuel 16 дней назад

    Just happened to stumble on your page and happy to have. Awesome to have another brother out here (I've been here in CM on and off for the past 9 years). Also great bc I am actually from Orlando too. Look forward to keeping up with your channel!

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  15 дней назад +2

      Thank you, I greatly appreciate it. Please hit me up the next time you're over here, maybe we can share some old war stories about Orlando. Thanks again and stay safe.

    • @WillManuel
      @WillManuel 14 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 Greetings Fred, I am actually here in Chiang Mai. I have been here since February. Let's grab a coffee sometime when you have some time.

  • @MrMcSweepSweep
    @MrMcSweepSweep 18 дней назад +2

    Thank you for this video, Fred. I think you said that you live in a community that is east of the city of Chiang Mai. How are things where you live during the burning season?

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  15 дней назад

      It's pretty rough during the burning season. I stayed this year to experience it. I will definitely be traveling next year.

  • @user-ws1np6qs2w
    @user-ws1np6qs2w 18 дней назад +1

    Thailand has many places for liveing, many pretty small cities , beauty views, good food and nice locals

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      I'm looking forward to discovering this beautiful country.

  • @SeanBunzick
    @SeanBunzick 15 дней назад

    Great video, Fred, and it was WONDERFUL to see my Second Home again (very much looking forward to flying from Boston back to Chiang Mai in December) but as far as weaponry in the kingdom goes: yes, Thailand IS Very Safe for Western folk (unless you're on a motorcycle--Been There/Survived That) but there ARE criminal elements in the kingdom and of course border problems with Burma, sometimes Laos and Malaysia. Still, I DO agree with your outlook on Chiang Mai and the kingdom in general--I've been going there since 1987 and can't wait to get back home again. Thanks for your video and choke dee! 🙂

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  15 дней назад +1

      Thank you, and thanks for dropping in and proving your perspective. It is obvious that you love this country and the longer I stay here the more it grows on me. Safe travels and I'm glad you will be able to escape those Boston winters😎. Safe travels and thanks again for jumping on.

  • @culinarc7741
    @culinarc7741 17 дней назад +1

    We get so ingrained in our mindset that change happens slowly. Over time I'm sure you'll find loud verbal arguments are even rare here. As a US expat like yourself I've never had the need to defend myself or wife in 10 years. It's super safe here. I'm sure some of your uneasiness is probably from your career as well. Thank you for your service as a police officer.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  17 дней назад +2

      Thank you.
      Yes you are right, if we are not careful we become a product of our environment. That is why I think travel is so important to capture other perspectives.

  • @grantyhk1
    @grantyhk1 18 дней назад

    Spot on with your observations, Fred. We're so lucky to live here. Thank you. From another ex Cop

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Thank you so much! And congratulations for making it to the other side👍🏾

  • @bouffon1
    @bouffon1 18 дней назад +1

    I have visited the poorest sections of cities like Bangkok, Pattaya and Chonburi. I never for an instant felt apprehensive for my safety, even walking at 3am one time. There are now places in Switzerland where I wouldn't do that.
    Every village has a scoundrel or two, even a local Mafia and I can tell a few tales. As soon as they know who and what you are, you're OK. Thanks for an interesting report..

    • @philipdupont2308
      @philipdupont2308 17 дней назад +2

      I'm a night walker and I love seedy places. So I also visit poor sections far away from Sukhumvit at night. I always feel safe, however I'm not always welcome. The thing is that the local mafia will just politely ask to turn around and go away. I had this happening to me twice. I guess that the slumps are places they use to hide their stash and do their business since police cannot infiltrate without being noticed way ahead. And they don't want a foreigner to witness their stuff or they might think I'm a cop since I don't look like a backpacker or tourist.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Thank you for sharing your perspective. I have felt very welcomed here and always find a way to give back.

  • @stevepse
    @stevepse 17 дней назад

    Great video this week and informative.

  • @robertmcgregor8144
    @robertmcgregor8144 18 дней назад +4

    I have two children here with my Thai wife and I in CM. One is 16, the other 21 years old. Ive never felt concerned for them in terms of being exposed to gun violence. I am probably more concerned with either of them being in a road accident to tell you the truth. However, when we did live down in Rayong and my daughter went to Pattaya on the weekend with her high school buddies, I did worry about her personal safety. But hey, that’s Pattaya!
    On another note, from what you are saying here Fred I cannot feel but empathy for you and Dana from what you must have been exposed to carrying out your professional duties in law enforcement. I am so glad to hear you are now at a point where you feel safe and, as you said in the video, sit with your back to the (restaurant) door. ❤

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +1

      Thanks for your insight. Especially coming from someone who has lived here long-term. It is strange how one can become conditioned to their environment after decades, however I'm glad I found what peace looks like. Thanks for the kind words as well my friend.

  • @MoreFormosa
    @MoreFormosa 14 дней назад

    and additionally, you’d find the same friendly and safe environment in Taiwan where I’m at. Japan is the same as well, spent time there, and in Thailand too

  • @HaroldJackson
    @HaroldJackson 18 дней назад

    I've lived in Orlando since 1976. It's only gotten worse! Thanks for the video.

  • @glum75
    @glum75 18 дней назад +2

    Thailand is deeply Buddhist, so the people don’t like confrontation, or look for it and go out of their way to avoid it. Being dominant over others is not in their nature, as much as it is in western countries. Living in America you encounter so many people on power trips, but over here not many people are like that. CM is as safe a place you will find. It is much easier on your mental health when you can pretty much disregard random shootings and violent crimes where you live.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Well stated! Thank you for your insight, it is right on point.

  • @Mummalez
    @Mummalez 14 дней назад

    As an Australian I do not understand the idea of needing or wanting to carry a gun. Yes there are unsafe areas and gun violence here but in general I feel safe in a lot of areas including cities. I’ve been to Chiang Mai a few times and remember walking back to our (my friend and I and 4 girls between us) hotel at 11pm without any fear of anything happening. Felt so safe there. Now to get my hubby there and show him why we need to move there now our kids are grown up.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  13 дней назад +1

      We are definitely on the same page! I went out for a nighttime motorbike ride through the village and it was very refreshing just seeing the locals socialize and smile as I passed by. Definitely safe.
      Thanks for dropping in, and good luck with the hubby😊

  • @BoninBrighton
    @BoninBrighton 18 дней назад +2

    I enjoy your videos, we’re visiting Thailand in February and currently learning Thai to get us started. We’re a very English couple so have no idea about guns!

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +2

      You are really going to enjoy your visit here. Please feel free to reach out to us if you have any questions.

    • @BoninBrighton
      @BoninBrighton 18 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 I was interested in your perspective as a police officer. In my career I worked in the field of restorative justice mostly with young offenders…

  • @TheRealMafoo
    @TheRealMafoo 18 дней назад

    I have not lived in the US in over 10 years, so no sure what it's like now, but when I lived in rural Minnesota, it was as safe as anywhere I ever lived. Fun fact, we never locked our doors. When the snow was super heavy and leaving packages on the front porch meant they would get wet, and possibly ruined, we would come home, and the package would be sitting on the coffee table. The UPS driver would just bring it into the house for us, so it wasn’t ruined. We didn’t need to worry, his wife worked down as the school, and would be highly upset if he ever took anything. Of course, he never would have, I just mean everyone knows everyone, and people look out for each other. Those kinds of communities are amazing, and I hope they still exist in the US.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  17 дней назад

      Thanks for sharing that with me. That's the kind of life I remember living in rural Florida in the 70's

  • @Lifeisforreallad
    @Lifeisforreallad 18 дней назад +1

    You mentioned losing power, so my question is, can you purchase a generator? I don’t mind being hot but when I come home I want nothing but comfort lol

    • @ksrithan
      @ksrithan 18 дней назад +1

      No worries! Thais don't by a generator.
      Power outage is rare. It happens only during rain storms, and usually will come back within 30 minutes.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад +1

      I think it depends on the location as well. We've lost power for up to 6 hours at a time. But yes, only during the rainy season. We are in the process of buying a generator just to keep the fans moving and refrigerator on.

  • @alanbretherton4426
    @alanbretherton4426 18 дней назад

    Good video my friend.

  • @maryziggy8802
    @maryziggy8802 18 дней назад +1

    A good balanced approach to the subject as ever Fred. It was also good to hear some more of your history

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      Thank you Mary, it's amazing how this journey has changed my life.

  • @thanaang1455
    @thanaang1455 17 дней назад +1

    Hate crime is outrageous in the US, I saw the news recently a 19-year old Asian got hit in Korean town and died few days later. The white hate black, the black hate Asian 😔 Anyway you should keep normal safety precaution.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  17 дней назад

      I agree, there should always be situational awareness.

  • @2kkto2
    @2kkto2 18 дней назад +2

    I think the biggest difference here is that if there is violence, it is not random violence but between people who know or have business dealings with each other - I used to have NY radar but here for many years, I never watch my back. I have helped people retire here who were afraid living in Florida... good job on the vlog.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      Well stated, and thank you. It feels good living in a place where for the most part you have control over your safety, great points!

  • @scottvaughn7824
    @scottvaughn7824 18 дней назад +4

    First time viewing your content, good job. My wife and I travel full time and spent two months in Thailand. While in Chiang Mai we spent the day at the Elephant Nature Park and was so impressed that we want to come back and volunteer for a week. We love everything about Thailand, even loved the mayhem of Bangkok. You e been there for a year now, did you stay for the burning season, or go away on “holiday” at that time? If you did stay, how was it? And do you think that there would be long term health concerns?

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад +1

      I love the Elephant Sanctuary we visited as well. I did stay for the burning season, I wouldn't again. It really limits what you can do outside for those two months. I will travel south next year to the beaches.

    • @scottvaughn7824
      @scottvaughn7824 16 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802
      Thanks for the reply. Bugging out during the burn seems to be a common strategy.

  • @AllThaidUp2
    @AllThaidUp2 19 дней назад +6

    Thailand and indeed Chiang Mai is to be my new home for many reasons but the safety aspect is one of them. I am coming from Adelaide South Australia which would have one of the lowest gun related crime rates not only in Australia but in the world ( my unresearched opinion ). I feel very fortunate because of this, so I dont want to move anywhere where those statistics would increase, hence my move to Chiang Mai. I understand your ( the U.S. ) 2nd amendment right, but it would be unheard of for Australia to consider this as an option. We do have guns here but for what we would consider legitimate reasons; farming and sport would be the main reasons. When we have any gun related instance of crime here, it becomes national news. I am certainly not saying we Australians are any better than anyone else, because I am not. I am probably saying that I may understand your thinking better because of the contrast. I am truly grateful that you have found a safer place to live and would love to have more of this discussion face to face one day to better understand. These are only my thoughts and opinions stated with respect. 🙏

    • @BoninBrighton
      @BoninBrighton 18 дней назад +1

      We’re the same in England just shot guns for farmland etc.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +2

      Thank you,
      These are the comments I love, it gives me a point of reference and a different set of lenses in which to look at a topic through.
      The only point of reference I have is that gun ownership is tied to our Constitution, so it becomes a way of life. I too would like to have the face to face conversation over coffee, my treat😊

  • @mikesalt8248
    @mikesalt8248 18 дней назад +1

    Nice one Fred ! Thanks for your emails my friend, hope to be part of your coffee group one day soon Mike

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      Thanks Mike,
      I hope I get to sit and have coffee with you as well. Stay safe!

  • @stevemahoney6493
    @stevemahoney6493 18 дней назад

    I agree. I started coming to CM the month before 9-11. There have been tremendous changes but it remains a remarkably safe place. Will it remain that way with the relaxation of visa laws and the influx of people from other cultures, particularly Chinese and Russian? I am not sure but we will find out soon enough. It definitely bears watching.

  • @jnsa9454
    @jnsa9454 18 дней назад +2

    Sharing from your lived experiences ✨powerful reflections to hear how your sense of safety in CM so different than in the US.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +2

      Thank you, and I'm grateful everyday for this transformation.

  • @gelan8543
    @gelan8543 16 дней назад

    Having lived in Thailand for a few years, I feel quite safe. Especially, as a Queer gender-fluid person.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      I am so happy for you. No matter who you are you should always feel like you belong. Thank you for sharing.

  • @benhogan4739
    @benhogan4739 18 дней назад +2

    From everything I see it’s the farang themselves that cause the most danger in Thailand.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      I think you're right for the most part. Some bring their same attitude and behaviors over here and get the same results.

  • @s.c.6367
    @s.c.6367 18 дней назад

    Reason you carry a gun off duty is because you’re a highly trained and God forbid something happened around you that you could’ve prevented so you are a protector of the community even off duty. God bless.

  • @tonemeister2318
    @tonemeister2318 18 дней назад +1

    I appreciate your story but how can you be affirmative towards the second amendment when you are experiencing the peace without guns in Chang Mai ?

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      Thank you. I think the point I was trying to get across is that a country that is built on the constitution including the 2nd Amendment would be difficult to rip it away. I think you may start a domino affect with other rights. With that said, it is to easy to get a gun in the states, that needs to change.

  • @johnnysukhumvit9242
    @johnnysukhumvit9242 18 дней назад

    You are safe as long as you don't breathe the air.

  • @apijitchaichana1982
    @apijitchaichana1982 15 дней назад

    Hope you have a good retirement time and stay healthy.

  • @MrEye4get
    @MrEye4get 15 дней назад

    Guns are next to impossible for normal citizens to purchase, while criminals and teenage gangs have an ample supply. This is just another example of the government denying guns to law-abiding citizens while 1000s of weapons and explosives stream across the border with Myanmar.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  15 дней назад

      That's the thing, if you were to survey citizens over here about the need to own guns, I would believe that most over here wouldn't want to.
      Maybe in some areas toward the border it is a problem, but I can't see how adding more guns, even legal guns solves anything. I've been to more accidental deaths by kids getting a hold of guns then I care to think about.

  • @nightrider12soul
    @nightrider12soul 18 дней назад

    In Chiang Mai you don’t need to think of the gun and not even talk about the gun.

  • @pmags1331
    @pmags1331 18 дней назад +1

    Hey Fred , Great video . Question : If you guys have children . How do you deal with living overseas . We have 2 boys and once they are old enough we want to retire in Thailand . Is it hard to leave the children ?

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +1

      Thanks for dropping in. We have three adult kids. Our son lives in Aruba and our two daughters are back in the States. They are all well traveled and understood why we would choose to live here
      It is difficult from an emotional stand point at times. However we are grateful for technology that allows us to video chat with them on a regular basis, and see them once or twice a year. Thanks for the question and thanks for watching.

    • @pmags1331
      @pmags1331 18 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 Thank you for the reply . Technology definitely has make it easier .

  • @rebeccal.672
    @rebeccal.672 18 дней назад

    Thanks for the video! It was very informative and I agree. I work at the schools here in the states in a fairly small community but, I still feel very aware of my surroundings at the school, movie theaters, mall or other places. Thankfully no school shootings and I really hope it never happens especially while my kid is in school. The only act of violence I have heard about was in Bangkok where a 14 year old with mental issues shot and killed a few people last year. Thailand seems very safe even in the bigger cities.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад +1

      Thanks Rebecca,
      Good points, I was a School Resource Deputy for a great part of my career. Ive had my share of the arrest of teens bringing guns on campus. Luckily I've never had a shooting.
      You are right, most incidents are isolated here in Thailand. Thanks for your input.

  • @bertimus7031
    @bertimus7031 18 дней назад +1

    It does not get any more safe than Chiang Mai

  • @mancamerashakuhachiscooter8941
    @mancamerashakuhachiscooter8941 18 дней назад

    Well,said! I have the same feeling in Japan. Having taught Martial Art in the States for many years. When looking to teach here o notice the attitude/reason about learning a marital art is not from the fear factor like in the States. i get that same no fear vibe in Chiang Mai

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      That's well stated! To live in a place where you don't find yourself sizing people up as a potential threat is refreshing. Thanks for dropping in and proving your insight.

  • @PaulCousins-ko3jd
    @PaulCousins-ko3jd 18 дней назад +3

    Greetings Fred, I agree with most of your points, there is an unraveling of structures in the west, a lot of us are looking for a solution, being British I just can’t agree with your 2nd amendment rights!✌🏾🍷

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  18 дней назад

      Hey Paul,
      Thanks, and this is what a difference of opinions should feel like, a discussion. Unless you were born into it, I can see how it could be difficult. I've also seen the flip side of responsible ownership, nonetheless I truly appreciate your opinion.

    • @jessieb3866
      @jessieb3866 18 дней назад

      Guns don’t kill people, People kill People

  • @craigdawson7632
    @craigdawson7632 18 дней назад

    If you were to look at those statistics do you think the results would be skewed from the different culture and documentation?
    Sleeping with your door open or not locking anything is still common in a lot of places.
    It seems like your using a 3rd world war zone as a base line. A smaller city in Japan, NZ, Australia, Sweden, Norway etc all seems reasonably safe. Although the world is changing in small cities down south in NZ hard drugs or day time crime wasn't a thing 20-30 years ago.

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад

      I think sometimes we look through the only lenses we have. Having a different perspective with boots on the ground provides a different perspective. Thanks for the post.

  • @jrrand3819
    @jrrand3819 16 дней назад

    In the UK and probably the the rest of Europe we find American gun culture off the scale weird - glad you've managed to escape it.

  • @collsey1
    @collsey1 18 дней назад

    Im from London England, and in my 60s have never seen a hand gun. There would be fighting on the odd occasion, growing up, but the worse injury would be cuts and bruises..When I visited the Florida U,S, with my wife and kids, It had different vibe. We were told,not to stop in rest areas when driving,or we might get robbed and shot, Iv been coming to Chiangmai for a few years now, and always feel safe.
    There's only one reason to have a gun. Guns are made to kill people.
    The world would be a much better place without guns..

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  17 дней назад

      Thank you so much for sharing your perspective, I appreciate it.

  • @davidlamb7524
    @davidlamb7524 18 дней назад

    " Next to impossible to get a gun" ?
    I have been offered guns by tuk-tuk drivers ! 15% of the population are registered gun owners - the highest of the ASEAN countries. This is not taking into account the amount of unregistered guns and owners. You need to be here a bit longer maybe .

    • @chairatsuwanwong4448
      @chairatsuwanwong4448 18 дней назад

      Next to impossible to get a gun "without a ticket to 10 years in prison".

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 18 дней назад

      @chairatsuwanwong4448 I don't want one but have been offered them before including in Chiang Mai where a tuk- tuk driver showed me a Glock for sale, still in the box.

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 17 дней назад

      @@chairatsuwanwong4448 I should probably add it was a long time ago. Near the end of Thaksin's time. Maybe controls are better now?

    • @farawayfred802
      @farawayfred802  16 дней назад +1

      I was referring to legit gun ownership. Who knows, that might have been a set up.

    • @davidlamb7524
      @davidlamb7524 16 дней назад

      @@farawayfred802 Could be