How to *Grow Up* Your Style
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- Опубликовано: 27 май 2024
- Improving your personal style often comes down to having the awareness to put away old fashion habits and to allow your style to "Grow Up" or "Mature" .... In today's video we are going to talk about just that... How to Grow Up Your Style.
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For me the most important thing of "growing up" your style would be choosing higher-quality fabrics
Yes, please! Now even "quality" pieces are pure polyester 😢 Linen, cotton and wool feels and looks SO much better ❤❤❤
@@ZurditaDinamita i totally agree cotton is my fav fabric of all time. the only time i prefer synthetic is with acrylic for beanies because wool is too rough compared to soft acrylic.
@@jacobjb merino wool
People worry too much about the perception of others. Dropping parts of your style because of age, actively trying not to follow trends, hating pieces based on popularity, etc.
Fashion is a form of self expression. Just be yourself and your style will "Mature" just fine.
sometimes it’s for practicability though, which directly affects how you want to dress. lots of people go into college changing their style because they can’t wear the same flashy outfits as they used to in high school 24/7. it’s just easier to adapt in a way flexible to you, which means you’ll consume less products and shop more consciously.
AGREED !
I get your comment. Fashion is a sensitive topic😅. Here me out: I think some of Drew’s videos are more tailored towards people that are truly into fashion i.e they want to expand their knowledge and get inspirations for their style as a more artistic expression. For this audience it’s not about dressing to impress, it has a more artistic and creative touch I believe.
That kind of mindset is more than a little off, honestly.
Unless it involves work or financial issues it's never a matter of "you can't."@@pixi3d3ath47
I would expect as much considering his style and quality of content, but I wanted to say it anyway!
Sometimes just people overthink it and I don't think that's said enough. ^@@Ricebender
To me, Tyler’s style doesn’t seem mature necessarily, but more so like a child wearing their parents clothes and imagining what maturity feels like. Not in a bad way but it’s interesting, like a caricature
NOW THIS !!! agree w u fullyy
his style is awful
It’s because it’s out there, eccentric. I haven’t seen anyone who really nails down their own unique ‘style’ like him.
True, even so it feels mature for a young adult. But that’s about it, especially with the species cuts and proportions he or his stylist chooses.
It's Black Ivy
And this is why leon edwards has the most aesthetic physique
How did u get over here 💀
i just came from an MMA video and was so confused for a sec
where did mario come from lmao
Interesting transition
Glad I’m not the only fashion-MMA guy
What I would add to this list is layering. These days instead of going for a sweatshirt for example, I often go for a white shirt and a cardigan. I’m surprised myself how much this improves my outfits and makes them look more mature.
cardigans in general are super cool
Heavily agreed ! Lately I have kind of become obsessed with cardigans & sweater vests . They just feel... me, y'know ? I have never felt so comfortable & happy in specific garments, except for cardigans & sweater vests. I feel so much more mature, also like a grandpa in general but IDC, I've been rocking them all fall // winter.
Not to mention that layering them is fun, too ! I'll sometimes put a white shirt, or a collared shirt for a more formal gathering. Sad that as the spring is coming where I live, I won't be able to wear them but I want to invest in more interesting collared tops :-)
The more I grow up, the more I don't care about looking mature. Most of the mature style are made to fit in society. Peoples wear costumes to feel important but it's only when you speak your mind that we now. Your suit is a smoke screen.
i think point of his video is that u can take any aesthetic in fashion and make it ur own.
Is it bad that I don’t want to grow up my style? I love my graphic tees, I love my branding and I still love wearing streetwear-like stuff occasionally…
Tip 1: introduce collared clothes
Tip 2: stay with more classic silhouettes
Tip 3: use accessories to express yourself
Tip 4: wear clothes that actually fit you properly
Tip 5: wear more subdued colors
Great video btw! Thank you very much, helped me a lot! ❤️
So funny that this has come out now because literally yesterday I was on a shopping spree for a professional wardrobe (I'm just starting a teacher training course straight out of uni) and putting on the new clothes has such a massive effect on my perception of myself - like damn, maybe I am a grown-up now 😂
i think for some people, maturing your style involves dressing slightly more basic for practicality rather than trying to constantly wear noticeable items and graphics. i used to exclusively shop at hot topic and bought every trend even if the style was awful on me, and now i’m very intentional about finding what fits me but gives the visual effect i want. i would dress like one of those tiktok “mall goths” and now dress slightly more like some of those banana republic ads. my clothing is also much more versatile and affordable now that i focus on basics and necklines that flatter me. kibbe type was also good for helping me.
it starts off basic because you should follow the rules before you break them. it can get boring pretty quickly though and if you're still interested in fashion, there's a good chance you'll start to figure out ways to bend the rules a little bit and make your outfits more interesting with small detail differences.
It's funny because I recently thought about maturing my style and having my wardrobe meet me where I am at now... Accessories definitely allow for that creative personal style to flow through regardless of the setting, I think these are amazing tips Drew!
sustaintable, quality fabric, nice fitting, timeless and modesty. that's what i think when it vomes to mature style.
I don’t think maturing one’s style is for everyone, though I do think it is important to know how to dress for an occasion. For men you don’t really have to think it much, we can just put a suit and call it a day for most formal events
Alsothe word mature kinda bothers me, feels like it pushes people to “dress their age” as they get older & that just lacks self expression regardless of how hard you try with accessories
say what you will but a billabong shirt doesn’t look good on a 37 year old. dressing your age is an implication of maturity.
Not taking a 37 year old serious because he’s wearing a Billabong t-shirt says more about you than the t-shirt wearer. Maturity to me means not being as interested in how I’m being perceived by others.
@@Jo-in6xuTHIS.
@@Alan-rw3ezdressing your age is complete nonsense
@@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012 😝
My sense of style is starting to kick in more now at 38 and it’s actually fun. Ive become my own muse and I want my style to say more about me but still reserves the mystery within.
These type of videos are what differentiates "good" from "great"
Love the content
I’m probably one of the oldest in age of your subscribers and I think you are spot on with your takes.
Shoehorn is a very common thing to have in Sweden. Didn’t know that it wasn’t a thing everyone uses hahaha
I rarely see it in America but I remember my dad would use it to put on his good shoes for parties 😂
@@Andrea-rc1gzshoehorn will help your shoes last longer
loving the new video setting
was having a bad day and your video really made it so much better. thanks as always drew
Amazing video, thanks!
Continuously leaving things I’ve found cool in the past behind & picking new items style wise,Less truly is more.
I think you're equivocating on a couple of things here, and this cause leads to the symptom of you constantly trying to say "I don't mean this, I mean that." As somebody who likes a lot of the type of clothing you describe as "mature," I'd like to separate out some ideas.
For one, there's an important distinction between a person's personal style maturing, and a person wearing clothing that a more mature person might wear. The latter is, to me, a complex value judgement and set of expressive choices worth getting into, but I'd like to start by mentioning why the former is not the same at all.
When a person's style matures, they develop a better understanding of what they like to wear. This does not necessarily mean more formal or more business-appropriate or more adult clothing. I know a lot of people who wore suits through high school, wore hardcore vintage in college, and only started getting into more casual perspectives in adulthood, once they started to get a better perspective on style. Their tastes matured, and took them in entirely the opposite direction as the one you suggest.
I don't like the way you suggested that slimmer cuts are more traditional or more mature. Slimmer cuts are not common in history, in traditional tailoring, in ivy style, in fashion before the 70s... they're merely a trend from the mid-2000s. At some moment, it sounded like you were suggesting that they were more mature because they're more widely accepted, which... I hope you did not mean.
But yes, some people might want to dress in more subdued colors, more traditional styles, less casual styles, or something else to fit into a different context. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's not inherent to the clothing-it's not that it makes the wearer look more mature, it's that it's more agreeable in contexts where you're expected to dress in a certain way. Yes, wearing Ralph Lauren to your office job instead of Rick Owens can have many practical benefits, but the practical benefits are a result of social language, not a result of the clothing being inherently "smarter." I think that's an important distinction.
Been using a shoehorn for about four months. It’s great! Lol. Love the tip on collared shirts that realization has changed my whole game
As a person who always wear tshirts and as im in my early 20s(turned21 recently), now I been just realising this topic in my own fashion journey and now i see this and this will influence me a lot and help me make decisions,thank you
im 14 years old. im a schoolgirl and a skater. do i want to dress older? no, not really ! yet this video is just so interesting ! the way drew is soft spoken, the lofi in the background.. so calming
Such a well done video, thank you! This is actually affordable and implementable regardless of body type, skin tone etc. As usual, I'm so glad I subscribed!
This is such a good video! Being in my late twenties and never really finding my style I’m determined to start building a timeless wardrobe. I noticed I did follow trends a lot in the past and it’s just a waste of money. Confidence is also key to being more authentic in your style as well. I agree about asesorías being that detail that can really elevate your outfit.
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PVV Finn here. We don't wear shoes indoors, and I always have a shoehorn at the door. Some of my friends make fun of me for being old school, but I think they're super common in leave your shoes at the door countries in Europe
Never been a fan of trendy items, used to get laughed at for dressing like an old man.
Man times have changed huh
I'm in the market for a shoehorn, because I used my friend's when I visited her. You're totally right about them!
Great tips, loved the rush hour tribute in the beginning 😂
Love a new video from drew
#pvv I’ve been using shoehorns basically my whole 23 yr life lol because my dad is fan of them. Always thought it was weird that I used them and my friends didn’t. I’m glad you’re loving them! They really are a game changer when putting on shoes.
Another tip for determining how something fits is to reference your favorite clothes that already fit well. Just find the size chart for that item online or measure it yourself. From there you can very easily get an idea of how something online will fit when your compare the size chart measurements. I used to 100% avoid online shopping because I hate the return process if something doesn't fit, but recently this tip has worked so well for me that I don't really mind anymore. All of these tips are great but I can't stress it enough, tip #3 will unlock a new level of fashion fir you no matter what age!
I believe it's not called maturity but having more money to buy more items to curate personal versatile wardrobe.
Drew I love your Videos! You always pump out amazing content and You're voice always puts me to sleep
Yes I’ve been using a shoehorn since my twenties!
#PVV, I use a shoehorn! My friends are always amazed by how easy it is to use whenever they come over :) Sorry to hear you moved out of my home state (CO) but I'm happy to see you moving in!
#pvv the shoehorn changed my life. Genuinely must have saved me hours of struggle/finger pain getting shoes on
I heard the shoehorn tip long ago and since then I want one so bad!
one came in a shoe i bought few years ago and i just threw it away cuz i didn’t know wtf it was for😅
0:39“ i remember that Rush hour scene 😂 my all time favorite movies
Drew dropped another classic for y’all!!! I’ve used a shoe horn but I don’t own one
That little pat pat you gave your trainers with the shoe horn was definitely extra, but made me want to get one LOL :_-)
#pvv i do use the shoehorn but just for my loafers and man i couldnt agree more, it is so fun to use
Another great video!
I’ve been wanting to mature and reinvigorate my style for some time now, but find the entire prospect of doing so, so overwhelming. My current wardrobe is tired and boring. The fits are from what I enjoyed years ago and no longer align with my personality or what I consider stylish.
My question to you is, how does one go about building an entire new wardrobe on a budget?
My father had a titanium/aluminum shiny one around the house. Short but very sturdy and sleek. Wasn't very fun or interesting to use but definitely got the job done and tended to gravitate towards it once my finger was burnt #pvv
Now you making me consider getting one...
fighting people with a shoehorn has gotta be the best fashion advice i've heard in awhile AHAHAHA
i'd personally rec storing your ties on a tie rack or simply have undone, flat on a hanger -- i have mine draped over a pants hanger. this helps to maintain the integrity of the tie as leaving it knotted for long periods of time can distress the wool/fabric. ties have been such an integral addition to my wardrobe with polishing up my usual skater/workwear attire while also allowing me to still experiment with designs and ways of tying it :o)
#pvv yes i've been using a shoe horn for about a year or so, and like you said - game changer! especially for chelsea boots in the winter, it is sooo much easier to put them on
My grandfather lived by the shoe horn and as I child I thought it was a mini golf club lol. Love a good show horn tho and even my 16 y/o nephew uses one for his kicks
Your video was amazing and super insightful ! And to answer your question unfortunately I have not yet used a shoe horn but with your recommendation I will definitely look into purchasing one for myself this Christmas #PVV . Sending prosperity and peace to you brother and Take care !
I always gift a solid shoe horn for housewarmings, will never understand why some don’t own one 🤷🏼♀️
Not gonna lie there is no “mature” style i see older people rocking graphic tees looking COZY AF. The older i get the less i care about what people think about my fits. My style is how i express myself to the world and that’s that. I do believe in dressing more formal for certain occasions but we here to break the mold of what was what.
#pvv I used to use a shoehorn when I was younger. I would go on trips with my dad and he would always make me use it. As I grew older, we started going on fewer trips together but I began to understand the need for them. I need to get one of my own.
i was using an ikea shoehorn for my gotdamn blazers for months but one day I was in a mad rush and snapped it. i haven' t worn my blazers since
Ive only ever used shoe horns for boots and converse
PVV- Darn it Drew, now I gotta get a shoe horn! I dress very mature, but still colorful! It's a good balance for my late 30s... I think don't hold that mic, too phalic😂 you da best!
I'll never grow up. I'm a grown ass kid. Imma wear hypersaturated, immature, oversized clothes till the day I die.
The bad boys refrence is GOLD
#ppv I have never owned a shoe horn but I remember very fondly my grandpa using it to put on his shoes wearing them with confidence ❤
Drew What It Do loves his subdued blues!
never tried a shoehorn haha but the heel tabs on my shoes are the first to get wrecked lol #pvv
Yes Drew, Jacob Elordi does look more grown up in a suit than in a fleece and shorts haha love the vids man
Crazy right 😂
#pvv never!! I am fit and can squat a bit for some extra exercise when putting my shoes on 😂
Loved the vid. I won't ditch my colorful clothes but will think about collars for awhile
I actually like you holding the microphone it adds another element to how the message is delivered I dunno its nice hahaha
Early! Luv u drew
It's just crazy hearing people saying they've never used a shoehorn, like I've been using one since I was a little kid
this was so needed! I feel like my style is stuck precovid and ive been trying to transition for the longest
new york drew in his bag
I have my trusty Ikea shoehorn that i use all the time 😆
Ahh the Deion Sanders adage “You Look good, you feel good,you feel good, you play good, you play good, they pay good!” Informative vid Drew, good looks on the shoe horn lol #pvv
I tell u, once I discovered shoehorns too, they literally changed my lifeeee
#pvv I am very new to shoehorns, just bought one last month but tbh, idk if it is the lenght but it does not work with converse (hi tops) for me, so i only use it for low top sneakers, that i dont wear often and proper boots, loafers and Oxfords, dont regret it tho
Going to go collard shopping for shirts thanks fam.
I do not use a shoe horn might consider it now lol. But how about high tops??? Do they work LOL #pvv
Where did you get that shirt from, it's fire🔥.
#pvv never used it but I always thought about getting one for some of my sneakers
Where do you get your background music it's very good
You should look into Carla Rockmore !
I've used a shoe horn (short one) in the past. I want a long one now! #pvv
My grandma had a shoehorn through my whole childhood lol no one I knew besides older people ever heard of them
My mom got me a shoehorn and it makes it so easy to put on my shoes since I never untie and retie my shoe laces 😂
i love that shirt were can i get it?
I got a shoe horn recently I use it for more delicate shoes I want to keep nice, but I still just throw on my sneakers as I rush out the door
I'm ok with all of the tips, except the subdued colors one! I get it, but I personally look like a zombie with neutrals and pastels 😂 I need saturated colors 💜
#pvv i used a shoe horn my dad made in shop class as a highschooler. pretty cool story to it and always feels cool
Easiest way to mature your style while still keeping your personal style:
- tailoring
- quality of fabrics (natural fabrics over polyester)
#PVV yes been using the shoe-h for years with any kind of footwear
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#pvv I bought a shoehorn about a year ago because my thumb started to look really messed up 😄 but I think in this whole year I’ve used it about 4 times because I always forget about it…
i got a shoe horn, but it's because of the shoes i have that don't slide on/off as easy. it's reflected in my life and style that at heart i'm a lazy guy who just wants shit to be easy and comfy but still work for my neurotic enthusiast brain
This video was awesome. But drew im curious you referenced some vids with absolute beautiful clothing for example at 13:57 and i was curious where this was from
Ralph Lauren fall 2022
#pvb I don’t use a shoe horn….. but I’m gonna buy one because of you!
Drew if you have time could you tell me what RUclips videos are the London clips that you have shown in the video. Also Pvv I don’t use a shoe horn.
where did you get that shirt. it's actually clean af
Been using a shoe horn since I was a kid, I cannot live without one 😅
#pvv yea ive been using a shoe horn since i was like 10 cause my dad used it so me and my brother started using it too
I've never used a shoehorn before and idk if I will. Might do it because of you though lol #pvv
miss the old decor background
#pvv I use a shoe horn for my converse, they are a pain to put on with your fingers. Everything else I slip my feet in easily on any shoe.
i love doja cat’s styleee
Hey drew how do you feel about western wear in Japanese Americana
I.e bolo ties, cowboy boots, cowboy hats
you’re cool, i like you, thanks for showing me what shoe horn is lmfaoo