Majority of the concerns on the show: 1. Alcohol 2. Abuse 3. Addiction (games, doraemon, clawmachines, workout etc) 4. Fishing One of these is not like the others xD
And I think it's kinda sad or maybe that's not the right word that we don't see as many women/wives (abusers in this case) as husbands coming here and the husbands saying hey she is abusing me, she is drinking or whatever - I think many especially Korean men have a stigma if I can use that word against them so it would be embarrassing to come here and say it. It's always the pig husband who never admits his own faults and then all of us point our fingers at him but very rarely the other way around.
@@watashiwaanni I totally agree. It's always "shocking" when a man comes forward when his wife/girlfriend comes forward with being abused and not the one that is doing it. It's always the reaction that "oh, it can't hurt that much" or "you're the man, just man up". I think it was a concern a while ago where the female seriously hurt the man but they didn't get how painful it was until they got to experience it themselves. Both sides can be bad and really hurt their partner both physically and mentally. The difference is that the man generally is bigger built or is seen more as a "fighter" or "head of the household" but females can still do the same.
Yes and usually it is also the mental abuse and manipulation that goes on. Especially the females who get pregnant with the sole purpose to "trap" the husband and tie them down with their claws. These women are very toxic. I don't know if it's just me but I feel like the mental abuse is the worst of all. Korean women however has it difficult when they get divorced and already have kids - very high stigma of divorcees sadly, but it is changing slowly.
@@watashiwaanni it's just the stigma overall and it's over the whole globe. Where I live, the stigma is not as extreme as it feels like it's in korea sometimes, but if you say "someone abused their partner" most people would think the guy hit the girl (in a straight couple). Abuse is often connected to physical abuse like getting beaten up or hit, but mental and verbal abuse still has such a scarring effect on people but it isn't less noticeable. With it being less noticeable as you can't see the wounds, people don't talk about it as much and don't see it as the same level of problem. The solution is often "just don't listen" but like sweetie, it doesn't work like that if you hear the same things over and over again for days, months or even years. It will get to you and it's such a power tool for the person that it using that type of abuse because they can do it in the dark with no one noticing it which is a huge advantage for the person but so wrong on every level possible.
I have watched hello counsellor for a few years and played through their whole playlist . This is the first time I'm seeing Shin Dongyeop actually so frustrated and irritated
I know right? He didn't even say much at first, like, if you purposedly watch him when he's in the shot while others are talking, he was just quiet. Being that husband, I would be really scared XD
For real I have been watched since the start and this concern had dongyeop mad. I remember watching the episode and was so damn frustrating with this man and his bs.
I like that this show is slowly recalling the truth about mental health issues. It’ll take time for korea to understand but shows like this bring attention to the hell of mental health issues. Of course there are better ways but it’s a start.
i love this show a lot, it really teaches me a lot of korean words, sentences and it’s actually interesting to listen to concerns, listen the different point of views even more when the culture is totally different from mine
I cried my eyes out in the second concern. The father is such a loving father...Too bad he couldnt demonstrate hi slove properly. Th egirl should be more thankful for her father. Yet I understand her. I think a lot of kpop fans will see themselves in her...I wish I could meet my bias too so that I cant stopped being obsessed about them..lol Props to Kangnam he is a great guy!
This husband from first concern is A monster. He is so selfish and annoying. Saying that child's depression is only wife' fault is unbelievable... Poor little girl. I couldnt move, when she had the exams. It's so sad. I hope they will find a way to live a happy life 😢
It really stood out to me that in the last words in the first concern, the mother only mentioned to be a good mother and father to her children. She didn't mention anything about having a sweet marriage life with her husband or even get her husband to treat her right only to provide a happy childhood to her children.
The woman should've left the man in the first concern a long time ago. He obviously doesn't love her, doesn't care about either his wife or his daughters. I don't get how she exposed herself and her daughter to such a man for all these years. I do get that it isn't easy to get a divorce, but to think if her living with him, making more and more kids with him whose lives are gonna be ruined is so sad.
I think the last problem is serious too. I'm in a similar situation. My parents fight all the time. I already take after my father's character. Now both of us became short tempered/stubborn and unfortunately my mother is the unlucky one in the middle. Although those 2 are 14+ they still can be influenced/affected by what parents do, especially if it happens everyday.
I do try, but when I have to explain some edv stuff, i get without reason quickly annoyed. Definitely need a change of enviroment to grow up some more.
Yeah same my parents don't fight usually but on that rare occasion they bring up the past (and its not good for everyone) but I'm usually a mix of stubbornness and can get annoyed although I do love my family I sometimes snap and that causes them to sometimes snap back a me
Geez this girl tho, i was embarrased on her behalf when she started crying about the fact that Kangnam might marry someone else one day😐😂😂😂😂😂but in a way i understand i was also like that at 16 i was rebellious as hell😂😂😂🐈
We all know how we feel about all the concerns, especially the first one, but the last one was pretty nice in a way. I love how they were themselves throughout the whole concern, but I can see that there are much deeper problems that they're going to need to solve at home. They're a great family, so I hope some small changes will be added so everyone becomes happier. :)
Hello Counselor is one of my favorite variety show, I like to see how "normal people" handle their problems btw I'm so proud of Nature's Lu and Gaga they just debuted but they already are in a variety show of KBS!
I usually watch Hello Counselor to get rid of my stress. And then midway I realize it in fact does the complete opposite :)) I could punch that guy in the first concern.
I've been into kpop for so long I can smell the rookie. Dongyeop is right, that clip will be valuable in the future. I guess this is why I'm rarely into new groups these, that and I have enough already (although the disbanding that's been happening *cries*)
The second concern was satisfying, it got solved *feels good* I saw the third one as a concern. I mean dang. They do love each other but the way you talk to each other can have a lasting effect. However it is something that can be worked out. At least they see the problem now. Also the second daughter was the best.
The husband from the first concern is frustrating.. I would have left him if I was the wife. Whew! Anyways the guy in the audience at 1:05:08 looks so much like Eunkwang from BTOB.. 😃
whenever i see this episode everyone from kindergarten to will-die-tomorrow gives stress as an excuse. I mean everyone undergoes stress, what is a big deal in that! My major stress reliever is a happy family time. If I am at hostel I just call my family or hang out with my friends and that helps a lot! Or I watch Btob or pentagon and that helps too! 23:08 finally yes!
1)A deadbeat father who needs a reality check(and to be divorced ASAP) P.S. *His poor daughter has depression for god sakes* 2)A misunderstood teen who is seeking the kindness of an older man to replace what she is lacking in a father figure, but the resolve was so heartwarming
Here's what I truly don't get..with reference to the first concern..why do women time and time again remain with selfish men..sadly their thought that I'm doing it for the children is far more harmful for those children..children thrives in loving surroundings..a child with one parent who showers that child with love, firm consistent boundaries...will often pull through life much better than a child who lives with both parent...who constantly bicker..and are determine to belittle each other...
36:00 lol lu exact thing on my mind! 46:58 lol I was serious till this moment! 47:18 I can see his exhaustion! 48:35 smart! I agree with the second concern. Being a fan gives you happy moments and sometimes motivation but it takes away lot of time! 1:09:56 the younger sister be like, wait what just happened! lol these big sisters just cant take cursing! my sister can't even take a 'shut up'! she never curses, yes not even 'shut up' and expects me to be the same saint! i love her but sometimes i can't control my mouth and blurt out things and then starts the war!
I'd like to ask about at least half of the wifes who come to Hello Consellour why did they marry their husbands. I mean, if he was like this even before you got married to him, HE WON'T CHANGE. At least don't have 4 kids with such a man. I know that divorce is still not taken well with Korean society, but these girls really need to act up or they'll just keep on suffering in their relationships and it's just so sad and irritating to see so many stories like this...
Parents pls teach your sons to behave like a man and respect women's and give them a good upbringing and women's pls don't tolerate such behavior and fight back never let someone make you down 😡I want this world to be safe for women's to go late at night without fear and feel safe even if a guy standing near her plz make her feel safe don't make her feel that with what pathetic man I am standing please and girls make yourself stronger that you don't need to depend for your life on any man.
Okay, what I wrote wasn't a perfect explanation but as long as she's not hurting/harassing Kangnam/his family/friends/other fans etc, then she's not a saseng.
Bas itana bolana chahunga ki apni soch badle sow hit ke liye kala pe jorde jo film banate hai wo mehsnat nshi karna chshte sot me kam karke nilne rshte kala kar ka ksla dikhaw na auor kuchh ok
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Majority of the concerns on the show:
1. Alcohol
2. Abuse
3. Addiction (games, doraemon, clawmachines, workout etc)
4. Fishing
One of these is not like the others xD
I always skip the concern when some ahjussi is about to talk about his fishing obsession hahaha
And I think it's kinda sad or maybe that's not the right word that we don't see as many women/wives (abusers in this case) as husbands coming here and the husbands saying hey she is abusing me, she is drinking or whatever - I think many especially Korean men have a stigma if I can use that word against them so it would be embarrassing to come here and say it.
It's always the pig husband who never admits his own faults and then all of us point our fingers at him but very rarely the other way around.
@@watashiwaanni I totally agree. It's always "shocking" when a man comes forward when his wife/girlfriend comes forward with being abused and not the one that is doing it. It's always the reaction that "oh, it can't hurt that much" or "you're the man, just man up". I think it was a concern a while ago where the female seriously hurt the man but they didn't get how painful it was until they got to experience it themselves.
Both sides can be bad and really hurt their partner both physically and mentally. The difference is that the man generally is bigger built or is seen more as a "fighter" or "head of the household" but females can still do the same.
Yes and usually it is also the mental abuse and manipulation that goes on. Especially the females who get pregnant with the sole purpose to "trap" the husband and tie them down with their claws. These women are very toxic. I don't know if it's just me but I feel like the mental abuse is the worst of all. Korean women however has it difficult when they get divorced and already have kids - very high stigma of divorcees sadly, but it is changing slowly.
@@watashiwaanni it's just the stigma overall and it's over the whole globe. Where I live, the stigma is not as extreme as it feels like it's in korea sometimes, but if you say "someone abused their partner" most people would think the guy hit the girl (in a straight couple).
Abuse is often connected to physical abuse like getting beaten up or hit, but mental and verbal abuse still has such a scarring effect on people but it isn't less noticeable. With it being less noticeable as you can't see the wounds, people don't talk about it as much and don't see it as the same level of problem.
The solution is often "just don't listen" but like sweetie, it doesn't work like that if you hear the same things over and over again for days, months or even years. It will get to you and it's such a power tool for the person that it using that type of abuse because they can do it in the dark with no one noticing it which is a huge advantage for the person but so wrong on every level possible.
I have watched hello counsellor for a few years and played through their whole playlist . This is the first time I'm seeing Shin Dongyeop actually so frustrated and irritated
Me too, I've watched every single episode. It was to the point that he didn't care if what he said would be aired or not.
You read my thoughts exactly! I was thinking the exact same thing throughout.
I know right? He didn't even say much at first, like, if you purposedly watch him when he's in the shot while others are talking, he was just quiet. Being that husband, I would be really scared XD
For real I have been watched since the start and this concern had dongyeop mad.
I remember watching the episode and was so damn frustrating with this man and his bs.
@@Pumpkin0_0 q
I like that this show is slowly recalling the truth about mental health issues. It’ll take time for korea to understand but shows like this bring attention to the hell of mental health issues. Of course there are better ways but it’s a start.
The daughters in the first concern are little angels, hope the father behaves more in behalf the family's happiness!
i love this show a lot, it really teaches me a lot of korean words, sentences and it’s actually interesting to listen to concerns, listen the different point of views even more when the culture is totally different from mine
It makes me sad when people say they were "blinded by love"
It's what happens when people make someone else the product of their happiness instead of themselves first.
It makes me mad😂😂😂 and honestly, on this show, I feel like it's a euphemism for 'we didn't use protection, so we got married to save face' =______=
@@chai_lattes That part!!
This show is my weekly stress buster ❤️. Love from India 🇮🇳 ❤️😌
Indian here❤
Another indian here🙋
Me too 🇮🇳
Another one......
Another Indian here... love this show
I cried my eyes out in the second concern. The father is such a loving father...Too bad he couldnt demonstrate hi slove properly. Th egirl should be more thankful for her father. Yet I understand her. I think a lot of kpop fans will see themselves in her...I wish I could meet my bias too so that I cant stopped being obsessed about them..lol Props to Kangnam he is a great guy!
This husband from first concern is A monster. He is so selfish and annoying. Saying that child's depression is only wife' fault is unbelievable... Poor little girl. I couldnt move, when she had the exams. It's so sad. I hope they will find a way to live a happy life 😢
"Good death teacher " hhhhh😂😂
Coming back to this 1 year later...now that Kangnam is married😂
Doc : what will happen to the tree?
Girl : It will die
Me : Im-
It really stood out to me that in the last words in the first concern, the mother only mentioned to be a good mother and father to her children. She didn't mention anything about having a sweet marriage life with her husband or even get her husband to treat her right only to provide a happy childhood to her children.
i am so lost it used to be posted every Thursday but since the last ep was late now it changed 😂
Gwendo Bocquet same😂
In the second concern, the dad said reason he hates Kangnam ...he is a " foreigner",... but his wife is vietnamese
lol ikr
haha I didn't notice but yeah :'D
ikr
Ikr weird
The woman should've left the man in the first concern a long time ago. He obviously doesn't love her, doesn't care about either his wife or his daughters. I don't get how she exposed herself and her daughter to such a man for all these years. I do get that it isn't easy to get a divorce, but to think if her living with him, making more and more kids with him whose lives are gonna be ruined is so sad.
omfg i don't know kangnam but girllll you would think i'd stanned for 5 years too!! i felt so happy when he came out awww
Omg I started crying when Kangnam came, I don’t really know him but I got soo happy for her lol
i have never seen as much participation as I saw here in the third concern! they started slow but fighting on national tv!
SHIN DONGYEOP IS HILARIOUS
I think the last problem is serious too. I'm in a similar situation. My parents fight all the time. I already take after my father's character. Now both of us became short tempered/stubborn and unfortunately my mother is the unlucky one in the middle. Although those 2 are 14+ they still can be influenced/affected by what parents do, especially if it happens everyday.
Please try to be nice to your mom
I do try, but when I have to explain some edv stuff, i get without reason quickly annoyed. Definitely need a change of enviroment to grow up some more.
Yeah same my parents don't fight usually but on that rare occasion they bring up the past (and its not good for everyone) but I'm usually a mix of stubbornness and can get annoyed although I do love my family I sometimes snap and that causes them to sometimes snap back a me
Wow the second one it so funny and interesting
Geez this girl tho, i was embarrased on her behalf when she started crying about the fact that Kangnam might marry someone else one day😐😂😂😂😂😂but in a way i understand i was also like that at 16 i was rebellious as hell😂😂😂🐈
We all know how we feel about all the concerns, especially the first one, but the last one was pretty nice in a way. I love how they were themselves throughout the whole concern, but I can see that there are much deeper problems that they're going to need to solve at home. They're a great family, so I hope some small changes will be added so everyone becomes happier. :)
this is so frustrating how could he be calm and speak as if it is nothing while his wife is suffering along with her kids.....ahhhhhhhh
Hello Counselor is one of my favorite variety show, I like to see how "normal people" handle their problems btw I'm so proud of Nature's Lu and Gaga they just debuted but they already are in a variety show of KBS!
Where is the other MC when is he coming back 😭😭
I heard he was sick
Hend Ashraf anxiety disorder. He's resting right now
@Sapphire Skye If you have wached old episodes you would have noticed that there were another MC
@Sapphire Skye chanwoo, he is in my opinion the most honest mc as in he could be amazingly sarcastic.
Omg I didn't notice his absence till I saw this comment 😭.
According to a news story, he said he was restrained from broadcasting due to panic disorder, diabetes, tinnitus, and depressed symptoms.
I really like the youngest of the last concern...🤣🤣🤣....true sisters be like them...
I loved it when kangnam talked to her dad supporting her as a friend. I think v.few idols can be this matured. ✌✌✌
I cried at the at Eunbyeols concern 😭❤
It's my 1st time to watch hello counselor in full because of nature members as guests lol
I really love Hello Counselor, i like Kangnam too. ❤
The moment when Kangnam was show up just so hilarious
I usually watch Hello Counselor to get rid of my stress. And then midway I realize it in fact does the complete opposite :)) I could punch that guy in the first concern.
The second concern was the best for me ❤️ how I wish I could meet Apink ❤️😍
I wait the week to watch this show..its my fav.
معليش بس حتى أنا حبيت كانقنام معها 😂 كيوت مره و تصرفاته مهذبة و عايش حياته فعلياً و متفهم 💕😍
I miss the other MC 💔💔💔
What happened to him? Why isn't he here anymore
chan woo are taking a temporary break due his diabetes illness
Guys kbs world is a Channel on tv too I watched this episode before 2 hours I watched on tv
i did too
I've been into kpop for so long I can smell the rookie. Dongyeop is right, that clip will be valuable in the future. I guess this is why I'm rarely into new groups these, that and I have enough already (although the disbanding that's been happening *cries*)
'i'M On a dIEt'
'i dOn'T eAT anYThinG aLL dAy'
... i dont think thats a diet
the last girl and her sister are so pretty
The second concern was satisfying, it got solved *feels good*
I saw the third one as a concern. I mean dang. They do love each other but the way you talk to each other can have a lasting effect. However it is something that can be worked out. At least they see the problem now. Also the second daughter was the best.
Stan nature for clear skin !
The younger sister in the last concern though 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wonder what happened to the girl in the second concern. Kangnam got married to the skater Lee Sang Hwa.
53:31
they look like a real mom and daughter
Watching 3rd concern so Hillarious
The husband from the first concern is frustrating.. I would have left him if I was the wife. Whew! Anyways the guy in the audience at 1:05:08 looks so much like Eunkwang from BTOB.. 😃
lol true true! especially his expression!
whenever i see this episode everyone from kindergarten to will-die-tomorrow gives stress as an excuse. I mean everyone undergoes stress, what is a big deal in that! My major stress reliever is a happy family time. If I am at hostel I just call my family or hang out with my friends and that helps a lot!
Or I watch Btob or pentagon and that helps too!
23:08 finally yes!
15:50 lol I like people like this! she is even holding her head!
1)A deadbeat father who needs a reality check(and to be divorced ASAP) P.S. *His poor daughter has depression for god sakes*
2)A misunderstood teen who is seeking the kindness of an older man to replace what she is lacking in a father figure, but the resolve was so heartwarming
Gaga and Lu💖💖
The third problem, 완전 내 가적 같아
I like always when you play bangtan sonyeondan (bts) songs in the middle of the video.. Bty I laughed alottt!!!!!
I've been watching several episodes of hello counselor and find it very scary how alcohol plays a role in ALL of the concerns on the show.
Havent watched kbs in along time lol
Here's what I truly don't get..with reference to the first concern..why do women time and time again remain with selfish men..sadly their thought that I'm doing it for the children is far more harmful for those children..children thrives in loving surroundings..a child with one parent who showers that child with love, firm consistent boundaries...will often pull through life much better than a child who lives with both parent...who constantly bicker..and are determine to belittle each other...
Byeol family 👌🌚
This program is so good but I end up have temper bcoz of the concerns 😰😰
36:00 lol lu exact thing on my mind!
46:58 lol I was serious till this moment!
47:18 I can see his exhaustion!
48:35 smart!
I agree with the second concern. Being a fan gives you happy moments and sometimes motivation but it takes away lot of time!
1:09:56 the younger sister be like, wait what just happened!
lol these big sisters just cant take cursing! my sister can't even take a 'shut up'! she never curses, yes not even 'shut up' and expects me to be the same saint! i love her but sometimes i can't control my mouth and blurt out things and then starts the war!
新作り予定通り
1:17:57 kangnam is dozing off!
I'd like to ask about at least half of the wifes who come to Hello Consellour why did they marry their husbands. I mean, if he was like this even before you got married to him, HE WON'T CHANGE. At least don't have 4 kids with such a man. I know that divorce is still not taken well with Korean society, but these girls really need to act up or they'll just keep on suffering in their relationships and it's just so sad and irritating to see so many stories like this...
How can she not like BTS!?!?!
Just playing haha I understand everyone has their preference I respect that
Why does it seem they have ac I that building
Parents pls teach your sons to behave like a man and respect women's and give them a good upbringing and women's pls don't tolerate such behavior and fight back never let someone make you down 😡I want this world to be safe for women's to go late at night without fear and feel safe even if a guy standing near her plz make her feel safe don't make her feel that with what pathetic man I am standing please and girls make yourself stronger that you don't need to depend for your life on any man.
Their episodes before this episode you didn't upload plz upload it
Kichan and roy kim are they brothers?
51:05 sounds like normal discipline to me
I wonder who brought Daedoseogwan over.. :D
Por favor Daromas en audios en español gracias
She hasn't even started her story and she's already crying.. How disappointed she must've been in her husband...
second concern- saesang alert
At 1:10:15, is that Ko Wonhee?
why did I read the guest list as lady gaga
...
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊yeah!...
What’s the name of the song at the end 1:21:25
هيا الحارثي All night- Soyou ft. Sik-K
I want BTS on this show again please 😟
Pretty please with fingerhearts🔥😍💘💘💘💘
Omg same suga jungkook and j hope are yet to go on the show
リユさん切りました
seen
top 20?
top 50?
徳永さん渡辺さんについてライハル?徳永さん知らないスンホンさん携帯切る
욕이 나왔다 🫢
Why does the guy at 7:59 look like a chubby Shiwon
Abhi aap tensan nalo chehre per udasi nahi aani chahiye ok
Is she a sasaeng? The girl in the second concern..
Nah. Sasaengs harass the people they are fans of. She's just obsessive over Kangnam because she feels that she's not loved at home.
Okay, what I wrote wasn't a perfect explanation but as long as she's not hurting/harassing Kangnam/his family/friends/other fans etc, then she's not a saseng.
1. Hi guys
I wish BlackPink cones here!!
Same I always wish they come here, hello counselor had been my favourite show since 2013.
BLACKPINK ARE BETTER THAN YOUR FAVES Glad am not alone!😊😊 lets hope they come!
Talking about blackpink, i just realized that no yg artists has ever got on hello counselor show...
Austin Yang So true!! Wonder why??
I think the first got has Asperger's. He has no empathy and is very literal.
Tbh the first concern should just get a divorce
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Kiyo rotii. Ho ab to kuchh nahi bolraha hoo ok
Jada aapsabko chahta hoo esliye lad jata hoo ok
Bas itana bolana chahunga ki apni soch badle sow hit ke liye kala pe jorde jo film banate hai wo mehsnat nshi karna chshte sot me kam karke nilne rshte kala kar ka ksla dikhaw na auor kuchh ok
Hum apne pariyo ko rote nahi dekhana chahte aaphaste huye payari lagti ho hasa karo yah mai hoona sab ka nak me dam kar dunga ok
Abachhi lagti ho as ise rahker pagli abhitensan lene lagi abhi masti kare ok
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