Many men are responsible for breaking their marriages then they start complaining in their old age

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  • Опубликовано: 20 мар 2023
  • From keeping 'mpango wa kando', wasting away the family finances, irresponsible alcohol intake to beating up their wives, most men are breaking their marriages and destroying the lives of their own children. It's in their old age they are realising their mistakes when their wives already left and they have been left with no one to take care of them.

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  • @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022
    @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022 Год назад +52

    Was married for 20 yrs man bought 6 plots with his individual names while hiding the titles in his parents home we later parted ways marriage was bitter and unbearable...almost 5 yrs later he remarried squandered everything with the woman who came with 2 kids and they got 1 together..meanwhile the Lord openned a door for me to go abroad using the same man before we separated... by God's special grace I own 8 plots that are even more valuable than what he had😊 ..glory to God He serves justice to those that patiently wait upon Him...wamama chanukeni mjipange kama mzee niwa raha na vituko most importantly put God at the centre of your life live a holy life that honors Him and surely He will reward you

    • @nancymuriuki5931
      @nancymuriuki5931 Год назад +2

      Hi blessed child would you please advise me on jobs available abroad coz am also going through hell.Kindly

    • @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022
      @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022 Год назад +3

      @@nancymuriuki5931 my dear Nancy pray to the heavenly Father to give you devine connection with destiny helpers and surely He will great is His faithfulness...where I am you only go as a tourist or work permit its visa free...Ngai gùtirì undu umuremaga wahuhoya na umwitikie...wishing you nothing but the very best!

    • @nancymuriuki5931
      @nancymuriuki5931 Год назад +1

      Thank you Nancy our God is truely a miracle working God

    • @mariannanjoki4662
      @mariannanjoki4662 Год назад +1

      Pewa soda kwa bill yangu

    • @soniroberts6865
      @soniroberts6865 9 месяцев назад

      God rewards us

  • @gladwellgathara1632
    @gladwellgathara1632 Год назад +14

    Yes yes
    Been married for 18 yrs. Everything was in man's name. He threw us out. I came out worse than a Church mouse. Was depressed and traumatized.
    Took only the love of God to be alive. Women outside there,let's open our insights.

  • @elizabethbutiko6608
    @elizabethbutiko6608 Год назад +7

    Wow! A wake up call for women. Act according to how your man treats you. If you do not know where his money goes to, be mysterious with your finances as well. Great insights.

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Год назад +3

    Wa Kiama is the best she gives us the best advice

  • @felkadumas9863
    @felkadumas9863 Год назад +5

    Nie ma nyendete mutumia uyu na ngoro yakwa yothe .. your kids are lucky thanks for educating women

  • @babieuniya
    @babieuniya Год назад +4

    Today's show is an eye opener to many women, personally I have learnt something. I have suffered kwa meli ya mapenzi😢😢😢

  • @veronicandirangu3637
    @veronicandirangu3637 Год назад +9

    I think Wakiama should have a seminar with men and talk to them so they can change their behaviors .

  • @realstoriesmedia
    @realstoriesmedia Год назад +3

    I love WaKiama, could listen to her all day

  • @beckyshii4805
    @beckyshii4805 Год назад +6

    Mûthoni u r very beautiful n always looking under 18 muishie huyo Mungu

  • @lizzysnest3913
    @lizzysnest3913 Год назад +4

    Do joint investments if your man is responsible otherwise invest on your own. A lady's wealth belongs to the family but for men the family can starve when he has wealth.

  • @annemuthoni1781
    @annemuthoni1781 Год назад +18

    Was married for 22 yrs lost everything and now in Saudi Arabia starting all over again, never give up or look back, God is indeed faithful 🥰

    • @wanjiruciru6237
      @wanjiruciru6237 Год назад

      He will restore tenfold.

    • @annemuthoni1781
      @annemuthoni1781 Год назад

      @@wanjiruciru6237 Amen 🙏 trusting the process, thanks dear 🥰

    • @soniroberts6865
      @soniroberts6865 9 месяцев назад

      God is not yet done with our marriages, He'll restore it, just wait..Saudi Arabia is a learning institute,it's a class, you'll come back well established and firm... he's also in school...you'll graduate with wisdom and knowledge to the Glory of God my sister...It's not yet over

  • @bettynjoki3115
    @bettynjoki3115 Год назад

    Very well said

  • @puritygichuki353
    @puritygichuki353 Год назад +1

    I love this lady free of charge ,have seminar with men wanatuhangaisha.all the way Mrs Kiama my Kiswahili teacher back at high school .

  • @jemimahjemimah5525
    @jemimahjemimah5525 Год назад +2

    Karibu nchelewe weuh, tuned in team Gulf

  • @florahsoila
    @florahsoila Год назад +2

    why do men feel they are the one who have the last stay? why do they give their mothers a chance to enter into their marriages? they disgust me alot!

  • @patriciajones9747
    @patriciajones9747 Год назад +1

    Support you 100%

  • @bernardkiarie5662
    @bernardkiarie5662 Год назад +4

    looking good everyday.and doing an awsome job.

  • @nancygeorge2110
    @nancygeorge2110 Год назад

    Ukweli wakiama I salute you, you have educated me alot,

  • @zipporahwangechi7031
    @zipporahwangechi7031 Год назад +3

    Wow ❤❤ congrats 👏

  • @eunicemuthua3435
    @eunicemuthua3435 Год назад +1

    Well put....using common sense !

  • @johnrerai6134
    @johnrerai6134 Год назад +2

    A good show. Very helpful. Always inspiring. Be Blessed

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 Год назад +1

    Aki you ladies are blessed ❤n you're both glowing 😊

  • @danmtuli9484
    @danmtuli9484 Год назад +1

    …can listen to you all day long, women are great starting with my mum🇰🇪🇹🇿

  • @nelaswanjiru1209
    @nelaswanjiru1209 Год назад +1

    @ Margaret Mwangi.Kama ako hivyo ni sawa.Ucio nì mùthuri ngatha.👍

  • @rebeccaetter1104
    @rebeccaetter1104 Год назад +1

    Wakiama you're beautiful, Monica too. Lovely show

  • @emilynyambura959
    @emilynyambura959 Год назад +4

    Mum wakiama,u alway looking good, sweet 16

  • @bethmwas5963
    @bethmwas5963 Год назад +8

    I love Wakiama,she was my kiswahili and CRE teacher back then in secondary school Dr. kamundia Gathuthi girls, tulimpenda sana she was our role model.we loved her dressing code.big up.I love your advice

  • @marymugwe7150
    @marymugwe7150 Год назад +3

    This lady is so practical. Your family is lucky to have you as their matriarch. Tunakupenda

  • @estherwanjiku3235
    @estherwanjiku3235 Год назад +2

    Tuned from qatar ❤

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 Год назад

    Love wa kiama n Monica...show Iko moto.

  • @peninahkabugi7173
    @peninahkabugi7173 Год назад

    Thanks kagoni n wakiama for enlightening us.your videos makes me laugh mpaka machozi inatoka.God bless you.

  • @marthamacharia310
    @marthamacharia310 Год назад +5

    At that time (before 1979) women were not issued with National IDS & hence could not buy property in their own names.

    • @elizabethngotho4165
      @elizabethngotho4165 Год назад

      Your work is awesome teacher and wakagoni doing great jobs to enducate our women's to
      Keep the marriage safe.

    • @winniemathu3168
      @winniemathu3168 Год назад

      Yes both women and men had no IDS. Always buy in your name ID or not.

  • @eldoretvictory4595
    @eldoretvictory4595 Год назад +1

    THEY SHOULD STOP COMPLAINING AND HARVEST WHAT THEY PLANTED.

  • @reachelnjeri2390
    @reachelnjeri2390 Год назад

    Mama Sharon doing good job.

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Год назад +1

    True our first plot he wrote himself secretry so no more buying together

  • @elizabethmuringa152
    @elizabethmuringa152 Год назад

    May God help us to overcome this,they are much much painful

  • @lizkiarii9279
    @lizkiarii9279 Год назад +3

    Wakiama you look so beautiful the hairstyle is On point and suits you.

  • @irenewanjugu221
    @irenewanjugu221 Год назад

    Kagoni mko wathaka sana....thankyou for this beautiful advice......may God give us wisdom...

  • @janekamau6681
    @janekamau6681 Год назад +6

    Wakiama I support u 100%, aki some men have made women to go mad 😡 or get sick 🤢, u have a very good counseling. You talk the truth.

    • @eunicemuthua3435
      @eunicemuthua3435 Год назад

      Many women develop mental health issues

    • @bancymunene3436
      @bancymunene3436 Год назад

      Not some, aaaaallllll ....😢. It's the degree of mental issues that are different.

  • @njorogekamau5078
    @njorogekamau5078 Год назад +2

    Hi beautiful kagoni. I love following your interviews. But can you bring interviews on men too. They too go through a lot silently. Thank you and good work. Your future is bright

  • @faithwairimu9428
    @faithwairimu9428 Год назад

    Wakiama is the best

  • @maryakajj4127
    @maryakajj4127 Год назад +2

    Me am still young woman and I take lone for him300k in Kenya women aki what I went through because of that ngaii

  • @hezekiahmaina8711
    @hezekiahmaina8711 Год назад +1

    What if a man doesn't want to work, kazi yake ni kukaa kwa nyumba akingoja, bibi anafanya kazi anajenga, anasomesha watoto, then jamaa anajigamba kila kitu ni chake, huyo mama hata akipeana mwili ni makosa?

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 Год назад +3

    Mutumia kuma tene onangiagire mburi mucii niyo yambaga guthinjwo niguo indo ciake ihuke ndagakiragie muthuri Ati niari indo! Mundu niehithire twake.

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Год назад

    And always looking for way to sell what is under your name

  • @leahwambui8694
    @leahwambui8694 Год назад +1

    Wakiama the you are talking is like you were listening outside my house 😂😂 you and your money are mine.

  • @maggyfire774
    @maggyfire774 Год назад +3

    Qatar in house 😂😂

  • @njorok7368
    @njorok7368 Год назад

    Hahahahaa 😂😂😂 hakuhanda.tuboga.haduthura.mitheko ona video itathirite.😅😅😅

  • @lucywambui7398
    @lucywambui7398 Год назад +1

    My mum was thrown out after 40 yrs.

  • @jamesnganga1418
    @jamesnganga1418 Год назад +4

    Kabisa

  • @felkadumas9863
    @felkadumas9863 Год назад +1

    Someone tag samidoh and jimal roho mbaya 😂😂

    • @njorok7368
      @njorok7368 Год назад +1

      I thought about Him all through

  • @petergitau1632
    @petergitau1632 Год назад +1

    Hi monoca... boy child wa hii show yako huwa ndio mwenye makosa juu ...u only interview mwenye kukusewa.... ebu siku moja jaribu utafte mwanaume mmoja amewai achna na mkewake...akuelezee about his marriage na ikafika wakaachana au ni nini kiichangia ndoa kuvunjika....

  • @margaretmwangi217
    @margaretmwangi217 Год назад +5

    What about a husband who buys everything in the house. Anajua ile kitu iko na ile imeisha

    • @warugurumurimi1259
      @warugurumurimi1259 Год назад +2

      If you have a job please ensure you have some investments by yourself please. That type wants to leave you penniless and make sure you fully depend on him. That is a way to control you

    • @marthawanjiru4911
      @marthawanjiru4911 Год назад

      ​@@warugurumurimi1259 ❤❤😊😊

    • @catherinew3115
      @catherinew3115 Год назад +2

      That’s a control freak. He can simply give the wife the cash to buy what’s needed unless she is extremely wasteful.

    • @annem2980
      @annem2980 Год назад +4

      @Margaret Mwangi, in this case you look for something you can do to make your money. My cousin is like this Ata niyeye anaendanga soko.His wife is a hse wife I told her to be doing some vibarua ,joined kumbato amefanya mambo mengi ya investment na bwana hajui.

    • @sophianjenga8120
      @sophianjenga8120 Год назад

      Huyo anaweza kukupea heart attack