Goat wife vs Sidechick...it's now a competition of who wins.. thanks to some foolish men!

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  • Опубликовано: 2 окт 2023
  • Has marriage become some sort of a match where the goat-wife and the sidechick enter into a competition?
    Why would you make a choice of being a side chick, ruin families, cause pain and divorce. Doesn't your conscience speak to you?
    Goat-wife, why do you stomach a man who has no respect for you and cheats on you?
    Join the discussion on #TheMarriageCoach

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  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 9 месяцев назад +14

    Wakiama looks soo beautiful ❤️ i love how she takes care of herself 🎉...she is even outdoing the young ladies 😂

  • @moh.kieran
    @moh.kieran 9 месяцев назад +12

    I love this🥰 and as much as sidechics are becoming disrespectful,it's the stupid men that give the mandate.

  • @elizabethwaitherawangari5044
    @elizabethwaitherawangari5044 9 месяцев назад +4

    I thank God He gave me wisdom I have never asked sidechick any or prayed bad about them all what i receive is God’s doings they suffer together with the man as I watch,it’s a very educative show women never fight for the relationship physically fight on your knees and pray right God is justice He will answer

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 9 месяцев назад +5

    Ndio sasa nime kula 2 sausages yoghurt na fruits nikateremsha nakachai. No stress. I shall live to tell the doings of the Lord

  • @lilianwanjiru3494
    @lilianwanjiru3494 9 месяцев назад +18

    Am a single lady but I have learnt alot about marriage and alot too about my singlehood.
    1. My body is the temple of the holy spirit, am always seeking consecration.
    2. kuangalia bwana ya wenyewe ni dhabi...
    If only single moms like me can learn to keep off married men because of the consequences awaiting huko mbele.
    Nawapenda sana

    • @irenenjeri1233
      @irenenjeri1233 9 месяцев назад

      Gd girl, may God bless you with your own husband.

    • @cmukami12
      @cmukami12 9 месяцев назад

      God will surely see you .Good girl

  • @tabithajohnson2189
    @tabithajohnson2189 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wa kiama this is very true,Muthuri wakwa araturite aigitwo ni muhiki gwake nyumba miaka 6yrs,Mutumia wina ciana ngima kwa mundu muka ni we urari ngai ya mucii ucio....muhiki ucio aroikaine ni aciari amundurume ,ciana ciakwa gutiri undu citaroi wothe wa ithe,,,,muthuri ni aranyararute biu,,,,muhiki ucio arahuragira thimu na kunuma akinjiraga ndiri hindi agacoka gwake,,,,,Tha ici riu nimatiganite na akoya mwendia wa kirabu,muratawe wa uria maraturite nake ,thaa ici arahamiire kwa uyu meneka ena mieri iri kuma ahamira kwa uyu maroyamire,,,,Muthuri wakwa anyararute nginyagia riu arareheire ciana ciakwa muhiki ucio na kumera uyu ni step mother,mutumia uyu ena mwana mugima rika na second born yakwa na kwira ciana ucio ni step brother yao...ciana ciakwa ni cimakite muno makarigwo kai ithe ewa muhiriga uriku......Angiuka mucii aroka na mwana uyu wa mundu muka uyu engarini.....Ona angiuka mucii ahuraga honi na gwitira ciana barabara.... Responsibility no acukumirwo ndendaga guthomithia ciana ciake....kana gakwa ga 7yrs nikamaku muno niundu wa mitugo ya ithe.... Advice me wa kiama na kagoni

  • @theenjeri
    @theenjeri 9 месяцев назад +8

    Silence is the best weapon...

  • @teresiawairimu4621
    @teresiawairimu4621 9 месяцев назад +5

    Wakiama kuna very God fearing men but very few

  • @janepeter1490
    @janepeter1490 9 месяцев назад +7

    Hallelujah I will live to see the goodness of the lord

  • @josphinenduta2011
    @josphinenduta2011 9 месяцев назад +6

    Wa Kiama i like your hairstyle

  • @Daniel-ru4vm
    @Daniel-ru4vm 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love watching your podcast all the way from Oregon US

  • @maryw.ruhohi1141
    @maryw.ruhohi1141 9 месяцев назад +6

    The problem is, stroke ataletea wife yake. He will not stay with the Side chick.

  • @beltawaithira3352
    @beltawaithira3352 6 месяцев назад

    Have learned alot.. thank you

  • @elizabethkariuki2616
    @elizabethkariuki2616 9 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Monica,
    The next topic I suggest be inlaws and why they possess/priorities their sons property over the wife and the kids to an extend of throwing out the dependant of the same

  • @jonnyaga8904
    @jonnyaga8904 9 месяцев назад +10

    Hello Mrs Kagoni, pass my regards to madam Wanjiru wa Kiama. I love your show very much and I learn so much from Wanjiru. I feel sad that her husband has deliberating mental health. I am just a simple married Catholic man, and I am angered by the behavior of my fellow men who turn on the so-called side chicks at the expense and pain of his goat wife. I am a dad to two lovely adult daughters and a grandfather to a handsome young man. I have plenty of encounters with women who have suffered great shame and frustration in the hands of their husband's or fathers. I am not a this stage a trained chancellor, but I have experience in the practice from my past. When I visit Kenya next time, I shall appreciate meeting both of you, if possible, to learn from you more and chat a little more. Since I am now a retired finance professional, I plan to look into the chancellor and marriage therapy training as my priority next option in life. Congratulations on the good and productive role you play in society.

  • @janemwangi9891
    @janemwangi9891 9 месяцев назад +2

    shida ni akikuja apate hiyo stroke, who will take care of him??

  • @evamwang
    @evamwang 9 месяцев назад +3

    😂😂😂😂Wa kagoni niwangenia aty urerirwo kagoni niekuhitukwo nake 😂😂😂 mwambie ashindwe, lakini kutoka tujue kagoni tunampenda for free (Agape love)

  • @damariswambui9047
    @damariswambui9047 9 месяцев назад +6

    Ati aria ahonoku? Wuuui, Wakiama! Ni kubaya..gutituire athuri ahonoku, just pretenders n hypocrites

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 9 месяцев назад

      Do you live inside of them all kama roo mtakatifu ama

  • @nancywachira6156
    @nancywachira6156 9 месяцев назад +12

    Today's show is very insightful. Monica and Wa Kiama you both look beautiful 😍. May God continue to protect our marriages and may God restore and heal the already broken ones 😢.

  • @marthanjeri9472
    @marthanjeri9472 9 месяцев назад +1

    thanks for this topic, learning alot ♥

  • @elizabethnyaguthii6161
    @elizabethnyaguthii6161 9 месяцев назад +2

    Amazing Monica we need more of this, very educative

  • @victoriagikama2127
    @victoriagikama2127 9 месяцев назад +4

    😂😂😂😂great show thank you Wakiama and Kagoni

  • @wanjiruciru6237
    @wanjiruciru6237 9 месяцев назад +3

    Mwakenya ni Karen na Samido😂😂Kagoni you chose Vayolence😊

  • @priscaht5927
    @priscaht5927 9 месяцев назад +2

    Always waiting for this show very inspiring wa kiama and kagoniw

  • @esthernganga6013
    @esthernganga6013 9 месяцев назад +16

    This is true my husband was taken by a side chick for seven yrs we separated I went to college and had a job, he came back finally let us 😊leave stress and enjoy life

    • @jmtestifies
      @jmtestifies 9 месяцев назад +18

      He was taken by the side chick, really! Why can’t you allow your husband to own responsibility for his actions of walking out on you and being with another woman for all those years??? Number 2. You mention you went back to college and got a job, are you sure he came back for you or because of what you can now offer him? Is he a money lover or true lover !!! Wueh

    • @MaggieNdirangu56
      @MaggieNdirangu56 9 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@jmtestifiesI can't take back leftovers....

    • @lucyboboh3024
      @lucyboboh3024 9 месяцев назад +1

      Taken??ahhh😅,..it right to say he took himself there

    • @irenenjeri1233
      @irenenjeri1233 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@lucyboboh3024Yes some are taken by witchcraft, only to come back when the charms expire through intervention of the Holy Fire.

    • @jacintamugo267
      @jacintamugo267 9 месяцев назад +4

      Did you say he was taken? He's a very cheap man. Real men hunt and relish their catch. So did he marry you ama you also took him like you claim?

  • @user-gj3iy7xg6d
    @user-gj3iy7xg6d 9 месяцев назад +3

    Wow the topic today was on point.kwanza vile men hurudi wakiwa sick

  • @rosegithiri7383
    @rosegithiri7383 9 месяцев назад +3

    Hapo Kwa kuletewa nguo zifuliwe hunishinda. Mbona zisifuliwe huko alikuwa

  • @missparker2645
    @missparker2645 9 месяцев назад +2

    Me too ndigirara Imari toro 😂. Monica we love u. Unakuwanga ROHO JUU.

  • @margaretmungai1924
    @margaretmungai1924 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wow, very educative

  • @user-rc5fx1wt2i
    @user-rc5fx1wt2i 9 месяцев назад

    Waoo nice topic

  • @sharonn9769
    @sharonn9769 9 месяцев назад +3

    Love it!😅

  • @rakivrakiv3023
    @rakivrakiv3023 9 месяцев назад +3

    Silence is the best weapon

  • @WacuMbugua
    @WacuMbugua 9 месяцев назад +2

    Mwenye alikushow anaeza pita na kagoni, mshow kagoni haezi Kula makoro.

  • @user-su9cx8zr8t
    @user-su9cx8zr8t 9 месяцев назад +3

    It's hard to stay like a statute waiting for somebody to change,it really pains

  • @monicahlishiar6631
    @monicahlishiar6631 9 месяцев назад +1

    Since there is no expert in marriage. I chose to listen to this platform to learn
    1,,,I should never stress my self due to side chicks

  • @regiwathuki701
    @regiwathuki701 8 месяцев назад

    Thank u kagoni mwina wa Kiama for the nice topic we have learnt something, very educative

  • @esthernganga6013
    @esthernganga6013 9 месяцев назад +3

    This true this happen to my family when the parents goes a stray the children takes over

  • @misheckkinyua2740
    @misheckkinyua2740 9 месяцев назад

    Good advice 👍

  • @Jacky_ngugi
    @Jacky_ngugi 9 месяцев назад +5

    Na wale side chick waeka hao wanaume yani sio wao wanaekwa

  • @teresiawairimu4621
    @teresiawairimu4621 9 месяцев назад +3

    I know of Goatwife who says psalm35 and 140 daily

  • @reginadavid4454
    @reginadavid4454 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wooiy thina niacio mahuthagira mithaiga 😢

  • @Africanokenia
    @Africanokenia 9 месяцев назад +4

    Wakiama such a vibe

  • @janepeter1490
    @janepeter1490 9 месяцев назад +3

    Kagoni nii njiraga andu mahoe Ngai amahe ngoro nene biu nii ndimakagio niundu thiku ici

  • @marywan9508
    @marywan9508 5 месяцев назад

    20 years married to a beautiful wife and I never cheat

  • @lucymwangi-hv1em
    @lucymwangi-hv1em 9 месяцев назад +1

    I truly love this woman full of wisdom

  • @pauline2604
    @pauline2604 9 месяцев назад +5

    Ihiko cina thithi thikūu turī norīri the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom, this what is lacking in our society

  • @rosemarynjenga6973
    @rosemarynjenga6973 9 месяцев назад +5

    Great topic am single mum I chose to celibate for years now and I tell other single mums that it is possible when you turn faithfully to God he guides you

    • @cpaannwanjau6044
      @cpaannwanjau6044 9 месяцев назад +1

      Waaaoh, glory to God so I am not alone. Nothing is as sweet as living in God's presence. God bless you.

    • @liliank.9764
      @liliank.9764 8 месяцев назад

      Very true

  • @paulinejane3262
    @paulinejane3262 9 месяцев назад +1

    Aki wakiama is making me happy,i always side with her,as a wife never overreact because of side chick.

  • @mercykaranja5925
    @mercykaranja5925 9 месяцев назад +2

    Mundu aiguaga ta nda yagua ihiga...niui ruo rwa betrayal mutarani? Ngaii😢😢

  • @puritydaudi9752
    @puritydaudi9752 9 месяцев назад +2

    Was dudu necessary 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I love Wakiama and Monica ❤

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 9 месяцев назад

    Wa Kiama is the best love her ❤❤ for giving us the best advice

  • @phyllismaina3234
    @phyllismaina3234 9 месяцев назад

    I love this❤❤❤

  • @wambuimuchai4230
    @wambuimuchai4230 9 месяцев назад +6

    Goat wives should love themselves. As Wakiama says, when you die another woman will come in your home and mistreat your children. Kujipenda ni bure.
    Wakiama and Monica look beautiful.

  • @susanmaina95
    @susanmaina95 7 месяцев назад

    Gaii,,nyondo inya 😂😂😂

  • @nelaswanjiru1209
    @nelaswanjiru1209 9 месяцев назад +4

    Wakiama l got to see you face to face at Langata today.
    You are such a beauty.
    Keep the pace.Wì kuo muno.😀

  • @lucywambui7398
    @lucywambui7398 9 месяцев назад +3

    Ndaingirire hau ha kiura ruga and i jumped 9 yrs ago

  • @rozzettee8
    @rozzettee8 9 месяцев назад +7

    You are both so pretty. Your lessons are so informative

  • @shikuhsymoh2859
    @shikuhsymoh2859 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love the show🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥That why l can't date a married men

  • @rosenjue-dx3nb
    @rosenjue-dx3nb 9 месяцев назад +7

    Topic was very impressive,reflection of my mum where she was left and she really struggled with us,right now my dad is back with diabetes.

    • @sophiegathio4566
      @sophiegathio4566 9 месяцев назад +5

      Sorry but he deserves it

    • @agnesnjihia-px2tp
      @agnesnjihia-px2tp 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@sophiegathio4566 Problem is the family he never took care of is the one that will struggle taking care of him.

    • @ForeverblessedMonnie
      @ForeverblessedMonnie 9 месяцев назад +2

      Side chick wake alikuwa ngogoyo sukari ikazidi 😂😂😂😂

    • @rosenjue-dx3nb
      @rosenjue-dx3nb 9 месяцев назад

      @@ForeverblessedMonnie 😂😂

    • @rosenjue-dx3nb
      @rosenjue-dx3nb 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@agnesnjihia-px2tp very true,it's becomes difficult knowing well how he made you suffer and now he want the support

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 9 месяцев назад

    When they reach that stage,he is telling you to go and leave him

  • @geospeenterprises8286
    @geospeenterprises8286 9 месяцев назад +3

    Todays show was a vibe. Kudos Wakiama and Kagoni

  • @alincenjeri1965
    @alincenjeri1965 9 месяцев назад

    I love this

  • @veronicahnyambura1696
    @veronicahnyambura1696 9 месяцев назад +4

    Wa kiama is telling the truth. You Should Love your Yourself

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 9 месяцев назад +1

    Haki nimecheka yangu yote. Vile mnasema ni kweli lakini uchungu ni mingi akirudi baada ya Mwaka kumi akiwa broke.

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 9 месяцев назад

    True give him a blind eye and a deaf ear.

  • @susanwachira3606
    @susanwachira3606 9 месяцев назад

    Mom,I love your hair ni Gani please❤

  • @charitywanjohi884
    @charitywanjohi884 9 месяцев назад +1

    Other Women’s Husbands, To Me; It Is A Phobia. God May You Strengthen Our Marriages. My ROBINSON To The Fullest.

  • @jecintagachanja9322
    @jecintagachanja9322 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wakiama niungenagia muno

  • @janewangu2279
    @janewangu2279 9 месяцев назад

    Very wise words

  • @user-ni6nt3rw1n
    @user-ni6nt3rw1n 9 месяцев назад +2

    @catherine ucio muthuri ndari mutwe mwega Ngai arukuruira ni kuri aya athuri magite mitugo muno

  • @tabithangugi8865
    @tabithangugi8865 9 месяцев назад +3

    Noma monnie...ati ndore ikauma na kanua 😂😂😂

  • @salomenjeri
    @salomenjeri 9 месяцев назад

    Watching you from diaspora pamoja na mzee wa mine

  • @teshwanjugunavlogsuk
    @teshwanjugunavlogsuk 9 месяцев назад +4

    Metha ya kagoni ....I am telling you you can leave him like Edday but you are in the same space...you know everything he is doing but you become the CEO of the shit

  • @serahrandal9881
    @serahrandal9881 9 месяцев назад +1

    The beauty about life…i haven’t seen any mwk-successful story…woote end up the same…

  • @WanjiruShii-jq1vl
    @WanjiruShii-jq1vl 9 месяцев назад +2

    Sometyms depression it helps coz inafunguanga akili ikiisha unakuwa kichwa ngumu sana ata mzee alale na ngombe u don't care unaskianga nguvu ingine imekuingia walai weuh! Ukiskia mzee ako place fulani unacheka peke yako akikunja unampea ile ugali kubwa ukifanya soma kwa nyumba adi anashangaa kwani hushughuliki na tabia zake. I learned a hard way bora tusizeeke pamoja coz nyahunyo itafanya kazi badala ya chai asubuhi ni viboko na maji baridi case ni mbinguni

    • @jessicahmwangi1913
      @jessicahmwangi1913 9 месяцев назад

      Nimekwama.kwa alale na Ngombe 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 9 месяцев назад +4

    some of those 'ahonoki" are the worst.......

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 9 месяцев назад

      So that exenorates you sinners or wat

    • @janenjuguna1661
      @janenjuguna1661 9 месяцев назад

      Everything wakiama is telling us is true, married for the last 38yrs and l seen it.

  • @anncharlesofficial499
    @anncharlesofficial499 9 месяцев назад +1

    Aaaih Wakiama ma niutuhinyagiriria🤔

  • @wanjirungure4364
    @wanjirungure4364 9 месяцев назад +3

    Very educative show 👏 l totally agree 👍 that any sort of disrespectfulness towards the goat wife is the man's opinion. 👌 Women should learn tackle and fight their husbands not the other way round. We are married to our husbands and they choose to go out there and disrespect us so they are our problem not the woman they are cheating with.

    • @muchemikimani5318
      @muchemikimani5318 9 месяцев назад

      Fighting your husband is a fail. And it is not what the panelist is teaching.

    • @irenenjeri1233
      @irenenjeri1233 9 месяцев назад +3

      You can never know the impact of being left until you become a victim.

    • @gicikunyaga3424
      @gicikunyaga3424 9 месяцев назад

      Kangoni tell the wakiama I know women will not accept but us women's we are the one encouraging this, woman stop allowing married In your house

  • @user-ni6nt3rw1n
    @user-ni6nt3rw1n 9 месяцев назад +5

    Muthuri wakwa ndamuhikiire ena miaka 30yrs, ari na miaka iyo niombanaga nginya umuthi nokiumbani ena miaka 50yrs naniguo akoragwo na side chick wengi sana but God is faithful to me

    • @lucynjeri7038
      @lucynjeri7038 9 месяцев назад +2

      Pole mum,Gai so they never change?I think marriage s a scam,I hate the fact that am married by that kiumbani.

    • @rosegithiri7383
      @rosegithiri7383 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@lucynjeri7038sure marriage is a scan ciumbani ni wengi kwanza wenye Huwa na Malaya wengi. But pesa zikiisha wanarudi nyumbani

    • @beatricenjeri8502
      @beatricenjeri8502 9 месяцев назад

      Huogopi asikuletee ugojwa

  • @lucydavidmusic6940
    @lucydavidmusic6940 9 месяцев назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣 lazima ungesema Wangui... watching from Nyeri

    • @susankamau9933
      @susankamau9933 9 месяцев назад +1

      That's what am asking maself😮😮

    • @edithnyachariba9298
      @edithnyachariba9298 9 месяцев назад +1

      She has not mentioned it accidentally it is her name

    • @irenenjeri1233
      @irenenjeri1233 9 месяцев назад +1

      Ukikatwa ondoka mbele ya panga.

  • @marywanjiku839
    @marywanjiku839 9 месяцев назад

    Nawapeda sana mnatusaidi sana

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 9 месяцев назад

    Moni umepeana kagoni 😂😂😂😂

  • @jenniferkamonjo7126
    @jenniferkamonjo7126 9 месяцев назад +1

    What about if he has already been involved bodywise

  • @tinajamesopo1348
    @tinajamesopo1348 9 месяцев назад

    That's was 100% 👌
    God is not a respector of a man ....

  • @lucymuthoni1112
    @lucymuthoni1112 9 месяцев назад

    Kagoni na wakiama riu njurie ati riri tondu athuri aingi matuakite imarararii rii mundu angiuga agie na baby daddy na ndukahike ni uru?wenda mwana ukagagia na muthuri ni umwe ni uru

  • @veronicahmburu7067
    @veronicahmburu7067 9 месяцев назад

    😂 thani za kopo ni gani kagoni?

  • @nancymwaniki4616
    @nancymwaniki4616 9 месяцев назад +1

  • @Sallygytau
    @Sallygytau 9 месяцев назад

    Wakiama na Monica Ngai amurathime ni wira mweaga muraruta tondu kai micii nirituhire mbiu tiga Ngai aigure thaa athare athuri aya kuri muinyuro wa utharia.😢😮

  • @raelvivian2057
    @raelvivian2057 9 месяцев назад

    Leo nime cheka😂😂😂😂

  • @wanjasarova8446
    @wanjasarova8446 9 месяцев назад

    Kiura ruga is the best for me ...

  • @Mnw2024
    @Mnw2024 9 месяцев назад

    Sin is not as common as you put it,there are men who respect themselves and shun adultery.some think outside out of womens fooly.

  • @nancynauru2440
    @nancynauru2440 9 месяцев назад

    Pastor Joyce alienda wapi.....I miss her on ur platform 🥰

  • @peshlucy987
    @peshlucy987 9 месяцев назад +2

    Men men

  • @philisthiongo7527
    @philisthiongo7527 9 месяцев назад +31

    I heard a side chick saying that God answered her prayers.. really??? God is never mocked..very soon utajua kuna Mungu and He's the creator of all marriages

    • @naserian.9789
      @naserian.9789 9 месяцев назад +4

      Huyo hajijui God cannot bless with someone's husband.

    • @user-hv8zy5uo7x
      @user-hv8zy5uo7x 9 месяцев назад +2

      Apo kwa stroke pamenibamba😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @faithwanja1077
      @faithwanja1077 9 месяцев назад +2

      They feel so entitled

    • @marywanjiku5531
      @marywanjiku5531 9 месяцев назад +2

      That's nyamu Wa samidoh

    • @muchemikimani5318
      @muchemikimani5318 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@user-hv8zy5uo7x gukenera uuru ta folithi🤣🤣

  • @ndutakariuki
    @ndutakariuki 9 месяцев назад

    Ndathoma Kiura ruga

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 9 месяцев назад

    I can't compete with side chick,I will be me and be happy.let them continue and don't interfere with my life

  • @janekaruri3350
    @janekaruri3350 9 месяцев назад

    Singleness has addiction

  • @marthanjeri9472
    @marthanjeri9472 9 месяцев назад

    please i would like to go for the karura dance.

  • @marysome2806
    @marysome2806 6 месяцев назад

    Kuna mwingine niliona akisema to the side chick, has he told you we sre sick. Just wanted you to know so you know.

  • @janekogi6442
    @janekogi6442 9 месяцев назад

    Ndungirihilia uri gwake,move out