Please credit the original creators - Cate the Great Beauty and Better off Red. I know you can’t do it in the video but maybe in the pinned comment and description bar would be nice! I really wish you both took an extra step to find the original creators. It wasn’t hard to find.
I absolutely DESPISE when people who do NOT have OCD, say “oh my gosh, my ocd could never” just because things like mismatched hangers are in a closet. When in actuality, OCD is so much more. It hinders lives and is/can be so complex that some people with it cannot live a normal life. I absolutely love the raw and realness of this duo no matter the hate they’d get over it!
Same with people saying "bipolar" to say moody. Considering the number of people who suffer it, and the number who die due to bipolar every year, when people say that they might as well be wearing a dunce cap. It's basically just like someone getting a haircut or losing weight and saying they're so cancer-stricken. They just look like a horrible and very ignorant human.
@@betsybabf748 this! I hate that people throw around bipolar so loosely!! It can be a real horrible metal illness! And people don’t know or understand the severity it has on a person or the people around them
I have become obnoxious in my household because I live with my parents as a single parent and having ocd, add, narcolepsy and bipolar well they can handle all that but it’s the ocd for them it gets a little much🤯😫🫣 because here is a little example so recently I was trying to calm my brain and allow my mom to put dishes away knowing I live with her she has given me the task of keeping the kitchen tidy & in order but sometimes my mental episodes come on and I need to calm down as best as possible.. anyhow I walk into the kitchen see my mom had put dishes away and was now in the middle of washing dishes it drove me nuts I told her to go rest due to her knees being slightly injured and I had to take over because she wasn’t washing the dishes correctly nor were the dishes put away properly and this is the very minimal of what I do because it gets worse from here on out and I tell my mom I wish I could chill out turn my brain off n’ just be normal but I sadly can’t. I still have yet to find a therapist I could truly trust but when I find the right one my ass is going straight back to therapy and if it gets to a ugly point I am going to check myself into a clinic but at the worse I normal take off walking around for a couple hours before showing up back home😖😬🫠
LOL! Completely didn't expect y'all to say my name! Needlessly to say I did a double take LOL But thank you guys!!! I tagged who I saw it from, but I don't know who created it. But AHH! You know I'll be living to hear your answers to these questions! love y'all
Lol! The “baby on board” stickers aren’t so others will be more easy driving around you because you have a baby, it’s for medical/EMS in case you get into an accident so they know to check for a baby first before they tend to anyone else in the accident and/or to check for a baby in piled debris if the accident is bad enough! Just wanted to comment because it seems to be pretty common that people think this and that’s not the case! Those stickers save lives! 💖
“Perfectionism is a form of procrastination” - less than 5 minutes in and I already feel attacked. But you’re right. I’m currently trying to work through my perfectionism in therapy because I use it as a safety net because I’m ultimately afraid of being criticised but because of the perfectionism, I also don’t end up getting things done and I also don’t end up going after the things I want. So yh, it’s a bit of a lose lose situation. A colleague of mine recently told me “ *We* *can’t* *let* *perfect* *become* *the* *enemy* *of* *good* ” and I’m trying to remember that. Thanks for the therapy session Laura. I thoroughly appreciate it
Ugh I’m the same way! I never recognized it until the other day in a Jessica Braun video she said that she realized that her all-or-nothing mentality is perfectionism and it all clicked.
I swear this is one of my fave tags of the year. Love that y’all did this and got JUICCCY! Kudos to Cate the Great Beauty and Better Off Red for creating this tag! 🙌🏻
This was my favorite episode to date- just to touch on the “baby on board” stickers on cars- it’s to let emergency responders know there could potentially be children in the vehicle if involved in an accident so they know to look for them! Just wanted to let you all know!
Cate the Great Beauty and Better Off Red created this tag.... go check theirs out!!! Help out the smaller beauty community channels 👏👏👏 Love Allie, too 🥰💜
I wish we lived in a world where people weren’t so rude and entitled on the internet. If you don’t like something just move on. Why comment and try to tear someone down? Best pod ever!!! 😍
The baby on board stickers are also so first responders are aware of a baby in the car in the event of an accident, and to know there is someone in the car that can’t help themselves, especially if the adults in the car are unresponsive.
Random thought but I feel like social anxiety can be a form of perfectionism I don’t feel like I have perfectionism at all but the one thing that I do judge myself on is speaking to other people! I really resonated with the do-nothing say some thing it will be nothing “because I feel like when I’m in a social setting when an uncomfortable I would rather just be mute then speak my mind and get judged for it I think what I learned from this podcast is not to care so much what people think of what I say and just speak my mind because it’s better than doing nothing and saying nothing in certain situations! Thank you guys loved this episode
I look forward to this every week and this episode is by far my favorite 🤌🏼 I love the realness & how it always feels like “girl time” when I listen to you both 🥰
Manny I literally had a dream that you were on American Idol last night and you were KILLING it. Like I was in awe of your talent.😂 Is this prophetic in any way??🤣💀
Hey y’all! Coming from a place of love - OCD is a significant life altering disorder and is typically not associated with cleanliness but rather intrusive thoughts. Something interesting to learn more about.
Thank you for commenting this! As someone who does struggle with OCD, this comment really helps clear up that misconception about OCD. For me, it has to do with time and numbers in the patterns by 5s which has nothing to do with cleaning or organizing lol! But thanks again for clarifying❤️
THANK YOU. I struggle with a few subtypes of OCD and I can’t stand when I hear people talk about them thinking they have OCD because they like clean… it’s literally debilitating to every day life.
"The Fool Fam brings us joy" Y'all bring me and so many of us joy every Friday! Love this pod sm. It helps me decompress and destress at the end a long week
Laura... You just inspired me to plan a talk about my journey with overcoming my "perfectionism". The thing Manny played from TikTok is TOTALLY 100% Me...I have held off on doing so many things because I was afraid of myself as well. Manny's journey is like my own. My dad was a perfectionist so I was kind of raised that way everything had to be to the highest standard where you could find no mistake in it and it took a long time for me to overcome that. I grew up in a very competitive household: playing sports, I was a straight-A student and on two different honor societies. It all came crashing down one day when I was only 16 and had a total nervous breakdown. I never enjoyed being a child because of perfectionism. So y'all... Don't do what I did! I need to do a grwm and talk about it soon! Thanks for inspiring me to talk about this Laura & Manny!!! 💜💜💜
Yes don't strive to be perfect striveto live authentically you because you get one life your born alone qnd will leave alone so you have to be happy with what you've done and accomplished everyone else's thoughts and opinions do not matter 😉
One thing that's great about being a content creator and a brand owner is that your mind is always busy. Granted it can be VERY overwhelming, BUT, personally for me, I worry about growing old and death (I know that's weird), but I do, and all of that stuff would help me take mind off of that stuff or WHATEVER worries or fears you have.
Thank you!!! This is something I’ve struggled when i was younger too. As the first child of an immigrant I had to the perfect one, not problematic, the role model, my moms emotional support, the problem solver. And now I have this conversation with my husband as well. They way he thinks, is different than the way I think. They way he solves a problem, may be different than how I solve it. It may take me longer but I solve it or get it done. There’s is no one way of accomplishing something - it’s different for everyone. It’s been a learning process for the both of us. We’re a good team together but we’re also so different. I learn from him, he learns from me, we learn together and we’re not perfect. And I’m finally Ok with that!
coming from someone who works in the OBGYN... thank you for saying those things. I don't think people realize how important it is for you to go to OBGYN yearly. When they do the Pap smear think of your cervix as a tiny donut and that's where they scrape from that takes all of ten seconds. I love watching you guys and I look forward to Friday for full coverage! :)
The Breakfast Club of the beauty community..lol that's what I thought of when you were talking about being the outcasts. I have been enjoying your podcasts! Never stop being yourselves!
Laura, when you said “we give it all” THAT’S why I love RUclips. You and Manny have IT! I really don’t listen to pod-casts but I love watching yours. (I love TikTok and I’m a “Boomer”)
Love you Laura organized or messy! I remember back in the day when you started and you and Tyler had an apartment and you did a vlog with you sitting on the floor of your bathroom with the shower clogged and the bathroom was a mess and you saying something to the point that this is you and it is what it is and now that you like things organized it doesn’t bother you that ppl were commenting on different color hangers! Who cares! Keep doing you!
As someone who is CHAINED to perfectionism- and also falls into procrastination- you hit the nail. Perfectionism is protection of self and it’s EXHAUSTING. I do tons of therapy and I’m better, but I resonate with this so much.
haven’t even finished the episode and just had to pause & comment because you both are the HIGHLIGHT of my fridays!!!! i love that you keep it so real & also really drive home how important it is to grow as a person. you both are a fresh of breath air. xo
The vibes on this podcast are perfect! You guys keep the energy positive and uplifting but are still funny. You can get serious about real life shit but make fun of it and laugh at the same time and that’s the exact energy I need. I hope you guys know how much you guys are appreciated. This is coming from a music teacher who listens on her way to work. Love y’all
Hi Manny & Laura! I loved this one. I’m going thru a healing journey and It feels like this was right on time for me. I am learning to tap into my inner child and heal her and coming from an abusive household, I learned to be codependent so I was alwayssss people pleasing and striving for perfection so I wouldn’t get abused physically, verbally, emotionally, financially and spiritually. I’m now 27 and it goes to show that our healing comes when you are ready. The universe knows and it’s just a comforting feeling to know there’s a little reminder for me that I’m going down the right path for ME.
The start of the podcast about being a perfectionist reminded me of a phrase I say all the time which is Progress Over Perfection! It's amazing what gets accomplished when you take steps towards a goal verses focusing solely on reaching it. Small wins really add up!
Laura everything you say about life in general ALWAYS resonates with me. Im a single mom of 4. And you push me to keep going, even if it's you organizing ur fucking food pantry it pushes me to organize my pantry for my kids! Your platform motivates me and pushes me to be the best version of myself. You are a blessing to many 💜
awww hearing how much u guys love the pod listeners makes me so happy bc this is my fav pod!! You guys always make me laugh and i just find the pod so comforting since im in college away from home
I honestly don't listen to podcasts and just sometimes don't feel like I have the patience for them or can't find one to hold my interest HOWEVER I can honestly say that I love Fool Coverage! I have been a fan of you both for a long time now and honestly I truthfully enjoy your podcast! Even when I miss some episodes because I have an almost 4 month old so you know, mom life, I always find myself going back to listen to them when I have down time & spend it catching up on what I missed. So with that being said, love you both, love the podcast!
It’s also worth noting- I’m a perfectionist bc I feel like such a mess in every other way. When I can control SOMETHING and make that perfect, it feels like a success. Again, it’s a coping mechanism. When people are pointing out that it would drive them crazy, they aren’t really commenting on you so much-they are envious that you don’t have to be perfect. They wish they could be like that, too. (And some people just suck, so there’s that…)
Yessss those are the wise words of Breńe Brown!! She’s is amaaaaazing. She has a new series on HBO Max called “Atlas of the Heart” that I 100000% recommend. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker/Therapist. As a therapist myself, she is someone who I have always been inspired by. Her words always stick and hold so much value. Love this podcast! Such a good break from my day-to-day life and tasks!
normalize living with our parents beyond what is deemed shameful by society and support one another as a family. In America, I find alot of the problems and financial problems that exist would be solved if the baseline culture was like that in Mexico or Albania where im from. Kids don't get kicked out at 18 and families live together for life in some cases. We take care of our own until they are truly ready to be on their own, if they choose to. It's just strange here.
Some trivia! Baby on board sign's primary function is incase in the event of an accident, first responders know there is someone who cannot unbuckle unaided x
I’ve watched every single episode of this podcast but this time for some reason y’all have me crying from the perfectionist topic in the beginning like I have real tears rn. I love you both so much and I’ve taken so many things from this podcast and used them in my life so thank y’all so much ❤️
Oh I am the complete opposite of the person who can’t stand mismatched hangers. The last thing I want to do is throw out the hundreds of perfectly good hangers I have collected my whole life and buy new, matching ones. And then what if you can’t find the exact ones anymore? Then you’re going to “ruin” your whole closet! I think it’s a huge waste of time, money, and concern to have all matching hangers and that is the that on that! 💞
Okay so I’m pregnant for the first time, 5 months in, super horrible 0/10 don’t recommend (mentally&physically, obvi can’t wait for my baby to be here) and I SWEAR every Friday I’m SO ready for y’all’s podcast. Only thing that can put a smile on my face!!!! I love y’all
Some of the best advice Ive ever gotten was after I had my first daughter. She was premature and in the nicu. One of my nurses was coming in to check on me and I expressed how it’s kind of hard to hear everyone’s babies in the other rooms because I just wished my baby was there with me, but I know I should be grateful because at least she’s alive and that’s not everyone’s story. She told me that it’s really damaging to invalidate your own personal struggles just because someone has it worse then you. I think about that a lot. We don’t have to live in our pity parties forever, but it’s okay to acknowledge when shit is hard! Just because others would be grateful to be us, doesn’t make our pain magically go away.
Seriously the best duo!! I get so excited whenever a new video comes in! I listen to it on my commute to work. Thank you both for being authentic, genuine and just overall kind people! ❤️❤️🥰
I never comment cause I feel like it’s pointless but if they put you guys in a good mood I’d love to let y’all know that y’alls content has always made me happy and kept me entertained! I’ve been rocking with y’all since manny was telling us how to get hired at Sephora and Laura was giving us hacks to clean our pits with hand sanitizer! 😂 love y’all and y’all’s friendship! I love the evolution of your content and vibe! I’ll always be here watching! :)
I also want to add that there is a difference between being a hard worker and being a perfectionist. I don’t have to be a perfectionist to be a hard worker. I really appreciate it your conversation in the beginning about perfectionism, because it’s not some thing that is talked about a lot
I love love love you guys talking about perfectionism. I was in the same boat as Manny when I was younger and I'm still trying to kick the habits so you talking about the subject so openly is amazing to me
You both are my favourite content creators on RUclips. I found Laura first 5 years ago it was a video on dos and donts of applying false lashes , I was hooked your personality shines. Then seeing u and ty taking in your beautiful niece . You’re beautiful inside and out you’re real , silly , and speak your mind and I just think you’re amazing ! I found Manny seeing him in one of your videos watching his shopping and try on videos I love how crazy and funny he is every time I fill in my brows I think of him 😂 I love u guys !!
As a mother with no damn free time, idgaf if my hangers don't match LMAOOOO! As long as my things are put away & out of sight without looking too messy I'm good. 😂
Right lol social media has pulled the wool over people's eyes that esthetically perfect match matchy shiny perfect shit is normal and I know in my life it is not lol
I grew up with 2 parents who are perfectionists and it triggers so much anxiety! I had to learn to be ok with mess and teaching them how things are never perfect!
Loving the deep topics y'all are opening up with. Laura you are giving Publix speaking vibes and I love that for you. I had my first child in 2020 and I do not believe in tablets small amount of screen time is all I do take your kids outside people take the time to connect with your kids ♥️🌸 love you guys 🌸
People relate to different people in different ways. Just because Laura and Manny are creators doesn't mean EVERYONE HAS TO RELATE TO THEM! I dont always watch relatable people but my faves are the ones I can relate to!
What do I hate about content? People saying “BUYING $500 worth of makeup from FIVE BELOW” and then they only spend $150 lol. Kidding, love you Manny! 😘
omg "get is done to your best of your ability , and dont wait for it to be pertfect and put it out there" .. this is amazinnnng to think about i needed to hear it !! and tottaly agreee with itt
As y'all were talking about never turning it off, I related. I am a preschool teacher, I teach headstart, and I feel like I am constantly "on" I always have emails, parents, kids, contacting me. I have to do assessments, lesson plans, and activities after work hours. We do after school activities, meetings, home visits, and much more. I can't post certain things, I can't go out in the town I teach and drink or party, that would tarnish my teaching. So I feel that, on a much smaller scale, but I still feel that.
Love this episode !! I have watched all the videos on this tag. It was originally created by Cate the Great and Better off Red and I’m happy to see it catching on ❤️.
I can’t get enough of you guys I love this podcast!!! By the way, Manny, I know exactly what you mean when someone is different in person than how they are the minute their cam is recording.
Hi Enjoy so much how much you share and how genuine you both are...what others need to understand you guys are the pioneers and so many have left the platform..also so happy that a youtube channel does not have to be just one thing..the "niche"..and we can share what we enjoy and have a passion for..so much has changed and yet you both are still relatable ..Thanks for Sharing and ALL you do!!!
I just want to say y’all are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I listen to yall all the time every episode!!! SOOOO ENTERTAINING!! Love yall pls keep going tho matter what ❤️
Perfectionists want themselves to be perfect, not others. Those who judge and criticize others are very flawed, so they may claim to be perfectionists, but they are far from perfect acting that way. Most of them know they aren't, but they try to feel better about themselves by criticizing others, which makes just not a good person, which all see, so they should be working towards bettering themselves. Manny, we're proud of who you are and the man you became.
As someone who recently started their RUclips channel, I needed to hear this! I struggle with being a perfectionist & this was really helpful to hear! 🤓💗
Strive to be authentically you if you record something qnd it feels 100 like you and your happy others will too who are meant to connect with you and those who don't like it or criticize it's just not their journey be you and you will attract an audience 😊
Laura, Beautycon Dallas, Texas 2016/7.. I was obsessed with you, obsessed. I saw you there with your husband outside by the food truck and like no one was going up to you wanting a picture or anything and you were just kinda standing there awkwardly.. I promise I’m not saying this to make you feel bad but I remember seeing the look on your face and it made me so sad. You are such an awesome creator and I’ve always loved you so much. I always think of this moment because I so badly wanted to go up to you and give you a big hug but girl, my social anxiety said no. But so badly I wish I would have! It makes me so happy to see where you are now. Much love! 🥰
ITS FOOL FRIDAY BABY!!!!!!!!!!! lets do this!
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I look forward to this hour of content every week. One of my favorite videos yet!! ♥️♥️♥️
Please credit the original creators - Cate the Great Beauty and Better off Red. I know you can’t do it in the video but maybe in the pinned comment and description bar would be nice! I really wish you both took an extra step to find the original creators. It wasn’t hard to find.
I absolutely DESPISE when people who do NOT have OCD, say “oh my gosh, my ocd could never” just because things like mismatched hangers are in a closet. When in actuality, OCD is so much more. It hinders lives and is/can be so complex that some people with it cannot live a normal life. I absolutely love the raw and realness of this duo no matter the hate they’d get over it!
Same with people saying "bipolar" to say moody. Considering the number of people who suffer it, and the number who die due to bipolar every year, when people say that they might as well be wearing a dunce cap. It's basically just like someone getting a haircut or losing weight and saying they're so cancer-stricken. They just look like a horrible and very ignorant human.
it’s such a pet peeve!! ocd completely destroyed me😩 i wish it was understood more
I agree 100%. I feel like people who say things like that don’t have a single clue what OCD truly is.
@@betsybabf748 this! I hate that people throw around bipolar so loosely!! It can be a real horrible metal illness! And people don’t know or understand the severity it has on a person or the people around them
I have become obnoxious in my household because I live with my parents as a single parent and having ocd, add, narcolepsy and bipolar well they can handle all that but it’s the ocd for them it gets a little much🤯😫🫣 because here is a little example so recently I was trying to calm my brain and allow my mom to put dishes away knowing I live with her she has given me the task of keeping the kitchen tidy & in order but sometimes my mental episodes come on and I need to calm down as best as possible.. anyhow I walk into the kitchen see my mom had put dishes away and was now in the middle of washing dishes it drove me nuts I told her to go rest due to her knees being slightly injured and I had to take over because she wasn’t washing the dishes correctly nor were the dishes put away properly and this is the very minimal of what I do because it gets worse from here on out and I tell my mom I wish I could chill out turn my brain off n’ just be normal but I sadly can’t. I still have yet to find a therapist I could truly trust but when I find the right one my ass is going straight back to therapy and if it gets to a ugly point I am going to check myself into a clinic but at the worse I normal take off walking around for a couple hours before showing up back home😖😬🫠
@cate the great beauty and @better off red created this tag - check out their channels!!
LOL! Completely didn't expect y'all to say my name! Needlessly to say I did a double take LOL But thank you guys!!! I tagged who I saw it from, but I don't know who created it. But AHH! You know I'll be living to hear your answers to these questions! love y'all
I got excited for you! 😂
@@amandamartinez6124 awe! Well thank you!!
Holy shit @alliedawson I know her! 🤣😭😭😭
I was so excited to hear your name ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I was so excited for you, I even put it in a comment!! Lol. Love Manny and Laura!!
Lol! The “baby on board” stickers aren’t so others will be more easy driving around you because you have a baby, it’s for medical/EMS in case you get into an accident so they know to check for a baby first before they tend to anyone else in the accident and/or to check for a baby in piled debris if the accident is bad enough! Just wanted to comment because it seems to be pretty common that people think this and that’s not the case! Those stickers save lives! 💖
This!!! I can’t believe how many people don’t know this!!
I didn't know until I was a parent but yesss!
Yes this is true
Mind. Blown. I literally thought i was to caution ppl around u to chill.
Came here to comment this! 👏🏼
things are about to get juicy fool fam
lemme get my snacks ready. 😌🍜
Iced coffee
“Perfectionism is a form of procrastination” - less than 5 minutes in and I already feel attacked.
But you’re right. I’m currently trying to work through my perfectionism in therapy because I use it as a safety net because I’m ultimately afraid of being criticised but because of the perfectionism, I also don’t end up getting things done and I also don’t end up going after the things I want. So yh, it’s a bit of a lose lose situation. A colleague of mine recently told me “ *We* *can’t* *let* *perfect* *become* *the* *enemy* *of* *good* ” and I’m trying to remember that.
Thanks for the therapy session Laura. I thoroughly appreciate it
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Procrastination in adhd too but that’s another story 🥲
Ugh I’m the same way! I never recognized it until the other day in a Jessica Braun video she said that she realized that her all-or-nothing mentality is perfectionism and it all clicked.
Hiiiiii thanks for doing our tag- I’m one of the creators of this tag, as well as Better Off Red!
Super love your channel! Loved this tag, Queen. 👸🏼
@@tonicondra462 thank you!💋🍷
This Tag was created by Cate the Great and Better Off Red. It's great to see it it catch on, and see different creators at different sizes do this.
Credit to Cate the Great Beauty and Better off Red for creating this tag!
I swear this is one of my fave tags of the year. Love that y’all did this and got JUICCCY! Kudos to Cate the Great Beauty and Better Off Red for creating this tag! 🙌🏻
Credit to: Cate the Great Beauty & Better Off Red on the Content Creator Confessions tag
This was my favorite episode to date- just to touch on the “baby on board” stickers on cars- it’s to let emergency responders know there could potentially be children in the vehicle if involved in an accident so they know to look for them! Just wanted to let you all know!
Very true. That is exactly why it was created.
I was gonna comment this! I actually didnt know that for years, then when I heard it, it made so much sense!
Tell me why I saw on tik tok that this isn’t true
Original creators are CATE THE GREAT BEAUTY and BETTER OFF RED. Really great tag created by those two female content creators.
Cate the Great Beauty and Better Off Red created this tag.... go check theirs out!!! Help out the smaller beauty community channels 👏👏👏
Love Allie, too 🥰💜
Love that this tag is catching on - created by the beautiful ladies cate the great and better off red !!
I wish we lived in a world where people weren’t so rude and entitled on the internet. If you don’t like something just move on. Why comment and try to tear someone down?
Best pod ever!!! 😍
The baby on board stickers are also so first responders are aware of a baby in the car in the event of an accident, and to know there is someone in the car that can’t help themselves, especially if the adults in the car are unresponsive.
Random thought but I feel like social anxiety can be a form of perfectionism I don’t feel like I have perfectionism at all but the one thing that I do judge myself on is speaking to other people! I really resonated with the do-nothing say some thing it will be nothing “because I feel like when I’m in a social setting when an uncomfortable I would rather just be mute then speak my mind and get judged for it I think what I learned from this podcast is not to care so much what people think of what I say and just speak my mind because it’s better than doing nothing and saying nothing in certain situations! Thank you guys loved this episode
I look forward to this every week and this episode is by far my favorite 🤌🏼 I love the realness & how it always feels like “girl time” when I listen to you both 🥰
I totally agree🙌🏼
Aaaaaah my RUclips worlds are colliding! Love Juicy Jas! And love Laura and Manny. 💛✨
Only a few minutes in, but miss Laura you always seem to say exactly what I need to hear lol and I'm here for it!!!
Shout out to Cate The Great and Better Off Red for creating this tag. I can't believe you STILL haven't given them credit!!
For what? Everyone’s tagged them in comments and the original themselves have commented. So it’s out there.
What?? They literally said they didn’t create the tag….
Manny I literally had a dream that you were on American Idol last night and you were KILLING it. Like I was in awe of your talent.😂
Is this prophetic in any way??🤣💀
Hey y’all! Coming from a place of love - OCD is a significant life altering disorder and is typically not associated with cleanliness but rather intrusive thoughts. Something interesting to learn more about.
YES!!!! I feel like there is a lot of misunderstanding surrounding OCD
Thank you for commenting this! As someone who does struggle with OCD, this comment really helps clear up that misconception about OCD. For me, it has to do with time and numbers in the patterns by 5s which has nothing to do with cleaning or organizing lol! But thanks again for clarifying❤️
THANK YOU. I struggle with a few subtypes of OCD and I can’t stand when I hear people talk about them thinking they have OCD because they like clean… it’s literally debilitating to every day life.
"The Fool Fam brings us joy" Y'all bring me and so many of us joy every Friday! Love this pod sm. It helps me decompress and destress at the end a long week
Laura... You just inspired me to plan a talk about my journey with overcoming my "perfectionism". The thing Manny played from TikTok is TOTALLY 100% Me...I have held off on doing so many things because I was afraid of myself as well. Manny's journey is like my own. My dad was a perfectionist so I was kind of raised that way everything had to be to the highest standard where you could find no mistake in it and it took a long time for me to overcome that. I grew up in a very competitive household: playing sports, I was a straight-A student and on two different honor societies. It all came crashing down one day when I was only 16 and had a total nervous breakdown. I never enjoyed being a child because of perfectionism. So y'all... Don't do what I did! I need to do a grwm and talk about it soon! Thanks for inspiring me to talk about this Laura & Manny!!! 💜💜💜
Yes don't strive to be perfect striveto live authentically you because you get one life your born alone qnd will leave alone so you have to be happy with what you've done and accomplished everyone else's thoughts and opinions do not matter 😉
@@lg8405 💯!!!
It honestly makes me so happy that our comments make you guys happy. This pod is a circle jerk of happy and it makes me so happy!!!! love you!!!!!
the way I do my makeup every friday to these videos 😩💗 it's the perfect length
One thing that's great about being a content creator and a brand owner is that your mind is always busy. Granted it can be VERY overwhelming, BUT, personally for me, I worry about growing old and death (I know that's weird), but I do, and all of that stuff would help me take mind off of that stuff or WHATEVER worries or fears you have.
Thank you!!! This is something I’ve struggled when i was younger too. As the first child of an immigrant I had to the perfect one, not problematic, the role model, my moms emotional support, the problem solver. And now I have this conversation with my husband as well. They way he thinks, is different than the way I think. They way he solves a problem, may be different than how I solve it. It may take me longer but I solve it or get it done. There’s is no one way of accomplishing something - it’s different for everyone. It’s been a learning process for the both of us. We’re a good team together but we’re also so different. I learn from him, he learns from me, we learn together and we’re not perfect. And I’m finally Ok with that!
coming from someone who works in the OBGYN... thank you for saying those things. I don't think people realize how important it is for you to go to OBGYN yearly. When they do the Pap smear think of your cervix as a tiny donut and that's where they scrape from that takes all of ten seconds. I love watching you guys and I look forward to Friday for full coverage! :)
Im gonna say it this podcast deserves SO many more subscribers
the pod literally always feel like a little spill sesh with your best friends, the only podcast that i listen to!
The Breakfast Club of the beauty community..lol that's what I thought of when you were talking about being the outcasts. I have been enjoying your podcasts! Never stop being yourselves!
✨The podcast that changes LIVES✨ Most definitely, I have been changed in the best way💅🏽
Laura, when you said “we give it all” THAT’S why I love RUclips. You and Manny have IT! I really don’t listen to pod-casts but I love watching yours. (I love TikTok and I’m a “Boomer”)
Laura has always been my favorite because she’s funny af and is down and humble I love her 🥺
Love you Laura organized or messy! I remember back in the day when you started and you and Tyler had an apartment and you did a vlog with you sitting on the floor of your bathroom with the shower clogged and the bathroom was a mess and you saying something to the point that this is you and it is what it is and now that you like things organized it doesn’t bother you that ppl were commenting on different color hangers! Who cares! Keep doing you!
Love that my 2 fav content creators have created a podcast together 🥹 i just love to binge watch all the episodes I’ve missed 😂😂
As someone who is CHAINED to perfectionism- and also falls into procrastination- you hit the nail. Perfectionism is protection of self and it’s EXHAUSTING. I do tons of therapy and I’m better, but I resonate with this so much.
haven’t even finished the episode and just had to pause & comment because you both are the HIGHLIGHT of my fridays!!!! i love that you keep it so real & also really drive home how important it is to grow as a person. you both are a fresh of breath air. xo
The vibes on this podcast are perfect! You guys keep the energy positive and uplifting but are still funny. You can get serious about real life shit but make fun of it and laugh at the same time and that’s the exact energy I need. I hope you guys know how much you guys are appreciated. This is coming from a music teacher who listens on her way to work. Love y’all
Hi Manny & Laura! I loved this one. I’m going thru a healing journey and It feels like this was right on time for me. I am learning to tap into my inner child and heal her and coming from an abusive household, I learned to be codependent so I was alwayssss people pleasing and striving for perfection so I wouldn’t get abused physically, verbally, emotionally, financially and spiritually. I’m now 27 and it goes to show that our healing comes when you are ready. The universe knows and it’s just a comforting feeling to know there’s a little reminder for me that I’m going down the right path for ME.
Oh and I love you guys, okay bye
The start of the podcast about being a perfectionist reminded me of a phrase I say all the time which is Progress Over Perfection! It's amazing what gets accomplished when you take steps towards a goal verses focusing solely on reaching it. Small wins really add up!
coming from someone who is NOT a perfectionist... I really appreciate people who are also not perfect 🥺 love you guys! great episode so far ❤️
1:03:26 when laura starts fully spiraling and manny is zero types of phased by what she just did has me dyiinngggg😂😂😂😂
Here and readdddddy for the tea ☕️
Love you two and this pod
Laura everything you say about life in general ALWAYS resonates with me. Im a single mom of 4. And you push me to keep going, even if it's you organizing ur fucking food pantry it pushes me to organize my pantry for my kids! Your platform motivates me and pushes me to be the best version of myself. You are a blessing to many 💜
Laura I love your content and your “black sheep” personality! So much more relatable💕
"Go TOROS!"
😂😂 Manny!!!! I can't w you!
awww hearing how much u guys love the pod listeners makes me so happy bc this is my fav pod!! You guys always make me laugh and i just find the pod so comforting since im in college away from home
I honestly don't listen to podcasts and just sometimes don't feel like I have the patience for them or can't find one to hold my interest HOWEVER I can honestly say that I love Fool Coverage! I have been a fan of you both for a long time now and honestly I truthfully enjoy your podcast! Even when I miss some episodes because I have an almost 4 month old so you know, mom life, I always find myself going back to listen to them when I have down time & spend it catching up on what I missed. So with that being said, love you both, love the podcast!
Looooove the podcast!!! My 7 year old said it best practice doesn’t make perfect it makes progress!!!! She really opened my eyes ❤️
It’s also worth noting- I’m a perfectionist bc I feel like such a mess in every other way. When I can control SOMETHING and make that perfect, it feels like a success. Again, it’s a coping mechanism. When people are pointing out that it would drive them crazy, they aren’t really commenting on you so much-they are envious that you don’t have to be perfect. They wish they could be like that, too. (And some people just suck, so there’s that…)
Yessss those are the wise words of Breńe Brown!! She’s is amaaaaazing. She has a new series on HBO Max called “Atlas of the Heart” that I 100000% recommend. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker/Therapist. As a therapist myself, she is someone who I have always been inspired by. Her words always stick and hold so much value. Love this podcast! Such a good break from my day-to-day life and tasks!
I love your guys personalities together and I love when Ty is also in the videos.
normalize living with our parents beyond what is deemed shameful by society and support one another as a family. In America, I find alot of the problems and financial problems that exist would be solved if the baseline culture was like that in Mexico or Albania where im from. Kids don't get kicked out at 18 and families live together for life in some cases. We take care of our own until they are truly ready to be on their own, if they choose to. It's just strange here.
I love this idea of family I feel until you get married living at home with your family is a good thing ❤
I listen everytime I have to commute to school!! So you do change lives. You make my drives way less boring ❤️
Some trivia! Baby on board sign's primary function is incase in the event of an accident, first responders know there is someone who cannot unbuckle unaided x
Ok but this truly is my favorite podcast! It’a laidback, has the humor, the honesty, the realness. I love you two so much!!!💘🤍
My hangers don’t match either 😉 I’ve bigger issues to worry about 😆
Love y’all!
Laura Lee! I appreciate you speaking on posting and perfectionism. Spoke to my soul. ❤️
I’ve watched every single episode of this podcast but this time for some reason y’all have me crying from the perfectionist topic in the beginning like I have real tears rn. I love you both so much and I’ve taken so many things from this podcast and used them in my life so thank y’all so much ❤️
Oh I am the complete opposite of the person who can’t stand mismatched hangers. The last thing I want to do is throw out the hundreds of perfectly good hangers I have collected my whole life and buy new, matching ones. And then what if you can’t find the exact ones anymore? Then you’re going to “ruin” your whole closet! I think it’s a huge waste of time, money, and concern to have all matching hangers and that is the that on that! 💞
Okay so I’m pregnant for the first time, 5 months in, super horrible 0/10 don’t recommend (mentally&physically, obvi can’t wait for my baby to be here) and I SWEAR every Friday I’m SO ready for y’all’s podcast. Only thing that can put a smile on my face!!!! I love y’all
Might be my new fav episode!! Keep the tea hot and ready y’all!!!!
Some of the best advice Ive ever gotten was after I had my first daughter. She was premature and in the nicu. One of my nurses was coming in to check on me and I expressed how it’s kind of hard to hear everyone’s babies in the other rooms because I just wished my baby was there with me, but I know I should be grateful because at least she’s alive and that’s not everyone’s story. She told me that it’s really damaging to invalidate your own personal struggles just because someone has it worse then you. I think about that a lot. We don’t have to live in our pity parties forever, but it’s okay to acknowledge when shit is hard! Just because others would be grateful to be us, doesn’t make our pain magically go away.
Seriously the best duo!! I get so excited whenever a new video comes in! I listen to it on my commute to work. Thank you both for being authentic, genuine and just overall kind people! ❤️❤️🥰
I never comment cause I feel like it’s pointless but if they put you guys in a good mood I’d love to let y’all know that y’alls content has always made me happy and kept me entertained! I’ve been rocking with y’all since manny was telling us how to get hired at Sephora and Laura was giving us hacks to clean our pits with hand sanitizer! 😂 love y’all and y’all’s friendship! I love the evolution of your content and vibe! I’ll always be here watching! :)
I also want to add that there is a difference between being a hard worker and being a perfectionist. I don’t have to be a perfectionist to be a hard worker. I really appreciate it your conversation in the beginning about perfectionism, because it’s not some thing that is talked about a lot
I love love love you guys talking about perfectionism. I was in the same boat as Manny when I was younger and I'm still trying to kick the habits so you talking about the subject so openly is amazing to me
You both are my favourite content creators on RUclips. I found Laura first 5 years ago it was a video on dos and donts of applying false lashes , I was hooked your personality shines. Then seeing u and ty taking in your beautiful niece . You’re beautiful inside and out you’re real , silly , and speak your mind and I just think you’re amazing ! I found Manny seeing him in one of your videos watching his shopping and try on videos I love how crazy and funny he is every time I fill in my brows I think of him 😂 I love u guys !!
As a mother with no damn free time, idgaf if my hangers don't match LMAOOOO! As long as my things are put away & out of sight without looking too messy I'm good. 😂
Right lol social media has pulled the wool over people's eyes that esthetically perfect match matchy shiny perfect shit is normal and I know in my life it is not lol
@@lg8405 I swear! 😭
I grew up with 2 parents who are perfectionists and it triggers so much anxiety! I had to learn to be ok with mess and teaching them how things are never perfect!
I love Friday's cause I get to watch Laura and Manny's Podcast every Friday since day one
FAVORITE PODCAST EVER !!!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
You guys are so amazing and i love how you guys say it how it is. No filters
Loving the deep topics y'all are opening up with. Laura you are giving Publix speaking vibes and I love that for you. I had my first child in 2020 and I do not believe in tablets small amount of screen time is all I do take your kids outside people take the time to connect with your kids ♥️🌸 love you guys 🌸
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Yayyyyyyy!! Also HAPPY 100k👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💜💜💜💜💜 ALSO LAURA AGAIN WITH THE BLAZER!!!!!!!! Hunty is SLAYING🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
People relate to different people in different ways. Just because Laura and Manny are creators doesn't mean EVERYONE HAS TO RELATE TO THEM! I dont always watch relatable people but my faves are the ones I can relate to!
What do I hate about content? People saying “BUYING $500 worth of makeup from FIVE BELOW” and then they only spend $150 lol. Kidding, love you Manny! 😘
This is my fav podcast. You have amazing energy and the fact y’all bounce so well off each other. 💕💕
Do not ever stop making this cute little pod you sweet angel babies!
omg "get is done to your best of your ability , and dont wait for it to be pertfect and put it out there" .. this is amazinnnng to think about
i needed to hear it !!
and tottaly agreee with itt
Oh I am READY, this will be juicy haha :P
As y'all were talking about never turning it off, I related. I am a preschool teacher, I teach headstart, and I feel like I am constantly "on" I always have emails, parents, kids, contacting me. I have to do assessments, lesson plans, and activities after work hours. We do after school activities, meetings, home visits, and much more. I can't post certain things, I can't go out in the town I teach and drink or party, that would tarnish my teaching. So I feel that, on a much smaller scale, but I still feel that.
Love this episode !! I have watched all the videos on this tag. It was originally created by Cate the Great and Better off Red and I’m happy to see it catching on ❤️.
this is the reason friday’s are the best part of my week:) love y’all!!
idk how we are at 33 already !?!?! time flies when you're having fun
You guys make my week so much better every week 🥺💜
I can’t get enough of you guys I love this podcast!!! By the way, Manny, I know exactly what you mean when someone is different in person than how they are the minute their cam is recording.
Yes! I’ve been waiting all week for this💗💗
It’s true this is my favorite podcast💕 and I appreciate y’all doing it every week!
Hi Enjoy so much how much you share and how genuine you both are...what others need to understand you guys are the pioneers and so many have left the platform..also so happy that a youtube channel does not have to be just one thing..the "niche"..and we can share what we enjoy and have a passion for..so much has changed and yet you both are still relatable ..Thanks for Sharing and ALL you do!!!
I just want to say y’all are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I listen to yall all the time every episode!!! SOOOO ENTERTAINING!! Love yall pls keep going tho matter what ❤️
Perfectionists want themselves to be perfect, not others. Those who judge and criticize others are very flawed, so they may claim to be perfectionists, but they are far from perfect acting that way. Most of them know they aren't, but they try to feel better about themselves by criticizing others, which makes just not a good person, which all see, so they should be working towards bettering themselves. Manny, we're proud of who you are and the man you became.
I love to come home from work & catch up on my favorite fools podcast 🤍 we need merch ASAP! Ilysm & tysm 😘
I have followed you guys for yeeeeears and I just LOOOOVE the life advice I get out of these episodes. Keeps me coming back. ❤️
Legit have followed you both for soooooo long! But only started watching this podcast lately and let me tell you. I AM HERE FOR IT 👏👏👏👏👏👏
As someone who recently started their RUclips channel, I needed to hear this! I struggle with being a perfectionist & this was really helpful to hear! 🤓💗
Strive to be authentically you if you record something qnd it feels 100 like you and your happy others will too who are meant to connect with you and those who don't like it or criticize it's just not their journey be you and you will attract an audience 😊
Laura, Beautycon Dallas, Texas 2016/7.. I was obsessed with you, obsessed. I saw you there with your husband outside by the food truck and like no one was going up to you wanting a picture or anything and you were just kinda standing there awkwardly.. I promise I’m not saying this to make you feel bad but I remember seeing the look on your face and it made me so sad. You are such an awesome creator and I’ve always loved you so much. I always think of this moment because I so badly wanted to go up to you and give you a big hug but girl, my social anxiety said no. But so badly I wish I would have! It makes me so happy to see where you are now. Much love! 🥰