This I have my old Lululemon and designer items I will be giving them to my daugther ., I am over that at my big age of 38 I am thinking about retirement in the next few years I will not be working till 65 55 is my goal .. all these brands are overpriced-glad I got them way before the scrapyard price increases I have not brought any luxury since 2019.. my money is for retirement,daughters private school and eating a balanced diet ,personal trainer, and peace of mind … I am not hunting down companies to spend money I am good on all these companies .. my daughter will have a treasure trove of bags so she will not need to buy any and by then it will be vintage .. love this content
My no-buy for this year is pretty simple. No luxury. No fast fashion. I'm not paying for a logo and I'm not paying for poor quality. Awesome video as usual. I can totally relate to everything you said.
My no buy list: 1. Any item that I can’t fit at time of purchase. At this point I have more of a wardrobe of what I can’t wear that I can. 2. Any item that I don’t have space for in my closet. 3. Any item that doesn’t match my net worth. I ain’t even on the gram so who am I stuntin’ for? 4. Something that I thought was cute on Tashira. Truth of the matter, I just ain’t built like that. Check on your girl next week to make sure I’m still on the straight and narrow… by then I would’ve more than likely done 67.23% of them…😂
The only bag I ever liked was the Constance by Hermes .. all these companies are racist from basic brands to high end…my goals is now investing for retirement 55 is the goal
When it comes to spending my hard earned money, I’m right with you. I’m not playing games to prove I or my money is worthy of attention, nor will spend I it on overpriced leggings from a brand that does a poor job of be covertly racist. Love you Sis!❤
The whole set up around luxury and luxury brand houses I find to be morally and ethically repugnant that could not be any more disamibiguous, if they tried. The gatekeeping, the extortion, the degradation, the fallacy that your value as a human is decided on, imposed by a brand is ludicrous...but you need to be clothed and if you cannot sew and stitch your outerwear then it is a case of choosing the least offensive as it aligns with your social and cultural consciousness and identity.
I am not buying books either. I got a library card and have read six books so far in 2024. It's life-giving. The best books were: Recitatif by Toni Morrison, Red at the Bone by Jacqueline Woodson, The Four Winds by Kristin Hannah, and We are Not Like Them by Christine Pride and Jo Piazza. Happy Reading!
I keep telling folks library cards are the best kept non secret. I've read 4 so far on audio and actual books. Audiobooks, Movies, comics for the kids etc.
We are not the desired demographic for any brand let’s be for real.. unless the black collective works together to create our own stuff even though we don’t have the financing because of pervasive racism and generational wealth so that’s why reparations is important for ADOS .. the field will never be even … my old Lulu I will wear and I won’t buy anymore … I am doing no spend anyway and focusing on retirement.. so I just donate what I don’t use I am over my consumer phase and looking to get out the rat race
This is so good to hear. I hope other Black influencers do the same. I remember back in the day brands like LV, Chanel, Hermes etc were vocal and blatant about their target audience and “urban” folks were not included. It’s crazy that you have to literally harass these brands to spend your money on their products. Let’s buy black outside of Black history month❤️
We really have to consider why we support any of these brands. It’s not the quality or craftsmanship because a lot of these brands have cut corners on that. It’s sometimes the desire to be seen or to feel important. I’ve had to have a few come to Jesus talks with myself. I only buy quality items now if anything. My no-buy list contains EVERYTHING. I have consumed too damn much lol. 😂
Whew girl, you are spitting truth bars on this video!! I’m so glad to see some women of color in the influencer space dropping some of the shackles to the luxury brands that clearly cater to a specific demographic that is not us. Even if I could afford the luxury RTW that so many of the ladies proudly share, as a solid US sz 12 who sometimes trends toward a 10 and sometimes a 14 I wouldn’t be able to fit most of it. 🥴 I look forward to seeing what you will be sharing this year which hopefully may include even more black owned brands. Happy 2024!!
For fitness apparel : fbf fitness, melt fit and j sculpt are my go to fitness apparel brands (black owned). No buy list : perfumes (I have tooo many) , costume jewelry (I would like to decrease that and get more fine jewelry ), sunglasses (I have tooo many) and lastly but most difficult: NO MORE black clothing (my closet looks like Janet’s closet in poetic justice 😂😂😂).
I don’t comment often but I must say, you’re content is refreshing. You are someone I feel would have fit perfectly in my sister circle. Your authenticity shines through the camera. Happy New Year lovely!
“It don’t matter if you’re black or white” (MJ 4 ever) just stay out of Lululemon! If we spread the word, if we don’t buy their product and discourage our friends/family from doing so, guess what?.. they will be out of business in no time. Btw I am a healthy white woman and my thighs DO rub together by the sheer fact that I Walk Upright mr. ceo of Lulu🍋! 😊Sorry for the rant but this really upset me. Thank you darling, your mind is as beautiful as you are ❤
Cousin...why I was watching this and when the sunglass segment came on I felt HEAT on the back of my neck. I turned around and my husband was staring me dead in the face. Aint crack nan smile. The shame I felt. LOL Therefore "Know Thyself" is going to be my 2024 mantra when it comes to luxury this year.
2024 I am not purchasing any new clothes or shoes this year or handbags. I going to start poring into my space of living and enjoying life with family. It’s getting scary out here if the time comes I can’t take anything with me🤷🏾♀️ Good luck 🍀 ladies
When I saw that Lulu lemon article a couple weeks ago! I was like “you don’t have to tell me twice” 😏not that I have a lot of their items but the ones I do have I will continue to use but never giving them my coins ever again!
True confessions - full time grad student who keeps bringing books home. I have NO Time to read more than is assigned but still keep bringing books home and stacking them on top of everything else I haven’t read 😂
Collecting books is its own hobby. Enjoy it. And there will come a day when you are done with school and you will be able to read a book that's been waiting patiently for you.
“Players mess up too” 😂!!! This spoke to me and I have come to understand that I will do better in 2024! Luxury sunglasses 🕶️ have been my downfall too and I’m NOT going to purchase any this year…until you showed those tortoiseshell sunglasses 😂!!!
I walked into Lululemon store in a white rich neighborhood in Grosse Pointe MI and I saw 2 Latinas, a black woman, and a white woman working and the customer service was very good. I bought 3 t-shirts. I'll shop there again.
First time watching any of your videos-loved your truthfulness! I’m a 65+ yr old GA white woman-retired from 37 years as a RN. None of these people would want me in their stores! They’re prejudice against anyone who doesn’t fit their ‘ideal’ of who should be wearing their brand. Thank you for sharing your lifestyle, thoughts, & beliefs!
I do respect your honesty with buying luxury items and I have been expressing this to my friends for years. Most of these luxury brands do not even appreciate black people wearing their brands. Luxury items are not even as special as before because everyone wears them; sometimes you can’t even differentiate the fake from real at a glance. Stop making luxury brand owners increase their wealth; invest your money. Not saying not to buy if you can afford but do conscious and intentional purchases. Stay Fierce!
I completely sure at this point that I may never own an HERMÈS item in my wardrobe! From reports of customer service to the ridiculous prices, and fastidious hurdles to PURCHASE their items, I give up. That's why I'm so thankful for dupes,or imitation. Like something, get an affordable one until I can get an original(if it's worth it). I won't be buying clothes AGAIN this year,as I'm still trying to use up the fabrics that I bought to reproduce some of my favorite styles from designers or Pinterest 😊
I come back to your content over & over because you have a skilled way of weaving in humor, wit, anti-racism principles and a love for the finer things - like how sway?!! Love your content and I will also be divesting from Lululemon and I live in Canada. On my no-buy list is also books. I have an incredible library and I want to show the books I own love and respect. Also, because of you, I bought this stunning black sweater from Urban Revivo and I CANNOT wait to wear it ❤️
Thanks for keeping a sister up to date with the fashion trend. My mantra is…I do not fight with anyone to spend my hard earned money with them. No ma’am sir!
"Thank you" cards are on my no buy list as well as one of the items you mentioned (books) I was rearranging my secretary desk and realized I have more thank you cards than I'll ever use. Either I'm a very thankful person or I have a thing for thank you cards. 😊😂😂😅
I just purchased”Get the F*** out your own way” by MJ Harris. I’ll be giving that my attention. I have many books and best sellers, however I have not completed any of them. So this is my first book purchase of 2024 and I plan to read the entire thing and journal great self serving and edifying notes from that book for my growth and development before moving forward…fantastic video Queen! love your persona…keep being so so dynamically beautiful … 🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾
I'm a cap fiend. I have so many "luxury/designer" caps. However, the denim Celine Triomphe cap is a no can do. I saw someone at a museum with it on and I've thought about it DAILY lol but $690 that thang will never touch my head.
Yes I too must place these parameters on myself because I deserve to live this lifestyle I cannot afford just yet (heavy on the yet….it’s coming). I’ll make a no-buy list for this year. I’ve been keeping a list of gaps in my wardrobe that I’m finding but I need to put down “do not buy another pair of ripped jeans” because I have enough!! Whew this video has me rethinking future purchase. Thank you ❤
Thanks for sharing! Yes, I too will be more intentional of which firms will get my money. Poor customer service = no buying. Respect my money! Books: I have been a voracious reader since childhood, ranging from fiction (not romance or comedy) to historical, scientific and technical. However, it dawned on me about three years ago that many of the authors are promoting their version of supremacy. I’ve gone from reading a book a day to zero. Shifting a lot. Not promoting a family business dynasty that doesn’t respect my culture as they get richer from our money. Enjoy your 2024 journey!😃
This is why for the last 3 years I have clicked the like and share button. Always a lesson learned while viewing amazing content regarding fashion which I love. T going to always put that razzle dazzle on the video just to keep us woke and always serve a look while teaching and preaching. Transparency, the Real Real , Talk your shit, sprinkled with we voting for all the Blacks is why I support this channel. Excited to learn all 2024 as well as laugh and watch you Spark with the looks all year. 🤣❤️💪🏾🙌🏾💰😘🙏🏾🔥💅🏾👍🏾✅
Lulumon is now on my no buy list forever as well! Thank you for sharing this information. I actually never got around to buying anything but their belt bag😂😂😂 If you have time a video about athletic brands that are inclusive would be appreciated. My thighs have rubbed together for as long as I can remember and I’m 5’0 size medium.
I feel seen! I sat on my Fendi sunnies, lost Tom Ford & YSL… and the kicker is I get the most compliments wearing a $5 pair from SheIn. No more designer sunglasses for me & I’m finally ok with that.
This is why I love you and your page! As a Baltimore native, I see you as a near by cousin lol. I love that you keep it real alllll the time! ❤ I’ve learned so much!
The reason I adore you? I never leave your channel without learning something in the most thought-provoking yet humorous way! And those sunglasses in the gloss black are on my wish list this year.
I’m with you on the sunglasses. I haven’t trusted myself since I lost a pair of new very expensive Dior sunglasses on a cruise like 15 years ago. I never spend more than $100 (try to stay around $25-$50). Oh, and Lululemon is dead to me.
The way I cackled all throughout this video lol!! Several gems dropped, as the girls have noted in the comments. But, your videos just feel like a good kikiiii (sp) and I definitely needed one today. So, thanks Tashira!! ALSO, Target's Ultra High Rise leggings (w/pockets) by All in Motion are a good dupe for the Lululemon leggings and for a fraction of the price and the bigotry. Take care!!
You hit me where I live with the YSL shoes. Have not bought them in years for medical reasons, but the pieces of my feet that fell off every time I tried to fit myself into Louboutins....never again. And I'm adding Emperor of Rome by Mary Beard to the bookshelf.
Great video Tashira! I had to force myself the other day not to buy another black turtleneck. I already have half a dozen. But overall it’s not a category as much as pumping the brakes on all clothing shopping unless I can truly justify the purchase. Shopping with intention as you would say. Love you Sis!💕
As a woman who also wears a 10 1/2 shoe, the way they try to oki-doke us saying those little shoe are going to fit...🙄 They want us to have all the onions and bunions and corns.. No thanks. Spend your coins where you are wanted ✌🏾
I also was born to live the lifestyle I can yet to afford lol. I enjoyed this video so much and I just love spending time with you! I will say I should stop buying shoes but that is not going to happen. But, overall trying to be extremely picky and shop with major intention. Great video!!
My no buy list only contains sneakers for now. In 2023 I went a little crazy and contributed to Nike, Adidas, NB, and Gucci just to name a few! I’m definitely on a time out! 😂 I’ll continue to add to my list starting in Feb since January is my birthday month. 😊❤
I’m glad I’m not the only one who hoards books, of course with good intentions. The last book (Black cake:a novel) I purchased was in late December & I promised myself not to buy another until I read the books I purchased last year. I got rid of my magazines and now if I must have one I order a digital (Libby) copy through my local library. Happy New Year😘
Not the books 😩😩😩 🤣😂🤣🤣 totally feeling that ... books will be my demise 😅🤣🤣 "Just finished the art of letting go" by Nick Trenton Definitely in for the book club .... eternally looking for my tribe😩
I'm down for a book club. I received a Kindle Paperwhite for Xmas and am excited to make leisure reading more of a priority this year. Great video, as always.
"I just finished watching an amazing vlog and I feel super confident about my fashion choices. beautiful pair of Hermes sandals that I've been eyeing for a while, but I realized that I can still achieve the same look without breaking the bank by opting for a similar design from Steve Madden. I completely agree with your observation about how luxury customer service models are changing across all brands, but I'm confident that I can navigate these changes and still get the exclusive experience I'm looking for. Ultimately, I believe that fashion is about expressing oneself and feeling confident in one's choices, and I'm excited to explore more options that align with my values and style."
I’m not buying any clothes this year. Only buying one luxury bag if I can’t live without it and that’s about it. I have clothes in every closet it’s actually bugging me. So I will also cull the clothing I have. Honestly I love adidas and Nike and their price points aren’t crazy for active wear and they last.
This is the first video I'm seeing from you, and while I'm not a big brand person, I just loved your refreshing approach and vibe so much that I subscribed.
Great video. Hermès recently had a price increase in the last few days. I think they are $760. These same sandals use to be in the low $400s. The Hermès customer service is questionable.
This is my first time at your channel, hello. I don't have any luxury brands but I enjoy learning what's out there and can appreciate them. What I can identify with is Books. I love a book niche (used )book store but I have plenty and need to finish several before I purchase more. My last book I read was in December , a collection of stories by Charles Dickens. Holy moly why hadn't I read this before. I too have a magazine subscriptions , National Geographic and Smithsonian. They are perfect for the ladies room. I did receive Vogue in the pass. No more. Thank you for sharing with me. Your are a beautiful women.
😄The opening lines of the video had me cracking up. I feel the same way. I like the buy things I do not need too. I’m glad somebody else openly said it so I don’t have to feel alone anymore in this.🤑
Girl I bought a book because my friend recommended it on audible was enjoying the book and thought this is a good reference book, I should get a physical copy. Why was the book ALREADY on my bookshelf. This needs to be on my no buy. Lulu is also on my no buy as well, because I’m tired…..
I watched this TWICE! I be so tickled when you say…AT A BIG AGE😂😂! But we are the same! I love my reversible Valentino belt! When I tell you I wear it to the ground!! The way I flip flop that thang😂! I buy most of my luxury items online because I don’t want to have to deal with despicable customer service! Speaking of Mango…they are having a good sale right now!!! The first time I went in a lululemon store was my last! I read the room quickly! I said, awww this ain’t for my body or my pockets! To tha left to tha left!
I started following Actively Black and plan to purchase active wear from them soon. Lululemon can kick rocks with Orans on 😂 I need to refrain from buying lipsticks/lipglosses (have way too many)!
Love your transparency. Fabletics, very size inclusive and quality garments. In fact the last time I was in Lulu, I was on line ordering from Fabletics, cause I had garments that were in my account.😅
I feel ya about the sunglasses. Every time I go to Chicago, I lose a pair!!!!! Also, Paris Hilton wears a size 11 shoe and she decided to only wear from brands that offer her size to all customers after realizing pictures of her in custom shoes gave the impression they were widely available.
For me, the best read book in 2023 was The House of Eve by Sadeqa Johnson and Before I Let Go by Kennedy Ryan. Current read, Black Girls Must Die Exhausted by Jayne Allen
Enjoyed (and was enlightened by) many of your comments. I am not a "luxury brander", and just clicked on your video from its title. I especially enjoyed your commentary on yourself--that is, how you know yourself (always losing sunglasses), and your personal perspective and opinion. I look forward to following you.
Sis, I wish I had known about Lululemon before placing an order yesterday.😩 This makes me sad because I love their athletic wear and have items from them that are almost a decade old. Regarding books. I started reading consistently last year, but I prefer reading on the Kindle app. I hate clutter, so I don't buy physical copies of books. If I ever get the urge to read physical books, I'll get it from the library. Lastly, when it comes to sunglasses, I'm the opposite. When I buy luxury sunglasses, I tend to not lose them because I paid way too much money for them. I'm always aware of where they are at all times.
"Were not doing it. I'm not going to be able to do it. I don't have to take it! I do NOT work to earn a wage to fight someone to purchase something." THAT PART. PLEASE say that again cause they cant hear us. Toodles is the theme of 2024 😂 💅🏿
I LOVEDDDDD listening to you.. your articulation, structured sentences, detail.. thoroghly refreshing.. i am a captivated new follower. Nice to meet you by tye way... lol.
Hi, I'm a new subscriber and I discovered you through Jenee Naylor's Style Unlocked. I'm a DEI Practitioner who loves fashion and so much of this video resonated with me. I've been doing no buys for a few years now but not a no buy list for the year. I'm definitely going to give the no buy list a try. Thank you so much for your content 🤎🤎
Loved this! Those Elisa Johnson sunnies are on my list! I lose my glasses all the time too so I don’t really want to spend my mortgage on sunglasses. Lol But less than $150, we can do that!
You are absolutely beautiful. Lip gloss poppin, hairstyle flattering🥰 my hair is short like yours too but I don’t see my barber nearly as enough as I should and after looking at how beautifully cut your hair is,as soon as my barbershop opens I’m calling and getting me an appointment.🤭
Ha! I have the same problem with sunglasses. Every now and then I catch myself wanting to splurge then remind myself that I still have no idea where the others are.
Oh how I feel you on the book tip. I too could read a book a month and still have several untouched. Every year I vow to read at least 10 minutes a day, but….😢 I also agree on not hunting for salespeople to give my money to. If I’m parting ways with my hard earned coins, please make my shopping experience pleasurable.
“I do not work to earn a wage to fight someone to purchase something.” I felt that in my soul!😩
Me too!
Me three 🙌🏾
This I have my old Lululemon and designer items I will be giving them to my daugther ., I am over that at my big age of 38 I am thinking about retirement in the next few years I will not be working till 65 55 is my goal .. all these brands are overpriced-glad I got them way before the scrapyard price increases I have not brought any luxury since 2019.. my money is for retirement,daughters private school and eating a balanced diet ,personal trainer, and peace of mind … I am not hunting down companies to spend money I am good on all these companies .. my daughter will have a treasure trove of bags so she will not need to buy any and by then it will be vintage .. love this content
AMEN!
“I was born to live the lifestyle I can yet to afford.” I felt that soooo deeply. 😅❤
This is my life motto as well. 😂
Laughed so loud hearing this. It’s my motto for 2024!
Me too, my friend. Me too!
My truth 😂😢😩
This motto 😂 way too relatable
My no-buy for this year is pretty simple. No luxury. No fast fashion. I'm not paying for a logo and I'm not paying for poor quality. Awesome video as usual. I can totally relate to everything you said.
Amen to that. I have been makingy clothes out of affordable fabrics. No fast fashion for my upcoming self
YES 👏
This!
Girl the way you blasted Hermes and Lululemon with the Katt Williams energy! Lol 😂 I'm here for it 😅👏🏿
My no buy list:
1. Any item that I can’t fit at time of purchase. At this point I have more of a wardrobe of what I can’t wear that I can.
2. Any item that I don’t have space for in my closet.
3. Any item that doesn’t match my net worth. I ain’t even on the gram so who am I stuntin’ for?
4. Something that I thought was cute on Tashira. Truth of the matter, I just ain’t built like that.
Check on your girl next week to make sure I’m still on the straight and narrow… by then I would’ve more than likely done 67.23% of them…😂
Lol😂😂😂 to anything that dont match my net worth!!!! Who am I trying to impress????
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I love your point about not even being on the gram like that! I’m not either and so I wear and style myself how I want! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
That gram is addictive and dangerous!
I remember that Hermes gave Oprah a hard time, who could afford to purchase every item in their store. I’m good on them.
The only bag I ever liked was the Constance by Hermes .. all these companies are racist from basic brands to high end…my goals is now investing for retirement 55 is the goal
When it comes to spending my hard earned money, I’m right with you. I’m not playing games to prove I or my money is worthy of attention, nor will spend I it on overpriced leggings from a brand that does a poor job of be covertly racist. Love you Sis!❤
THE. LAST. PART. Louder for the people in the back!
The whole set up around luxury and luxury brand houses I find to be morally and ethically repugnant that could not be any more disamibiguous, if they tried. The gatekeeping, the extortion, the degradation, the fallacy that your value as a human is decided on, imposed by a brand is ludicrous...but you need to be clothed and if you cannot sew and stitch your outerwear then it is a case of choosing the least offensive as it aligns with your social and cultural consciousness and identity.
@@Carlyon100 word,sis
I know they were being fat phobic but racist? I feel like I missed something
I am not buying books either. I got a library card and have read six books so far in 2024. It's life-giving. The best books were: Recitatif by Toni Morrison, Red at the Bone by Jacqueline Woodson, The Four Winds by Kristin Hannah, and We are Not Like Them by Christine Pride and Jo Piazza. Happy Reading!
Damn six already?! Let me catch up!
Yassss!!!!
Library cards are low key a silent luxury😅. You can get great books for no cost
Read from the Library and buy what you love.
I keep telling folks library cards are the best kept non secret. I've read 4 so far on audio and actual books. Audiobooks, Movies, comics for the kids etc.
Hermes has a "desired customer" demographic. We are not it.
Yet, folks are fighting to give them their money. I'll never understand it.
And their desired customer will likely believe the Hermes pieces are fake anyway
@@prettyacctbecause all humans deserve the same things regardless of skin color
@@PatienceOpoku-rr6yxYou miss the point. 🤦♀️
We are not the desired demographic for any brand let’s be for real.. unless the black collective works together to create our own stuff even though we don’t have the financing because of pervasive racism and generational wealth so that’s why reparations is important for ADOS .. the field will never be even … my old Lulu I will wear and I won’t buy anymore … I am doing no spend anyway and focusing on retirement.. so I just donate what I don’t use I am over my consumer phase and looking to get out the rat race
This is so good to hear. I hope other Black influencers do the same. I remember back in the day brands like LV, Chanel, Hermes etc were vocal and blatant about their target audience and “urban” folks were not included. It’s crazy that you have to literally harass these brands to spend your money on their products. Let’s buy black outside of Black history month❤️
Nordstrom lists black-owned businesses. I try to support.
Yes!! In the 80s. Even Tommy Hilfiger said the same back then.
Honestly sick of funding racists and their progeny
We really have to consider why we support any of these brands. It’s not the quality or craftsmanship because a lot of these brands have cut corners on that. It’s sometimes the desire to be seen or to feel important. I’ve had to have a few come to Jesus talks with myself. I only buy quality items now if anything. My no-buy list contains EVERYTHING. I have consumed too damn much lol. 😂
Whew girl, you are spitting truth bars on this video!! I’m so glad to see some women of color in the influencer space dropping some of the shackles to the luxury brands that clearly cater to a specific demographic that is not us. Even if I could afford the luxury RTW that so many of the ladies proudly share, as a solid US sz 12 who sometimes trends toward a 10 and sometimes a 14 I wouldn’t be able to fit most of it. 🥴 I look forward to seeing what you will be sharing this year which hopefully may include even more black owned brands. Happy 2024!!
happy 2024 sis!
You sound ridiculous-Hermes does the same to white people ,,I’ve been hold the same thing about things are displayed etc.
For fitness apparel : fbf fitness, melt fit and j sculpt are my go to fitness apparel brands (black owned). No buy list : perfumes (I have tooo many) , costume jewelry (I would like to decrease that and get more fine jewelry ), sunglasses (I have tooo many) and lastly but most difficult: NO MORE black clothing (my closet looks like Janet’s closet in poetic justice 😂😂😂).
😂😂😂 thanks for the brands!
Thanks for the fitness brands
I too own a lot of black clothes. I am working on it. Lol!
@@condesabeatriz9303 I really need to be stopped 😂. I’m trying neutrals now ….baby steps.
FBF-thanks for bringing brand to my attention-looks like a quality brand and love all the available colors.
I don’t comment often but I must say, you’re content is refreshing. You are someone I feel would have fit perfectly in my sister circle. Your authenticity shines through the camera. Happy New Year lovely!
Please don’t forget Phoebe Philo and the brand Celine! According to Iman, Philo does not like using Black models!
“It don’t matter if you’re black or white” (MJ 4 ever) just stay out of Lululemon! If we spread the word, if we don’t buy their product and discourage our friends/family from doing so, guess what?.. they will be out of business in no time. Btw I am a healthy white woman and my thighs DO rub together by the sheer fact that I Walk Upright mr. ceo of Lulu🍋! 😊Sorry for the rant but this really upset me. Thank you darling, your mind is as beautiful as you are ❤
Im going to continue to buy Lululemon and Nike
Cousin...why I was watching this and when the sunglass segment came on I felt HEAT on the back of my neck. I turned around and my husband was staring me dead in the face. Aint crack nan smile. The shame I felt. LOL Therefore "Know Thyself" is going to be my 2024 mantra when it comes to luxury this year.
2024 I am not purchasing any new clothes or shoes this year or handbags.
I going to start poring into my space of living and enjoying life with family.
It’s getting scary out here if the time comes I can’t take anything with me🤷🏾♀️
Good luck 🍀 ladies
When I saw that Lulu lemon article a couple weeks ago! I was like “you don’t have to tell me twice” 😏not that I have a lot of their items but the ones I do have I will continue to use but never giving them my coins ever again!
True confessions - full time grad student who keeps bringing books home. I have NO Time to read more than is assigned but still keep bringing books home and stacking them on top of everything else I haven’t read 😂
Collecting books is its own hobby. Enjoy it. And there will come a day when you are done with school and you will be able to read a book that's been waiting patiently for you.
“Players mess up too” 😂!!! This spoke to me and I have come to understand that I will do better in 2024! Luxury sunglasses 🕶️ have been my downfall too and I’m NOT going to purchase any this year…until you showed those tortoiseshell sunglasses 😂!!!
Thank you!! I am so glad someone else has finally stated that a 40 is not the equivalent of a US size 10. I have been saying this for years.
Multiples are on my no buy list for 2024. We (she, her, me 🙋🏽♀️) don’t need the thing in every color.
I love the no buy list videos. It’s like you buy the stuff, I obsess over it, and you talk through your buyers remorse for the both of us. Perfection.
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I walked into Lululemon store in a white rich neighborhood in Grosse Pointe MI and I saw 2 Latinas, a black woman, and a white woman working and the customer service was very good. I bought 3 t-shirts. I'll shop there again.
Somerset is the best location in Troy
First time watching any of your videos-loved your truthfulness! I’m a 65+ yr old GA white woman-retired from 37 years as a RN. None of these people would want me in their stores! They’re prejudice against anyone who doesn’t fit their ‘ideal’ of who should be wearing their brand. Thank you for sharing your lifestyle, thoughts, & beliefs!
Thanks so much for watching 🤍
I do respect your honesty with buying luxury items and I have been expressing this to my friends for years. Most of these luxury brands do not even appreciate black people wearing their brands.
Luxury items are not even as special as before because everyone wears them; sometimes you can’t even differentiate the fake from real at a glance.
Stop making luxury brand owners increase their wealth; invest your money. Not saying not to buy if you can afford but do conscious and intentional purchases.
Stay Fierce!
Well said😊😊
I am so glad the YT algorithm brought this video my way. You’re so amazing!
I’m currently reading Jemele Hill’s memoir “Uphill”.
I completely sure at this point that I may never own an HERMÈS item in my wardrobe! From reports of customer service to the ridiculous prices, and fastidious hurdles to PURCHASE their items, I give up. That's why I'm so thankful for dupes,or imitation. Like something, get an affordable one until I can get an original(if it's worth it). I won't be buying clothes AGAIN this year,as I'm still trying to use up the fabrics that I bought to reproduce some of my favorite styles from designers or Pinterest 😊
Girl those animal print Orans are the best I've seen! Such a versatile print!
They really are! 😃 I have a pair of Santorini’s in this print. Goes with everything! 😍
I come back to your content over & over because you have a skilled way of weaving in humor, wit, anti-racism principles and a love for the finer things - like how sway?!! Love your content and I will also be divesting from Lululemon and I live in Canada. On my no-buy list is also books. I have an incredible library and I want to show the books I own love and respect. Also, because of you, I bought this stunning black sweater from Urban Revivo and I CANNOT wait to wear it ❤️
oh sis enjoy! it’s easily my favorite item in my closet right now 🤍
Thanks for keeping a sister up to date with the fashion trend. My mantra is…I do not fight with anyone to spend my hard earned money with them. No ma’am sir!
"Thank you" cards are on my no buy list as well as one of the items you mentioned (books) I was rearranging my secretary desk and realized I have more thank you cards than I'll ever use. Either I'm a very thankful person or I have a thing for thank you cards. 😊😂😂😅
Not, "forever ever, because you could NEVER"! YES❤️ Speak your speech sis.😎
I just purchased”Get the F*** out your own way” by MJ Harris. I’ll be giving that my attention. I have many books and best sellers, however I have not completed any of them. So this is my first book purchase of 2024 and I plan to read the entire thing and journal great self serving and edifying notes from that book for my growth and development before moving forward…fantastic video Queen! love your persona…keep being so so dynamically beautiful …
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Well said Queen, i cannot stand all that big brand 'you are even lucky to be breathing the same air as us' BS, no thank you Sir! Great video xx
I'm a cap fiend. I have so many "luxury/designer" caps. However, the denim Celine Triomphe cap is a no can do. I saw someone at a museum with it on and I've thought about it DAILY lol but $690 that thang will never touch my head.
Yes I too must place these parameters on myself because I deserve to live this lifestyle I cannot afford just yet (heavy on the yet….it’s coming). I’ll make a no-buy list for this year. I’ve been keeping a list of gaps in my wardrobe that I’m finding but I need to put down “do not buy another pair of ripped jeans” because I have enough!! Whew this video has me rethinking future purchase. Thank you ❤
Thanks for sharing! Yes, I too will be more intentional of which firms will get my money. Poor customer service = no buying. Respect my money! Books: I have been a voracious reader since childhood, ranging from fiction (not romance or comedy) to historical, scientific and technical. However, it dawned on me about three years ago that many of the authors are promoting their version of supremacy. I’ve gone from reading a book a day to zero. Shifting a lot. Not promoting a family business dynasty that doesn’t respect my culture as they get richer from our money. Enjoy your 2024 journey!😃
Libraries & used books!! I read 3 a week & wd not b able to support this addiction!
This is why for the last 3 years I have clicked the like and share button. Always a lesson learned while viewing amazing content regarding fashion which I love. T going to always put that razzle dazzle on the video just to keep us woke and always serve a look while teaching and preaching. Transparency, the Real Real , Talk your shit, sprinkled with we voting for all the Blacks is why I support this channel. Excited to learn all 2024 as well as laugh and watch you Spark with the looks all year. 🤣❤️💪🏾🙌🏾💰😘🙏🏾🔥💅🏾👍🏾✅
thanks sis happy new year!
Well said 😂
My favorite workout brand is popflex! It's owned by a OG RUclipsr and her designs are amazing. Customer service is also on point
Lulumon is now on my no buy list forever as well! Thank you for sharing this information. I actually never got around to buying anything but their belt bag😂😂😂 If you have time a video about athletic brands that are inclusive would be appreciated. My thighs have rubbed together for as long as I can remember and I’m 5’0 size medium.
I feel seen! I sat on my Fendi sunnies, lost Tom Ford & YSL… and the kicker is I get the most compliments wearing a $5 pair from SheIn. No more designer sunglasses for me & I’m finally ok with that.
This is by far the best video of 2024….thank you for reminding us our money matters & we get to decide how & were we spend it! Appreciate you 😍
This is why I love you and your page! As a Baltimore native, I see you as a near by cousin lol.
I love that you keep it real alllll the time! ❤ I’ve learned so much!
Thank you so much 🤗
Thanks for keeping it 💯! I love luxury items; however, some are overrated.
Luv’d this! Actively Black is the black-owned luxury activewear brand for you, Sis 🙌🏼 TML💖
The reason I adore you? I never leave your channel without learning something in the most thought-provoking yet humorous way! And those sunglasses in the gloss black are on my wish list this year.
Thanks so much
I’m with you on the sunglasses. I haven’t trusted myself since I lost a pair of new very expensive Dior sunglasses on a cruise like 15 years ago. I never spend more than $100 (try to stay around $25-$50). Oh, and Lululemon is dead to me.
The way I cackled all throughout this video lol!! Several gems dropped, as the girls have noted in the comments. But, your videos just feel like a good kikiiii (sp) and I definitely needed one today. So, thanks Tashira!! ALSO, Target's Ultra High Rise leggings (w/pockets) by All in Motion are a good dupe for the Lululemon leggings and for a fraction of the price and the bigotry. Take care!!
Glad you enjoyed it! Sending love ❤️
So glad you explained/corrected the sizing. I was about to buy a pair of Church's loafers in a 40 and it seems like I need a 41.
You hit me where I live with the YSL shoes. Have not bought them in years for medical reasons, but the pieces of my feet that fell off every time I tried to fit myself into Louboutins....never again. And I'm adding Emperor of Rome by Mary Beard to the bookshelf.
I absolutely love your videos. Your sit downs always grab my attention. Your humor tickles me. Keep them coming!
Glad you like them!
Great video Tashira! I had to force myself the other day not to buy another black turtleneck. I already have half a dozen. But overall it’s not a category as much as pumping the brakes on all clothing shopping unless I can truly justify the purchase. Shopping with intention as you would say. Love you Sis!💕
As a woman who also wears a 10 1/2 shoe, the way they try to oki-doke us saying those little shoe are going to fit...🙄 They want us to have all the onions and bunions and corns.. No thanks. Spend your coins where you are wanted ✌🏾
Onions, bunions, and corns. 😭😭😭
@@balletdancernj6894😂😂😂
That sounds like a terrible stew 😂
Happy Friday P&F😀n This is Gonna b so Good🔥🔥🔥👍….
I also was born to live the lifestyle I can yet to afford lol. I enjoyed this video so much and I just love spending time with you! I will say I should stop buying shoes but that is not going to happen. But, overall trying to be extremely picky and shop with major intention. Great video!!
thanks a bunch!
My no buy list only contains sneakers for now. In 2023 I went a little crazy and contributed to Nike, Adidas, NB, and Gucci just to name a few! I’m definitely on a time out! 😂 I’ll continue to add to my list starting in Feb since January is my birthday month. 😊❤
I can relate. I went to Hermes for the first time and they did the same thing to me and my husband. After a short wait, we decided to leave.
I’m with you on the lululemon, never ever!
I’m glad I’m not the only one who hoards books, of course with good intentions. The last book (Black cake:a novel) I purchased was in late December & I promised myself not to buy another until I read the books I purchased last year. I got rid of my magazines and now if I must have one I order a digital (Libby) copy through my local library. Happy New Year😘
Libby is a game changer!
I agree, I’ve read/listened to so many more books because of the Libby app!
Girl your hair is fire❤
Not the books 😩😩😩 🤣😂🤣🤣 totally feeling that ... books will be my demise 😅🤣🤣
"Just finished the art of letting go" by Nick Trenton
Definitely in for the book club .... eternally looking for my tribe😩
I'm down for a book club. I received a Kindle Paperwhite for Xmas and am excited to make leisure reading more of a priority this year. Great video, as always.
OMG I LOVE YOUR PERSONALITY!!!!!!!!!
"I just finished watching an amazing vlog and I feel super confident about my fashion choices. beautiful pair of Hermes sandals that I've been eyeing for a while, but I realized that I can still achieve the same look without breaking the bank by opting for a similar design from Steve Madden. I completely agree with your observation about how luxury customer service models are changing across all brands, but I'm confident that I can navigate these changes and still get the exclusive experience I'm looking for. Ultimately, I believe that fashion is about expressing oneself and feeling confident in one's choices, and I'm excited to explore more options that align with my values and style."
I’m not buying any clothes this year. Only buying one luxury bag if I can’t live without it and that’s about it. I have clothes in every closet it’s actually bugging me. So I will also cull the clothing I have.
Honestly I love adidas and Nike and their price points aren’t crazy for active wear and they last.
This is the first video I'm seeing from you, and while I'm not a big brand person, I just loved your refreshing approach and vibe so much that I subscribed.
Great video. Hermès recently had a price increase in the last few days. I think they are $760. These same sandals use to be in the low $400s. The Hermès customer service is questionable.
Learning new words while getting fashion dos and donts. We love
You better PREACH!!!!!!!!! I love that you went into DETAILS and didn’t leave no stone unturned OKAY!
This is my first time at your channel, hello. I don't have any luxury brands but I enjoy learning what's out there and can appreciate them. What I can identify with is Books. I love a book niche (used )book store but I have plenty and need to finish several before I purchase more. My last book I read was in December , a collection of stories by Charles Dickens. Holy moly why hadn't I read this before. I too have a magazine subscriptions , National Geographic and Smithsonian. They are perfect for the ladies room. I did receive Vogue in the pass. No more. Thank you for sharing with me. Your are a beautiful women.
I could listen to you speak all day! I feel like I was on FaceTime chatting with you. You make me laugh, and your takes are so refreshing!
😄The opening lines of the video had me cracking up. I feel the same way. I like the buy things I do not need too. I’m glad somebody else openly said it so I don’t have to feel alone anymore in this.🤑
Girl I bought a book because my friend recommended it on audible was enjoying the book and thought this is a good reference book, I should get a physical copy. Why was the book ALREADY on my bookshelf. This needs to be on my no buy. Lulu is also on my no buy as well, because I’m tired…..
I watched this TWICE! I be so tickled when you say…AT A BIG AGE😂😂! But we are the same! I love my reversible Valentino belt! When I tell you I wear it to the ground!! The way I flip flop that thang😂! I buy most of my luxury items online because I don’t want to have to deal with despicable customer service! Speaking of Mango…they are having a good sale right now!!! The first time I went in a lululemon store was my last! I read the room quickly! I said, awww this ain’t for my body or my pockets! To tha left to tha left!
Honesty at its finest❤❤🎉. Much love
I started following Actively Black and plan to purchase active wear from them soon. Lululemon can kick rocks with Orans on 😂 I need to refrain from buying lipsticks/lipglosses (have way too many)!
Love your transparency. Fabletics, very size inclusive and quality garments. In fact the last time I was in Lulu, I was on line ordering from Fabletics, cause I had garments that were in my account.😅
Another top-tier video ❤❤❤ I'm putting sunglasses at any price on my no-buy list. Reading "72 Hour Hold" and "The Women of Brewster Place"
As of late last year I have entered into luxury purchasing space and I thank you for sharing your experiences.
I feel ya about the sunglasses. Every time I go to Chicago, I lose a pair!!!!!
Also, Paris Hilton wears a size 11 shoe and she decided to only wear from brands that offer her size to all customers after realizing pictures of her in custom shoes gave the impression they were widely available.
For me, the best read book in 2023 was The House of Eve by Sadeqa Johnson and Before I Let Go by Kennedy Ryan. Current read, Black Girls Must Die Exhausted by Jayne Allen
These are on my top ten list too!
ohhh y’all got me hooked now!
The House of Eve was great! I'm looking forward to reading more by the author.
I keep trying to get into Before I let go. The beginning isn't grasping my attention at all.
That book was gooodtt. I’m afraid to get into the second book though because the way my expectations are set up
Love how you are so honest about these brands great video 👍🏾
Those Jane sunglasses are AMAZING for you! Beautiful!
Enjoyed (and was enlightened by) many of your comments. I am not a "luxury brander", and just clicked on your video from its title. I especially enjoyed your commentary on yourself--that is, how you know yourself (always losing sunglasses), and your personal perspective and opinion. I look forward to following you.
“ I was born to live the life I can not yet afford” 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ I will be using that one…
Sis, I wish I had known about Lululemon before placing an order yesterday.😩 This makes me sad because I love their athletic wear and have items from them that are almost a decade old.
Regarding books. I started reading consistently last year, but I prefer reading on the Kindle app. I hate clutter, so I don't buy physical copies of books. If I ever get the urge to read physical books, I'll get it from the library.
Lastly, when it comes to sunglasses, I'm the opposite. When I buy luxury sunglasses, I tend to not lose them because I paid way too much money for them. I'm always aware of where they are at all times.
I so Love your realness. Great video
Same here with the no-buy. $400 Tom Ford glasses and I haven’t taken them out them box 🤦🏽♀️. Currently reading “Black Girl no Magic”
"Were not doing it.
I'm not going to be able to do it.
I don't have to take it!
I do NOT work to earn a wage to fight someone to purchase something."
THAT PART. PLEASE say that again cause they cant hear us.
Toodles is the theme of 2024 😂 💅🏿
I LOVEDDDDD listening to you.. your articulation, structured sentences, detail.. thoroghly refreshing.. i am a captivated new follower. Nice to meet you by tye way... lol.
Welcome to the tribe! ❤️❤️❤️
Hi, I'm a new subscriber and I discovered you through Jenee Naylor's Style Unlocked. I'm a DEI Practitioner who loves fashion and so much of this video resonated with me. I've been doing no buys for a few years now but not a no buy list for the year. I'm definitely going to give the no buy list a try. Thank you so much for your content 🤎🤎
Thanks for subbing and welcome sis 🤍
🎉Good one!!Thanks for being on point..love this !
When I get to big for my britches…I come to your channel for the truth.
Because…baby….😮💨 THIS video right here, was an ON TIMEZ WORD!
Loved this! Those Elisa Johnson sunnies are on my list! I lose my glasses all the time too so I don’t really want to spend my mortgage on sunglasses. Lol But less than $150, we can do that!
Ladies - buy a fun tortoise eyeglasse chain & have those beauties at the ready!
I agree about “book hoarding” 🙋🏽♀️
You are absolutely beautiful. Lip gloss poppin, hairstyle flattering🥰 my hair is short like yours too but I don’t see my barber nearly as enough as I should and after looking at how beautifully cut your hair is,as soon as my barbershop opens I’m calling and getting me an appointment.🤭
Ha! I have the same problem with sunglasses. Every now and then I catch myself wanting to splurge then remind myself that I still have no idea where the others are.
Oh how I feel you on the book tip. I too could read a book a month and still have several untouched. Every year I vow to read at least 10 minutes a day, but….😢 I also agree on not hunting for salespeople to give my money to. If I’m parting ways with my hard earned coins, please make my shopping experience pleasurable.